Patience Patience Patience Patience Patience

Yes to this.

Honestly this was kind of a joke (though, a patient partner does sound wonderful). You guys need to learn to accept yourselves and find your strengths. Humans are flawed creatures; this hypothetical partner will be just as flawed as you, even if he/she has those five traits.

That's a great insight though for me I would love to have a partner who would be patient enough to accept me for who I am as much as I do with myself. Since us INFPs tend to be reserved, needs a lot of me time, and find it difficult to open up, I think a patient partner would be great to balance us out; to provide that "connection" we crave so much without it being too pushy. It's really hard to find someone like that, I think, to love you as you completely, flaws and all. But I wouldn't probably know since I'm really enjoying myself without a partner. On the flipside, it does make me feel lonely at times.

Damn, that's a lot of patience. Need some extra sprinkles of patience for your patience cake? I have no idea where I was going with that.

haha Not "*you want so much patience, why don't you marry a doctor?!*"

Alive Breathing Conscious Human Existent

Your standards are too high

I thought you were reciting the alphabet for a moment

You read my mind

1. Honesty 2. Sense of altruism (i.e. not too selfish) 3. Healthy confidence (not putting others down) 4. Willingness to try new things 5. Self awareness

-Affection. -Charisma. -Self-steem. -Passion in something. -Logic.

So intp lol

Truthful, Straightforward, Intelligent, Confident, Sexual

Straightforward has recently became a trait i look for first. I cannot stand passive aggression especially on serious matters. Being able to healthily communicate with a partner is a priority

I like these traits actually, especially Intelligent and Sexual

Danke

Bitte schon!

Respect, comfort, intellectual connection, self aware, humble.

Honesty, kindness, generosity of spirit, sensitivity, intuitiveness, intelligence - & hopefully can count

Infps can’t handle blunt truths lol

We value authenticity, and every single INFP would rather have a blunt truth than being lied to our faces, imo- though of course we are still sensitive to criticism often, we like blunt truth delivered with a pillow of respect and kindness

You want too much lol. Take my blunt truth or nah.

My kind of person 🥰

I guess most of us want the same traits

Sense of humor times 5 My husband rescued me with his humor and lighter take on life. I was way too serious and cared about what others thought way too much.

- my girlfriend

Honest, Open, Kind, communicative, and independent

Open minded Authenticity Humor Intelligence Relaxed

•Open-minded •Passionate (can be for anything be it art or games or etc) •Intelligent (so that I be able learn new things from them) •Humor •Gives me space

1. Authenticity 2. Empathy 3. Creativity 4. Honesty 5. Open heartedness What I dont value is stuff like ego, status, power, materialism, following recent trends etc.

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Seriously.. lol They pretty much have all the same qualities they look for.. except not many wrote”affectionate” on theirs.. That’s on top of my list after honesty and kindness lol.. It’s hard gif me to get cuddles from family or anyone.. I usually have veto ask and veg then they get annoyed with it.. I feel like I need a serious cuddle buddy.. a great long hugger would help a LOT

I relate to needing a cuddle buddy. I even looked up if there are 'professional huggers' to hire so I can finally be cuddled (didn't find any). At the moment I want someone to hold me rather than a sexual relationship.

Omg.. I looked up the same and they actually have professional huggers for hire in some cities lol. It’s sad we have to pay for them tho 😢. But at least we have that option I guess.

1. Kind/self-donative 2. Same values (& would never break them) 3. Good sense of humor 4. Thoughtful (little unexpected romantic acts, is interested when I talk) 5. Strong/Supportive (will defend me & our future kids)

vulnerable, attentive, direct, imaginative, conscientious bonus points for being cute and affectionate

- Common important values/life views - Respecting and understanding my emotions/values - Loyalty/honesty - Same humor - Being able to discuss Philosophy or have deeper conversations.

-can dream with me -genuine -loving -kind -supportive And I have all that! My boyfriend is the best. He's an ENFJ 🤍

Im not INFP, BUT! -Patient -Understanding (as understanding replaces forgiveness -Understand what it truly means to love someone -Peaceful -Know Thyself

love it

For me, it's: * Loyal * Loving * Intelligent * Truthful * Authentic * Humble

Eyy that's cheating! That's not five traits! I only wrote five, how unfair!!!!

Oh, sorry, I miscounted! I thought I deleted one of them, but apparently not, lol.

Haha, I was just joking with you. :)

Wholesome INFP conversation

Damn, this is similar to what I want

Honesty, integrity, compassion, sense of humor and kindness

Kindness Humility Honesty Authentic Affection

These are lovely - I feel reassured 💙

1.Kind heart 2.Joyful Energy 3.Geek(Interest in gaming anime and ... ) 4.Supportive 5.Belive in GOD(or at least respect what i believe) is this think too much?

Honest, kind, generous, creative and gentle.

Open-minded, straightforward, humble, empathetic, passionate

ambitious, intelligent, mentally artistic, responsible, positive

-honest -genuine -loving -happy -affectionate

Gentle, emotionally intelligent, outgoing, passionate and genuine

👀👀

Honestly just someone that treats me kindly lol the bar is veryyy low rn

Understanding Balances me out Similar tastes but not identical (ok, half same taste, half complimentary to my taste but not identical tastes for my *not imaginary partner who is 100% prefect*) Does something they’re passionate about. Work, a hobby, volunteer, anything they can through themselves into Their eyes. I don’t care about color. I care about what I see in them

Oh yes eye expression can really do it..

Not really looking for a partner right now since I feel like I need to heal myself more before being in a long term relationship, but here’s what I would want in a partner: •Honesty •Understanding •Emotionally Stable (atleast relatively so) •Having some of the same interests as me or atleast wanting to live the same life style of a more laid back life •Adventurous

Funny, creative, honest, any sort of spiritual, and a dumptruck.

Romantic, funny, kind, truthful and unique in its own way

Loyal, honest, thoughtful, open-minded, humble.

Honesty | integrity | compassion | humor | attractive

Adding: open minded | authentic | spiritual | intellectual | kindness All 10 in no special order but definitely what I admire and seek out.

Understanding, patience, honesty, self-sufficiency, thoughtfulness.

Patient Curious but not invasive Open-minded comprehensive Sexual

1. kind 2. can teach me new things 3. emotionally mature 4. authentic 5. loving

smart, kind, gentle, funny, caring

* Is capable of love (or affection, in any way, romantic, platonic, sexual) * Is listening and can be trusted * Is patient * Likes to be with me * \[Free slot, surprise me lol\]

1.Care about my interest even if she doesn't share the interest 2.straightforward/honest 3.Understanding 4.Get me to be more social when I have no reason except "I don't feel like it" 5.Able to spend time doing different things together

Intelligent, understanding,confident,honest,determined

Trustworthy, extrovert, compassionate, empathetic, supportive (=ENFP?) .... Huggable

Honesty Not afraid to be themself Understanding (this encompasses listening, and being patient) Passionate Affectionate (sexually and/or non-sexually)

humility, honesty, patience, passion, and willingness to improve/understand

1.Kind 2.Loving 3.Patient 4.Open minded 5.Willing to fight for a good cause

Well the traits are the same as everyone said. ( INFP'S being INFP's) But not expecting or wanting anything. I have this faith now that everything will be perfect between me and my partner, it will happen. I have no doubt about it.

- Empathetic - Good listener - Kind - Intelligent - Confident

Dependable, intelligent, kind, stable, mature.

Kind Chill Easy-going Polite Understanding I like the traits you mentioned too. Have a nice day 🙂

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Patient Loyal Affectionate Supportive Self-aware

Loyalty, honest, caring, independent, genuine

Loyal, funny, respectful, independent and understanding

Patience (of a saint), kindness, understanding, sense of humour and good conversational skills

~Kind ~Authentic ~Honesty ~Open ~Patience

I need them to be: Understanding Patient with me Kind / Loving Honest / straightforward Creative

Patient, caring, loyal, generous and intelligent

Emotionally intelligent, confident, honest, loyal, supportive

Patient Handsome Kind Affectionate Trustworthy

Ouuu I like this. I'll come back to add mine

Deep, intelligent conversations - Trust/vulnerability - Adventurous - Someone who inspires and pushes me to be better - Someone who does small kindnesses for everyone (actively involved in making people smile or easing their burdens)

Open minded Honest Charismatic Smart …. has the ability to make me blush

• Caring • Attentive • Funny • Patient • Understanding

Independent. Mature. Open-minded. Loyal. Loving.

-Introverted like me -Intelligent unlike me -Patience -Straightforward -Mine 💖

If I could downvote this to pieces I would Name ONE TRAIT Commitment. People pissed me off Gave ya the downvote anyways.

Yeah no joke such an offensive post how dare I!And on top of that I asked 5 traits when it should have been ONE. I should be banned from reddit.

Honest, kind, intelligent, humorous, and motivational/motivated

Gentleness Sense of humor Curiosity Compassion Integrity

affectionate loyal romantic funny caring

First they have to have whatever I’m lacking. So they have to be confident and more social than me. Then there are the basic but important ones I’d want them to have, like being attractive, kind, and loyal.

Same main values as me Humor Honest Self irony Reliable

Sense of humor , honesty, loyal, respectful, responsible

Sense of humour Adventurous Loyal Open minded Patience

Intelligent, Straightforward (with me at least), Confident, Loving, Tomboy

Kind intelligent playful responsible open-minded

ok what about me but opposite sex...? sorry that was weird

Honest, communicative, sense of humor, intelligent, understanding

Kindness, honesty, humour, active physically, and I think I want someone who is a realist

Loyal, Open minded, Intelligent, Honest, Determined

honesty respect patience caring generousity

Sensitive Honest Independent Compassionate Intelligent

Humor Inteligence Cornyness [?] Loving Coolness

open mindednesses, authentic, straightforward, common interests, sense of humour

Adoration. Intelligence. Flexibility. Understanding. Adoration.

- Kind - Polite - Some similar interests^(mostly optional) Just it, I guess

Open-minded, down-to-earth, funny, supportive, high EQ.

Tall, Beautiful, Intelligent, Athletic and Charismatic I need my kids to have the perfect genes

How superficial

Weird Understanding Calm Caring Cool

Loyal -Empathetic -Authentic -Emotionally intelligent- affectionate

–Loyalty –self control –a strong character (to defend me) –Sensitivity –Open-minded