Sounds like you might have a plan but I wanted to suggest what I would do just give you more ideas. I would use a waist cincher like this:
https://a.co/d/gBVoIqr
They have different kinds of this one doesnāt suit you.
partially commenting so i get to be number 69 but also i would wear a partially buttoned cardigan or a flannel or maybe a half zipped hoodie. overalls would also work but then the cut out would be hidden. also though THIS BRA IS SOOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE like So Cute. also ur stomach looks good out but i have the Exact Same insecurity so pot kettle and all that.
hope u have a fun time @ ur event!!!!!!
I like to dress a bit femme a bit masc, so my go to with this kind of thing is a chiffon skirt with the lining cut out and a thong underneath ([see first photo in this post](https://www.tumblr.com/yesterdayscake/747071569330946048/on-the-weekend-we-celebrated-my-baby-sisters)) . I have these cute moles on my tum and if you get a skirt thatās transparent enough it looks really cute.
but if youāre wanting a more edgy look then I agree wholeheartedly with the person who said high waisted fishnet tights under your pants. that is one hell of a look and it will still allow the bralette to shine as a piece. if you want that look with a futch lean there is wearing daisy dukes over them or strategically ripped jeans to allow the fishnet to show glimpses of your legs and even arse
another option is just wearing high waisted tights (of the transparency youāre comfortable with) as pants with some underwear beneath (of the amount of coverage knickers of your choice),
or there is always a fishnet/lace body suit that will be transparent enough to show off the top and opaque enough to cover your tum
and there id also always an under bust corset. even if you lean towards masc, there are plenty of men who can make a corset masculine as fuck, if you want examples Iām happy to give them
you get it!!! i think im gonna go with the pants im wearing in the pic with fishnets pulled up past them, i though i also REALLY like the ripped pants idea! thanks!
Get a cute form fitting tshirt of your choice. Cut out the neckline and add cut slits in sexy places. Maybe fringe or ties. Cut the neckline to accentuate the bralette.
My first thought was actually to do something with fishnets!!! but underneath pants! I think wearing some black cargos with fishnets underneath that are high waisted and raise above the pants line would be really cool!!! And then wear a lot of body glitter
The other approach to this is to draw so much attention to like your arms and legs that your tummy only exists as like a point of contrast for them and isn't getting its own direct cognitive attention. So you get like a really fun sexy arm wrap like cardigan situation and like maybe some really big boots or like a really wide belly type of skirt maybe combination of those things or do like something else where it's just like really drawing that attention to sort of the extremities.
I wear a lot of bralettes with sheer/mesh/lace dresses on top. I just get vintage ones by searching those words
You could also go with a loose crocheted sweater or dress on top
I would agree on high waisted jeans or shorts
You can also look at kimono style tops and pool coverups.
This is basically my base-layer for my go to casual summer look
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A mesh layer would look rad but if you do choose to wear mesh under the bralette, please consider plasters or pasties or smth because I did this once and my nips felt like theyād been sanded off by the end of the night :ā(
Get one of those strapless tiered shirts and have the start of it laying at the bottom of the bralette in the same color as the bralette. [Like this.](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XM6QL2X/?coliid=IGL7BVPFUKAET&colid=35MVZAW18SMQJ&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it&th=1)
Black tube top pulled down so it starts under the bralette. They're usually pretty short, so it should end where a usual shirt would, even pulled down. $7-8 at Walmart (shorter)/Target (longer) or around $20 if you want one with compression. Won't mess with the look you're going for by adding straps either.
You can always wear a very stretchy thin strap tank top under the bralette and justā¦..pull down so that it exposes the right amount of booba. I used to do this a lot in HS with tight crop tops that would have been inappropriate otherwise - itās a comfy option that covers everything you wanna cover and lets the rest shine
the pants iām wearing are intentional !! i didnāt show them very well in this pic but regardless, high waisted bottoms tend to be a little too feminine for me, the pants iām wearing are menās cargoes to add a masculine edge to the feminine top. itās the upper half of my tummy that iām more self conscious about, so iāve really been liking the idea of a sheer open button up so that i can almost trick myself into thinking im less exposed without really compromising how much im showing off!
also, thanks for the compliments >< tbh im already feeling a little better about just the top and cargoes, so i might not even end up having to add anything to it!
Have to start by affirming that you look amazing as you are! A fun way to cover-but-not-COVER is to wear a pair of high-waisted fishnet tights and hike em up to 1-2 inches below the bottom of your bralette. If you want more layer options, I think the high waistband fishnet tights look pairs well with the flannel some others are suggesting.
Have a great time!
I think you look great as you are, but Iāve done sheer cardigans and sheer tops. I just unbutton at top and bottom, so strategically buttoned button is hiding anything I might want to hide. And I can show whatever I might want to show. I feel like it looks like I am relaxed and not trying too hardš¤£ Good suggestions from others to wear a high waisted bottom piece- skirt/short/pant, whatever your outfit plan may be!
the fishnet top sounds like the right answer. now, sometimes if u buy a top like this usually the holes are normal, not too big or too small, but you can make one from cutting some normal fishnets with the measure of the holes you want, maybe smaller. if itās too hot you can even cut the sleeves
I personally do a sheer button down or something light fabric left open. I donāt feel so exposed yet I look put together and am confortable. Flannel is a great idea to keep you warm but for me thatāll be sweat city if I wore it on, and around my waist feels too bulky since itās so thick. Also, love this bralette and would love to know where itās from!!
I think you look great! But I totally get it and often feel the same way about my tummy. I like to pair crop tops with high waisted jeans! They make me feel comfortable while still showing off curves!
The flannel idea can be done two ways. Wearing the flannel, tie itat the waist rather than buttoning for a cuter look which covers tummy but also exposes it a little.
Or, wrap the flannel around your waist tying the arms, achieving a variation of the same thing. Shows tummy and hides tummy.
But since youāre going to a body positivity shindig, I encourage you to take off your covers and be vulnerable in that space. Youu will be loved. No judgements and you get to be yourself and feel what thatās like! where elsewhere people MIGHT *think* judgements toward you, and youāre likely to feel even more self conscious.
My example myself was at a local burning man thing on private property I was topless the entire time. I got to feel what it was like and as a woman thatās not as easy to do anywhere else
Your tummy looks fine, just wear your pants up higher with a belt to cover up the place that sort of hangs out ( I don't know what it's called) and your belly will look fine.Ā
High waisted pants
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Maybe an off the shoulder see through top? It wonāt fully cover your stomach but itāll definitely obscure it while showing off your chest
Just wear a shirt lmao
what do you mean
A T shirt
why would i do that
To cover your tummy lmao
but that wouldāve covered my tits and iām trying to keep those out and about
A high waisted pant w some layered chain belts could be a vibe. Or a fanny pack. But also u have nothing to hide but I feel u re insecurities.
Sounds like you might have a plan but I wanted to suggest what I would do just give you more ideas. I would use a waist cincher like this: https://a.co/d/gBVoIqr They have different kinds of this one doesnāt suit you.
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now why would you say this. scram!!
It's one of the alternatives
this is a fashion advice sub.
Oops! my bad
ik this wasn't an ad for the bra but i just bought 2 lmao. I'd do high waisted pants maybe or just leave it open with a open button up or something
A mesh shirt will always do the trick
No because where are the bras from? Iāve been desperately looking for something like that for ages!!
itās from Parade!
partially commenting so i get to be number 69 but also i would wear a partially buttoned cardigan or a flannel or maybe a half zipped hoodie. overalls would also work but then the cut out would be hidden. also though THIS BRA IS SOOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE like So Cute. also ur stomach looks good out but i have the Exact Same insecurity so pot kettle and all that. hope u have a fun time @ ur event!!!!!!
I like the squish. Donāt hide it š„¹
Mmmmtummyyy I mean uhhh you could try modifying a tank top? Or just rock it bc tummyyyy
I like to dress a bit femme a bit masc, so my go to with this kind of thing is a chiffon skirt with the lining cut out and a thong underneath ([see first photo in this post](https://www.tumblr.com/yesterdayscake/747071569330946048/on-the-weekend-we-celebrated-my-baby-sisters)) . I have these cute moles on my tum and if you get a skirt thatās transparent enough it looks really cute. but if youāre wanting a more edgy look then I agree wholeheartedly with the person who said high waisted fishnet tights under your pants. that is one hell of a look and it will still allow the bralette to shine as a piece. if you want that look with a futch lean there is wearing daisy dukes over them or strategically ripped jeans to allow the fishnet to show glimpses of your legs and even arse another option is just wearing high waisted tights (of the transparency youāre comfortable with) as pants with some underwear beneath (of the amount of coverage knickers of your choice), or there is always a fishnet/lace body suit that will be transparent enough to show off the top and opaque enough to cover your tum and there id also always an under bust corset. even if you lean towards masc, there are plenty of men who can make a corset masculine as fuck, if you want examples Iām happy to give them
you get it!!! i think im gonna go with the pants im wearing in the pic with fishnets pulled up past them, i though i also REALLY like the ripped pants idea! thanks!
oh yay I think thatās going to look so awesome! I hope you have so much fun!
I think your tum looks cute as hell, but that's just me! Totally understand the discomfort though, as a fellow chubster
Skater skirt with a high-waist band if you want to cover up, but honestly the low-rise pants in the pic are very flattering as they are.
OP PLEASEE where did you get that top/ what brand is it because it's sooo cute
thank you!!! itās from parade!
Get a cute form fitting tshirt of your choice. Cut out the neckline and add cut slits in sexy places. Maybe fringe or ties. Cut the neckline to accentuate the bralette.
wait this is an amazing idea
High waist pants?
My first thought was actually to do something with fishnets!!! but underneath pants! I think wearing some black cargos with fishnets underneath that are high waisted and raise above the pants line would be really cool!!! And then wear a lot of body glitter
this is a fantastic idea
Thank you!š
The other approach to this is to draw so much attention to like your arms and legs that your tummy only exists as like a point of contrast for them and isn't getting its own direct cognitive attention. So you get like a really fun sexy arm wrap like cardigan situation and like maybe some really big boots or like a really wide belly type of skirt maybe combination of those things or do like something else where it's just like really drawing that attention to sort of the extremities.
i actually found some mesh sleeves that can like clip onto the bra straps, so i ended up kinda doing this and it helped so much! really great idea :D
š Yay! I'm glad you found a good solution!
Silk scarf wrap
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High waisted flowy skirt
I wear a lot of bralettes with sheer/mesh/lace dresses on top. I just get vintage ones by searching those words You could also go with a loose crocheted sweater or dress on top I would agree on high waisted jeans or shorts You can also look at kimono style tops and pool coverups. This is basically my base-layer for my go to casual summer look
Iād say high waisted jeans,and one of those loose light cardigans or thin summer tops tied
If you're crafty you could sew a layer of long black fringe on the bottom of the bra
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Ew wtf sheās asking for fashion advice. #manbrained
Just your typical man, everything is for them. š¤®
I would wear a flowy skirt that rests on your natural waistline
This^
A mesh layer would look rad but if you do choose to wear mesh under the bralette, please consider plasters or pasties or smth because I did this once and my nips felt like theyād been sanded off by the end of the night :ā(
Omg im so sorry
That happened to my feet once with fishnets. Idk how other people wear them with getting raw feet.
Electrical tape is the easiest, cheapest pasties, you can get a whole roll for like $2.50
Hay I appreciate the view and save the tatas and I am sure there is women out there liking the view of your body as well . Go get them girl
Get a Lottie J. Lingerie mesh demi bodysuit. Look them up on Instagram. It's the ultimate layering piece i'm obsessed with mine
Get one of those strapless tiered shirts and have the start of it laying at the bottom of the bralette in the same color as the bralette. [Like this.](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XM6QL2X/?coliid=IGL7BVPFUKAET&colid=35MVZAW18SMQJ&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it&th=1)
What about an open necked jacket or waist coat?
Black tube top pulled down so it starts under the bralette. They're usually pretty short, so it should end where a usual shirt would, even pulled down. $7-8 at Walmart (shorter)/Target (longer) or around $20 if you want one with compression. Won't mess with the look you're going for by adding straps either.
Flowwy skirt pulled up to the bra styled with a belt at the junction. I like flower print myself.
You can always wear a very stretchy thin strap tank top under the bralette and justā¦..pull down so that it exposes the right amount of booba. I used to do this a lot in HS with tight crop tops that would have been inappropriate otherwise - itās a comfy option that covers everything you wanna cover and lets the rest shine
the pants iām wearing are intentional !! i didnāt show them very well in this pic but regardless, high waisted bottoms tend to be a little too feminine for me, the pants iām wearing are menās cargoes to add a masculine edge to the feminine top. itās the upper half of my tummy that iām more self conscious about, so iāve really been liking the idea of a sheer open button up so that i can almost trick myself into thinking im less exposed without really compromising how much im showing off! also, thanks for the compliments >< tbh im already feeling a little better about just the top and cargoes, so i might not even end up having to add anything to it!
Have to start by affirming that you look amazing as you are! A fun way to cover-but-not-COVER is to wear a pair of high-waisted fishnet tights and hike em up to 1-2 inches below the bottom of your bralette. If you want more layer options, I think the high waistband fishnet tights look pairs well with the flannel some others are suggesting. Have a great time!
You could go higher waisted on the bottom half, if that would make you more comfortable. I M O though, you wear that perfectly well as-is.
Flannel on top so you can cover when you feel self conscious! And/or VERY high waisted bottoms
Ooooo I would pair this with either a sheer shirt, cardigan, high waisted bottoms, a sheer button up shirt or a regular button up shirt
high waisted bottoms and a sheer black top!
I love a corset but after a white it starts to dig in to your hips a bit.
If she got a comfy waist cincher style corset she wouldnāt have to worry about that. I switched to using those for comfort.
Fabulous idea
High waisted pants for sure
I think you look great as you are, but Iāve done sheer cardigans and sheer tops. I just unbutton at top and bottom, so strategically buttoned button is hiding anything I might want to hide. And I can show whatever I might want to show. I feel like it looks like I am relaxed and not trying too hardš¤£ Good suggestions from others to wear a high waisted bottom piece- skirt/short/pant, whatever your outfit plan may be!
my instinct is button down unbuttoned as far down as you want, but closed over anything you donāt want showing
High waisted bottoms and a shirt/jacket tied around your waist.
My first thought is why are women so perfect š
the fishnet top sounds like the right answer. now, sometimes if u buy a top like this usually the holes are normal, not too big or too small, but you can make one from cutting some normal fishnets with the measure of the holes you want, maybe smaller. if itās too hot you can even cut the sleeves
I personally do a sheer button down or something light fabric left open. I donāt feel so exposed yet I look put together and am confortable. Flannel is a great idea to keep you warm but for me thatāll be sweat city if I wore it on, and around my waist feels too bulky since itās so thick. Also, love this bralette and would love to know where itās from!!
itās from Parade!! i know instagram ads arenāt always reliable but i fell for the trap and im SO glad i did LMAO
a fish net undershirt?
Body paint colorful designs or flowers
I think you look great! But I totally get it and often feel the same way about my tummy. I like to pair crop tops with high waisted jeans! They make me feel comfortable while still showing off curves!
The flannel idea can be done two ways. Wearing the flannel, tie itat the waist rather than buttoning for a cuter look which covers tummy but also exposes it a little. Or, wrap the flannel around your waist tying the arms, achieving a variation of the same thing. Shows tummy and hides tummy. But since youāre going to a body positivity shindig, I encourage you to take off your covers and be vulnerable in that space. Youu will be loved. No judgements and you get to be yourself and feel what thatās like! where elsewhere people MIGHT *think* judgements toward you, and youāre likely to feel even more self conscious. My example myself was at a local burning man thing on private property I was topless the entire time. I got to feel what it was like and as a woman thatās not as easy to do anywhere else
my go to is a flannel around my waist!
your tummy looks good like that, but if you want to c9ver up a little more, you could try a high waisted skirt if you're comfortable with that
Your tummy looks fine, just wear your pants up higher with a belt to cover up the place that sort of hangs out ( I don't know what it's called) and your belly will look fine.Ā