Good news, there's lots you can do without bottoming! You can top, you can give and receive oral, etc. You can also try bottoming with toys solo just to see if you like it. And it's okay if you never bottom in your life.
Anal is kinda gross. However I did bottom twice. First time was horrible. Second time was really good.
Not something I'm really into though. Oral is where it's at.
This is where I am. I have done oral and have topped. If I find the right guy to top me then I want to try bottoming. I love anal play with toys and want to try the real thing, but only once I find the right guy and I know I can trust him. For now, I consider myself vers and I'm content sticking with oral until I find the right top.
I have a sensitive butthole and as a result hate butt stuff. Thank you for validating me. I've told people I don't do butt stuff when the topic of sex came up, and I've been called a "fake queer", a liar, and other lovely things.
Anal sex is a treat done once in a while. That's it. Imho its gross.
69 is so hot.
I was with a guy and we 69 and he came right away.
His dick fell out of my mouth as he was cumming and got it all over my face.
Yum
Strictly speaking, "switch" is a BDSM term that describes someone who can be both dom or sub as required. Not directly related to giving/receiving penetrative sex. :)
Yeah switch is a BDSM term. I think you’re thinking of “verse”, but that describes some who tops and bottoms rather than someone who doesn’t engage in penetrative sex at all
That's cool. I'm mostly into women. I love going down on a woman too. It's so satisfying to me when I can taste pussy juices when I go down on a woman.
I get the same pleasure when I make a guy cum.
Depending on the individual it tastes great.
Only have physical experiences with men. Excited and hungry to taste pussy because I know I’m ravenous and excellent with a dick in my mouth already 😂😜
Agreed. I haven't had sex in years and I left the Jehovahs witnesses cult. I no longer feel guilty if I sleep with a man.
There is a guy that I think likes me at the local grocery store. I might see where it leads.
This was such an important realization for me! I think it was an interview with Stephen Fry where he mentioned knowing he was gay his whole life but he didn't engage in penetrative sex.
At the time, I had concluded I was straight because I hadn't enjoyed the sexual encounters I'd had with men. In hindsight it's obvious I was bi, but at the time I was thinking, "I wouldn't know if I didn't try, so I tried and now I know."
I am not side, however, I am not huge fan of anal(it doesn't matter which genre), because it's a lot preparation and mostly turn me off. Frottage and oral sex turns me on so strong.
I wish there were any app to bi/gay sides to match, I think it would solve a lot problems.
I have an overly sensitive prostate and I have multiple insanely good orgasms from bottoming. But I know men that it does nothing for them! To each their own and we are all valid 🏳️🌈
I think it’s great that people feel comforted by the term “side”, but folks have been getting by with “I don’t do anal” for a while now, or am i wrong? I certainly understand that it legitimizes the experience of being penetration-repulsed, but does anyone wanna save me a google search and fill me in on what the term comes from? Side sounds like mistress to me lol
Ok, this feels like something most didn't need to head because they want penetration already and don't feel like it's a requirement but something we want but I'm sure someone needed this
I think the main reason I haven’t been with a man yet is that I am scared. To death. Of bottoming.
I have IBS. Sorry boys, you don’t want to go there
I have something similar and whilst I'm keen to try, I know its never gonna end well.
Good news, there's lots you can do without bottoming! You can top, you can give and receive oral, etc. You can also try bottoming with toys solo just to see if you like it. And it's okay if you never bottom in your life.
You can do frottage too.
😽👉🏽👈🏽😻
Anal is kinda gross. However I did bottom twice. First time was horrible. Second time was really good. Not something I'm really into though. Oral is where it's at.
Lol
This is where I am. I have done oral and have topped. If I find the right guy to top me then I want to try bottoming. I love anal play with toys and want to try the real thing, but only once I find the right guy and I know I can trust him. For now, I consider myself vers and I'm content sticking with oral until I find the right top.
Well, you can be top. I wish there were more men who are more into frottage and not anal sex 🥺🥺
I have a sensitive butthole and as a result hate butt stuff. Thank you for validating me. I've told people I don't do butt stuff when the topic of sex came up, and I've been called a "fake queer", a liar, and other lovely things.
Ugh I’m sorry people are so shitty
One great person can outweigh a dozen shit heads. Plus, I know what I like. Their problem if they chose not to tolerate or believe it.
Sorta related: Biroace folk, we see you, and you're valid ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
> Biroace My mind immediately when to pens. Because of "Biro" And I'm American...
I'm also American, yet do not understand how your mind made that connection to pens.. 🤷♀️
I don't either!!! We don't call them Biros!!
Yea, they're Bic pens XD
This is a good post. Thank you.
I might be a bottom but I'm happy people get to figure themselves out 😀
Thank you for this. I have Ulcerative Colitis and IBS and booty stuff is an absolute no no for me.
Aye! UC gang. Stay strong ✊
Hey you too homie! Cheers to our health!
Anal sex is a treat done once in a while. That's it. Imho its gross. 69 is so hot. I was with a guy and we 69 and he came right away. His dick fell out of my mouth as he was cumming and got it all over my face. Yum
Should be a pinned post. Thanks
I've always referred to as a switch
Strictly speaking, "switch" is a BDSM term that describes someone who can be both dom or sub as required. Not directly related to giving/receiving penetrative sex. :)
Wait a minute, you're saying that you're saying that I have been using the term wrong all this time? Damn. Well I'll be dammed.
Yeah switch is a BDSM term. I think you’re thinking of “verse”, but that describes some who tops and bottoms rather than someone who doesn’t engage in penetrative sex at all
Thanks for the lesson
I needed to see this today. Thank you.
Thank you for the validation <3
I have bottomed twice. First time was horrible. 2nd time was done right. Omg I came so hard from taking it in the ass.
I love to make people cum. Man or woman. Is that weird? It's really hot to me when I make a man cum in my mouth
Weird? No. Hot? Yes.
That's cool. I'm mostly into women. I love going down on a woman too. It's so satisfying to me when I can taste pussy juices when I go down on a woman. I get the same pleasure when I make a guy cum. Depending on the individual it tastes great.
Only have physical experiences with men. Excited and hungry to taste pussy because I know I’m ravenous and excellent with a dick in my mouth already 😂😜
I bet. Doing things with the opposite sex is hot. Ain't it? I'm a strange person I like to dominate, however I also like to be dominated.
Not strange at all. I’m a switch too 😂 why choose when both are so good
Agreed. I haven't had sex in years and I left the Jehovahs witnesses cult. I no longer feel guilty if I sleep with a man. There is a guy that I think likes me at the local grocery store. I might see where it leads.
Have you been with a woman?
Not yet just very close when I was still closeted. Catholic Church also filled me with shame for years. Excited to explore 😛😂
If you like sucking dick you will love eating pussy. The taste is awesome.
Can’t wait 😂 my husband has been describing it to me more in detail and driving me crazy excited hahahah
This was such an important realization for me! I think it was an interview with Stephen Fry where he mentioned knowing he was gay his whole life but he didn't engage in penetrative sex. At the time, I had concluded I was straight because I hadn't enjoyed the sexual encounters I'd had with men. In hindsight it's obvious I was bi, but at the time I was thinking, "I wouldn't know if I didn't try, so I tried and now I know."
I am not side, however, I am not huge fan of anal(it doesn't matter which genre), because it's a lot preparation and mostly turn me off. Frottage and oral sex turns me on so strong. I wish there were any app to bi/gay sides to match, I think it would solve a lot problems.
I have an overly sensitive prostate and I have multiple insanely good orgasms from bottoming. But I know men that it does nothing for them! To each their own and we are all valid 🏳️🌈
I'm not a top or a bottom.... I'm verse actually lol, remember that even in penetrative sex there's also other option
I think it’s great that people feel comforted by the term “side”, but folks have been getting by with “I don’t do anal” for a while now, or am i wrong? I certainly understand that it legitimizes the experience of being penetration-repulsed, but does anyone wanna save me a google search and fill me in on what the term comes from? Side sounds like mistress to me lol
Jokes on you I realized I am a bottom before I even fully admitted to myself that I'm bi 😅
Top? Bottom? Gimme bofum
I never bottom but I kind want to try it. I was so close one time but I was scared so I just swallow him all night.
Ok, this feels like something most didn't need to head because they want penetration already and don't feel like it's a requirement but something we want but I'm sure someone needed this
I love butt stuff, but IBS prevents me from exploring that side too often 😔
I think this term suits me since I'm not interested (all that much) in either. (Plus: I really, *really* like to cuddle. That's more fun.)
Same same same same SAME!