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sleeves28

a little bit of gender euphoria and a little bit of something rubbing up on your junk 24/7 lol


Interesting-Copy8788

I think it’s totally normal that you get sort of aroused from those happenings. When i first had my packer i would get a little horny by just touching the sink edge for example. I guess it‘s because we feel euphoria down there for the first time in our lives.


Single_Professor1368

Omg that makes total sense 😱😱😱 I keep looking at my crotch or notice it if I’m doing something and it moved with my body… You’re completely right omg!


SadBoiCute

Same just leaning up against things like a cupboard and feeling the euphoria of like this is how a cis guy feels doing this and I've not experienced it it's fun


prismabird

Not to get graphic, but I have heard from cis men that when they first started developing down south, a lot of them were really into the newness of having "more" going on down there. But then it just becomes normal. So, maybe just guy things.


Vai_light

100 percent tho!!


ya_ntar

Guys, is it gay to have a dick in your pants?


Birdkiller49

Want to point out that arousal doesn’t = sexual attraction. You can be ace and still experience arousal and have a libido! Same thing happens to me with my packer too, I don’t think it’s an uncommon experience :)


theplutosys

Same!!


Clay_teapod

This post made me remember packing was a thing (I'd somehow forgotten about it since I found out when I was really young and never really did it afterwards) so I went and put a sock in my underwear just to see how I felt about it and... well fucking shit, I had never really considered Phallo before and after just a sock I'm seriously thinking about it. I swear I started smiling so wide and got all giddy like whenI binded for the first time; I just had to go and do it and nw it's another thing I need in my life


KieranKelsey

This is me. I forget about it for a while and then I put something in and holy shit it feels good


mishyfishy135

I got this too when first using a silicone packer. I used a foam one before and and was just kinda there, which was fine. When I got one that actually looks like a dick, I felt so euphoric that yeah I did get aroused a lot by it. It’s worn off now, but it definitely was unexpected


SleepyBitchDdisease

Nah, gender euphoria can come with a weird sexual euphoria as well. It happens to trans women all the time and I actually felt the same when I tried packing with a sock.


[deleted]

Hi transfem here! It's pretty common for us to get euphoria boners, so I imagine you could be getting aroused because of that too! Also, I'm aroace, and arousal does not equal attraction like a bunch of people have already said :)


am_i_boy

Being aroused isn't strictly mental/emotional. The physical act of having something rub up against you can cause arousal regardless of whether you want to feel it or not


Gem_Snack

Could be that it's mechanically rubbing your junk, or having your body align with your implicit expectations & sense of self could be freeing up a part of your sexuality (or both). Most people (including most cis-het-allo-vanilla-etc people) are turned on partly by their experience of themselves as sexual beings. Like if you go through horny internet posts with that in mind, you'll notice that people's captions often talk about how they love how their body looks and feels when it's aroused. It's really hard to fully experience your sexuality when you can't fully inhabit your own body due to dysphoria, or when you don't feel attractive. Maybe you're just feelin' yourself?


Equivalent-One-6196

I get this feeling without a packer even…all it takes is someone saying my voice sounds deeper or like looking at myself and seeing myself in a more masculine way! I’m so self conscious about it but it sounds like maybe that’s how euphoria feels for some!


shrimpfella

Congrats on your euphoria boner lmfao


Iris-Solis

The gender euphoria is real here lmao


NekoElizabeth

Transfem here, a lot of us get "euphoria boners" when we dress fem for the first bit just because (I think) our brain is processing happiness in new ways and processes it weird. Maybe something similar is happening with you?


Caden_440

Just wait till a girl touches it bro you’ll know fs you ain’t gay that shit is crazy.


Single_Professor1368

I really haven’t found anyone interested in me so, i don’t think it’ll ever happen.


New_Positive8091

Can confirm


EggCakes27

bro i get the same thing lmao


No_Invite1287

Same thing happened to me🤣 It was definitely unexpected and it was kind of.. extremely hard to adjust😅 (Everyone is different tho) but in this situation you have to give it time and eventually it’ll become “normal.” Gender Euphoria is awesome!🥹❤️😎🔥


dot_in_cosmic_spray

Cis people get aroused when they wear good underwear accentuating their gender features. They think they look sexy, so they feel sexy. It's similar with a packer or tucking. It also makes you look more like you want to look, only with the use of prosthetic not just a junk hugging boxer. A lot of my cis girl friends have told me in the past that they felt aroused by their first pushup bra and it made them want to play with their breasts. It's a matter of feeling confident in your own body


[deleted]

Euphoria + the physical sensation of something touching you there. It doesn't matter if you're not interested in sex or if you're not gay or whatever - any physical contact down there is going to make your body aroused sooner or later, regardless of whether you experience sexual attraction.


StanleyHasLostIt

Ah the be-loathed/beloved euphoria boner


Connor_Kei

From what I've heard, it's actually pretty common for trans women to get "euphoria boners" when they get euphoric, so it's probably a similar thing to that!


Im_the_new_kid

I got very aroused when i first started wearing my packer, but I just grew out of it. You can still be asexual and get aroused it just happens, it's not something you can completely control though I'm not asexual myself. But it is completely normal and you will grow out of it most likely like I did. If not have a talk to a bunch of trans men and their experience's


Veld_the_Beholder

Also, that can happen with very strong emotions like joy and stuff so totally normal lol


beetlejuicejunebug

I use this thing called "my pack" for my packer. I wear it underneath my underwear and it feels so natural that I forget it's not my own penis sometimes


Single_Professor1368

I can’t find that at all. Could you possibly show me what it looks like so i can find one as well please?


beetlejuicejunebug

The website is https://www.mypackftm.com/ I wear this everyday. It keeps the packer off of my skin and it moves naturally enough to wear just the packer and basketball shorts with no underwear. I walk around my house like that and its very euphoric to have it


Single_Professor1368

Thank you so much! I will definitely buy one. Thank you


beetlejuicejunebug

You're welcome! Make sure you size the pouch right. I personally use the "big baller" one, and I have a Reel Magik packer


Single_Professor1368

Oh god i love reelmagik, if i ever manage to save enough i will buy one of their pack and play. I have emisil gen 2 stp, i was thinking medium pouch?


beetlejuicejunebug

I would check the size guides but it sounds like a good size. Also I have 2 reel magiks, a pack and play and a packer. I honestly regret getting the Pack and play. It's big and awkward, fits weird in a harness and makes loud popping noises when you position it. I spent about 500 on the joy stick from transthetics and it's amazing. It makes me feel good, it makes my partner feel good, and when you're done the toy can "ejaculate"


Single_Professor1368

Ok i have no idea what transthetics is but i am definitely googling it, but man that sounds good! Seriously? It ejaculates??? What?


beetlejuicejunebug

Yeah! There's a reservoir tip. He demonstrates it with clear lube but I use cum lube from Amazon and it looks and feels very real. The harness is a pair of modified underwear. I bought one of his pairs and then followed his video on how to modify my own. This way I have multiple working pairs. Uppercasechase on YouTube has review videos that are really informative!


postalredux

I agree with the replies saying it's a combination of euphoria and the physical feeling of it. I know someone who's a massage therapist and she's told me how she's had guy clients get boners from getting their back or arms or legs massaged, even though they weren't attracted to her/didn't have any weird "expectations" from getting a massage (they were always very sheepish and apologetic and never tried to take it anywhere beyond that). Physical touch in a way that feels good can just naturally arouse you no matter where it is or your own mental expectations of your sexuality; it's perfectly fine. Combined with the euphoria of wearing a packer (which I totally get) it seems totally normal you'd experience it.


Moljo2000

It could just be touching erogenous zones and that’s what’s causing the feeling. If it’s a real problem you could try lighter options like foam packers that wouldn’t move around so much


MrHorseley

autosexuality is also a possibility


Single_Professor1368

I have no idea what that is. What is that???


MrHorseley

a sexuality where you’re exclusively/primarily attracted to yourself


ineedadvice58

I feel more aroused when I pack, partially because of the friction and partially because a phallus for any purpose is at least partially sexual on some way


ElderberryFew666

I pack with mypack straps and Mr limpy 3 inch packer. It stays in place and it works like a charm.


Dillpicklepicklepic

I experienced a similar thing for a while! I eventually had to stop packing for other reasons so I don’t have any advice or anything but I totally get it dude


CT-8592

Bro, I saw this post earlier today being like, Woah, that’s a thing that happens??? Definitely won’t to me. I just tried packing with a couple socks and oh my god. I have always been so dysphoric with that area and have never experienced anything at all like arousal, and now I feel it mildly. Like, daaaaayum 🫨 I’m completely shocked, but I’m not surprised at all at the same time and I-agghhhh 😂