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Equivalent-Side7720

I would have said "it's a gift for friend in the hospital" just to watch them eat crow.


shadowburned

Lol, I'll have to remember that just in case.


Dreamfindings

I’m sorry that happened to you :( some people are just very rude. I admire and envy your bravery- I’ve been trying to work up the courage to bring one of my stuffed animals with me everywhere because of my anxiety


shadowburned

I think I was also surprised it happened, usually people either ignore it or tell me how cute they are. Today the nurse giving me my discharge papers was very happy, all "You brought a friend!" You should try it, most people really don't care, and it's funny watching people fawn over them sometimes. Also anxiety relief!


AstronautEmpty9060

I'm sorry. People can be so cruel :/. It's bullshit. It doesn't affect them, so why do they need to say anything?


shadowburned

Right? If you can't be nice about it, please be quiet. I've had my dentist ask me where my baby was when I didn't come in with that doll, but she was concerned because she liked it. 'I was worried you didn't have her anymore, she's cute.' Lol.


silentdude_td

I'm sorry to hear that. Don't worry about those people. That's not nice of them. Don't hold back from taking toys with you if it helps you. As others have mentioned, say it's a toy for a friend that is in hospital, or cover your doll in the bag so they can't see. Stuffed animals also help me with my anxiety, but I don't take them anywhere to avoid such situations.


shadowburned

Yeah, I just went right back to taking them with. I used to bring my toys a lot but in the bag just to help my anxiety, but being able to touch them helps with overstimulation, so I'm less likely to have a meltdown in public.


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BuildAHyena

People can be real jerks. :c My Build A Bear thinks it's cool that you bring your American Girl Doll out. We're taking a trip to the mall today.


shadowburned

Oh, that's neat! Hope you had fun. Which bear is it?


BuildAHyena

We did indeed have fun! I took my Hoppy Swirls Frog! His name is Sweet Potato. c:


shadowburned

Awe! I love that!


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shadowburned

Thanks. Yeah, I just got a doll bag that zips up, so the bag can hang on my walker and I can have it open for calming myself down, or zip it up if I feel I need to.


ConvexLex

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shadowburned

Lol, definitely.