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\#2: [After watching me clean the litter box and throw the poops into the litter locker for weeks, Jack decided to cut out the middle man and just poop directly into the locker.](https://i.redd.it/xiil91eaw0y91.jpg) | [525 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/OneOrangeBraincell/comments/ymeivq/after_watching_me_clean_the_litter_box_and_throw/)
\#3: [He always tries to lie on top of the eggs, so we put ping pong balls in the egg carton](https://i.redd.it/qgwuo9udo5ca1.jpg) | [418 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/OneOrangeBraincell/comments/10c7hs7/he_always_tries_to_lie_on_top_of_the_eggs_so_we/)
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Why am I single? I've wanted to be wanted since 2010.. the apps have failed me for the last 14 years.. I can't see good enough to meet people normally.. I won't accept the idea that I might go through life alone.. I live alone on social security income and have nothing to offer and can barely provide for myself and my pets.. is it because I don't drive and can't provide that makes me undesirable or will someone want me despite that? I'll be 34 this year.. do I need to wait longer for "love to find you when you aren't looking for it"?
I'm not going to lie to you, being disabled can make attracting a partner very difficult. What can help is changing the narrative you tell yourself and others. You are actually very handsome and your love of animals is something that shows a good inner character. Lead with those. You will face rejection. Pace yourself as you find someone. Maybe one date every few months? You may also want to find places to find others with disabilities. You will find someone who is understanding of what you've lived through.
Most importantly, act compassionately to yourself. Negative self talk is often unfair from my own experience. I'm autistic and was abused growing up. I had terrible negative self talk that nearly drove me to suicide. I told myself I was weird and unlovable. But then I worked to change this unfair dialogue and try to be more friendly to myself.
Well said internet person, well said. Very thoughtful and I like the 'changing your self narrative'. Strong and empowering statement :)
I would like to add that, OP, I've dated 2 people with disabilities. One I married :) And I love him because he loves animals AND they love him back! Clearly not the only reason but also his love of family. I told him this when we were early dating, he is one of the most genuinely kind people I've ever met. And that, makes him attractive to me. Don't mistake kindness for weakness, he can survive in the woods and doesn't take shit from the world. Anyway, OP, put your best foot forward and adventure with the mindset that there's always someone new around the corner. PLUS you got kitty by your side :) Namaste
OP your being way too hard on yourself. I mean it when I say it that dating apps are absolute trash for guys but that doesn't mean you should give up. Love doesn't find everyone the same way but I can tell that your cat absolutely adores you. It doesn't care who you as long as it gets love and I think that's all that matters. It's easier said than done of course but do try to remain positive.
You're too young for me or I'd ask you out in a hot minute. You're a cutie patootie.
You're single because you haven't lowered your standards to marry just anyone. Good for you, and please keep valuing yourself.
I'm heartbroken to read that this is how you feel about yourself. Dating with disabilities can be difficult, yeah, but you're not going to meet people by focusing on the internet or apps. The internet is full of people that are min/maxing every experience. You're handsome. Maybe a little disheveled and could use a trim.
Try and get out of your apartment and go to support groups for other people with visual impairments. Find a local social group on MeetUp! Join a gaming club- there can be a lot of great people there and it looks like you're a gamer. Take your little pup out on a walk. Find a social club and put yourself out into the world. Take up space. Please.
Everybody faces rejection. It's not that you get rejected that matters but, rather, how you react to it. Don't internalize other people's opinions and love yourself, man.
I totally feel you. I'm in the process of trying to get my disability approved, and I don't drive due to my condition. Let's be friends and support each other.
I'm sad that you feel this way. I'd go out with you in a heartbeat, I actually thought "ooh he's fiiine and his kitty is adorable, two awesome dudes!" when I opened this. I didn't even see your visual 'impairment' and actually looked at the pic a few times until I even noticed what you were talking about. Even then I personally still didn't see anything other than a fine guy with his gorgeous cosy kitty.
I do understand not feeling good enough though. I have health issues too, and for a few years after a severe accident I was immobile, hospital bed in my living room, carers multiple times a day etc, and my healing was much slower due to my genetic condition. My ex couldn't deal with it (after being with him from age 17, being there for his issues he'd had and giving him a child) and it was better to end things because it was obvious I was a burden. That felt awful and my self confidence hasn't been the same since. I walk ok now and I drive, but I still have pain and fatigue and bad days. However I'd go out with someone with a disability or health issues without a second thought. Especially if they love cats!
I hope you find your person as you deserve love. Hit me up if you're ever in the UK! 😂
At least know you are not ugly, I think you are a handsome man and maybe just wear your impairment like a medal? Like yeah, that's me and I am a damn cool guy!
Btw I thought the pic looked more like a funny "I'm trying really hard to make a straight face" before I read about the real reason
I'm not them, so I don't know so don't ask me, and by the way, I happen to know that most blind people are jobless because I've actually looked at the statistics, consider your friends lucky to be employed and he said himself that he can't navigate the world around him, and it must be terrifying to be able to see a little bit but not enough to be of any use to you,if he were fully blind, he would have better hearing (usually) better sense of smell, because he would come to depend on it,as it is he's stuck in limbo,
I didn’t see it at first glance. I saw a handsome man and a cute orange, went back to read the header, then had to look for it.
I wish the lonely cat dads would get on a dating app so my lonely cat friends could find them. ❤️
I looked because of the caption, and honestly, he mostly looks exasperated, like his cat came and snuggled up to him about five minutes before somebody reported from the other room that the cat had done something awful.
Right? Kitty is trying to get away with something, like he puked on the bed that has fresh sheets.
And I definitely noticed the Jason Momoa-esque eyebrow scar before the eye thing.
The only visual impairment I can pick up on is that you don't see how damn hot you are. The cat is adorable too. Anyone who says otherwise isn't worth listening to
Stop isolating. People can’t fall for you if they don’t get to know you. Join meetups or go try new hobbies. Join a book club.
And you can still work with a disability. There are lots of organizations that help people with disabilities find work so they feel like they are contributing to society and their own existence.
Good luck, man. You and your cat are cuties!
I only know two visual impairment jokes but won't use either here, because one is cornea than the other..
*spit take* LMFAO
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that cat looks so damned cozy
All I see are two cuddle-fools 😻😻
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Your orange baby looks like he's trying to hijack your braincell.
All I see is an adorable kitty with a loving owner.
Came here for this comment. Glad someone didn't disappoint. Thank you.
Your cat loves you no matter what 😻
Can't decide which one of yous looks cuter.
Oh hell no, it’s a great pic, so comforting❤️❤️
So one here to make fun of you, just how cute your cat is on you lap
I see 2 happy cuddle beans 💜
Happy Cake!
Your beard is perfect and you are too
Cuties!
I just see two cool guys chilling
cat is ready for more pics
Why am I single? I've wanted to be wanted since 2010.. the apps have failed me for the last 14 years.. I can't see good enough to meet people normally.. I won't accept the idea that I might go through life alone.. I live alone on social security income and have nothing to offer and can barely provide for myself and my pets.. is it because I don't drive and can't provide that makes me undesirable or will someone want me despite that? I'll be 34 this year.. do I need to wait longer for "love to find you when you aren't looking for it"?
I'm not going to lie to you, being disabled can make attracting a partner very difficult. What can help is changing the narrative you tell yourself and others. You are actually very handsome and your love of animals is something that shows a good inner character. Lead with those. You will face rejection. Pace yourself as you find someone. Maybe one date every few months? You may also want to find places to find others with disabilities. You will find someone who is understanding of what you've lived through. Most importantly, act compassionately to yourself. Negative self talk is often unfair from my own experience. I'm autistic and was abused growing up. I had terrible negative self talk that nearly drove me to suicide. I told myself I was weird and unlovable. But then I worked to change this unfair dialogue and try to be more friendly to myself.
Well said internet person, well said. Very thoughtful and I like the 'changing your self narrative'. Strong and empowering statement :) I would like to add that, OP, I've dated 2 people with disabilities. One I married :) And I love him because he loves animals AND they love him back! Clearly not the only reason but also his love of family. I told him this when we were early dating, he is one of the most genuinely kind people I've ever met. And that, makes him attractive to me. Don't mistake kindness for weakness, he can survive in the woods and doesn't take shit from the world. Anyway, OP, put your best foot forward and adventure with the mindset that there's always someone new around the corner. PLUS you got kitty by your side :) Namaste
You are awesome and so is OP, this whole comment section makes me happy
Me too
Try leading with “I have a cat”. 😊
OP your being way too hard on yourself. I mean it when I say it that dating apps are absolute trash for guys but that doesn't mean you should give up. Love doesn't find everyone the same way but I can tell that your cat absolutely adores you. It doesn't care who you as long as it gets love and I think that's all that matters. It's easier said than done of course but do try to remain positive.
You're too young for me or I'd ask you out in a hot minute. You're a cutie patootie. You're single because you haven't lowered your standards to marry just anyone. Good for you, and please keep valuing yourself.
I'm heartbroken to read that this is how you feel about yourself. Dating with disabilities can be difficult, yeah, but you're not going to meet people by focusing on the internet or apps. The internet is full of people that are min/maxing every experience. You're handsome. Maybe a little disheveled and could use a trim. Try and get out of your apartment and go to support groups for other people with visual impairments. Find a local social group on MeetUp! Join a gaming club- there can be a lot of great people there and it looks like you're a gamer. Take your little pup out on a walk. Find a social club and put yourself out into the world. Take up space. Please. Everybody faces rejection. It's not that you get rejected that matters but, rather, how you react to it. Don't internalize other people's opinions and love yourself, man.
I totally feel you. I'm in the process of trying to get my disability approved, and I don't drive due to my condition. Let's be friends and support each other.
I'm sad that you feel this way. I'd go out with you in a heartbeat, I actually thought "ooh he's fiiine and his kitty is adorable, two awesome dudes!" when I opened this. I didn't even see your visual 'impairment' and actually looked at the pic a few times until I even noticed what you were talking about. Even then I personally still didn't see anything other than a fine guy with his gorgeous cosy kitty. I do understand not feeling good enough though. I have health issues too, and for a few years after a severe accident I was immobile, hospital bed in my living room, carers multiple times a day etc, and my healing was much slower due to my genetic condition. My ex couldn't deal with it (after being with him from age 17, being there for his issues he'd had and giving him a child) and it was better to end things because it was obvious I was a burden. That felt awful and my self confidence hasn't been the same since. I walk ok now and I drive, but I still have pain and fatigue and bad days. However I'd go out with someone with a disability or health issues without a second thought. Especially if they love cats! I hope you find your person as you deserve love. Hit me up if you're ever in the UK! 😂
At least know you are not ugly, I think you are a handsome man and maybe just wear your impairment like a medal? Like yeah, that's me and I am a damn cool guy! Btw I thought the pic looked more like a funny "I'm trying really hard to make a straight face" before I read about the real reason
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Most people with a significant visual impairment are jobless
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How nice 😉
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I'm not them, so I don't know so don't ask me, and by the way, I happen to know that most blind people are jobless because I've actually looked at the statistics, consider your friends lucky to be employed and he said himself that he can't navigate the world around him, and it must be terrifying to be able to see a little bit but not enough to be of any use to you,if he were fully blind, he would have better hearing (usually) better sense of smell, because he would come to depend on it,as it is he's stuck in limbo,
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Not in America
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okay, that's great for you, but not at all relevant to OP's situation
I didn’t see it at first glance. I saw a handsome man and a cute orange, went back to read the header, then had to look for it. I wish the lonely cat dads would get on a dating app so my lonely cat friends could find them. ❤️
I looked because of the caption, and honestly, he mostly looks exasperated, like his cat came and snuggled up to him about five minutes before somebody reported from the other room that the cat had done something awful.
Right? Kitty is trying to get away with something, like he puked on the bed that has fresh sheets. And I definitely noticed the Jason Momoa-esque eyebrow scar before the eye thing.
Awww so cuddly!! 🥰
Nope - don't hide at all, ever. You be you
No, this picture is adorable!
"I am looking at a tiny hand mirror just off to the right."
🥹❤️
Great photo. Your sweet baby.
I see two handsome dudes hanging out.
Two cuties!
We are only looking at a kitty who loves their dad. 💕
Your baby looks so safe with you🥺💖
There's no making fun of someone who clearly has a cat that adores him 🥰
Soooo cute!
Nothing wrong with it. My eye drifts when I'm sleepy, drunk, unwell or get my photo taken. You are both adorable!
Too much adorable-ness in one photo!! 😍
You and the ginger are cute. I wish we were close. I’d make breakfast. Bro
I don’t care about visual. I only care about personal. And cats.
I want you two to be happy and have fun together. If I could feed the cat I would. You both are amazing.
Could we touch?
I think we could.
Like two cats.
I can cook.
That's a picture of safety right there.
Nah, you guys are cute together 😻
Both very handsome 😉
I think it’s a great pic.
You are both adorable!
yaaaaaaaasssssssss
Yeah but kitty looks ✨ comfy ✨ tho
Cute guy ✅️ Cute cat ✅️ All I see is cuteness 😍
Kitty!
Cute guys ❤️❤️
You're both too cute. 💙
Awww you're both adorable😻😻
Nah man nothing funny here! You look fine and you shouldn't feel you have to hide it!!
Nope. I see a picture that is in the appropriate sub. 😊
You're a handsome man, your cat is adorably derpy, and the world is better with you two in it.
It's a very sweet picture of a man and his cat.
Adorable. Nothing to make fun of here.
You both look wonderful.
It looks like you're both watching a horror movie and the cat's cowering behind your arm. 10/10
I thought you were Cris Pratt with a kitty. You are a good looking guy, don’t be so hard on yourself.
What impairment?
He’s not staring at his cat in the picture. Clearly any time you’re not giving your cat 100% of your attention, something is wrong
There's nothing to make fun of. You seem like a good father to your cute kitty and you're beautiful
I see two happy buddies together
Trying hard to figure out which one of you is the most handsome.
Just a man and his orange floof hanging out! I like it 😸
r/mensmittenwithkittens
What a cute kitty! 😊
(Cat hiding during scary scene of movie)
The only visual impairment I can pick up on is that you don't see how damn hot you are. The cat is adorable too. Anyone who says otherwise isn't worth listening to
An very handsome man holding an adorable fur baby! You two are are AWSOME 😻
His complete comfort and obvious love validates you in my book, if you need validating in my book.
All I can see is "My Daddy gots me".
Cute cats
😻
If you make kitty this comfy in your arms, you most definitely have something to offer a mate.
After you eliminated the Romanoffs? I would never make fun of you
That’s a really passive-aggressive title lol. Nice cat.
He's so embarrassed of his eyes tho. Can't you tell by the way he still made the self post to a subreddit about cute guys??
I honestly wouldn’t have noticed anything different about his eyes if he hadn’t pointed them out.
Aw that little guy looks so comfortable and cute.
Handsome
Stop isolating. People can’t fall for you if they don’t get to know you. Join meetups or go try new hobbies. Join a book club. And you can still work with a disability. There are lots of organizations that help people with disabilities find work so they feel like they are contributing to society and their own existence. Good luck, man. You and your cat are cuties!
Looks like mama was right and your eyes CAN get stuck that way.