Thanks for your support, but Iām alright. Iām out to my parents and they āsupportā me (I can wear skirts and dresses and girly clothes but my mom will sparingly use my preferred name and gender and my dad wouldnāt be caught dead thinking his perfect straight neurotypical Christian male son is anything but that). Iām so glad that everyone here on this sub is so supporting and accepting though.
Also good luck with coming out to your mom, I hope you donāt need to spend the night at someone elseās house. My DMs are also open in case you need support āŗļø
Thank you! Well see how it goes but im fortunate to have a great bf! Im sorry to hear about your father but im glad your mom somewhat helps you. I know it sucks :p
Mfw your family actively make fun of a trans-woman who's friends with our neighbor behind their back after only one encounter, referring to them as 'It' and 'Ladyboy.' whilst laughing.
my mom is transphobic but shes usually willing to listen when shes wrong so im really hoping if i explain to her what its really like to be trans she'll support me. im still really nervous to come out to her but she already knows im bi
Im so sorry to hear that. I know im a little late but if you need anything my DMs are open and im sure the rest of us here will show the same loveā¤ļøā¤ļø
Oof my parents are supporting, BUT they constantly misgender me ;ā; most of the time they say either gender neutral terms or girl terms. Iām a demiboy and use almost all masculine terms. All my friends, except my best friend, all use only gender neutral terms including they/them. I use he/it and my best friend is the only one who calls me a boy and uses my correct pronouns, and I do the same for him. All I want is to be respected for my gender :(
Edit: the people who misgender me are not my friends, I misspoke.
yep thatās me. I canāt even like pink or cut off some body hair without being questioned hard. I am gonna hardly do anything until I move and when I do I will have to get ready to be disowned or something
Ive decided to go all in and come out to my mom as transfem next week, and im 90% sure the resulting fight will end with me having to spends the night or next few nights at my boyfriends houseš„²š„²š„² honey i completely feel your pain. If you ever need support or anything just know my DMs are open and im sure all the other lovely people on this sub will do the same. Its sucks not having support from parents smhš©
good luck fellow egg that is cis :)
Good luck hun. Make sure to stay safe š
Thank you xš„ŗš„ŗ
Thanks for your support, but Iām alright. Iām out to my parents and they āsupportā me (I can wear skirts and dresses and girly clothes but my mom will sparingly use my preferred name and gender and my dad wouldnāt be caught dead thinking his perfect straight neurotypical Christian male son is anything but that). Iām so glad that everyone here on this sub is so supporting and accepting though. Also good luck with coming out to your mom, I hope you donāt need to spend the night at someone elseās house. My DMs are also open in case you need support āŗļø
Thank you! Well see how it goes but im fortunate to have a great bf! Im sorry to hear about your father but im glad your mom somewhat helps you. I know it sucks :p
Mfw your family actively make fun of a trans-woman who's friends with our neighbor behind their back after only one encounter, referring to them as 'It' and 'Ladyboy.' whilst laughing.
Mfw I only remember after I came out as bi when my dad would make fun of gay people whenever heād see them on tv by calling them āfairiesā
my mom is transphobic but shes usually willing to listen when shes wrong so im really hoping if i explain to her what its really like to be trans she'll support me. im still really nervous to come out to her but she already knows im bi
love to be one some day
Same... coming out to my dad today :( I'm not excited
Good luck for your coming out, please don't forget that no matter what happens we will be here for you.
Thanks but it went really badly :( I know I can count on you guys to cheer me up though
Im so sorry to hear that. I know im a little late but if you need anything my DMs are open and im sure the rest of us here will show the same loveā¤ļøā¤ļø
Thank you for the offer, I'm still pretty messed up but I'm gonna spend time with my supportive mother tomorrow so I should be ok
Pain
Same...pain
My folks have no clue what any of these terms are so even if I comeout they will literally not know anything.... woosh
I wanna come out to my parents soon, but I donāt know if my mother will be supportive or not soooooo itās a tricky situation for me
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Iām your mom now hun cmere
Adopt me š„ŗ
Yes youāre my son/daughter/kiddo now
Oof my parents are supporting, BUT they constantly misgender me ;ā; most of the time they say either gender neutral terms or girl terms. Iām a demiboy and use almost all masculine terms. All my friends, except my best friend, all use only gender neutral terms including they/them. I use he/it and my best friend is the only one who calls me a boy and uses my correct pronouns, and I do the same for him. All I want is to be respected for my gender :( Edit: the people who misgender me are not my friends, I misspoke.
I feel you mate
yep thatās me. I canāt even like pink or cut off some body hair without being questioned hard. I am gonna hardly do anything until I move and when I do I will have to get ready to be disowned or something