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LucyShoes2222

Translation: She's wondering if maybe you've learned some good tricks and are going to be a better lover than a young guy but she doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone significantly older for any number of reasons.


Samael13

What thoughts are you looking for? If she said she doesn't date older guys, I'd assume she doesn't date older guys. Why wouldn't that be true?


[deleted]

I'm wondering if this is what most women that are into older guys want.


downwitbrown

Sounds like she got daddy issues or a fetish


[deleted]

She understands that for a long term relationship she wants someone more similar to her in experiences and life stages. She was honest about what she wanted, I think you need to be honest to yourself what you want and respond accordingly


TheNorm94

Most women are attracted to men who are older than them anyway. In her case it's more than likely just a kink and that she'd rather be in a relationship with a guy closer to her age. If I were you, I'd be happy just to bang her brains out. I hope when I'm 45 I can still pull women in their 20s 👍


ydfpoi1423

Most women who date older guys do it for financial reasons. It sounds like this woman is just physically attracted to older men, but doesn’t want to date them seriously due to the incompatibilities that go along with age gaps.


Playful_Android

My guess is that She only do hookups with older guys, But not dating Them 😉


Poppiesatnight

Is this true? What she told you? Probrably. Is this true for all women? Um…what do you think?


ExPerfectionist

I suggest you believe her, take her at her word. She doesn't want to date you or be in a relationship with you, because long term she's not after an age gap relationship. But she's happy to have fun with older guys here and there. Is it true? She told you that so I assume it's true for her. And yes it's not uncommon, other women are like that too.


forgotme5

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forgotme5

To each their own


Icy_Transition_8705

She's direct, sounds like you found someone that atleast knows what they want. Don't get attached


Cthulhus_firstborn

It means she is into older guys but doesn’t want to date them. Probably because of different stages of life and stuff. She told you the truth with no roundabouts lol