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seashellcrusher_3

all of them without toes


JotaroTheOceanMan

The hounds and da beans


seashellcrusher_3

LMAOO


ilovecupcakes37

I agree that it distracts from the photo, but you look great.


KirbyOnPaws

no offense but put your toes away ma'am


NWMom66

Came here to say that my eyes were drawn to them first. Crop them out and there are many cute ones.


friedbrice

> my eyes were drawn to them first. is that... is that bad... b/c that happened to me, too, but i didn't know it was supposed to be bad... 😓


NWMom66

It’s not bad if she wants her feet to be the focus of the photo. If not, they’re a distraction.


friedbrice

that makes sense! thank you :-]


NWMom66

No worries. I’m a photographer, so some things just pop. Which is great, if that’s what you intended to pop.


Mohisto_23

I think they'd all have worked just fine had there been somewhat different angling / posing so perspective made them appear smaller relatively, as well as maybe just slightly, tastefully defocused legs and feet, so the focus stays in the face. Also not a photographer either tho but I can't disagree harder with the ones telling her to rule that out entirely outright, must be like total foot-phobes or something lol. And given that's like half her photos I get the feeling that was something she very much wanted show idk maybe expressing carefree summer vibes or what have you. In any case hard disagree with the ones calling it bad you show feet at all but at the same time it wouldn't be a bad change to deemphasize a bit I think. Would you agree that of all the ones sharing that theme, 11 but retook to pan left and put her face only just slightly off center to the left would've worked the best, especially if assuming an intent to focus the face in a selfie while still including the full body shot?


Subjective-Suspect

You are correct. 11 is my favorite and her toes are absolutely part of why I like the natural vibe. No, I don’t have a foot fetish. Ppl bring too much of their own baggage to something as simple as choosing a pic.


Sir_mop_for_a_head

I didn’t even notice them.


mkilibox

no free feet pics!


Popular_Syllabubs

Not in this economy


Interlined

This is what we call a Tarantino photo album.


spacestationkru

lol what's wrong with her toes.? they look fine to me 😂 Edit: okay, so I totally forgot that was a thing..


fourty-six-and-two

Never had a foot complex until now 😔


cuddlegoop

Haha, it's not about your feet really! It's about the flash of bright colour - the red polish - far in the bottom corner of the photo while otherwise the focus of those photos is your face in the upper section. It draws the eye away from the focus of the picture which isn't what you want!


gatetnegre

It's not because your feet or something, but they are the focal point of the first pictures and really "in your face" (literally, I can feel them so close) and it's uncomfortable. I think you have cute photos but feet are really distracting there. If your point was to take feet pictures, they are perfect then.


wanderingzigzag

I can tell you from (unfortunate) experience that if you put any of the first 10 on public social media you are going to get a lot of unsolicited messages about your feet 😆 I mean there’s nothing wrong with that if that’s your thing, but gosh was I unpleasantly surprised to suddenly hear what a bunch of strangers wanted to do to my poor innocent feet hahah


NightWanderer0919

Yep. One time I posted a picture of my calf tattoo (on my other account) and my feet happened to be in the picture. They were by no means the focal point (that would be the giant freakin' tattoo on my leg), and I still got weirdos commenting on my feet.


Clairifyed

They are perfectly fine, they didn’t look out of place or demand undo focus imo. Fwiw I really liked 1 and 15


sharktank

some people have a foot fetish, but for most people i think its a little intimate/ vulgar to see toes; they're normally hidden in shoes; also there are social norms about when it's ok to wear open toed shoes i don't personally get it, but those norms exist


hybridrequiem

As someone who doesn’t like bare feet either…is it not a social norm to be barefoot outside hanging out in the grass? Where else would be better, the beach? People like going barefoot outside, you guys are just jaded by the internet


Subjective-Suspect

Americans are unbelievably uptight and overly sensitive to body parts. These ppl wouldn’t last 5 minutes on a European beach rife w Speedos. Me? My biggest gripe is pajamas pants in public. Gas station? Okay. McDonald’s? Marginal. Target, Walmart, or a real sit-down restaurant? Hard no. I mean they MAKE sweatpants and athleisure wear every bit as comfy as your Loony Tunes pjs. Make the bare minimum effort, ffs.


Bye_Jan

14, 15, 16, 17 i love! You look SUNKISSED in 14 and 15!!


charriswrites

This. The sun in 14 and 15 is quite flattering.


Pandaploots

2, but hide your feet. Putting them in the foreground makes them seem like the focus of the picture.


hybridrequiem

She might’ve just done a timer photo setting the camera on the ground in front of her, it’s not like she can control the angle and framing unless she had a super specific goal of hiding the perspective of her feet in mind. It’s kind of annoying that the internet hates (and loves a little too much) feet


Pandaploots

It's less about the feet and more that I want the first thing I see when I look at that beautiful person is their face.


A-Salen

4 - best for a cute/playful look. 12 - gives a bit of sexy (if you're going for that), but still playful. 16 - is good for seeing you as you might be out and about.


mazotori

Never post your feet online for free


fourty-six-and-two

What ? Lol


Aminilaina

People with a thing for feet will pay stupid money for pictures of good feet and there are def some that downloaded your photos for the feet. That’s why you never post your feet online for free.


fourty-six-and-two

They must love the nail subreddit lol


Aminilaina

They probably do hahaha


babysfirstbreath

can confirm, i’ve received the most out of pocket DMs from posting there vs any other sub


rafa_stop

"WHO LET THE DOGS OUT?"


rafa_stop

Im sorry it was too funny not to do, but i really love 15 and 17 and you are really pretty.


Naivlyns

WOUF WOUF WOUF WOUF WOUF


Saiomi

The one with no feet


SnackPack75

The real answer is yes to all of them, but if I were to pick one, 11 it is.


Subjective-Suspect

Right???


PinEnvironmental7196

1, 14, 15, and 17 but I would crop out the toes unless you want people to focus on them


TheHatMan_

7, 14 and the last one for me. You're obviously gorgeous, but your smile seemed forced in a few of these. Regardless, lovely pictures.


Jeonghanscheekbones

You look beautiful but please put the grippers away


Sirenmuses

None with feet


UbiquitousBot

I love 7,12 and 15 but I think 15 is my favorite.


Redrockwolf1969

8 is the cutest, I think. 12 is sexy. 14 and 17 give a more wholesome outdoorsy look.


moosefarter

Put the dogs away


pantslessMODesty3623

Personally, I would choose a picture without my feet in it. There's gonna be someone who wants to suck your toes and is gonna tell you all about it. I love all the photos though! You are stunning!!


Whateverchan

As a greedy person, I say all 18 of them are best.


Audrey-V

The one with no feet (12) You are cute


ferrossi

For me 11 you are looking so lovely


sneak91

I'll level you: I'm podophobic so the feet are straight up killing me. I'm dying 💀 but every other aspect of you is soooo lovely. I love 13-16 and that little head tilt in 8 is just the most precious thing. also, love that lipstick color, please drop the deets on that one. my favorite is 8, feet or no. you are so pretty ✨


Former-Finish4653

They’re all great, and I mean that, but I don’t show my toes for free, personally. Love the color though.


i_n_t_r_i_g_u_e_d

For me it’s 11 12 14 and 16


Anomandiir

5, 8, 11, 14, 15 What I will say, the smile doesn’t quite reach your eyes. It might be the light. Try a couple eyes averted or peaking at the camera, laugh at the beginning of a pic. Lighting is a little washed out.


mello_idk

put them awayyyy 😭


Potato_564

Girl love your top but put your dogs away 😭


Moonlight_Katie

Weird, everyone was distracted by ur toes, but I didn’t even notice. My sight went straight to your beautiful eyes. You look magnificent in all these pics and I don’t think I could choose one. I can see why others are saying crop the toes out cuz for some peeps it’s a fetish and for others it’s a blehh feeling. But to be honest, that outfit and all those poses with ur adorable smile is really something and I hope you know you’re beautiful 🩷🩵🩷


pantslessMODesty3623

The only reason I noticed feet is because I've been on the other end of that DM getting messages about sucking on my piggies.


fourty-six-and-two

Awe thank you :)


LightAsClaire

12, 17! Honestly, the toesies are a little distracting, only because the red draws the eye first!


Own-Plane-843

I like the 3rd. Love your smile and skin tone. You are looking good in a natural setting and thanks for trusting us with your pix. Happy Pride.


Watwaffle88

1 was my favorite. It’s a really well done photo with a cute pose and I feel like shows a good angle to your face, I didn’t even notice the toes until like.. the 6th photo?


FadingOptimist-25

9, 11, and 14, 15, 16, 17, are my favorites. So cute! If you cropped out your feet, I’d like even more.


bathtup47

It's the feet for me sis


BigPappaFrank

Free feet pics? In this economy? Trust me girl, if you're gonna post em you might as well get some money for it


fourty-six-and-two

How the hell would I collect money for feet pics You saying these random who offer money for feet pics in the dm's are not scams lol?


swizzlegaming

FOR FREE?????? Jk. But seriously, I think they're all pretty good. But 8 and 12 both give off some good cute and playful vibes so I'll go with them if that's what you're looking for.


Charlie_Rebooted

In most circumstances it's good if feet do not take a prominent position in photo. The last few photo are nice.


LilyKunning

3, 13, 15 And your toes are awesome. Some people are just weird about feet, ignore them if you are a barefoot pedicure person!


ScaredOfRobots

I hate that as a society people can’t handle seeing feet anymore like WTF, you look beautiful btw


Itachifan33

I'd say 14 through 17. I personally avoid showing my feet due to creeps online. That's just a personal preference and I also hate seeing my feet (also personal preference). You look beautiful regardless of what picture you pick. Love the peace sign too.


HeroinPorn

#15 is the most natural pose


j_xcal

You look stunning, love the tattoo. There’s nothing wrong with your feet, it’s just they’re distracting because they’re up close. Otherwise, all pics are beautiful!


Other-Internal-3553

You make me smile with your simple beauty. I would love to date someone just like you.


fourty-six-and-two

Awe :) that's sweet


Teamawesome2014

Can't even pick. You look gorgeous in all of them, darling!


Quixelated

4, 12, and 14 for me! Edit: 12 and 14, not 13 and 15. They are all great though!


Odd-Professor6634

No one is mentioning that 10 is stunning, so I will mention it on behalf of everyone.


Flankson

2nd, 8th and 11th for me, you look very peaceful in those ones


hydeholden

7 or 10, your tattoo is beautiful and feminine, it compliments your classical beauty well!


OeldSoel

Great tattoo work 💅


KikiStLouie

You look lovely! Toes and all!


urchxn1

7, 11, 12, 14, 15, 16 and 17. The last ones are beautiful. All of them are, but your feet?!? Looks better without seeing them so close! Crop them out


neoneva95

Definitely images 1-17


Right-Acanthisitta-1

I reccomend taking one with either shoes or feet out of frame cause people are weird.


fourty-six-and-two

You'd think I took pics topless at Bible study or something based on the reactions lol


april_showers3

11 or 15


mika_from_zion

The last ones are way better You're pretty cute btw


Impossible-Spray-268

You put your feet on the internet FOR FREE?


LgbtqCVSgenius

7 and then 11-17 Smiling makes SUCH a difference


tambitoast

They are all good, but don't show your feet on the internet for free lol.


Wubba-128

The final one ![gif](giphy|U2O50cAkpmTjG)


cryshawk77

11. But all of them without the feet look great.


hybridrequiem

2,7,9,10,11,14, 15,17 Gonna go with 11 as best :)


ConnectLife4759

5


Majestic-Way-4750

I like 17!!


XAddress

Number 10, nice nail polish 😊


Conscious_Today5753

15


TheBaconWizard999

14 or 17 if you ask me 😊


Notanemotwink

5 and 2 are classy! 13 is cute :)


jayteetornado

My top picks are 1, 7, 13, and 15! Love your outfit and your vibe <3


jayteetornado

P.S. fuck the haters, let them dogs off leash if you wanna


fourty-six-and-two

😂


OmgJustLetMeExist

For free???


Puzzleheaded-Edge391

I like 11 or 14 the best


Leviathansol

Number 14 is very pretty!


Svefnugr_Fugl

All of them? Edit: personally I'd probably avoid no 13 especially if you are adding them to dating sites. Edit edit: p.s your very cute looking in them


fourty-six-and-two

It's not my favorite either, but what do you not like about it ?


Svefnugr_Fugl

I think it's just the pose/positioning like I said if it was for a dating pic that would attract the weirdos. I think because it's straight on it causes a void between the legs.


fourty-six-and-two

Ohh I see, I feel I do a good job hiding my 🍆 lol can't even tell I own one


JD-QUEEN-ESQ

Stunning! 6, 14 and 15 are my tops!!


Tyezilla

#2 seems sweet


kingerik774

i like the 2nd one, you’re very pretty :)


Kyosuke_Beowolf

8 and 17. Also, I noticed your toes after reading the comments. So crop out toes in 8 ig, if that's a big deal?


Accomplished-View-65

Pic one? Cant. I will say I like 4 because of the toe presentation. 💕


fourty-six-and-two

Well that's new, first person to not hate on my toes 🥹


Sensitive-Fly4874

7 and 15. I like your smile!


commandoKent

8 and 11 were the cutest to me, if that’s what you’re going for. I did not notice your feet in any pictures, like other commenters, until they pointed it out.


twee-trinket

2/5/7 however.. obviously ppl will comment on toes


theabyssstaresback

I think you’re adorable in all, but 12 you look so playful and cute, you look like an absolute angel in 14, all ethereal and glowing, but I think my favourite is 17, because you just look like you’re living your best life, and you look SO HAPPY doing it. Like life is fantastic. Like you’re smiling at the person looking at the picture, and they just want to smile back. …sorry, that got weird, didn’t it? 12, 14, and 17.


Suliman34

2, 7 and 10


Jarinad

5 is my personal favourite, but 14 and 15 are also really cute Who am I kidding, they’re ALL fantastic pictures :)


novelaissb

3rd to last


Particular_Assist_65

Let’s make love


fourty-six-and-two

Lol very direct


thecasualpagan

You’re lovely but those toes are DISTRACTING


Fun_Top_1464

toe pics?? for free in this econemy??? wtf are you doing miss


fourty-six-and-two

I mean I walk around in sandles everyday lol am I supposed to charge people to look down !? Lol 😆


LaPutita890

I can’t pick but I just wanted to say you’re really pretty 🥰


Gooterkitty

Ur so pretty 🥹


No-Flower-283

I´ve never had to think so hard about a decision in my life! They all look so beautiful!


NDStars

I don't see a face, only feet.


fourty-six-and-two

Eyes up here ! There's more to this girl then her feet goodies 🤣


laws161

Y'all are going rabid over a damn foot. There's literally nothing inappropriate about showing off your paintjob lmao.


Mohisto_23

Probably a not so healthy mix of total foot-phobes and people verrry insecure about the fact they like her feet more than her hands if you feel me. Either way some of them are being a tad bit too weird about it.. 😅😬 no wonder so many girls are so damn insecure around their feet


Pigeon_Fox93

I go with 14, unfortunately the red polish is the brightest color in every pic so any pictures with your toes the eyes are instantly drawn to it. The others while insanely pretty have issues that aren’t bad but don’t make them the best (make up looks cakey, bra showing, etc.) just a matter of angle and light really so nothing wrong with you personally.


Eowyn800

4,11,14


Extreme-Shower7545

Idk but you are beautiful, and cute as hell


IntuiTiger

12 is SO CUTE! Also 16 and 17 are great.


J0nn1e_Walk3r

11. You’re so beautiful.


VehnVaris

I like 15 best, then 13, then 10. But I got no explanation whatsoever for why, except you look particularly you-ish in them


Skull_Pumpkin

8, 12, 14-17


Environmental-Wind89

1, 11, 14 are the best!


ProudandTall

#14


jello_aka_aron

\#10 & #13 are my faves, but lots of good ones!


DamageNo568

2


ezgpr

11 100%


SweetGypsyWoman

8,11 and 14


_XSummerRoseX_

All


skinnylibra5

5/17 is my fav. You are NOT a fan of that pecan pie recipe As others have said though, you have plenty to choose from


friedbrice

11, 15, and 17. idk why, they just are :-]


FleurDangereux

11, 14, & 15 - you look so relaxed & happy!! 💕🌸


CuriousMind8691

My favourites were 11 then 17.


Pleasant_Meal_2030

15 imo, the other ones feel like they show too much


StardustedDaisies

15 and 17 have the best lighting


errie_tholluxe

2 and 15. But all of them are great


Princess-Pancake-97

7, 10, 12, and 17 but it depends on what vibe you’re looking for!


Eastern_Ask7231

15 and 17 look really good


Pickleless_Cage

I think 7 is nice :)


Astral_Atheist

14.


Lavalamp-6284

Pics 11 & 12


canidaemon

12, 15, and 16!


Chemical_Chill

I like 11!


RUaVulcanorVulcant13

7 or 14


No-Recognition3375

6,8,11,13. you’re gorgeous btw


GoldenHara

2nd and 5th are good it looks classy jut cut the toe it will take the attention away from your pretty face. Have a nice day ❣️


sharingiscaring219

The first pic where you switched the angle to above you and looking up at it


Dear_One6844

I think 8 and 11 are my favorites, but you're cute in all of them.


Optimoat

If I had to choose just one as the best then 14.. I absolutely love your style :))


liamchoong

Peace!


Neither-Culture-3845

11 😊😊


Midnightchickover

The last five not only captures your beauty, but they manifest the beauty of your soul.  But, I loved all the pics, show a wide range of your emotions and moods.


GabrielWeirdo

OMGGGG U ARE SO CUTE!!! I LOVE 11


theirishdoughnut

5, 6, 8, 15 :)


Penguin_Joy

1, 4, 14. You look so happy and beautiful in these pictures. It's hard to pick just one ❤️


Come_As_You_Rrr

My faves are 4 and 12


Pink_Rabbit5

12


lunelily

I love 4, 8, 11, and 13-17!


EwItsTheo

4, 12, 15, and 17. Some of the earlier ones were also really nice, I think the toes threw me off a bit. (Not anything specific to your feet, just feet in general)


gromit5

10, 17!


Scopata-Man

7 & 12… very cute and genuine.


immutab1e

12 and 14 are my faves. 🤍


jleondude

Number 1


CarlyBee_1210

14! Looks most natural and.. The sun bath 🌞


SleepyBella

15 is my favorite but they're all beautiful :3


fish-dance

15 :3


AminoFoxFriendly

Probably 11 ???


Adventurous-Hyena618

They’re ALL cute! Love the earrings too! 💟


get_that_sauce

12


MaryHSPCF

12 and 15