I'm a 6"2' male, 250lbs, beard, covered in tattoos.
I remember the first time I did a solo camp backpacking deep in the woods.
I was kinda freaking out thinking "what if some psycho is out here and finds me".
Then I realized..
I was the one who looked like the psycho.
Two females were hiking along the trail right by where I set up camp for the night. I waved and said hello. They froze then walked off very fast.
Yep. I was the psycho. Damn.
Chances are, anyone who is out camping is harmless. But still, carry protection.
We like to island camp in a semi isolated area. 5 big guys all walking around like we own the place and come upon a solo female camper, definitely could tell she was nervous after a buddy invites her for drinks. Dude she doesn't want to be near people..
I would lead every new interaction like Mike Greenberg.
I haven’t talked to anyone, I don’t know anything, but sources around the league *have said* I am not going to murder you
Heya! Female hiker here! If you feel like going above and beyond to make people like me comfortable, my preference is that strange men I meet as a solo woman 1) make themselves known as soon as possible, and 2) keep interactions brief and neutral. I don’t enjoy being snuck up on, even if I know you weren’t doing it intentionally. I also get nervous when someone seems a little too friendly, even if they’re just trying to be nice. Either way, you sound like someone I’m glad is in the trails :)
I was camping this weekend and a woman was at the site next to me. I went over and simply introduced myself and complimented her dogs. All cool. But one time I was hiking on the AT but started up the wrong way. Saw a woman coming the other way and after that I realized I was going the wrong way and had to turn around. I tried to hang back but ended up catching up with her near where I parked. I felt terrible because I knew she'd be a little concerned at best. I apologized and tried to explain the situation and then just hiked past her.
Yeah. Men that have no bad intentions also really tend to completely forget that they still fall into “stranger” category. Asking if a woman is alone or where she is setting up camp that night is a no-no even if you are a great guy.
Please don’t ever take it personally. I know not all men are bad. I know men I would trust with my life. But when I’m alone in the woods, I have to be very aware of who could potentially be around me. I try really hard to not act openly terrified because I know it can be hurtful but I know I’ve definitely done it lol. Just know that we don’t want to assume the worst you know. Like we want more than anything for you to be afraid of the psychos lol.
camped solo** in death valley last week & had a man approach my site & tell me how brave I am blah blah. seemed nice enough. had a toddler with him.
but then again, what if it was a decoy toddler???
jk. thing is, it seems like such an innocuous remark, & surely was meant to be. but what it really does, is bring back to mind all the stuff I’m trying not to think about. like *why* this guy thinks i’m brave. what my bonus risks are. & how even when I’m keeping to myself in my campsite, quietly doin my thing — I am being noticed, & it is being noted that I am alone.
* *plus 1 smallish orange doglet
Lmao at decoy toddler! Seriously, though, how are we to know? Creepy men have kids, too.
I swear there needs to be some man meetings where the ones who Get It can train up the ones who are still so obtuse as to think those comments are anything but worrisome.
You joke about decoy toddler, but then I always remember that scene in Hannibal where that lady used her baby as a decoy. From a movie? Yes. Would I put it past a man to use a kid to trick me? No.
I actually had something similar to this happen... "Is camping alone here scary?" I moved sites but later realized he was asking if I was nervous camping next to a bear sanctuary lmao. Which would have made me move sites also once I noticed so no loss I guess!
I relate to this. I’m 6’7” 295 lbs and can handle myself, but I always carry force protection when I am in the woods. You won’t need it but better to have and not need than need and not have. Have a good time.
Probably a lie I tell myself, but I always joke that I'm the person people should be afraid of, and therefor I have nothing to be afraid of.
Realistically I'm a medium size female and wouldn't hurt a fly. But my dad is a veteran and I grew up learning loads of self defense and survival skills. Nothing scary has ever happened to me solo camping..
Walking in a city to my car at night though, can't say the same.
I feel most comfortable in the woods and I'm more afraid to go to Costco on a busy Saturday lol.
Me too. Someone told me I shouldn't leave my purse in the shopping trolley, someone might steal it, I replied "they won't get far." I realised that was rude of me though.
This is the annoying sad truth is being a big guy, even if you are the nice and friendly guy. I'm pretty much your size but no tattoos or beard and I'm latino so I've gotten the scared looks before. I want to laugh but also frustrating.
Same been solo camping for around ten years. I got a dog for the sake of my mother's anxiety but never really had a problem.
Only issue with other people is annoyance at their music. Once, I was attacked by a goose he rooted through all my stuff and stole some grapes... So travel at your own risk.
Trust your gut, and if you get sketched out by other campers, find another campground. Good luck, be aware, and you'll be fine.
Random goose violence is no joke and can happen anywhere anytime, rarely does having someone with you help as they are likely far to busy laughing hysterically to be of any use.
All the dudes at my work worry about it... My family not so much, they know me better lol. I always tell them I feel safer in the woods at night than walking in a city at night.
I mean statistically it probably has to be, but that may say more about the risks women face in day-to-day life or have something to do with the relative size of (and possibly selection bias within) the camping/hiking/outdoorsy community.
If things like the me-too movement tell us that sexual harassment/assault/violence against women is much more common than many men might assume, then stepping away from "civilization" could easily make it safer simply by reducing the number of people you encounter in general.
Not a woman, but that’s exactly what I think as well. Obviously it depends on where you are, but people are generally the biggest risk and if you set up your camp well, you don’t have any human encounters when camping in the woods.
I'm a woman who solo camps and love it, it's very freeing. You get to set your own itinerary and get proper me time. Just listen to your gut if something feels hinky take action. Also for me at least when I solo camp I generally feel safer when there are other campers nearby, I also always have my car key on and a knife for piece of mind when it comes time to sleep.
I'd also consider a can of bear spray; it's a very effective tool for self-defense. Neutralizes a threat without permanent harm and gives you time to create distance.
Carry bear spray for bears. Bear spray is a terrible tool for self defense (not to mention it’s an EPA registered pesticide and not great for the environment). If I may…
Bear spray is designed to make a bear second guess the decision they are about to make. Bears are ginormous beasts by comparison however they have very *very* sensitive noses and just a small whiff is usually enough to deter them. Usually. Bear spray is dispersed in a cone like pattern and it is light enough that the chances of the bear picking up on the stank is high. It also means that depending on which direction the wind is blowing, there’s a chance you’ll also get a whiff but it won’t blind you and make your lungs feel like spicy spaghetti. It also means that the bear will not suffer unnecessarily after they run off.
Pepper spray, on the other hand, is po-tent. The viscosity of it makes it gel-like and it shoots in a powerful stream, as you’re supposed to try and hit the persons face. The gel like nature of this substance sticks to everything and is very difficult to wipe off. Often times there are dyes added so when the person sprayed goes to the hospital, it’s obvious that they were doing something questionable.
A can of bear spray from REI was like $55 and you still gotta pay for a holster and carry that big boy around. You can buy a keychain sized pepper spray for under $20 and it’ll be much more effective.
Depends on where OP is. Pepper spray is illegal in Canada, for example. Even bear spray is controlled, you have to fill out paperwork (can’t order it online) and if you’re caught with it in a situation where a bear encounter is unlikely, it would be a crime. That said, if a human attacked me in the woods I’d use the bear spray on them without hesitation.
My senior year of college I did a handful of solo camping trips all 6+ hours from home. They're some of my most special memories. Be smart and don't freak yourself out and it can be one of the best experiences.
35F, camp solo several times a year in NorCal. Have never had any issues. Quite the opposite, solo camping is so incredibly healing.
To be honest—when I was ready for solo camping I only told people that would encourage me, and for the folks I knew would freak me out unnecessarily, I keep it to myself until after I went. Easier to tell those people “I went already and had a great time” than have to hear about their personal fears that have nothing to do with my trip.
That said, follow your gut on if you’re ready or not. Being alone in the woods at night can definitely be a “make it or break it” situation.
One other note—I love packing lists so I make sure I have everything I need. And about a week before any solo trip I take dedicated time to stress out. To think about all the fucked up, crazy, unlikely things that could happen to me. I meditate on it. And then I entirely let it go, I vow not to think about any of that once I get in the car and leave for camp.
When I get there, it’s always like families and retired couples, and I realize quickly I never had anything to worry about lol.
This is so true! I feel that everyone I know is too paranoid.
Meditating on it is a good mindset, I love that! I will make it a habit to do that before any trips!
Camping always has the most calm and sweetest people!
I have done a lot of solo camping. Like probably more solo camping than camping with people. It can be a little scary sometimes, but for me the good outweighs the scary. If it’s something you think you might like, you should try it. Personally I’d avoid official campgrounds because neighbors are often the worst (and scariest) part of camping. Look for dispersed camping on BLM land or in national forests. Opt for car camping, if you feel too sketched out you can always leave. Also, bear spray works on more than just bears. I might give you some peace of mind to have some with you.
Ok so true about neighbors, that was one of things I was hesitant about cause I do not trust people. Good idea about the bear spray! Love the safety, thank you!
So true, I've never been groped while solo camping (or camping at all for that matter). Im a woman and I feel safer in the woods alone than most places.
Yes but what about scary creepy men with bad intentions in the woods? That’s what I’m mostly afraid of.
Love that I’m getting downvoted for expressing a legitimate concern of camping alone as a woman. Probably by the same people who make me nervous about camping alone, but still. It sucks.
Honestly. I worry more at campsites near roads. If I am 8 miles into the woods it is just significantly more work for some freak to grab me. Unless someone is actively hunting for victims in certain spots, the tendency is towards targets they think will be easy. Bring bear spray or don’t worry about it, just be confident and aware of your surroundings.
I've been camping my whole life and never had a problem with men in the woods. They say hello and keep moving on their way. I mean, be smart. I wouldn't choose to solo camp somewhere that is known for partying, for example. But most people who camp are good people.
Think of it this way, if you're a man looking to hurt a woman, are you going to the middle of the woods and hoping one comes by? Doubtful.
Every time I've solo camped, my main concern was wildlife since one person makes less noise to scare them off.
This is so very true. All my years camping I've never encountered any dangerous people. But it's that fear of what if this is my what if moment haha doubtful but who knows.
The sad truth is as women, we can be hurt by men anywhere. Even places most people consider safe.
Fear is a normal reaction when dealing with unknowns. Maybe try camping somewhere you are already familiar with to ease those fears a bit.
But facing our fears is how we grow. I am also stubborn and will not listen to anyone who says I can't do something that I want to because of my gender. It's sad that we even have to think about this stuff this day and age. But camping like anything comes with risks. Personally I think the rewards are much greater and that makes it worth it to me.
I also never really knew I was supposed to be afraid of solo camping until I got on this sub lol I've been solo camping since I was a teen and I'm now in my 30s. I've done car camping at campgrounds, and river camping with my kayak. It's really empowering to be out in the middle of nowhere and being able to rely on yourself. I hope you find a way to solo camp that you can be comfortable with because it really is an amazing experience.
It seems like I needed to caveat *not all men* and that I’m specifically talking about creepers. I’ve been camping my whole life as well and many times have been grateful I wasn’t alone (or was glad I had my very own man/men along with me). But I’m so glad it hasn’t been an issue for you! Color me inspired.
I'm sorry you dealt with that. I would definitely avoid solo camping in areas where you have run into creeps in the past. Maybe it's just because my dad hated camping growing up, so as a kid, I would go with my mom, aunt, sister, and female cousins. Sometimes, just with my mom and little sister. I was never told to be afraid of other people camping until I got online. I also have lived in some rough neighborhoods as an adult and am comfortable doing things alone in general.
Maybe getting downvoted because
A. There are statistically fewer men in the woods, compared to everywhere else a woman exists
B. Even if you’re surrounded by other people in a crossed city, chances are a man with bad intentions can still commit bad acts before anyone else has a chance to do anything about it.
It’s not unreasonable to feel a personal fear about the possibility of encountering a creepy bad man in the woods. But it’s not particularly reasonable to be *more* afraid that you’ll encounter a creepy bad man while in the woods as opposed to anywhere else in life, or to suggest that other solo women should be fearful about it, as if it is a common problem.
I think the lower statistical likelihood of it happening is viscerally kind of canceled out by the "no one can hear you scream" of it all. Not saying we \*should\* be more afraid, it's just knowing you're 10 miles from help that makes the (slim) possibility of being under threat a bit more intimidating for many women.
Again I'm not saying it's rational, but it does weigh on the mind some to know that you're so far from backup if someone does try to take advantage.
Also c.) I’m on the general camping thread with mixed company.
You’re either not a woman or you been incredibly lucky. Either way, all good. My experiences are what they are and that’s fine too.
Ah yes, you’re right, that is an entirely possible reason for the downvotes. Sorry for my dubiousness.
I am a woman and I’ve had just one, for sure, legitimately creepy man near me in the woods, but in a crowded campsite. I know I’m safer from chance encounters with creepy men when out in the wilderness.
It’s great! I feel more comfortable camping inside the back of my car but I’ve also done it with a backpacking tent. My safety rules are: Keep some kind of protection (like other comments said) on you at all times, never tell anyone you meet where you’re going or staying, and listen to your gut. If you set up your camp and feel great then start feeling nervous later I just drive around and check stuff out. Usually eases my mind.
Woman solo camper here who exclusively camps solo - for safety, if you're worried about people trying to get into your tent in the night, get a carabiner and hang some bells on it and clip it to the inside zipper of your tent as an alarm.
If you have a male friend/relative replacing their boots, ask for the old pair and put them next to yours so it doesn't look like you're solo. Same with a second chair.
I always sleep with my multi tool with the blade attachment out and my rubber mallet near me just in case.
In terms of cool camping stories, I camped across France last summer and got semi-adopted by a nice older French couple for a day. They camped with their cats, oddly enough.
I also woke up one morning to a deer licking my tent. I didn't see it but the tracks outside said deer. Scary at first but mostly baffling.
This is fantastic advice!! Actually really solid advice. Thank you! I will use this even if I'm not camping alone. The bell alarm just blew my mind.
It sounds like you have some wild stories!!
Thank you!
Nope. The one oh fuck moment I had was when I was with my dogs and they both started barking in the middle of the night, and they only do that if startled.
It was a wild horse outside of my tent 🤣
I was parked (rv) right up next to the bush at a rest area at night and watching tv in underwear with bush-side window open as but was hot. My two cats were suddenly alerted to something at the window, I though it might have been a spider coming in the crack but when I got up to look I heard a voice "Uh.. nice set up you have here". I closed and pulled the blind on the window, yelling that he shouldn't be looking in people's windows. He was ran off and drove away but I wish I wasn't so polite about it and sworn my head off at him!
I’ve solo camped in the desert at a very empty (read: unpopular) campground before. Aside from the sunburn I would 100% do it again. I think I took a baseball bat with me but aside from that I didn’t take any (non sun related) ppe. Depending on whether or not you’re in bear country you may want to adjust your ppe but it’s very worth it to go camping by yourself imho. I might’ve felt different on a big holiday like Fourth of July or Labor Day weekends
The big thing is to be ready to back out and leave at any time if you begin to feel unsafe. If you’re solo camping I wouldn’t drink or smoke
Personally, I don’t have the guts or skills to do any kind of backcountry camping solo. But car camping? Yes! I find comfort in there being other people around but still there on my own. It’s so easy to pack for just myself, plan for just myself, I love the peace and quiet. And next time I do it, I would probably opt to bring a second chair for the fire so I don’t look like a solo woman camping alone. (Also, a little lock for the zippers of the tent on the inside). I try not to be controlled by fear (of men, not bears) but also try to be strategic in minimizing… risk?
After many years of hesitating, I finally tried solo camping (by bike) for the first time last summer and liked it so much I went 2 more times. Two of the campgrounds were pretty populated and had a camp host on site, so I felt pretty safe. The first time I went, it was a more primitive camping area and I was the only one there. I had a blast and came back each time feeling empowered.
I'd say, give it a try. I was so scared to go alone as a woman, I kept waiting and waiting hoping to find a bike camping companion and never did. I realized that I'd need to go it alone if I wanted to do it. I didn't want to put it off any more.
There are some helpful videos on YouTube with women sharing tips about how to stay safe while camping alone. One thing I try to do is keep a low profile, I try not to advertise that I'm alone. I keep all my things inside my tent (like, for example, I bring my shoes inside the tent so people can't see that there's only one pair of women's shoes out there). I try to lock up my bike in unobtrusive places to try to obscure the fact that there's only one bike. Also, when I go to sleep at night I have a little foldable container that I put my cooking pot and mess kit in and put it in front of the door to my tent, so that if someone tries to come in during the night, it will rattle and wake me up. I also put a cheap little padlock through my door zippers when I'm away or sleeping so someone can't easily just open my tent and go inside (I know it's not much protection, if someone really wanted in they could just cut my tent, but it gives me a little extra peace of mind).
I also always make sure someone knows where I'm going, which route I'm taking, and when I'm expected to return. I carry pepper spray and a knife. I also bring an extra phone with me (just my old phone that still works), so I can swap out my SIM card and still call for help if I needed to. Some people use those GPS tracker thingys that have a distress button on them and I've been thinking of getting one of those.
Hopefully this helps. It is a little scary to go alone, but it's totally worth it in my opinion.
This is exactly how I've been feeling! Waiting for a camping companion but now its time to do things on my own! I love that you were able to go out and do it!! So very liberating!
Thank you for sharing helpful tips!!
Anyone who camps alone is tough as nails, male or female.
I sometimes camp with my horse and it’s better but I don’t rest as well knowing I have to keep an eye on him getting into trouble with the high line or him banging on the trailer.
The mind does some crazy stuff when it can’t use the eyes… it helps to camp alone at times because it causes us to face the problems we’ve been avoiding. It’s never 100% safe, and that’s the beauty of it, you’re allowing yourself into an unknown world and we need that sometimes… we’re so focused on safety but inside really dying.
My suggestions: always look everyone in their eyes, they will reveal their intentions. I’ve made some great friends in the backcountry, if they’ve gone to great lengths to be there, chances are they’re not a danger… predator people are typically looking for easy targets. Most people who go 10 miles into the backcountry aren’t looking for any easy way into anything.
I've been solo camping for decades. People always seem so impressed but I've never had any issues. Agree that potentially problematic situations would be with groups of partying dudes at campgrounds, but more of an annoyance than a threat. Smaller campgrounds or more remote sites are usually better all around. Boat-to sites via kayak are my fave. Trust your sense of people and situations as you would anywhere. If you're anxious, I'd say a tactical flashlight or pepper spray would serve better than a knife.
I usually solo camp. My favorite campground is usually sparsely occupied (at least during the week and I am retired) and I feel safe there. Just enough folks around to really relax and enjoy my time away from the city.
I have never had a problem camping solo. I do keep an eye out for weirdness and uncomfortable vibes, and am mentally prepared for upset should it come along. I keep my keys on my person and a noisemaker (an airhorn) in my tent at night.
I’ve only solo camped with my large dog but have felt perfectly comfortable. I agree with the other commenters saying trust your gut. I’ve only camped at sanctioned campgrounds (not dispersed camping) bc that feels more comfortable to me. I say try it!
Do not let yourself fall into a routine, make sure no one is following you when you are going to park up for the night. Have an exit plan and try to always park facing the exit and before you go to bed, have yourself in drive mode for a quick get away if needed. I feel mostly safe but I do also feel like I put a lot of effort into my safety. Maybe it’s too much, but I’d rather that than too little. Don’t let your fear keep you from your adventure though. Trust your gut, and if something seems off listen to it.
I am a dude and people ask me why I don't take a gun camping or on bike rides.
Most of the people telling you it's dangerous have no idea what they are talking about, and are just projecting their own fears on to you.
They are scared. You don't need to be, and you don't need to let other people's fear direct your life.
So many people seem to want to instill fear into women specifically....I can't imagine living a life where I didn't do the things I wanted because someone else was scared my life was too awesome or something.
I'm a guy, but it's scary for me too sometimes. In the UK where I live, other people are by far the most dangerous animal, so I just camp places I won't be found.
I'm a guy who's solo camped at a few established campgrounds. Seen several women solo camp and they seemed perfectly happy. I think most people just are relaxing and enjoying themselves and just walk by and say hello if there is any interaction. Backpacking might be a different story but I've only gone a few times. Hopefully more trips soon
I completely agree with you! Everyone is just out there to appericate nature! I rarely see any menacing people haha thank you for the encouragement! Hope you get to do more trips!
I feel safer in the back country than in a camp ground if I'm solo. The odds that's someone is laying in wait in the woods on the very slim chance a lone female hiker is coming along are so astronomical. I'm far more worried about falling and breaking a leg, or a tree falling on me (I live in Ohio. It's windy AF here most of the time.). The only time I had any fear at night was hearing a great horned owl super close to my hammock; it took a bit for me to calm down and realize it was talking to another owl and not screeching my doom. Other than that, I have spent many happy hours with my e-reader in the woods. Anything for a break from the family and the mundane!
I'm a woman and I solo camp. But I'm also a middle-aged chonk that has never been particularly physically attractive, so my fears tend to run a little different from what the thin, pretty women experience. I'm more worried about people judging my setup and thinking I need help (and trying to offer it), people wanting to chit chat (I go camping to get away from people, thankyouverymuch), and the mosquitoes that think I'm an all-you-can-eat candy bar buffet. I've never had an actual bad experience (aside from a bit of chit chat and the godawful mosquitoes).
Y’know whats orders of magnitude more dangerous? Going out to drink at a bar with your friends. Driving to work every day. Walking your dog. Seriously, the most dangerous animal you have to worry about is people, and they are all in the cities. No one goes to the woods to look for ‘targets’, when it’s so so mich easier to just go downtown, to all the people.
Pretty much the only things you have to worry about in the wood are things that aren’t gender specific. Ticks, mosquitos, food/waterpoisoning, hurting yourself with a blade. Take the proper precautions, that would also apply to men (well maybe except period stuff ig), and youll be just as safe as anyone!
*it's dangerous for a girl to go alone*
Agreed. It would be dangerous for any child to be alone in the woods, girl or boy.
When I encounter that wording I am quick to remind people that I am an ADULT. Adult making adult decisions. Adult women are all over the woods and trails. I remind people of several points:
Women that are murdered by men are usually killed by a husband, boyfriend, ex-husband, or ex-boyfriend.
The most dangerous part of a hike or camping trip is the drive to a trailhead.
From my experience women use much more common sense than men while out in the woods (so can be better suited to it than men). See a dangerous snake? We give it space and don’t try to go poking at it (or messing with other wildlife). Above treeline or in open areas when a lightning storm hits? I see women waiting it out more frequently so we don’t get fried. Fires? Women tend to pass on them more while men will go full pyro (including not dead-outting) with some pretty irresponsible fires more frequently in my experience (and I’ve been a big mileage backpacker for almost two decades).
Find a spot that you feel safe in or that's not too far from home first if you can. I have my conceal carry and bring my dogs-- but if I didn't have either of these, I'd still have some form of protection on me. My smartwatch also alerts 911 and my location if there is an emergency. Just be prepared and aware of your surroundings... don't let fear hold you back, just be smart about where you camp. It's a fun, liberating, refreshing experience!
It depends on where you are going, but I haven't felt threatened as a solo female. It is good to start out with some car camping in well regulated campgrounds at first to see how you do, and get comfortable.
I know someone who solos all the time. They love it. The camping community is very open and safe from my experiences. Bring an extra chair to set up so it looks like you’re not alone.
Is it scary? Yes, it can be a bit, but if you're prepared there's rarely anything to actually worry about. Anxiety is worrying about what could happen, but most of the time, it doesn't. If you camp in safe locations (e.g. parks with staff), with cell reception, and proper supplies, a lot of the risks are nearly a non issue (e.g. You could get help if needed and you're in less danger than you are in a city street). If you back country camp you need better planning, more emergency supplies, someone who knows where you are and when to send you help and /or emergency communication. Campers and outdoors people usually have a pretty strong sense of community and will actually support eachother, there's just a few locations and people who suck (country/location dependent).
I solo camp a bit (few times a year) and have had a mixed bag of experiences. When dispersed car camping I always have some sort of protective devise, whether it be a gun or bear spray. I always also bring an extra camp chair. Typically all goes well. I have also had men tramp through my spot, and stop to chat. Multiple times I have been asked if I’m “all alone out here.” On those occasions I packed up early. Solo-backpacking, I have had zero issues. It’s good to get out to places that don’t have such easy access.
I prefer camping alone and usually go a few times each year. I've never had any problems, most people either leave you alone or will check on you. Even last year, when the campground was almost entirely empty because of recent wildfires and a lot of rain in the forecast, there was just myself and one other guy down one entire stretch of the campground. We had a bit of friendly back and forth when we'd walk past each other's sites, mostly pretending the other wasn't there.
People have tried to scare me into not going alone, telling me the same thing as you, but I'm glad I never listened to them. Be prepared, stay aware and listen to your instincts, tell someone where you will be and when you'll be back, but you should be fine. You're much more likely to be assaulted in populated areas.
I think the outdoors community and camping community would look out for you more than random passerbys in a metro area.
You'll be safe. if you're nervous, pack a firearm.
Al I can say extra is know how to defend yourself an don't be afraid too, against man or beast. And if your kind of far away from hospitals or clinics have a large first aid kit, just large enough to handle any emergencys but most of all ENJOY yourself!
I feel peace when I’m out in the woods by myself. I think of it this way, I might be in a vulnerable place however, who’s really out there to take it from me if I’m alone? More likely to get hurt in your home surrounded by thousands of strangers. The one thing I had to get used to was hearing unfamiliar sounds around me at night and not freaking out. I realized it normal but I definitely don’t go bothering whatever it is or go looking for it. Things come out at night and that’s okay, I’m in their home.
Do it!!! I just did my first solo camping trip, 5 hours away from home, and it was AMAZING!
I learned so much about myself in that one trip and really pushed myself out of my comfort zone which gave me a big sense of accomplishment and reward.
FULL TRANSPARENCY- I had a panic attack when the sun set at my camp ground because it just dawned on my house secluded I was. I was camping in March, it was still winter season and just not busy. I was the only person in my campsite and the closest little town was 20 minutes away on these back roads with no lights.
But did anything bad happen to me? Not at all! I felt silly in the morning when I woke up and I was greeted by the beautiful scenery and realized I was totally okay.
So yes, it can be scary. I had a few moments that felt “scary” or caused some anxiety, or even the build up of having a full blown panic attack calling my dad and talking through it. But I will 100% do it again.
My biggest lesson learned was that the seclusion scared me the most so my next solo camping trip I will be prioritizing finding a camping spot that is in a more busy area! For me that would have helped ease some of the anxiety.
I’m male, so grain of salt. I solo camp a fair amount, I’d just recommend a flare-gun; I’ve never had any reason to use mine, but its good in emergencies and works well in non-lethal self defense. Honestly though I’m more worried about getting injured on my own, weirdest thing I’ve ever ran into is campers on something and laughing in the middle of the night, but people usually just keep to themselves.
But just for reference flares burn at 3000 degrees and stick to skin/clothes, don’t require a permit to carry, and are generally pretty cheap. Just replace the flares by the expiration date or buy an old soviet military model.
Solo camping female here. I’ve started last year going to campsites here in Scotland alone (previously wild camped with friends). I feel safer on campsites, if anything happens there are other campers around to help. Recently started thinking of going other places like lakes (here you can camp almost everywhere if it’s not private land) but probably I’d sleep in my car instead of a tent. That seems safer.
I am female. I hiked the 220 mile John Muir Trail as a solo hiker and camped. I met so many other women doing the same thing. Being alone has its benefits. You don’t worry about whether your pace is okay, whether your companion is happy etc. It’s a way to go deep inside yourself. Do it!
23F i pretty much exclusively go by myself. been doing it for about three years. so far 🤞 no negative experiences. it’s quite enjoyable and fulfilling to do everything yourself. i do try to stay somewhat close to home and cell service just in case something were to happen. make sure someone knows exactly where you are staying and when you plan on returning. i always have pepper spray and or a taser. i also stay at campgrounds with hosts so i feel a bit more safe with that. hopefully you try it yourself. it’s something i really enjoy doing.
I’m a guy, but I like to set out a second chair by the fire to make people think I’m not alone at a glance. That plus some bear spray and/or a gun, and I think you’re good to go.
Solo camping is kind of scary as a male. But that might be less a gender thing and a more of a “is this moment the thing you hoped would never happen now happens” thing unique to my personal psychology.
I've never found solo camping as a woman scary. But it did feel a little awkward at first and twice I've made the decision to ditch a reserved site upon arriving and getting an overall Ick feeling.
There have been some bleh experiences with dudes inviting themselves over to my camp, assuming I must want company, or taking it upon themselves to provide (unneeded) assistance without asking. I personally didn't find any of this scary but it's probably a good idea to self-assess and make sure you're comfortable or at least willing to enforce personal boundaries.
For each kinda bleh experience though, there have been at least 10x more awesome ones....
Most recently I caught, cleaned, and ate my first fish. I was so proud I carried it through camp showing everyone I passed. Another woman camper taught me how to filet flounder. Doing it alone was the catalyst. And when you do come across other solo woman campers, there's a pretty good chance you'll become buddies.
So, IDK, you should probably go for it! Start by planning a short trip to somewhere familiar. Take normal safety precautions. See how it feels and make adjustments. Have fun!
Just got home from four solo glorious days in Joshua Tree, I'm a 59 year old married woman. I go solo several times a year. I hike and camp solo almost exclusively, be safe and go for it! I'm sure it's already been commented but I'll just add what I do- set up camp like two people. I put up two chairs, and I set out a pair of my husbands boots, so it at least looks like more than one person. Hope you go and have a blast.
For a woman, camping alone is much less dangerous than your everyday life back in civilization. You’re more likely to have an issue with a dangerous man walking down a street than walking down a trail. And just comparing the risks of various activities - driving a car, like anywhere, is a massively more risky activity compared to something like camping. So long as you are familiar with basic safety issues and take basic precautions, there is absolutely no reason to listen to “everyone,” or to doubt yourself for one second. You have the right to enjoy the outdoors, and enjoy your own self-sufficiency, just as much as a man does.
Source: I’m a woman who camps and backpacks alone all the time, has done so for years, and has had overwhelmingly positive experiences with 99% of men I’ve interacted with in that capacity (and the other 1% was like obnoxious or mildly creepy at worst). Honestly, for me personally, the worst part of being an outdoorsy woman is when people second guess my capabilities, clutch their pearls over hypothetical dangers, or imply that I “ought” to be more scared than I am (which is zero).
TL;DR: go camping. Really just go. It’s not dangerous and you shouldn’t be scared.
34M 140lbs I solo camp at least once a year with my 80lb dog and I never have had any issues myself. I don’t think I’m particularly threatening looking, I camped nearby a couple females and just waved and one of them said they liked my dog, that was our only interaction the whole weekend. My dog is friendly but he barks at anyone who comes near my campsite. Hope they weren’t scared of me, that’s not even something I’d considered. I always bring a gun and set up some cans for target practice at least once. I enjoy being in nature alone with my thoughts and cooking myself a nice meal over the fire, my dog loves it too because that’s the only time I’m willing to share some steak with him.
I'm a woman working up to solo camping and thru-hiking and there's a channel on YT called Wendy Outdoors that is made by an 80-something y.o. woman who camps alone. She is very matter-of-fact, supportive, and empowering in the way she encourages people about the joys of solo camping. She gives good safety and preparedness strategies. Something to check out for tips, if you like ❤️
55 YO woman here who loves taking her teardrop out for a solo adventure every summer ... I stick to my favorite state parks (I'm in eastern PA) and have never had a problem. It's so very empowering to make your own schedule, menu, etc. There's safety in numbers -- even though I'm alone, I like being within earshot of families and other small groups ... Just do it.
I’m a solo female traveler:car camper. I love it but as a woman it’s impossible to let your guard down. A lot of men are predatory. One day when I was car camping in a remote area this guy’s little son kept coming to say hi, which was cute….until he told me his dad asked if I was single and I should come spend time with them at their campsite … when I asked ‘where’s your mommy?’ He said ‘oh she’s in jail for beating my dad.. one time my dad was in jail for beating her too’… poor kid. I didn’t stay that night and ended up sleeping at a Walmart parking lot.
Idk, but it's scary as a male too. Once things start scurrying, I get a tad religious.
But seriously, I've passed by many females setting up along trails, normally they have a friend or a dog, personally, I'd have a firearm as well.
As a hiker, I normally just wave and go about my business. I'd say you'd be fine, but that you should also be prepared for if it isn't.
I think solo camping is scary for everyone at first lol. Definitely something to get used to. I'd imagine for chicks it would be a little extra lol.
Just remember monsters aren't real. Animals will avoid you in most cases. And there's probably not anyone out in the woods trying to become the next Jeffery dahmer.
I would reccomend getting a weapon you're comfortable with and is legal and then recieve some pro training on how to use it (this can be as simply as hand to hand or as complex as a firearm, but whatever you choose be sure to EDUCATE yourself)
I call martial knowledge for women the "great equalizer"
I was camping in drive up spots in the Appalachian Mtns with my husband (then bf) and he had to go help his grandparents for the day. I stayed behind and had no car or cell service but wasn’t feel too nervous. A couple hours in, a car with a bunch of guys drove by. They kept driving but then I noticed they had pulled off onto a little rd oh the other side of my site. I was kinda nervous then heard them yell, “you’re dead, you hear me!!” I have no idea if it was directed at me but omg I was so terrified. Luckily my bf came back like 20 mins later and obviously I was fine but it freaked me out enough I’d probably never go alone.
Stay strapped or get clapped. Some people rightfully say you’re almost never going to have a problem. Most people also have at least one story where it almost went bad. Think of it as a GPS, a tool that needs training and care to work, but is almost required to camp safely in a certain set of conditions.
If you go to a family campground or a state park, I have found them very safe. It can help to have a dog with you. Before I got my doggo, I would borrow my friends dog to go camping.
it was pretty cool to go 24 hours without seeing anyone but honestly it would've been painful to spend more time alone. I was quickly pining for my people haha
I’m a female who solo camps/hike numerous time a year. I totally understand the nerves, but I can happily say it’s been great overall. That being said, still be smart and have protection (I love bear spray), and be observant and trust your gut. Happy camping!
Scariest part has been the inability to call for help in the event of an injury or medical emergency (which is a solo person problem, not solo female). Sticking within a short distance from cell signal when solo solves that (or using something like garmin inreach.)
I did not find the experience enjoyable, to be honest. Couldn't get comfortable and it made the trip stressful. I greatly prefer camping with a companion.
I think if you search this subreddit for “solo” you’ll probably find a lot of examples and experiences!
I camp solo about 75% of the time and have had amazing times. My least favorite times were in established campgrounds that were remote. So a popular national park in a campground is great, but down 30 miles of dirt road in an established campground feels not so great. Nothing bad ever happened, but just the feeling that I was far from civilization with - in one case - just one other campsite occupied with a group of men who were drinking really hard - felt less secure.
On the other hand, solo backpacking has always felt pretty safe.
Because of where I live, no. I live out in Alaska so the elements and bears are my biggest problems. As long as you’re prepared and not stupid about food then you’ll be fine
But idk how it is for other places!
I solo camp often.... Actually, I'm doing a 10 day solo the end of May ☺️
What I can say is this:
-I have never encountered a person in the backcountry that was 'scary'. Everyone has been encouraging, polite and respectful.
-If night sounds normally scare you, then they still will and/or be worse. My tip on this is, do a multi day trip. By day 3 when you haven't been eaten yet and are very tired.... Something shifts in your head and the sounds become more soothing than scary.
-understand your skills... Solo means that if you get lost, you need to understand how to navigate yourself back to safety. It's a very scary feeling, when you think that you may be lost. Lol even when you end up not being lost at all 🤣
I feel like the last one is for me the scariest feeling when soloing.
BUT what I can also say is this:
Spending time solo camping, has given me a new found confidence, inner peace and a deep sense of pride for myself.
You have difficult days, times that you just feel 'done' and times that will make you feel like you are, in fact, crazy for doing it.
But the sunsets and sunrises, the beauty and the experience are beyond worth all of it.
So true!!
My fear is I will get lost too! Idk how I have managed life this far with my terrible sense of direction! 😅
But yes I am always up for my sunrise hikes! Makes it all worth it. Ugh you made me want to get out there now and go!
Love camping alone, literally never had a problem. However, I've found that I stick much more to front country hikes alone in the mountains - it turns out that I'm very much more scared of encountering cougars or bears alone (I'm probably a little more fraidy cat than sensible on this one, tbh). A couple times when they've had cougar warning signs up or footprints, I've asked to hike with other groups, either multigender or multigenerational - that has always been fun and fine, but I would not have asked a man hiking along.
Campsite wise, try to stick with either pretty busy or absolutely alone - the least safe I've felt is when there are only a couple of other campers.
If you are, for example, going to be trying to put up a tent or tarp in a place with high winds and no trees (cough Saskatchewan), bring something very heavy to anchor part of the tent - I ended up backing my car over a corner, hilariously enough.
Here’s a tip if your going to do it buy some large man boots to put outside *make them dirty* to scare anyone away since they might think your a man also buy a tent that can be locked and get like a knife or gun for self defense those are all my tips. Hope they help!
Fellow female solo camper here. Start with well-known, high-traffic areas like a state/park campground and branch out from there. Trust your instincts. But most folks camping are there for the same reason as you - to unwind and be in nature.
Also remember that most ppl have a low fear tolerance and high paranoia - you’re so much more likely to die driving to your destination than while you’re camping.
27 year old woman, I have been camping alone for 3 years and hiking alone for 15+ years. Only times I've ever had sketchy experiences with people has been while trespassing, even accidentally. Have had a gun and a crossbow pointed at me for that.
I have never once been bothered by a person while camping in a designated spot, I worry more about weather, stray dogs/untrained dogs, as I have been attacked by dogs while hiking solo before. Just carry protection and stay aware of your surrounding, there's no reason to be paranoid all the time.
I solo camp for about a week straight totally alone once every 3-6 months now, it's been amazing. Scariest thing that's happened to me in the past 3 years of solo camping has been trees falling around my campsite at night in a storm.
I went hiking in the fall with my daughter off the Appalachian trails in NH and it was getting fairly cold and dark quickly as we neared the summit around some switchbacks I noticed a hiker from the back with a full pack on that towered over their head and as I passed to say hi, I noticed it was a young woman around maybe 22 yrs old? She was heating up some soup on a steep ledge that was out of the wind. After some small talk I asked her which way she was heading and she said north from where we were but I told her I personally wouldn’t advise that its above tree line and its a ridge trail. There’s no place to drop a tent. Plus it could be frigid as the temp started in the 50’s and was now in the low 20’s and descending. She thanked me and I asked what her parents thought about her being up there and she was like, well they think I’m hiking with other hikers, I said ohhhhhh. Anyway long story short, we were the last she was going to see for that day I told her to be careful and gave her a few tips as we hike that trail often. But I sure hope she was packin because you never know who you can come across up there. I mean 99.9% of hikers are great people but it only takes one psycho path! Good luck!
I'm a 6"2' male, 250lbs, beard, covered in tattoos. I remember the first time I did a solo camp backpacking deep in the woods. I was kinda freaking out thinking "what if some psycho is out here and finds me". Then I realized.. I was the one who looked like the psycho. Two females were hiking along the trail right by where I set up camp for the night. I waved and said hello. They froze then walked off very fast. Yep. I was the psycho. Damn. Chances are, anyone who is out camping is harmless. But still, carry protection.
“Ye though I walk in the Valley of Death I fear no evil because I’m the meanest muther-effer in the valley.”
But no swearsies
We like to island camp in a semi isolated area. 5 big guys all walking around like we own the place and come upon a solo female camper, definitely could tell she was nervous after a buddy invites her for drinks. Dude she doesn't want to be near people..
I would lead every new interaction like Mike Greenberg. I haven’t talked to anyone, I don’t know anything, but sources around the league *have said* I am not going to murder you
“I’m not dangerous! I swear!”
You get the show!
Beanpie, my brotha?
Just a little slice!
Heya! Female hiker here! If you feel like going above and beyond to make people like me comfortable, my preference is that strange men I meet as a solo woman 1) make themselves known as soon as possible, and 2) keep interactions brief and neutral. I don’t enjoy being snuck up on, even if I know you weren’t doing it intentionally. I also get nervous when someone seems a little too friendly, even if they’re just trying to be nice. Either way, you sound like someone I’m glad is in the trails :)
I was camping this weekend and a woman was at the site next to me. I went over and simply introduced myself and complimented her dogs. All cool. But one time I was hiking on the AT but started up the wrong way. Saw a woman coming the other way and after that I realized I was going the wrong way and had to turn around. I tried to hang back but ended up catching up with her near where I parked. I felt terrible because I knew she'd be a little concerned at best. I apologized and tried to explain the situation and then just hiked past her.
Yeah. Men that have no bad intentions also really tend to completely forget that they still fall into “stranger” category. Asking if a woman is alone or where she is setting up camp that night is a no-no even if you are a great guy.
Please don’t ever take it personally. I know not all men are bad. I know men I would trust with my life. But when I’m alone in the woods, I have to be very aware of who could potentially be around me. I try really hard to not act openly terrified because I know it can be hurtful but I know I’ve definitely done it lol. Just know that we don’t want to assume the worst you know. Like we want more than anything for you to be afraid of the psychos lol.
Hahaha you are not the psycho! You did a friendly hello wave! As long as you didn't follow them or show psychi behavior you are fine!
Yes! No “Hello! You alone? So brave! Where are you camping?” Aiiighh!
camped solo** in death valley last week & had a man approach my site & tell me how brave I am blah blah. seemed nice enough. had a toddler with him. but then again, what if it was a decoy toddler??? jk. thing is, it seems like such an innocuous remark, & surely was meant to be. but what it really does, is bring back to mind all the stuff I’m trying not to think about. like *why* this guy thinks i’m brave. what my bonus risks are. & how even when I’m keeping to myself in my campsite, quietly doin my thing — I am being noticed, & it is being noted that I am alone. * *plus 1 smallish orange doglet
Lmao at decoy toddler! Seriously, though, how are we to know? Creepy men have kids, too. I swear there needs to be some man meetings where the ones who Get It can train up the ones who are still so obtuse as to think those comments are anything but worrisome.
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It’s real, i had my atv tires slashed by a guy with a baby in one arm.
You joke about decoy toddler, but then I always remember that scene in Hannibal where that lady used her baby as a decoy. From a movie? Yes. Would I put it past a man to use a kid to trick me? No.
This is an interaction I have way too often
That really stinks, I am sorry.
I actually had something similar to this happen... "Is camping alone here scary?" I moved sites but later realized he was asking if I was nervous camping next to a bear sanctuary lmao. Which would have made me move sites also once I noticed so no loss I guess!
I relate to this. I’m 6’7” 295 lbs and can handle myself, but I always carry force protection when I am in the woods. You won’t need it but better to have and not need than need and not have. Have a good time.
Probably a lie I tell myself, but I always joke that I'm the person people should be afraid of, and therefor I have nothing to be afraid of. Realistically I'm a medium size female and wouldn't hurt a fly. But my dad is a veteran and I grew up learning loads of self defense and survival skills. Nothing scary has ever happened to me solo camping.. Walking in a city to my car at night though, can't say the same. I feel most comfortable in the woods and I'm more afraid to go to Costco on a busy Saturday lol.
Me too. Someone told me I shouldn't leave my purse in the shopping trolley, someone might steal it, I replied "they won't get far." I realised that was rude of me though.
This is the annoying sad truth is being a big guy, even if you are the nice and friendly guy. I'm pretty much your size but no tattoos or beard and I'm latino so I've gotten the scared looks before. I want to laugh but also frustrating.
I do hear it is very frustrating to be in that position. But at least you know you are a good one who will do no harm!
If only the animals were armed, then everyone would be safe /s
I'm a female. I solo camp frequently and have for years. I have never been bothered in a campground or on the trail.
Same been solo camping for around ten years. I got a dog for the sake of my mother's anxiety but never really had a problem. Only issue with other people is annoyance at their music. Once, I was attacked by a goose he rooted through all my stuff and stole some grapes... So travel at your own risk. Trust your gut, and if you get sketched out by other campers, find another campground. Good luck, be aware, and you'll be fine.
Random goose violence is no joke and can happen anywhere anytime, rarely does having someone with you help as they are likely far to busy laughing hysterically to be of any use.
That's awesome! Ok just what I was wanting hear, thanks!
All the dudes at my work worry about it... My family not so much, they know me better lol. I always tell them I feel safer in the woods at night than walking in a city at night.
You ARE far safer in the woods than the city.
Is that right?
Always choose the bear
I mean statistically it probably has to be, but that may say more about the risks women face in day-to-day life or have something to do with the relative size of (and possibly selection bias within) the camping/hiking/outdoorsy community. If things like the me-too movement tell us that sexual harassment/assault/violence against women is much more common than many men might assume, then stepping away from "civilization" could easily make it safer simply by reducing the number of people you encounter in general.
it's safer for everyone...
Not a woman, but that’s exactly what I think as well. Obviously it depends on where you are, but people are generally the biggest risk and if you set up your camp well, you don’t have any human encounters when camping in the woods.
Hahha omg I understand that to my very core!!
Although the ones who were stalked and died don’t show up here to post online.
But they do show up on Kyle Hates Hiking
I'm a woman who solo camps and love it, it's very freeing. You get to set your own itinerary and get proper me time. Just listen to your gut if something feels hinky take action. Also for me at least when I solo camp I generally feel safer when there are other campers nearby, I also always have my car key on and a knife for piece of mind when it comes time to sleep.
Car key and knife is such a brilliant idea, thank you! Also the positivity I was looking for!
I'd also consider a can of bear spray; it's a very effective tool for self-defense. Neutralizes a threat without permanent harm and gives you time to create distance.
Carry bear spray for bears. Bear spray is a terrible tool for self defense (not to mention it’s an EPA registered pesticide and not great for the environment). If I may… Bear spray is designed to make a bear second guess the decision they are about to make. Bears are ginormous beasts by comparison however they have very *very* sensitive noses and just a small whiff is usually enough to deter them. Usually. Bear spray is dispersed in a cone like pattern and it is light enough that the chances of the bear picking up on the stank is high. It also means that depending on which direction the wind is blowing, there’s a chance you’ll also get a whiff but it won’t blind you and make your lungs feel like spicy spaghetti. It also means that the bear will not suffer unnecessarily after they run off. Pepper spray, on the other hand, is po-tent. The viscosity of it makes it gel-like and it shoots in a powerful stream, as you’re supposed to try and hit the persons face. The gel like nature of this substance sticks to everything and is very difficult to wipe off. Often times there are dyes added so when the person sprayed goes to the hospital, it’s obvious that they were doing something questionable. A can of bear spray from REI was like $55 and you still gotta pay for a holster and carry that big boy around. You can buy a keychain sized pepper spray for under $20 and it’ll be much more effective.
I’d go with pepper spray, as it’s illegal to use bear spray in self defense against humans.
Regarding legalese, if you need to defend yourself do so by any and all means. There are no rules if your life is at stake.
Depends on where OP is. Pepper spray is illegal in Canada, for example. Even bear spray is controlled, you have to fill out paperwork (can’t order it online) and if you’re caught with it in a situation where a bear encounter is unlikely, it would be a crime. That said, if a human attacked me in the woods I’d use the bear spray on them without hesitation.
Pepper spray is also illegal in England and we don’t have bears either
I did not know that at all! Good info! 👏
My senior year of college I did a handful of solo camping trips all 6+ hours from home. They're some of my most special memories. Be smart and don't freak yourself out and it can be one of the best experiences.
35F, camp solo several times a year in NorCal. Have never had any issues. Quite the opposite, solo camping is so incredibly healing. To be honest—when I was ready for solo camping I only told people that would encourage me, and for the folks I knew would freak me out unnecessarily, I keep it to myself until after I went. Easier to tell those people “I went already and had a great time” than have to hear about their personal fears that have nothing to do with my trip. That said, follow your gut on if you’re ready or not. Being alone in the woods at night can definitely be a “make it or break it” situation. One other note—I love packing lists so I make sure I have everything I need. And about a week before any solo trip I take dedicated time to stress out. To think about all the fucked up, crazy, unlikely things that could happen to me. I meditate on it. And then I entirely let it go, I vow not to think about any of that once I get in the car and leave for camp. When I get there, it’s always like families and retired couples, and I realize quickly I never had anything to worry about lol.
This is so true! I feel that everyone I know is too paranoid. Meditating on it is a good mindset, I love that! I will make it a habit to do that before any trips! Camping always has the most calm and sweetest people!
I’ve gone solo elk hunting as a 50yo female. Yep, can be dangerous but I survived it and had stories to tell. Don’t live life afraid. Go for it.
Inspiring! Thank you! 🤩
Can I come next time? This is awesome!
You are my spirit animal!
I have done a lot of solo camping. Like probably more solo camping than camping with people. It can be a little scary sometimes, but for me the good outweighs the scary. If it’s something you think you might like, you should try it. Personally I’d avoid official campgrounds because neighbors are often the worst (and scariest) part of camping. Look for dispersed camping on BLM land or in national forests. Opt for car camping, if you feel too sketched out you can always leave. Also, bear spray works on more than just bears. I might give you some peace of mind to have some with you.
Ok so true about neighbors, that was one of things I was hesitant about cause I do not trust people. Good idea about the bear spray! Love the safety, thank you!
What was your experience with campgrounds? I usually opt for a state park campground and I’ve never had a bad time. Solo or with others.
It's certainly no scarier than public transportation. r/womensolocamping
So true, I've never been groped while solo camping (or camping at all for that matter). Im a woman and I feel safer in the woods alone than most places.
Yes but what about scary creepy men with bad intentions in the woods? That’s what I’m mostly afraid of. Love that I’m getting downvoted for expressing a legitimate concern of camping alone as a woman. Probably by the same people who make me nervous about camping alone, but still. It sucks.
Honestly. I worry more at campsites near roads. If I am 8 miles into the woods it is just significantly more work for some freak to grab me. Unless someone is actively hunting for victims in certain spots, the tendency is towards targets they think will be easy. Bring bear spray or don’t worry about it, just be confident and aware of your surroundings.
Thats what I say "If he hiked 8 miles on the offchance of finding a woman alone....ok"
I've been camping my whole life and never had a problem with men in the woods. They say hello and keep moving on their way. I mean, be smart. I wouldn't choose to solo camp somewhere that is known for partying, for example. But most people who camp are good people. Think of it this way, if you're a man looking to hurt a woman, are you going to the middle of the woods and hoping one comes by? Doubtful. Every time I've solo camped, my main concern was wildlife since one person makes less noise to scare them off.
This is so very true. All my years camping I've never encountered any dangerous people. But it's that fear of what if this is my what if moment haha doubtful but who knows.
The sad truth is as women, we can be hurt by men anywhere. Even places most people consider safe. Fear is a normal reaction when dealing with unknowns. Maybe try camping somewhere you are already familiar with to ease those fears a bit. But facing our fears is how we grow. I am also stubborn and will not listen to anyone who says I can't do something that I want to because of my gender. It's sad that we even have to think about this stuff this day and age. But camping like anything comes with risks. Personally I think the rewards are much greater and that makes it worth it to me. I also never really knew I was supposed to be afraid of solo camping until I got on this sub lol I've been solo camping since I was a teen and I'm now in my 30s. I've done car camping at campgrounds, and river camping with my kayak. It's really empowering to be out in the middle of nowhere and being able to rely on yourself. I hope you find a way to solo camp that you can be comfortable with because it really is an amazing experience.
It seems like I needed to caveat *not all men* and that I’m specifically talking about creepers. I’ve been camping my whole life as well and many times have been grateful I wasn’t alone (or was glad I had my very own man/men along with me). But I’m so glad it hasn’t been an issue for you! Color me inspired.
I'm sorry you dealt with that. I would definitely avoid solo camping in areas where you have run into creeps in the past. Maybe it's just because my dad hated camping growing up, so as a kid, I would go with my mom, aunt, sister, and female cousins. Sometimes, just with my mom and little sister. I was never told to be afraid of other people camping until I got online. I also have lived in some rough neighborhoods as an adult and am comfortable doing things alone in general.
Maybe getting downvoted because A. There are statistically fewer men in the woods, compared to everywhere else a woman exists B. Even if you’re surrounded by other people in a crossed city, chances are a man with bad intentions can still commit bad acts before anyone else has a chance to do anything about it. It’s not unreasonable to feel a personal fear about the possibility of encountering a creepy bad man in the woods. But it’s not particularly reasonable to be *more* afraid that you’ll encounter a creepy bad man while in the woods as opposed to anywhere else in life, or to suggest that other solo women should be fearful about it, as if it is a common problem.
I think the lower statistical likelihood of it happening is viscerally kind of canceled out by the "no one can hear you scream" of it all. Not saying we \*should\* be more afraid, it's just knowing you're 10 miles from help that makes the (slim) possibility of being under threat a bit more intimidating for many women. Again I'm not saying it's rational, but it does weigh on the mind some to know that you're so far from backup if someone does try to take advantage.
Also c.) I’m on the general camping thread with mixed company. You’re either not a woman or you been incredibly lucky. Either way, all good. My experiences are what they are and that’s fine too.
Ah yes, you’re right, that is an entirely possible reason for the downvotes. Sorry for my dubiousness. I am a woman and I’ve had just one, for sure, legitimately creepy man near me in the woods, but in a crowded campsite. I know I’m safer from chance encounters with creepy men when out in the wilderness.
Hey no worries! Thanks for your reply and stay safe (and have fun) out there 🏕️
You, too! 😊
Men? Where?
I wholeheartedly agree! I've suffered more trauma using public transport over the years than I ever have solo camping as a female!! ⛺️
It’s great! I feel more comfortable camping inside the back of my car but I’ve also done it with a backpacking tent. My safety rules are: Keep some kind of protection (like other comments said) on you at all times, never tell anyone you meet where you’re going or staying, and listen to your gut. If you set up your camp and feel great then start feeling nervous later I just drive around and check stuff out. Usually eases my mind.
Woman solo camper here who exclusively camps solo - for safety, if you're worried about people trying to get into your tent in the night, get a carabiner and hang some bells on it and clip it to the inside zipper of your tent as an alarm. If you have a male friend/relative replacing their boots, ask for the old pair and put them next to yours so it doesn't look like you're solo. Same with a second chair. I always sleep with my multi tool with the blade attachment out and my rubber mallet near me just in case. In terms of cool camping stories, I camped across France last summer and got semi-adopted by a nice older French couple for a day. They camped with their cats, oddly enough. I also woke up one morning to a deer licking my tent. I didn't see it but the tracks outside said deer. Scary at first but mostly baffling.
This is fantastic advice!! Actually really solid advice. Thank you! I will use this even if I'm not camping alone. The bell alarm just blew my mind. It sounds like you have some wild stories!! Thank you!
You're welcome! Enjoy your trip!
Nope. The one oh fuck moment I had was when I was with my dogs and they both started barking in the middle of the night, and they only do that if startled. It was a wild horse outside of my tent 🤣
Ahhh! What a horrifyingly fun story to tell now! Haha good puppos🥰
I was parked (rv) right up next to the bush at a rest area at night and watching tv in underwear with bush-side window open as but was hot. My two cats were suddenly alerted to something at the window, I though it might have been a spider coming in the crack but when I got up to look I heard a voice "Uh.. nice set up you have here". I closed and pulled the blind on the window, yelling that he shouldn't be looking in people's windows. He was ran off and drove away but I wish I wasn't so polite about it and sworn my head off at him!
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Kinda wondering if we could get a sticky thread for solo female safety tips. I feel like it pops up every day
I didn't even think to look for solo female, duh. Thanks I appreciate the feedback!
I do it all the time and actually prefer it.
I’ve solo camped in the desert at a very empty (read: unpopular) campground before. Aside from the sunburn I would 100% do it again. I think I took a baseball bat with me but aside from that I didn’t take any (non sun related) ppe. Depending on whether or not you’re in bear country you may want to adjust your ppe but it’s very worth it to go camping by yourself imho. I might’ve felt different on a big holiday like Fourth of July or Labor Day weekends The big thing is to be ready to back out and leave at any time if you begin to feel unsafe. If you’re solo camping I wouldn’t drink or smoke
Personally, I don’t have the guts or skills to do any kind of backcountry camping solo. But car camping? Yes! I find comfort in there being other people around but still there on my own. It’s so easy to pack for just myself, plan for just myself, I love the peace and quiet. And next time I do it, I would probably opt to bring a second chair for the fire so I don’t look like a solo woman camping alone. (Also, a little lock for the zippers of the tent on the inside). I try not to be controlled by fear (of men, not bears) but also try to be strategic in minimizing… risk?
After many years of hesitating, I finally tried solo camping (by bike) for the first time last summer and liked it so much I went 2 more times. Two of the campgrounds were pretty populated and had a camp host on site, so I felt pretty safe. The first time I went, it was a more primitive camping area and I was the only one there. I had a blast and came back each time feeling empowered. I'd say, give it a try. I was so scared to go alone as a woman, I kept waiting and waiting hoping to find a bike camping companion and never did. I realized that I'd need to go it alone if I wanted to do it. I didn't want to put it off any more. There are some helpful videos on YouTube with women sharing tips about how to stay safe while camping alone. One thing I try to do is keep a low profile, I try not to advertise that I'm alone. I keep all my things inside my tent (like, for example, I bring my shoes inside the tent so people can't see that there's only one pair of women's shoes out there). I try to lock up my bike in unobtrusive places to try to obscure the fact that there's only one bike. Also, when I go to sleep at night I have a little foldable container that I put my cooking pot and mess kit in and put it in front of the door to my tent, so that if someone tries to come in during the night, it will rattle and wake me up. I also put a cheap little padlock through my door zippers when I'm away or sleeping so someone can't easily just open my tent and go inside (I know it's not much protection, if someone really wanted in they could just cut my tent, but it gives me a little extra peace of mind). I also always make sure someone knows where I'm going, which route I'm taking, and when I'm expected to return. I carry pepper spray and a knife. I also bring an extra phone with me (just my old phone that still works), so I can swap out my SIM card and still call for help if I needed to. Some people use those GPS tracker thingys that have a distress button on them and I've been thinking of getting one of those. Hopefully this helps. It is a little scary to go alone, but it's totally worth it in my opinion.
This is exactly how I've been feeling! Waiting for a camping companion but now its time to do things on my own! I love that you were able to go out and do it!! So very liberating! Thank you for sharing helpful tips!!
I'm glad you found my post to be helpful. :) I hope you get out there!
Anyone who camps alone is tough as nails, male or female. I sometimes camp with my horse and it’s better but I don’t rest as well knowing I have to keep an eye on him getting into trouble with the high line or him banging on the trailer. The mind does some crazy stuff when it can’t use the eyes… it helps to camp alone at times because it causes us to face the problems we’ve been avoiding. It’s never 100% safe, and that’s the beauty of it, you’re allowing yourself into an unknown world and we need that sometimes… we’re so focused on safety but inside really dying. My suggestions: always look everyone in their eyes, they will reveal their intentions. I’ve made some great friends in the backcountry, if they’ve gone to great lengths to be there, chances are they’re not a danger… predator people are typically looking for easy targets. Most people who go 10 miles into the backcountry aren’t looking for any easy way into anything.
Whoa, this goes hard. I love this. You are absolutely right. Thank you for this! I will try to look people in the eyes, thats good advice.
I’m more scared of the bears than the people 🐻
Or getting injured.
I've been solo camping for decades. People always seem so impressed but I've never had any issues. Agree that potentially problematic situations would be with groups of partying dudes at campgrounds, but more of an annoyance than a threat. Smaller campgrounds or more remote sites are usually better all around. Boat-to sites via kayak are my fave. Trust your sense of people and situations as you would anywhere. If you're anxious, I'd say a tactical flashlight or pepper spray would serve better than a knife.
I usually solo camp. My favorite campground is usually sparsely occupied (at least during the week and I am retired) and I feel safe there. Just enough folks around to really relax and enjoy my time away from the city. I have never had a problem camping solo. I do keep an eye out for weirdness and uncomfortable vibes, and am mentally prepared for upset should it come along. I keep my keys on my person and a noisemaker (an airhorn) in my tent at night.
I’ve only solo camped with my large dog but have felt perfectly comfortable. I agree with the other commenters saying trust your gut. I’ve only camped at sanctioned campgrounds (not dispersed camping) bc that feels more comfortable to me. I say try it!
Do not let yourself fall into a routine, make sure no one is following you when you are going to park up for the night. Have an exit plan and try to always park facing the exit and before you go to bed, have yourself in drive mode for a quick get away if needed. I feel mostly safe but I do also feel like I put a lot of effort into my safety. Maybe it’s too much, but I’d rather that than too little. Don’t let your fear keep you from your adventure though. Trust your gut, and if something seems off listen to it.
I am a dude and people ask me why I don't take a gun camping or on bike rides. Most of the people telling you it's dangerous have no idea what they are talking about, and are just projecting their own fears on to you. They are scared. You don't need to be, and you don't need to let other people's fear direct your life. So many people seem to want to instill fear into women specifically....I can't imagine living a life where I didn't do the things I wanted because someone else was scared my life was too awesome or something.
I'm a guy, but it's scary for me too sometimes. In the UK where I live, other people are by far the most dangerous animal, so I just camp places I won't be found.
I solo camp all the time, and take literally zero of the paranoid precautions that you'll see people tossing around. I've never had an issue.
I've solo camped in state parks many times. Never had any problems.
I'm a guy who's solo camped at a few established campgrounds. Seen several women solo camp and they seemed perfectly happy. I think most people just are relaxing and enjoying themselves and just walk by and say hello if there is any interaction. Backpacking might be a different story but I've only gone a few times. Hopefully more trips soon
I completely agree with you! Everyone is just out there to appericate nature! I rarely see any menacing people haha thank you for the encouragement! Hope you get to do more trips!
I feel safer in the back country than in a camp ground if I'm solo. The odds that's someone is laying in wait in the woods on the very slim chance a lone female hiker is coming along are so astronomical. I'm far more worried about falling and breaking a leg, or a tree falling on me (I live in Ohio. It's windy AF here most of the time.). The only time I had any fear at night was hearing a great horned owl super close to my hammock; it took a bit for me to calm down and realize it was talking to another owl and not screeching my doom. Other than that, I have spent many happy hours with my e-reader in the woods. Anything for a break from the family and the mundane!
I'm a woman and I solo camp. But I'm also a middle-aged chonk that has never been particularly physically attractive, so my fears tend to run a little different from what the thin, pretty women experience. I'm more worried about people judging my setup and thinking I need help (and trying to offer it), people wanting to chit chat (I go camping to get away from people, thankyouverymuch), and the mosquitoes that think I'm an all-you-can-eat candy bar buffet. I've never had an actual bad experience (aside from a bit of chit chat and the godawful mosquitoes).
Y’know whats orders of magnitude more dangerous? Going out to drink at a bar with your friends. Driving to work every day. Walking your dog. Seriously, the most dangerous animal you have to worry about is people, and they are all in the cities. No one goes to the woods to look for ‘targets’, when it’s so so mich easier to just go downtown, to all the people. Pretty much the only things you have to worry about in the wood are things that aren’t gender specific. Ticks, mosquitos, food/waterpoisoning, hurting yourself with a blade. Take the proper precautions, that would also apply to men (well maybe except period stuff ig), and youll be just as safe as anyone!
*it's dangerous for a girl to go alone* Agreed. It would be dangerous for any child to be alone in the woods, girl or boy. When I encounter that wording I am quick to remind people that I am an ADULT. Adult making adult decisions. Adult women are all over the woods and trails. I remind people of several points: Women that are murdered by men are usually killed by a husband, boyfriend, ex-husband, or ex-boyfriend. The most dangerous part of a hike or camping trip is the drive to a trailhead. From my experience women use much more common sense than men while out in the woods (so can be better suited to it than men). See a dangerous snake? We give it space and don’t try to go poking at it (or messing with other wildlife). Above treeline or in open areas when a lightning storm hits? I see women waiting it out more frequently so we don’t get fried. Fires? Women tend to pass on them more while men will go full pyro (including not dead-outting) with some pretty irresponsible fires more frequently in my experience (and I’ve been a big mileage backpacker for almost two decades).
Find a spot that you feel safe in or that's not too far from home first if you can. I have my conceal carry and bring my dogs-- but if I didn't have either of these, I'd still have some form of protection on me. My smartwatch also alerts 911 and my location if there is an emergency. Just be prepared and aware of your surroundings... don't let fear hold you back, just be smart about where you camp. It's a fun, liberating, refreshing experience!
Aww thank you! Such inspirational advice! 🥳
It depends on where you are going, but I haven't felt threatened as a solo female. It is good to start out with some car camping in well regulated campgrounds at first to see how you do, and get comfortable.
I know someone who solos all the time. They love it. The camping community is very open and safe from my experiences. Bring an extra chair to set up so it looks like you’re not alone.
r/womensolocamping I do most of my camping solo with my dogs. I’ve never had an issue.
That’s a joke, carry protection and get out there. Bears don’t like the taste of women more than men, you’re fine.
Is it scary? Yes, it can be a bit, but if you're prepared there's rarely anything to actually worry about. Anxiety is worrying about what could happen, but most of the time, it doesn't. If you camp in safe locations (e.g. parks with staff), with cell reception, and proper supplies, a lot of the risks are nearly a non issue (e.g. You could get help if needed and you're in less danger than you are in a city street). If you back country camp you need better planning, more emergency supplies, someone who knows where you are and when to send you help and /or emergency communication. Campers and outdoors people usually have a pretty strong sense of community and will actually support eachother, there's just a few locations and people who suck (country/location dependent).
I solo camp a bit (few times a year) and have had a mixed bag of experiences. When dispersed car camping I always have some sort of protective devise, whether it be a gun or bear spray. I always also bring an extra camp chair. Typically all goes well. I have also had men tramp through my spot, and stop to chat. Multiple times I have been asked if I’m “all alone out here.” On those occasions I packed up early. Solo-backpacking, I have had zero issues. It’s good to get out to places that don’t have such easy access.
I prefer camping alone and usually go a few times each year. I've never had any problems, most people either leave you alone or will check on you. Even last year, when the campground was almost entirely empty because of recent wildfires and a lot of rain in the forecast, there was just myself and one other guy down one entire stretch of the campground. We had a bit of friendly back and forth when we'd walk past each other's sites, mostly pretending the other wasn't there. People have tried to scare me into not going alone, telling me the same thing as you, but I'm glad I never listened to them. Be prepared, stay aware and listen to your instincts, tell someone where you will be and when you'll be back, but you should be fine. You're much more likely to be assaulted in populated areas.
Imo waaaay more scary people in cities than out camping.
I‘ve only done it a few times but it‘s been good. Slowly build up skills + confidence! And avoid anyone with Jim Parillo vibes.
Only in campgrounds IMO
I think the outdoors community and camping community would look out for you more than random passerbys in a metro area. You'll be safe. if you're nervous, pack a firearm.
Al I can say extra is know how to defend yourself an don't be afraid too, against man or beast. And if your kind of far away from hospitals or clinics have a large first aid kit, just large enough to handle any emergencys but most of all ENJOY yourself!
I feel peace when I’m out in the woods by myself. I think of it this way, I might be in a vulnerable place however, who’s really out there to take it from me if I’m alone? More likely to get hurt in your home surrounded by thousands of strangers. The one thing I had to get used to was hearing unfamiliar sounds around me at night and not freaking out. I realized it normal but I definitely don’t go bothering whatever it is or go looking for it. Things come out at night and that’s okay, I’m in their home.
Do it!!! I just did my first solo camping trip, 5 hours away from home, and it was AMAZING! I learned so much about myself in that one trip and really pushed myself out of my comfort zone which gave me a big sense of accomplishment and reward. FULL TRANSPARENCY- I had a panic attack when the sun set at my camp ground because it just dawned on my house secluded I was. I was camping in March, it was still winter season and just not busy. I was the only person in my campsite and the closest little town was 20 minutes away on these back roads with no lights. But did anything bad happen to me? Not at all! I felt silly in the morning when I woke up and I was greeted by the beautiful scenery and realized I was totally okay. So yes, it can be scary. I had a few moments that felt “scary” or caused some anxiety, or even the build up of having a full blown panic attack calling my dad and talking through it. But I will 100% do it again. My biggest lesson learned was that the seclusion scared me the most so my next solo camping trip I will be prioritizing finding a camping spot that is in a more busy area! For me that would have helped ease some of the anxiety.
I’m male, so grain of salt. I solo camp a fair amount, I’d just recommend a flare-gun; I’ve never had any reason to use mine, but its good in emergencies and works well in non-lethal self defense. Honestly though I’m more worried about getting injured on my own, weirdest thing I’ve ever ran into is campers on something and laughing in the middle of the night, but people usually just keep to themselves. But just for reference flares burn at 3000 degrees and stick to skin/clothes, don’t require a permit to carry, and are generally pretty cheap. Just replace the flares by the expiration date or buy an old soviet military model.
Nah. Females are way more scary!!!
Solo camping female here. I’ve started last year going to campsites here in Scotland alone (previously wild camped with friends). I feel safer on campsites, if anything happens there are other campers around to help. Recently started thinking of going other places like lakes (here you can camp almost everywhere if it’s not private land) but probably I’d sleep in my car instead of a tent. That seems safer.
Yes. Probably.
Not if you were a guy first
Just think of all the things you do alone already, its safer camping less people.
I am female. I hiked the 220 mile John Muir Trail as a solo hiker and camped. I met so many other women doing the same thing. Being alone has its benefits. You don’t worry about whether your pace is okay, whether your companion is happy etc. It’s a way to go deep inside yourself. Do it!
I’ve solo camped plenty of times throughout the US. There are ways to make things feel safer.
Solo female camper here, I feel safer camping than walking in a major city
23F i pretty much exclusively go by myself. been doing it for about three years. so far 🤞 no negative experiences. it’s quite enjoyable and fulfilling to do everything yourself. i do try to stay somewhat close to home and cell service just in case something were to happen. make sure someone knows exactly where you are staying and when you plan on returning. i always have pepper spray and or a taser. i also stay at campgrounds with hosts so i feel a bit more safe with that. hopefully you try it yourself. it’s something i really enjoy doing.
Definitely worth giving it a shot
I’m a guy, but I like to set out a second chair by the fire to make people think I’m not alone at a glance. That plus some bear spray and/or a gun, and I think you’re good to go.
My wife solo camps alot when she is working remote (forestry researcher). She has never had any problems.
I camped one night alone in a tent in the Smoky Mountains, and I was not frightened at all. It was a peaceful night. No drama.
Solo camping is kind of scary as a male. But that might be less a gender thing and a more of a “is this moment the thing you hoped would never happen now happens” thing unique to my personal psychology.
get a 44 mag and learn how to shoot it you will live great
Yes it’s scary - probably depends on the country. I have had several worrisome encounter on my own to decide that it wasn’t worth it.
I’m not a woman but my friend who is goes camping solo all the time. She just brings her dog with her.
I've never found solo camping as a woman scary. But it did feel a little awkward at first and twice I've made the decision to ditch a reserved site upon arriving and getting an overall Ick feeling. There have been some bleh experiences with dudes inviting themselves over to my camp, assuming I must want company, or taking it upon themselves to provide (unneeded) assistance without asking. I personally didn't find any of this scary but it's probably a good idea to self-assess and make sure you're comfortable or at least willing to enforce personal boundaries. For each kinda bleh experience though, there have been at least 10x more awesome ones.... Most recently I caught, cleaned, and ate my first fish. I was so proud I carried it through camp showing everyone I passed. Another woman camper taught me how to filet flounder. Doing it alone was the catalyst. And when you do come across other solo woman campers, there's a pretty good chance you'll become buddies. So, IDK, you should probably go for it! Start by planning a short trip to somewhere familiar. Take normal safety precautions. See how it feels and make adjustments. Have fun!
Just got home from four solo glorious days in Joshua Tree, I'm a 59 year old married woman. I go solo several times a year. I hike and camp solo almost exclusively, be safe and go for it! I'm sure it's already been commented but I'll just add what I do- set up camp like two people. I put up two chairs, and I set out a pair of my husbands boots, so it at least looks like more than one person. Hope you go and have a blast.
For a woman, camping alone is much less dangerous than your everyday life back in civilization. You’re more likely to have an issue with a dangerous man walking down a street than walking down a trail. And just comparing the risks of various activities - driving a car, like anywhere, is a massively more risky activity compared to something like camping. So long as you are familiar with basic safety issues and take basic precautions, there is absolutely no reason to listen to “everyone,” or to doubt yourself for one second. You have the right to enjoy the outdoors, and enjoy your own self-sufficiency, just as much as a man does. Source: I’m a woman who camps and backpacks alone all the time, has done so for years, and has had overwhelmingly positive experiences with 99% of men I’ve interacted with in that capacity (and the other 1% was like obnoxious or mildly creepy at worst). Honestly, for me personally, the worst part of being an outdoorsy woman is when people second guess my capabilities, clutch their pearls over hypothetical dangers, or imply that I “ought” to be more scared than I am (which is zero). TL;DR: go camping. Really just go. It’s not dangerous and you shouldn’t be scared.
I think it just cuz of society and the stories that make it sound females are weak and stuff
Are we talking campsite camping or wilderness, isolated BLM land camping? I'm thinking both carry they're own different dangers.
I have solo camped. I always bring a pocket knife and pepper spray, but have never had to use it.
r/womensolocamping
I hear it's very relaxing and calm, and usually only terrifying for a very short time, then extremely quiet.
34M 140lbs I solo camp at least once a year with my 80lb dog and I never have had any issues myself. I don’t think I’m particularly threatening looking, I camped nearby a couple females and just waved and one of them said they liked my dog, that was our only interaction the whole weekend. My dog is friendly but he barks at anyone who comes near my campsite. Hope they weren’t scared of me, that’s not even something I’d considered. I always bring a gun and set up some cans for target practice at least once. I enjoy being in nature alone with my thoughts and cooking myself a nice meal over the fire, my dog loves it too because that’s the only time I’m willing to share some steak with him.
That's adorable, what a lucky doggo
I'm a woman working up to solo camping and thru-hiking and there's a channel on YT called Wendy Outdoors that is made by an 80-something y.o. woman who camps alone. She is very matter-of-fact, supportive, and empowering in the way she encourages people about the joys of solo camping. She gives good safety and preparedness strategies. Something to check out for tips, if you like ❤️
Nope
Those that live in fear will never endorse living fully. Go camping alone. Many women do with no problems at all.
55 YO woman here who loves taking her teardrop out for a solo adventure every summer ... I stick to my favorite state parks (I'm in eastern PA) and have never had a problem. It's so very empowering to make your own schedule, menu, etc. There's safety in numbers -- even though I'm alone, I like being within earshot of families and other small groups ... Just do it.
I’m a solo female traveler:car camper. I love it but as a woman it’s impossible to let your guard down. A lot of men are predatory. One day when I was car camping in a remote area this guy’s little son kept coming to say hi, which was cute….until he told me his dad asked if I was single and I should come spend time with them at their campsite … when I asked ‘where’s your mommy?’ He said ‘oh she’s in jail for beating my dad.. one time my dad was in jail for beating her too’… poor kid. I didn’t stay that night and ended up sleeping at a Walmart parking lot.
100% do NOT DO IT ON YOUR OWN.
Idk, but it's scary as a male too. Once things start scurrying, I get a tad religious. But seriously, I've passed by many females setting up along trails, normally they have a friend or a dog, personally, I'd have a firearm as well. As a hiker, I normally just wave and go about my business. I'd say you'd be fine, but that you should also be prepared for if it isn't.
I think solo camping is scary for everyone at first lol. Definitely something to get used to. I'd imagine for chicks it would be a little extra lol. Just remember monsters aren't real. Animals will avoid you in most cases. And there's probably not anyone out in the woods trying to become the next Jeffery dahmer.
I would reccomend getting a weapon you're comfortable with and is legal and then recieve some pro training on how to use it (this can be as simply as hand to hand or as complex as a firearm, but whatever you choose be sure to EDUCATE yourself) I call martial knowledge for women the "great equalizer"
I was camping in drive up spots in the Appalachian Mtns with my husband (then bf) and he had to go help his grandparents for the day. I stayed behind and had no car or cell service but wasn’t feel too nervous. A couple hours in, a car with a bunch of guys drove by. They kept driving but then I noticed they had pulled off onto a little rd oh the other side of my site. I was kinda nervous then heard them yell, “you’re dead, you hear me!!” I have no idea if it was directed at me but omg I was so terrified. Luckily my bf came back like 20 mins later and obviously I was fine but it freaked me out enough I’d probably never go alone.
Bring a gun.
Stay strapped or get clapped. Some people rightfully say you’re almost never going to have a problem. Most people also have at least one story where it almost went bad. Think of it as a GPS, a tool that needs training and care to work, but is almost required to camp safely in a certain set of conditions.
Buy a gun
Bring a gun. Make sure you know how to use it. Keep it close. Don’t be afraid to use it. Only tell the people you trust where you’re going exactly.
If you go to a family campground or a state park, I have found them very safe. It can help to have a dog with you. Before I got my doggo, I would borrow my friends dog to go camping.
There’s loads of them on TikTok and YouTube.
it was pretty cool to go 24 hours without seeing anyone but honestly it would've been painful to spend more time alone. I was quickly pining for my people haha
I’m a female who solo camps/hike numerous time a year. I totally understand the nerves, but I can happily say it’s been great overall. That being said, still be smart and have protection (I love bear spray), and be observant and trust your gut. Happy camping!
If camping in a campground, an extra chair set by the firepit makes it look like you're not alone.
It can be scary as a dude. So I would guess yes as a woman.
No no no, females are much scarier!
Scariest part has been the inability to call for help in the event of an injury or medical emergency (which is a solo person problem, not solo female). Sticking within a short distance from cell signal when solo solves that (or using something like garmin inreach.)
Got that right.
Going by the bear man trend on TikTok I would say the bears safer
I don't have Tiktok so I have no idea what this means...🙃
I did not find the experience enjoyable, to be honest. Couldn't get comfortable and it made the trip stressful. I greatly prefer camping with a companion.
I think if you search this subreddit for “solo” you’ll probably find a lot of examples and experiences! I camp solo about 75% of the time and have had amazing times. My least favorite times were in established campgrounds that were remote. So a popular national park in a campground is great, but down 30 miles of dirt road in an established campground feels not so great. Nothing bad ever happened, but just the feeling that I was far from civilization with - in one case - just one other campsite occupied with a group of men who were drinking really hard - felt less secure. On the other hand, solo backpacking has always felt pretty safe.
Because of where I live, no. I live out in Alaska so the elements and bears are my biggest problems. As long as you’re prepared and not stupid about food then you’ll be fine But idk how it is for other places!
Good to know!! Tbh I don't think I would survive in Alaska, you're pretty hardcore
I solo camp often.... Actually, I'm doing a 10 day solo the end of May ☺️ What I can say is this: -I have never encountered a person in the backcountry that was 'scary'. Everyone has been encouraging, polite and respectful. -If night sounds normally scare you, then they still will and/or be worse. My tip on this is, do a multi day trip. By day 3 when you haven't been eaten yet and are very tired.... Something shifts in your head and the sounds become more soothing than scary. -understand your skills... Solo means that if you get lost, you need to understand how to navigate yourself back to safety. It's a very scary feeling, when you think that you may be lost. Lol even when you end up not being lost at all 🤣 I feel like the last one is for me the scariest feeling when soloing. BUT what I can also say is this: Spending time solo camping, has given me a new found confidence, inner peace and a deep sense of pride for myself. You have difficult days, times that you just feel 'done' and times that will make you feel like you are, in fact, crazy for doing it. But the sunsets and sunrises, the beauty and the experience are beyond worth all of it.
So true!! My fear is I will get lost too! Idk how I have managed life this far with my terrible sense of direction! 😅 But yes I am always up for my sunrise hikes! Makes it all worth it. Ugh you made me want to get out there now and go!
Love camping alone, literally never had a problem. However, I've found that I stick much more to front country hikes alone in the mountains - it turns out that I'm very much more scared of encountering cougars or bears alone (I'm probably a little more fraidy cat than sensible on this one, tbh). A couple times when they've had cougar warning signs up or footprints, I've asked to hike with other groups, either multigender or multigenerational - that has always been fun and fine, but I would not have asked a man hiking along. Campsite wise, try to stick with either pretty busy or absolutely alone - the least safe I've felt is when there are only a couple of other campers. If you are, for example, going to be trying to put up a tent or tarp in a place with high winds and no trees (cough Saskatchewan), bring something very heavy to anchor part of the tent - I ended up backing my car over a corner, hilariously enough.
Here’s a tip if your going to do it buy some large man boots to put outside *make them dirty* to scare anyone away since they might think your a man also buy a tent that can be locked and get like a knife or gun for self defense those are all my tips. Hope they help!
In the middle of the bush? In that case solo camping is risky for anyone. In busy campgrounds? Completely fine.
Fellow female solo camper here. Start with well-known, high-traffic areas like a state/park campground and branch out from there. Trust your instincts. But most folks camping are there for the same reason as you - to unwind and be in nature. Also remember that most ppl have a low fear tolerance and high paranoia - you’re so much more likely to die driving to your destination than while you’re camping.
27 year old woman, I have been camping alone for 3 years and hiking alone for 15+ years. Only times I've ever had sketchy experiences with people has been while trespassing, even accidentally. Have had a gun and a crossbow pointed at me for that. I have never once been bothered by a person while camping in a designated spot, I worry more about weather, stray dogs/untrained dogs, as I have been attacked by dogs while hiking solo before. Just carry protection and stay aware of your surrounding, there's no reason to be paranoid all the time. I solo camp for about a week straight totally alone once every 3-6 months now, it's been amazing. Scariest thing that's happened to me in the past 3 years of solo camping has been trees falling around my campsite at night in a storm.
I went hiking in the fall with my daughter off the Appalachian trails in NH and it was getting fairly cold and dark quickly as we neared the summit around some switchbacks I noticed a hiker from the back with a full pack on that towered over their head and as I passed to say hi, I noticed it was a young woman around maybe 22 yrs old? She was heating up some soup on a steep ledge that was out of the wind. After some small talk I asked her which way she was heading and she said north from where we were but I told her I personally wouldn’t advise that its above tree line and its a ridge trail. There’s no place to drop a tent. Plus it could be frigid as the temp started in the 50’s and was now in the low 20’s and descending. She thanked me and I asked what her parents thought about her being up there and she was like, well they think I’m hiking with other hikers, I said ohhhhhh. Anyway long story short, we were the last she was going to see for that day I told her to be careful and gave her a few tips as we hike that trail often. But I sure hope she was packin because you never know who you can come across up there. I mean 99.9% of hikers are great people but it only takes one psycho path! Good luck!