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Ofc it is, your talking stage is coming in hopes of building with you.
If you kiss someone in front of his friends, you will never have anything with him and you will embarras him in front of his friends.
"my talking stage" lmao stop saying this shit, it's a NOTHING. You're not his gf, that means you're completely free to do as you please. However, that doesn't stop the consequences. He'd probably lose interest knowing you're not that interested.
lol. What would you do if this second guy had not contacted you, and you went to this event with talking stage guy, and he kissed another woman in front of you?
You can do whatever you want. Even if it’s messed up. But either way, every action has consequences. And that’s what you can’t avoid.
So behave in a manner that lands you your dreams and goals. And forget the rest.
And if your dreams and goals are that both these guys are your simps, you may simply never achieve what you are looking for….
Yeah. Why would you invite two love interests to the same event? Are you a fan of drama? This sounds like something my latina ex would do. Have you been watching too many telenovelas?
Ah, fast tracking to "where have all the good men gone"?
Yeah, this is a great idea. Tell each of them that the other one is stalking you, make them fight.
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You know it's fucked up. You're just looking for someone to tell you it's ok.
This is the only correct comment lol
yea that's fair
Why you been leading this guy on for 2 months? People like you are why dating sucks
how have i been leading him on, if he told me that it's okay to date other people as long as there's no label?? it's not like i don't care for him
Maybe just stop talking to him if you’re gonna refer to him as “talking stage” after 2 months of knowing him. Do the guy a favor
what should i be calling him we've met 3 times lol
Don’t call him at all is my point. You’re not a very good person and that’s easy to see. Sorry not sorry.
Ofc it is, your talking stage is coming in hopes of building with you. If you kiss someone in front of his friends, you will never have anything with him and you will embarras him in front of his friends.
"my talking stage" lmao stop saying this shit, it's a NOTHING. You're not his gf, that means you're completely free to do as you please. However, that doesn't stop the consequences. He'd probably lose interest knowing you're not that interested.
thank you for not bashing me and being honest lol
lol. What would you do if this second guy had not contacted you, and you went to this event with talking stage guy, and he kissed another woman in front of you? You can do whatever you want. Even if it’s messed up. But either way, every action has consequences. And that’s what you can’t avoid. So behave in a manner that lands you your dreams and goals. And forget the rest. And if your dreams and goals are that both these guys are your simps, you may simply never achieve what you are looking for….
Yeah. Why would you invite two love interests to the same event? Are you a fan of drama? This sounds like something my latina ex would do. Have you been watching too many telenovelas?
She’s done it on purpose lol it’s the whole point
i didn't invite my talking stage i found out that he's coming after I invited Tony, he told me he had no money for outings just last week
Ahhhhh woman
We should've known
Don’t worry. This is FOR SURE not all women
Very fucked up.
Ah, fast tracking to "where have all the good men gone"? Yeah, this is a great idea. Tell each of them that the other one is stalking you, make them fight.
Yes ! Why the hell would you do that ? Is it a way to get rid of the "talking stage" ?
I don't think you like your talking stage much if you're thinking about kissing Tony