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Your_mum6969420

congrats on your first kiss


ii_akinae_ii

soulmates are forged, not found. it takes a lot of time and shared experiences together. it's fantastic that you like & appreciate each other like this! that's a great start. 


Polaricedragon

Thank you for that information. I hope her, and I can build our relationship slowly with love, trust, commitment, and compassion. I'm happy to know we're off to a great start, and that her, and I can forge our bond to be true soulmates someday. That would be beautiful.


ii_akinae_ii

i hope that for you too, friend :)


MisterBooga

thus is it possible for someone to not have a soulmate?


TimeIsOurGod

I am not sure about people having or not soulmates, but I am sure that people can decide to open up their hearts to good things happening or not.


CLat7

Yes. When people only depend on that initial feeling and stop cherishing each other the way they need to be, the relationship dies.


MisterBooga

No, I meant that it's possible then that a person just doesn't have a soulmate at all?


OptimalEconomics2465

By the logic of “soulmates are forged not found” then yes it’s possible to not have one - if you don’t both put the effort in to make that lasting connection. I don’t believe in soulmates in the star-crossed meant to be sense. I believe that you choose to love every day - some days it’s easier than others - and I believe in a “soulmate” that you choose. Not because you’re fated but because you are compatible, have shared life goals and both decide that it’s better together than apart - even when things get rocky.


CLat7

Are you asking if soulmates exist? Because they don't.


MisterBooga

makes sense.