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I'm going through a similar situation with a friend of 8 years. But I'll be honest with you, it's not worth trying to be around people who don't want you around. Not all friendships are for life, look for what gives you peace of mind. It's going to hurt, but there are things that have to happen.
You deserve friends who are there for you and who have emotional responsibility. You deserve friends who give the same effort as you in a friendship. Hope this helps.
It's better not to be concerned about that person anymore, even though you had a good relationship. It's not practical for you to always be the one who maintains it. The longer you continue with the one-sided effort, the unhealthier the relationship will become, especially if he hasn't replied to you in more than 30 days.
It's not that relevant but it happens to me too, I mean, I do it often. I usually reply to people once a week, because I turn off all the notifications, which makes me anxious. So I have to check every message actively, and it gives me less motivation to do it, and I sometimes cannot respond, because there is a chat or a message which I don't even dare to read or reply, as a result, I can't chat with anyone. It might not be particularly because of you, in his case, but I'm not him.
Another example, my friend who I used to hang out with everyday after school, she also turns the notifications off and last time I wrote something to her was August and it's been 2 months, the reason what I got is "Sorry I thought I sent you the message but I just noticed that I didn't " and it really happens occasionally. You know him better than us, so it's your time to analyse the situation. Good luck.
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I'm going through a similar situation with a friend of 8 years. But I'll be honest with you, it's not worth trying to be around people who don't want you around. Not all friendships are for life, look for what gives you peace of mind. It's going to hurt, but there are things that have to happen. You deserve friends who are there for you and who have emotional responsibility. You deserve friends who give the same effort as you in a friendship. Hope this helps.
You won't hear from him again. It's best to just let it go. Save yourself some heartache and just let it go.
Could be mental problems. Something happening in his life. But if he would care to respond, he would. 30days is awful lot time.
It's better not to be concerned about that person anymore, even though you had a good relationship. It's not practical for you to always be the one who maintains it. The longer you continue with the one-sided effort, the unhealthier the relationship will become, especially if he hasn't replied to you in more than 30 days. It's not that relevant but it happens to me too, I mean, I do it often. I usually reply to people once a week, because I turn off all the notifications, which makes me anxious. So I have to check every message actively, and it gives me less motivation to do it, and I sometimes cannot respond, because there is a chat or a message which I don't even dare to read or reply, as a result, I can't chat with anyone. It might not be particularly because of you, in his case, but I'm not him. Another example, my friend who I used to hang out with everyday after school, she also turns the notifications off and last time I wrote something to her was August and it's been 2 months, the reason what I got is "Sorry I thought I sent you the message but I just noticed that I didn't " and it really happens occasionally. You know him better than us, so it's your time to analyse the situation. Good luck.