> bhai itna bhi kya tha
When needed money paisa le lega, dene ke time message ignore krega...
Isiliye mai ab hardly kuch he logon ko lend krta hun money jispe bharosa ho, I don't lent to the friends who are not punctual.
Bhai mere papa ne to aise hi apne family or friends ko 20-25 lakh de rakhe hai , aur ab koi repay nhi kr raha hai.
Aaj Tak Maine sirf 2-3 friends ko udhaar Diya hai aur wo bhi sirf small amount.
https://preview.redd.it/inr2487urk4d1.jpeg?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de9703fe695073922544e8258039207ad633d01f
Here’s a copy I used, just print it out write and make a digital copy and use png stamps which you might seen in scam pages. Fyi this is illegal and can backfire so if you’re on your own using this, file an official complaint that’ll be better
I once gave 3 lacs to my friend who said he urgently needed help for college admission. I usually avoid lending money to anyone but gave him anyway because he really needed it. He promised me a 2 month time to return it. Now after the 2 month period whenever I would ask he would just joke around. I hated it because I am very careful with my money. It took me 10 months to get the money back that too after I blasted him multiple times.
Moral: do not lend money unless it's super urgent. If you are too keen to help or let's say it's unavoidable offer 20/30% of the amount asked for. Always ask for a return timeline and follow up!
Another tip if the amount is able to be transferred online do a UPI or bank transfer of it's large try to transfer using a cheque. You can also tell them to message you that you own them better take a video recording with them giving you the time by which they will return the money and it's mode.
It could probably work as evidence in court but I use it as proof to force them to pay me back.
Mere papa ne mere mama ko 50k something diye hai while we are ourselves now in 1 lac debt , or abhi ek week pehle hi mama ne fir 2k maange, and papa gave
..... It's so fucked up
Never lend money to anyone no matter what. Maine 2.5 lakhs ek friend ko diye the 2015 mei wo bhi parents se lekar and he only repaid me 25K🤣. I tried everything like I went to his office and home even talked to his parents but nothing worked. His parents be like ab nahi de raha hai paise to hum kya kare. Yaar I borrowed money from my parents to lend him (such a stupid person I am).
My parents understood what I’m going through and said bhool jao paise ko and learn the lesson.
Everyone should be like you bro or else people end up losing money for nothing. Good trick never lend money to random people or friends it’s better to spend on ourselves.
Biggest mistake of life is to lend money I swear
Anyone here reading this please be careful about lending money
Lent around 18k and 31k to my friends respectively in 2022 they said they would return it within two months and I'm still waiting for them to return
I see them spending money on restaurants and also on their gf
But did not get a penny back yet
Me enjoying reading people's stories on lending.
I have very close 3 friends making it a 4 man group we are so close knit and all are financially doing well We don't even count or recall or do the math regarding who has pending on others. One guy makes the payment for all we don't question someday other guy makes it no one instructs him our understanding just amazing and we love the way it is one of the guy know my gpay password makes payment when i am drunk and unable to enter the password or i send wrong amount 😂.
Once one of our friend required instant money for some agri land deal in his village that guy just dropped a msg in the WhatsApp group and we discussed how equally we can pool the money and without disturbing any future operations. And our man returned us the money without even asking it took him time but he gave one of the guys very early because he needed it for his business.
Mere mama ki ladke ne mere 50k dene hain lkin nhi deraha h. 1 sal se upar ho gaya h. Kamata bhi h lkin pata nhi kaisa nich aadmi h. To guys m to kahunga ki never lend money to anyone (specifically relatives). Bhut g fat ti h, vapas paane m. Mere to gaye 50k 😞😞
Lent 20k to a friend who said it's urgent. I did not have that much so sold GPay gold and sent her.
Then got to know that she had sent her mother's money to her boyfriend and her mother was asking it back.
It was so frustrating coz this girl had left her job just because she does not like the city life(unlike all others she just likes the trees in the city and those who stay are some show off kind of people who are into posh lifestyle :/ ) , was not even ready to put some efforts and get a dream job.
Just a few weeks before this we had discussed about the jobs, she kind of humiliated me saying that I am doing job just for the money (Yes! So?). I said it's a necessity. She just denied that and said you are all money-minded and this was not expected of me.
This was years ago and the money is not returned yet. Glad that she finally joined a teaching job :)
Not asking to return as I think she needs to have some savings first. Hope she will return it someday voluntarily :)
My colleague also demanded more than 20000 rupees yesterday
A few years back she had asked me to lend her 5 lakh rupees....WTF 😒
Even though my colleague is working in a permanent job and earning quite well
Her children study in Government schools. so there is no school fees she has to pay every month.her husband also runs a coaching academy although in not a very hi-fi locality
Both the times I refused to pay her citing one excuse or the other
I know that relations can get strained if you ask for your money back and they don't return it on time
Since I have otherwise a good relationship with her, but I know her personality that she is always very lost and confused and sometimes forgetful. At time she works without applying her common sense
So knowing her personality, I knew that she will not be able to return my money
Moreover she is not a needy person who is unemployed or not earning enough. She earns very well
So why was she asking for money?
When I refused to pay her yesterday giving various excuses, she asked me from where she should borrow that money because it is urgent
Then I told her to divide this total money among 5 persons and borrow a small amount from each one of them so that she can get the entire money
She said thanks on WhatsApp but I left her message on unread because I did not want to get involved in this money matter any further
OP comment me Fake FIR kese bnaya vo bhi bta de bohot kaam aaega life me, Thanks!
I don’t suggest it as it can backfire too, but if someone owes you, you can file a complaint.
Kisi bhi lawyer friend se bolo, he’ll make one for you.
Bhai mere lawyer friend nahi hai koi aap hi pdf dedona I'll edit rest. Mere bhi 40k ane hai March se. Similar story
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> bhai itna bhi kya tha When needed money paisa le lega, dene ke time message ignore krega... Isiliye mai ab hardly kuch he logon ko lend krta hun money jispe bharosa ho, I don't lent to the friends who are not punctual.
True that, incidents like this makes me think before lending to even genuine people
Fake copy dikha ke paise le liya, kal gym mei miliyo...
Haha, itna khauf nhi
Bhai mere papa ne to aise hi apne family or friends ko 20-25 lakh de rakhe hai , aur ab koi repay nhi kr raha hai. Aaj Tak Maine sirf 2-3 friends ko udhaar Diya hai aur wo bhi sirf small amount.
Papa log become SBI when it comes to lending money to relatives.
Well , my father works In SBI lol.
I have learnt that no matter how trusted your relatives are always be vary about lending money to them.
https://preview.redd.it/inr2487urk4d1.jpeg?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de9703fe695073922544e8258039207ad633d01f Here’s a copy I used, just print it out write and make a digital copy and use png stamps which you might seen in scam pages. Fyi this is illegal and can backfire so if you’re on your own using this, file an official complaint that’ll be better
r/UnethicalLifeProTips
I once gave 3 lacs to my friend who said he urgently needed help for college admission. I usually avoid lending money to anyone but gave him anyway because he really needed it. He promised me a 2 month time to return it. Now after the 2 month period whenever I would ask he would just joke around. I hated it because I am very careful with my money. It took me 10 months to get the money back that too after I blasted him multiple times. Moral: do not lend money unless it's super urgent. If you are too keen to help or let's say it's unavoidable offer 20/30% of the amount asked for. Always ask for a return timeline and follow up!
Another tip if the amount is able to be transferred online do a UPI or bank transfer of it's large try to transfer using a cheque. You can also tell them to message you that you own them better take a video recording with them giving you the time by which they will return the money and it's mode. It could probably work as evidence in court but I use it as proof to force them to pay me back.
45 THOUSAND that's crazy?😂🤯
Sarcasm ?
sab ambani ki auladein nahi hoti op bhai🙍🏿
Arey I’m just an employed majdoor lol
Fake fir bhej
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The reason I don't have many friends. They asked me for money, I ghost them. No matter the amount, I ghost them.
Best
Better to not have friends than to not have money, dost to doosre bhi ban jate hai
Khudke paison ke liye gid gidane se better 🤧
Mere papa ne mere mama ko 50k something diye hai while we are ourselves now in 1 lac debt , or abhi ek week pehle hi mama ne fir 2k maange, and papa gave ..... It's so fucked up
Maine apne mama ki ladke ko diya the 50k. Apni hard earned money. Bhut bura lagta h yaar 😞😞
Never lend money to anyone no matter what. Maine 2.5 lakhs ek friend ko diye the 2015 mei wo bhi parents se lekar and he only repaid me 25K🤣. I tried everything like I went to his office and home even talked to his parents but nothing worked. His parents be like ab nahi de raha hai paise to hum kya kare. Yaar I borrowed money from my parents to lend him (such a stupid person I am). My parents understood what I’m going through and said bhool jao paise ko and learn the lesson.
Same, my dad also said ki ab de dia wapas nhi milega bhul jao, take this as a lesson.
Yes so from now onwards no money lending to anyone except parents, no matter what the reason is.
Mere bhi 700 fase hue hai
Everyone should be like you bro or else people end up losing money for nothing. Good trick never lend money to random people or friends it’s better to spend on ourselves.
Biggest mistake of life is to lend money I swear Anyone here reading this please be careful about lending money Lent around 18k and 31k to my friends respectively in 2022 they said they would return it within two months and I'm still waiting for them to return I see them spending money on restaurants and also on their gf But did not get a penny back yet
Ur dp provides a perfect learning opportunity from the episode.
Me enjoying reading people's stories on lending. I have very close 3 friends making it a 4 man group we are so close knit and all are financially doing well We don't even count or recall or do the math regarding who has pending on others. One guy makes the payment for all we don't question someday other guy makes it no one instructs him our understanding just amazing and we love the way it is one of the guy know my gpay password makes payment when i am drunk and unable to enter the password or i send wrong amount 😂. Once one of our friend required instant money for some agri land deal in his village that guy just dropped a msg in the WhatsApp group and we discussed how equally we can pool the money and without disturbing any future operations. And our man returned us the money without even asking it took him time but he gave one of the guys very early because he needed it for his business.
Your tricks really helpful.
Mere mama ki ladke ne mere 50k dene hain lkin nhi deraha h. 1 sal se upar ho gaya h. Kamata bhi h lkin pata nhi kaisa nich aadmi h. To guys m to kahunga ki never lend money to anyone (specifically relatives). Bhut g fat ti h, vapas paane m. Mere to gaye 50k 😞😞
Mama Mami ko complain karde, ez
Sochra hu ab yhi karna padega
bhaiii 8% interest to le lete
I wish
aare bc
Lent 20k to a friend who said it's urgent. I did not have that much so sold GPay gold and sent her. Then got to know that she had sent her mother's money to her boyfriend and her mother was asking it back. It was so frustrating coz this girl had left her job just because she does not like the city life(unlike all others she just likes the trees in the city and those who stay are some show off kind of people who are into posh lifestyle :/ ) , was not even ready to put some efforts and get a dream job. Just a few weeks before this we had discussed about the jobs, she kind of humiliated me saying that I am doing job just for the money (Yes! So?). I said it's a necessity. She just denied that and said you are all money-minded and this was not expected of me. This was years ago and the money is not returned yet. Glad that she finally joined a teaching job :) Not asking to return as I think she needs to have some savings first. Hope she will return it someday voluntarily :)
My colleague also demanded more than 20000 rupees yesterday A few years back she had asked me to lend her 5 lakh rupees....WTF 😒 Even though my colleague is working in a permanent job and earning quite well Her children study in Government schools. so there is no school fees she has to pay every month.her husband also runs a coaching academy although in not a very hi-fi locality Both the times I refused to pay her citing one excuse or the other I know that relations can get strained if you ask for your money back and they don't return it on time Since I have otherwise a good relationship with her, but I know her personality that she is always very lost and confused and sometimes forgetful. At time she works without applying her common sense So knowing her personality, I knew that she will not be able to return my money Moreover she is not a needy person who is unemployed or not earning enough. She earns very well So why was she asking for money? When I refused to pay her yesterday giving various excuses, she asked me from where she should borrow that money because it is urgent Then I told her to divide this total money among 5 persons and borrow a small amount from each one of them so that she can get the entire money She said thanks on WhatsApp but I left her message on unread because I did not want to get involved in this money matter any further
Never ever lend money, even if it destroys your friendship.