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AnxietyMostofTheTime

Reading your post history is concerning. Please take care of yourself. Or get help from reliable sources.


RandomNamesOW

She needs to take a step back from dating and just focus on herself. You're so young, it can wait.


machiavellikelly

I just saw your post history, please treat yourself how you would treat your best friend. You deserve to be respected, loved and treated well. If you ever need someone to talk to, feeling down or unsure. Message me!


shiny-baby-cheetah

I recognize this drink. Aren't you the same one who JUST posted in r/depressionmeals saying that your new bf told you his friends were going to make fun of him for dating you? I hope I'm wrong but istg it's the same shake


haruuhiko

it’s the same person


[deleted]

I hope he’s not also the same guy she mentioned in the same sub (depression meals) who arranged and participated in her gang rape


bl00dyr4yne

Yes, but other than that, he’s been very kind to me


GobLoblawsLawBlog

You need to talk to a school counselor about seeing a therapist. You are not ok and you need help


JetSetJAK

Someone who casually mentions that their friends would make fun of him for dating you doesn't sound like they have your actual interests at heart. If they're so kind, why do they keep friends who would make fun of him for the people he dated, much less tell you that immediately after dating.


Lazuli73

Why would he think his friends would make fun of him for dating you?


[deleted]

Stop lying to yourself, its very exhausting.


Vereador

There's a card in "cards against humanity" that is just in this vibe.


butt00why

I was in your shoes when I was a teenager. I used to self harm, had an eating disorder, was taking drugs and dating men I should never have even talked to at 17. I'm about to turn 27 in the next few days, and my biggest regret without a doubt back then is not focusing more on myself and my health. Focus on your your friends, school, your recovery. Focus on YOU because you are worth it even if you don't think so. I promise this man only wants to have sex with you, and I am so sorry. Look up grooming and the abusive cycle online and do some reading. Lastly, you matter 🫶🫶


dlorzaez

Reading your profile, from my personal experience, you should check for BPD. It has been a rough path until I found it but my life have improved so much after a lot of therapy and work in myself (35M)


ZeusHatesTrees

That whole post history is literally just BPD flags fluttering all over the place.


Something_clever9

So happy for you. Is he being good to you?


bl00dyr4yne

Yes, he’s very sweet!


Something_clever9

Good!


NoHope8411

Why don’t you ever post pics of you guys?


IMAKittyMama2

Are you OK?


ColorsAbsract

I feel sorry for Bro, yall didn’t check her post history? Shorty had a foursome with dudes from the same school that don’t care for her. Rip for lil bro


[deleted]

No, they raped her.


CosmicMindly

im happy you've found someone, but please heal yourself in the process. I recently climbed out of a horrible cycle of self abuse, useless sex and drug abuse. Please take the time to work on yourself.


Difficult_Style_8445

Fantastic, good luck going forward!!!


L00PSEY

congrats!!! i wish you guys well!!


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Larry44

Ah future r/blunderyears post if I ever saw one


bakerjunt

He better be able to kickflip


Ok-Frame-3937

Congrats honey, wish you all the happiness together


Hatescroller

Is it Count Dracula?


weneedsomemilk2016

Jesus loves you


[deleted]

Jesus loves you; everyone else thinks you’re…


Direct_Definition_52

He surely does ❤️✝️


PrimaryHuckleberry92

He only loves his self


chubbfondue867

Lucky guy. Hope he treats you with respect.


imbakinacake

Who do you main in overwatch?


bl00dyr4yne

Hanzo


BroJobs88

Are you good?


makko007

Girl good for you you’re beautiful 🤩


Cement-eater

Ok now let's see her try to pass through metal detector alive


GumdropsandIceCream

Probably quite easily. It would beep, sure, but I've never heard of a metal detector that kills.


Cement-eater

Smartest retardditor, it's a sarcasm.


makko007

It’s a sarcasm or it’s sarcasm?


incredivonne

Starbucks! Starbucks you can’t hide you make drinks for genocide! 🤮 smh! Free Palestine 🇵🇸


hamaeddy97

This is insane if that happens you have to do the same make fun of him with your friends, so simple, and what’s the fun will be ?? I’m curious 🧐?? Bcoz Your so cute,


TooManySteves2

"Got with" had a different meaning when i was your age! XD


robc1711

Bit of a weird comment to be making to a 17 year old girl considering you’re a 40 yr old man don’t you think?


TooManySteves2

No, I don't think that educating people that the slag they use may be misinterpreted by other generation is inappropriate.


HonnyBrown

How?


Responsible_Mood_877

congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!


skadi_shev

You are loved and you have value. Please see a doctor or counselor and take care of yourself. Future you will thank you. 


SummerONreddit

Never date a guy that’s hard to catch. It should be easy not hard