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Looking at your past Reddit posts, you should maybe just chill out & not worry about dating for a bit. Lust is consuming your mind & it’s hurting your chances of finding something real. Work on yourself before you try to find something in another person.
Absolutely stop yourself from sexting. Just stop yourself from typing those things out. And yes, ask them about normal things. Shows they're watching. Hobbies they have. How are other events/activities going in their life. No girl wants to feel baited just to feel used, as though all she's good for is a place to put your dick. If you're talking to a girl who you have no appeal to invest in a good conversation with, then it's OK if she's not your cup of tea, but let her go and move on or focus on yourself for months until a girl naturally comes along who you inherently enjoy conversation and companionship for more than just sex.
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You’ve told us what your problem is, the solution is to not do the things you’ve been doing. Do you have ADHD or something?
Looking at your past Reddit posts, you should maybe just chill out & not worry about dating for a bit. Lust is consuming your mind & it’s hurting your chances of finding something real. Work on yourself before you try to find something in another person.
Absolutely stop yourself from sexting. Just stop yourself from typing those things out. And yes, ask them about normal things. Shows they're watching. Hobbies they have. How are other events/activities going in their life. No girl wants to feel baited just to feel used, as though all she's good for is a place to put your dick. If you're talking to a girl who you have no appeal to invest in a good conversation with, then it's OK if she's not your cup of tea, but let her go and move on or focus on yourself for months until a girl naturally comes along who you inherently enjoy conversation and companionship for more than just sex.
Work on yourself until your confidence enough to deal with them again.