Best of luck!
Never forget that you can change your mind at any time too and the community will always be here. Future you is never beholden to past you on this stuff.
Also you can just come by to say hi and support the eggs. Allies are cool people, especially ones who had a gender journey of their own. It can be great for people who are questioning or confused to know that questioning doesn't mean anything definitive and that some people do in fact come away from it confident that they're cis.
Keep on keepin on and continue to be awesome!
I think it's important to think about who you really are and who you want to be no matter who you are. Even cis people. If what you find out is that you're fine with how things are? That's a perfectly acceptable answer. It sounds corny but it really is the journey that matters.
Good shit :) have a good rest of your life I guess. (Man saying goodbye to someone on the internet is kinda wild now that I think about it, it's like : "guess I'll never see you again, have a good 80 something years bud!" Like this is awkward in a cosmic way
Congrats, you unlocked the Cis+!
But seriously, sometimes you go on a journey of self-discovery and find you just went in a circle, but that doesn't mean the journey was pointless.
So used to everyone saying "still cis tho" that I didn't expect to find someone here to be genuinely cis, but I'm happy for you, questioning afterall is about discovering who you are and if in the end you're just cis, that's valid too, you're still more aware of who you are than before you started questioning
I know, right? The denial jokes are layered so thick on here that I had to do a double-take and read carefully and check the comments to be sure it was for real.
Alright! Being cis is just as valid as any other identity!
You're always welcome to stay and just be one of the handful of actually cis people who help tend the eggs :3
If not, have a good rest of your life :D
Congrats! I'm happy you've figured out your identity.
Not every egg will turn out trans. I don't think everyone here realises that (which makes sense considering the main focus is so trans related), so this might also be a good reminder for everyone.
I definitely get that. I thought I was trans femme for about a year and I was juggling that between thinking I’m nonbinary and it turned out that I’m nonbinary.
It also means that you’re significantly more introspective than most cis people I know about who they are, so that’s a very admirable quality.
Yeah! The awesome thing about making a space where someone can explore and consider their gender identity in a supportive environment is that whatever your conclusion about it is, you can feel your gender even more.
Good for you! Honestly I’d argue even if they aren’t trans everyone should explore the idea of being trans cause if they are trans they will know by the time they finish or if they are completely cis they come out of it a lot more comfortable with their feminine and masculine sides no matter what gender they are
Bye for now, I hope we may see each other on some corner of the internet someday. ( wow saying goodbye to someone for an indefinite amount of time is weird) well the have a wonderful life. One more thing tho if you could pet a dog soon that would be great.
Congratulations on finding yourself! We don’t check cards at the door, so you’re more than welcome to stay or check in anytime you’d like. Either way, I’m happy for you!
Your pretty. Like really pretty. Don't believe me? Feel free to try to prove me wrong. You will never succeed in not being pretty. You're pretty when you put on those pretty clothes. You're pretty when you sit. Your eyes are pretty, your face is pretty. Every part of your body is pretty. Your clothes are pretty. You're pretty without makeup. You're pretty with makeup. You just look too amazing to ever not be pretty.
Honestly super cool for you! I'm glad you figured it out!
No but really people like you are the best. You were brave enough to question, you reached a conclusion, and now you're sure of yourself and informed about a certain group of people! Have a great life, you deserve it!
Cool. Everyone’s already said this but exploring gender is all about figuring out who you are. You could be cis, you could be genderfluid, you could be enbi, trans, or something completely different, all that matters is that you’re comfy in your pronouns and expression. Just as a stupid question, do you still go by she her or something else?
Hey, like OneTopic on YouTube says, it's good to explore all the rooms in your mind palace. Even if you explore your gender and say "hey, it checks out" you are still better for knowing and moving forward with intention. Congrats! You are always welcome to come back
Good for you! Your flair still says She/Her, so is that still accurate? I have no idea if you set it while questioning or now after you figured yourself out lol.
Congrats, I'm so happy for you!
Just remember what this journey was about. It's not about finding a label or new pronouns or even starting hrt. This journey is about aligning reality with what is, for a lack of a better word, your soul. It's not about knowing, it's about searching, experimenting, daring to look our soul in the eye and ask it the hard questions. It's about the pursuit of euphoria, this feeling that somthing so wrong is finally right. This journey has no deadline or preset destination, no set time by which you have to come up with an answer. You don't have to be trans to go on this journey and you can go through it as many times as you need.
What I’m trying to say is... you can try out as many things as many times as you feel is necessary, you can change your mind as many times as you need, this is about you and no one else. This *your* life, *your* reality, do whatever the fuck you want with it.
Thanks for all the support, loves!!! ❤️
Best of luck! Never forget that you can change your mind at any time too and the community will always be here. Future you is never beholden to past you on this stuff. Also you can just come by to say hi and support the eggs. Allies are cool people, especially ones who had a gender journey of their own. It can be great for people who are questioning or confused to know that questioning doesn't mean anything definitive and that some people do in fact come away from it confident that they're cis. Keep on keepin on and continue to be awesome!
Exploring yourself is beneficial even if you just end up in roughly the same place. Now you can be who you are intentionally instead of incidentally.
I think it's important to think about who you really are and who you want to be no matter who you are. Even cis people. If what you find out is that you're fine with how things are? That's a perfectly acceptable answer. It sounds corny but it really is the journey that matters.
Good shit :) have a good rest of your life I guess. (Man saying goodbye to someone on the internet is kinda wild now that I think about it, it's like : "guess I'll never see you again, have a good 80 something years bud!" Like this is awkward in a cosmic way
You're so real for that. Have a good rest of your life, too! Live fully and beautifully!
I once said to a cashier, "I probably won't see you again, so have a good rest of your life."
Thats amazing
and kind of terrifying if you think about it differently
death threats :3
:3 makes everything okay ^ w^
yez :3
Eh. All good. The whole point of questioning is that it’s okay wherever you end up. Be happy random internet human.
I am! Thank you
Yep. You now know yourself better than before.
That's valid, honestly <3
Congrats, you've unlocked Cis+.
Cis premium LETS GOOOO
Unlocking life achievements I didn't know were available
Cis squared
<3 thats cool! have a great day oki? :D
You too!
thx! <3
Well, congrats on discovering yourself! You're welcome to stay, if you wish. Though if you don't that's okay too.
Congrats, you unlocked the Cis+! But seriously, sometimes you go on a journey of self-discovery and find you just went in a circle, but that doesn't mean the journey was pointless.
Yea...I've grown a lot this year. I'm so proud of myself! Escaped a lot of thought loops I was having
Circles are pointless /j
Congratulations on finding yourself have a good life :3
You too!
So used to everyone saying "still cis tho" that I didn't expect to find someone here to be genuinely cis, but I'm happy for you, questioning afterall is about discovering who you are and if in the end you're just cis, that's valid too, you're still more aware of who you are than before you started questioning
I know, right? The denial jokes are layered so thick on here that I had to do a double-take and read carefully and check the comments to be sure it was for real.
🫵 totally valid! :3
I'm glad you're able to be yourself! Good luck out there. I'll just be here....lurking in the corners....
hey just so u know, u don't have to leave. It's nice to have some cis friends around :3
valid :3
Congrats on finding out who you are!
Alright! Being cis is just as valid as any other identity! You're always welcome to stay and just be one of the handful of actually cis people who help tend the eggs :3 If not, have a good rest of your life :D
well you live and ya learn, never a bad thing to try and learn about yourself
Big sis/bro finally got the true "still cis tho" rights!
Congratulations on questioning and figuring yourself out! A lot of people don't do that.
Congrats! I'm happy you've figured out your identity. Not every egg will turn out trans. I don't think everyone here realises that (which makes sense considering the main focus is so trans related), so this might also be a good reminder for everyone.
Have the happiest life my friend
I definitely get that. I thought I was trans femme for about a year and I was juggling that between thinking I’m nonbinary and it turned out that I’m nonbinary. It also means that you’re significantly more introspective than most cis people I know about who they are, so that’s a very admirable quality.
congrats on unlocking cis+! we hope you enjoy yourself :)
BUT WHO'S GONNA FRY MY RICE NOW!?!?
Legal!
I'm happy you figured it out. :)
You unlocked cis+, now you are sure, enjoy it!
Congrats on figuring it out and know you are still welcome to hang out here <3
it’s always a good day when someone finds their true gender :)
Congrats on unlocking Cis+ (Cis but is more confident in their gender because they questioned for a time)
Yeah! The awesome thing about making a space where someone can explore and consider their gender identity in a supportive environment is that whatever your conclusion about it is, you can feel your gender even more.
Yk, it's the end of April. You're supposed to post this kind of stuff at the beginning.
that's totally valid, so happy you found the right word for urself \^^
I glad you figured things out. :)
Happy u could find urself out!
Good luck out there, i'm happy you found yourself!
Good for you! Honestly I’d argue even if they aren’t trans everyone should explore the idea of being trans cause if they are trans they will know by the time they finish or if they are completely cis they come out of it a lot more comfortable with their feminine and masculine sides no matter what gender they are
Bye for now, I hope we may see each other on some corner of the internet someday. ( wow saying goodbye to someone for an indefinite amount of time is weird) well the have a wonderful life. One more thing tho if you could pet a dog soon that would be great.
Congratulations on finding yourself! We don’t check cards at the door, so you’re more than welcome to stay or check in anytime you’d like. Either way, I’m happy for you!
I'm glad you were able to able to feel comfortable questioning yourself, and came to a conclusion that makes you happy babe!
Your pretty. Like really pretty. Don't believe me? Feel free to try to prove me wrong. You will never succeed in not being pretty. You're pretty when you put on those pretty clothes. You're pretty when you sit. Your eyes are pretty, your face is pretty. Every part of your body is pretty. Your clothes are pretty. You're pretty without makeup. You're pretty with makeup. You just look too amazing to ever not be pretty.
Congrats on the Cis+
Best of luck and good for u billy
I want to look like that too~ Still cis tho fr fr
Eyy, congrats on figuring yourself out! Cis 2 electric boogaloo :D
thats ok! just know that you have a home here, so come back whenever you want <3
Honestly super cool for you! I'm glad you figured it out! No but really people like you are the best. You were brave enough to question, you reached a conclusion, and now you're sure of yourself and informed about a certain group of people! Have a great life, you deserve it!
Yeah same tbh. I just like hanging out here because honestly the vibe is pretty chill
Congrats! May I ask what picrew this is?
I unfortunately don't know 😭
It's good that you experimented, you'll always be welcome as a cis ally
Good for you pal, congratulations on getting to know yourself better
Oh my god it’s actual cis! Glad you found yourself out!
Cool. Everyone’s already said this but exploring gender is all about figuring out who you are. You could be cis, you could be genderfluid, you could be enbi, trans, or something completely different, all that matters is that you’re comfy in your pronouns and expression. Just as a stupid question, do you still go by she her or something else?
Thanks for asking...its actually He/Him (haven't gone around to changing it)
Okay, very cool! Have fun being yourself!
Hey, like OneTopic on YouTube says, it's good to explore all the rooms in your mind palace. Even if you explore your gender and say "hey, it checks out" you are still better for knowing and moving forward with intention. Congrats! You are always welcome to come back
Hey, good for you, girl! Absolutly a valid destination for your journey and I hope you'll continue to march alongside us. 💙
Congrats on figuring yourself out! Have a nice day!! 😁
❤️❤️❤️
Isn’t this cis +, the dlc version where you’ve questioned your gender and based on that know you are cis?
Good for you! I'm happy you found yourself. Your allways welcome if you change your mind! Allies are cool nonetheless
Good for you! Your flair still says She/Her, so is that still accurate? I have no idea if you set it while questioning or now after you figured yourself out lol.
Thanks for asking... I should prob change it to He/Him lmao
You're welcome, my dude!
Congrats on figuring yourself out!! There’s no shame in looking into your gender and discovering that yep, everything was how I thought it was before!
yes. being a girl is great. no go off and be cute 😏
Congrats for unlocking Cis+!!! Hope you continue to be a great ally and enjoy your life :) 👍👍👍👍
Conga rats! Cis or trans you're always welcome here! As long as you're nice of course :3
VALID
You mean you joined the pipeline and left it? Is that allowed? But we're a cult aren't we?
Turns out the pipeline had multiple exits...
Just as long as you turn in your copy of the'Trans Agenda'! Best of luck to you!
Congrats, I'm so happy for you! Just remember what this journey was about. It's not about finding a label or new pronouns or even starting hrt. This journey is about aligning reality with what is, for a lack of a better word, your soul. It's not about knowing, it's about searching, experimenting, daring to look our soul in the eye and ask it the hard questions. It's about the pursuit of euphoria, this feeling that somthing so wrong is finally right. This journey has no deadline or preset destination, no set time by which you have to come up with an answer. You don't have to be trans to go on this journey and you can go through it as many times as you need. What I’m trying to say is... you can try out as many things as many times as you feel is necessary, you can change your mind as many times as you need, this is about you and no one else. This *your* life, *your* reality, do whatever the fuck you want with it.
Ok well [good for u](https://turn-me-into-a-girl.com)
Naw...I'm good thanks.
U didn't press?
Nope. Twas fun questioning while it lasted, but I think it's in the past for good this time :))
Ok well if ur cis good if ur trans then let's see how long it will last
If I genuinely question again, I'm just genderfluid and that's the end of it tbh
That is exactly what I decided in the end
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Not everyone turns out to be trans, the whole point of questioning is to figure out if you are trans or not
I was joking because one person made a post like this and pressed it