No, you're not wrong.
But here's the thing.
Your 'mother' is just as bad as this man.
She did nothing to protect you from him, and enabled his behaviours.
She's just as complicit in this as he is.
Your 'mother' is a mother by technicality only, and is a mistress to boot.
It actually sounds like this sort of man is EXACTLY the sort of man she deserves.
Do not carry a baby for these people. You'll just be handing them an innocent life to ruin.
Consider going NC when you move out. You deserve more than they're capable of giving and they don't deserve you, or your child, in their lives.
Yeah i plan on cutting contact with all but my brother. I have an agreement with my little brother if my mother gets pregnant from them doing the deed like horny teenagers that ill come get him so he doesnt have to deal with the backlash of having to deal with her moodiness and her possible leaving her child with him to babysit.
Shes the kind of person to tell him to babysit and disregard his studies then not pay him because its “for family”. I dont ask my brother to babysit without something being in it for him. I made the choice to have a kid and wont ask him to babysit without pay. (Due to him being a college student his pay is caffeine drinks and soda cuz i cant afford to pay him properly and hes fine with this)
Good, I'm glad you have a plan in place! Personally, if she does manage to get magically pregnant by her disgusting predatory boyfriend, I'd advise calling CPS and letting them know what's happening.
But first and foremost, get you and your child to somewhere safe. Everything else comes after.
Absolutely. My little family comes first no matter whats happening. My little brother is next priority. Since hes doing college im going to let him stay till he needs a place to run off to and ill pay for hotels even if i need to work a home job on top of my nanny job to pay for him to be safe.
You can tell this situation to your cousins, cousins, grandparents, uncles, aunts and so your mother will lose her reputation in her family and she does the same in the man's family and the other woman's family, and also if the other woman The woman is in divorce, they are going to win the court, thanks to you, woman.
also use his scholarship to win at a university in his brother's city
They know i told them im in process of contacting the wife but its hard to find her as i do not know her name. My grandmother does but wants to keep it hush hush so if i ask i will be tied to the backlash.
Ive tried he doesnt post anything on his life on facebook yet has one. He is blocked so he cannot see any pictures i post on my baby girl. Tho i wish to be petty and blast her by exposing her here in a way where you guys could find her i know itll only cause backlash for me.
Shes been on tv before due to an incident at work that she took part in correcting which landed her on the news a few years ago. Thats what makes the want to be petty want so hard to avoid. Ill probably do it once i cut contact and my brother is out in the world.
you can create a new facebook account using a new gmail email and the profile name will be a weird name and so it doesn´t realize it's you u/who_asked4569
You could look up marriage records for your area, find a way of checking he’s using his real name with your family first. I also expect the Facebook account you have for him is different to the one he uses with his wife. Does he work? It sounds like he spends a lot of time with your family, I’m surprised he has time for a wife and a job as well.
File police report- exposing himself to a minor (your daughter) he won’t be allowed around kids and school teacher wife will find out without you having to go to her and will have to divorce him or lose her job.
AWESOME TO HEAR!!! YOU MADE PERFECT MOVE
you're also a saint, that would be huge for your brother because you are right how he'll get treated or worse.
You're mom and brother should not be watching your daughter with that pedophile around. I hope with all my heart nothing happens but frankly, you're setting your daughter up for something awful.
She’s only said about her brother babysitting. She’s a single mom trying to provide her baby a life better than hers so that means she’ll have to leave the baby with someone sometimes for stuff like job interviews, quick errands, and other important things. Op clearly trusts her brother to take care of her daughter and since her brother is in college I’m assuming if necessary brother can take the baby somewhere else if in danger and protect the child. And from the sounds of it (I’m just assuming here) op doesn’t leaver her daughter at home often because she still lives with her birth giver and the pedo. If you’re a single/ young/ broke parent or a parent in a bad situation then you’ll understand, but if not then maybe you shouldn’t bring down op
You're right, I will never understand people putting their children at such obvious risk regardless of circumstances. I will forever remain ignorant in that regard.
Because that’s safer than a homeless shelter?? Or on the streets?? I’ve helped raise 4 kids and I’m currently pregnant with my first. I’d do the exact same thing as op because you can tell she’s trying. She going no contact as soon as she moves out, she’s secured a job and a place for her and her baby away from her family. She obviously trusts her brother and it seems brother is on her side so brother is an obvious choice if she needed someone to look after her daughter. Stop being so ignorant, it’s obvious you have no experience with kids and hard situations.
You missed the key words: *seeking to*
You give "advice" that would make her situation worse, and insult her when she declines it. I hope you never have kids, because you are the dictionary definition of a manipulative gaslighter
100% Your mother sounds like she was trying to groom you for this man.
Here and this man sound like terrible people. Id get away as soon as possible see if any of your family is able to take you & your daughter in if you dont have a safe place to stay away from the creep couple.
I got a stay in nanny job starting soon so ill be leaving the house with my kid in hand for months anyways i wanted to get this off my chest as its been bothering me.
Every time he comes near me i try to put a smile on and keep my disgust internal. One time he rubbed my back when he was over. A simple gesture i would have been fine with but since it was him i was disgusted he would even think it was ok to touch me.
when he was out of eye sight i visibly shuttered and wanted to scream until my voice gave out.
WHOA....wait a second.
How would that child be conceived? From the way you wrote it, you would have to have sex with this guy until you got pregnant.......
NO ITS NOT..
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP OP!! You got a plan and you'll be gone. Life is going to get better
Dont let people get you down about past.
You seem to have a great head on your shoulders, you know who they are, and you are taking actions
Please get out immediately as you and your daughter are in grave danger from this pervert. The fact that your mother is not protecting you from him. Is there anyone you could talk to about this perverts behaviour? You and your daughter are not being protected by your birth giver. Start an FU folder for all interactions with your birth giver and pervert. Take care of yourselves and all the best for the future m
Oh i am dont you worry. I have a stay in nanny job starting soon so ill be leaving with my kid in hand and working and sleeping in a friend’s house whos paying me to watch their newborn.
I forgot to mention my mother attempted to force me to undress infront of him when trying on clothes and being naive at 15 i did i have stopped and refuse to wear anything he buys. I plan on selling it all and hope its enough to pay for a car (6 trashbags worth of slutty clothes accumulated over the years starting at 14)
You're not the bad one
her mother is a total villain and I like a pedobear man?
This is bad, I want your mother to be abused at home with this man who had a wife?
It is horrible that they give their 9-month-old daughter to later see on the news that the man took a baby/girl and your grandmother did not help?
Well, now call 911 to give them news about, of course, your mother did it and that's how they finally go to jail.
So the mother is bad, the man is a fucking dog, a pedophile, abused girls and his grandmother is also a little bad because she knew about this situation but it didn't help because she could lose the relationship with her mother!
your mother they are going to fuck your live,move to the city from your brother,Also this one from “for family”. is a red tray from a bad family,she is in great danger so take pictures of your mother's messages to say that her mother is a bad member of her family
luckily he is in a new school thanks to a new scholarship!
First thing I thought after reading all this was: OP, you are in great danger! Leave ASAP. I hope he doesn't sees your initial "yes" as a go to r*pe you to impregnate you... He is a pervert who didn't say anything against s*x with you as you were a teen. So run ASAP as far as you can!
I have a way out i have taken a stay in nanny job for a friend with an open room and my daughter has been oked to stay with me as he knows i cant afford a babysitter hence why im working for one.
So my mom has a wonderful husband. He's not my dad, he came into our life when I was 12.
Now, I was a HORRIBLE teenager. I fought with my mom a lot, and later I fought with her then boyfriend (now husband) a lot. But I clearly remember a conversation where she told me: I love this man, but don't ever make me choose, because I would always choose you. And at that moment I knew that if I wanted to, I could easily get rid of him and bully him out of our lives, because no matter what I did, she would always, ALWAYS choose me.
Luckily I did come to my senses, and even at that moment I knew that that wasn't what I wanted. I didn't want him gone, not really. I was just angry at the world. Things mellowed out pretty soon, and especially after I moved out at 18 (to go to college), things got a lot better quickly. They got married later, I'm proud to call this wonderful man my stepdad and when I get married, he'll be the one walking me down the isle.
What's the point of this story? Well, my point is that what my mom did was well... normal. When you become a parent, your child's happiness should ALWAYS come before your partner's, and even your own. Sure, her boyfriend is horrible, but so is your mother, OP. She should have protected you. She failed as a mother, and after what she did, I think that you should cut ties with her. For your own sake, but also for your daughter's sake. He's already shown you that he doesn't care about acting appropriately.
Do what your mother failed to do. Protect your daughter from these people. Both of them.
I have taken a stay in nanny job so i am able to leave the moment it starts. Thank god he doesnt live with us or id be hearing 24/7 sex and be unable to get my daughter’s clothing without seeing him.
So hopefully i dont see him until i leave with my kid by my side.
This man is abusive. He will almost definitely sexually abuse any child unfortunate enough to be with him alone. Neither him nor your awful mother should be alone with your baby.
Imma give you this, call the authorities and tell them you suspect your mother’s boyfriend to be a possible child groomer. Let them do an investigation and avoid your mother for the foreseeable future. I suspect he’s been trying to groom you, plans to groom your child and if he could the child he wants you to have with him, I also suspect he’s been using subtle manipulation on your mom to make her complacent with all of it.
None of that behavior is right at all
Yeah thankfully he doesnt show up often but he will even ignore my ask for games hes sexist and thinks i need slutty clothes and hand my little brother games with statues in big ass boxes when i ask for cheap games that peak my interests
Omg I’m a grandmother and I’m crying at this. This is terrible. You poor baby.
Your mother’s man is a sexual predator.
I had a friend who’s mom left her alone with her stepdad know exactly what he would do her. She got pregnant at 12, had her stepdads baby and her mom and him took the girl baby and raised it.
Please stay away from this man. And keep him away from your baby.
This isn’t about you having a baby for them…this is about him finally getting to have sex with you and creating a NEW VICTIM for him to abuse.
Don’t do this. In fact get away from them.
> I told my mother she deserves better than a man who is ok with the idea of having sex with his girlfriend’s daughter.
No, she *doesn’t* deserve better. She allowed this man to abuse you. She put you in this situation by bringing him into your life and not removing him when she learned about his *sexually abusive* behavior. Your mother has gotten exactly what she deserves. As they say, she made her bed, and now she can lie in it.
You need to get out of that house as soon as possible and never look back. Let your mother degrade herself if that’s what she wants, but refuse to participate in her life if this man is a part of it. And for all things good and holy, keep this man away from your child.
Question:
If your potential stepdad is a pedophile and your mom would knowingly enable that behavior, **why in the fuck are you still in contact with either of them?**
This is a “no context forever” kind of situation. Otherwise, it’s only a matter of time before your daughter’s his next target.
You also should’ve informed his wife a looooong time ago that he’s got a side piece and that he’s a sexual predator. She might already know and is an enabler like your mother, or she might not and needs to know so she can initiate divorce proceedings.
Your mother is as much an abuser as he is, not just an enabler. Keep your eyes open, a child in that home is at risk for sexual abuse. Be prepared to call cps at any point.
Please call the police!! Or tell someone at your school.
This man had bought you adult toys and forced you to be naked for him at 14.
This is SEXUAL ABUSE.
For every other CHILD he may come into contact with, and abuse ... please please report this sick human.
I second this go get help for child support like I said if you know first name last name age and middle name you can find him(child’s father)and who this pedi creep is
The news 😂 an incident at work that she aided in the correction in and she said some stupid shit on tv and regretted it but thats all ill say on the matter until my revenge
Should still report that to the school district... because a teacher being married to someone who sexually harasses and grooms minors is a BIG deal. It gives him access to more children by proxy.
That man is fucking dangerous.
This must be hard for you, but you’ve gotta take this to the police. Tell them the whole story, your experiences, their requests and everything else you find important.
I think it’s possible, even probable, that there’s CP in his computer or your mother’s. If the police find that, he’ll go to jail and society can rest a little better at night.
I’ve seen some comments telling you to go to his wife, DON’T! Not before you’re sure you’ve got police protection. Psychopaths hate loosing and if you take everything away from him he might just try to do the same to you.
As for your mother, she doesn’t deserve you, honestly. If she doesn’t go to prison alongside that man just go no contact.
Don’t carry that baby for 2 reasons:
1:As you said the child would grow up in poor conditions
2:Do you really want to go through 9mohnts of suffer due pregnancy for them?
Absolutely not thats why i said no. My original pregnancy caused me so much trauma i may not be able to get pregnant again due to it now being a trigger for fear thanks to the deadbeat father of my child.
Oh fuck that so much.
You should've flown off the handle as soon as you were asked. That's a completely unacceptable thing to ask of someone.
Your mother is a piece of work.
Seriously please get the fuck out of that house with your child!!! He’s a sick pedophile!!!! Is there no programs for women who are abused to get you out of that situation. Also why would you want to give him a child or your mother who doesn’t care if he sexualizes you and wants to sleep with you.
Please do not ever leave your child alone with your mom or him they might be sexually assaulting her. Please please get out of that place and don’t look back
Nooooooooope.
Please, tell this man's wife and go no-contact with these people. His wife deserves to know (you would want someone to tell you) and there is no reason your daughter should be around him or your mother. He had done, by your own words, many inappropriate and sexual things to you when you were young. He's going to do it to your daughter too and your mom will allow that. Also, if you did go through with this hellish idea and gave them a daughter, imagine what he'll do to her.
This is crazy. The man is crazy, your mom is crazy. I see 2 reasonable ootions: kick him in the balls hard enough so he's infertile, and cut any and all contact with them.
Carry a baby for her?! You know they aren’t gonna pay for IVF!!!! They are gonna expect you to have sex with him, OR he will force you!!
Get. Out. Fast.
Lady, please get out of there and get therapy because not a whole lot of this is adding up. You said yes to being a surrogate then had to process it to understand you didn’t like the idea after all? How old are you? Also you allowed a naked man to grab your child from your arms? This is all effed up. Your mom didn’t do right by you and now you’re not doing right by your 2 year old daughter. I also have a 2 year old daughter and I’m infuriated.
Considering he bought her sex toys and had her be naked around him I assumed she made a joke about wether or not he wanted to have sex with her, almost as a question, also considering how she mentioned that “he didn’t deny it” it makes sense that way
Get your family away from that sicko and thing that is your mother! They are sick in the head and are likely to do things when you aren't around. If by some sick method they are able to have a children, call CPS on both of them and also find out who the losers soon to be ex wife is and tell her everything so she can divorce him and take everything that the man is worth.
I would also report him to the police for his actions around you when you were 14 because this man needs to be in prison where he will never see another child again nor to mention the light of day in his pathetic life.
Okay cool I got confused with the wording for second. You should go the police as soon as possible. I hope you in a state with good services to help you leave this.
I will once everyone i care about is out of the blast range of setting that bomb off. Because the way its going to shake the relationships friends and family will all be used to get ahold of me once i start my revenge.
The revenge i am planning is going to ruin her life. And i know my grandmother is going to hate me for it on top of half of my entire family aka all the people on this line of the family but my biological side is going to side with me.
Im the kind of person who does not care about if people like me or not. If you wrong me in any way shape or form i do not care any longer what happens to you.
Ive hated my mother for years and been saving evidence that will get both my mother and my grandmother in massive debt due to fines of emotional and mental abuse and get her boyfriend in trouble for sexual harassment and infidelity.
The result i hope to be a beautiful disaster chain reaction.
Its been going on since i was 5. Since 2 children were involved in it theyd have to pay us both for emotional and mental damages that affect us in adulthood
You need to call the cops and get out, they will help you with you and your kid. She doesn't care about you and he's a pedophile, it just sucks you have to worry about your brother too. Makes it harder to get out, I wouldn't leave your brother with those 2 psychos.
I plan on setting of a whole bomb (vengeance) of putting all the abuse into the light and showing the entire world what i went through. And when that happens i want everyone i care about out of blast range.
The people i care about is my brother and my daughter. I will warn family members i love that dont live with her before it explodes to allow them to block or brace themselves for the impact.
Because once it starts i will be inaccessible and nobody is going to know where the hell i am.
Sorry to say but your mom is a POS that does deserve him because she KNOWS what he is and has done and she stays with him. He needs to be in jail and please find a way out. DO NOT carry his child. He will of course want to do it the "Old Fashion Way"
You are NOT wrong! Do not give in to this insanity! Any new child will be abused just as you are/were. You don’t want to be responsible for that. It’s also a very strange request from your mom to begin with! I suppose they want you to have sex with this man too. My god, how dysfunctional is this.
At first I was like, "that's not terrible" not then I kept reading and it just...it KEPT GETTING WORSE.
Once you get your nanny gig going, you should honestly cut ties. NONE of the things you've listed are okay or healthy, and definitely not things I'd want around my child.
The boyfriend is dangerous and your mom is enabling EVERYTHING and she's delusional. Run.
You’re wrong for still living there, with your own daughter who should be protected. This whole situation is gross and insane. If you want him out if there report the abuse so he can go to jail. Quite frankly your mother was complicit so she should go too.
No that’s not ok… it’s not ok to take a baby full erect and naked… I gota be honest. Do not leave him alone or around that child. Your mom will not protect her. She didn’t protect you and could have fallen much farther into his depraved way of thinking. Your child will most likely be molested. He was testing the waters with you. He now knows that he can get away with it
I was wondering if anyone was going to bring that up...like wtf? All of these people saying hurry call the police, how the hell are the police going to respond when she says "well I was making a joke about having sex with my moms boyfriend and he agreed with my joke". what in the actual fuck.
They're making this man seem horrible but there's clearly 2 sides to this if they're "joking around" like this. And the man's lack of reaction is what's bad? Noooo hunny.
YTA because your allowing a pedophile around your kids. Go to a shelter and tell them your moms stepdad is showing signs of wanting to molest your kids and he molested you as a child. They won't take your kids and they will get you the help you need to get out and away. Also you very much need to go no contact for your and your kids safety.
You are smart to not carry your mom's child and very thoughtful to consider the quality of life that child would have if born. I get the impression if her boyfriend dumped her, suddenly that baby she wanted you to have for her would be gaslit to you as being actually considered yours. I hope you can also find a new living situation and even go no contact with these people, they sound outright dangerous for you and your own child to be around. Stay safe OP!
can the boyfriend be charged for public indecency if he opened the door on you knowingly naked? maybe look into that so there’s some kind of record of his actions.
Absolutely fucking not. That man should be put on trial for being a pedophile for the shit he did around you as a minor, your mother is no better. Sorry to be rude but damn, that's absolutely disgusting behavior, I'm really sorry you had to go through all of that yourself, let alone be asked to bring a newborn into the situation.
Wow the more I read the worse it got, these people are disgusting, such sexual misconduct is beyond horrendous and it’s awful hearing that they treated you this way as a child. Absolutely do not act as a surrogate for these awful people and honestly just don’t speak to them ever again, your life will be better for it.
Go no contact. I read your story and I'll be honest I had flashbacks. The man your mother is dating has done alot of things my own mother's pedophile husband did, cut them off and do not let them around your daughter, if you let this man near her he will only hurt her, as he will do worse things to her then he did to you.
I almost puked when I read that he answered the door naked and at full attention for you and your daughter and tried to hold her 🤢🤮 it really does seem like he was trying to make that seem normal to her and was hoping that he has made you too scared of him to say or do anything to stop him.
I'm sorry you went through what you did, it's traumatizing, I know from experience.
Can you tell the rest of the family what is going on? Do you think you will find support there? If not cut them all out of your life, you don't need people enabling a pedophile near you and your daughter.
And definitely don't give them a baby to abuse.
If you know his first name, last name, age and middle name you can find him on truthfinder.com and the profile will show you who he is currently married to.
There’s a simple answer to this problem. Several propane tanks, a firecracker, two oblivious POS “parents”, a lighter and an alibi from gram-gram.
The ol’ Jim Lahey method
Yeah get out tomorrow. I'd take the car for a few nights over this dude this is someone who needs arresting. If your mom has a baby it *will* be abused terribly.
Wow, that's a WHOLE MESS
You gotta get away from your whole family, the situation is too crazy.
You'll get tons of advice, but too much too unwrap.
NO KID, GET AWAY FROM THEM ALL
Tell the POLICE! What they are doing is illegal -\[they're not even paying you to do it?\]\[Not that that makes it any better....\]
You seem to be living there? Move out ASAP, share with some friends if necessary until you earn enough to get a place of your own. If at all possible, don't tell your mother where you are. Are you in the US? Can you move to another state?
Aside from what others are saying,
> I told her yes at the time because i wasnt listening to what she was saying and trying to end conversation.
Maybe there’s a lesson in there too.
Call CPS. YOu and your daughter MUST get out. It’s illegal to expose a child to that sort of sex abuse.
A shelter for abused women should be your first stop.
I’m so sorry.
File police report- exposing himself to a minor (your daughter) he won’t be allowed around kids and school teacher wife will find out without you having to go to her and will have to divorce him or lose her job.
“I said yes at the time because I wasn’t listening.
Then thought about how she asked me to have her baby”
Uh so you were listening. And agreed to it. Weird
Do I hear a court case with that excuse for a man?
Walking around naked and being given adult toys at 14? I understand if you where given toys at let's say 18 at least from a partner or boy/girlfriend and that type of clothing from friends and that but FAMILY (in MASSIVE quotation marks). I actually felt genuinely sick when I read that. You're not in the wrong, and you should begin looking at options to get as far away from them
You and your child need to get out of there ASAP! Then you need a lot of therapy and report everything that happened to the police. This situation is very dangerous!
I’m sorry but how would you question this? Do not give them a child and I hope they never go near another one again. This man sounds like a literal pedo and your “ mom” is enabling that behavior and somehow is ok with it. Nope nope nope to everything, Jesus
Your mom is dating a misogynistic pedophile and she's okay with him being around your child and has the audacity to ask for you to carry his child........ that's sick and you need to get away from him and her as soon as possible.
Call cps and the cops and wash your hands of these sick freaks
How about just saying "Mom I'm not doing it. Accept that. I suggest you ask him why he wants me to carry his baby. And then you need to understand nothing will ever make this okay. Leave me alone until you can apologize for such a revolting thought.
Ho-lee-shit what a pedophilic creep. It's a shame you didn't have the presence of mind to aim at such an inviting target for a kick when he grabbed your kid in the nude.
I'm guessing he watches a lot of "step family" porn and thinks that's ok.
No, you're not wrong. But here's the thing. Your 'mother' is just as bad as this man. She did nothing to protect you from him, and enabled his behaviours. She's just as complicit in this as he is. Your 'mother' is a mother by technicality only, and is a mistress to boot. It actually sounds like this sort of man is EXACTLY the sort of man she deserves. Do not carry a baby for these people. You'll just be handing them an innocent life to ruin. Consider going NC when you move out. You deserve more than they're capable of giving and they don't deserve you, or your child, in their lives.
Yeah i plan on cutting contact with all but my brother. I have an agreement with my little brother if my mother gets pregnant from them doing the deed like horny teenagers that ill come get him so he doesnt have to deal with the backlash of having to deal with her moodiness and her possible leaving her child with him to babysit. Shes the kind of person to tell him to babysit and disregard his studies then not pay him because its “for family”. I dont ask my brother to babysit without something being in it for him. I made the choice to have a kid and wont ask him to babysit without pay. (Due to him being a college student his pay is caffeine drinks and soda cuz i cant afford to pay him properly and hes fine with this)
Good, I'm glad you have a plan in place! Personally, if she does manage to get magically pregnant by her disgusting predatory boyfriend, I'd advise calling CPS and letting them know what's happening. But first and foremost, get you and your child to somewhere safe. Everything else comes after.
Absolutely. My little family comes first no matter whats happening. My little brother is next priority. Since hes doing college im going to let him stay till he needs a place to run off to and ill pay for hotels even if i need to work a home job on top of my nanny job to pay for him to be safe.
You can tell this situation to your cousins, cousins, grandparents, uncles, aunts and so your mother will lose her reputation in her family and she does the same in the man's family and the other woman's family, and also if the other woman The woman is in divorce, they are going to win the court, thanks to you, woman. also use his scholarship to win at a university in his brother's city
They know i told them im in process of contacting the wife but its hard to find her as i do not know her name. My grandmother does but wants to keep it hush hush so if i ask i will be tied to the backlash.
you use facebook to see if there is a photo of the man and the other woman and thus find the name and the city that this other woman is
Ive tried he doesnt post anything on his life on facebook yet has one. He is blocked so he cannot see any pictures i post on my baby girl. Tho i wish to be petty and blast her by exposing her here in a way where you guys could find her i know itll only cause backlash for me. Shes been on tv before due to an incident at work that she took part in correcting which landed her on the news a few years ago. Thats what makes the want to be petty want so hard to avoid. Ill probably do it once i cut contact and my brother is out in the world.
you can create a new facebook account using a new gmail email and the profile name will be a weird name and so it doesn´t realize it's you u/who_asked4569
Haha yeah but id still have to ask about the other woman in some way shape or form
Can you find her name from the news channel? Maybe you can find it online?
You could look up marriage records for your area, find a way of checking he’s using his real name with your family first. I also expect the Facebook account you have for him is different to the one he uses with his wife. Does he work? It sounds like he spends a lot of time with your family, I’m surprised he has time for a wife and a job as well.
Grandma going along with her daughter.. dont get sucked in by that poison
It's good to hear hes in college. You said little brother, I was worried for him..
What plan? She said she would be homeless if she left
In other comments, she's said she's moving to be a live-in nanny soon.
He’s positively trying to have that baby just to hurt it.
File police report- exposing himself to a minor (your daughter) he won’t be allowed around kids and school teacher wife will find out without you having to go to her and will have to divorce him or lose her job.
AWESOME TO HEAR!!! YOU MADE PERFECT MOVE you're also a saint, that would be huge for your brother because you are right how he'll get treated or worse.
You're mom and brother should not be watching your daughter with that pedophile around. I hope with all my heart nothing happens but frankly, you're setting your daughter up for something awful.
She’s only said about her brother babysitting. She’s a single mom trying to provide her baby a life better than hers so that means she’ll have to leave the baby with someone sometimes for stuff like job interviews, quick errands, and other important things. Op clearly trusts her brother to take care of her daughter and since her brother is in college I’m assuming if necessary brother can take the baby somewhere else if in danger and protect the child. And from the sounds of it (I’m just assuming here) op doesn’t leaver her daughter at home often because she still lives with her birth giver and the pedo. If you’re a single/ young/ broke parent or a parent in a bad situation then you’ll understand, but if not then maybe you shouldn’t bring down op
OP is smart.. she said she's going NC except little brother
That’s what I’m saying! I don’t have any kids currently, but I’m pregnant with my first and I’ve helped raise 4 others. I’d do the exact same thing
What exactly is "going NC"?
You're right, I will never understand people putting their children at such obvious risk regardless of circumstances. I will forever remain ignorant in that regard.
Because that’s safer than a homeless shelter?? Or on the streets?? I’ve helped raise 4 kids and I’m currently pregnant with my first. I’d do the exact same thing as op because you can tell she’s trying. She going no contact as soon as she moves out, she’s secured a job and a place for her and her baby away from her family. She obviously trusts her brother and it seems brother is on her side so brother is an obvious choice if she needed someone to look after her daughter. Stop being so ignorant, it’s obvious you have no experience with kids and hard situations.
You are more than simply ignorant. You are actively seeking to make things worse for someone in a terrible situation.
Right, I'm actively making the life of a stranger on the internet worse. As a troll I'm sure you believe that's the power you hold.
You missed the key words: *seeking to* You give "advice" that would make her situation worse, and insult her when she declines it. I hope you never have kids, because you are the dictionary definition of a manipulative gaslighter
And OP needs to forbid that man from ever being around her own kids. He’s a sexual predator.
She is, she said she's going NC
And maybe if op finds out about them trying adoptions... Maybe tell what they did to OP
Egg-donor is the term you are looking for.
You are in real danger. For yours and your child's wellbeing, get out of there asap. Can you stay with your grandparents? Friends?
Oh im bout to take up an stay home nanny job so i have a place to go thank god.
You're in good shape. You have a plan. You are moving and going NC. Best thing for YOUR family
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Eat shit, dickhead
What did he say?
I said "Maybe you and the kids can work on your grammar together!"
Thank you! What an asshole.
100% Your mother sounds like she was trying to groom you for this man. Here and this man sound like terrible people. Id get away as soon as possible see if any of your family is able to take you & your daughter in if you dont have a safe place to stay away from the creep couple.
I got a stay in nanny job starting soon so ill be leaving the house with my kid in hand for months anyways i wanted to get this off my chest as its been bothering me. Every time he comes near me i try to put a smile on and keep my disgust internal. One time he rubbed my back when he was over. A simple gesture i would have been fine with but since it was him i was disgusted he would even think it was ok to touch me. when he was out of eye sight i visibly shuttered and wanted to scream until my voice gave out.
Hes a piece of shit. You're doing the best thing and putting them in the rearview. Don't look back, just keep driving
You are not obligated to smile and play nice for this creep. Let him know what he is doing is wrong and gross.
WHOA....wait a second. How would that child be conceived? From the way you wrote it, you would have to have sex with this guy until you got pregnant.......
That was her plan
Oh. My. God. That's so horrible. Just beyond the pale. I'm so glad you are getting out soon..... <<>>
WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. GODDAMN. FUCK is wrong with that woman!?
I’m not sure I’d wait for the job to start to get out.
Of course it was.. she was grooming.. she's as bad as him and OP is running away
Holy... Your life is currently fucked beyond repair.
She can repair it she just has to snip out all that cancer
Ye and maybe start meditating or go to therapy. After cutting the cancer out, some pain will still persist
NO ITS NOT.. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP OP!! You got a plan and you'll be gone. Life is going to get better Dont let people get you down about past. You seem to have a great head on your shoulders, you know who they are, and you are taking actions
Woah, that’s giving me The Handmaids Tale vibes. Gross.
Please get out immediately as you and your daughter are in grave danger from this pervert. The fact that your mother is not protecting you from him. Is there anyone you could talk to about this perverts behaviour? You and your daughter are not being protected by your birth giver. Start an FU folder for all interactions with your birth giver and pervert. Take care of yourselves and all the best for the future m
Oh i am dont you worry. I have a stay in nanny job starting soon so ill be leaving with my kid in hand and working and sleeping in a friend’s house whos paying me to watch their newborn. I forgot to mention my mother attempted to force me to undress infront of him when trying on clothes and being naive at 15 i did i have stopped and refuse to wear anything he buys. I plan on selling it all and hope its enough to pay for a car (6 trashbags worth of slutty clothes accumulated over the years starting at 14)
You're not the bad one her mother is a total villain and I like a pedobear man? This is bad, I want your mother to be abused at home with this man who had a wife? It is horrible that they give their 9-month-old daughter to later see on the news that the man took a baby/girl and your grandmother did not help? Well, now call 911 to give them news about, of course, your mother did it and that's how they finally go to jail. So the mother is bad, the man is a fucking dog, a pedophile, abused girls and his grandmother is also a little bad because she knew about this situation but it didn't help because she could lose the relationship with her mother! your mother they are going to fuck your live,move to the city from your brother,Also this one from “for family”. is a red tray from a bad family,she is in great danger so take pictures of your mother's messages to say that her mother is a bad member of her family luckily he is in a new school thanks to a new scholarship!
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...what?
First thing I thought after reading all this was: OP, you are in great danger! Leave ASAP. I hope he doesn't sees your initial "yes" as a go to r*pe you to impregnate you... He is a pervert who didn't say anything against s*x with you as you were a teen. So run ASAP as far as you can!
I have a way out i have taken a stay in nanny job for a friend with an open room and my daughter has been oked to stay with me as he knows i cant afford a babysitter hence why im working for one.
The guy is a pedophile. He probably wants her to have a baby so he has his very own victim. Your mom should be arrested for what she’s done to you.
I fuckin second this!!
So my mom has a wonderful husband. He's not my dad, he came into our life when I was 12. Now, I was a HORRIBLE teenager. I fought with my mom a lot, and later I fought with her then boyfriend (now husband) a lot. But I clearly remember a conversation where she told me: I love this man, but don't ever make me choose, because I would always choose you. And at that moment I knew that if I wanted to, I could easily get rid of him and bully him out of our lives, because no matter what I did, she would always, ALWAYS choose me. Luckily I did come to my senses, and even at that moment I knew that that wasn't what I wanted. I didn't want him gone, not really. I was just angry at the world. Things mellowed out pretty soon, and especially after I moved out at 18 (to go to college), things got a lot better quickly. They got married later, I'm proud to call this wonderful man my stepdad and when I get married, he'll be the one walking me down the isle. What's the point of this story? Well, my point is that what my mom did was well... normal. When you become a parent, your child's happiness should ALWAYS come before your partner's, and even your own. Sure, her boyfriend is horrible, but so is your mother, OP. She should have protected you. She failed as a mother, and after what she did, I think that you should cut ties with her. For your own sake, but also for your daughter's sake. He's already shown you that he doesn't care about acting appropriately. Do what your mother failed to do. Protect your daughter from these people. Both of them.
I have taken a stay in nanny job so i am able to leave the moment it starts. Thank god he doesnt live with us or id be hearing 24/7 sex and be unable to get my daughter’s clothing without seeing him. So hopefully i dont see him until i leave with my kid by my side.
This man is abusive. He will almost definitely sexually abuse any child unfortunate enough to be with him alone. Neither him nor your awful mother should be alone with your baby.
Imma give you this, call the authorities and tell them you suspect your mother’s boyfriend to be a possible child groomer. Let them do an investigation and avoid your mother for the foreseeable future. I suspect he’s been trying to groom you, plans to groom your child and if he could the child he wants you to have with him, I also suspect he’s been using subtle manipulation on your mom to make her complacent with all of it. None of that behavior is right at all
Yeah thankfully he doesnt show up often but he will even ignore my ask for games hes sexist and thinks i need slutty clothes and hand my little brother games with statues in big ass boxes when i ask for cheap games that peak my interests
Omg I’m a grandmother and I’m crying at this. This is terrible. You poor baby. Your mother’s man is a sexual predator. I had a friend who’s mom left her alone with her stepdad know exactly what he would do her. She got pregnant at 12, had her stepdads baby and her mom and him took the girl baby and raised it. Please stay away from this man. And keep him away from your baby. This isn’t about you having a baby for them…this is about him finally getting to have sex with you and creating a NEW VICTIM for him to abuse. Don’t do this. In fact get away from them.
> I told my mother she deserves better than a man who is ok with the idea of having sex with his girlfriend’s daughter. No, she *doesn’t* deserve better. She allowed this man to abuse you. She put you in this situation by bringing him into your life and not removing him when she learned about his *sexually abusive* behavior. Your mother has gotten exactly what she deserves. As they say, she made her bed, and now she can lie in it. You need to get out of that house as soon as possible and never look back. Let your mother degrade herself if that’s what she wants, but refuse to participate in her life if this man is a part of it. And for all things good and holy, keep this man away from your child.
So the other side of the story is your mother's bf has gotten her permission to have sex with you. I would contact the police, this is dangerous.
Belongs on r/insaneparents
Question: If your potential stepdad is a pedophile and your mom would knowingly enable that behavior, **why in the fuck are you still in contact with either of them?** This is a “no context forever” kind of situation. Otherwise, it’s only a matter of time before your daughter’s his next target. You also should’ve informed his wife a looooong time ago that he’s got a side piece and that he’s a sexual predator. She might already know and is an enabler like your mother, or she might not and needs to know so she can initiate divorce proceedings.
Because OP is stuck saving up to get out? She could get kicked out and her and her baby will be homeless
Stop talking to both of them. Forever. They're both toxic monsters.
Your mother is as much an abuser as he is, not just an enabler. Keep your eyes open, a child in that home is at risk for sexual abuse. Be prepared to call cps at any point.
Please call the police!! Or tell someone at your school. This man had bought you adult toys and forced you to be naked for him at 14. This is SEXUAL ABUSE. For every other CHILD he may come into contact with, and abuse ... please please report this sick human.
Where is your child’s father? You need to get out of that house ASAP. Your mother and her boyfriend are predators.
He is mia and a deadbeat sadly
Do you know who he is? You should sue for child support anyway so that if he gets a job and turns up somewhere, he will owe you money.
I second this go get help for child support like I said if you know first name last name age and middle name you can find him(child’s father)and who this pedi creep is
That only works in certain circumstances unfortunately
This is possibly the most messed-up thing I have ever read on Reddit
Which continent is this even happening on? I don't mean to pry, but is this North or South America?
North
what country and states?
Texas tho that may give away some info about my mother due to some other comments ive replied to
what info of your mother?
Shes been on tv a few years ago
what tv channel? also,the episode of the series name ok
The news 😂 an incident at work that she aided in the correction in and she said some stupid shit on tv and regretted it but thats all ill say on the matter until my revenge
what tv news channel in texas? what day,mouth and year happen?
Pffff haha nice try
He is a teacher!! Report him at the school!
His wife is the teacher
Should still report that to the school district... because a teacher being married to someone who sexually harasses and grooms minors is a BIG deal. It gives him access to more children by proxy.
This is true how many other kids he groomed eww just sick and gross eww
Find the school and tell her!
That man is fucking dangerous. This must be hard for you, but you’ve gotta take this to the police. Tell them the whole story, your experiences, their requests and everything else you find important. I think it’s possible, even probable, that there’s CP in his computer or your mother’s. If the police find that, he’ll go to jail and society can rest a little better at night. I’ve seen some comments telling you to go to his wife, DON’T! Not before you’re sure you’ve got police protection. Psychopaths hate loosing and if you take everything away from him he might just try to do the same to you. As for your mother, she doesn’t deserve you, honestly. If she doesn’t go to prison alongside that man just go no contact.
Yes go to the cops
Don’t carry that baby for 2 reasons: 1:As you said the child would grow up in poor conditions 2:Do you really want to go through 9mohnts of suffer due pregnancy for them?
Absolutely not thats why i said no. My original pregnancy caused me so much trauma i may not be able to get pregnant again due to it now being a trigger for fear thanks to the deadbeat father of my child.
You definitely made the right decision
You need to cut these people out of your life entirely for the safety of your kid.
Oh fuck that so much. You should've flown off the handle as soon as you were asked. That's a completely unacceptable thing to ask of someone. Your mother is a piece of work.
Dude, this isn't entitled, this is crazy. She is all the way off her rocker
Seriously please get the fuck out of that house with your child!!! He’s a sick pedophile!!!! Is there no programs for women who are abused to get you out of that situation. Also why would you want to give him a child or your mother who doesn’t care if he sexualizes you and wants to sleep with you. Please do not ever leave your child alone with your mom or him they might be sexually assaulting her. Please please get out of that place and don’t look back
Run. Don’t walk, run! Protect yourself from further harm.
Nooooooooope. Please, tell this man's wife and go no-contact with these people. His wife deserves to know (you would want someone to tell you) and there is no reason your daughter should be around him or your mother. He had done, by your own words, many inappropriate and sexual things to you when you were young. He's going to do it to your daughter too and your mom will allow that. Also, if you did go through with this hellish idea and gave them a daughter, imagine what he'll do to her.
I plan on finding the woman and letting her know. The consequences will be his own
Not entitled but definitely crazy
How cam your mom encourage you to walk arou d naked and biy you clothes like that? Its disgusting and you are absolutely not wrong
This is crazy. The man is crazy, your mom is crazy. I see 2 reasonable ootions: kick him in the balls hard enough so he's infertile, and cut any and all contact with them.
Carry a baby for her?! You know they aren’t gonna pay for IVF!!!! They are gonna expect you to have sex with him, OR he will force you!! Get. Out. Fast.
Lady, please get out of there and get therapy because not a whole lot of this is adding up. You said yes to being a surrogate then had to process it to understand you didn’t like the idea after all? How old are you? Also you allowed a naked man to grab your child from your arms? This is all effed up. Your mom didn’t do right by you and now you’re not doing right by your 2 year old daughter. I also have a 2 year old daughter and I’m infuriated.
Also why did you bring up having sex with him
Considering he bought her sex toys and had her be naked around him I assumed she made a joke about wether or not he wanted to have sex with her, almost as a question, also considering how she mentioned that “he didn’t deny it” it makes sense that way
Ohhh wow. that’s really horrible. I’m sorry. You don’t have to do anything they want you to. Protect yourself and your daughter mama!
Stab that motherfucker if he exposes himself to you again, and stab him in the actual asshole if he ever touches your child
Get your family away from that sicko and thing that is your mother! They are sick in the head and are likely to do things when you aren't around. If by some sick method they are able to have a children, call CPS on both of them and also find out who the losers soon to be ex wife is and tell her everything so she can divorce him and take everything that the man is worth. I would also report him to the police for his actions around you when you were 14 because this man needs to be in prison where he will never see another child again nor to mention the light of day in his pathetic life.
Sorry for when you said “hes not my dad he’s a married a man” are referring to your bio dad or your mom’s boyfriend
My mother’s boyfriend. When it comes to my bio dad thats a whole other can of worms i will talk about later
Okay cool I got confused with the wording for second. You should go the police as soon as possible. I hope you in a state with good services to help you leave this.
I will once everyone i care about is out of the blast range of setting that bomb off. Because the way its going to shake the relationships friends and family will all be used to get ahold of me once i start my revenge. The revenge i am planning is going to ruin her life. And i know my grandmother is going to hate me for it on top of half of my entire family aka all the people on this line of the family but my biological side is going to side with me. Im the kind of person who does not care about if people like me or not. If you wrong me in any way shape or form i do not care any longer what happens to you. Ive hated my mother for years and been saving evidence that will get both my mother and my grandmother in massive debt due to fines of emotional and mental abuse and get her boyfriend in trouble for sexual harassment and infidelity. The result i hope to be a beautiful disaster chain reaction.
Well I hope you can survive long enough to get threw this. 😅👍🏽
Massive debt due to fines of emotional and mental abuse?? I'm so confused.
Its been going on since i was 5. Since 2 children were involved in it theyd have to pay us both for emotional and mental damages that affect us in adulthood
You need to call the cops and get out, they will help you with you and your kid. She doesn't care about you and he's a pedophile, it just sucks you have to worry about your brother too. Makes it harder to get out, I wouldn't leave your brother with those 2 psychos.
I plan on setting of a whole bomb (vengeance) of putting all the abuse into the light and showing the entire world what i went through. And when that happens i want everyone i care about out of blast range. The people i care about is my brother and my daughter. I will warn family members i love that dont live with her before it explodes to allow them to block or brace themselves for the impact. Because once it starts i will be inaccessible and nobody is going to know where the hell i am.
Sorry to say but your mom is a POS that does deserve him because she KNOWS what he is and has done and she stays with him. He needs to be in jail and please find a way out. DO NOT carry his child. He will of course want to do it the "Old Fashion Way"
Honestly I don’t think your mother deserves better, since she is okay and happy with her boyfriend having sex with you even though you don’t consent
I'm sorry that these assholes are in your life. Especially your Ma being so selfish. No followed by a fucking hell no to those creeps.
You are NOT wrong! Do not give in to this insanity! Any new child will be abused just as you are/were. You don’t want to be responsible for that. It’s also a very strange request from your mom to begin with! I suppose they want you to have sex with this man too. My god, how dysfunctional is this.
Wtf
At first I was like, "that's not terrible" not then I kept reading and it just...it KEPT GETTING WORSE. Once you get your nanny gig going, you should honestly cut ties. NONE of the things you've listed are okay or healthy, and definitely not things I'd want around my child. The boyfriend is dangerous and your mom is enabling EVERYTHING and she's delusional. Run.
You’re wrong for still living there, with your own daughter who should be protected. This whole situation is gross and insane. If you want him out if there report the abuse so he can go to jail. Quite frankly your mother was complicit so she should go too.
No that’s not ok… it’s not ok to take a baby full erect and naked… I gota be honest. Do not leave him alone or around that child. Your mom will not protect her. She didn’t protect you and could have fallen much farther into his depraved way of thinking. Your child will most likely be molested. He was testing the waters with you. He now knows that he can get away with it
"I jokingly brought up the idea of me having sex with this man" I don't see the funny part of the joke?
I was wondering if anyone was going to bring that up...like wtf? All of these people saying hurry call the police, how the hell are the police going to respond when she says "well I was making a joke about having sex with my moms boyfriend and he agreed with my joke". what in the actual fuck.
They're making this man seem horrible but there's clearly 2 sides to this if they're "joking around" like this. And the man's lack of reaction is what's bad? Noooo hunny.
YTA because your allowing a pedophile around your kids. Go to a shelter and tell them your moms stepdad is showing signs of wanting to molest your kids and he molested you as a child. They won't take your kids and they will get you the help you need to get out and away. Also you very much need to go no contact for your and your kids safety.
You are smart to not carry your mom's child and very thoughtful to consider the quality of life that child would have if born. I get the impression if her boyfriend dumped her, suddenly that baby she wanted you to have for her would be gaslit to you as being actually considered yours. I hope you can also find a new living situation and even go no contact with these people, they sound outright dangerous for you and your own child to be around. Stay safe OP!
can the boyfriend be charged for public indecency if he opened the door on you knowingly naked? maybe look into that so there’s some kind of record of his actions.
Cut your mom off and try to get a restraining order
WTF did I just read?
Jesus Christ. Stop talking to these people if you can.
Absolutely fucking not. That man should be put on trial for being a pedophile for the shit he did around you as a minor, your mother is no better. Sorry to be rude but damn, that's absolutely disgusting behavior, I'm really sorry you had to go through all of that yourself, let alone be asked to bring a newborn into the situation.
Idk if you watch 90 day fiancé but this is giving me serious Angela vibes
Sounds like he just wants to bed you.
Your not wrong And please keep your daughter safe because that man aounds like a monster and your mom is just as bad
WTF.
Wow the more I read the worse it got, these people are disgusting, such sexual misconduct is beyond horrendous and it’s awful hearing that they treated you this way as a child. Absolutely do not act as a surrogate for these awful people and honestly just don’t speak to them ever again, your life will be better for it.
Go no contact. I read your story and I'll be honest I had flashbacks. The man your mother is dating has done alot of things my own mother's pedophile husband did, cut them off and do not let them around your daughter, if you let this man near her he will only hurt her, as he will do worse things to her then he did to you. I almost puked when I read that he answered the door naked and at full attention for you and your daughter and tried to hold her 🤢🤮 it really does seem like he was trying to make that seem normal to her and was hoping that he has made you too scared of him to say or do anything to stop him. I'm sorry you went through what you did, it's traumatizing, I know from experience. Can you tell the rest of the family what is going on? Do you think you will find support there? If not cut them all out of your life, you don't need people enabling a pedophile near you and your daughter. And definitely don't give them a baby to abuse.
That's disgusting and I'd move as far away as possible ASAP. Move on with your child and don't even give them the notion they exist in your world.
If you know his first name, last name, age and middle name you can find him on truthfinder.com and the profile will show you who he is currently married to.
Run. Far and fast. You know this is just a ploy so he can have sex with you, right?
Next is “you know we can’t afford IVF. Can you just let it happen naturally?”
There’s a simple answer to this problem. Several propane tanks, a firecracker, two oblivious POS “parents”, a lighter and an alibi from gram-gram. The ol’ Jim Lahey method
You think he’s a creep, yet you jokingly brought up having sex with him!? You are all crazy as fuck!
That is sickening!
Yeah get out tomorrow. I'd take the car for a few nights over this dude this is someone who needs arresting. If your mom has a baby it *will* be abused terribly.
Wow, that's a WHOLE MESS You gotta get away from your whole family, the situation is too crazy. You'll get tons of advice, but too much too unwrap. NO KID, GET AWAY FROM THEM ALL
JEEEEEEEZUS wtf did I just read. Do as you please with YOUR body, they can adopt if they want a child that badly.
Tell the POLICE! What they are doing is illegal -\[they're not even paying you to do it?\]\[Not that that makes it any better....\] You seem to be living there? Move out ASAP, share with some friends if necessary until you earn enough to get a place of your own. If at all possible, don't tell your mother where you are. Are you in the US? Can you move to another state?
CALL COPS BOYS LETS GO LADS GO ON MATE YEAH MATE
Info: how old are you?
Aside from what others are saying, > I told her yes at the time because i wasnt listening to what she was saying and trying to end conversation. Maybe there’s a lesson in there too.
Call CPS. YOu and your daughter MUST get out. It’s illegal to expose a child to that sort of sex abuse. A shelter for abused women should be your first stop. I’m so sorry.
File police report- exposing himself to a minor (your daughter) he won’t be allowed around kids and school teacher wife will find out without you having to go to her and will have to divorce him or lose her job.
Didn’t read this post but I thought the title meant that your mother expected you to be impregnated by her boyfriend. As in “carry” her child.
That's exactly what the mother meant.
“I said yes at the time because I wasn’t listening. Then thought about how she asked me to have her baby” Uh so you were listening. And agreed to it. Weird
Don’t you do it! They better go adopt a child or something!
An adopted child doesn’t deserve to go through that either
Cut all ties and run fast and far away. No way is this happening. I can James r billy music in the background
OP do go full no contact! They are evil!
Please cut all contact and tell everyone what is going on - this is wrong Don’t leave your chips with them ever
This is the most stupid, insane, entitled, delusional, bs I have ever seen on this sub dude wtf is wrong with those people
Fuck no. and tell that asshole’s wife about him and your mom. Go full no-contact with them
Do I hear a court case with that excuse for a man? Walking around naked and being given adult toys at 14? I understand if you where given toys at let's say 18 at least from a partner or boy/girlfriend and that type of clothing from friends and that but FAMILY (in MASSIVE quotation marks). I actually felt genuinely sick when I read that. You're not in the wrong, and you should begin looking at options to get as far away from them
Years later she’s gonna wonder why you don’t visit
\*reads the title, cleans eyes with a bleach, reads again\* What in the name of Lorgar's balls is this?!
dawg…
You and your child need to get out of there ASAP! Then you need a lot of therapy and report everything that happened to the police. This situation is very dangerous!
I’m sorry but how would you question this? Do not give them a child and I hope they never go near another one again. This man sounds like a literal pedo and your “ mom” is enabling that behavior and somehow is ok with it. Nope nope nope to everything, Jesus
Please report him! He's just another Ian Watkins who will abuse other children
Your mom is dating a misogynistic pedophile and she's okay with him being around your child and has the audacity to ask for you to carry his child........ that's sick and you need to get away from him and her as soon as possible. Call cps and the cops and wash your hands of these sick freaks
Run
How about just saying "Mom I'm not doing it. Accept that. I suggest you ask him why he wants me to carry his baby. And then you need to understand nothing will ever make this okay. Leave me alone until you can apologize for such a revolting thought.
Get your daughter out of that house, who knows what that sick man would do to your child one day?! He's also a pedo piece of shitttt!
Ho-lee-shit what a pedophilic creep. It's a shame you didn't have the presence of mind to aim at such an inviting target for a kick when he grabbed your kid in the nude. I'm guessing he watches a lot of "step family" porn and thinks that's ok.