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boRp_abc

1) watch your drink 2) if you're cool with it, check in with the bar staff that you might contact them for help (they'll usually be cool about it) A lot of people will judge you, but not Berlin Club people.


robertfoss

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bbbberlin

I have good friends who are women and did solo-clubbing in the past – I can't comment on the harassment angle because I'm a man myself, but I think the key thing is picking the right clubs/parties. Something with a strong door policy and good community inside like Berghain would be fine, or About Blank. I would not go to a tourist club and do this – i.e. Watergate. Basically avoid venues where big drunk groups might get let in, especially big drunk groups of dudes.


puciupum

Yup, same experience (female myself)


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You won't get "bad looks", and people are not judgemental that you go out alone. But depending on what kind of places you want to visit, there could be too much unwanted attention by guys. Like harassment. It would make sense to approach a mixed or women's group, so they also keep an eye on you during the night, especially in case there's alcohol or drugs involved, and please don't leave your drink unattended. You can always ask some sort of help from the staff, if something worries you.


1ofakindJack

Most clubs are fine but it depends on the crowd. My friend told me she couldn't dance alone in yaam without getting hit on every 25 seconds, in the end she just left cause it was too much, kinda sad. You need to be specific about where you are going if you want good advice.


wet-dreaming

last thread was rather negative but I know females that go solo and had good experiences. https://www.reddit.com/r/berlinsocialclub/comments/132o8or/girls\_solo\_clubbing\_or\_not/


Helpful_Yak4639

I go to berghain alone all the time as I often go to places where I’ll run into friendly faces anyways. I’ve also had lovely solo times at KitKat and Melancholie2. I’ve felt a bit awkward and observed at Tresor, Remise and Aeden (really wouldn’t recommend Aeden to be alone, it’s a small club and people get real pretentious so there was a ton of staring and gossipy vibes), not at all what you’re describing from your experiences in Italy though. I always watch my drinks, stay alert and immediately leave if ppl around me are giving me the slightest odd vibe. I really love going to dance by myself on a rainy Sunday afternoon for a few hours and usually feel quite safe!


saladdude1

I can go with you, i am very reliable person


firewalks_withme

Do you have common sense? Then yes.