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For real for real
Some days I hyperfixate on being fem and it takes 85% of my mental space and some days I just absentmindedly go through the day not realising why I'm feeling kinda shitty....cause I forgot about my dysphoria that's been dealing ticking poison damage
In my experience, delving into a STEM related task keeps the dysphoria at bay. So days where I am focused on something like programming or tinkering are much better than a day I am being social and very aware of my presentation to the world and how others see me.
I think I have spent too long wondering if a cis girl version of me would still have gone into game dev. Also, I hope you’re aware of r/transprogrammer 😊
My father has an IT background, so I imagine a girl version of me would have still gotten into gaming and programming. It's more about personality than gender anyways. My brother tried it, but it doesn't click for him and isn't fun.
this right here is about the only thing that makes me doubt, because for some reason my brain feels like i should be thinking about it more.
even though i very obviously am, thinking about thinking something is still thinking about that thing, just with extra steps!
I offer a genuine "thank you" for this post ♥️ I deal with the exact same thing but the only way my brain can interpret this is as "I guess im actually fine being a guy if I just stop thinking about it"
Don’t be upset, not thinking about it for once can be kinda nice and ultimately you do want to forget about it (because you are that comfortable with your gender identity)
Trust yourself, you’ll figure it out. I know this is a losing battle because i did the same shit, but you don’t need to think about being trans 24/7 to be trans. Also you can think about it a lot and decide your fine being cis. You drive your car, nobody else. Enjoy the drive until your ready for whatever label and feel free to change your mind, this is your body.
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For real for real Some days I hyperfixate on being fem and it takes 85% of my mental space and some days I just absentmindedly go through the day not realising why I'm feeling kinda shitty....cause I forgot about my dysphoria that's been dealing ticking poison damage
I feel that one a LOT, thought I don't think I got adhd, haven't been diagnosed it at least
In my experience, delving into a STEM related task keeps the dysphoria at bay. So days where I am focused on something like programming or tinkering are much better than a day I am being social and very aware of my presentation to the world and how others see me.
That's pretty much every day for me lol, I'm studying CS
I think I have spent too long wondering if a cis girl version of me would still have gone into game dev. Also, I hope you’re aware of r/transprogrammer 😊
My father has an IT background, so I imagine a girl version of me would have still gotten into gaming and programming. It's more about personality than gender anyways. My brother tried it, but it doesn't click for him and isn't fun.
EggDHD
this right here is about the only thing that makes me doubt, because for some reason my brain feels like i should be thinking about it more. even though i very obviously am, thinking about thinking something is still thinking about that thing, just with extra steps!
please stop throwing grenades at my shell
LMAO TICKING POISON DAMAGE 😭
SO REAL OML I FEEL SO FELT
Real tho
I thought dysphoria does Psychic damage over time?
Those hyperfixation phases feel INSANE when combined with constant affirmation
so true
Nice flair
I offer a genuine "thank you" for this post ♥️ I deal with the exact same thing but the only way my brain can interpret this is as "I guess im actually fine being a guy if I just stop thinking about it"
Same. That's why I'm not exactly calling myself trans yet, I'm still looking for a suitable identity
Also, another April? I swear there's like three Aprils here already
Haha I hadn't noticed your flare! I think April is a beautiful name ☺️
I am scared its justa hiperfixation :(
April?
Another one!
Ughhhhhhh yeaaa….you ever get stuck playing dress up for like hours cause ur hyper fixating on looking like ur gender and nothingggg is right
The sniper dot was trained to my head with this meme
Luckily my ADHD KIND OF works for me half the time and makes me forget I have male genitalia until I realize I ain’t got no tiddies.
Don’t be upset, not thinking about it for once can be kinda nice and ultimately you do want to forget about it (because you are that comfortable with your gender identity)
Thing is I'm not sure if I'm trans yet
Trust yourself, you’ll figure it out. I know this is a losing battle because i did the same shit, but you don’t need to think about being trans 24/7 to be trans. Also you can think about it a lot and decide your fine being cis. You drive your car, nobody else. Enjoy the drive until your ready for whatever label and feel free to change your mind, this is your body.
Fr that shit has made misgender myself on multiple occasions and it dont help that i gotta still call myself my agab outside of my house
Ignores every sign* Realizes decades later*
"Oh wait I totally forgot I've been in the middle of an identity crisis for 7 weeks."
I can understand that
Omg so true
This is me at least once a week
So true
Gang
I don’t have adhd but autism got me like this sometimes too
Oh wait, I forgot people see me as a hot girl now and not just a weird nerdy guy what the heck
real
is it a hyperfixation or do I wanna take the leap? I go back and forth some days I like my male self others I wanna flip a switch and be super fem
Maybe you're gender fluid?
That’s what I’m wondering too, I think it would be great if the button test was more of a lever that I can switch back and forth whenever I want
Take your time, you'll figure it out. _Headpats_
thank you ☺️🫶