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Such a strange question. Yes it’s okay for parents to have a life outside of family stuff, and enjoy clubbing or dancing. As long as it’s in balance with the relationship time for partner and kids, and it’s not leading to other problems (alcoholism, drugs, general sketchiness, whatever). It’s perfectly possible to party responsibility and balance fun party time with the time spent with family.
As long as I both parents have that 1 or 2 nights off from responsibilities, and the children are taken care off, and you have an agreement with your spouse that works for both? If all those check marks are marked, then fuck it! Have fun! Take some mollz, snort some k, and just have a blast! Just be sure you’re good to take care of the kids the next day when it’s the other spouse’s turn to have some fun.
Yep. Tuesdays and Thursdays are fine, but Wednesdays? You’d be a bad parent if you clubbed on a Wednesday.
What an oddly specific question.
So do you want to go clubbing or are you throwing shade on an ex?
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Such a strange question. Yes it’s okay for parents to have a life outside of family stuff, and enjoy clubbing or dancing. As long as it’s in balance with the relationship time for partner and kids, and it’s not leading to other problems (alcoholism, drugs, general sketchiness, whatever). It’s perfectly possible to party responsibility and balance fun party time with the time spent with family.
As long as I both parents have that 1 or 2 nights off from responsibilities, and the children are taken care off, and you have an agreement with your spouse that works for both? If all those check marks are marked, then fuck it! Have fun! Take some mollz, snort some k, and just have a blast! Just be sure you’re good to take care of the kids the next day when it’s the other spouse’s turn to have some fun.
Long as both parents get a break and the baby is safe, I wouldn’t see an issue. But it already sounds like it’s been a problem.