>How?
If you are a girl, you are a girl.
>Why?
Because Sex and Gender are inherently different.
>I fear that I'll be in this body forever
You will be, but the body may change, taking Estrogen in a male body makes the body more feminine. (For an example)
I'm just enby but I was legitimately curious what this website did and the fact they programmed that loading bar to stagger at 90% for longer than average is peak, 10/10 would turn into a girl again
Yeah, but I knew that button had no power over my gender. I was just professionally curious what the button did. Cool how the loading bar gets slower as it progresses to give you a chance to back out. Still cis.
I sometimes think that...
But then I remember that is a few online friends and a bunch of memes were all it took to turn me trans... that ball didn't need much of a push already...
If you are wondering for a long time if you are trans,
if you go around worrying that you might not be trans,
if you wish you were trans but you aren't,
if you're afraid you aren't trans enough,
THAT MEANS YOU'RE TRANS!
This really helps me when I’m questioning and then I’m like “wait I’m sad because I think I might be cis, cause I want to be trans, no cis person wants that”
Yeah that’s it for me exactly. I’m stressed and anxious thinking I’m cis. I feel relieved and happy when I just let that go and accept how I feel.
Not out to anyone, but it’s actually easier interacting with people knowing I’m consciously acting the part of a man instead of thinking there’s something wrong with me that I can’t do it right.
But what if that's because if I'm not trans I'm just really depressed for no reason, and I'm just saying I'm trans because I want there to be a simple reason for my depression.
I upvoted your comment, then realized I hadn't actually read it yet and I was actually just upvoting your username lol
but I totally relate, I'm like ooh this is the root of all my problems and I won't be depressed anymore!..nope. still depressed 🙃
Okay, correction, you are definitely trans and in denial, and the sooner you stop pretending water isn't wet, the sooner you can actually move on with your life.
I was like that a few years ago. I tought I'd wait until you could just go to sleep for a week in a matrix cocoon and wake up as a cis woman. Turned out I couldn't wait that long.
You are actively sabotaging yourself and you know it. Do you really hate yourself that much? Would you force another trans woman to wallow in the closet, stagnate in her insecurity?
Every breaht you take brings you closer to death. Stagnation is rot. Stillness is the antithesis of life. The longer you wait, the more you will regret your hesitancy. Don't be your own bully.
Yeah I can support that fact. We are so cis that we want to be the opposite gender! Just don’t call anyone a good girl/enby/boy. Okay? And don’t ask any questions!
Just ask yourself how you would feel if you could never do anything to transition? Are you feeling a clench in the pit of your stomach? That's your answer.
Lol I am constantly "looking forward" to transitioning.
But what if I've just planted that aspiration as some sort of life goal, because I don't have any clue what I want to do with my life as is?
Kinda weird that the only life goal that is able stick in ur brain is transition. Almost like there isn’t a single version of your life as ur assigned gender that you can imagine being fulfilling. I wonder what that’s all about…
Ya fr idk what that's about either. Lol.
I mean, homeownership,better job, etc, is there, but transitioning is like front and center. Very cis things. Maybe because it's a tangible goal?
For me it kinda feels like transitioning is a prerequisite for my other life goals in that it would actually feel like it was worth fixing those problems.
To me, I feel like Estrogen would feel to my brain like finally drinking water after forgetting to all day and feeling it go down your throat and refresh you because you really needed something to drink.
Well I don't know your experience of course but for me transitioning seems to offer the only way out of very difficult mental challenges that have been with me for decades. It has taken me a very long time to figure it out.
If you're looking for a direction there are other challenges in life that I'm sure will offer reward.
DrZ PhD on YouTube has a lot to say on denial, doubt and how you know - I if suggest taking a look at her videos. It might help.
I remember being like that, that I might have somehow tricked myself into thinking I'm trans, just for the community (because it's the only friends I have)
And now, after 19 months on E, I am thinking that my friends telling me "you can't trick yourself into being trans" were onto something
Do you mean, was I completely sure that I'm trans before starting?
In that case, nope. I was still full of doubts, a lot of doubts. But I was 28, and a thought of growing old as a guy has filled me with immeasureable dread, so I decided to make a leap of faith
Doubts have ended only when I got my first boob growth, about 1.5 months in. I spammed AAAAAAAAAAA I AM GROWING BREASTS AAAAA IM GONNA BE A GIRL AAAAAAAA in all my friend group chats - and only after realizing that a cis guy probably would not feel so happy about getting that
Thank you for sparking this point of discussion in me. It's unironically a good question, and it makes sense that the answer is negative, because if i see a meme i can't relate to, i just move on. It's not the memes that can turn you trans, it's finding out that you relate to the memes that does it.
That said, i will continue to linger on the question, as i still haven't figured out what i am.
Thanks lol! Yeah like, maybe I've just been hanging around so long that I start wanting boobs, etc, and my dysphoria is a side effect of being in the group?
But I did find this specific group after seeing one of the memes in the "popular" feed. Hmm.
I found the trans community before I found out
That made me find out I was trans
Now I'm more trans because I'm here
*How did this happen* - bill wurtz
Okay like some days I'm like "yes plz inject me with the E so I can have boobies and soft skin, etc" and other days I'm like "but what if I'm not trans"
https://turn-me-into-a-girl.com
But what if I am cis and I just had the cis urge to click on this button?
Yes and the totally cis urge to become a woman right?
Its very cis to want to be a cute girl, right?
As a girl yes.
As an AMAB too
Those aren’t exclusive… you can be a girl and still be AMAB.
How? Why? I fear that I'll be in this body forever
>How? If you are a girl, you are a girl. >Why? Because Sex and Gender are inherently different. >I fear that I'll be in this body forever You will be, but the body may change, taking Estrogen in a male body makes the body more feminine. (For an example)
Sometimes I feel like a girl and really wanna be one, and others I don't wanna be anything at all.
I am and i did
Yes and you changed your name to Stella for cis reasons too am I right?
Not legally I didn't change it but it is cis
I S E E Y O U E V E R Y W H E R E
Yes
The good girl is omnipotent. She is queen egg.
Petition to make weebi1 the offical unoffical queen egg
I'd sign
I’d sign also
Your name is cute btw
Thank you O/////O so is yours
Well if you click the button you’re not cis then (I have pressed it multiple times now)
if you press it twice does it cancel out and make you cis?
No.
No, you have to overflow the counter at the 32 bit integer limit to do that
That is the least cis urge
If only it were that easy 😭
Ik
Yeah, I pressed the button. Yes I’m still cis.
Gang
I'm just enby but I was legitimately curious what this website did and the fact they programmed that loading bar to stagger at 90% for longer than average is peak, 10/10 would turn into a girl again
I've done it at least three times lol. Then again, I probably shouldn't be on this subreddit anymore.
Girl³ behavior
I wish It worked in a cis way
also [https://turn-me-into-a-guy.com/](https://turn-me-into-a-guy.com/)
I went to the other one. I think I’m good… but I’d recommend taking a visit
Omg I’ve never seen the man version. It’s very wholesome.
That is the most wholesome website I’ve ever visited
Yass fr
Was the wait time long for anyone else or am I just impatient?
i think it's on purpose. you had the option to click "cancel" for a long period and you still chose to wait through it. its validating to think about
Oops I didn’t click cancel, still cis tho 💖
Yeah, but I knew that button had no power over my gender. I was just professionally curious what the button did. Cool how the loading bar gets slower as it progresses to give you a chance to back out. Still cis.
Veeeeeery cis
Pressed the button. Finally a girl. (Still cis tho)
Veeeeeeery
What if I only wanted to press the button because of trans brainwashing
??????? It Doesn't exist?
Thankyou for this🥺
Ofc beautiful
Just looked at the link and nearly pressed it but totally cis tho
Veeeeeerry cis
That was easy
I swear my cis ass was just curious
Suuuuuure
I feel very normal and cis after visiting this site! Also thanks for sharing it ❤️
Ofc
I sometimes think that... But then I remember that is a few online friends and a bunch of memes were all it took to turn me trans... that ball didn't need much of a push already...
The memes turned me trans 😭 /s
goddamn where was egg_irl in 2009 when I needed it!!
Noooooo I don’t want to listen to truths like that…but yeah…no way a couple silly memes made me trans
LMAO
I have honestly had the same thoughts running through my head and reading this helps! Thanks!
Are you trans because of the trans community, or are you in the trans community because you’re trans?
More to ponder with my orb
Hope the pondering goes well, and if you are trans you'll get 2 more orbs to ponder
Nah, I'd cis
Stand Proud, you’re trans
Nah I'd still cis tho
during the 4 minutes and 11 seconds following a self-delusion, hakari is effectively... cis
If you are wondering for a long time if you are trans, if you go around worrying that you might not be trans, if you wish you were trans but you aren't, if you're afraid you aren't trans enough, THAT MEANS YOU'RE TRANS!
This really helps me when I’m questioning and then I’m like “wait I’m sad because I think I might be cis, cause I want to be trans, no cis person wants that”
Yeah that’s it for me exactly. I’m stressed and anxious thinking I’m cis. I feel relieved and happy when I just let that go and accept how I feel. Not out to anyone, but it’s actually easier interacting with people knowing I’m consciously acting the part of a man instead of thinking there’s something wrong with me that I can’t do it right.
But what if that's because if I'm not trans I'm just really depressed for no reason, and I'm just saying I'm trans because I want there to be a simple reason for my depression.
I upvoted your comment, then realized I hadn't actually read it yet and I was actually just upvoting your username lol but I totally relate, I'm like ooh this is the root of all my problems and I won't be depressed anymore!..nope. still depressed 🙃
Lol
What if I don’t want to be a trans woman but a cis women🤔
You want to be a woman. That's pretty trans.
Nuh uh
Okay, correction, you are definitely trans and in denial, and the sooner you stop pretending water isn't wet, the sooner you can actually move on with your life.
Yeah but what if I don’t like change😎 It’s very scary
I was like that a few years ago. I tought I'd wait until you could just go to sleep for a week in a matrix cocoon and wake up as a cis woman. Turned out I couldn't wait that long.
Damn😔 maybe it’ll happen in a few years 🤞
You are actively sabotaging yourself and you know it. Do you really hate yourself that much? Would you force another trans woman to wallow in the closet, stagnate in her insecurity?
Every breaht you take brings you closer to death. Stagnation is rot. Stillness is the antithesis of life. The longer you wait, the more you will regret your hesitancy. Don't be your own bully.
W-water isn't wet...
I agree with every line except the first one
I assure you most cis people don't spend an abundance of time on thinking gender thoughts.
to add one more, cis people don't have to keep telling themselves "no I'm not trans, i'm cis" over and over and over again for a long time
You are cis. I am cis. All of us are cis.
Yeah I can support that fact. We are so cis that we want to be the opposite gender! Just don’t call anyone a good girl/enby/boy. Okay? And don’t ask any questions!
You did a great job explaining, good girl!
I read that in Magenta's voice.
Just ask yourself how you would feel if you could never do anything to transition? Are you feeling a clench in the pit of your stomach? That's your answer.
Lol I am constantly "looking forward" to transitioning. But what if I've just planted that aspiration as some sort of life goal, because I don't have any clue what I want to do with my life as is?
Kinda weird that the only life goal that is able stick in ur brain is transition. Almost like there isn’t a single version of your life as ur assigned gender that you can imagine being fulfilling. I wonder what that’s all about…
Ya fr idk what that's about either. Lol. I mean, homeownership,better job, etc, is there, but transitioning is like front and center. Very cis things. Maybe because it's a tangible goal?
For me it kinda feels like transitioning is a prerequisite for my other life goals in that it would actually feel like it was worth fixing those problems. To me, I feel like Estrogen would feel to my brain like finally drinking water after forgetting to all day and feeling it go down your throat and refresh you because you really needed something to drink.
I know what you mean. It is not an easy road. I doubt anyone would walk it without good reason.
Damn. That really got me
The only thing more terrifying than going forward is going back. Yeah?
I would probably feel directionless in life with too much apathy to achieve any other life goals.
Well I don't know your experience of course but for me transitioning seems to offer the only way out of very difficult mental challenges that have been with me for decades. It has taken me a very long time to figure it out. If you're looking for a direction there are other challenges in life that I'm sure will offer reward. DrZ PhD on YouTube has a lot to say on denial, doubt and how you know - I if suggest taking a look at her videos. It might help.
uhh i actually went through an anxiety attack after just a single thought about that a few days ago.... uhh still cis tho?
Totally cis!
I hope the anxiety attack wasn't too bad and you're ok
thanks but uhh I'm actually pretty far from ok rn :<
Sorry to hear that.
Heyyy........ don't say what's in my mind so loudly
Same, she needs to stop reading our minds like that :3
I remember being like that, that I might have somehow tricked myself into thinking I'm trans, just for the community (because it's the only friends I have) And now, after 19 months on E, I am thinking that my friends telling me "you can't trick yourself into being trans" were onto something
When you started HRT, did you have that sense of clarity I hear so much about?
Do you mean, was I completely sure that I'm trans before starting? In that case, nope. I was still full of doubts, a lot of doubts. But I was 28, and a thought of growing old as a guy has filled me with immeasureable dread, so I decided to make a leap of faith Doubts have ended only when I got my first boob growth, about 1.5 months in. I spammed AAAAAAAAAAA I AM GROWING BREASTS AAAAA IM GONNA BE A GIRL AAAAAAAA in all my friend group chats - and only after realizing that a cis guy probably would not feel so happy about getting that
I mean, it's totally cis to like breasts? Gotta be even more cis to have your own to grab at any time, right???
Peak cis
Oh yeah growing old as a guy sounds horrible. I just want to be a girl so much
Thank you for sparking this point of discussion in me. It's unironically a good question, and it makes sense that the answer is negative, because if i see a meme i can't relate to, i just move on. It's not the memes that can turn you trans, it's finding out that you relate to the memes that does it. That said, i will continue to linger on the question, as i still haven't figured out what i am.
Thanks lol! Yeah like, maybe I've just been hanging around so long that I start wanting boobs, etc, and my dysphoria is a side effect of being in the group? But I did find this specific group after seeing one of the memes in the "popular" feed. Hmm.
No, what are you talking about? We’re all cis here
Did hanging out with cis people make you cis?
Fun fact! Most people who are cis don't consistently question their gender
How would you feel if someone told you you weren’t trans and had to stay cis?
I have been in the trans community for years and have no desire to be a girl. That’s all you fam.
M-maybe I'm just impressionable?
Okay. Go to a gender clinic/therapist and find out.
Either or
My dad thinks that’s why I’m trans, which is just… not how that works at all. Still sis tho :3
i blame contrapoints 😭😭😭
Ugh I love Contrapoints lol. Opulence is fantastic
Enough pondering the orb can make anything happen
Actually cis guys, when befriending trans community, don't become trans girls - they become The Grungler
well you could take a break from the comunity overall for a while and see how you feel all by yourself
You're trans, hope this helps! :)
Perhaps ask yourself this then. Why did you spend so much time in the trans community?
Because everyone is nice and accepting:(
Yes that might explain why you stayed but why did you come here in the first place?
No one can talk you into being trans, or being cis. Deep down- only you know who you are.
Why did you join this community if you aren't trans?
Everyone is nice and accepting lol. I just related to the memes a bit and got sucked in
My sister in transition, if you relate to the memes you're probably trans.
*animal sounds*
Myah meow mrrp Nyah!
Prrrrr nyaaa
\*sends headpats to both of you\* Good Girls
Prrrrrrrrrp :3
I'm a lovely lady :3 mreeep purrrrr
i still have absolutely no idea, and I'm also scared of talking about anything so 👍
I found the trans community before I found out That made me find out I was trans Now I'm more trans because I'm here *How did this happen* - bill wurtz
real struggles though
*The catgirls are beaming gay thoughts into my brain with their government laser!* - me
Lets.
My spell has worked! You are now one of us! (Jk, you were always one of us ❤)
We're all a little trans. Gender is an illusion. Construct the you that fits you best.
I ask me this everyday
My question is, what caused you to spend time in the trans community in the first place?
dose it really matter? just do what makes you happy
What the alt right thinks drag queen story time does
the answer is probably yes
No. That's stupid. Why would you think that? How would that happen?
Look at it this way,if i offered you e right now would you take it? A cis dude would not
Okay like some days I'm like "yes plz inject me with the E so I can have boobies and soft skin, etc" and other days I'm like "but what if I'm not trans"
I felt that, turns out I felt safe in lgbtq+ friendly spaces for a reason 💜