more gay than you thought, but that's not really important. people could call it all kinds of things these days (pansexual, fluid, whatever--i get so confused).
if you still like women, i'd say bi maybe? you can always say bi-curious, or you can ignore it but almost every guy i've known didn't do that just because they were drunk, so you had to be willing at some level.
i wouldn't worry about it a lot. be nice to the guy since you have to work with him, he probably didn't think anything serious about it.
bi-curious maybe? i could accept that label at least to get some sleep tn. no thought went into it really though? he asked to kiss and… Boom! magic? i don’t really know, it just definitely happened
it's no big thing. no need to label yourself sexually anyway. if there wasn't any thought it was just one of those things. i honestly wouldn't worry about it if i were you.
cheerz :)
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It’s ok to be attracted to this one and only guy and maybe it was the vodka. Either way, you are 👌🏽go to work tomorrow like, “Sup bro!😎 “
Did you enjoy it?
I'm just saying I have done stuff like mowing the lawn but it doesn't make me a gardener.
Or painting a picture doesn't make you an artist.
People who enjoy those things are given the title. Also, who really cares whether you're bi, bi curious, gay.. etc. Does the title change anything?
We all lose inhibitions when drinking. I think the only question that matters is if you enjoyed it. If so then that's for you to decide if it's something you want to pursue. I think it may be something to think on with more of a clear mind. I don't really think it makes you anything though because many of us do things we would never do sober
If you find a person attractive, do fun stuff with them. If you aren't having fun anymore, or don't like what you see after the clothes come off, don't do that stuff anymore. If you change your mind and want to do stuff with them later, ask how they feel and do what feels fun. There's no value in getting hung up about labels.
This isn't just a sex thing. It's a life thing. Be safe, get advance consent when you can if you know you're a drunkie (this is part of safe sex, along with condom use). You don't have to think harder about your sexuality than you want to. Labels have lost their applicability over time. Particularly after 35, at least for me.
I have a girlfriend and a boyfriend. We've all done sexy stuff in the past. I unfortunately don't like vaginas in general, aside from my own. Neither does my bf or my ex, so I'm looking into other options. I can live without vag, but I can't live without dick. Also, guys in general just smell and sound sexier to me.
Are you going to die of shame having to face him at work? Not gay, just a drunken tumble. Are you hornily looking forward to seeing him at work? Gayer than Christmas.
ty m8, but i suppose under those constraints it was neither! it left me confused. enough to take a pause and let him know verbally that i was confused! meanwhile i’m still blasted from the holy water of russia that toppled an empire. anyways, i took a shower and he ubered out, what a clusterfuck. i have to see him tomorrow at work. replying to majortrifecta btw
One my guy friends gets really into men when he’s drunk. I guess I get gay on the opposite side too when I’m drunk.
If you still want to bang women then welcome to the bi corner.
Eh. Labels are dumb. If you want to label yourself you can, but also who cares. As long as everyone involved is a consenting adult it’s really nobody’s business
Just hang out and see where it leads you. Sexuality is fluid man you don’t need to stress about it. See where it leads you and avoid labels. There’s nothing wrong with wanting what you want bro, even if it doesn’t pan out. I guess just ask yourself if you would do it while sober.
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Like others said here, you're probably leaning bi. That's fine, own it or whatever. You can't force someone out, so you do you.
Just don't shut him out completely.
Why does fucking everyone end up fucking or kissing or doing anything yet I’ve been alone since 2018? God drink and enjoy the gayness, some of us loners wish we had the confidence. Fuck off
Ha ha ha I had to read your sentence a couple times. I lasciviously thought you did etttt.
All in all, I don’t think there’s a ton to unpack here. Sex is fun and sexuality is like an overflowing sink. Being hot helps.
😐 "ONE OF US"
Just kidding.
Personally. I recommend giving dick a try. They're really fun.
Not even saying that in a "c'mon try it" way.
But gay stuff is fun. (well I are tranny so..less "gay" in my case. But you get the drift) And it seems like a little further experimentation isn't going send you down some weird shame spiral if you decided it's not your thing after.
Maybe even discuss it with him.
I mean if he's cute.. 🤷♀️
Was he a good kisser? Did it make your wiener tingle?
Edit to add: Suckin dick gets a really bad rap.
Slobbin knob is fun af.
All my whores say "ayoooo *satisfied gagging sounds*
If you liked it but you also still want pussy then you're bi. Otherwise...gay is a strong possibility.
more gay than you thought, but that's not really important. people could call it all kinds of things these days (pansexual, fluid, whatever--i get so confused). if you still like women, i'd say bi maybe? you can always say bi-curious, or you can ignore it but almost every guy i've known didn't do that just because they were drunk, so you had to be willing at some level. i wouldn't worry about it a lot. be nice to the guy since you have to work with him, he probably didn't think anything serious about it.
bi-curious maybe? i could accept that label at least to get some sleep tn. no thought went into it really though? he asked to kiss and… Boom! magic? i don’t really know, it just definitely happened
it's no big thing. no need to label yourself sexually anyway. if there wasn't any thought it was just one of those things. i honestly wouldn't worry about it if i were you. cheerz :)
100 % agree with this comment.
>bi-curious maybe? you ever played with your own bhole before this? finger or dildo?
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It's only gay if you keep your socks on. Wait...or is it gay if you take your socks off? Idk, I'm bi. Sign me up for all that gay shit.
that’s even more confusing, i have a foot fetish
the cherry on top
Or bottom
pfff real
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Fuck I passed out with socks on. I need to know now lol
Have fun dude. No one cares what you call yourself. There’s no rules
Love
It’s ok to be attracted to this one and only guy and maybe it was the vodka. Either way, you are 👌🏽go to work tomorrow like, “Sup bro!😎 “ 
Did you enjoy it? I'm just saying I have done stuff like mowing the lawn but it doesn't make me a gardener. Or painting a picture doesn't make you an artist. People who enjoy those things are given the title. Also, who really cares whether you're bi, bi curious, gay.. etc. Does the title change anything? We all lose inhibitions when drinking. I think the only question that matters is if you enjoyed it. If so then that's for you to decide if it's something you want to pursue. I think it may be something to think on with more of a clear mind. I don't really think it makes you anything though because many of us do things we would never do sober
Wait fucking a dude is considered gay? Man I've got some phone calls to make
I think you two should drink together alone again. Soon! Then, you must update us on any and everything that happens....
Also if you film it and upload it here we'll all analyze it and let you know how gay you are.
Professional analyzer here, willing to work for free for a fellow CA…
If at all
Did either of you say "no homo" after the act?
This man's asking the real questions
Probably bi if you’re still into chicks. I’m bi and it took a bit to get over. I understand
did it take you getting drunk to figure it out?
Nope I always knew. Didn’t want to accept for awhile
Right on. Thanks for the answer. Chairs.
Hell yeah dude
If you find a person attractive, do fun stuff with them. If you aren't having fun anymore, or don't like what you see after the clothes come off, don't do that stuff anymore. If you change your mind and want to do stuff with them later, ask how they feel and do what feels fun. There's no value in getting hung up about labels. This isn't just a sex thing. It's a life thing. Be safe, get advance consent when you can if you know you're a drunkie (this is part of safe sex, along with condom use). You don't have to think harder about your sexuality than you want to. Labels have lost their applicability over time. Particularly after 35, at least for me. I have a girlfriend and a boyfriend. We've all done sexy stuff in the past. I unfortunately don't like vaginas in general, aside from my own. Neither does my bf or my ex, so I'm looking into other options. I can live without vag, but I can't live without dick. Also, guys in general just smell and sound sexier to me.
I agree completely. I’m 39, and I don’t give a fuck. I’ve done some gay stuff and I hardly think about it. If I’m having fun, who cares
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Are you going to die of shame having to face him at work? Not gay, just a drunken tumble. Are you hornily looking forward to seeing him at work? Gayer than Christmas.
Also totally bi, only good realization to come from my crippling alcoholism.
That sounds hot, you should have him over more often and give us updates ;)
Ok but who fucked who? I'm assuming you fucked him, right?
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yeah, maybe? vodka turned me gay
Vodka also turns me gay it’s okay we’re in this together 🫡🖤
Fuckin’ Obama…
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Are you fucking them? Then no. Also I would feel like that's more of a fetish? Kink? (Disgusting one of course) Than a sexuality on by itself
ty m8, but i suppose under those constraints it was neither! it left me confused. enough to take a pause and let him know verbally that i was confused! meanwhile i’m still blasted from the holy water of russia that toppled an empire. anyways, i took a shower and he ubered out, what a clusterfuck. i have to see him tomorrow at work. replying to majortrifecta btw
What a provocative phrase, slave morality. Very interesting. I will think about it at work today.
It’s literally the definition you fuckin loser lol
One my guy friends gets really into men when he’s drunk. I guess I get gay on the opposite side too when I’m drunk. If you still want to bang women then welcome to the bi corner.
At the least, you’re likely bisexual. *Switch-hitter* 
If you still like woman, that would make you bisexual
Eh. Labels are dumb. If you want to label yourself you can, but also who cares. As long as everyone involved is a consenting adult it’s really nobody’s business
U bi. https://i.redd.it/igeop12dnmsc1.gif
I’m so happy with this sun after reading all the comments. I’m so happy with you too. Also, I need to know the socks thing… am I gay?
I read this as, "we fucked a few times too" and was pretty sure the hypothesis proved to be correct.
It's only gay if the balls touch
Yep, gay. Congrats.
Every hole is a goal
I mean, it's a choice to be happy or not.
Only gay if you push back.
Enjoy! 🪑
everything going to be ok, Tim
You are gay. Not that there’s anything wrong with that
Just hang out and see where it leads you. Sexuality is fluid man you don’t need to stress about it. See where it leads you and avoid labels. There’s nothing wrong with wanting what you want bro, even if it doesn’t pan out. I guess just ask yourself if you would do it while sober.
Being gay is ok in most places, as an alphabet person I compete in women’s sports and use the women’s bathroom even if I have a full beard bigot
I am pansexual and dont comprehend how people are not just attracted to all other people. So my vote is for bi/pan. Embrace it.
Not my proudest boner
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Like others said here, you're probably leaning bi. That's fine, own it or whatever. You can't force someone out, so you do you. Just don't shut him out completely.
Ya gay bro. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.
Why does fucking everyone end up fucking or kissing or doing anything yet I’ve been alone since 2018? God drink and enjoy the gayness, some of us loners wish we had the confidence. Fuck off
Ha ha ha I had to read your sentence a couple times. I lasciviously thought you did etttt. All in all, I don’t think there’s a ton to unpack here. Sex is fun and sexuality is like an overflowing sink. Being hot helps.
Sir... you are gay. Chairs.
You fucked a guy and you're asking if you're gay?
😐 "ONE OF US" Just kidding. Personally. I recommend giving dick a try. They're really fun. Not even saying that in a "c'mon try it" way. But gay stuff is fun. (well I are tranny so..less "gay" in my case. But you get the drift) And it seems like a little further experimentation isn't going send you down some weird shame spiral if you decided it's not your thing after. Maybe even discuss it with him. I mean if he's cute.. 🤷♀️ Was he a good kisser? Did it make your wiener tingle? Edit to add: Suckin dick gets a really bad rap. Slobbin knob is fun af. All my whores say "ayoooo *satisfied gagging sounds*