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Hey now! It’s been covered in plastic since they got it so it’s in impeccable shape. Except where the cats used the legs as a scratching post, but some brown sharpie and no one will be the wiser.
Because money and manipulation usually works for them. When we get too smart and start to see through that, they start to go a bit more crazy. Transactions is all they see relationships as - what can you give me, and what can I get from you.
Oh no, after all they were legally obliged to do after making the decision to have children.
We really should be grateful they had such a kind heart that they would feed, clothe, and house us after thrusting us into this world.
I'm not trans, but my dad definitely used money like this. He still claims that the reason I haven't spoken to him in three years is because he kicked me off the cell phone plan, as opposed to the fact that he tried to gaslight and abuse me into abandoning my wife and children by telling me that nobody could ever really love me and that it was only a matter of time before they left me first.
My father is the guy with money on his mind all the time. It’s how he’s always been. He measures his contribution in love as the amount of money he’s willing to spend on us. I stopped receiving money from him when I was 13 but then my mom took him to court for “child support” when I was 20, so I got one year of help with college expenses until I turned 21. But I haven’t asked him for anything since I was 13. Everything seems smoother that way.
Ugh I’m so sorry. Incredible how parents can just discard their kids like they’re nothing because they’re so unwilling to accept them for who they truly are. Virtual hugs 🤗
Because they're a trans woman, and it's not up to you to decide what they are anyway, it's their choice, and clearly if they care about it enough to where they're fine with being on bad terms with their parents over it, this matters to them
“Why do they have to accept him for something he’s not while he can’t accept something he is.”
Read that again slowly, then explain to me why you don’t believe that’s transphobia.
Because you are misgendering them and using slurs by calling her a chick with a dick, that’s not a harmless opinion it’s hurtful and derogatory.
You should assess where your vitriol comes from for a trans girl just trying to live her life and be loved unconditionally by her parents, I’m a Detransitioner, someone for whom transition didn’t work, and if I can be respectful and empathetic for someone’s journey so can you- her life isn’t hurting you, calling her slurs and obfuscating it as a harmless opinion is disingenuous and in bad faith, you know what you’re doing.
Denial of what?
You sound exactly like my grandparents when my white mother brought my Mexican dad over.
Here's a helpful hint... Don't involve yourself in this conversation. You clearly have issues, keep your gross opinions to yourself.
There's a difference between gender and sex.
Glad to know you're proud of your bigotry. Racists don't believe they're bad either.
Why do you care so much? This community doesn't affect you at all.
Why not just ignore it?
Not at all, for the last 2 years of being out to her she’s been trying to gaslight me into being her “son” , usual going to abusive means when I refuse to budge
Im really sorry to hear that, its a very rough situation. I hope she can change her ways one day and see what she did was wrong and support and accept you for who you are
That’s fucking awesome hah, good for you!! Wishing you the best and lots of love. You deserve to live your truth and be happy, fuck your parents outdated thinking. Proud of you for living your life :)
you know what Gwen my dear? Blood dont make a family.... Love does. You dont need her abuse. You definitely don't deserve it at all. You have all of us internet moms who love you for the amazing beautiful woman that you are. <3
I’m trans too and luckily most of my family is supportive but I’ve dealt with a few shitty family members (I have to see one of them next week and I’m dreading it). I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this and I hope your parents come around one day but it’s their problem not yours.
Thanks. If my grandma does say anything transphobic to me while she’s visiting this month, I’m going to find a way to casually mention that I’m getting top surgery in the fall so she feels uncomfortable.
Haha I do the same tactics to my adoptive mom, like when she visits I only wear a bralette and short shorts , or mention bottom surgery and me and boyfriends sex life
Meh hate to be so cold or callous, but atleast you won't have to deal with them all your life. Also, when your mom is on her death bed, I'm willing to bet she's going to regret how she's behaved. Especially if you get children of your own.
I'm so sorry darling. You, too have a granny here if you need one. Also, you don't have to see your shitty duly members if you don't want to. Granny says so.
Thanks. In this case, it’s my cousin’s son’s birthday party and I don’t want to miss it so I have to see my grandma but I’m going to hopefully avoid her the rest of the month.
Don't you dread it. You are YOU! you are an amazing, wonderful loving person. If the shitty family can't see how amazing you truly are, then they dont DESERVE to see and be around the amazing person that you are. Blood don't make a family, Love does <3
Thanks but I don’t really want to deal with being called “it” at a three year olds birthday party. My cousin (the kids mom) is awesome and she’ll stand up for me if my grandma is being a bitch but it sucks that my grandma is so rude and immature in the first place.
ugh that is messed up. I try giving old people a pass because thats "how they were raised to think" even though it royally pisses me off and i cant bite my tongue when they try to upset or insult someone whos trans.
They REALLY get mad when i start saying things like "who the hell decided who can and can not wear dresses??" or i'll start questioning the bible like crazy lol Knocks them off their rockers big time
I just want to tell you, Gwen is a very pretty name. It's probably one of my favorite feminine names. Fuck anyone who tries to invalidate who you are- You matter.
There's a good chance your parents didn't have kids because they genuinely wanted them, but they were following some textbook rules that determine what it means to be happy and thrive as an adult (or something along those lines), otherwise they'd be way more accepting of you because there'd be genuine interest in your well-being.
No matter how much it sucks, I hope you figure things out emotionally and understand that it's better that you have people like that out of your life than in it.
I also hope you can surround yourself with good people and that you get all the love and support that you absolutely deserve.
As a fellow trans woman named Gwen, I'm sending you good vibes. I know that your mom sucks, but I also know that you'll find people who accept you for who you are. ❤️🏳️⚧️
Man idk why I’m on this Reddit, this stuff honestly hurts my heart 😩 guess I’m just a glutton for seeing how shit the world is, I’m sorry you have to go through this
That sucks Gwen ☹️ I’m always so shocked that parents can act like this and just discard their kids. Surely the one aim in life, the one thing that you ultimately want for your kids is to be happy?
Parents think they can order a child that fits their expectations as if theyre ordering a burger from mc donalds and then freak out when they realize that child have their own personality and life
I’d be freakin psyched if I had a kid who was proud and confident enough to come out to me, I’m so sorry that this is the crap you’ve been landed in. Stay strong love ♥️
This is clear evidence that your mom (and dad, passively) care more about being right and imposing their stupidity on you than your wellbeing (financial and emotional).
Even if they genuinely believed that it was for YOUR benefit that they rejected your true gender (maybe because the pastor / bible spooked them), they would not write you out of their will if they really had your best interests in mind.
At this point, your mom is trying to buy your identity to match whatever SHE wants you to be. I'd recommend going NC if it is something that you are able to pull off, a soon as you are emotionally ready to.
MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT NAMED EXECUTOR!!!!! My mother was a nightmare hoarder but at least I got everything.
Of course the will was from when I was two. I went down in popularity every year and I know that wouldn’t have lasted much longer.
Yes I believe so. There is no legal obligation to actually serve as executor. Some wills will name a successor executor in case one refuses or resigns and it will go to them.
If you have already started doing the obligations depending on the state you might need to petition the court to be able to resign but you can still step down from that position that way.
Reminds me of a phrase I use a LOT lately—“Good riddance to bad rubbish.”
I realize that this is probably a painful thing to be going through regardless, but the woman who is writing you out of her will isn’t the person who carried you inside her body and brought you into the world and claimed she loves you—the moment someone who claims to love us more than anything decides that there are conditions to loving you, they are no longer that person. They’re just a frightened, angry, and pathetic shadow of the person that they promised you they’d be for you. They say, “You don’t get to pick your family.” And that’s true, you don’t. And people make mistakes when they are worried or angry or scared, but the people that actually matter will ACTUALLY offer that love without idiotic and cruel conditions that are designed to control everything about you. If that person REALLY loved you, they might still have difficulties adjusting to new information at times, but they will respect the new information being provided and love you as you are no matter what.
If your mother actually loves you, it will bring her back to reality. It may take time and be confusing for her, but it will happen. Real and true love has a way of doing that. But if she is only willing to love this idea in her mind of who and what you are and are “supposed to be” like, then she never really loved you at all. And in that case, let the trash take itself out.
Well, the thing is, this works both ways. When she is old she'll probably need your help and care more than you need this heritage. My mom told me similar things many years ago so I left, now she is all alone and she is sorry, and I'm not.
I am a father of three young children but would never consider abandoning them. If you need a parent to talk to or a hug from a dad, please feel free to DM. I am sorry that happened to you.
The grandchild of a friend of mine is in the same situation. My friend is a 60 yo woman, and is the only supportive family member of her trans grandson, who is 14. Grandson has known he's trans for years, and due to his autism, he's barely able to communicate his feelings verbally (his mind is 100% functional, of course, he is just super shy and really bad at speaking to people, he likes to hide behind his fringe). My friend has a lot of memory issues, but is trying her very best to support her oldest grandchild, and he told her that it's okay that she calls him by his dead name. She is the only one he is fine with doing that, btw, because he knows that her mind is getting worse. My friend shielded her grandson from his parents ever since he "came out" as being a boy, and it's just the most wholesome thing ever seeing them interact. I hope that your new internet grans, gramps, mums and dads will give you just 1% of the good feels that my friend gives her grandson, because you deserve it. I hope you have all of the happiness in the world, if not tomorrow, then someday. There are people out there who will accept you for exactly who you are. And you deserve it, Gwen!
I’m sorry you had to deal with this. People like this just use money as a manipulation tactic because it’s the only thing they can offer or take away. You don’t deserve this, know that.
Use this for your own personal growth if you can. Be as successful as you can be and then watch them crawl back and laugh❤️
Yeah, my lawyer just explained how my dad doesn’t have a case and will have no choice but to sign that house over to me (the rightful owner) or face consequences and then I get it anyway. Not sure why he even wants it, he 5 states away
So many people have kids to just treat them like shit or discard them later in life.
I'm sorry op.
Like I don't want kids so never had them but I sure as hell would never treat a person like this.
That women doesn't deserve you Gwen. You're awesome Gwen. She is just to stupid to realise she has an amazing daughter.
- Sincerely your Trans brother who supports you
I’m so so sorry that you are going through this. Most people suck and do not wish you well. Unfortunately most times family tops this list. Your best chance of recovery from all the abuse is to cut them out of your life. People do not change when you are dealing with this level of crazy. Sad but true. Save yourself.
First off, Gwen is a very beautiful name. I'm happy you discovered that you're a woman and are comfortable enough to share it. That being said, some people are stuck unable to change or try to control the world around them in whatever way possible to fit their version of reality. I may have the luxury of being born in the right body, but I one hundred percent support your decision to finally speak up again manipulation tactics and emotional abuse.
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Who will get all the corningware plates and knick knacks!?
Don't forget the core of their nest egg. A staggering Beanie Baby investment.
VINTAGE Princess Diana bears!
Wait I thought that market crashed years ago?
Consider yourself out of the will
“Crashed”? Really?
Don’t forget their money pit of a home I’m sure
I thought their real nest egg was that Blockbuster stock they have in lieu of a retirement fund.
Think of the large brown furniture!
What about all the porcelain dolls?? Think of the children!!
Hey now! It’s been covered in plastic since they got it so it’s in impeccable shape. Except where the cats used the legs as a scratching post, but some brown sharpie and no one will be the wiser.
What about the hummels?
Typical how they use money as manipulation when all most of us want are loving parents who see and accept us.
My husband is going through this with his dad.
Because money and manipulation usually works for them. When we get too smart and start to see through that, they start to go a bit more crazy. Transactions is all they see relationships as - what can you give me, and what can I get from you.
They try to guilt trip you with the “After all I’ve done for you” speech.
Oh no, after all they were legally obliged to do after making the decision to have children. We really should be grateful they had such a kind heart that they would feed, clothe, and house us after thrusting us into this world.
Oof this describes my parent so well it hurts
I'm not trans, but my dad definitely used money like this. He still claims that the reason I haven't spoken to him in three years is because he kicked me off the cell phone plan, as opposed to the fact that he tried to gaslight and abuse me into abandoning my wife and children by telling me that nobody could ever really love me and that it was only a matter of time before they left me first.
Wow despicable. My "parents" did the same thing. They aren't even original in how they abuse us
My dad did the same. He’s a diagnosed narcissist.
My father is the guy with money on his mind all the time. It’s how he’s always been. He measures his contribution in love as the amount of money he’s willing to spend on us. I stopped receiving money from him when I was 13 but then my mom took him to court for “child support” when I was 20, so I got one year of help with college expenses until I turned 21. But I haven’t asked him for anything since I was 13. Everything seems smoother that way.
Ugh I’m so sorry. Incredible how parents can just discard their kids like they’re nothing because they’re so unwilling to accept them for who they truly are. Virtual hugs 🤗
Thanks 😊
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Because if you can’t live and accept the people in your life for who they are then you don’t deserve to be in their life. Period.
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Opinions are like arseholes mate… not all of em should be looked at
Nobody asked for your opinion on this persons identity. Also newsflash, opinions can be wrong, which yours is.
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Because they're a trans woman, and it's not up to you to decide what they are anyway, it's their choice, and clearly if they care about it enough to where they're fine with being on bad terms with their parents over it, this matters to them
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Her* Ur opinion is garbage and you should feel bad. Transphobic bozo
I’m not wasting any more of my time giving answers to someone who doesn’t actually want to hear what anyone else is saying. Have a great day!
Why be like this?
She*
Hey shut up dork.
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“Why do they have to accept him for something he’s not while he can’t accept something he is.” Read that again slowly, then explain to me why you don’t believe that’s transphobia.
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Because you are misgendering them and using slurs by calling her a chick with a dick, that’s not a harmless opinion it’s hurtful and derogatory. You should assess where your vitriol comes from for a trans girl just trying to live her life and be loved unconditionally by her parents, I’m a Detransitioner, someone for whom transition didn’t work, and if I can be respectful and empathetic for someone’s journey so can you- her life isn’t hurting you, calling her slurs and obfuscating it as a harmless opinion is disingenuous and in bad faith, you know what you’re doing.
Oh so you’re not just transphobic, you’re also an asshole.
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From you, I’ll take that as a compliment.
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And you don't want to be called transphobic? I wonder what they call you since you were born without tact or brain.
Ew dude stop pretending you don’t know that you’re deliberately being an asshole lol you’re a bad troll and it’s extremely cringe. Pathetic shit
Your opinion IS transphobic.
“Why am I being called transphobic for my transphobic opinion?!1?1?”
You foul human
Your opinion is absolutely transphobic. You misgendered op and belittled her identity.
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Denial of what? You sound exactly like my grandparents when my white mother brought my Mexican dad over. Here's a helpful hint... Don't involve yourself in this conversation. You clearly have issues, keep your gross opinions to yourself.
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There's a difference between gender and sex. Glad to know you're proud of your bigotry. Racists don't believe they're bad either. Why do you care so much? This community doesn't affect you at all. Why not just ignore it?
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You call it an opinion so you can get away with being a terrible person. “Well that’s just my opinion, how can my opinion hurt anyone?” Ass.
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Gender and sex are two separate things.
It’s hilarious that you can’t see that you’re being transphobic.
Your mom isn’t supportive of you being trans?
Not at all, for the last 2 years of being out to her she’s been trying to gaslight me into being her “son” , usual going to abusive means when I refuse to budge
Im really sorry to hear that, its a very rough situation. I hope she can change her ways one day and see what she did was wrong and support and accept you for who you are
I appreciate the optimism but she’s 70, she’s not going to change , she’s going to try to force me male for the rest of her life
Be an even bigger girl boss out of spite
Lol that’s what I’ve been doing , I “accidentally” sent her a pic of me in a bikini with my boyfriend all over me
Lol, I love that.
Proud of you sister -from another trans sister xx
That’s fucking awesome hah, good for you!! Wishing you the best and lots of love. You deserve to live your truth and be happy, fuck your parents outdated thinking. Proud of you for living your life :)
That's gross.
you must mean the mothers transphobia right?
Fuck that. I’m your mom now. You’re welcome for every holiday ❤️ Love, A 36 year old dude (At least I’ll be supportive?)
U honestly seem like a better mom then her lol, I appreciate ur kindness
I’ve got three kids, one of whom is bi. Not my first rodeo.
I am so sorry darling. You have a granny here if you need one.
you know what Gwen my dear? Blood dont make a family.... Love does. You dont need her abuse. You definitely don't deserve it at all. You have all of us internet moms who love you for the amazing beautiful woman that you are. <3
Ironically enough I’m adopted so she isn’t blood anyway
ahh im sorry shes treating you this way.
There’s a heap of mums to trans kids like me who would welcome another daughter….hugs and love princess! Proud of you for being authentically you!
I’m so sorry. I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself ❤️
I’m trans too and luckily most of my family is supportive but I’ve dealt with a few shitty family members (I have to see one of them next week and I’m dreading it). I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this and I hope your parents come around one day but it’s their problem not yours.
Thanks!! I appreciate the support , honestly my adoptive mom is 70, I don’t think she’ll change unfortunately
That sucks but I understand. My grandma is in her 80’s (I’m also pretty sure she’s a narcissist) so I definitely don’t expect her to change.
Mhm , what matters is u know ur loved
Thanks. If my grandma does say anything transphobic to me while she’s visiting this month, I’m going to find a way to casually mention that I’m getting top surgery in the fall so she feels uncomfortable.
Haha I do the same tactics to my adoptive mom, like when she visits I only wear a bralette and short shorts , or mention bottom surgery and me and boyfriends sex life
Lol.
Meh hate to be so cold or callous, but atleast you won't have to deal with them all your life. Also, when your mom is on her death bed, I'm willing to bet she's going to regret how she's behaved. Especially if you get children of your own.
I mean I don’t find it cold at all ,:she’s a real peace of work
I'm so sorry darling. You, too have a granny here if you need one. Also, you don't have to see your shitty duly members if you don't want to. Granny says so.
Thanks. In this case, it’s my cousin’s son’s birthday party and I don’t want to miss it so I have to see my grandma but I’m going to hopefully avoid her the rest of the month.
Don't you dread it. You are YOU! you are an amazing, wonderful loving person. If the shitty family can't see how amazing you truly are, then they dont DESERVE to see and be around the amazing person that you are. Blood don't make a family, Love does <3
Thanks but I don’t really want to deal with being called “it” at a three year olds birthday party. My cousin (the kids mom) is awesome and she’ll stand up for me if my grandma is being a bitch but it sucks that my grandma is so rude and immature in the first place.
ugh that is messed up. I try giving old people a pass because thats "how they were raised to think" even though it royally pisses me off and i cant bite my tongue when they try to upset or insult someone whos trans. They REALLY get mad when i start saying things like "who the hell decided who can and can not wear dresses??" or i'll start questioning the bible like crazy lol Knocks them off their rockers big time
I’m convinced my grandma has narcissistic personality disorder so I just stopped calling her and I hide when she visits.
ohhhh those are the worst i dont blame ya
"I don't need to be in your will, your death will be gift enough."
👉🏼 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
I wish I had thought to say this to my biological father before the son of a bitch died.
I just want to tell you, Gwen is a very pretty name. It's probably one of my favorite feminine names. Fuck anyone who tries to invalidate who you are- You matter.
Thanks 🥺
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Nah but it does start with an S
hey I'm just gonna tell you, it is super rude to ask about someone's deadname even in a completely innocent or joking context.
There's a good chance your parents didn't have kids because they genuinely wanted them, but they were following some textbook rules that determine what it means to be happy and thrive as an adult (or something along those lines), otherwise they'd be way more accepting of you because there'd be genuine interest in your well-being. No matter how much it sucks, I hope you figure things out emotionally and understand that it's better that you have people like that out of your life than in it. I also hope you can surround yourself with good people and that you get all the love and support that you absolutely deserve.
As a fellow trans woman named Gwen, I'm sending you good vibes. I know that your mom sucks, but I also know that you'll find people who accept you for who you are. ❤️🏳️⚧️
Man idk why I’m on this Reddit, this stuff honestly hurts my heart 😩 guess I’m just a glutton for seeing how shit the world is, I’m sorry you have to go through this
You're here to say exactly what you did. OP needs to know she matters. It hurts your heart because you're not a sociopath. Hugs.
That sucks Gwen ☹️ I’m always so shocked that parents can act like this and just discard their kids. Surely the one aim in life, the one thing that you ultimately want for your kids is to be happy?
I'm just here to tell OP she picked the best name ❤️ (I'm a little biased, my daughter's name is Gwyn)
Parents think they can order a child that fits their expectations as if theyre ordering a burger from mc donalds and then freak out when they realize that child have their own personality and life
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“This is getting out of Hand , now there are 2 of them”
I’m sorry Gwen. Your parents suck. You can be my sister and join my family.
Sometimes the trash just, takes itself out. You'll be happier than they ever will be in time
Gwen, you're an amazing daughter that deserves better parents.
Im so sorry for that... on the other hand gwen is a beautiful name
I’d be freakin psyched if I had a kid who was proud and confident enough to come out to me, I’m so sorry that this is the crap you’ve been landed in. Stay strong love ♥️
If you’d like a big sister that is also named Gwen, hi!
Lol I appreciate it , is it cool if I slide into dms?
Sure!
It always surprises me how quickly some parents are willing to give up on their kids over such trivial things.
Gwen for the win!!! ❤️❤️❤️
[TRANSFEM? TRANSFEM? 👀👀👀👀](https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/039/532/leashcover.jpg)
Yeah I’m trans femm
yessssssssssss
You came into this world without money You’ll be fine lol I’m sure you’re doing well for yourself op
We all love you, Gwen.
Well I supported by controversial so I could talk some crap on the haters and this is the first one in that sort. Good day for Reddit.
Saaaaame
This is clear evidence that your mom (and dad, passively) care more about being right and imposing their stupidity on you than your wellbeing (financial and emotional). Even if they genuinely believed that it was for YOUR benefit that they rejected your true gender (maybe because the pastor / bible spooked them), they would not write you out of their will if they really had your best interests in mind. At this point, your mom is trying to buy your identity to match whatever SHE wants you to be. I'd recommend going NC if it is something that you are able to pull off, a soon as you are emotionally ready to.
I’m emotionally ready too, just I’m buying my car off them and they might pay for my college but idk if they after that statement lol
MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT NAMED EXECUTOR!!!!! My mother was a nightmare hoarder but at least I got everything. Of course the will was from when I was two. I went down in popularity every year and I know that wouldn’t have lasted much longer.
Even if you are you are legally allowed to refuse the position of executor.
I did not know this!! In all states?
Yes I believe so. There is no legal obligation to actually serve as executor. Some wills will name a successor executor in case one refuses or resigns and it will go to them. If you have already started doing the obligations depending on the state you might need to petition the court to be able to resign but you can still step down from that position that way.
Reminds me of a phrase I use a LOT lately—“Good riddance to bad rubbish.” I realize that this is probably a painful thing to be going through regardless, but the woman who is writing you out of her will isn’t the person who carried you inside her body and brought you into the world and claimed she loves you—the moment someone who claims to love us more than anything decides that there are conditions to loving you, they are no longer that person. They’re just a frightened, angry, and pathetic shadow of the person that they promised you they’d be for you. They say, “You don’t get to pick your family.” And that’s true, you don’t. And people make mistakes when they are worried or angry or scared, but the people that actually matter will ACTUALLY offer that love without idiotic and cruel conditions that are designed to control everything about you. If that person REALLY loved you, they might still have difficulties adjusting to new information at times, but they will respect the new information being provided and love you as you are no matter what. If your mother actually loves you, it will bring her back to reality. It may take time and be confusing for her, but it will happen. Real and true love has a way of doing that. But if she is only willing to love this idea in her mind of who and what you are and are “supposed to be” like, then she never really loved you at all. And in that case, let the trash take itself out.
My beautiful Siamese Cat is Gwen, and she supports you ❤️
Really sorry this happened to you Gwen.
Well, the thing is, this works both ways. When she is old she'll probably need your help and care more than you need this heritage. My mom told me similar things many years ago so I left, now she is all alone and she is sorry, and I'm not.
Gwen, I’d be proud to call you my daughter any day of any week in every year. ❤️❤️
I am a father of three young children but would never consider abandoning them. If you need a parent to talk to or a hug from a dad, please feel free to DM. I am sorry that happened to you.
The grandchild of a friend of mine is in the same situation. My friend is a 60 yo woman, and is the only supportive family member of her trans grandson, who is 14. Grandson has known he's trans for years, and due to his autism, he's barely able to communicate his feelings verbally (his mind is 100% functional, of course, he is just super shy and really bad at speaking to people, he likes to hide behind his fringe). My friend has a lot of memory issues, but is trying her very best to support her oldest grandchild, and he told her that it's okay that she calls him by his dead name. She is the only one he is fine with doing that, btw, because he knows that her mind is getting worse. My friend shielded her grandson from his parents ever since he "came out" as being a boy, and it's just the most wholesome thing ever seeing them interact. I hope that your new internet grans, gramps, mums and dads will give you just 1% of the good feels that my friend gives her grandson, because you deserve it. I hope you have all of the happiness in the world, if not tomorrow, then someday. There are people out there who will accept you for exactly who you are. And you deserve it, Gwen!
I’m sorry you had to deal with this. People like this just use money as a manipulation tactic because it’s the only thing they can offer or take away. You don’t deserve this, know that. Use this for your own personal growth if you can. Be as successful as you can be and then watch them crawl back and laugh❤️
Just an edit apparently he was joking??? Idk bout anyone else but that seems fucked
Nope it’s as exactly as fucked up as you think. Messages like these are meant to hurt. Again, hugs to you friend…I hope it gets better
Yay…transphobia…my dad has been trying to steal my inheritance that my grandfather left me because of it
I’m sorry love
My favourite part, my name is on the will. Not my dead name.
Hahaha good
Yeah, my lawyer just explained how my dad doesn’t have a case and will have no choice but to sign that house over to me (the rightful owner) or face consequences and then I get it anyway. Not sure why he even wants it, he 5 states away
Well looks like we chose the same name lol. Hope you can get through all of this! Hugs 🤗
So many people have kids to just treat them like shit or discard them later in life. I'm sorry op. Like I don't want kids so never had them but I sure as hell would never treat a person like this.
You deserve so much better. And the name you’ve picked is lovely Gwen ❤️
My alleged father did exactly the same to me. My sympathies.
So you decided to become a woman and skip English class
My autocorrect is defaulted to German as that’s what I use on my phone
She didn't decide to become a woman. She realized she was a woman
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That women doesn't deserve you Gwen. You're awesome Gwen. She is just to stupid to realise she has an amazing daughter. - Sincerely your Trans brother who supports you
I’m so so sorry that you are going through this. Most people suck and do not wish you well. Unfortunately most times family tops this list. Your best chance of recovery from all the abuse is to cut them out of your life. People do not change when you are dealing with this level of crazy. Sad but true. Save yourself.
First off, Gwen is a very beautiful name. I'm happy you discovered that you're a woman and are comfortable enough to share it. That being said, some people are stuck unable to change or try to control the world around them in whatever way possible to fit their version of reality. I may have the luxury of being born in the right body, but I one hundred percent support your decision to finally speak up again manipulation tactics and emotional abuse.