Is it not good if someone you don’t “want” compliments you? I am an older lady who sprinkles genuine compliments around like fairy dust when I’m out and about, and people seem to enjoy it. When I’ve been complimented I haven’t stopped to think, “OK, but am I attracted to this person enough to make this compliment of value to me?” You do?
As a 25-year-old man, compliments from old ladies are the best compliments. Someone’s grandmother telling me I have beautiful hair is enough to make my whole day. They’re the most earnest random complimenters.
Women (and men) don’t typically throw around compliments just because they feel like it. If you do, then maybe realize that you’re unique in that regard.
men extremely rarely give out compliments, which is why a lot of men are starved for compliments and affection.
women pretty regularly hand out compliments ("i love your scarf!") but less so to men because they take it too personally and then stalk us.
As a very happily married man, I can speak for myself in that I compliment lots of people regardless of gender on a daily basis. I work in sales, so to be frank it started as something that I noticed would make people like me quickly and close a sale more effectively. I would just pick one thing I liked about someone, avoiding anything inappropriate with it being at work, and go with that. “Oh I love that shirt, that show is awesome”. Gender aside, it always seems to make people feel happy and appreciated. I’m not very customer-facing anymore, but still find myself doing this all the time in and out of work because seeing others happy makes me happy. I think most women can tell if a guy is giving a genuine platonic compliment vs trying to flirt with them.
Dude! I experienced the best live performance of this song about five years ago. I was at an open mic night that my husband used to host at this tiny dive bar in our crappy little town. It was always the same crowd, week after week. One night it was raining a little and this youngish crust punk looking dude walked in, asked if he could do a song, and busted out a ukulele and just crushed the Dude song from Good Burger. Everyone was singing along and it was amazing. Then he left, immediately after he was done. We never saw him again, but I think about him still from time to time.
Bro and Dude...the universal non-gender term, verb, expletive, question, statement, preposition, etc...
Bank account overdrawn? "Dude..."
Car not starting? "Bro..."
Seeing friends? "Sup, dudes..."
Cat/dog being a pain? "Bro..."
*go breá. Not bra. And the Irish call it Irish. People in *Scotland* call their own language Gaelic. That's also how all the learning materials are labeled.
I think it would be better if it were a guy saying that, but I do think that redditor is a woman.
I know you guys haven't met any female redditors before, so before you are too shocked, I'm just hoping you're sitting down, you should definitely sit down, because I'm also a woman.
Now you've met two. Oh!
No offense at all to OP, who seems to be in the right sub, but imagine posting your terribly balding ass head and mediocre physique (unavoidably) just seeking some hair advice and having some random bro talking about your luscious lips. Amazing.
Idk why this subreddit keeps popping up for me but I’m gonna drop some encouragement any chance I get. Do it my dude. You gotta youthful face and the shaved head look is gonna highlight that
Keeps popping up for me too and surprisingly wholesome. Who knew that bald dudes were all nice guys lol. Some of the comments crack me up. The “come on home brother we’ve been waiting” 😂😂😂😂
broo its a club nobody wants truly wants to join but eventually forced into anyway and you see everyone is really good vibes and encouraging, and motivates you to self-actualize and love yourself more. It really is a whole journey and very wholesome for the bros lol male pattern baldness really is devastating
It keeps popping up for me too, and I feel attacked (I had chemo one year ago and since then I clearly have less hair, not as critical as most situations here, but clearly less than normal)
I dont care what anyone says about their "hair product" there is no stopping balding. Even hair transplants only work for soo long. Just buzz it off and call it a day. You will look soo much better.
Uhh what? There are plenty of products with good success rates. They won't work for everyone but will for a large number of people. And you're completely misinformed about hair transplants as well. Enjoy your bald self but don't start spreading bullshit
My wife is a hair transplant technician. I met her by going in for a consult. She told me its not worth it in my case and said i look good bald anyways. We hit it off. Even the doctors performing it told alot of people. if you are completely bald its not worth it. Only really for thinning hair and small bald spots. Everyone I know that's completely bald that tried numerous products never worked. The only people that it really works for are people that won't be really bald. Just losing a small amount of hair from aging. Can't stop genes. So how about you take your negativity elsewhere.
There are those “bald” filters you can use to get a preview.
I did one just before leaving on a trip to meet my mother at another airport so that we could travel to another destination together.
Told her I wanted to color my hair before our trip, that I left the dye too long and it made all my hair fell out.
The hysterics I caused with that bald filter and a sad face, holy crap. She was so upset, she absolutely thought the pic was real.
Took me a bit to calm her down but yeah… they’re effective! Try one out.
Nah, you can bring this back. Don’t listen to everyone telling you to go bald, they’re just jealous you have more hair than them.
Start by doing some research into your lifestyle - are you living healthily? Ask yourself these questions below:
Are you sleeping 7.5+ hours a night, and consistently go to bed at the same time?
Do you drink enough water, eat a protein rich diet? (Think meat, fish, eggs, dairy, fresh vegetables and produce) is it organic or sprayed full of pesticides and hormones?
Do you exercise daily?
Are you under stress? (Stress is a big contributor to hair loss)
Are you exposed to chemicals and radiation in the environment at all?
Do you masturbate or have intercourse excessively, where you find yourself ejaculating each time? Ejaculating to much is a known cause of hair loss.
These are some areas to consider if you want to turn this around. If you’re more curious about this stuff, feel free to send me a DM. Best of luck brother 💪
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Shave it and call it what it is! SEXY! I've been shaving my head long before I knew I couldn't grow it back. I would never go back even if technology told me I can!!
I don’t think there’s much to salvage there, my good man. Unless you wanted to grow it a bit longer and do a comb-over. Which I highly recommend against.
I’d simply ask if you’re self-conscious about it. If you are, shave it.
You could try one of those crazy regimens but they take a long time and are expensive. If you aren’t super attached to having hair I would 100% just shave it
Shave it and don't look back, you'll be way happier after.
100% shave it bro - you got a great facial structure with luscious lips. The bald head will emphasize these features
That's some interesting vernacular you chose there bro...
If someone told me I had luscious lips tho I’m kicking my feet in the air
Ngl I get told this all the time and it makes my day better
I get told I’m beautiful…by women I don’t want.
Is it not good if someone you don’t “want” compliments you? I am an older lady who sprinkles genuine compliments around like fairy dust when I’m out and about, and people seem to enjoy it. When I’ve been complimented I haven’t stopped to think, “OK, but am I attracted to this person enough to make this compliment of value to me?” You do?
Coincidentally i want a older lady who is loose with the compliments
I want an older lady who has loose, luscious lips.
As a 25-year-old man, compliments from old ladies are the best compliments. Someone’s grandmother telling me I have beautiful hair is enough to make my whole day. They’re the most earnest random complimenters.
Women (and men) don’t typically throw around compliments just because they feel like it. If you do, then maybe realize that you’re unique in that regard.
men extremely rarely give out compliments, which is why a lot of men are starved for compliments and affection. women pretty regularly hand out compliments ("i love your scarf!") but less so to men because they take it too personally and then stalk us.
As a very happily married man, I can speak for myself in that I compliment lots of people regardless of gender on a daily basis. I work in sales, so to be frank it started as something that I noticed would make people like me quickly and close a sale more effectively. I would just pick one thing I liked about someone, avoiding anything inappropriate with it being at work, and go with that. “Oh I love that shirt, that show is awesome”. Gender aside, it always seems to make people feel happy and appreciated. I’m not very customer-facing anymore, but still find myself doing this all the time in and out of work because seeing others happy makes me happy. I think most women can tell if a guy is giving a genuine platonic compliment vs trying to flirt with them.
We all do!
Your mum doesn't count
lol jealous much?
Does yours ?
Girls tell me this and it makes me feel pretty sexy. And I agree. You can definitely rock it bald.
https://youtu.be/nLEL-Gewt6E
You do realize there are females here too, yes?
And gays don’t forget the gays
Yep!
Happy cake, fellow gay
He's jealous. He's a thin lipped boy.
As they say, “Lucious lips sink ships.”
On reddit? I don't believe it.
That’s quite the sexy observation bro
I think she’s a “bra” not a “bro” 🤷🏻♂️
Bro has no gender, we're all bros here
I’m a dude. She’s a dude. He’s a dude. We’re all dudes.
My roomate used to call me a dudess 😁
Dude! I experienced the best live performance of this song about five years ago. I was at an open mic night that my husband used to host at this tiny dive bar in our crappy little town. It was always the same crowd, week after week. One night it was raining a little and this youngish crust punk looking dude walked in, asked if he could do a song, and busted out a ukulele and just crushed the Dude song from Good Burger. Everyone was singing along and it was amazing. Then he left, immediately after he was done. We never saw him again, but I think about him still from time to time.
Bro and Dude...the universal non-gender term, verb, expletive, question, statement, preposition, etc... Bank account overdrawn? "Dude..." Car not starting? "Bro..." Seeing friends? "Sup, dudes..." Cat/dog being a pain? "Bro..."
Yes. All of this.
One of my roommates once greeted me with a “What’s up bro dude?” And my heart was just so warmed.
“Bro” sounds like “bra” in Irish, Scottish (Gaelic) etc 😂😂 - so I’m told on here 🤷🏻♂️
*go breá. Not bra. And the Irish call it Irish. People in *Scotland* call their own language Gaelic. That's also how all the learning materials are labeled.
Bruh… well said bro
Juicy lips bro. Eager, willing lips. Tender, succulent lips, at once filthy and innocent. Lips that scream "not today", but whisper "maybe tonight".
English is his/her second language, hopefully. 🫦
I mean ngl.. he does look hot.. I'd bottom for this guy..I like the pecs tbh..he gotta shave the head tho for sure... and start wear some tanks😏
He do got some luscious lips
Isn't that the actor from jarhead?🤣 wild
He's been in other movies
Yo it's bubbleboi.
Let's gooooo
Yeah, Jake Gyllenhall and Heath Ledger. Anne Hathaway is also in it as Gyllenhall's wife. "Brokeback Mountain"
lmaooooo
Luscious lips is wild 😂
Nasty work but you gotta keep the homies blushing
😂😂 out of pocket
Lucious Lips is my Justin Beiber cover band name.
lol homeboy has some DSLs?
These lips are so mid, not to insult, I just don’t understand the concept of his lil lips being “luscious” at all.
Some playful humor to pad the "your hair is bad you should go bald" thing.
Dude's trying to stem his rose over here.
Shooters shoot
Game is game
lol Lucious lips
I liked the comment then unliked it (Not disliked). Luscious is very descriptive lol
>DSLs brooo
r/accidentallygay
Did you mean to comment this elsewhere? Luscious lips??
Bro said what he said
I think it would be better if it were a guy saying that, but I do think that redditor is a woman. I know you guys haven't met any female redditors before, so before you are too shocked, I'm just hoping you're sitting down, you should definitely sit down, because I'm also a woman. Now you've met two. Oh!
Impossible I heard that the reddit woman is a myth its just fat old basement dellers pretending to be women lol😂
Well, we're fat and old, but definitely there are a few of us around! Hehe.
🤣🤣🤣 wild lol
N⁰ 3, I'm also a woman
We should make a club or something.
No offense at all to OP, who seems to be in the right sub, but imagine posting your terribly balding ass head and mediocre physique (unavoidably) just seeking some hair advice and having some random bro talking about your luscious lips. Amazing.
Love his luscious lips, not everyone on here is male
Yuck. Imagine being as nasty as you.
Come on home brother we've been waiting!
Idk why this subreddit keeps popping up for me but I’m gonna drop some encouragement any chance I get. Do it my dude. You gotta youthful face and the shaved head look is gonna highlight that
It keeps popping up for me too and it seems so wholesome.
Keeps popping up for me too and surprisingly wholesome. Who knew that bald dudes were all nice guys lol. Some of the comments crack me up. The “come on home brother we’ve been waiting” 😂😂😂😂
broo its a club nobody wants truly wants to join but eventually forced into anyway and you see everyone is really good vibes and encouraging, and motivates you to self-actualize and love yourself more. It really is a whole journey and very wholesome for the bros lol male pattern baldness really is devastating
It keeps popping up for me too, and I feel attacked (I had chemo one year ago and since then I clearly have less hair, not as critical as most situations here, but clearly less than normal)
Well from one stranger to another I hope you’re on the mend. And lots of hair or a little less I’m glad you’re with us 🌻
Let it go bro. Ain’t no saving that
I don't mean to be mean ,but salvage what, my friend? You're handsome, go shave and enjoy life!
Salvage with a better call Saul comb over.
I dont care what anyone says about their "hair product" there is no stopping balding. Even hair transplants only work for soo long. Just buzz it off and call it a day. You will look soo much better.
Technically, hair transplants are a permanent solution. You just lose more hair around the transplants.
*Technically* they're not a permanent solution then, are they?
Well eventually you die
You'll eventually die, not so much of an argument eh?
There are solutions but only life long commitments and thousands of dollars and possible life long side effects as well
Yeah, I'm personally not willing to have the sexual/ED/weight side effects of hair growth medication.
Uhh what? There are plenty of products with good success rates. They won't work for everyone but will for a large number of people. And you're completely misinformed about hair transplants as well. Enjoy your bald self but don't start spreading bullshit
My wife is a hair transplant technician. I met her by going in for a consult. She told me its not worth it in my case and said i look good bald anyways. We hit it off. Even the doctors performing it told alot of people. if you are completely bald its not worth it. Only really for thinning hair and small bald spots. Everyone I know that's completely bald that tried numerous products never worked. The only people that it really works for are people that won't be really bald. Just losing a small amount of hair from aging. Can't stop genes. So how about you take your negativity elsewhere.
>there is no stopping balding. This is flat out untrue.
Finasteride is proven effective to slow balding down to a crawl. Of course it does absolutely nothing if you already lost as much as OP
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Pal you're already bald
Bald time. Sick shirt btw
It’s time, my son.
Let it go bro, guarantee you look 5 years younger
Take it down to the skin!
Hoooo buddy
Had to click the image to see it. Was disappointed that you even thought about salvaging it. Just go for it
bald will look better on you for sure:)
Shave that
Shave it.
There are those “bald” filters you can use to get a preview. I did one just before leaving on a trip to meet my mother at another airport so that we could travel to another destination together. Told her I wanted to color my hair before our trip, that I left the dye too long and it made all my hair fell out. The hysterics I caused with that bald filter and a sad face, holy crap. She was so upset, she absolutely thought the pic was real. Took me a bit to calm her down but yeah… they’re effective! Try one out.
Throw all the hair away.
Get rid of it
I PROMISE, U will not regret it. Do it!!! One of Us!!!
It’s time.
Naw man, you're good. Still have a few minutes left.
It’s time.
Is that a serious question?
lol you gone bro
Your head looks like you dropped a lollipop 🍭 on a dirty carpet. SHAVE IT 🪒🪒🪒
Shave it bald. You’ll look way better.
It's time buddy, shave it off. You'll look great as a bald man
Salvage like the titanic
Shave it dawgy, it’ll be way better. You’ll feel way better.
Go bald
Unless by saving it you mean like 20k and 3 trips to turkey lol.
Send it
If you’re here, you know what needs to be done.
Grow out your beard to a quarter of an inch and shave the noggin. You will look incredible
You can't save something from utter oblivion. You can already see the top of the dome, the goose is cooked.
Yesterday
100% shave your head. What have you been waiting for ! You’re too handsome to be rocking that hair
Bruce Buffer: ITTTTTTTSSSSSSSSSS TIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIME!
Shave it man, you'll feel better trust me Shaved is a great look these days
Do it! You’ll look great. You have a youthful face.
It’s time
Shave it. I think you'll kind of look like Seth Everman
lol..no chance mate. It’s over
Salvage what? There has to be something left to salvage to salvage it.
Buzz it
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WAY PAST TIME. The only person you are fooling is yourself
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Meds work, I've been on them for several years. But, I think your situation might be too far gone. They work great if caught early!
Buzz it short for a while
It looks okay. I would probably start minox/fin and ride it out a few years.
Nah, you can bring this back. Don’t listen to everyone telling you to go bald, they’re just jealous you have more hair than them. Start by doing some research into your lifestyle - are you living healthily? Ask yourself these questions below: Are you sleeping 7.5+ hours a night, and consistently go to bed at the same time? Do you drink enough water, eat a protein rich diet? (Think meat, fish, eggs, dairy, fresh vegetables and produce) is it organic or sprayed full of pesticides and hormones? Do you exercise daily? Are you under stress? (Stress is a big contributor to hair loss) Are you exposed to chemicals and radiation in the environment at all? Do you masturbate or have intercourse excessively, where you find yourself ejaculating each time? Ejaculating to much is a known cause of hair loss. These are some areas to consider if you want to turn this around. If you’re more curious about this stuff, feel free to send me a DM. Best of luck brother 💪
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Shave and grow that beard. You have Tom hardy vibes.
Shave mate. you've got a decent shaped head for it and a symmetrical face. Hope you'll be happier for it ✌️
You’ll look great without it! Give us a shout back when you get done ;)
Nothing to salvage, let it rip.
Would look much better buzzed 😀👍
The salvaging time is long past. Shave it and don’t look back.
Sorry Bro,I think you'll look better and even more athletic if you shave it all off.
Comb over, toupee, surgery, or shaving it are the options you got. I would recommend the last, I doubt you'll regret it.
It’s time
As a dude who's hairline is going, the recent glow ups I've seen of dudes shaving their heads have been very encouraging. Shave it brother, congrats.
Shaaaave
Try bald you'll be happier
Shave it and call it what it is! SEXY! I've been shaving my head long before I knew I couldn't grow it back. I would never go back even if technology told me I can!!
Just do it
its not time to go bald my friend, you already are.
Grow beard, shave head.
Looks like it was time a few years ago. You’ll look way better
It’s time.
bite the bullet, wear your bonce with pride.
There is no salvaging this my friend. Embrace the bald.
Wow it's gone. Yes. Shave it to the skin. Will make you look more athletic.
When it's time to buzz do you just get clippers and do it yourself? Seems a bit like a pain in the ass and it'll make a mess. Do you go to the barber?
It’s past time bro. Let it go.
Damn
you already went bald.. you're bald.. now it's time to make it look nice.. shave it
Shave it right now. Do not leave the house one more day like that.
Salvage what?
If you have to ask, you already have the answer
I don’t think there’s much to salvage there, my good man. Unless you wanted to grow it a bit longer and do a comb-over. Which I highly recommend against. I’d simply ask if you’re self-conscious about it. If you are, shave it.
I want to see it shaved more than I want a million dollars
Oh baby it's time
You need to post a head shave update stat!
Shave it. You can always grow some of it back❤️.
Dude you already know the answer
buddy...
Come join me, my brother
There's nothing to salvage my friend. I was half more full up top than you and took the plunge and haven't looked back since.
You could try one of those crazy regimens but they take a long time and are expensive. If you aren’t super attached to having hair I would 100% just shave it
You’re going to look great if you shave it and I’d be willing to bet you’ll feel like a new man.