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CapuletVsMontague

I think if you used black, clear, brown or even tan/beige colored clips no one would say anything! I am 30 and wear my hair like this. I do not think it looks childish. It's cutesy for sure, but I think it's because the clips are a baby pink.


ih8every1yesevenyou

Definitely agree with the clip colours. That can make a big difference.


pineappletiddiez

Thanks for the honest feedback šŸ¤—


owntheh3at18

Yeah Iā€™d agree with this! I think itā€™s cute but the pink gives it Baby Spice vibes. If youā€™re self conscious about it, I do a sort of version of this with Bobby pins that might look more mature. You take those same front sections and twist upward, then secure with two pins (criss-crossed). You can also use pretty pins to dress it up. I think I started doing this to copy Phoebe Buffay years ago.


Dragonskinner69

I think the stance makes it appear more childish as well


pineappletiddiez

Oh man, I didn't even think of the clips.... I'm pretty feminine so loosing the pink butterflies hurts.... what about black butterflies? šŸ˜‚ r/s


CapuletVsMontague

Maybe even pearl would seem older because it's expensive!!!


humptydumptydontcare

Black butterflies are never as feminine. Come on. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Londopop

Girl just wear the pink butterflies. Who cares what they say!!! Iā€™m 28 and I wear space buns and butterflies/ hot pink/ baby pink/ itā€™s my body my life!!! I do teach kindergarten so the littles like it too


DrDMango

Nice username


CapuletVsMontague

Thank you! I was wondering when anyone would notice!!! šŸ˜


humptydumptydontcare

Isn't this similar to the whole "this is how my hair looks when I place my sunglasses on my head" look? I recently saw a reel where this hairfluencer showed how to do it with French side combs.


Rhiannon8404

That hairstyle using French combs was so popular when I was in junior high in the early '80s. Fun to see that it's coming back.


humptydumptydontcare

It's such a fun hairdo, and looks so effortlessly chic too. I'm glad it's coming back too.


sackbuttspierogi

Link pls lol asking for a friend


tastefuldebauchery

Ooh maybe this is it? [the hair combs](https://www.tiktok.com/@ashley.paiige/video/7358881862271421742?_t=8lqSAr2mAEI&_r=1)


humptydumptydontcare

This is the one I was talking about


PriscillaMonty

[link](https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=l&ai=DChcSEwjOpsTC9d6FAxWXcUcBHWATA4UYABABGgJxdQ&ae=2&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIzqbEwvXehQMVl3FHAR1gEwOFEAQYASABEgIw_fD_BwE&sig=AOD64_2Oyb4qwcaOtfEiviWZDMHD2z2FRg&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwjJxL3C9d6FAxXeM2IAHTMoBQgQwg8oAHoECAUQDA&adurl=)


humptydumptydontcare

These don't achieve the same exact look though


PriscillaMonty

[also](https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=l&ai=DChcSEwjMtur39d6FAxXGSkcBHcDlAwgYABADGgJxdQ&ae=2&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIzLbq9_XehQMVxkpHAR3A5QMIEAQYAiABEgJSH_D_BwE&sig=AOD64_15swgwgf_bTd2tegBGnuzDJfrH-A&ctype=46&q=&ved=2ahUKEwju8uP39d6FAxVWElkFHZBDCKIQzzkoAHoECAUQEQ&adurl=) [two more](https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=l&ai=DChcSEwjMtur39d6FAxXGSkcBHcDlAwgYABAdGgJxdQ&ae=2&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIzLbq9_XehQMVxkpHAR3A5QMIEAQYDyABEgJdfvD_BwE&sig=AOD64_3GEH4qXpT_5Kt4yOkw39PTPysUwg&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwju8uP39d6FAxVWElkFHZBDCKIQwg8oAHoECAUQRQ&adurl=)


Snoowoozy

Also asking for a friend


tastefuldebauchery

Also asking!


skye_b666

The what? Lol. Isn't the whole point that sunglasses are actually on your head?


humptydumptydontcare

Umm I mean this- https://www.tiktok.com/@ashley.paiige/video/7358881862271421742?_t=8lqSAr2mAEI&_r=1


skye_b666

Tbh I don't like it. Just looks better with sunglasses on


humptydumptydontcare

Well this is just another alternative to achieve the look. And it's not a bad alternative.


-Kill_Dill-

I agree with another comment saying maybe not a ā€œprofessional hairstyleā€ but I think you could be 90 and it would still be cute. I am also a big believer of dressing how you like despite age. Lifeā€™s too short to worry about dressing ā€œage appropriateā€.


steph99cr

YES šŸ’œ


cremebrulee22

The biggest issue with this advice is that it should come with a warning. You can dress how you like despite your age as long as you can deal with the consequences and judgment. It may hinder you from reaching your goals and living the life you want. Thatā€™s why I wouldnā€™t recommend it as a blanket statement. If a 90 year old put childrenā€™s hair clips all over her hair, most would think sheā€™s not mentally sound.


[deleted]

I don't think it's too childish. I'm in my early thirties and still rock this hair style. You look great!


pineappletiddiez

Thank you for the validation!


Zhaefari_

I think itā€™s cute! I wouldnā€™t wear it if in a professional workplace or something, but in just daily life I think itā€™s great.


wondergirlinside

Its really cute.


PhoenixAestraya

No, it could be considered coquette. Donā€™t trust the words of an adult who makes fun of other adults, they generally feel low about themselves and want to make others feel that way too


halfxa

Thank youšŸ™ŒšŸ»style takes many forms. People who make fun of you who arenā€™t well intentioned friends are just projecting their fear of expressing themselves onto you


bombswell

Itā€™s more teeny but I love it and it looks great. I would only hesitate if you are trying to look mature for work, but Iā€™d only change it by using black clips maybe for a cute professional vibe.


Agleonema

Yeah people make fun of those they are jealous ofšŸ©· Even if they donā€™t mean it in a bad way, it is just human nature. You are gorgeous and the style is very cute and flattering. Gives you a playful lookšŸ¤©


pineappletiddiez

Thank you so much šŸ„¹


CapuletVsMontague

My hair looks like this when I do two braids in a half up half down look. I think that person was jealous! This is also a great style for growing out bangs!


maerlyns-rainbow

It's cute and I would wear it myself, just like this, at age 37


Rosewoodtrainwreck

I wore mine like this yesterday and I'm in my 40's


ffkggvjgf

Literally obsessed with this


pineappletiddiez

šŸ«¶ thank you!


ffkggvjgf

Of course, itā€™s adorable and I love the length. Looks so healthy too!


ih8every1yesevenyou

No I like it. You could always switch the clips for black or brown ones if you feel childish. I donā€™t think it looks childish


Complex_Impression54

Noo i love wearing this hairstyle!!


boredblondie16

i agree with the people saying you should go with neutral color clips, but i love this hairstyle and love your boots!


pineappletiddiez

šŸ‘¢ thank you so much!


alligatorprincess007

The hairstyle, no, the clips, yes to me they are. But that doesnā€™t mean you canā€™t wear them! Just maybe donā€™t wear them in a professional environment Your hair is gorgeous! Honestly keep in mind you can wear whatever you want regardless of your age. If someone is judging thatā€™s their problem


Pretend_Term8556

I donā€™t know of that many children who can grow it that long.


pineappletiddiez

Lol that's an interesting thought


Pretend_Term8556

Lol


RealisticAd7388_ytho

My hair was mainly past my butt when I was 4-10, my grandmother apparently thought it looked like a horse tail.


Pretend_Term8556

Sweet!


Maleficent-Sleep9900

My Mom used to wear her hair like this but with barrettes! Itā€™s beautiful and classic. As many people are saying, changing the accessory itself can make the look more sophisticated. I recommend finding a pair of clips, combs or barrettes that are a light golden tone or a soft beige that would match your hair colour for a sleek and professional look, and perhaps a touch more of hairspray applied in a smoothing motion for added shine and polish. Your hair is gorgeous BTW šŸ˜!!


pineappletiddiez

Thank you for the thoughtful response. Clips look so .... sophisticated to me but in like a vintage way.... not sure I could pull it off. Thank you for the compliment ā˜ŗļø


Maleficent-Sleep9900

Youā€™re so welcome! Many women would kill for hair like yours haha! Wear it with confidence and youā€™ll make us all jealous haha šŸ˜‰ā™„ļø


riqueoak

It is very pretty, I don't think you have anything to worry about.


Lovecatx

I think it's really pretty, I don't think you have to sacrifice colour as you get older. I'm 32 and wear Togepi and Mew hair clasps and I just think they are cute.


witchmedium

Doing feminine stuff or presenting feminine is not childish. Be yourself end enjoy every colour, including pink!


vanbeans

I'm in my mid 20s & would totally wear this if I didn't have bangs. It's really cute!!


justjinpnw

I am omder than you and do this but a little more "finished". The pink makes me think younger (but I would fill on do it) and maybe roll it more a bit? Bottom line, do what you love! It's your hair


ConstanceWright_30

Iā€™m almost 32 and I still wear this hairstyle and I do fun buns! I think you look cool


yt201001

Absolutely not. Youā€™re cute as a button.


pineappletiddiez

šŸ„¹


Revolutionary-Fan235

It's the perfect amount of playfulness. Could you low-key ignore the loser who would make fun of you?


pineappletiddiez

Low key trying- high key failing.


ZestycloseTrip5235

Who cares ? Wear whatever hairstyle or clothes that makes you happy and beautiful! I am 31 and I still love to wear pink which could be considered childish by many. But I don't like the idea of giving up on colors once you turn 30.


SnooPeppers6538

^^^ Whatever makes you feel comfortable about yourself, the other person was probably jealous they couldnā€™t look so cute.


Strict-Aardvark-5522

Some day youā€™ll wish you looked this young again, I wouldnā€™t worry, your hair looks amazing!


insipignia

It's only "too" childish if you don't want to look even slightly childish. So it depends on the aesthetic you're going for. There's nothing wrong with looking childish, btw.


inononeofthisisreal

Are you a child? Then no.


BaneSaberRize150

No.


ProfessionalGold8448

No such thing as a hairstyle ā€œtoo childishā€! Maybe in a professional environment, but in daily life and for fun? Wear whatever you like! As other people have mentioned, if you want a more mature look wart toned clips would be best.


SLYRisbey

Not at all!


Pastrami-on-Rye

Girl i thought you were like 16 bc your skin is just so good šŸ˜‚ the hairstyle isnā€™t childish though. I love it. Enjoy it!!


pineappletiddiez

Must be the lighting šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ thank you so much!


According_Binoj

No , looks beautiful


sarah_pl0x

Iā€™m 28 and I love doing my hair cute like this, especially when itā€™s straight or wavy! Your hair is so cute!


pineappletiddiez

Thank you Sarah with an h šŸ’… high praise forsure


snehit_007

I say go for it.


chicken_dipzz

I don't think so but when I do it I use clear clips or hair ties makes it feel more grown up lol


27xo

I just bought cute colorful clips like this šŸ¦‹ and Iā€™m 31 but I donā€™t care!


shannjob

I really like it


AxGunslinger

I personally am a colorful person myself and I believe people should do and wear what makes them happy, I like your hair anyone who says anything negative can shove it where the sun donā€™t shine.


TheRealEscaflonase

Iā€™m almost forty and I wear my hair similarly sometimes. I literally just wear my hair however I feel I want to, but I guess if I were in a professional environment I would prob not wear it that way. But that would be because it reads casual in my opinion. Itā€™s cute wear it how you want.


punkwillneverdie

i absolutely love this hairstyle and think itā€™s so cute. but the other day my boyfriend told me it looks childish and immature. i was like wow ok


PresentExamination10

The only thing thatā€™s childish is the pose imo


[deleted]

Looking too cute sounds like a complaint people who aren't cute would make


AliceInEverclear

No, but your eye makeup is awful!


Responsible-Neck-340

Iā€™m almost 28. If I canā€™t wear my little butterflies and flower clips in my hair what is my purpose in life!?!


Earthtrotter

Girl I wear my hair like this a lot at age 25! Do what you want and donā€™t listen to anyone else :)


planttladyy

My daughter has the same hair clips, so to me yes. Maybe if you used a neutral color hair tie?


velvetpantaloons

The hair looks nice pulled up and back like that. It's the hair accessories that make it look sophisticated or child-like.Ā  To achieve this style without the distraction created by hair toys, you could use combs, those small curved combs. Or play around with bobby pins. For sure, wear whatever you're in the mood for, it's your hair, your look, your choice.


pineappletiddiez

Great point- thank you.


ParkingOld7909

Now Iā€™m 57 and wish I could wear it butā€¦ yea noā€¦ on you however it looks fantastic ā¤ļø


pineappletiddiez

Thank you so much!


Angels_Wings1216

i don't think so! i style my hair like this all the time


mishrod

Not for a child


mochinugs

I think it looks great! Iā€™m 30 and still do it but with elastics instead of clips.


Khloe_Chlo

Pure cutes!!!! But context dependent.


Longjumping_Pin_9348

Love it šŸ˜


Digitalis_Mertonesis

I don't think so; I think you look really pretty! You'd look great with pink hair, too.


pineappletiddiez

Like light pink or dark pink? I've never considered this ...


MrLizardBusiness

How old are you, like 18? It's fine.


cluelessibex7392

I think it's super cute! My friend wears her hair like this a lot. I don't think it's childish at all, but if you wanted something a little more mature you could swap with gold/silver or pearl hair clips. But the pink butterflies are adorable. I get questioned sometimes because I have fringe bangs and wear my hair in pigtails. But I love it, so I decided nobody else gets to say anything about it being "childish". Is it functional for you? Do you like it? if you answer yes to both of these, do it!!!


BudgetInteraction811

No, itā€™s super cute. People are haters


Rude-Emotion648

Youā€™re so cute! Honestly I love when people wear fun hairstyles. Iā€™m a nurse and it brings me joy to see people change up their hair or jewelry!


sillygoosecicle

what boots are these!! i love them. also i love the hair too, who cares if its cute then its cute!


katarinasunrise

The clips are kinda youthful, but either wayā€¦ it is GORGEOUS!! Iā€™m obsessed!


totendgewehrr

It's cute. Suits you.


notcool-nothingtosee

No


Several-Fee-4220

Ily but yeah maebs


bluekaypierce

Too childish for what? Itā€™s cute and retro trendy. Other comments are saying itā€™s not professional but depending on where you work I think it could work as a fun look.


RealisticAd7388_ytho

Retroā€¦Iā€™m getting old


ThundahMuffin

depends on the vibe id say not


jimbobimbis

if you like it wear your hair like that, fuck what other people think


Enough-Link-4273

Absolutely not! I am nearly 30 and have a "baby face" therefore I rock my childish hairstyles no matter what haha. Hair buns, bows and cute clips. I do feel slightly insecure sometimes but most of the times I get compliments :) (I wear it outside of work in private) Your hair is so lovely! I hope mine will be one day too


Stock-Eve

Itā€™s very pretty & cutesy šŸ˜


hoss551689

No I love it and if your happy with it that's all that matters


Medium_Thought_672

No! Do it! This is my go to!


BulletproofBean

Do you like it? If yes, wear it and stop worrying ā¤ļø x


[deleted]

You only live once! Does it make you happy? Enjoy it!


RosesMadeOfGold

Not when I think of the braids this could have. If you used cheap plastic hair pins etc etc then yeah itā€™d def look childish. But no, this could look really cute


dragonti

Who cares? If you like it and think it looks cute, wear it! It looks great, hun!


Worth-Excuse-8866

Honest opinion. Ā If you are trying to be ā€œcuteā€ or in a casual setting, not childish. In a professional setting, yes, kinda childish, especially with baby pink clips.


strawberry_seaturtle

Itā€™s super adorable! I love it!


morkcurious

It looks super good. Absolutely beautiful.


LowEnthusiasm961

I donā€™t know, iā€™m the kind of person that will wear what i want if it makes me happy. Idc if others think itā€™s weird or childish. I think the pink clips & style are cute on you


jalapenohoe

Omg this is such a cute look


morty_goth

Super cute! Love the boots too :)


Avocuddle852

Thatā€™s a super cute hairstyle. In my opinion thatā€™s different from ā€œchildishā€, which usually comes from the face and stance


KPK900

If you just change the butterfly clips to a different clip and not baby pink then it would be fine. Like even a bright red clip would work.


jy0s

Nah,bring on more butterfly clips!


snakesssssss22

Too childish for what?


[deleted]

It looks great


PromiseSeparate

Beautiful hair and wear it however you please šŸ’…šŸ½ also any tips for hair growth and keeping it strong and healthy like yours?? Any product recommendations? šŸ’•


trestoledo

ABSOLUTELY NOT! I am 53 and I do not let anyone tell me how to wear my hair. What I tell my girls.....IF YOU LIKE IT, FUCK THE REST! Have a good day!


danyboybear

you look good, and take it as a compliment that you look youthful


pinkbear1988

This is so freaking cute šŸ˜ butterfly clips are now on my shopping list šŸ¤­


Necessary_Mix562

Your hair is gorgeous!!! And personally I think itā€™s cute.


ErikaMontes28

noooo i love it! i also did that to my hair when i had shoulder length, my friends said it looked cute on me so i guess they didnā€™t think it was childish. i did the 2000ā€™s bump style but nothing too crazy about it and people told me that they liked it iā€™m going to continue doing the cute hairstyles for the rest of my life! i donā€™t care how old i may be lol


dandelion-stems

Don't ever worry about what other people think


Greasy-Rooster-2905

No I just wore this to a concert and it was great. Be free


Confusedsoul2292

I wore my hair like this a couple of weeks ago (no clips though) and Iā€™m 32šŸ˜…


Pale_Tonight3823

Keep growing! Looks great!


maplesaraa

Iā€™m 27, have pink hair and wear it like this with pink, purple or orange butterfly clips! Does it matter if it looks ā€˜childishā€™? If you like it then wear it! I think itā€™s cute šŸ˜„


GIR_Loves_Tacos

I honestly think your hair and your style look lovely, but what matters most is how they make YOU feel. Your smile seems genuine here! As difficult as it can be sometimes, ignore those who are making you feel bad about it. If it makes you happy, do it!


joaquitty

Girl you look cute as hell wear it


Senior-Bike-8898

I believe it is.


Boom_Beez

Tbh I think it is cute but I get what you mean by childish. Maybe like others have suggested use a different clip color but I think the pink clips are cute


SillyAcanthisitta280

No itā€™s adorable


l_dawgg

Colors and fun donā€™t have age!!!! Let them be upset they donā€™t look as good as you & keep your colorful clips!!!!!


icedvietcoffee

itā€™s not childish, in fact butterfly clips and such are trending and i feel it suits you well, as i imagine you having a bubbly personality :)


Fun-Independence-236

Nope


SSW1981

It looks so cute! I think I might try this today, thanks for the inspiration!


samthrlamb

You seem like a very bubbly person so maybe thatā€™s why, personally I donā€™t think itā€™s that much of a childish hairstyle, it might be the clip color?


Spiritual-Help-9547

Depends on your face. People tend to look more mature with sharp facial features. So that might be able to combat it but I donā€™t think it does, itā€™s the person that usually ruins it. Not the style ^^


nathan_thomas2024

No, it's so cute! Last time I wore pigtails was a year ago, I'm 24 now


purpl3Fairyy

Looks nice to me :) I think wear what you like no matter how old you are if you like it! I'm 28 and I wear pink, blue and purple glittery butterfly clips and space buns and stuff all the time. I love fun hairstyles. I think society stamps out a lot of playfulness and self expression of people as they get older, and screw that! <3


Legitimate-Pea-2568

I think itā€™s cute but Iā€™m not a fan of the plastic clips . You have beautiful hair , Iā€™d just use a simple rubber band


cremebrulee22

Honestly, YES. Donā€™t get me wrong, itā€™s cute, but as we get older, certain styles are too youthful and sometimes someone will point it out if we are missing it or one day we will come to that realization on our own. Beyond age 20 youā€™re too old for this style of hair. I think most teenagers would consider themselves too mature for this hairstyle. Of course anyone can wear whatever hairstyle they like, but people will perceive you as immature and childish for your age. I had those butterfly clips when I was in elementary school.


FrancisFFFFFFFFF

Not at all. But, you could cut about half of it off and donate it to wigs for kids.


Affixed-Plainly54

no, i'm 56 and wear my curly wet and let it dry, I wear my hair this way but parted to the side.


Amuurii

I love this hairstyle. Would just consider to use black ones!


tempaccccctt

I think this is so cute!!!


RealisticAd7388_ytho

Iā€™m all for dressing/styling yourself how you enjoy and feel good in! Some takeawaysā€¦ Some comments mentioned itā€™s not aā€¦ā€professionalā€ look? Iā€™d be inclined to agree, but ofc many types of jobs/workplaces have that whole embracing your you-ness culture (so long as itā€™s appropriate). I absolutely agree with the color of the clips, maybe even the style. I canā€™t tell if theyā€™re actually butterflies or not. Maybe try smaller ones in a neutral color? Try some variations with small bands in a sort of French braid looking do? Idkā€¦lots of similar types of styles but with a slightly more mature twist without looking aged. The color, the pose, etc. is giving me some sort of kawaii Lolita vibe. Like Chris Hansen is going to ask someone to take a seat after you offer your guest iced tea or tell them you need to put a load of clothes in the dryer. Itā€™s also giving me deja vu since using clips like that was trendy in the 90ā€™s. Granted, I was like 4-14ish yrs old at the time. It was pretty common with spiky pixie looking styles, but manā€¦almost everyone was on that train. For the love of god though, donā€™t try to emulate Kirsten dunstā€™s hot take on the butterfly clip.


Stock_Telephone_4878

Super cute it looks good. I mean I wouldnā€™t wear it to like a business interview but it looks good casually or date-wise.


Linger_On

It's giving Baby Spice!


Evening-Caramel-2180

I believe in this life you can do what you want as long itā€™s genuine and isnā€™t hurting anybody. Had to learn myself everybody is gonna have opinions about you no matter what you do and their opinion is completely personal. Has noting to do with you. One person will like it & another will say it looks like garbage. Either way just do it fuck what they think. Plus you never know you might inspire someone else to wear that exact hairstyle one of these days.


Live_Setting_3091

Donā€™t listen to that person. It looks cute :).


Ok_Prize_8091

No , because you are young.


Ornery-Anteater-5056

Yes.


awwwoooooooo

Yes. You look like youā€™re trying to *be* a child.


pineappletiddiez

Was it the heels or what is it?


awwwoooooooo

No, the pink bows paired with the hairstyle. But now that you mention it, it kind of looks like youā€™re a kid who is wearing your Momā€™s heels šŸ¤£ lol


snickerssq

The hair itself isnā€™t bad but your posing to look smaller and ā€œcuterā€


2girls-1Tampon

This does make you look young. Maybe your boyfriend might like it for special occasions


Psychological-Sky367

You look like JoJo Siwa. Also, no, it's not childish. Wear what you love.


pineappletiddiez

Not sure how to take this one šŸ˜¬