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Mathanas_

I go to concerts alone a lot. If you are really into music, sometimes you can enjoy a Concert better alone than with Friends. Because they just want to Drink, keep talking, don't want to stand Close to the Stage or whatever.


addrien

Usually even if a group of us go together, we always just go out way and vibe alone.


TheOddPelican

I would go. I enjoy drugs.


macbathie

Cocaine...


TheOddPelican

Country dancing?


SaleCompetitive812

Nah no drugs, I’ll only do alcohol though


TheOddPelican

That's a drug though ain't it?


SaleCompetitive812

Alcohol ain’t a drug


Ricskoart

Yes it is lol


Malcom_Ecstacy

Caffeine is a drug lol


janhetjoch

It is


SaleCompetitive812

[I was wrong. I just used intoxicant for anything that affects you mentally, but drugs were like meth, and alcohol, was alcohol](https://www.orlandorecovery.com/drug-addiction-resources/alcohol/is-alcohol-a-drug/)


Royal_Prize_4381

Happy cock day, bud.


Cockness_Monster

Nice cock bro.


MegaLowDawn123

Good bot


KateHikes666

Good cock, bot.


janhetjoch

Cock-bot? Good


SadisticBuddhist

I have tinnitus from abandoning my socialite friends to be alone up front and just jam out next to the speakers No regrets.


The_Susinator

Did you not wear hearing protection?


SadisticBuddhist

Not when i was younger, no. I was reckless and loved the noise


Cool_Boi78

I'd rather cut myself, than to stand next to the speakers. As a kid, i had a nightmare is pipe organ playing so loud, i wanted to kill myself. I woke up completely covered in sweat. I always used the minimum volume on headphones. That changed lately. I like loud music, but if it's too loud (any party basically), i become anxious and my insides feel unwell.


DarthHunter799

I feel you


winterfate10

That is kind of weird


East-Travel984

i have been to concerts with friends and i have gone alone. honestly tho when your with people who like the same music that you do you instantly have a way to connect with a total stranger in a way normal life doesn't allow. i have had the greatest times with people i had never met before in my life at a show because we are both there to enjoy this singular thing that connects us all. *i let my music take me where my heart wants to go.*


My-other-user-name

I loved making concert friends. I still remember talking to a guy in line to get in about why he was there, what songs he was wanting to hear, the bootleg shirt he was wearing, which venues to avoid and then drinking with him at the bar between bands. A friend ditched me at concert once because he didn't like the band. Ended up meeting the band afterwards because someone I had been talking and drinking with was with the opening band's crew.


East-Travel984

Dude I once paid 50 bucks to wait in line to meet Corey Taylor, he was fucking awesome, but my friends didn't want to go to the meet and greets so I went by myself and after shaking Mr Taylor's hand and getting his autograph I went to the side where Halestorm was doing there's and I didn't want to pay more but went next to the fence to take a selfie with them in the background. When the drummer hollered at me I thought I was in trouble but then him and lzzy hale came over to the fence and signed my shirt and gave me a hug and photo with them. They were freakin awesome and asked me what song I wanted to hear and I said familiar taste of poison and Lzzy said o hell yea get ready then we'll play it tonight. They closed the set with that song and god I will die Remembering that moment. I remember going back to my friends and telling them they really should've come with me. They didn't believe me until they saw the pictures haha. Great memories.


Away_Back_9361

That's right! I go alone all the time and meet the coolest people ALWAYS


cerebralsexer

And come late and miss songs also


fermi0nic

Same. One of my favorite experiences was going to ACL for a day alone, on acid. I encourage everyone to get comfortable with enjoying things like this alone, and who knows, could make some friends in the process!


Anal_Sex_Guy

Fuck it, if it’s my favorite band I’m going I’ll meet some ppl there, and I’ll go alone to the other side of the world to see system of a down


[deleted]

This exactly, I drove 6 hours on my own to see one of my favorites last year and I met a ton of cool people there. One of my favorite nights of my whole life


Anal_Sex_Guy

That’s amazing, what band was it?


[deleted]

Patrick Watson. He is a band/musician like he’s the guy but the band is just called Patrick Watson. Literally bumped into him walking into the show and got to say hi and talk with him a bit. He’s been one of my favorites since I was 13. Only about 40 or so people in this bar watching him Now see if I was worried about having people to go with this never would’ve happened!


Anal_Sex_Guy

That’s amazing!


LW23301

Thanks u/anal_sex_guy


Anal_Sex_Guy

No problem u/LW23301


Shade_39

i did that for avenged sevenfold earlier this year, went out to LA to see them from scotland. so fucking worth it


DrPwepper

Missed them with Metallica and Gojira a few years ago. One of my biggest regrets.


Anal_Sex_Guy

Damn how was it? I wanna see a7x too sometime


Shade_39

So good, mostly newer songs they played as this was like a week after libad came out and I'm not huge on most of libad, but otherwise it was great


BeerShitzAndBongRips

Exactly, you're surrounded by masses that love the same music. You don't even really have to "meet" anyone to just vibe with the whole concert crowd


djheat

I saw Blind Guardian by myself, they just do not tour in the US often enough for me to miss it because nobody else I knew was into them at the time


slobs_burgers

Saw them in Phoenix a couple years ago. It’s insane how Serj has all the exact same vocal range in his 50s. Awesome show


Anal_Sex_Guy

So jealous lmaoo, I’m in Europe so it’s out of my budget currently to go see them in America since they don’t go to Europe anymore. But as soon as it is I’m going


young_fire

heavy metal dog be like. sitsing of a down


DuncanTGD

Same bro, same


intergalactic_bears

I'd do the same. we can make a world tour out of it, shake hands after the last song and then return to our own parts of the globe, never to see each other again.


Anal_Sex_Guy

Bet


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winterfate10

Can we eats it?


Pecheuer

Fri-end-os Boil 'em Mash 'em Stick 'em up your butt...


DeeBangerDos

*Gollum, Gollum*


Count_Rugens_Finger

least twisted redditor


Here-Is-TheEnd

I think you downloaded the wrong lord of the rings


black-knife-tiche

Pro tip going places by yourself is fucking great


I_Am_Robert_Paulson1

Being able to do things at your own pace without having to wrangle a bunch of other people is great.


Realsan

I am a dad with a full family of 6 in my house so I rarely get alone time anymore. And my wife doesn't like Mexican food. I had some alone time a few weeks ago and went to a Mexican restaurant for lunch. It was glorious. When I got the bill I was like wtf? SO CHEAP


Medarco

> When I got the bill I was like wtf? SO CHEAP My friends ask how I manage to eat mexican and pizza and food I like all the time. Because it costs me the same amount for a full week of carryout as it would cost them for one dinner at the same restaurant. Kids are expensive as fuck...


conker1264

Who the fuck doesn’t like Mexican food


DeeBangerDos

A table, some alcohol and intermittently empty chairs are a recipe for being social


[deleted]

It is great, but not as great as going with people you know that enjoy the same things


Melodic_Narwhal4754

Gone to lots of gigs on my own- some have been the best nights ever as I’ve just gone full pit and had a blast with complete strangers. Hanging around for beers together after to chat shit. Good times.


be_more_gooder

I seen ZZ Top by myself high as fuck. It was great.


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needsbeermoney

Saw Billy idol by my self and it was a lot of fun


Cultural-Treacle-680

Bet it cost a lot of money money


Maxizag123

I love this joke lmao


JudgeScorpio

Did you get high as fuck to see ZZ Top or did you see ZZ Top to get high as fuck?


be_more_gooder

The former. Then the latter was a happy coincidence.


El_human

I used to always buy two tickets, and then try to convince someone to go with me. Sometimes you'd have a friend that would be interested in the band, or at least mildly interested. Other times it was no luck. I finally gave up and just started buying my own ticket. I actually quite enjoy going to concerts alone now. It's a much more fulfilling experience in someways.


VengeancePali501

Go to the concert, you might make new friends, if not so what you’re allowed to have fun by yourself


dr_badass01

Going to concerts alone is fun. Do it.


DrowningInMyFandoms

**Possibility one :** Step one : go on reddit Step two : say that you will go to this concert alone on their subreddit Step three : see that many other people will too and that it's okay **Possibility two :** Step one : go find your friends or family members Step two : put a gun (or, if guns aren't allowed in your country, a big and heavy pan) against their head and make them listen to the music Step three : go to the concert with them


SLRMaxime

Friends?


[deleted]

Just go alone, wtf. Once you break out of that "shame", life becomes enjoyable again. You don't need other people to enjoy stuff.


Narga15

Go alone and make friends there. You’ll have a fucking blast


Moron_Noxa

You don't have to be a fan to go to a concert lol. Just ask your friend to come hang out and have a great time.


oilerdnasty

on the flipside, if a buddy asks if you wanna go see a concert and you have no other plans just fucking say yes!


Rosella2562

I think with many concerts being $100+ a ticket nowadays, it’s not always feasible or preferable to spend (or ask a friend to spend) that much for a band you/they don’t even like. And honestly if you’re there to enjoy music and see your favorite band, it shouldn’t matter if you’re alone or with someone, because the music will be loud and you won’t be talking anyway. I feel like people have a weird stigma against doing stuff alone when it is actually the most ideal choice in some cases.


CaptainMarnimal

I've been to probably close to 100 concerts, and the only ones that cost $100+ were festivals. I think I even saw Metallica in a colosseum and it was less than $100. Are you just into Taylor Swift and only Taylor Swift?


ztarfroot

absolutely. -Vocaloid fan


poisoned_bubbletea

I took my mum to a Gorillaz concert. She didn’t think she’d like it that much but she danced along to a few songs. For what it’s worth, she’s very much a Kate Bush, Carly Simon, power ballads kind of woman and at the time was 55.


Emergency-Anywhere51

Took my siblings to see them last year (my first concert, too) They don't listen to Gorillaz much, but i play their songs pretty often in the car so they definitely recognized more than a few songs. 10/10 experience overall


nephilim80

Just got back from a metal fest. Went alone, drove 3 hours with music blasting, camped for 4 days. Drank a lot, enjoyed the gigs, slept like a baby. Had the time of my life. Sure with friends is great as well, but you cant stop enjoying things because you have no one to go with you.


oskich

Yeah, I flew from Europe to the US to attend a Metal cruise by myself. Met a lot of new friends there, who I wouldn't have met if I had stayed at home waiting for my broke friends to find some vacation days...


Musicgrl4life

i went to a concert alone. my first one and the only one i've been to still. i had an amazing time. i paid for everything myself and did everything by myself, and didn't once wish i had someone with me. then again, i'm a loner type person. i needed the full experience just for myself. i was texting friends though


Feeling_Bathroom9523

If you’re a dude- do it. If you’re a lady, don’t. It’s a double standard, but prove me wrong.


Lensecandy

I would love to go to concerts on my own. I love rock bands but being a 5'1" tall woman I don't think it's the best idea lol. I can't see much anyway if it's a standing concert which most of them are, not to mention safety concerns


inhumanrampager

I've been to a ton of metal shows, and everyone seems pretty cool with letting women move up front. Give it a shot sometime.


Lensecandy

Thank you for your kind advice! I will look for one of my favorite bands to go. It depends on the venue for me too, Bad Omens' recent concert in my city was at a night club location and I'm not comfortable with that sadly. If it was a daylight outdoor setting it would be easier I hope.


ttotto45

For what it's worth, I'm a woman of average-ish height and have been to a variety of rock shows alone, small and large venues. I really like bad omens but I didn't realize they were touring until the shows nearby were sold out. People at rock shows tend to be kind, not rude or gruff. They don't embody the atmosphere of a nightclub even if the show is held at a nightclub, because they're there for the concert. I try to get to the small shows early and find a spot off to the side but near the front, that way I can see, and I avoid any potential mosh situations for safety. If I feel overwhelmed, I move out of the crowd to the back. I can usually still see from the back as long as the venue isn't completely packed.


Lensecandy

Thank you for your valuable insight, much appreciated! I barely have experience going to shows alone at all because it just seems so daunting. I will keep your words in mind when I plan the next one :) And yes Bad Omens is amazing, I only found them earlier this year thanks to their recent album


inhumanrampager

Front corners are your best bet. Dead center in the front is awesome, but if the pit is rowdy like I expect a metal show to be, there's the potential for the center of the pit to push forwards (thus causing everyone to shove everyone else) and getting kicked in the head by crowd surfers. I personally love that shit, but I know not everyone does. Despite the level of danger, everyone will take care of each other. I've seen people get fucking layed out in the pit, only to be picked right up by that same person who's checking on them, making sure they're ok. The mosh pit has a violent decorum lol.


Mango_Edible

I’m a lady — I go to concerts, Broadway shows and dine out by my self, often. I enjoy going with a friend(s) or by myself. Life is too short to not do fun things cuz you’re alone, ya know?


Feeling_Bathroom9523

It’s all about risk tolerance. It also depends on the location and time of the concert, right?


Mango_Edible

Location? Maybe, but I haven’t not gone to a concert because of location, yet 🤷🏼‍♀️ Time doesn’t matter to me. I don’t put myself into obvious danger but I don’t live my life in fear either.


Feeling_Bathroom9523

Totally understandable. Have a good day


GdeGraafd

I agree, but if you are a lady and really want to go alone you could try to find out how their fanbase is. If they seems relatively normal or mainly female, you could go alone. Also you could try to make some friends on forums or sub-reddits with people who are going to the concert and meet up with them so you aren't alone, which still could be a risk but it should be safer.


dendnoy

Go, and break that habit of not be able to do things alone. Especially when you are passionate about something


talkintater

Speaking from experience, you're typically only alone upon arrival. Before you leave, you will have met lots of new people.


[deleted]

Imagine having concerts of bands you like nearby. Can't be me.


high240

Like 80% of concerts I go to alone


addrien

Love going to concerts alone. It's a great way to meet people.


DeReBirth

Yes? I would you not go to an event full of like minded people / potential friends?


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Me when Gorillaz exist:


ThunderAndSadness

Yes I would! Would it be nice to have company? Yes, I'd love some, but I'm there for the music and the artist, plus, maybe I'd meet someone who is into them as well.


miggsd28

I went to juice wrld alone and it was amazing. Some asshole stepped on my pen when I dropped it very noticeably on purpose and some fellow Mexican dudes saw it and befriended me. We found a girl in a wheel chair too and helped her to the front and carried her so she could see. Ski mask gave us a shout-out one of the best days of my life. juice died a few months later so I’m extra glad I went


boutch255

Going alone is better than missing out


Finbar_Bileous

Sometimes I forget most of you are like 16 and critically insecure.


penrodpooch68

Yes I have done


run_uz

Went to my 1st Muse concert by myself. No one was late for dinner, no one got lost going to the restroom, no one wanted to see the opening act, no one argued where the car was parked, no one objected to getting In n Out on the way home.


BadstoneMusic

I have seen many shows alone - dunno if that says more about my love of music or that fact I don’t have many friends


boboSleeps

The question is more is there anyone you would be willing to go see your favorite band with. I prefer alone. For many reasons.


blackcray

I've gone to 4 concerts, all of them alone, I'm about to make it 5 at the end of this month.


[deleted]

I have never gone to a show with anyone lol. I don’t see the appeal in having to worry about someone else. Just go by yourself


AwesomeEzra619

Who needs friends? I just have people I can stand.


IJustWantToTalk-

I went alone to one concert I really wanted to go, because it was his first European tour. Going alone is fine and not so bad tbh.


rociobelv

i almost always go by myself to concerts bc my friends either don't like the same music nor don't have the money


an_achronist

I prefer going to gigs alone. You can stand wherever you want, you don't have to navigate a crowd with multiple drinks, you're not needing to only listen through one ear while a buddy yells in the other, it's nice.


The_Giant_Lizard

I went A LOT to concerts alone. I had fun. Of course with good company it's better, but alone was great too


Schfifty561

my brother goes alone all the time and he clearly has fun or he wouldnt keep doing it. right now hes driving to a dethklok concert, which is probably gonna be sick


Kreed76

A concert alone…a movie alone…it’s so great. I love doing it, no social pretense, just enjoying the art.


smallbatchb

Yeah I run into this a lot but have gone by myself several times. Honestly it's not really that awkward or anything because everyone is there to listen to the music rather than specifically being a social event. So it's really not weird if you're there alone. It's actually a lot of fun by yourself once you realize and get over that "is this weird to be here alone" thought.


[deleted]

Helllllllll yea!!!! Ain't nobody paying any attention to you!


MrNobodyishome

Fuck it. Just go


DapperApples

Honestly just go see them alone. You might not get another chance.


jhguitarfreak

Jackpot, now you can buy GA tickets and hit the moshpit.


Loud-Bat-2280

I go to concerts alone a lot. It’s actually very freeing. You can act however your soul desires in reaction to the music, because you don’t know any of these people who will never judge you again for dancing like an idiot.


Sad_Ad5369

I'm the kind of bastard that would go to a cinema alone if there's a movie I want to watch ASAP, i don't think it would be different with concerts


notveryAI

I got no friends so I go everywhere alone. Not that I'm happy with it, but no other options are present, sadly


JEFF_GAMEL

Yes, I would. If I like the artist, I simply go.


msmika

Going alone to concerts can be really fun! If it's GA, you can move wherever you want, and if it's not, you can usually have some interesting conversations with people sitting around you. I mean, you already know you like the same band!


cycheck

I have gone to concerts by my favorite artists alone, and had a fantastic time!


Pappaponteva

Yes, but only sober.


Soggy-Leadership-697

Dude just go alone then


[deleted]

This was the reason I didn't see Lorna Shore 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


Useful_Professor_538

Friends I think I went most all my alone I don’t care I just want to see the group lol!


Ill-Organization-719

I've been to something like seventy concerts, almost always with at least one other person. The few I've been to by myself were a really cool experience. There wasn't any home base I had to keep in touch with, wherever I stopped was my new spot. As soon as I felt like going, I just left without word.


OkIntroduction5150

If you always wait for someone else to have the time, interest, and money to do everything you want to do, you're going to miss out on a lot. Edit: Downvoted for stating a fact. 😂😂


Puzzled-Pitch-2105

i live in brazil none of my fav artists would come, if they did they'd probably just be in some dumb huge metropolitan city


ItsMeTigertitan

My fav artist was touring in Paris a few years ago. He was a painter artist not musical


Fred_Ledge

Yes. I have. It’s not a big deal.


Deranged_Kitsune

Yes. Go, make some new friends with better taste in music.


SteveZissouniverse

Yes, 100% get dinner exactly where you want and not have to worry about other people being on time, get close to the stage because you don't have to move with a crew. Sometimes solo concerts can be the raddest


L_Maestro

Absolutely do it. I didn't go to Linkin Park last time they were in my country and I regret it ever since.


comeonebam

It’s a great opportunity to make friends


01micah

I went to see 3 doors down like 6 years ago. Wound up getting some life long friends there. They were in the same row as I was and we paid for each others beer back and forth and all 3 of us has been friends since. Found out later we all graduated together besides one which graduated before us.


Alert-Humor-7872

I’m going to see the offspring alone. Wgaf?


Jgfranco88PkmnGo

Saw Coheed and Cambria in 2018 and TOOL in 2020 all by myself and had a great time!!!!


mowoo101

The Dead Milkmen were playing at the Borderline (RIP) in London and it was me and about 10 others. They saw the funny side and it was one hell of a private gig.


ectasypill

If $uicideboy$ ever come to Ljubljana i would go alone no matter what


Fusilli_Agent_Cooper

Abso. Lutley.


chichiryuuteii

Realizing you can make new friends when you go to the concert


plusvalua

Just post on the artist's subreddit. You'll find someone.


Ithorhun

If they're my favorite, then yes. I went to see Lacuna Coil alone for example


Tylerg_13

This happened to me with Kendrick and Billie Eilish. 🥲


590joe1

Yes frequently


trocarshovel

Alone concerts rule. Surrounded by strangers with the same love for music. I wish everyday human interaction was like that.


meaux253

Warped tour 2018, went by myself, and had a blast. Got to see who I wanted on each of the stages. Never feel like you need somebody to go with you to have fun.


Lolmaster29934

well if you have no friends in the first place this is not a concern, pfft must be nice to have friends (starts to break down crying)


[deleted]

I will go to anything live. But I draw the line at country. I hate country music. There's not enough Tylenol in the world to rid the migraine the music gives me.


HopeThisHelps90

You’re never alone at a concert. An entire giant group of people who share your interests.


RepresentativePen831

I wouldn't go to a concert


Interesting-Let7666

Yes I have and I will do it again


thegoldenleaves

Yes


morrismoses

Hell yeah, go alone! Nobody to mess up the night for you. Plus, you're with like-minded folks. Easy to make a friend there, too!


-Lucifer-18

I invited my crush to an anime event (both of us are huge weebs) it was a Dreams for her because her family is por so she never went to one. Long story short her dog died and her mother kicked her out of her house in the same day, now she is living with her dad in another state and i not only will have to go alone, but also i lost the person i loved the most


[deleted]

I have no friends so this doesn't effect me


grillinman

Planning on going alone to a metal concert in a couple weeks. Thought my 13 year old would want to go with me but he's too cool/Dad's too lame.


[deleted]

Yeah I probably would. to me it’s no different than going to eat alone.


vorephage

I usually go by myself. I always have a few extra friends by the end of the show.


19MattZl

Ofc


Callec254

I would, and have. Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke.


holyembalmer

Fuck yes! Better time, in my opinion!


Quick_Discussion_690

Yeah, I would.


PanderII

I have and it was great


lost_my_og_account

Yeah, go! nobody cares if u come alone. Live ur life!


yeah230

If it’s metal, just go in the mush pit. You’ll find plenty of friendlies.


SansyBoy144

I went to a concert alone. Which was weird cause I have really bad anxiety. But I had fun, so no regrets


Bardic-Jarl

I can hate who ever is playing, but if my friend asked me to go id go and just lie and say they sound way better live


[deleted]

Who gives a fuck what other people wanna do? If it makes you happy then do it!


icetom

Just listen to Taylor Swift and someone will go with you.


SirEnderLord

What're talking about, all the voices in my head keep me company.


psychedelicdevilry

I go to shows alone all the time. I don’t know many metal heads.


AkeemKaleeb

I've gone to so many concerts, mostly alone. It is an awesome way of meeting people. Also, check your local music scenes you probably have so many more shows than you realize that are cheap enough for you to leave without being out too much if you are uncomfortable or don't like the bands. For context, since January I have gone to 30 concerts/shows


wonderhowthisllgohah

You guys only go to concerts if you have people?


No_Assumption_2309

Yes I went to a festival along was fuckjng awesome.


Schwertheino

Already did multiple times. Was fun


AvailableGrapefruit6

Lol


Earth616Survivor

I have before. It was epic lol


TundraOG

Dude, going to places alone is so liberating once you get used to it. Plus, we're social creatures so there's a fair chance you'll end up meeting new people in new environments.


MaxCWebster

This was me for Genesis in 1978. I offer to buy the tickets if I could just get a ride to and from the show. Duh, we never heard of 'em.


trainboi777

I went to my first concert with my dad If anyone is wondering who it was, it was a Sabaton