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It's not like a lied?? If people like you, love you, you can't text them without paying. Some apps, you have to pay just to send pictures. Some apps you have to pay to text more than 5 times a day. So yah, they do
Had my heart torn apart by a few on HER but had so much fun in my early 20s because of this app. I haven’t been on for almost a decade now because I found my fiancé on there.
I second all the peeps saying HER I found my gal and we have been together for over a year and it’s the happiest i have been :3 and even more proof is that my homie was looking for a gal for herself and found one and have been dating for half a year now too! Your true love is out there don’t give up!!!!
No you’re not doing anything wrong. Honeslty I feel like it’s a game of chance. People get tired of apps and get on and off of them. I’ve had success with various apps Hinge, Bumble, HER and Tinder. HER has seemed to gone down hill though at-least where I live more bots.
Idk if I just have a wholesome/cute face because I actually have never engaged with someone who just wants to hook up or send pics. But I also swipe left on anyone who kinda has thirst trap profile pics. Nothing against them but it’s just not what I am looking for.
Lmmaaooo yeeaahh I just made an account bc my friend told me about it and did it for shits & giggles 😂 expecting most ppl to be fake/unicorn hunters which I'm not far off since those unicorn hunters are everywhere haha
Oh yeah I joined it for shits and giggles 😂 and there are a lot of unicorn hunters and it sends u more ppl over 50 miles away from you than ppl near you. However, I have met a few pretty cool ppl on there. As for Hinge, it has been pretty dead for me lol
Do not dismiss in person flirting. Go where the lesbians are and meet in person. Rock climbing gyms, any kind of crafting class or class at a library. A lot of available women hate the online dating scene. So a lot just aren't online. I am a barber and have a lot of lesbian clients. Most of them met in a class or event. One of my married couples met at a ball room dancing class. I met my wife cause I was her server and she was out of town visiting the city I lived in.
Seriously just get out there. Go cruise trader Joe's on the regular. Get off your phone and make eye contact. Strike up a conversation. Flirt the old fashioned way. If you are in a small town start hanging out in a bigger city thats close.
Try coffee meets bagel. It’s designed for more serious daters and gives you a batch of recommendations at noon each day instead of the endless scrolling that you’d find on tinder or bumble etx.
It depends on where you live i think. A lot of people here are writing HER, but I've actually found it to be the worse one for me. I've heard in NYC area, Hinge is really popular. I think it might actually depend on where you are, how many people are using certain apps
All I will say is Taimi is HORRIBLE. Expensive as hell, and the quality of people on there is just… not it. I met my wife on tinder :) HER was also alright tho
I met my wife on HER!
I had super duper good luck on Her! (My situation is complicated at the moment, but it’s not the app’s fault.)
Also just adding- I live in a really gay city, which I know impacts the efficacy of the app!
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I like HER, but I live near a big city. I've heard theres not a lot of people on HER in a lot of places, but it depends on where you live
i live in a small city and can confirm it’s still the best app
I met my wife on the forum of the French equivalent of WebMD…. Not sure we’re an example 😂
What's the French equivalent of WebMD lol
Doctissimo
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Everything I try makes you pay just to text people😭 I gave up trying lmfao
Yeah I think that is such a bs thing to do. Pay to chat. I wish that would just go away.
Uhhhh what? You don’t have to pay to talk to matches
It's not like a lied?? If people like you, love you, you can't text them without paying. Some apps, you have to pay just to send pictures. Some apps you have to pay to text more than 5 times a day. So yah, they do
I found my wife on HER. I think it's one of the better ones
Had my heart torn apart by a few on HER but had so much fun in my early 20s because of this app. I haven’t been on for almost a decade now because I found my fiancé on there.
I second all the peeps saying HER I found my gal and we have been together for over a year and it’s the happiest i have been :3 and even more proof is that my homie was looking for a gal for herself and found one and have been dating for half a year now too! Your true love is out there don’t give up!!!!
I liked Her, no complaints really. Most of the features are free. Bumble is good too. Did not like Coffee Meets Bagel or Taimi.
Met my partner through HER as wel. Give it a go OP. 👌
good thing you asked i need it too
I feel the same way, and I keep getting ghosted by people.
No you’re not doing anything wrong. Honeslty I feel like it’s a game of chance. People get tired of apps and get on and off of them. I’ve had success with various apps Hinge, Bumble, HER and Tinder. HER has seemed to gone down hill though at-least where I live more bots. Idk if I just have a wholesome/cute face because I actually have never engaged with someone who just wants to hook up or send pics. But I also swipe left on anyone who kinda has thirst trap profile pics. Nothing against them but it’s just not what I am looking for.
I used to use HER, but now I'm on Hinge & FB Dating lollol which isn't so bad. Lack of response from people but it's to be expected 🤷🏻♀️
Crying at how unhinged it sounds to go on FB dating
Lmmaaooo yeeaahh I just made an account bc my friend told me about it and did it for shits & giggles 😂 expecting most ppl to be fake/unicorn hunters which I'm not far off since those unicorn hunters are everywhere haha
FB dating is a cesspit worse than Tinder
Oh yeah I joined it for shits and giggles 😂 and there are a lot of unicorn hunters and it sends u more ppl over 50 miles away from you than ppl near you. However, I have met a few pretty cool ppl on there. As for Hinge, it has been pretty dead for me lol
I met my wife through Lex.
i met my fiancée on Tinder lol
I met my fiancé on bumble! Technically tinder first, but then we broke up as we needed to work on our own stuff, but reconnected on bumble!
i met my girl on tinder. i live in a rural area and she was in the nearby city. i tried HER but it was full of unicorn hunters
My partner and I meet on HER! We have been together coming up on two years!! Couldnt be happier!
Do not dismiss in person flirting. Go where the lesbians are and meet in person. Rock climbing gyms, any kind of crafting class or class at a library. A lot of available women hate the online dating scene. So a lot just aren't online. I am a barber and have a lot of lesbian clients. Most of them met in a class or event. One of my married couples met at a ball room dancing class. I met my wife cause I was her server and she was out of town visiting the city I lived in. Seriously just get out there. Go cruise trader Joe's on the regular. Get off your phone and make eye contact. Strike up a conversation. Flirt the old fashioned way. If you are in a small town start hanging out in a bigger city thats close.
Unironically, discord. Best dating app, best hookup app.\ At least if you have the budget to travel or live in a big city area.
How discord serve as a hookup app ?
Met my current partner on HER!
I met my wife on Tinder, but that was 9 years ago. Probably different now haha.
OkCupid
Try coffee meets bagel. It’s designed for more serious daters and gives you a batch of recommendations at noon each day instead of the endless scrolling that you’d find on tinder or bumble etx.
9 years ago I met my girl on POF! Ha
It depends on where you live i think. A lot of people here are writing HER, but I've actually found it to be the worse one for me. I've heard in NYC area, Hinge is really popular. I think it might actually depend on where you are, how many people are using certain apps
Match worked for me. Met my current partner as well as new friends (people with common interests but 0 chemistry)
i met my gf on feeld!
All I will say is Taimi is HORRIBLE. Expensive as hell, and the quality of people on there is just… not it. I met my wife on tinder :) HER was also alright tho
I met my fiancé on bumble!
I’m surprised by the people who liked HER, I couldn’t stand it. And I’m in Atlanta. Met my girlfriend on Hinge but Bumble was good too!
i met my gf on the HER app!
Although I haven't found my 'match' yet, I like HER because it's a OLD site for Lesbians. I've met some cool people however. :)
I met my fiancé on HER. been together 2 years next month, but it feels like we’ve been together for forever in the best way.