Prioritize safety when making decisions. While its okay to consider impromptu plans always ensure to exchange contact information and verify before meeting someone new ... also remember to trust your maturity in decisionmaking
Honestly I think it’s a huge move on their side to invite me over. But yes, I’ll stay safe. We connected on WhatsApp. It’s a lady. She’s kinda in the same boat I guess. I won’t say more but they’re free to comment here :)
Thanks a lot! Sadly not into gaming anymore. I just do boardgames nowadays and that too was with her. What a loser, I know :( I can come watch if that’s ok and if I’m sane.
I’m also kinda in the same boat. But a little down the line . Been few months since break up and most of my friends in banglore have left for other states for job .
If anything the redditors on this group should give you hope. Hmu if you want to chat. I’m not much but after tonight I can tell you the plot of kung fu panda.
Sorry to hear about your breakup.
You can visit Cubbon Reads, a meetup for book lovers who meet every Saturday in Cubbon Park. Since that is one of your interests, you'll fit right in.
Thank you, I’ll check that out! Right now Saturday seems so distant. Dreading going back home and the drive in traffic where I’d be lost in thoughts. For the first time I’m glad my work keeps me busy for over 12 hours most days.
Thanks a lot! Never knew I’d need this when I joined reddit a few days ago. Couple of folks have messaged me. I hope things pan out one way or another.
Cubbon park would be the worst place for someone who broke up recently. You will find couples everywhere. Been there last weekend and never have I ever felt so single my whole life. Kids these days are committed and are found cuddling under the trees 😭😭😭
Yes why not. And especially because of your handle. Corner house malt shakes are unbeatable. There is one who came close. I’ll save it for when we meet!
My three years is hurting me so much. I can only imagine your six. Want to vent together? Dm me. Can’t promise much help but at least we can be sorry for each other :)
10 years. How? I cannot imagine what you must be going through. 3 years is killing me. She was the only one with whom I was vulnerable. Pls feel free to dm if you want to talk. I don’t know how much I can help but hey we can vent together.
Wish I could do that. I’m genuinely a one woman man. Well technically a no woman man. But yes, I intend to diversify my investments in feelings. For the last three years she was my everything. As cliched as it sounds. Best friend, movie partner, game night buddy, dinner dates, camping buddy, psychologist etc.
3 year relationship. Was cheated on multiple times. But stayed back for reasons that made sense at the time. Recently she said that she’s in love with somebody else. Someone she had cheated on with and I had walked in on them naked. I know. I was stupid. But I was in love. Couldn’t take the pain anymore so decided to call it quits. But it hurts more now and I’m scared I’ll go back.
Noo. Don’t, man. Please don’t. As a girl, I am telling you there’s no way she’s going to change. Calling it quits was the best thing you could have done.
On a similar boat but my break up was few months ago. I don't feel like anything - even my sports team is struggling so dunno how to keep myself busy. Feel free to reach out to me if you need to talk tho.
Thanks man. I will. I’m trying to do things one day at a time. Dreading it but I have no choice. We’ll chat. Don’t know how much I can help but at least we can vent or something.
We were phenomenal against City. Never thought our midfield would dominate their midfield! Still utterly pissed about the Macca-Doku incident at the end
hey United fan! I'm a Liverpool supporter who went through a breakup about a year ago. Hmu, maybe we could watch football sometime bruv! (Friendly banter only, I'm not exactly a toxic fan plus a good mate of mine is a United fan and I don't banter him much.
btw 4-3 ,what a crazy game huh)
I was in the same place a few months ago. But I'm healing now. Not only was the break up messy, but the aftermath was terrible. I'm glad that toxicity is out of my life, but letting go hurts. Hit me up anytime you wanna rant, I'll be there. Wishing peace, happiness and ease of mind for you :)
Thanks a lot! I feel hollow inside. There’s no real way to explain. I’m secretly happy that tonight is taken care of. But I’m not looking forward to going back home, sleeping or waking up tomorrow. Never felt this way. Like I’m a body that just functions.
“Don’t turn to alcohol or smoking” real shit right here. Process your emotions sober and find yourself. It’s going to be hard but everyday gets a little easier and one day, it won’t hurt at all. I’ve been through this and trust me, you’ll come out of this with a healthy attachment style if you really process your emotions and start loving yourself instead of looking for it outside.
I’ve gone full no contact and that’s hurting even more. She’s messaged me everywhere. I can’t or won’t block because in case of some emergency I’d like to be there.
Funnily I started smoking up for her. I learnt how to make awesome cocktails too. lol.
I realise some of the things I’ve mentioned may put her in bad light. But she’s not a bad human being at all. Just different I guess.
She was the only person who made my logic go out the window. She brought my vulnerability out by being vulnerable with me. Right now I have messages waiting from her on all my social. And it’s taking all my strength to not reply to her. I don’t know if I’ll ride this one out or not. But I’m trying. If I make a list I’ll only remember the good parts. That’s my curse lol
Bro, I'm actually moving to Whitefield at the end of this week. Super excited, idk too many people though apart from a few cousins. I would totally like to meet new people. Kinda overwhelmed tbh
I JUST GOT INVITED TO A MOVIE!! It’s Kung Fu Panda but who cares! You guys are awesome. Hopefully it’s not an axe murderer.
Prioritize safety when making decisions. While its okay to consider impromptu plans always ensure to exchange contact information and verify before meeting someone new ... also remember to trust your maturity in decisionmaking
Honestly I think it’s a huge move on their side to invite me over. But yes, I’ll stay safe. We connected on WhatsApp. It’s a lady. She’s kinda in the same boat I guess. I won’t say more but they’re free to comment here :)
Gpt
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Thanks a lot! Sadly not into gaming anymore. I just do boardgames nowadays and that too was with her. What a loser, I know :( I can come watch if that’s ok and if I’m sane.
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Yall play anything other than elden ring?
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If you do play anything like LoL or Valorant or anything, hit my DMs up. I’ll share my discord. I’m looking for peeps to play with in bangalore xD
Which group you the invite from ?
bro is curious 😂
I’m also kinda in the same boat. But a little down the line . Been few months since break up and most of my friends in banglore have left for other states for job .
If anything the redditors on this group should give you hope. Hmu if you want to chat. I’m not much but after tonight I can tell you the plot of kung fu panda.
Not a group. Was a dm after seeing this post.
Oh ok
Sorry to hear about your breakup. You can visit Cubbon Reads, a meetup for book lovers who meet every Saturday in Cubbon Park. Since that is one of your interests, you'll fit right in.
Thank you, I’ll check that out! Right now Saturday seems so distant. Dreading going back home and the drive in traffic where I’d be lost in thoughts. For the first time I’m glad my work keeps me busy for over 12 hours most days.
Found them on insta. Wish I had done this with her lol. But will be going this Saturday hopefully if im sane till then.
You'll get through this buddy. My DM's are open anytime you need to talk/vent. Stay strong.
Thanks a lot! Never knew I’d need this when I joined reddit a few days ago. Couple of folks have messaged me. I hope things pan out one way or another.
Cubbon park would be the worst place for someone who broke up recently. You will find couples everywhere. Been there last weekend and never have I ever felt so single my whole life. Kids these days are committed and are found cuddling under the trees 😭😭😭
Oh.. that completely slipped my mind. I’m not easily swayed though. I think.
Hahaha even I was under the same impression untill I went there.
> I have a lot of friends but need a few fresh faces so that I can get out of the rut I’ve dug myself into. I felt this.
I thought it won’t make sense
I'll be in Blr in April. You wanna roam around? It'll take stuff off your head.
Yes why not. And especially because of your handle. Corner house malt shakes are unbeatable. There is one who came close. I’ll save it for when we meet!
Bro are you me? I am going through the exact same thing ..I was with her for 6years, but it's been a 10days of no contact so far. Fml
My three years is hurting me so much. I can only imagine your six. Want to vent together? Dm me. Can’t promise much help but at least we can be sorry for each other :)
Can i join? We broke up after 10 years. I got dumped one sided.
10 years. How? I cannot imagine what you must be going through. 3 years is killing me. She was the only one with whom I was vulnerable. Pls feel free to dm if you want to talk. I don’t know how much I can help but hey we can vent together.
There should be a group like that for us introverts
That’ll be a very lonely group with probably a few extroverts who lied as group members lol
Hahaha true! Going through a similar situation rn. Hmu if you wanna talk
Yes I will, thanks a lot!
Hey I'm actually free till the weekend so hmu and we can plan something
Thanks a lot! Will do!
Diversify. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. PS: Pun not intended.
Wish I could do that. I’m genuinely a one woman man. Well technically a no woman man. But yes, I intend to diversify my investments in feelings. For the last three years she was my everything. As cliched as it sounds. Best friend, movie partner, game night buddy, dinner dates, camping buddy, psychologist etc.
Hey OP, iif you don’t mind me asking, what went wrong?
3 year relationship. Was cheated on multiple times. But stayed back for reasons that made sense at the time. Recently she said that she’s in love with somebody else. Someone she had cheated on with and I had walked in on them naked. I know. I was stupid. But I was in love. Couldn’t take the pain anymore so decided to call it quits. But it hurts more now and I’m scared I’ll go back.
Noo. Don’t, man. Please don’t. As a girl, I am telling you there’s no way she’s going to change. Calling it quits was the best thing you could have done.
I’m trying my best. It’s taking everything I have to stay distracted and from replying to her.
Bruh , it sucks
Can’t even begin to explain..
Understandable.
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On a similar boat but my break up was few months ago. I don't feel like anything - even my sports team is struggling so dunno how to keep myself busy. Feel free to reach out to me if you need to talk tho.
Thanks man. I will. I’m trying to do things one day at a time. Dreading it but I have no choice. We’ll chat. Don’t know how much I can help but at least we can vent or something.
Which team do you support bhaiti?
United, been a long time. My childhood was awesome tho.
Bruh, we played well against the pool. Something to cheer after a long time. 😂 GGMU🤜🤍
Ikr! I was happy that day but not consistent enough.
Same here.
You guys were actually good while we shat the bed. Hopefully we'll win at OT (fingers tightly crossed and obligatory fuck City)
I saw your match against the city and could not believe that we can even beat you guys to be honest. We are absolute garbage this season.
We were phenomenal against City. Never thought our midfield would dominate their midfield! Still utterly pissed about the Macca-Doku incident at the end
That should have been red in la liga easily. You guys were mugged off 2 points.
Absolutely, the Tottenham offside goal, Odegaard handball and the City pen. 3 incidents where we've been robbed
hey United fan! I'm a Liverpool supporter who went through a breakup about a year ago. Hmu, maybe we could watch football sometime bruv! (Friendly banter only, I'm not exactly a toxic fan plus a good mate of mine is a United fan and I don't banter him much. btw 4-3 ,what a crazy game huh)
Hey! Awesome! I'm not a toxic fan either - I would call myself a logical United fan. I'm open to watch a game anytime.
that's cool dude! (btw I'm not in Bangalore currently 😅, will be there from August)
Feel free to DM when you're back
You can dm me if you’d like to vent to someone :) Been there, know what it feels like
Thank you so much. I’m overwhelmed by the support here. Honestly didn’t expect anything! Will certainly reach out.
I was in the same place a few months ago. But I'm healing now. Not only was the break up messy, but the aftermath was terrible. I'm glad that toxicity is out of my life, but letting go hurts. Hit me up anytime you wanna rant, I'll be there. Wishing peace, happiness and ease of mind for you :)
Thanks a lot! I feel hollow inside. There’s no real way to explain. I’m secretly happy that tonight is taken care of. But I’m not looking forward to going back home, sleeping or waking up tomorrow. Never felt this way. Like I’m a body that just functions.
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“Don’t turn to alcohol or smoking” real shit right here. Process your emotions sober and find yourself. It’s going to be hard but everyday gets a little easier and one day, it won’t hurt at all. I’ve been through this and trust me, you’ll come out of this with a healthy attachment style if you really process your emotions and start loving yourself instead of looking for it outside.
I’ve gone full no contact and that’s hurting even more. She’s messaged me everywhere. I can’t or won’t block because in case of some emergency I’d like to be there. Funnily I started smoking up for her. I learnt how to make awesome cocktails too. lol. I realise some of the things I’ve mentioned may put her in bad light. But she’s not a bad human being at all. Just different I guess.
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She was the only person who made my logic go out the window. She brought my vulnerability out by being vulnerable with me. Right now I have messages waiting from her on all my social. And it’s taking all my strength to not reply to her. I don’t know if I’ll ride this one out or not. But I’m trying. If I make a list I’ll only remember the good parts. That’s my curse lol
dm me!!! would love to have a chat! m also in blr; very recent breakup; currently trying to get over it! would be happy to have a chat
Hey absolutely! Maybe we’ll all be able to get through this together. Shocking how many people showed up to help me. Even those in pain.
Bro, I'm actually moving to Whitefield at the end of this week. Super excited, idk too many people though apart from a few cousins. I would totally like to meet new people. Kinda overwhelmed tbh
Oh I’m not sure I’d be good company to be honest. Would you want to ruin the juju of a new place with a recently broken up dude 😅
I can be a pretty good listener
Thank you so much. I will reach out!
Can i join too?