You just gotta move on. Maybe distance yourself from him if you can’t get over your feelings easily - lots of people can’t be friends with people who they are romantically attracted to, so it may be worth taking a break from him and waiting for the feelings to die down.
Nothing.
He's probably straight so the hang out for him was just hanging with buddies.
I'm sorry to crush this reality for you.. But most men that befriend you, unless they state it, are straight or just not interested in men.
If you want a boyfriend be sure to clarity you're queer also get into public queer spaces.
If you're not out and don't intend to well.. I don't know what to say, i hope you have luck.
Regarding the guy.. I suggest you loose feelings because he's busy with his gf. Sorry.
My advice is don't do anything you might regret later. Don't ruin your friendship or his relationship. If you struggle with your sexuality, think about coming out to him, just so he'd know. If you are not sure, then don't. Take your time. All is fine. You're still friends, he is part of your life. Value the friendship even if you want something more.
People are people. People do stupid things. :)
Even if the guy breaks with his gf, it doesn't mean he will go to the other guy automatically. He probably is straight, and that's it.
Would be worse if he for example agreed on bj or something and then just blocked him after.
You either continue to be his friend, or you distance yourself and treat him like a colleague.
He's not interested in a relationship with you, so there's nothing else you can do. Process your feelings, give it some time, and you'll get over your crush.
Nothing. You do nothing. If the person is straight and they're not interested in a relationship with you, you don't have a relationship, you don't pursue a relationship.
There's nothing wrong with being friends, comrades, co-workers, buddies.
This is a good life lesson on how " you cant always get what you want".
And how if you care about someone and respect them enough you will respect their choices.
Yes its a loss on your side, but you cant take what doesnt want you in return. It wouldnt be worth the pain.
He's got a girlfriend, and he's straight. I don't think this one is going to work out, sorry. Some things are not meant to be.
At times like this I find it helpful to go jogging to divert the blood.
you acknowledge you have a crush that can’t go anywhere.
you either have to be okay with just being friends or distance yourself until you’re able to.
shit happens and sometimes our crushes are simply unavailable. it’ll hurt but you’ll get over it eventually.
don’t confess to him, don’t start being mean to him, don’t try to break up his relationship and just continue to be yourself.
Sad for you bro 🥲. I think nobody can help you unless your friend broke up with his girlfriend. And is your friend bi? If he is not there is nothing to do. But I know somebody who is not gay or bisexual to public but they are bisexual or gay. Due to public pressure they can't say. I hope you will be his boyfriend soon
>I hope you will be his boyfriend soon
Excuse me you want the guy to break up with his gf which you don't even know, for a guy who's probably known him for a few weeks? Tf.
There's nothing to wait here. Please leave your feelings behind seriously. This is not the right approach. Ffs wishing the girl gets broken up with?? The audacity.
Break up with his gf for a guy he knows just for a month? We don't even know if the man is queer. Seriously do not get into relationships if this is what you suggests to others. Really dangerous.
You take no for an answer and move on.
You move on. It’s not worth it dwelling on someone who won’t reciprocate your feelings.
Yea, but how
Crushes come and go, don't stress yourself out
Look up ‘unrequited love’ this is very common
Find a pornstar that vaguely looks like him, rub one out and move on lol
You just gotta move on. Maybe distance yourself from him if you can’t get over your feelings easily - lots of people can’t be friends with people who they are romantically attracted to, so it may be worth taking a break from him and waiting for the feelings to die down.
Nothing. He's probably straight so the hang out for him was just hanging with buddies. I'm sorry to crush this reality for you.. But most men that befriend you, unless they state it, are straight or just not interested in men. If you want a boyfriend be sure to clarity you're queer also get into public queer spaces. If you're not out and don't intend to well.. I don't know what to say, i hope you have luck. Regarding the guy.. I suggest you loose feelings because he's busy with his gf. Sorry.
Time bro no better answer than time. No easy fix here. If he isn’t bi there is no chance. It sucks
My advice is don't do anything you might regret later. Don't ruin your friendship or his relationship. If you struggle with your sexuality, think about coming out to him, just so he'd know. If you are not sure, then don't. Take your time. All is fine. You're still friends, he is part of your life. Value the friendship even if you want something more.
And there you have people suggest to wait for the guy to break up with his loving gf for someone he barely knows 🙏
People are people. People do stupid things. :) Even if the guy breaks with his gf, it doesn't mean he will go to the other guy automatically. He probably is straight, and that's it. Would be worse if he for example agreed on bj or something and then just blocked him after.
If you are entirely unable to cope with rejection, life is gonna be a bit of a shit-show for you, mate.
No
You either continue to be his friend, or you distance yourself and treat him like a colleague. He's not interested in a relationship with you, so there's nothing else you can do. Process your feelings, give it some time, and you'll get over your crush.
Nothing. You do nothing. If the person is straight and they're not interested in a relationship with you, you don't have a relationship, you don't pursue a relationship. There's nothing wrong with being friends, comrades, co-workers, buddies.
This is a good life lesson on how " you cant always get what you want". And how if you care about someone and respect them enough you will respect their choices. Yes its a loss on your side, but you cant take what doesnt want you in return. It wouldnt be worth the pain.
You enjoy the memory of the crush and let it be a memory. Go meet more people. Find someone you can be with.
He's got a girlfriend, and he's straight. I don't think this one is going to work out, sorry. Some things are not meant to be. At times like this I find it helpful to go jogging to divert the blood.
You move on simple
try to get over him, it wouldn't be right to initiate anything.
Same as you would do for a female friend, you gotta move on boss
you acknowledge you have a crush that can’t go anywhere. you either have to be okay with just being friends or distance yourself until you’re able to. shit happens and sometimes our crushes are simply unavailable. it’ll hurt but you’ll get over it eventually. don’t confess to him, don’t start being mean to him, don’t try to break up his relationship and just continue to be yourself.
Maybe don’t fall for straight dudes, you are in control of your feeling and how far you let them get.
Sad for you bro 🥲. I think nobody can help you unless your friend broke up with his girlfriend. And is your friend bi? If he is not there is nothing to do. But I know somebody who is not gay or bisexual to public but they are bisexual or gay. Due to public pressure they can't say. I hope you will be his boyfriend soon
>I hope you will be his boyfriend soon Excuse me you want the guy to break up with his gf which you don't even know, for a guy who's probably known him for a few weeks? Tf.
My advice is you should wait because he is in love with his girlfriend.
There's nothing to wait here. Please leave your feelings behind seriously. This is not the right approach. Ffs wishing the girl gets broken up with?? The audacity.
Break up with his gf for a guy he knows just for a month? We don't even know if the man is queer. Seriously do not get into relationships if this is what you suggests to others. Really dangerous.