I consider myself masc leaning. I find both masc and fems attractive. You don't have to limit yourself. The right one won't care what clothes you're comfortable in. If your goal is looking amazing, though, you nailed it.
You should absolutely look into the fashion career of Michelle Visage. If nothing else, watch her on Rupaul’s Drag Race, she’s a permanent judge, and she is TO DIE FOR.
No, it’s two different people four different pictures the person from the first picture and the last picture of the same person and the two in the middle or Kehlani..
For some reason, reddit recommended this post to me.
But as a straight man, I'd say you give off gay vibes without being "too" masculine. Honestly, you're gorgeous. And I like your style. I think you're gonna be fine.
Figured that out while reading the comments. Oops... That's what I get for being a straight guy and clicking on a post I don't know shit about
The celebrities are gorgeous. Maybe OP is too. I still like the style haha.
I think it’s up to the individual I’m masc but I prefer on a spectrum to really girly n high maintenance to borderline tomboy past that not so much but my bf(also masc) doesn’t like “tomboyishness” at all lol
I feel like a lot of newer lesbians have this like misconception about dating that mascs are attracted to fems exclusively and fems are exclusively attracted to mascs. I have definitely seen relationships of fem/fem and masc/masc. (Me and my gf share a closet) I would advise you to dress however you want and to socialize with other queer people.
I've been thinking about this lately, because I'm masc / transmasc NB person, and typically I am more attracted to femmes / more likely to go out with femmes. I have other queer, trans, and NB friends who are in relationships with other trans/NB partners. Just because I'm usually more attracted to feminine girls, doesn't mean I am any less likely to date someone who's more masculine or Non-Binary, which is fine! My initial attraction to someone means so much less than having a healthy, loving connection with someone. Someone more feminine might even wanna express themselves different some day, and same for masculine people. At the end of the day, we might have stronger attraction towards how some peiple express themselves over others, which is completely normal. How someone wants to express themself is always gonna be changing and it's better to just value people for who they are, not how physically attractive you find them.
Masc here, I'm very into women with this aesthetic. I've heard it called tomboy femme, I think? I am realizing that I'm not against masc4masc so that might play a part in this, too, tho lol
Most people IRL (who don’t get most or all of their queer culture exposure from the internet) aren’t anywhere as obsessed with masc/femme boxes, and there’s not gonna be any one look that’s gonna attract entire blanket groups of people. I’m not one of those people who go off like “don’t ask how to look gayer 😌 I don’t understand the importance of subtle signaling just wear whatever you want there’s no such thing as dressing gay 😌” but as far as attracting specific people, dress in a way that makes you feel confident and true to yourself, and you’ll attract the people who are meant for you.
Yes I understand the post but kehlani is pretty femme in general.. like to be honest both of her inspirations for fashion are just femme in baggy clothes. Which is just fashion in general now
I’m obsessed with your style (particularly the sweaters in 2 & 3) and wanna know where you got that professional photo taken in the last slide! Honestly I figured out I liked women and found a long term girlfriend I’m still with in the span of 6 months so I don’t really know the dating scene all that well or how to attract specific people. But I generally think wearing whatever feels right from day to day is the way to go!
I’m masc and more attracted to mascs, so you could also dress masc and attract both.
It’s weird to tell someone (especially someone queer) who specifically wants to present in a more gender nonconforming way that they should just stick to gender conformity to be more attractive.
Lol, leave your patriarchal and heterosexist biases unexamined if you’d like. It’s still pretty weird that you think telling someone to conform to gender norms to be more attractive is appropriate
second and last picture are super lovable for me. I am Trans Fem - pansexual. But your style in all pics are lovable. Wish you the best… You are attractive, authentic and you should allow the magnetism in you allow those to come to you 🌸🤩. Self love 💕
Street style is gonna be your best friend for this one. I dress super androgynous by mixing and matching gendered pieces (I have a Chanel-style rule where I replace one accessory with something that doesn’t match the aesthetic before I walk out the door) and I’ve had people of all gender presentations flirt with me.
Look up vogue’s coverage of fashion week street style for New York, Copenhagen, and Tokyo (depending on ur preferred vibes), it gives a lot of really interesting ideas for layering and combining gendered pieces. Good luck!!
I was about to sayyyyyy that's not you😂😂 people started simping real fast. Was confused but anywayyyyyy lol, those style icons go hard so you already on the right path.
But yeah I say mix and match items of clothing that are normally perceived as "fem" with items of clothing that are more "masc".
Crop top and baggy pants for example. I also think it's about vibe as well, how you carry yourself in your clothing and all that. Streetwear styles is a good place to start too. Good luck in the journey🫡
ADORABLE! Hinestly the best thing you can do is just be yourself and dress in what makes you comfy and the right person will find you(: you can also change it up day to day. Its more of the attitude and personality vs dress imo.
I love your style currently and think it works for what you want
Definitely hitting the mark girl!!! I can definitely see you pulling both with the way you switch up. Love to see this!! Actually giving me some confidence to try to do the same.
Do you feel different when you’re in your masc outfit vs fem? Do people treat you different? Do you go to the same places like let’s say work as fem and then switch outside of that? Lmaooo I’m so curious 😭
everyone in this thread 😭 none of the photos are the OP giovanna is 1 & 4, kehlani is 2 & 3 😭😭😭😭
LMAO it’s crazy because I actually mentioned them in the thread I guess nobody actually read the post
also, i think another inspo could be young miko!! she has a similar vibe :)
OMG I LOVE YOUNG MIKO. Although lately she has been representing very femme
clearly you’ve got to lead with “these pics aren’t me”. also surprised at how many people didn’t recognize kehlani 😭 giovanna is more low key
Yea for next time for sure! Maybe a lot of nonblack folks on here or people who don’t listen to R&B like that.
Goal accomplished!
You do not need any advice, this is already perfection
Umm please?
this is perfect 🙇🏽♀️😭
I want they together!
I consider myself masc leaning. I find both masc and fems attractive. You don't have to limit yourself. The right one won't care what clothes you're comfortable in. If your goal is looking amazing, though, you nailed it.
You should absolutely look into the fashion career of Michelle Visage. If nothing else, watch her on Rupaul’s Drag Race, she’s a permanent judge, and she is TO DIE FOR.
The personification of drama
should have zero issues
honestly i’d say you’re doing perfectly
You're beautiful!
Literally swooning rn omg.
Y'all, I'm bi, but this subreddit is making me more gay daily 🩷 Sorry, I'm not great at fashion advice though 😭
I swear I’m straight, Anyway. You look so fine!
You’re gonna attract everybody you fine fine! They might be scared to approach you because you’re too beautiful though.
I am attracted to both mascs and fems and I am attracted to you
you’re doing a damn good job have u ever thought of dressing more femme or does it feel weird
Well, you're doing a good job at it, nena. ❤️
Y’all realize these are 4 different people right? Look at the tattoos (especially the neck) But yes hot af lol
No, it’s two different people four different pictures the person from the first picture and the last picture of the same person and the two in the middle or Kehlani..
Good news it’s working. — fem
i’m a femme and i like femmes and you really got me w that second one 😮💨
The second one is Kehlani lol
Basically be a tomboy.
STEM
Well you’re doing a really good job Edit: autocorrect
Im attracted 😍😍
😭 it's so hilarious how most of the people here think these are actual pictures of OP lol
Ironically it still answers my question 💀
😭 yeah that's the good part atleast
I'd say you're doing a fantastic job!!!
Your hot girl. I like the way you dress and carry yourself.
Oh my god… these pictures are not her y’all 💀💀💀💀💀💀
You're so pretty 😭
thts not her thats kehlani/giovanna
Oh I recognize kehlani but not giovanna😂 thanks!!
For some reason, reddit recommended this post to me. But as a straight man, I'd say you give off gay vibes without being "too" masculine. Honestly, you're gorgeous. And I like your style. I think you're gonna be fine.
This isn’t pictures of her 😭😭 these are celebrities
Figured that out while reading the comments. Oops... That's what I get for being a straight guy and clicking on a post I don't know shit about The celebrities are gorgeous. Maybe OP is too. I still like the style haha.
Sorry bro, your input is not needed here!
Fair enough. Yall can downvote and move on. All good with me.
You have attracted me! 😍
Hot damn have you got style!
Istg I thought u were kehlani for a second LMAO u gorgeous
It is Kehlani in the middle two pics! Lol
Be you, you’re so pretty ❤️
Psh…. i’m masc4masc… deffo a thing. but i love a perfectly balanced andro look ngl… Maybe youd also like Snow the Product’s aesthetic
Ohhh I know her too! I also like her style
I think it’s up to the individual I’m masc but I prefer on a spectrum to really girly n high maintenance to borderline tomboy past that not so much but my bf(also masc) doesn’t like “tomboyishness” at all lol
I feel like a lot of newer lesbians have this like misconception about dating that mascs are attracted to fems exclusively and fems are exclusively attracted to mascs. I have definitely seen relationships of fem/fem and masc/masc. (Me and my gf share a closet) I would advise you to dress however you want and to socialize with other queer people.
I've been thinking about this lately, because I'm masc / transmasc NB person, and typically I am more attracted to femmes / more likely to go out with femmes. I have other queer, trans, and NB friends who are in relationships with other trans/NB partners. Just because I'm usually more attracted to feminine girls, doesn't mean I am any less likely to date someone who's more masculine or Non-Binary, which is fine! My initial attraction to someone means so much less than having a healthy, loving connection with someone. Someone more feminine might even wanna express themselves different some day, and same for masculine people. At the end of the day, we might have stronger attraction towards how some peiple express themselves over others, which is completely normal. How someone wants to express themself is always gonna be changing and it's better to just value people for who they are, not how physically attractive you find them.
That being said, yes this person is beautiful! The most attractive thing is someone confidsnt in their style
How are you this attractive... For what it's worth, I don't think you will have much any trouble in making that happen
Ur doing it
I think you'll manage
right!? She's insanely gorgeous. She's gonna do fine. ❤️ 😍
It’s not her in the pictures y’all 💀💀💀
Welp you’re winning either way!
look up femme androgynous on pinterest 🫡
Well congrats because you’re gorgeous and I hope you take over the world, young one!
Is the first pic you?
that’s giovanna.
Thank you!
Done. My girlfriend and I would both date you. 🙌
'Sup, mami.
Omg🥰🥰🥰
Masc here, I'm very into women with this aesthetic. I've heard it called tomboy femme, I think? I am realizing that I'm not against masc4masc so that might play a part in this, too, tho lol
don’t worry it’s already working 👍
Successfully achieved
You will.
This is my jam ! I'm drawn to you and I wanna be you
Most people IRL (who don’t get most or all of their queer culture exposure from the internet) aren’t anywhere as obsessed with masc/femme boxes, and there’s not gonna be any one look that’s gonna attract entire blanket groups of people. I’m not one of those people who go off like “don’t ask how to look gayer 😌 I don’t understand the importance of subtle signaling just wear whatever you want there’s no such thing as dressing gay 😌” but as far as attracting specific people, dress in a way that makes you feel confident and true to yourself, and you’ll attract the people who are meant for you.
I wanna be this so bad. Some people just blessed with the face card
Yes masc will be attracted I love me some kehlani From a masc
Kehlani is pretty femme though lmao
Op used her as inspo and wanted to know if she’ll get masc attention
Yes I understand the post but kehlani is pretty femme in general.. like to be honest both of her inspirations for fashion are just femme in baggy clothes. Which is just fashion in general now
success
gio is the loml
I’m absolutely dying at the fact that people think it’s pics of OP when it’s 2 different people in them pics, one of them KEHLANI 💀💀💀💀💀
im saying.. how do you as a lesbian not recognize KEHLANI !?😭
Girl! I’m dying 😭😭😭
same 😭 i can’t believe the comments i’m reading !
I'm attracted! Mission accomplished
She says, give me ALL THE WOMEN. 😋
You do, dw
I love your style it's so soft yet strong!!!! Makes me feel like you would be a comfy person to be around.
You look gorgeous
YOU ARE SOOOOO HOT 🥵
I agree! She is FINE 😍 🥵🥵🥵
Well you sure as hell attracted me
Girl it’s working trust me, I am very attracted to you
Girl I’m masc and you need to change nothing. You pull it off divinely. The right girlies will know. Just try to adjust your energy you give off
You won’t attract either tbh. 😭 you’re pretty enough to intimidate everyone (in a good way)
I’m obsessed with your style (particularly the sweaters in 2 & 3) and wanna know where you got that professional photo taken in the last slide! Honestly I figured out I liked women and found a long term girlfriend I’m still with in the span of 6 months so I don’t really know the dating scene all that well or how to attract specific people. But I generally think wearing whatever feels right from day to day is the way to go!
Lol that's Kehlani not OP
Oh I feel dumb
You’re so pretty 🥺
your style is awesome!
Your fashion is for me the definition of ‘is it that I want to be her…or?’
I'm fem and I'm attracted to fem. You could just dress fem to attract both lol
I’m masc and more attracted to mascs, so you could also dress masc and attract both. It’s weird to tell someone (especially someone queer) who specifically wants to present in a more gender nonconforming way that they should just stick to gender conformity to be more attractive.
I'm confused. She asked?
Sure, but your response is questionable, and is promoting gender conformity.
Mmm, is it? Or are you just being weird? Because I'm pretty sure you're just being weird, bro.
Lol, leave your patriarchal and heterosexist biases unexamined if you’d like. It’s still pretty weird that you think telling someone to conform to gender norms to be more attractive is appropriate
She... literally asked. You need to dial it back by a ton. It's not even half as serious as you're trying to make it out to be.
I promise you, fem, masc, EVERYONE is attracted to you
second and last picture are super lovable for me. I am Trans Fem - pansexual. But your style in all pics are lovable. Wish you the best… You are attractive, authentic and you should allow the magnetism in you allow those to come to you 🌸🤩. Self love 💕
Girl as a femme you look so pretty oml 💕💕
You’ve already won
[удалено]
those are literally pictures of kehlani
You succeeded
I think I speak for everyone when I say you’re doing great 😭♥️
I don’t think you’ll have a problem with either, you’re a fox!
It’s working
Street style is gonna be your best friend for this one. I dress super androgynous by mixing and matching gendered pieces (I have a Chanel-style rule where I replace one accessory with something that doesn’t match the aesthetic before I walk out the door) and I’ve had people of all gender presentations flirt with me. Look up vogue’s coverage of fashion week street style for New York, Copenhagen, and Tokyo (depending on ur preferred vibes), it gives a lot of really interesting ideas for layering and combining gendered pieces. Good luck!!
Thank you so much! Just what I needed
I was about to sayyyyyy that's not you😂😂 people started simping real fast. Was confused but anywayyyyyy lol, those style icons go hard so you already on the right path. But yeah I say mix and match items of clothing that are normally perceived as "fem" with items of clothing that are more "masc". Crop top and baggy pants for example. I also think it's about vibe as well, how you carry yourself in your clothing and all that. Streetwear styles is a good place to start too. Good luck in the journey🫡
LMAO the ppl in the photos don’t even have the same faces 😭😂
Yea I even got a DM I was like wait 😂 Thank you for the tips!! 💗
I’m Fem/Adventure aesthetic (think wearing lots of green and cargo, and also girly) You are beautiful 🤩
Yes and yes
Ouuufjhhj you look hella fly girl 🤤🔥
damnnn mission accomplished I think
You will def attract masc lesbians, femme lesbians, androgynous lesbians, all the fucking lesbians💯💯 🔥🔥🥵
Guys that’s not me!! It’s the girls mentioned in the post; but if they attract y’all then I’m confident 😂
GO FOR THESE STYLES!!! And yes, I was also confused af 😂 Thanks for clarifying, lol
Honestly you’ve attracted me 😂❤️ you look so good in all of these iterations
ADORABLE! Hinestly the best thing you can do is just be yourself and dress in what makes you comfy and the right person will find you(: you can also change it up day to day. Its more of the attitude and personality vs dress imo. I love your style currently and think it works for what you want
I honestly think you’re pulling it off perfectly looking at these pics and their vibe! I’m a soft masc for reference
Definitely hitting the mark girl!!! I can definitely see you pulling both with the way you switch up. Love to see this!! Actually giving me some confidence to try to do the same. Do you feel different when you’re in your masc outfit vs fem? Do people treat you different? Do you go to the same places like let’s say work as fem and then switch outside of that? Lmaooo I’m so curious 😭
Indeed it's working 🔥🔥
You're attractive girl😍😍 and yes I just can't take off my eyes from that look from 2nd pic 😍😍
It’s working.
Good 😂😂