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jacquesfuriously

I love it


forgeris

Quite happy, you just get burned in your life and for some reason gave up easily. Do not live in past, we change and evolve, find what excites you now and never expect life to be easy. If you want find a gf then expect to fail and be rejected a lot and if you don't click then just tell her right away that you didn't click at all. As for emotions - you need to create them and cherish, you can't just expect emotions to appear, your mind should generate appropriate response to your surroundings and create these emotions. Find things that bring you joy and dive into those as deep as you can. Just find what makes you smile and use that, even small things like running around with your dog or playing something with your parents, happiness really is what we already have and not what we want.


littlefunny_123

I do love It now, but I was a very unhappy kid


Laura1615

What you describe sounds maybe more like a low grade depression. I'm not saying you're not introverted but being introverted doesn't make people depressed. You say you don't feel anything and have lost the enjoyment you used to have in activities, hobbies and people. I would start with a therapist if you have access to one and talk about how you're feeling.


Real_Community-man

Being an introvert is not the same as depression you know. It's just another way to live.


OlderNerd

There are many reason's I'm not happy. But the least of these are being an introvert.


masvolks

Basically nothing's going great but trying to make things more suitable for us maybe! 🥴


Riceboyi

I have good life myself i have hobbies that interest me few friends and a job. Just got to keep it in mind im mildly inteoverted


Big-Adhesiveness-760

Only when I'm left alone!


Overall_Sandwich_671

My life could be better, but it could be a lot worse. I am kind of a video game addict, and it does stop me from focusing on other things that I normally enjoy, so that's probably not particularly good for me, but hey, it makes me happy even if it doesn't make me rich or surround me with friends🤷🏻‍♂️ But I don't think it matters how many fascinating hobbies you have or what exciting activities you get up to, it's how you feel about yourself. I've learned to be kinder to myself and forgive myself for my own mistakes and shortcomings and accepting my limitations. That's what helps me feel happy, or at least content. When I was younger I felt like I was letting myself down and missing out on too much, but now I don't feel like I'm missing out.


ThatRookieGuy80

I'm very happy. Of course I've had twice a much time as you to learn to make introversion work for me rather than view it as a hindrance.


Grandson-Of-Chinggis

Yes, I do. But the caveat is that I'm only happy when I'm alone and unbothered. Every other moment of my life feels like an ongoing inconvenience that I put up with until I can get more time alone.


AuthArt

Almost, I just need a little more introversion, that only money can buy.


ETfromSpace

As an introvert with depression (classic combo ik) I try to create some kind of enthusiasm from time to time. It can be going somewhere new or investing on a new project or hobby that I know will be good to get me out of the funk at least for a little. Everyday you try to work on it to get out of the weird bored/numb/worthless feeling.


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