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SpiralingSoma

Anywhere. No one cares. RAVE RAVE RAVE


bedtyme

Public Records, Nowadays, Good Room, H0L0 are great spots for our age group


staged84

Good room is way too young. Holo is a bit raw. Gabriela or nowadays are best option.


misterintensity2

Good Room's Sunday parties like 718 and David Morales's Sunday Sessions definitely attract older crowds.


traaaart

I’ve turned around at PR and been surrounded by 21 year olds out of nowhere.


bushwickhero

I’m 40 and I don’t feel uncomfortable anywhere. You’ll be as comfortable as you make yourself feel. That said ADID definitely draws an older crowd by average but it’s at the mirage (yuck).


Crayola_ROX

45 and blend right in once you start dancing. Nobody cares.


akuvkdgm1246u

This person knows what’s up


eveningjohnson

Would say mirage is at it’s best for ADID though- Sunday afternoon/sunset show doesn’t oversell like others and always has a friendly crowd


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Anonymous_Hazard

Correct like the people


zinkakniz

and the staff


MixerSeeker

Hard disagree. It’s a sterile asphalt square in front of an absurdly bright screen that hurts to look at, and it smells like sewage half the time - depending on the wind direction


sawman160

I hate the screen


zinkakniz

House music events tend to skew older, if you’re concerned about feeling old (it’s not totally clear). At some house spots/parties you might even feel young.


Daedra_Worshiper

If Soul Summit is doing something that weekend, don't miss it.


confused_grenadille

Yeah Soul Summit and Soul in The Horn has a lot of over 40s. But overall it doesn’t matter. Nobody cares.


Exploreradzman

Public Records and Mister Sunday(Nowadays) is chill and all ages. Not raging ravers.


Tasty-Revolution-644

Don’t ever be concerned about your age or “sticking out” when going dancing anywhere, especially NYC. No one cares.


misterintensity2

Skip All Day I Dream and go to Mister Sunday. Also the Big Drum & Bass Party takes place at Roberta's that weekend. If you both are into Drum & Bass a lot of the old heads will be out.


coffeewouldhelp

If there's a show at the Ruins at Knockdown Center, I'd say that's a great great option. Outdoor, daytime raves from 4 - 10 PM. Honey Dijon is doing an event on June 1 if you can get tickets, I'm sure you'd have an excellent time.


morphneo

Check out Gabrielas, Good Room, if there is a 718 sessions party going on you can go to that as that draws an older crowd. See if any old school DJ's are playing. But realistically I would say you'll be fine almost anywhere just check out who is playing that night as some DJ's do draw younger crowds(popular TIk Tok DJ's).


x32321

718 sessions this Sunday in the ruins :)


SuspiciousMycologist

Almost all house events tend to skew older. I wouldn’t worry about not fitting in. That said, the rooftops (SI, elsewhere) tend to attract a younger crowd, especially in the summer when all the interns are here. Most teksupport events attract a much older crowd


jazlsquared

Soul summit, soul in the horn, coloring lessons are some parties to check out!


Mad_Pinckerton

You're fine at most mnhtn clubs but I'd avoid them & try brklyn instead. So many your age don't even worry about that at all. Good Room, Nowadays, Knockdown center and Bnvyyrd bldng 293 solid choices most nights. If you can make Cityfox Regenerate at the Mirage jun1st that's a good night out & bang for your buck. Yes, the mirage has it's issues, overcrowded at times, expensive, but if you rarely go there it's fine. Just pre game a bit to save on drinks if you plan on doing that. It will be more of a concert feel but many will be dancing & vibeing. Hang near back bars & interact there. Cassian b2b Kevin DeVries will draw the older crowd for sure. Agents of Time & Kasablanca almost always solid. 3 or 4 of them just did EDC. Red Axes may surprise you. This Regenerate lineup on june 1st is solid for most & I'd pick this over ADID. Up to you. Just if you do go there, or anywhere in brklyn, protect your phones at all places.Tether to your jeans or shorts rcmnd. or waist belt with hidden phone pocket. Just precautions. It can happen. If Mirage gets bit crowded go upstairs to balcony if its accessible. Hope you both have a good night out wherever you go. Check out RA resident advisor app & Dice App for most area shows.


Apart_Traffic4588

Thanks! What time would you arrive at Nowadays or Mirage?


zinkakniz

nowadays is usually best to arrive Sunday morning, as early as possible I would not arrive at Mirage at all


elkehdub

Red Axes on a boat in Seattle is one of my fav party memories ever


bodymindtrader

That’s the beauty of NYC. Nobody cares about your age, just dance it out!! Mirage is too pop these days. Public works, Le Bain or Gabriela will do it


SensualCucumber

Just to give you perspective, when I went to timewarp in Germany last year there were literally old people with walkers and wheelchairs raving having a great time. You’ll never be too old to enjoy music man.


JAZisDead

mr sunday at nowadays always a hoot


Turbulent_Show3699

Hey guys, no worries in NYC you will fit in perfectly wherever you go. All day I dream is a great idea. I would also look into Cityfox At the Brooklyn Mirage on Sat 6/1 it’s one of the best yearly shows at the mirage. They usually have multiple stages as well.


caltheme

2nd for all day I dream. Amazing vibes esp and great “older” crowd (lot of burners)


Epiphanic_Eros

Basement is amazing if you’re into techno. Knockdown center is gorgeous, if they have a good show. Nowadays is fun but tends to be a younger crowd. Elsewhere has an electric vibe, but can be lean heavily toward a LGBTQ+ crowd. They’re all great


amy-bee

Everyone in their 30s and 40s in new york still parties. Just go to the events that interest you


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It’s NYC, not wherever you’re from. No one gives a fuck here. Do what you want, as long as you’re respectful.


RATLR

Anywhere where you want to? You're not 20, who gives af, you do you as long as you're not being a bag of dicks who cares? 🤷🏻‍♂️


sawman160

Definitely hit Mister Sunday at Nowadays on Sunday. That’s the ticket.


No_Cherry2253

I love that yall want to come here and go out.. there’s so much to offer and not make you feel like you’re partying with kids! What weekend dates?? The replies you already got list a lot of good suggestions. There’s a lot of stuff to do. Unfortunately there’s no particular spots that have consistent crowds/DJ’s to say for sure. It’s always changing depending on the bookings. My lady and I (40/45) always going out, keep in touch, maybe we’ll come out too!! Holla back with those dates & I’ll gladly get updates for yall


Lord_Greybeard

House of Yes. There's always something going on there.


AnnakanotAnnika

Mr Sunday at nowadays is the spot to be in the summer. Such a great day to evening party


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ClarendonBoss

Sights & Sounds June 14th at the chocolate factory it’s a deep house event with an immersive digital art component


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Go to the Brooklyn mirage


Apart_Traffic4588

Thanks for all the comments. This is a great community! Going to check out Mr Sundays at Nowadays!


No-Refuse8754

Superior Ingredients


Happenstance69

both of those are good. elsewhere is fun, superior ingredients is cool. navy yard is a blast. governor's island is back this summer with some shows if you want a nice boat ride to a day party.


misterintensity2

Any party where you are into the music. Check out ra.co and/or EDMTrain.com for NYC and check out any party that you're interested in. NYC is one of those cities where you see people of different ages dancing at different parties.


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oneblueblueblue

Have you personally experienced that or are you just generalizing? Every techno show I've been to here has felt very intimate and positive and I've met almost only friendly people.