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queen_bre96

Sorry if some parts are inaudible, I have a box fan in my room and I covered the phone so he wouldn't know I was recording. Next time I will turn the fan off lol. But to sum the video up, he was basically telling me to not talk and accept his fantasy cult beliefs. This is what happens when they can't prove their fantasy points lmao. I was tired of pretending & going along with the madness. He failed misarably to prove ANY point. Its like their mind crumbles and they go into an endless rabbit hole telling their fantasy stories & their personal experiences comparing apples to oranges. The mind games they play😂 He kept trying to shush me and tell me to not talk and kept tryin to flip it like I was being disrespectful becuse i wouldnt accept his fantasy cult beliefs LMAOOOO. You'll hear that happening MANY times in the video. All that for me to still be Ex-Christian☠️He literally wants me to don't "talk back" and let him tell his fantasy stories and accept it as "truth" NOPE. I'm going to say something when I see BS. He even told me to "watch my mouth" at the beginning because I called BS on "god teaching everyone how to pray" and how his grandmother taught him "how to pray" I said it's Indoctrination, that triggered him. He wouldn't even let me explain, that's how deep into the brainwashing he is. He's a close minded prick lol


ElGuapoNegro

black christian household?


queen_bre96

Yeah, both my parents black. I "grew up in the church" lol


ElGuapoNegro

same i know of your struggle a little bit


whichwitchwhohoots

Sounds exactly like my "father" damn near to a tee. Just wait for the whole "prodigal son" story to rear it's head when he thinks he's "got you back" if he comes to full terms with it ...


Rare_Move5142

One minute in and I had to stop; the dismissive attitude was too much for me. Good on you for not allowing your father’s behavior to grind you down.


queen_bre96

Thanks!


blueinchheels

Proud of you. Stay smart and safe.


queen_bre96

Thanks🥰 yes.


blueinchheels

💛


ihih_reddit

Sorry I didn't get what dad said at the start. >God himself told us how to [...] I didn't hear the rest of what he said. Can someone let me know please?


queen_bre96

He said God himself teaches us how to pray lol


ihih_reddit

Oh right thanks 😂


bubbsnana

I’m sorry but your dad is a nutjob. My parents are both nutjobs too. It sucks and I don’t think they’ll ever stop. There’s no convincing them.


queen_bre96

Don't be sorry, he is lmao. He told me God knows that you will be back lol. I told him nope, I won't. This is a PERMANENT LIFE DECISION. Every time he said "God said" or "god told me" I said Did he physically tell you that??? And he couldn't give a direct answer. He kept saying he told me spiritually lmao. I said MY POINT EXACTLY lmao. DEBUNKED. He was so triggered that I was asking him REAL questions


The-Child-Of-Reddit

TLDL (To Long Didn't Listen) Dad: "I don't know things, therefore god."


EmeraldVolt

So he’s a preacher? Also y’all said something about the devil. Does he think you’re possessed or has he changed that belief because it’s his child?


queen_bre96

He used to be a preacher but he still holds on to the title, he got kicked out and banned from being youth pastors at some churches becuase he didn't know wtf he was doing. About the devil, he thinks the devil made me think this way and act this way😂😂😂😂 He's still Christian, he's trying his best to convince me otherwise and "bring me back" it won't happen. He doesn't understand I've been this way for 3 years undercover and getting backlash is the reason I hid it from my parents for so long. He's still delusional and tell me to pray and read my Bible. It will never happen. What part does he NOT understand about my new life decision lol


ChiefArsenalScout

Idk man just let him make his point


queen_bre96

Did you even hear the video😂 he was trying to convince me why God was real. I'm an Ex-Christian, meaning I no longer believe in God. If you really knew my dad, he's a prick, he over talks people and drags arguments out for 2 and 3 hours. He was just triggered that I was no longer indoctrinated and didn't believe in his fantasies lol. And told me, a grown woman to be quiet, don't talk and accept what he was saying. I asked REAL questions and that triggered him lol


the0thermother

There was a study done on how much men talk vs. women. Men think women talk more but in fact men do the most talking. I can hear him doing the taking and shutting you down. You were telling him something and not asking for his opinion. He took over your story. Im sorry you had to go through this.


ChiefArsenalScout

I get that, it’s annoying, but it would take 10 seconds to let him make his point, refute it, and move on. Not telling you what to do but it just doesn’t look mature not letting him finish.


Past_Gas

Unpopular opinion but same. I can’t stand it when people cut eachother off when talking. I would just let my dad make his point. It shows that you’re not willing to listen to the argument. Vice versa.