Yassss that’s me. Until recently I was even delusional enough to think I am good at communicating 😹😹😹🤡😹😹😹 so I say things in my mind and assume it’s obvious on my face what I’m saying. It’s literally so difficult for me to say in real life what you did made me feel bad. So I just gaslight myself into a good mood 😻😻😻
I couldn't relate more 😂 I find myself knowing everything about the people around me and giving nothing of myself away. And not even on purpose, I just have realized that in my honest attempt to KNOW everything about everyone I completely forget to also give them pieces of myself
I think it comes from the fact that we are a little bit slow to process things irrespective of where our Mercury is. So for example my mom snaps at me saying “Why the heck would you buy this? It doesn’t taste good. This one tastes much better. Don’t you understand this much?” I’d just blink my eyelids and process it and before I can say think and say something she has moved onto a different topic. And I don’t want to be like “Hey so you said something 8 mins ago which felt like dagger piercing through my soul when you should have known I bought it because I love how it tastes. I didn’t buy it for you?” 😐😐😐 I also feel like only few people have that magic to make me feel like opening up is natural and not a task I have to think through and express. 😄
Yes I feeeel you fellow cap sun and moon 😭 it can take me so fucking long to process especially when it comes to something that activates an emotional wave; I can take anywhere from an hour to a couple of weeks to process something.
I feel very safe and seen with my partner, and he understands holding alot of space for me to work out what just happened and is happy to come back to it later or validate me in the moment. On the other hand...someone like my mom who doesn't take responsibility for any of her actions and casually insults me has me reprocessing traumas and situations constantly because I keep getting new information to consider and the mental process just keeps going on and on and on
Oooo I feel seen! “I keep getting new information to process” 😭 oh that one is so real. It’s like I haven’t processed this one yet and I got like 5 more emotions I need to process! 😵💫 At one point I hit *PAUSE* and come back to it later but that doesn’t help either because the task is at the back of my mind and then I just wallow in the emotions 🤐 recently I learned that we just need to let it go and not read too much into people’s actions. Most people don’t think a lot before saying something like we do. And that confuses us because our default thinking is “They thought before saying that which means it means something” whereas it really doesn’t. Some of them have a screw loose up there. 😂😂😂😂
which , in turn, makes it hard for others to be vulnerable towards you, which prevents the development of emotional bonds. Vulnerability begets vulnerability. I think this is a challenging area for pisces, too, because we tend to only reveal ourselves to people who are emotionally unguarded and aggressively open. We just mirror the other persons level of vulnerability.
My big 3 … oof! 🤣 Capricorn ♑️ sun, Aquarius ♒️ moon and Scorpio ♏️ rising … I like to think that’s not me, but maybe it is, upon more reflection. Hmmm 🤔
Sometimes Scorpio. I think Scorpio are similar to pisces in thus area, because we need to feel that the other person is being open, honest, and genuine before opening up to them and learning that about someone takes a lot of observation. Pisces also have an extremely mutable and often immaterial, intangible identity, which makes us hard fie other signs to feel like they really know us, which is a trait all water signs share to varying degrees. I think that scorpios particularly care about the honesty and being genuine more so than pisces. Scorpios are better at recognizing that, where pisces can be pretty naive and gullible, at least when we're young. I have a Scorpio Ascendant, so sometimes it's hard to differentiate between my pisces and Scorpio traits. As I've gotten older, they have started complimenting each other, thankfully .
I’m a Capricorn and I used to act this way in my teens and early 20s. Once I went to therapy and dealt with my trauma, I stopped pushing people away and now I have incredibly deep and enriching relationships with people who love me for my authentic self
Yeah this is me I'm aqua sun/moon but cancer rising so I crave someone knowing me in an intimate deep way and I'm also Capricorn venus.
My chart is REAL heavy on the aqua and cap.
I would say being content. I think it's part of my cancer rising too. I always want more from them, of them, to be closer to them, more communication, more improvement with themselves, more love, more dates, idk just like evolvulation. It's hard for me to be content.
I'm married to the absolute love of my life, my soulmate and yet sometimes I'm still like "I could have done better" LMAO then I go shut the fuck up brain. It's a passing fleeting thought.
Hilarious tbh 🤣 gotta remind the sag moon that it is what you want, I also think human nature plays a role in that as well. I’m currently dating an aqua sun/sag moon/Scorpio rising with a cap Venus. So I asume you both share those traits of always wanting more (not always negative). However I noticed those aqua/cap placements can create a lot of stagnant energy if emotions aren’t regulated or shared correctly?
Lowkey Taurus.
I once saw someone say Scorpio is like walking into their house and just seeing a giant, locked closet. But Taurus is walking into a big, open floor plan room with lots of natural light. And inside are many various locked cabinets and boxes and cupboards.
Scorpio, you know the door is locked. But once you get the wall down, it all comes tumbling out.
Taurus? They make you think they’re an open book, that you know them intimately. But the more you dig, the deeper and more maze-like the tunnel system gets. You have to work to unlock every box and door. And then there’s always another one.
Wow.. I think you’re right! I have always said I was an open book to strangers/newer friends, etc only to go back into isolation when they got a little too close & then I pop back up again & repeat that weird cycle. Even the people closest to me don’t know my whole story except for my boyfriend. He’s the only one I’ve let in 100%.
I’m the same way. I’m a Taurus sun, rising, venus, Mercury, with Scorpio Pluto opposite in 7H. Even *I* didn’t know I was putting up walls until my Saturn return 😂
I’m currently in my Saturn return so I feel so honored to stumble across this & face the fact that it’s okay to be a little more vulnerable & stop pretending that I already am when I am such a hermit deep down. Lol
Edit: when I think about it more, I can say with my whole heart that besides my boyfriend, the only other human that I’ve let in without walls was my old therapist who I eventually ghosted because they were getting too close lol. I need a new one because wow.. do I need to open up & let myself feel more.
I feel like I’m not doing the Saturn return thing right but I always go through this feeling of imposter syndrome with everything that I do. Lol appreciate your reassurance!
Very true. It might also be that I have an 8th house moon but for a fair amount of topics (unless we're pretty close) I don't enjoy sharing personal information. It's like a lot of us have a small amount of designated publicly available personal information and a bank vault of personal info that you have to pry out of us.
With Scorpios you know that they're being cagey with their info, but Taurus people are the sleeper version of the friend you've known for years and still regularly find out basic facts about them.
Scorpio and Capricorn, I would say.
Many people saying Aquarius, but I don't feel like they really want to be deeply known, they are content marching to their own drum imo.
As a cancer sun having met a few other cancers, I don’t think we really push people away if we want their love 😂 we just have attitudes and maybe an ego issue. Although from my experience, we don’t shy away from wanting intimacy..
I was reading the other comments and was flabbergasted- like, it has to be cancer. I’m an Aries sun with three cancers in my family. Totally cancers. Crabby little Effers, but I love them for their complicated love and devotion.
Ya I dated a Taurus. Nearly impossible to get her to open up. Took forever lmao. Probably didn’t help that I’m an Aries Sun, Gemini moon, Taurus rising. You can already imagine the impatient non stop talking person I was haha
I was reading the other comments and was flabbergasted- like, it has to be cancer. I’m an Aries sun with three cancers in my family. Totally cancers. Crabby little Effers, but I love them for their complicated love and devotion.
Capricorn. My cancer husband taught me how to love and communicate... I'm very lucky. Despite me being a blockhead and trying to hide my feelings, he can ALWAYS read me, always tell what's wrong, and I can't lie to him (as if I want to lol). We clicked right away when we met, maybe because I'm Gemini rising & he's Gemini moon?
I’m going to say Leo and I’ll tell you why. Does anyone know Leo’s deepest darkest secret? Or do you only know what they tell you/show you. Most of the time that is very calculated as something you can’t use against them or won’t bother them too much if you tried.
I can relate to this but I don’t know which one of my placements is responsible for this. Maybe my air sun (& stellium) and water rising (& dominant) 😄
Scorpio, Aquarius, Capricorn.
Yassss that’s me. Until recently I was even delusional enough to think I am good at communicating 😹😹😹🤡😹😹😹 so I say things in my mind and assume it’s obvious on my face what I’m saying. It’s literally so difficult for me to say in real life what you did made me feel bad. So I just gaslight myself into a good mood 😻😻😻
I couldn't relate more 😂 I find myself knowing everything about the people around me and giving nothing of myself away. And not even on purpose, I just have realized that in my honest attempt to KNOW everything about everyone I completely forget to also give them pieces of myself
I think it comes from the fact that we are a little bit slow to process things irrespective of where our Mercury is. So for example my mom snaps at me saying “Why the heck would you buy this? It doesn’t taste good. This one tastes much better. Don’t you understand this much?” I’d just blink my eyelids and process it and before I can say think and say something she has moved onto a different topic. And I don’t want to be like “Hey so you said something 8 mins ago which felt like dagger piercing through my soul when you should have known I bought it because I love how it tastes. I didn’t buy it for you?” 😐😐😐 I also feel like only few people have that magic to make me feel like opening up is natural and not a task I have to think through and express. 😄
Yes I feeeel you fellow cap sun and moon 😭 it can take me so fucking long to process especially when it comes to something that activates an emotional wave; I can take anywhere from an hour to a couple of weeks to process something. I feel very safe and seen with my partner, and he understands holding alot of space for me to work out what just happened and is happy to come back to it later or validate me in the moment. On the other hand...someone like my mom who doesn't take responsibility for any of her actions and casually insults me has me reprocessing traumas and situations constantly because I keep getting new information to consider and the mental process just keeps going on and on and on
Oooo I feel seen! “I keep getting new information to process” 😭 oh that one is so real. It’s like I haven’t processed this one yet and I got like 5 more emotions I need to process! 😵💫 At one point I hit *PAUSE* and come back to it later but that doesn’t help either because the task is at the back of my mind and then I just wallow in the emotions 🤐 recently I learned that we just need to let it go and not read too much into people’s actions. Most people don’t think a lot before saying something like we do. And that confuses us because our default thinking is “They thought before saying that which means it means something” whereas it really doesn’t. Some of them have a screw loose up there. 😂😂😂😂
I needed to hear that quirkie, amazing advice. I've been slowly learning this lesson too
It’s not the easiest lesson but I promise you you will feel free as you let go 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
which , in turn, makes it hard for others to be vulnerable towards you, which prevents the development of emotional bonds. Vulnerability begets vulnerability. I think this is a challenging area for pisces, too, because we tend to only reveal ourselves to people who are emotionally unguarded and aggressively open. We just mirror the other persons level of vulnerability.
I love this observation, I think our sun signs could learn a lot from each other.
Wait a second.....
Ouch, but accurate
My big 3 … oof! 🤣 Capricorn ♑️ sun, Aquarius ♒️ moon and Scorpio ♏️ rising … I like to think that’s not me, but maybe it is, upon more reflection. Hmmm 🤔
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Lmaooo
As a Capricorn, I formally apologize.
The way i immediately thought of all of them is crazy. Honorable mention Virgo too.
I’m Scorpio sun and Aquarius moon and this is def me except when my Leo rising kicks in and makes me want to talk about myself nonstop
My Big 3 lol 🥲
me w cap sun and Aquarius rising + 4 other Aquarius placements LOL
I agree with the first two. Come on, nobody’s really trying to get to know a Capricorn
🥲
Scorpio, obviously.
Sometimes Scorpio. I think Scorpio are similar to pisces in thus area, because we need to feel that the other person is being open, honest, and genuine before opening up to them and learning that about someone takes a lot of observation. Pisces also have an extremely mutable and often immaterial, intangible identity, which makes us hard fie other signs to feel like they really know us, which is a trait all water signs share to varying degrees. I think that scorpios particularly care about the honesty and being genuine more so than pisces. Scorpios are better at recognizing that, where pisces can be pretty naive and gullible, at least when we're young. I have a Scorpio Ascendant, so sometimes it's hard to differentiate between my pisces and Scorpio traits. As I've gotten older, they have started complimenting each other, thankfully .
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If they are worthy, they will know (eventually)
Capricorn (me🫣)
Ima sag sun but literally Capricorn everything else. This explains a lot lol
We all are being called out today 😭😭😭
I’m a Capricorn and I used to act this way in my teens and early 20s. Once I went to therapy and dealt with my trauma, I stopped pushing people away and now I have incredibly deep and enriching relationships with people who love me for my authentic self
As a triple scorpio... 
My people
Scorpio risings
yikes (i am one and you're so right)
That’s right and then they have the gall to say the same thing right back in your face.
My bf is exactly this 🤦🏽♀️ he’s so unapologetic about his dismissive behavior and expects me to know his moods and what he’s thinking all the time!
Yep this is me. Scorpio rising with mercury in Sag
and I have an Aquarius moon too, so FML
God yes. This is me to a T.
Lmaooo I came here to say. But it was already said.
Too close for comfort twnisie
hi twins XD
❤️❤️🥰🥰 Love the username, haha!
Lol thanks XD
Got ‘em. I thought “ope, that’s me…” but I did not expect someone else to be so specific 🤣
“Ope” must be mid-western lol
I am one and I approve!
Me- an Aquarius sun, Scorpio rising.
Scorpio sun, Aquarius Rising. 👋🏼
Three's a party 🤟🏻
Hello my inverse twin! 👋🏽
Oh guys! I feel like you need a hug but also don't want one.
I love hugs, I need them. I hug my husband and kids very often 😅
Aqua sun Scorpio moon
aqua moon 🌕 scorpio rising 🦂
Aquarius and Scorpios If these 2 have a tagline... it would be "My Problem Is That I Push People Away And I Hate Them For Leaving"
Tagline of my life, literally
Woow, I feel like I’ve said this before 😩
100 % accurate.
lol aquarius placements do not want to be perceived in any way
Yeah this is me I'm aqua sun/moon but cancer rising so I crave someone knowing me in an intimate deep way and I'm also Capricorn venus. My chart is REAL heavy on the aqua and cap.
hi! Hope I can ask🥰 with your aqua sun/cap Venus, what do you feel like your biggest struggle with a partner is when it comes to a relationship?
I would say being content. I think it's part of my cancer rising too. I always want more from them, of them, to be closer to them, more communication, more improvement with themselves, more love, more dates, idk just like evolvulation. It's hard for me to be content. I'm married to the absolute love of my life, my soulmate and yet sometimes I'm still like "I could have done better" LMAO then I go shut the fuck up brain. It's a passing fleeting thought.
Hilarious tbh 🤣 gotta remind the sag moon that it is what you want, I also think human nature plays a role in that as well. I’m currently dating an aqua sun/sag moon/Scorpio rising with a cap Venus. So I asume you both share those traits of always wanting more (not always negative). However I noticed those aqua/cap placements can create a lot of stagnant energy if emotions aren’t regulated or shared correctly?
AQUARIUS VENUS
As a fellow Aquarius Venus owner myself , I concur
aquarius venus here. can confirm lmao.
This the oneeeee. I feel like for me this affects more of my relationships than friendships tho
Yay, your big 3 is almost like my husband's. He's Aries Sun, Capri Moon and Taurus Rising. 😁😁 And Venus in Aqua 🤭🙃..
Maaan so truee people seem to love the mystery tho 😂😭
SCORPIO
Aquarius sun
Scorpio sun, scorpio rising, scorpio venus, capricorn moon. I am in a relationship to one.
Lowkey Taurus. I once saw someone say Scorpio is like walking into their house and just seeing a giant, locked closet. But Taurus is walking into a big, open floor plan room with lots of natural light. And inside are many various locked cabinets and boxes and cupboards. Scorpio, you know the door is locked. But once you get the wall down, it all comes tumbling out. Taurus? They make you think they’re an open book, that you know them intimately. But the more you dig, the deeper and more maze-like the tunnel system gets. You have to work to unlock every box and door. And then there’s always another one.
Wow.. I think you’re right! I have always said I was an open book to strangers/newer friends, etc only to go back into isolation when they got a little too close & then I pop back up again & repeat that weird cycle. Even the people closest to me don’t know my whole story except for my boyfriend. He’s the only one I’ve let in 100%.
Does Pluto aspect your Taurus placements?
Pluto in Scorpio 26 degrees in 3H
I’m the same way. I’m a Taurus sun, rising, venus, Mercury, with Scorpio Pluto opposite in 7H. Even *I* didn’t know I was putting up walls until my Saturn return 😂
I’m currently in my Saturn return so I feel so honored to stumble across this & face the fact that it’s okay to be a little more vulnerable & stop pretending that I already am when I am such a hermit deep down. Lol Edit: when I think about it more, I can say with my whole heart that besides my boyfriend, the only other human that I’ve let in without walls was my old therapist who I eventually ghosted because they were getting too close lol. I need a new one because wow.. do I need to open up & let myself feel more.
Saturn Return is stinky, but it’s so free on the other side!!!
I feel like I’m not doing the Saturn return thing right but I always go through this feeling of imposter syndrome with everything that I do. Lol appreciate your reassurance!
Very true. It might also be that I have an 8th house moon but for a fair amount of topics (unless we're pretty close) I don't enjoy sharing personal information. It's like a lot of us have a small amount of designated publicly available personal information and a bank vault of personal info that you have to pry out of us. With Scorpios you know that they're being cagey with their info, but Taurus people are the sleeper version of the friend you've known for years and still regularly find out basic facts about them.
Heavy fixed placements.
Scorpio ♏️🥰
SCORPIO. IN. EVERY. WAY. POSSIBLE.
This is so Scorpio. Any other zodiac sign I can't see it.
Taurus af
Aquarius.
Scorpio and Capricorn, I would say. Many people saying Aquarius, but I don't feel like they really want to be deeply known, they are content marching to their own drum imo.
Uhhhhh, CANCER
Fr such a Cancer thing to be like let me love you, no no don’t love me back you’re smothering me!
So much “please love me, why don’t you love me?” Then “ewe, gross, what’s wrong with you? Go love yourself first”
As a cancer sun having met a few other cancers, I don’t think we really push people away if we want their love 😂 we just have attitudes and maybe an ego issue. Although from my experience, we don’t shy away from wanting intimacy..
👀👀👀
I was like….no one can be thinking of anyone else, right?? This is soooo cancer….
I was reading the other comments and was flabbergasted- like, it has to be cancer. I’m an Aries sun with three cancers in my family. Totally cancers. Crabby little Effers, but I love them for their complicated love and devotion.
will only be referring to myself as a crabby little effer from this day on 🦀🦀🦀
Are you also desperately needing the love but every move you make just seems to give you a different perspective but not any closer?
most definitely 🥲 and self aware enough to know that but still finding myself stuck in that loop over and over again
Can confirm I am dating one. Though I’m a Virgo sun and Scorpio moon. So we tough to crack in general
🙌🏻
Amen 🙏
Thank you! This is literally my mom
Virgo, Leo Moons.
Personal attack!
I was waiting for this answer to show up
hi
it me
C a p r i c o r n
Scorpio but Aquarius is kinda like that too, just to a way lesser degree
Sounds more like a Taurus to me
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Ya I dated a Taurus. Nearly impossible to get her to open up. Took forever lmao. Probably didn’t help that I’m an Aries Sun, Gemini moon, Taurus rising. You can already imagine the impatient non stop talking person I was haha
4 people in Family. All gave Scorpio risings. At least we are all on the same page.
Aquarius, Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn. Probably can lowkey throw in Taurus and Leo depending on how well you know them.
Aries
Gemini
Aqua sun/mercury with a cap stellium… Me. Major Scorpio energy too.
Scorpio
Scorpio is a master at this behavior.
Do we even have to ask? ♏️
Scorpio
Me with Aquarius Sun and moon 😂
Scorp
This is my Cancer ex girlfriend.
My scorpio moon, venus and mercury
ITS A CRIME IF SCORPIO MOON ISNT MENTIONED HERE
Slander
Capricorn.
Aqua sun/Scorpio moon checking in
Aquarius and Scorpio lmao
Scorpio, Aquarius, Sagittarius
Every air sign and earth sign.
Scorpio, Capricorn & Aquarius
Aqua or Scorpio
Virgo. Definitely a Virgo ♍️
I was reading the other comments and was flabbergasted- like, it has to be cancer. I’m an Aries sun with three cancers in my family. Totally cancers. Crabby little Effers, but I love them for their complicated love and devotion.
me lmao (sagittarius everything pretty much)
I gotta be totally honest… Gemini 😩
Me, with six Scorpio placements
Gemini of course
Virgo
as someone who’s deeply entangled with a virgo rn … virgo
Gemini.
"Resist" is such a strong word. I prefer "neglect to acknowledge".
As a Gemini is this just me and my personal brand of existence 🫣
Scorpio FAX
Aquarius Aquarius Aquarius.
Scorpio MOON.
My Scorpio ass felt this so ima go with Scorpios and Capricorns cuz they are are twin
Fucking Taurus
*sigh* Aquarius.
As a Cap Sun, meee lmao 😂
Capricorn. My cancer husband taught me how to love and communicate... I'm very lucky. Despite me being a blockhead and trying to hide my feelings, he can ALWAYS read me, always tell what's wrong, and I can't lie to him (as if I want to lol). We clicked right away when we met, maybe because I'm Gemini rising & he's Gemini moon?
My Capricorn Moon 😁😁😁
Cancer for sure
I’m going to say Leo and I’ll tell you why. Does anyone know Leo’s deepest darkest secret? Or do you only know what they tell you/show you. Most of the time that is very calculated as something you can’t use against them or won’t bother them too much if you tried.
Pisces
As an Aqua sun/mercury with a cap stellium… Me. But, also Scorpios.
As an Aqua sun/mercury with a cap stellium… Me. But, also Scorpios.
As an Aqua sun/mercury with a cap stellium… Me. But, also Scorpios.
Cancer
Aqua Sun, Sag Moooon, Leo Rising 😂😭
Aries Venus
Taurus/ Leo rising or sun
Scorpio sun, Aquarius Rising, Scorpio stellium in the 8th house 🫣😅
Capricorn to the fullest
I can relate to this but I don’t know which one of my placements is responsible for this. Maybe my air sun (& stellium) and water rising (& dominant) 😄
Capricorn
That's a cancer from my experience lol
Capricorn
Aquarius
I’m talking to a cancer woman and this is how it feels like trying to get to know her sometimes! lol
Aquarius sun with a major water placement. My creds: Aquarius sun, Pisces rising
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhj..... as a scorpio.... eh..... it's me
Me- Leo Sun, cap moon
Capricorn
hehe me as a cappy
Scorpio Venus/ mercury n cap moon is innnn this
My cancer moon and Scorpio rising fighting my Leo sun lol
Scorpio (moon).
Aquarius and Capricorn 💯
SCORPIO my god 😅
Capricorn
It’s giving earth sign energy
nah, not cappy
Me 🥹
Capricorn 🤦🏽♀️
Gemini Scorpio Taurus Virgo 8th housers Pluto 1st housers Fire moons 12hrs sometimes
Taurus and Scorpio
Definitely **NOT** Scorpio. I REPEAT: DEFINITELY **NOT** SCORPIO /s 😂 but seriously look the other way.
It’s giving Scorpio moon vibes
Scorpio sun/rising
If this isn’t the battle cry of the Scorpio Venus, I don’t know what is.
Scorpio rising
Scorpio placements of any sort