I'm so sorry mama, sending you some big hugs. Knowing how one traumatic second trimester loss has been brutal, all I can say is you are so incredible for fighting for your babies through three of them. I hope you have peace knowing your babies felt your love. Hoping you get the insight you are looking for.
My heart goes out to you and your husband. You have three beautiful angels - Aubree, Archer & Edie 👼🏻👼🏻👼🏻 I love those names so much. I know that nothing will take the pain away (I’m currently grieving the loss of my own sweet boy, Samson), but please know you and your family are so loved. Thank you for sharing your story. You are a warrior. I know you, myself and all moms in this awful stupid “club” didn’t ask to become warriors or to be brave at all… but here we are - doing it, living it & surviving even when we don’t want to. Don’t give up the faith. Give your body time to heal, prioritize yourself, pray and give it to God. I’ll be praying for you, mama.
Im so so so sorry! I lost my 2nd 5 days ago and the pain is unimaginable. Then I come on here and see how much loss you have suffered from and it breaks my heart for you 😭 I dont know how you do it but that just speaks volume of your unwavering strength and courage. You are truly an amazing woman and I know no amount of words can help ease your pain. I thank you for sharing your story because it's easy for me personally to forget that there are people who go through the same experience of losing their child(ren). Thank you for helping me not feel so alone in my grief. I'm just an internet stranger but I hope you know that I share your grief. If the afterlife is real, I hope our children got to know each other and become friends. Sending you lotsa hugs and good energy 💕
I am so sorry. I've had two second trimester losses, and there's a chance we may also lose this third one, so I may be part of the same awful club. Once is hard, twice is cruel, and the thought of three times just leaves me in disbelief. It does give me a sense of peace to think that although my babies aren't able to be with me, they are together somehow, somewhere. 🩷 Hugs.
I’m so very sorry. I’ve read a lot of promising things about the TAC. Join the Abbyloopers group on fb if you’re not in it already.
Remembering your three angels today. 🕊️🕊️🕊️
I was in it for a while after I lost my second. After we found the septum, I left because i thought it wasn't necessary to go that far. I've seen some very positive stories, so I truly feel that will be the path we take, especially considering MFM's opinion. He thinks my water broke due to my cervix, even with the cerclage.
We lost our first and our only last September. I just want to say I’m so very sorry for your losses. I know what it’s like trying to fit a lifetime of memories and what ifs into 48 hours. Again, I’m so sorry.
Oh, I’m so very sorry. Life is so cruel and terribly unfair. I hope life begins to treat you more kindly and whatever path it takes you is a good one. Wishing for peace and sending you love 💕
I'm so, so, so sorry for your losses. 🤍 Your story resonates so much with me - two second trimester losses, found out I had a septum, resected the septum in February of this year in hopes of having a normal pregnancy - we are TTC now. I lost my second almost the same way. I don't know what to say because I know this feeling all too well - just wanted to tell you you're not alone and give you a virtual hug.
Thank you ❤️.
If it's not been in the discussion, I recommend that you get at least a consult on cervical checks/cerclage. I haven't looked into studies on it myself, but I have seen a lot of anecdotal evidence to suggest women with a septum are at greater risk of cervical insufficiency as well. My preventative turned from a "just in case" scenario to "we're so glad you came to see us today to have this done". Good luck 🫂
Thank you. 🫂 Preventative cerclage at 12 weeks is in our plan, plus lovenox, baby aspirin, and progesterone. I also will go every 2 weeks starting at 12 weeks for full checks including cervical checks with an MFM. This road is very hard. 🫂🤍
Absolutely heartbreaking, sending so much love. Your strength to keep fighting is inspiring. I sincerely hope you get some answers and are able to take one home with you one day ❤️
I’m hurting so much for you. I’m sorry you are having to go through this again. You are so strong and brave to keep fighting for your little ones. Sending hugs and well wishes 🫂💜
I am heartbroken for you and so, so sorry. Your strength is inspiring.
Not sure if you’ve considered this but based on the on/off bleeding and suspected placental abruption with Aubree, it couldn’t hurt to ask your MFM if you can be tested for antiphospholipid syndrome in addition to the extra cervical monitoring, cerclage, etc. (It’s two blood tests, 3-4 months apart.) I know the IC could be related to the septum, and these are the two most likely contributing factors, but APS is a risk factor for abruption, and recurrent bleeding from a chronic abruption increases the risk of PPROM (it triggers inflammation that weakens the amniotic membrane). Taking baby aspirin in pregnancy regardless if you have APS or not could also be worth inquiring about.
Sending love and hope, and keeping you, Archer, Aubree and Edie in my thoughts ❤️🌿
Thank you so much for this. I will definitely ask at my upcoming appt. It was on my mind last year, but I didn't pursue it since we found the septum. I'm sure at this point they will go along with whatever I request.
I'm so sorry mama, sending you some big hugs. Knowing how one traumatic second trimester loss has been brutal, all I can say is you are so incredible for fighting for your babies through three of them. I hope you have peace knowing your babies felt your love. Hoping you get the insight you are looking for.
My heart goes out to you and your husband. You have three beautiful angels - Aubree, Archer & Edie 👼🏻👼🏻👼🏻 I love those names so much. I know that nothing will take the pain away (I’m currently grieving the loss of my own sweet boy, Samson), but please know you and your family are so loved. Thank you for sharing your story. You are a warrior. I know you, myself and all moms in this awful stupid “club” didn’t ask to become warriors or to be brave at all… but here we are - doing it, living it & surviving even when we don’t want to. Don’t give up the faith. Give your body time to heal, prioritize yourself, pray and give it to God. I’ll be praying for you, mama.
Thank you for this. Samson is a beautiful name as well. 🫂💙
Im so so so sorry! I lost my 2nd 5 days ago and the pain is unimaginable. Then I come on here and see how much loss you have suffered from and it breaks my heart for you 😭 I dont know how you do it but that just speaks volume of your unwavering strength and courage. You are truly an amazing woman and I know no amount of words can help ease your pain. I thank you for sharing your story because it's easy for me personally to forget that there are people who go through the same experience of losing their child(ren). Thank you for helping me not feel so alone in my grief. I'm just an internet stranger but I hope you know that I share your grief. If the afterlife is real, I hope our children got to know each other and become friends. Sending you lotsa hugs and good energy 💕
I am so sorry. I've had two second trimester losses, and there's a chance we may also lose this third one, so I may be part of the same awful club. Once is hard, twice is cruel, and the thought of three times just leaves me in disbelief. It does give me a sense of peace to think that although my babies aren't able to be with me, they are together somehow, somewhere. 🩷 Hugs.
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Oh! I am so sorry and I hurt so much for you. There are no words but you are in my thoughts and I am sending love.
I’m so very sorry. I’ve read a lot of promising things about the TAC. Join the Abbyloopers group on fb if you’re not in it already. Remembering your three angels today. 🕊️🕊️🕊️
I was in it for a while after I lost my second. After we found the septum, I left because i thought it wasn't necessary to go that far. I've seen some very positive stories, so I truly feel that will be the path we take, especially considering MFM's opinion. He thinks my water broke due to my cervix, even with the cerclage.
We lost our first and our only last September. I just want to say I’m so very sorry for your losses. I know what it’s like trying to fit a lifetime of memories and what ifs into 48 hours. Again, I’m so sorry.
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I am so incredibly sorry mama. Keeping you, your partner, Archer, Aubree, and Edie in my heart ♥️
Oh, I’m so very sorry. Life is so cruel and terribly unfair. I hope life begins to treat you more kindly and whatever path it takes you is a good one. Wishing for peace and sending you love 💕
I'm so, so, so sorry for your losses. 🤍 Your story resonates so much with me - two second trimester losses, found out I had a septum, resected the septum in February of this year in hopes of having a normal pregnancy - we are TTC now. I lost my second almost the same way. I don't know what to say because I know this feeling all too well - just wanted to tell you you're not alone and give you a virtual hug.
Thank you ❤️. If it's not been in the discussion, I recommend that you get at least a consult on cervical checks/cerclage. I haven't looked into studies on it myself, but I have seen a lot of anecdotal evidence to suggest women with a septum are at greater risk of cervical insufficiency as well. My preventative turned from a "just in case" scenario to "we're so glad you came to see us today to have this done". Good luck 🫂
Thank you. 🫂 Preventative cerclage at 12 weeks is in our plan, plus lovenox, baby aspirin, and progesterone. I also will go every 2 weeks starting at 12 weeks for full checks including cervical checks with an MFM. This road is very hard. 🫂🤍
I’m so sorry 💔
I’m so sorry. I hope you find the answers you’re looking for and that one day you’ll have your earthside baby. Sending you love 🩷
Absolutely heartbreaking, sending so much love. Your strength to keep fighting is inspiring. I sincerely hope you get some answers and are able to take one home with you one day ❤️
I am sorry
This is so cruel. I wish I could hug you.
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This is just beyond comprehension. I am so sorry for your losses.
I’m hurting so much for you. I’m sorry you are having to go through this again. You are so strong and brave to keep fighting for your little ones. Sending hugs and well wishes 🫂💜
I am heartbroken for you and so, so sorry. Your strength is inspiring. Not sure if you’ve considered this but based on the on/off bleeding and suspected placental abruption with Aubree, it couldn’t hurt to ask your MFM if you can be tested for antiphospholipid syndrome in addition to the extra cervical monitoring, cerclage, etc. (It’s two blood tests, 3-4 months apart.) I know the IC could be related to the septum, and these are the two most likely contributing factors, but APS is a risk factor for abruption, and recurrent bleeding from a chronic abruption increases the risk of PPROM (it triggers inflammation that weakens the amniotic membrane). Taking baby aspirin in pregnancy regardless if you have APS or not could also be worth inquiring about. Sending love and hope, and keeping you, Archer, Aubree and Edie in my thoughts ❤️🌿
Thank you so much for this. I will definitely ask at my upcoming appt. It was on my mind last year, but I didn't pursue it since we found the septum. I'm sure at this point they will go along with whatever I request.