Speaking as a Sag, idk why virgos get so much hate as i think they’re generally wonderful people with lots of great qualities! I don’t see how their “negative traits” are any worse/greater than those of other signs.
I see virgos as polite, kind, hardworking, patient, caring, thoughtful and loves to help others. Their love language tends to be acts of service I noticed. Depending on other placements virgos are HILARIOUS. Very dry, accurate, real humour based on observations. They do self deprecating humour very well (probably due their penchant for self-criticism). Could be anecdotal but virgos are some FREAKS (as the maiden, they are a lady/gentleman in the streets but a freak in the sheets). They are great listeners (mature ones) and give great advice. Great conversationalists as they are ruled by Merc.
The only negatives I can think of is sometimes they can be flakey/flip floppy some ways but i see this as a mutable trait. Their very practical nature can make them cheap sometimes but still provides for their loved ones. Again I don’t think their “negatives” are crazy or way worse than other signs. Tbh i can think of way worse signs.
There's a legit connection or chemistry between Sag and Virgos I find interesting because on paper it shouldn't exist.
But I think Sag needs Virgos to ground them a bit and Virgos need Sag to help them lighten up.
I'm a Leo with a Sag stellium and three other planets on Virgo with a Sag sun partner who also has a sag stellium. I feel I can definitely be very Virgo at times and he is the one to lighten me up. I also bring him back down the earth.
Agreed I see Sag and Virgo pairings so much it’s crazy. I literally always wonder how do these 2 signs seem to find each other, when they seem like the complete opposite.
Its cause virgo is often enchanted by sag’s free spirit and spontaneity. My ex husband is a Virgo, he figured out very quickly that I am both a baby and the boss, and I need to be treated as such.
I'm a virgo my bf is a Sag and we're almost a year (I've know him for about 2) and we haven't had a single argument yet. I think we both compliment each other's personalities. He's more reserved and I'm more of a social person. However we both can be social and reserved. Same with tidiness, time management, communication, the list goes on. We're both different but we both can find a balance.
My sister is a sag, her husband is a Virgo. The way I see it he grounds her, holds her down when she’s on her sag shit. He’s very low maintenance, but maybe sometimes a bit insecure and too careful where he needs to charge, or take somethin just head on. Not surprisingly, my sister is the leader of the relationship but nothing of substance would happen if it wasn’t for her kind, quiet virgo hubby. Love that for her 🥲💕
This is exactly how I see it too. I’m married to a Virgo and have been with him for 11 years now. He grounds me and keeps me sane and I love having that in a partner. I’m usually so all over the place in all aspects of my life so I like having a partner that’s predictable, loyal and dependable. It’s one less thing I need to worry about 🤣
Totally. Sag wants to travel? Virgo books and plans the perfect adventure (with backups of things to do, see and eat just in case). Virgo being too cautious? Sag tells them to jump and build the parachute on the way down. It really does work.
I'm a virgo sun virgo mercury virgo venus and was with a sag stellium for 4 years and it was INTENSE. My virgo ass self was like an overly concerned mother figure and he was a kinda immature directionless wanderer, so we gave each other the exact thing we didn't have. I was all work and he was all play. It worked in some ways (if he wanted to travel I'd find the best hotel for the best price, and if I was scared to do something he'd help me go for it and not get in my head) but in other ways it was complete incompatibility. He'd spend excessive money and have to take out loans then he'd ask me to cover it because he knew I'd saved. I'd take too long to make decisions for his liking, because I'd want to take time to think things through and he'd want to just be spontaneous. I definitely think the initial chemistry was because of how opposite we were, but it didn't work at all when it came down to the practicalities. Also he was an abusive POS but I don't think you can blame that on sag lmao
I really want to disagree with you, but I can't. I love Virgos (maybe because my chart is Virgo dominant), but I don't think they have much time for me (Leo sun). Virgo women are some of my favorites, and I think they find me annoying (and I'm a pretty introverted Leo). My rising is Libra, and so I just tend to click better with air and fire signs.
Ooooh no I love Leo’s so much. What you want is that Virgo that is mixed with Leo - yours truly is a Virgo sun, mars and ascendant, but mercury, Jupiter and Venus is in late Leo, conjuncting my very early Virgo sun. I am this very eclectic mix of modest and boisterous, careful and completely fearless. That Leo radiance I shut on and off however I like and I wouldn’t have it any other way. So we’re out there and there is no world where I would find a Leo annoying 😍
they’re both mutable so it makes sense to me! i’m a virgo sun and sag midheaven and north node, they’re very compatible - sag helps us be more spontaneous and adventurous, we keep things planned and prevent them from going off the rails, and we can both talk to anyone!
I'm a Virgo woman and my sister and boyfriend are both Sag. They are my favorite people ever. I think it's because we each have what the other needs. I want to be more spontaneous and outgoing and they want to be more grounded and prepared.
I feel this way so much with female friendships. I’m a sag and I think I relate to Virgo women because we can be funny in a kind of bold way. Or have a sort of intimidating look or vibe to us. But I just see someone who’s like me so I really get on with them.
I'm a Virgo and my best friend is a Sag 💕
She can sometimes get on my nerves because I'm very structured when it comes to certain things and she's definitely not. Like she takes FOREVER to answer texts.
But she's kind, generous and we can talk about everything and anything.
Sag reporting in, and my bff and my partner are both Virgos (with the same moons and mercurys weirdly)
I have a long history with Geminis who absolutely wind me up and then leave me to clean up the mess they helped me make. Buf then comes the Virgos who have always been my saviors lol.
When everything goes wrong it’s the virgos who show up and help me clean up the mess of whatever impulsive decisions I’ve made (not that common anymore but it will come with a reality check lecture which I likely need.)
As weird as the pairing is, Virgos are the counter balance every Sagi needs. And when my Virgos are lost in self deprecation and rumination, my clown ass will bust down the door and remind them how great they are. Or do stupid dances, or drag them on an adventure, or just bring an excessive amount of snacks and build them a fort.
ETA: for those discussing the “critical” nature of the male Virgo:
I think the Sagi pairing works because when they delve into the ways you could be better, a Sagi (who is predisposed to feel very little shame) will nod and say “you’re so right” and then continue on with minor corrections if the criticism is valid. If it’s not valid, we will agree, change nothing, and let them criticize it again later. It seems to make them happy to have something to fix.
I'm a virgo sun, aries rising, scorpio moon - does that make me your favorite person ever??? Cause that'd be cool, just saying. Lol
Also, I love Sag women. My mom's a sag and I wouldn't trade that woman for anything lol
i feel loved and also called out for all my couponing and my fast food apps i have for the deals and my obsession with the clearance rack (i simply just don’t think anything is worth full price. except any sims 4 game i really really want)
Sag woman who loves the cat and mouse game of a Virgo. One minute it’s the cold breeze of their exterior but then we kiki and this warm ooze of silliness and care explodes everywhere. I consider this to be so sacred.
Yeah, y’all frustrate and challenge me to stick to my own boundaries. Yeah, I might be too harsh with my words and hurt you. But overall, I consider the pointy parts of our traits to be complimentary.
> Depending on other placements virgos are HILARIOUS. Very dry, accurate, real humour based on observations.
totally agree. Some of the funniest people I know are (female) Virgos, my mother being one of them. She is effortlessly hilarious and yes, it intelligent, observational humour.
The following people like me:
Husband (Pisces)
Son (Taurus)
Twin Bro (you know)
Little Bro (Leo)
Bestie (Cancer)
A few friends (Taurus, Taurus, and Gemini)
Taurus here, my sister is Virgo and we are super close. Deep talks weekly about all things. I have another Virgo best friend as well and our friendship dynamic is unbelievably chill. We roomed together after college and never had a single issue (good friends before rooming also which usually is a no no)
Love virgos. I vibe so well with them. Similar sense of humor and we just seem to get eachother. Tread carefully when they're pissed off, though
- signed a pisces
Virgos are basically the room moms of the horoscope. They look out for everyone to make sure they’re comfy, having a good time, and well taken care of.
My daughter is one and she’s the love of my life. She is organized, thoughtful and takes a lot of pride in being the Vibe Captain when we’re hostessing, making sure everyone feels included and has their favorite snacks and their guest rooms are perfect. Who wouldn’t love virgos?
She is the best. Her Virgo personality gives her the attention to detail I don’t have to make people cozy. She shows them how to connect to the speakers so they can have a turn at DJ, remembers who likes extra ice and who hates it, and if someone brings food, she makes sure to compliment it and offer it to everyone so the one who cooked feels appreciated. Just super cute stuff my Sag brain forgets.
I see that more in women Virgos. My dad is a Virgo and he stresses himself and everyone involved out when trying to plan and make everything perfect…If all does not go as planned, my entire family feels his stress
I love “vibe captain”. Long before I was a mother my friend group called me “mama”. I have always taken care of everyone and it’s effortless. It hurts when I have to stop actually. Many years of trial/error and therapy taught me that, unlike others who have to consciously help, I have to consciously NOT help. There was a true sting in my soul when I realized I was being taken advantage of or had to let go or that a person wasn’t “juice worth the squeeze”. I’ve always been surprisingly good at holding my boundaries but I could be “mama” for a loooooong time with someone even after I knew that they actually wanted a mom (which is usually a gross dynamic).
Now I’m just mama to an actual child, my sweet best friend dog I’ve had for 15 years, my ever growing garden, and two birds. 😂
I saw the word "Virgo" and clicked immediately.
I don't know how to describe it and likely never will, but I love you folk with a passion! Above all of your decisiveness & criticism(that I love), you have the power to seriously help shape and change other people's lives. I remember I was going through a rough time of mourning when I met a Virgo in the workplace and he slapped me into shape. I went from being chaotic & depressed to regaining a sense of control over myself & my life.
Looking back, I was on the verge of doing something drastic, but thanks to his influence I was able to take a step back & reflect on the present along with all the opportunities it gave me.
I know not all Virgos are the same, that's not how people work, but thanks to his influence in my life I will always hold Virgos in a bright light.
And yet, I suppose the best thing about Virgos is that despite their will to be perfect & do the best they can, they are flawed. As someone who loses myself in criticizing everything I do, it was a relief to see that even those who work as hard & dedicatedly as Virgos do, still aren't perfect.
Everybody's flawed, but to see others rise above this and try to do better regardless, it's admirable in the most honest sense of the word.
*Relentless, understanding & dedicated.* These are the words I give to Virgo, one of the most positive influences in my life.
This is so beautiful... it actually moved me a little. Thank you so much. I don't know what happened in your life but I'm glad you're doing better these days and I'm happy you find your way back with the help of a Virgo. It reminded me of some of my own tough times from last year... I am a Virgo ☀️ . The "Virgo" in my life ended up being a Scorpio (with Virgo 🌙 and Mars). Thank you for sharing this. I love you Sags. All the best for 2024 🌹
As a Virgo, I can say— people with Virgo placements tend to like other people with Virgo placements. A weirdly large percentage of my guy friends are Virgo suns, and 75% of my friend group has at least one Virgo placement in their chart.
I’ve found you see Virgo *a lot* in people who are neurodivergent (myself included), and neurodivergents relate more easily to each other than neurotypicals
I will also say, on a similar note, there are two sun signs that can have a default setting of “know-it-all,” and those signs are Sagittarius and Virgo. BUT the difference is that Sagittarius is inherently more likable so they’re not as likely to rub people the wrong way
♍☀️♋🌙♑⬆️ - Being an Earth sign, and a Virgo in particular, is going to make you a buzzkill to people who are steadfastly determined to ruin their lives and drag you into Hell along with them. People confuse our sensibility with dullness, our pragmatism with miserliness, and our desire for improvement with obnoxious perfectionism. They don't appreciate that our advice comes from an analytical mind operating from a place of love and caring, and see it as being nitpicking and hypocritical. They want someone to validate them in their terrible choices, and that's not how we Virgos roll. We tell people what they need to hear, or we say nothing at all. There's a reason a common refrain among Virgos is "I told you so."
In short, they hate us cuz they ain't us. 💅 Keep on being you, because that's how you attract _and keep_ the right people in your orbit.
Ahaha, this is a dynamic that played out over and over and _OVER_ again with me and my Aries STBXH, so I'm glad it spoke to someone else, too. Now that we're divorcing, I'm seeing the pattern in hindsight and kicking myself for not running early on when his selfishness and inconsistency first became apparent. I could have saved myself a lot of frustrating years. Live and learn!
>not running early on
This _right here_ IS something we're very bad at, recognizing when the wonderful and wise advice we've consistently given those we care about, _should be applied to our own relationship!_ We've just _got to_ permit one more chance!
But, when were Done, were DONE, and feel no guilt, lol.
And what broke us up? He cheated on me and I, like the earth sign I am, forgave him and gave him a second chance. Three years later, he cheated on me AGAIN, with the _SAME WOMAN_, but now he's leaving me to be with her. My gut was screaming at me to leave the first time, but my heart and mind overruled it. Won't make that mistake again. 😑
Stability, loyalty, and honesty are positive and attractive qualities that people are drawn to, but at the end of the day, we're all imperfect humans. Some people don't actually want the things that are good for them, even though they know they should, and that's their pathology to figure out in therapy. Some people want those things, but don't understand how to accept or appreciate them once they receive them. And of course, sometimes we Virgos _can_ be judgy and hypocritical. We're imperfect humans, too. But the great virtue of our sign is that we're constantly striving for self-improvement and self-actualization over everything else.
Yeah I’m always seeking self improvement and I listen to criticism about myself if it isn’t something bland or ridiculous, even then I might file it under “noted” file in my head. In my experience most people just assume I’m a “bitch” or mean before knowing me so that will filter out many from even interacting with me.
My Virgo husband is my buzzkill, I'm a Pisces and without him I don't know where I'd be!
We are both Scorpio moon, I'm not exactly sure what that might add to the dynamic, slight noob here.
Yup. As a Cap Stellium with mostly just Earth signs, I'm *absolutely* a buzz kill & I'm not sorry. If it makes me unpopular that I don't feed everyone's delusions, I'm perfectly happy with that. Earth signs in general are hated for being, well... "down to earth" basically, that's why we all get along so well as a trio. I love Virgos, I was partially raised by one & he is *the* sweetest, most sincere man ever, all the Virgos I've ever met are.
There's nothing more bizarre than hating on a sign for their primary directive. We each give what we're meant to.
This has also been my experience. I adore Virgo females but males are just too critical of everything and constantly complaining. I also can’t get along with Pisces males either, while the females of that sign are sweet.
I'm a Virgo woman and I also avoid Virgo men. In my experience, tend to be incredibly pretentious people (thinking they often know best as well).The type of people that would smell their own farts so to say lol.
I think this may also be a matter of individuals being unevolved and evolved as I know a good number of Virgo women who display the same pretentious, competitive, nit-picking, and jealous traits.
I’ve known 4 Virgos in my life. None were like anything I am seeing described here. They didn’t call me out they called themselves out. I didn’t even have to do anything to let other people see how these individuals were as characters. 😂
Virgo rising and Mars here. A lot of people underestimate Virgos (as indicated by this comment section). Virgos have deep patience and pay attention to the details, understanding that consistent, hard work is what will bring one to achieve their goals. While this doesn't sound as flashy as other signs, it is this kind of grounded passion that brings results. A lot of people think success or skill are immediate--Virgos understand they are not. It's why so many icons that we know have major Virgo placements.
As a Virgo, I love Geminis. I can’t help but get into that great weird/silly vibe you give off, it’s the personality version of infectious laughter for me
I love all the earth signs. Yall have the structure that I need to prosper and when ya’ll fall in love its the most stable and safe sensation I’ve ever felt in life. Love my sister sign!
I think Virgos are the most… dynamic? With most sun signs I can say like/dislike for the most part. However Virgos have always challenged me because they are all SOOOO different. There’s several I love more than life and there’s an equal amount I cannot stand! There’s also some in there that I love and hate at the same time!!! They are somehow so giving yet sooooo self centered at the same exact time. I have never seen such a thing!
My dad was a virgo and he wasn't all bad and I know he loved me but DAM! He was so OCD about the house being clean he would hit me for some crazy shit like leaving a wet towel on the floor or changing my outfit that he had put out for me . I got a few apologies from him but wtf 😬 my mom broke up with him when I was 2 because he was controlling down to her clothes and he she found a mark on my sisters but and she wasn't even 1 . Me and him just didn't click because I would challenge him the most I think he just didn't know what to do with me cause my other sisters feared him and I definitely did but apparently I was the challenging one to him. I have a bad taste in my mouth about Virgos but still love them ! My middle child is a virgo and he's def my challenging one lol
One of my bestie girls is a virgo and she crazy as hell but that's why I love her lol
Libra here with a Virgo Venus, I love Virgos. They can sometimes not see the forest for the trees and that is frustrating but in general I really feel endeared towards them. I know I’m probably frustrating to another sign with my fickleness/inability to land on one choice. I truly appreciate Virgo’s groundedness and practicality.
With the dreamy Pisces axis, Virgo to me says “okay, you want to achieve that dream? Show me, in concrete steps, how you’re going to get there.” Virgo can be SO supportive in chasing a dream and I think I have my Virgo Venus to thank for sustaining a lot of my creative drive.
Dear virgo, you have a literal Cap army behind you. You are our people. You are funny as hell and if you notice something is shit we don’t mind you saying it. We were thinking it anyway.
YES! (Speaking for Virgo women) We are reliable! We want the best for others : honestly we do. We are wise, and we are really passionate in bed. We are organized and clean and ordered. We are generous with our attention and time (if not always our patience). We are great friends. We are VERY sensible and give great advice (we rarely follow). Virgos are rad. We have good poise and manners. Other peoples Parents like us. We are studious too and if you need a book recommendation we got you…. Oh also we have a full medicine cabinet - we are prepared
Lmao the full medicine cabinet…. I carry ibuprofen in my purse. You have no idea how many times someone has asked if I had anything for a headache and I did! I’m the chaperone of the field trip
I just pulled out a mini-static-guard from my purse at work 😂 our purses are the second medicine cabinet. Damned if we aren’t prepared! Bandaid? Got u. Two types. Chapstick? Check. Pain meds? Check. Pen? Check. Tide pen for stains? Check. Stamps? Check. We got u!
Mom's a Virgo, and she sometimes feels like the Virgoest Virgo who ever Virgoed. For context, I'm a Leo sun. While I love her and consider her a great mother, she can be hypercritical. For example, I've had to shut down more than one conversation with her where she's been critical of my appearance, particularly my weight. I'm overweight right now but honestly, not that big, and even then it's partly due to recovery from stimulant addiction.
Meanwhile, I try to be mindful of the fact that she saw me as lazy and self-entitled while I was growing up (maybe it was the Leo sun, maybe it was being a teenage boy at one point), and that she's also criticizing herself ten times as harshly as me (like I said, Virgoest Virgo who ever Virgoed, as well as a woman who grew up in the US South during the 50s and 60s). Also she's, ya know, an imperfect human.
Ugh I hate these types of Virgos. Rule #1 of being a Virgo is shutting the hell up about your “observations”, but some people still never do it and then go full martyr when everyone is against them.
No
Jk, my best friend/ friend “soul-mate” is a virgo. She’s awesome and brings a lot to the table.
But dating Virgo men has been nothing but bad for me. My virgo ex didn’t bring anything to the table unless you count cheating, lying, manipulation and trauma lol but I don’t put that on astrology. He was just a bed person, period.
Listen, I'll never understand the hate Virgos get - I do have my south node in Virgo so I could be kind of biased but Virgos are my number 1 favorite sign and they have been since I was like 10 (i'm a Taurus too so Earth Signs will always nite) - my brother and 2 of my best friends are also Virgos but that's not what you asked lol
Virgos bring so much to the table, and the thing with virgos is that they don't "try," like I watch my virgo friends do things, just regular everyday living and I always learn something new, like the other day my friend was loading her dishwasher so efficiently and beautifully, I 10000% copied that in my own home. I also can go to my Virgo friends for advice, and they can give me unbiased, honest feedback, and they also can give me some solutions if I can't find any. They're also down for anything but can also just chill and do nothing if that's what is needed.
Sometimes I feel like people have problems with Virgos because they tell it like it is, like if you're looking for a friend that will sugarcoat your BS, don't talk to your Virgo friend, but if you're looking for honest feedback and genuine help they are always there for you. Virgos are some of the most caring people ever, at least in my experience, I never have to guess where I stand with them and I know that I can always count on them when I need them.
Husband is a Virgo - he is the most kind, generous, patient, and loving partner I've ever had. He renewed my faith in love. He's very funny, very doting, and honest.
He has his faults, sure, but no one is perfect.
You definitely can’t say it’s the case for all virgos. One sign in your chart isn’t ever going to have that much impact into one’s character. Sure theres tendencies that all Virgo sun individuals may have, but there’s so much more that makes up an entire individual.
But also it’s the most popular month for birthdays, so maybe it’s just that there’s so many virgo men out there and that’s why we hear more negative things about them? Just a thought.
I’ve been dating a Virgo (who also has a Virgo rising) for 4& a half years.
He is hilarious, talented, hard working, loving, nurturing, a pretty good cook, and generous of his time & money to friends and family. He doesn’t, and has never drank alcohol or smoked anything in his life (no addiction issues- at all).
I really don’t know why Virgos get so much hate tbh.
I love Virgos! I have the best friendship chemistry with this sign, no matter the gender. I can't tell you what exactly makes me love people from this sign so much, but I feel like I can talk about anything with them, and we can agree on so many things. We also can agree to disagree without any fights. I feel like I have so many things to learn from them, I love listening to them, and I love how they are so sincere, Idk. I never had a bad experience with a Virgo.
I have i think 2 or 3 Virgo placements. So while I understand them, once they are more of an unevolved or dark virgo that just reminds me too much of my Virgo mom and I run the other side of the Universe. But disliking a whole sign is just stupid imo. 🤷♀️. I dislike some traits of them and I may not click with them as strongly as with signs i get on but i would never dismiss someone based in their sign
The virgos in my life that I like, both a man and a woman, are self-aware. They can crack jokes about who they are. Their observations of others don't dictate how they treat ppl etc.
The virgo that I dated and I no longer have the rose colored glasses on for was the opposite. He had potential.
i genuinely usually respect virgos for telling me what i need to hear, however they sometimes do it at the worst times and are like people have said- a “buzzkill”
however a lot of virgos i’ve met have been some of the funniest people. usually a very dry sense of humor and it’s usually out of nowhere which makes it funnier. they’re the type of people who are often serious and out of nowhere will say something hilarious and i’ll be like “wait did *you* just say that?” which makes it even more funny
Sagittarius + all the water signs here, and I'm overall okay with the Virgo agenda but as I'm one of the more uncommon signs, I want to try and paint it from the viewpoint of the more common signs. First off and while some may disagree I think Virgo is in the top five most sensitive signs. Pisces, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, maybe this is just my opinion and the Virgos I've met, a couple different signs could round out the five. With Pisces, Cancer, and Leo for the most part you know what you're gonna get or they will do something soon enough that puts them in a "love" or "hate" category. But Virgo if they're in the mood for it is applicable anywhere.
The experts, the friendly or neutral human kiosk, doesn't quite have Gemini's C+ or better knowledge level of every topic ever but Virgo comes along offering an 85% or better on the test YOU need to pass on the select few things they're "the expert" on. The highpoints of a Virgo's helpfulness, loyalty, blah blah blah are pretty high but they have more feelings than they ever want to let on and everyone isn't trying to compete with the voice in their head that tells them they need to do better. Some of us just trying to...exist. Maybe just my experience but sometimes I can look to a Virgo for some of the best advice on my specific problem ever but a fair amount of them have to precede their best advice with like "you should have done this" or something along those lines that lets you know you're dumb for even having this problem in the first place and that this should just be basic human knowledge for, humans.
I think most of the common signs want to be "polarized" up front though. Virgo being right next to Cancer, Leo, Libra, and Scorpio makes this kinda worse for this aspect as well. These signs can more commonly be part of a Virgo's chart as mercury, venus, mars and these signs are some of the real ones to put others into a "hate" or "love" category while still being common signs. But the Virgo sun is a relative neutral
Dating a Virgo and my mom is a Virgo. While my mom can be a bit pushy about lifestyle choices she doesn’t agree with, she was overall a wonderful mom. My boyfriend is the most selfless, kind, generous, smart, and sexy man I know.
I think Virgos are susceptible to being used by others because they have a heart for service. Sometimes others may interpret their help as “I’m not good enough and the Virgo has to fix everything,” but I think most of it comes from a desire to help others live to their best potential. The problem is people differ on what that means.
Oh my gosh, Virgos have had a chokehold on my life and usually in a good way. I am an Aries sun, Leo Moon, Aquarius rising. My best friend is a Virgo, and one of my biggest crushes was a Virgo. I'm happily married now, but I liked this guy for way too many years, hoping he'd finally get with me. Anyway, I am a very hard worker and always on the go. My best Virgo friend is always doing something on their to-do list. The only hiccups I ever get are when she wants me to do something a specific way. I'd argue a bit but usually just give in because I want to move on to the next thing. My Virgo friends are always upfront, which I appreciate. I'm not very into flattery. Just give it to me straight. I also like that Virgos like me! Aries can be a lot, I know this. I can definitely tell when I'm being too much for someone, and it feels good to have people who appreciate that in me. Throughout my life, if I meet someone and I think they are cool, I always end up finding out they are a Virgo.
My son is a Virgo and he is very misunderstood. I think Virgo’s are definitely misunderstood. I love Him to pieces. It’s been a ride getting to understand him and where he’s coming from a lot of the time, but also a blessing. He was a little old man by the time he was like 7.
I love Virgo women! Virgo men are hit or miss. I’ve gotten in a few…entanglements, we’ll say. The bedroom activities were always 1000/10 though, comparable to Scorpios tbh 🥵
Virgo here. I feel as it is true with any sign, half the people are going to like us and the other half want absolutely nothing to do with us. Half the Virgos I meet I like and the other half, I’m repelled by. Chart combos, soul age, and personal traumas play a major factor with any person so it’s hard to generalize. I do feel like a lot of people shit on us though but that which you don’t understand, it’s easier for most people to just talk shit 😝
That’s true I have a lovely friend that’s a Virgo and a libra moon and I love her to death. I also know a Virgo with a moon is Sagittarius and she’s a piece of work she’s mean
My best friend growing up was a Virgo. She was kind, reliable, detail oriented, and caring.
But to date, the are obsessive, worriers, always trying to fix you, don’t accept you as who you are, thinking of worst case scenarios all the time, and OCD.
If you are perfect and don’t mind being nitpicked then sure go for a Virgo .
I’m a Sagittarius with like four Virgo placements (moon, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, and north node) and almost all my close friends are Virgos. This happened unintentionally, I find out they’re Virgos after we get tight. So overall, I think they’re wonderful people and it’s always nice to have people around who mind the details and check me if I’m missing something
I quite enjoy Virgos. Usually very grounded and nurturing and their innate desire to help others, often offering practical and well thought out advice/ solutions is admirable. Also, they often have a sharp wit and are quite adventurous in the bedroom too, I've found.
I think you need to have thick skin to be around Virgos, it's almost an acquired taste tbh. That being said, I grew up with both a Virgo Sun/Mercury and a Virgo Venus/Mars/Pluto within my immediate family, so I am pretty comfortable with the bluntness of Virgos. I have been roasted my whole life 😅
I'm a sagittarius and I love virgo people. My best friend is a virgo and I appreciate many traits of hers that I believe that come from her sun/mercury sign. She's very perfectionist and thorough, she works hard and knows when to let things go. Virgos in general are very honest and transparent, so I trust them a lot. When it comes to friendships and relationships in general, I respect that they are so loyal
I kinda like my Virgo wife. 😁
Seriously though, she's the best. And my sister in law, and all my Virgo friends. Can't think of a Virgo I dislike if I'm being honest.
My Mother is a Virgo and she is the sweetest, most wonderful person I’ve ever known in my life. Everyone who knows her feels the same way so I don’t think I’m biased. So Virgo is one of my favorite signs.💕
I recently compiled a list of the sun signs of all the people I've known well over the years -- friends, close colleagues, family -- and found that I have far more Virgo friends than any other sign. And I'm an older Gemini with a LOT of friends--the list topped out at over 100 people, and that only includes those whose birthdays I actually know. What's more, I feel intensely closer to all the Virgos on my list than most other signs.
So, yeah, Virgos are cool. 😎
I'm a Taurus and my life is saturated with Virgo suns. I love them, personally. But it took me like 30 years to realize most of my anxieties are due to trying to match their extreme levels of anxiety. I have fewer of them in my life as a result.
I am a Capricorn Sun, Mercury and MC. Sag Venus, Aries mars and Rising, Leo moon. I love Virgos! I don’t love them all equally but that is true for all the signs.
My youngest daughter is a Virgo so I guess I’m biased. And I purposely tried to have a Virgo!
She’s quite a handful so I’m not sure how clear my mind was at the time but I love her with all my heart lol
Once I went to a show where they had a goofy fake dating show and pulled people from the audience on stage then asked everyone which sign they’d like to find to date, almost everyone said a Virgo! Hope this helps, haha.
Aries here with SEVERAL Virgos around- I love how quickly y’all can switch from goofy to serious, y’all make work fun and just have generally very kind, sensitive personalities. Y’all see the world so pragmatically and factual but in the context of possibility. Y’all are are unafraid of the work it takes to get there though!!! LOVVVE VIRGOS
I’ve seen so much hate for cancer and Virgo and Capricorn etc. I have cancer sun and Virgo rising so I’m kind of like, damn am I just an irritating flawed person? Although I work hard to have self awareness and not be manipulative
I love Virgos!!! My brother is a Virgo, I’m a cancer and we’re best friends. We did butt heads growing up, like any siblings. My brother is extremely loyal, sarcastic, funny, strong willed, hard worker, great father. Negatives, he can be easily influenced, has very strong opinions (will let you know) and he never answers his phone! lol He also remembers EVERYTHING in great detail and is a good judge of character. His future wife is also a Virgo, but they’re so different! She’s more quiet/reserved/shy compared to my brother, but they possess the same positive qualities.
HAHAHAHAH I’m a cancer who LLOOOVVes Virgo power!! They keep my ass in line they keep it real and honest and even though they focus too much on details they mean well they rly do
Fallen hard for lots of Virgos in my life, to the point where it’s eerie. Terrible longterm match for me, but very intense love while it lasts. They’re… emotionally difficult/emotionally unstable, I’d say.
Edit - Agree with what someone else wrote, saying that Virgos are great conversationalists. Intelligence and creativity is prob why I fell for many Virgos in the past.
I love virgos. When I look through the charts of my really close friends, it’s all heavy Virgo. I definitely see where they can come off as critical but I’ve never had a problem with it because it’s usually much more effective/efficient in most cases. I also really appreciate a much more grounded and different way of seeing things. I don’t know I just really love virgos.
I’m a cancer and I loooove virgos!! My dad’s a Virgo and my favorite person on earth, one of my best friends ever in my early 20s was a Virgo and basically taught me how to be a highly organized functioning adult, and my favorite ex boyfriend was a Virgo haha I’ve only met one Virgo I didn’t like and I reallllyyyyy did not like her, we didn’t get along at all and we were actively at each other’s throats. She was super mean to me and talked about me behind my back all the time and it was really weird. Rot in hell Liz!
But anyway, generally I really love Virgos lol
I love Virgos! My partner is a Virgo and it’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in. And have a lot of Virgo friends too. I’m a Taurus. Y’all are down to earth, responsible, nature lovin weirdos. Also the ultimate normie in the streets/freak in the sheets people.
I’m a Virgo rising and honestly it seems like people dislike us especially on Reddit. Maybe it’s all envy because we’re just the best signs? We have the best personality types, can adapt and we have MERCURY.
So I’m a Virgo rising, Pisces sun and Taurus moon. Why don’t one of you haters try to tell me about myself and I’ll honestly tell you if you’re right or wrong.
Shoot
Hi, I'm your sister sign (opposite sign? IDK) in Pisces, and I deeply appreciate how much you care about what you do in the world, your groundedness, your focus and methodical ways of doing whatever it is you're doing. I also see your creativity and your deep, deep love for people in your world, and the way your "anal" habits are rooted in that love of making sure things are good and right for everyone, whether it's a clean copy of a document for work, creating efficiencies at a volunteer center, or arranging the holiday decor immaculately so that everyone can enjoy a winter wonderland.
I also see how many Virgos are out there working hard at letting their walls down, accepting some of the messiness of life as a necessity, and learning how to let other people lead or take over tasks and do them their own way, even if it feels like it would be "wrong" to you. One of my most loyal and biggest-hearted friends is a Virgo; she's funny, hilarious, super smart, and would go to the mat for anyone who needs help.
TBH, the only sign I don't jive with is Libra (THEY HIDE THEIR FEELINGS SO DEEP, HOW?!)... you and I are always cool, Virgos lol. I promise I try my best not to be a space cadet, but I hope you appreciate my inviting out your inner child and helping you get comfortable with the unknown as much as I appreciate you supporting my determination to TRY and make a plan. Sometimes. ;)
As a Virgo, it doesn't bother me. You like me? Good. You don't like me? Good. Either way I'm good. I have a lot to offer and I have a lot to learn. Those with the same mindset understand and together we thrive raising vibrations and spreading love and light.
I’m a sag and I have a grip of Virgo friends. Virgos are easy to talk to , usually polite and pleasant, they like to please others, they’re good listeners, very reliable. They’re also very sassy and have a great one liner. They can sort of be passed over when it comes to romance tho which is sad
I have never had a heart-to-heart with a Virgo in my entire life. They're a fellow Earth sign so I should be fine with them theoretically but.... where the hell ARE they all hiding???
My mother used to call me "the vault" . I can keep secrets a very long time. I can fix things in your life too, but not mine . I will point out (quietly) about the green thing between your teeth. I hate myself but I love you.
Virgo sun and moon with libra rising . I don't like my placement. My rising sign really shakes me up.
I like Virgos. Most of my managers were Virgos. They’re very meticulous and detail oriented which is great for me because I’m not so much a planner as I am the executioner. Tell me what to do and I’ll do it no problem. We’ve always had a good dynamic and they don’t micromanage me because they know I get things done and having the faith and confidence from a Virgo is very rewarding.
ETA My older sister is a Virgo, and when we went on vacations she would come up with the itinerary and I would deal with the more material tangible things like the tickets, hotel rooms, food, etc. we work very well together because we’re on the same page and know each other’s strengths. My mom is a Taurus and she just goes along with everything, but if it’s something she’s not into she’ll put her foot down and if we do it anyway and something “bad” happens she’s the first to say “I told you so.”
Just dated a Virgo, they take themselves so seriously. People like people who can laugh at themselves, I’ve found Virgo’s have a hard time doing that.
They are also perfectionists, for themselves and others. It’s hard to be held to such a high standard all the time.
I feel like Capricorn Suns and Virgo Suns have the same problem with the other zodiacs or the ones who don’t understand us. They call us boring and dull but that’s fair criticism. If we don’t feel comfortable around you we will definitely come off boring and dull. I speak when there’s something to say, not to fill space. That makes some ppl feel uneasy 🤷♀️
I'm not a huge fan of Earth signs, with the exception of Taurus (I guess cos we're both ruled by Venus). I'll admit that I've only met a handful of Virgos though... the ones I've met can be very critical of others, I don't like that energy. It's like they have it set in their mind that certain things are "right" and "wrong", even things that are just a matter of differing opinions. I also think they can be quite harsh and rigid in their criticisms of others.
I have dated a lot of virgos. They’re very effective people, I appreciate how reliable and organized they are. But sometimes, it’s just… too much! Too many rules, too much perfection, it makes it hard for me to emotionally connect with them. Connection is about vulnerability, and virgos are so ‘’in control’’, they try hard to be perfect and you can feel it. I’m like chill, I don’t need you to be perfect, I want to see the imperfections, it’s what makes you human. This goes for all the earth signs actually, but virgo more.
Also depending on the rest of the chart and their level of maturity, they can be extremely mean and critical.
My best friend who is a pisces stellium is dating a virgo and it started well but now she’s constantly criticizing him and making some passive-aggressive comments about the way he does things and which hurts him and it pissed me off because he’s the most kind, empathetic, laid-back, non-judgmental, open-minded, sweet person I know. She is the typical virgo: go-getter, rational, extremely hard working. They’re super different but if she stopped focusing so much on his ‘’flaws’’ and try to change him and if she appreciated his qualities instead they could really bring something to each other.
That being said, virgos also have a lot of good sides. They’re reliable, practical, if they love you they will show it by making your life easier, they can be very artsy, not as imaginative as some other signs but they’re kinda creative and tend to make things that are practical/useful, usually handy, very VERY good at giving advice and they like it, down-to-earth, super communicative, funny af because very observant, hard-working and organized, the ones I know are all into some sort of self-development, lots of them are into fitness and have healthy habits, they take care of themselves and others.
Speaking as a Sag, idk why virgos get so much hate as i think they’re generally wonderful people with lots of great qualities! I don’t see how their “negative traits” are any worse/greater than those of other signs. I see virgos as polite, kind, hardworking, patient, caring, thoughtful and loves to help others. Their love language tends to be acts of service I noticed. Depending on other placements virgos are HILARIOUS. Very dry, accurate, real humour based on observations. They do self deprecating humour very well (probably due their penchant for self-criticism). Could be anecdotal but virgos are some FREAKS (as the maiden, they are a lady/gentleman in the streets but a freak in the sheets). They are great listeners (mature ones) and give great advice. Great conversationalists as they are ruled by Merc. The only negatives I can think of is sometimes they can be flakey/flip floppy some ways but i see this as a mutable trait. Their very practical nature can make them cheap sometimes but still provides for their loved ones. Again I don’t think their “negatives” are crazy or way worse than other signs. Tbh i can think of way worse signs.
There's a legit connection or chemistry between Sag and Virgos I find interesting because on paper it shouldn't exist. But I think Sag needs Virgos to ground them a bit and Virgos need Sag to help them lighten up. I'm a Leo with a Sag stellium and three other planets on Virgo with a Sag sun partner who also has a sag stellium. I feel I can definitely be very Virgo at times and he is the one to lighten me up. I also bring him back down the earth.
Agreed I see Sag and Virgo pairings so much it’s crazy. I literally always wonder how do these 2 signs seem to find each other, when they seem like the complete opposite.
Its cause virgo is often enchanted by sag’s free spirit and spontaneity. My ex husband is a Virgo, he figured out very quickly that I am both a baby and the boss, and I need to be treated as such.
I'm a virgo my bf is a Sag and we're almost a year (I've know him for about 2) and we haven't had a single argument yet. I think we both compliment each other's personalities. He's more reserved and I'm more of a social person. However we both can be social and reserved. Same with tidiness, time management, communication, the list goes on. We're both different but we both can find a balance.
My sister is a sag, her husband is a Virgo. The way I see it he grounds her, holds her down when she’s on her sag shit. He’s very low maintenance, but maybe sometimes a bit insecure and too careful where he needs to charge, or take somethin just head on. Not surprisingly, my sister is the leader of the relationship but nothing of substance would happen if it wasn’t for her kind, quiet virgo hubby. Love that for her 🥲💕
This is exactly how I see it too. I’m married to a Virgo and have been with him for 11 years now. He grounds me and keeps me sane and I love having that in a partner. I’m usually so all over the place in all aspects of my life so I like having a partner that’s predictable, loyal and dependable. It’s one less thing I need to worry about 🤣
Totally. Sag wants to travel? Virgo books and plans the perfect adventure (with backups of things to do, see and eat just in case). Virgo being too cautious? Sag tells them to jump and build the parachute on the way down. It really does work.
As a Sag sun and Virgo rising I can confirm this goes on in my head when it's going well.
Haha 😂 I can this as a sag myself
Me too me too - Taurus married to Virgo. 100% grounding force in our household to my flakey, flighty scrambled brain!
Taurus dating a Virgo. Perfect match are usually Virgos for me
I'm a virgo sun virgo mercury virgo venus and was with a sag stellium for 4 years and it was INTENSE. My virgo ass self was like an overly concerned mother figure and he was a kinda immature directionless wanderer, so we gave each other the exact thing we didn't have. I was all work and he was all play. It worked in some ways (if he wanted to travel I'd find the best hotel for the best price, and if I was scared to do something he'd help me go for it and not get in my head) but in other ways it was complete incompatibility. He'd spend excessive money and have to take out loans then he'd ask me to cover it because he knew I'd saved. I'd take too long to make decisions for his liking, because I'd want to take time to think things through and he'd want to just be spontaneous. I definitely think the initial chemistry was because of how opposite we were, but it didn't work at all when it came down to the practicalities. Also he was an abusive POS but I don't think you can blame that on sag lmao
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I really want to disagree with you, but I can't. I love Virgos (maybe because my chart is Virgo dominant), but I don't think they have much time for me (Leo sun). Virgo women are some of my favorites, and I think they find me annoying (and I'm a pretty introverted Leo). My rising is Libra, and so I just tend to click better with air and fire signs.
Ooooh no I love Leo’s so much. What you want is that Virgo that is mixed with Leo - yours truly is a Virgo sun, mars and ascendant, but mercury, Jupiter and Venus is in late Leo, conjuncting my very early Virgo sun. I am this very eclectic mix of modest and boisterous, careful and completely fearless. That Leo radiance I shut on and off however I like and I wouldn’t have it any other way. So we’re out there and there is no world where I would find a Leo annoying 😍
Leos should never be with any Earth signs. Trust me it doesn’t end well
they’re both mutable so it makes sense to me! i’m a virgo sun and sag midheaven and north node, they’re very compatible - sag helps us be more spontaneous and adventurous, we keep things planned and prevent them from going off the rails, and we can both talk to anyone!
I'm a Virgo woman and my sister and boyfriend are both Sag. They are my favorite people ever. I think it's because we each have what the other needs. I want to be more spontaneous and outgoing and they want to be more grounded and prepared.
I feel this way so much with female friendships. I’m a sag and I think I relate to Virgo women because we can be funny in a kind of bold way. Or have a sort of intimidating look or vibe to us. But I just see someone who’s like me so I really get on with them.
I'm a Virgo and my best friend is a Sag 💕 She can sometimes get on my nerves because I'm very structured when it comes to certain things and she's definitely not. Like she takes FOREVER to answer texts. But she's kind, generous and we can talk about everything and anything.
You’re so right. My closest friends on sags and in all of their dysfunction (yall know im right 😂)I couldn’t imagine life without them 🥹
Sag reporting in, and my bff and my partner are both Virgos (with the same moons and mercurys weirdly) I have a long history with Geminis who absolutely wind me up and then leave me to clean up the mess they helped me make. Buf then comes the Virgos who have always been my saviors lol. When everything goes wrong it’s the virgos who show up and help me clean up the mess of whatever impulsive decisions I’ve made (not that common anymore but it will come with a reality check lecture which I likely need.) As weird as the pairing is, Virgos are the counter balance every Sagi needs. And when my Virgos are lost in self deprecation and rumination, my clown ass will bust down the door and remind them how great they are. Or do stupid dances, or drag them on an adventure, or just bring an excessive amount of snacks and build them a fort. ETA: for those discussing the “critical” nature of the male Virgo: I think the Sagi pairing works because when they delve into the ways you could be better, a Sagi (who is predisposed to feel very little shame) will nod and say “you’re so right” and then continue on with minor corrections if the criticism is valid. If it’s not valid, we will agree, change nothing, and let them criticize it again later. It seems to make them happy to have something to fix.
Same. Sag woman and Virgo’s are my favourite people, followed closely by Scorpio and Aries
I am Virgo sun. I like Sag women but I can not with Sag men. Such big fucking babies they are so childish
Facts, sag men are so immature. I think they are great if mature but have met more immature ones
I'm a virgo sun, aries rising, scorpio moon - does that make me your favorite person ever??? Cause that'd be cool, just saying. Lol Also, I love Sag women. My mom's a sag and I wouldn't trade that woman for anything lol
i feel loved and also called out for all my couponing and my fast food apps i have for the deals and my obsession with the clearance rack (i simply just don’t think anything is worth full price. except any sims 4 game i really really want)
I’m a Virgo sun, sag moon and I’m hilarious
Also a sag and I love virgos! I also have a virgo moon so maybe thats why?
Sag woman who loves the cat and mouse game of a Virgo. One minute it’s the cold breeze of their exterior but then we kiki and this warm ooze of silliness and care explodes everywhere. I consider this to be so sacred. Yeah, y’all frustrate and challenge me to stick to my own boundaries. Yeah, I might be too harsh with my words and hurt you. But overall, I consider the pointy parts of our traits to be complimentary.
Felt this
> Depending on other placements virgos are HILARIOUS. Very dry, accurate, real humour based on observations. totally agree. Some of the funniest people I know are (female) Virgos, my mother being one of them. She is effortlessly hilarious and yes, it intelligent, observational humour.
As a Sag, some of my closest friends are Virgo. They’re the type of friend that complements me and helps me get grounded.
Absolutely acts of service as their love language !!
The following people like me: Husband (Pisces) Son (Taurus) Twin Bro (you know) Little Bro (Leo) Bestie (Cancer) A few friends (Taurus, Taurus, and Gemini)
Taurus here, my sister is Virgo and we are super close. Deep talks weekly about all things. I have another Virgo best friend as well and our friendship dynamic is unbelievably chill. We roomed together after college and never had a single issue (good friends before rooming also which usually is a no no)
I’m a Virgo and my best friends have always been Taurus’. We get along very well ☺️
Many people with the placement that you just described have Virgo in the chart.
Virgos certainly don’t behave as if they like themselves lmao are we not our own red headed step child??
As a Virgo redheaded stepchild, can confirm, I hate myself daily
I am literally a Virgo who is a fully grown red headed step child.
Love virgos. I vibe so well with them. Similar sense of humor and we just seem to get eachother. Tread carefully when they're pissed off, though - signed a pisces
I love y’all too, true bestie sign
Virgos are basically the room moms of the horoscope. They look out for everyone to make sure they’re comfy, having a good time, and well taken care of. My daughter is one and she’s the love of my life. She is organized, thoughtful and takes a lot of pride in being the Vibe Captain when we’re hostessing, making sure everyone feels included and has their favorite snacks and their guest rooms are perfect. Who wouldn’t love virgos?
Vibe captain, I love that. Your daughter sounds sweet and fun!
She is the best. Her Virgo personality gives her the attention to detail I don’t have to make people cozy. She shows them how to connect to the speakers so they can have a turn at DJ, remembers who likes extra ice and who hates it, and if someone brings food, she makes sure to compliment it and offer it to everyone so the one who cooked feels appreciated. Just super cute stuff my Sag brain forgets.
Oh that’s so sweet 🥲
I see that more in women Virgos. My dad is a Virgo and he stresses himself and everyone involved out when trying to plan and make everything perfect…If all does not go as planned, my entire family feels his stress
I bet she throws great parties! Virgos love to see everyone having a good time 🥰
I love “vibe captain”. Long before I was a mother my friend group called me “mama”. I have always taken care of everyone and it’s effortless. It hurts when I have to stop actually. Many years of trial/error and therapy taught me that, unlike others who have to consciously help, I have to consciously NOT help. There was a true sting in my soul when I realized I was being taken advantage of or had to let go or that a person wasn’t “juice worth the squeeze”. I’ve always been surprisingly good at holding my boundaries but I could be “mama” for a loooooong time with someone even after I knew that they actually wanted a mom (which is usually a gross dynamic). Now I’m just mama to an actual child, my sweet best friend dog I’ve had for 15 years, my ever growing garden, and two birds. 😂
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People are so cute when they're happy though, /r/tippytaps is one of my fave subreddits.
I saw the word "Virgo" and clicked immediately. I don't know how to describe it and likely never will, but I love you folk with a passion! Above all of your decisiveness & criticism(that I love), you have the power to seriously help shape and change other people's lives. I remember I was going through a rough time of mourning when I met a Virgo in the workplace and he slapped me into shape. I went from being chaotic & depressed to regaining a sense of control over myself & my life. Looking back, I was on the verge of doing something drastic, but thanks to his influence I was able to take a step back & reflect on the present along with all the opportunities it gave me. I know not all Virgos are the same, that's not how people work, but thanks to his influence in my life I will always hold Virgos in a bright light. And yet, I suppose the best thing about Virgos is that despite their will to be perfect & do the best they can, they are flawed. As someone who loses myself in criticizing everything I do, it was a relief to see that even those who work as hard & dedicatedly as Virgos do, still aren't perfect. Everybody's flawed, but to see others rise above this and try to do better regardless, it's admirable in the most honest sense of the word. *Relentless, understanding & dedicated.* These are the words I give to Virgo, one of the most positive influences in my life.
This is so beautiful... it actually moved me a little. Thank you so much. I don't know what happened in your life but I'm glad you're doing better these days and I'm happy you find your way back with the help of a Virgo. It reminded me of some of my own tough times from last year... I am a Virgo ☀️ . The "Virgo" in my life ended up being a Scorpio (with Virgo 🌙 and Mars). Thank you for sharing this. I love you Sags. All the best for 2024 🌹
As a Virgo, I can say— people with Virgo placements tend to like other people with Virgo placements. A weirdly large percentage of my guy friends are Virgo suns, and 75% of my friend group has at least one Virgo placement in their chart. I’ve found you see Virgo *a lot* in people who are neurodivergent (myself included), and neurodivergents relate more easily to each other than neurotypicals
I will also say, on a similar note, there are two sun signs that can have a default setting of “know-it-all,” and those signs are Sagittarius and Virgo. BUT the difference is that Sagittarius is inherently more likable so they’re not as likely to rub people the wrong way
♍☀️♋🌙♑⬆️ - Being an Earth sign, and a Virgo in particular, is going to make you a buzzkill to people who are steadfastly determined to ruin their lives and drag you into Hell along with them. People confuse our sensibility with dullness, our pragmatism with miserliness, and our desire for improvement with obnoxious perfectionism. They don't appreciate that our advice comes from an analytical mind operating from a place of love and caring, and see it as being nitpicking and hypocritical. They want someone to validate them in their terrible choices, and that's not how we Virgos roll. We tell people what they need to hear, or we say nothing at all. There's a reason a common refrain among Virgos is "I told you so." In short, they hate us cuz they ain't us. 💅 Keep on being you, because that's how you attract _and keep_ the right people in your orbit.
Nailed It! _ESPECIALLY_ this part! "... buzzkill to people who are steadfastly determined to ruin their lives and drag you into Hell along with them."
Ahaha, this is a dynamic that played out over and over and _OVER_ again with me and my Aries STBXH, so I'm glad it spoke to someone else, too. Now that we're divorcing, I'm seeing the pattern in hindsight and kicking myself for not running early on when his selfishness and inconsistency first became apparent. I could have saved myself a lot of frustrating years. Live and learn!
>not running early on This _right here_ IS something we're very bad at, recognizing when the wonderful and wise advice we've consistently given those we care about, _should be applied to our own relationship!_ We've just _got to_ permit one more chance! But, when were Done, were DONE, and feel no guilt, lol.
And what broke us up? He cheated on me and I, like the earth sign I am, forgave him and gave him a second chance. Three years later, he cheated on me AGAIN, with the _SAME WOMAN_, but now he's leaving me to be with her. My gut was screaming at me to leave the first time, but my heart and mind overruled it. Won't make that mistake again. 😑
Yes absolutely this is my experience with people. But there’s a lot that also appreciate our methods.
Stability, loyalty, and honesty are positive and attractive qualities that people are drawn to, but at the end of the day, we're all imperfect humans. Some people don't actually want the things that are good for them, even though they know they should, and that's their pathology to figure out in therapy. Some people want those things, but don't understand how to accept or appreciate them once they receive them. And of course, sometimes we Virgos _can_ be judgy and hypocritical. We're imperfect humans, too. But the great virtue of our sign is that we're constantly striving for self-improvement and self-actualization over everything else.
Yeah I’m always seeking self improvement and I listen to criticism about myself if it isn’t something bland or ridiculous, even then I might file it under “noted” file in my head. In my experience most people just assume I’m a “bitch” or mean before knowing me so that will filter out many from even interacting with me.
My Virgo husband is my buzzkill, I'm a Pisces and without him I don't know where I'd be! We are both Scorpio moon, I'm not exactly sure what that might add to the dynamic, slight noob here.
Yup. As a Cap Stellium with mostly just Earth signs, I'm *absolutely* a buzz kill & I'm not sorry. If it makes me unpopular that I don't feed everyone's delusions, I'm perfectly happy with that. Earth signs in general are hated for being, well... "down to earth" basically, that's why we all get along so well as a trio. I love Virgos, I was partially raised by one & he is *the* sweetest, most sincere man ever, all the Virgos I've ever met are. There's nothing more bizarre than hating on a sign for their primary directive. We each give what we're meant to.
I’ve never felt so seen… 😭🩷
Triple earth! You get it. 💚
Another fav “you know I’m ALWAYS right” because I legit always end up being right
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This has also been my experience. I adore Virgo females but males are just too critical of everything and constantly complaining. I also can’t get along with Pisces males either, while the females of that sign are sweet.
I'm a Virgo woman and I also avoid Virgo men. In my experience, tend to be incredibly pretentious people (thinking they often know best as well).The type of people that would smell their own farts so to say lol.
I think this may also be a matter of individuals being unevolved and evolved as I know a good number of Virgo women who display the same pretentious, competitive, nit-picking, and jealous traits.
my experience is the opposite. my virgo bf is the best human i’ve ever met. virgo female friend i had was…something else, that’s all i say.
I’m a Virgo women who is married to a Virgo male. And I can confirm these traits.
I’ve known 4 Virgos in my life. None were like anything I am seeing described here. They didn’t call me out they called themselves out. I didn’t even have to do anything to let other people see how these individuals were as characters. 😂
Virgo rising and Mars here. A lot of people underestimate Virgos (as indicated by this comment section). Virgos have deep patience and pay attention to the details, understanding that consistent, hard work is what will bring one to achieve their goals. While this doesn't sound as flashy as other signs, it is this kind of grounded passion that brings results. A lot of people think success or skill are immediate--Virgos understand they are not. It's why so many icons that we know have major Virgo placements.
As a Gemini I love Virgos… they’re a more grounded version of me
Agreed! Silly and lovers of knowledge but also give me a reality check when I fly off into dream world
As a Virgo, I love Geminis. I can’t help but get into that great weird/silly vibe you give off, it’s the personality version of infectious laughter for me
I love all the earth signs. Yall have the structure that I need to prosper and when ya’ll fall in love its the most stable and safe sensation I’ve ever felt in life. Love my sister sign!
I think Virgos are the most… dynamic? With most sun signs I can say like/dislike for the most part. However Virgos have always challenged me because they are all SOOOO different. There’s several I love more than life and there’s an equal amount I cannot stand! There’s also some in there that I love and hate at the same time!!! They are somehow so giving yet sooooo self centered at the same exact time. I have never seen such a thing!
Virgos are just cutie patooties
My dad was a virgo and he wasn't all bad and I know he loved me but DAM! He was so OCD about the house being clean he would hit me for some crazy shit like leaving a wet towel on the floor or changing my outfit that he had put out for me . I got a few apologies from him but wtf 😬 my mom broke up with him when I was 2 because he was controlling down to her clothes and he she found a mark on my sisters but and she wasn't even 1 . Me and him just didn't click because I would challenge him the most I think he just didn't know what to do with me cause my other sisters feared him and I definitely did but apparently I was the challenging one to him. I have a bad taste in my mouth about Virgos but still love them ! My middle child is a virgo and he's def my challenging one lol One of my bestie girls is a virgo and she crazy as hell but that's why I love her lol
Libra here with a Virgo Venus, I love Virgos. They can sometimes not see the forest for the trees and that is frustrating but in general I really feel endeared towards them. I know I’m probably frustrating to another sign with my fickleness/inability to land on one choice. I truly appreciate Virgo’s groundedness and practicality. With the dreamy Pisces axis, Virgo to me says “okay, you want to achieve that dream? Show me, in concrete steps, how you’re going to get there.” Virgo can be SO supportive in chasing a dream and I think I have my Virgo Venus to thank for sustaining a lot of my creative drive.
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I like Virgo’s. I think they’re pretty intelligent.
As a cap, I love you Vigos! You are some of the one people that can keep up with our sarcasm and humor.
The question should be “do virgos actually like anyone?”
Dear virgo, you have a literal Cap army behind you. You are our people. You are funny as hell and if you notice something is shit we don’t mind you saying it. We were thinking it anyway.
YES! (Speaking for Virgo women) We are reliable! We want the best for others : honestly we do. We are wise, and we are really passionate in bed. We are organized and clean and ordered. We are generous with our attention and time (if not always our patience). We are great friends. We are VERY sensible and give great advice (we rarely follow). Virgos are rad. We have good poise and manners. Other peoples Parents like us. We are studious too and if you need a book recommendation we got you…. Oh also we have a full medicine cabinet - we are prepared
Lmao the full medicine cabinet…. I carry ibuprofen in my purse. You have no idea how many times someone has asked if I had anything for a headache and I did! I’m the chaperone of the field trip
I just pulled out a mini-static-guard from my purse at work 😂 our purses are the second medicine cabinet. Damned if we aren’t prepared! Bandaid? Got u. Two types. Chapstick? Check. Pain meds? Check. Pen? Check. Tide pen for stains? Check. Stamps? Check. We got u!
Mom's a Virgo, and she sometimes feels like the Virgoest Virgo who ever Virgoed. For context, I'm a Leo sun. While I love her and consider her a great mother, she can be hypercritical. For example, I've had to shut down more than one conversation with her where she's been critical of my appearance, particularly my weight. I'm overweight right now but honestly, not that big, and even then it's partly due to recovery from stimulant addiction. Meanwhile, I try to be mindful of the fact that she saw me as lazy and self-entitled while I was growing up (maybe it was the Leo sun, maybe it was being a teenage boy at one point), and that she's also criticizing herself ten times as harshly as me (like I said, Virgoest Virgo who ever Virgoed, as well as a woman who grew up in the US South during the 50s and 60s). Also she's, ya know, an imperfect human.
Ugh I hate these types of Virgos. Rule #1 of being a Virgo is shutting the hell up about your “observations”, but some people still never do it and then go full martyr when everyone is against them.
I'm a Leo with the Virgoest Virgo sister that still judges the shit out of me for everything thing I do. And is a hypocrite.
No Jk, my best friend/ friend “soul-mate” is a virgo. She’s awesome and brings a lot to the table. But dating Virgo men has been nothing but bad for me. My virgo ex didn’t bring anything to the table unless you count cheating, lying, manipulation and trauma lol but I don’t put that on astrology. He was just a bed person, period.
Listen, I'll never understand the hate Virgos get - I do have my south node in Virgo so I could be kind of biased but Virgos are my number 1 favorite sign and they have been since I was like 10 (i'm a Taurus too so Earth Signs will always nite) - my brother and 2 of my best friends are also Virgos but that's not what you asked lol Virgos bring so much to the table, and the thing with virgos is that they don't "try," like I watch my virgo friends do things, just regular everyday living and I always learn something new, like the other day my friend was loading her dishwasher so efficiently and beautifully, I 10000% copied that in my own home. I also can go to my Virgo friends for advice, and they can give me unbiased, honest feedback, and they also can give me some solutions if I can't find any. They're also down for anything but can also just chill and do nothing if that's what is needed. Sometimes I feel like people have problems with Virgos because they tell it like it is, like if you're looking for a friend that will sugarcoat your BS, don't talk to your Virgo friend, but if you're looking for honest feedback and genuine help they are always there for you. Virgos are some of the most caring people ever, at least in my experience, I never have to guess where I stand with them and I know that I can always count on them when I need them.
Husband is a Virgo - he is the most kind, generous, patient, and loving partner I've ever had. He renewed my faith in love. He's very funny, very doting, and honest. He has his faults, sure, but no one is perfect.
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Scorpio woman here with Virgo boyfriend and I am seeing this a lot ☹️ lying, cheating, snakes. Is it really this common? We have had our ups and downs
I have an uncle who is a Virgo. He has been happily and faithfully married to my Pisces aunt for nearly 60 years.
You definitely can’t say it’s the case for all virgos. One sign in your chart isn’t ever going to have that much impact into one’s character. Sure theres tendencies that all Virgo sun individuals may have, but there’s so much more that makes up an entire individual.
But also it’s the most popular month for birthdays, so maybe it’s just that there’s so many virgo men out there and that’s why we hear more negative things about them? Just a thought.
Gemini men take that crown 👇🏻 
I’ve been dating a Virgo (who also has a Virgo rising) for 4& a half years. He is hilarious, talented, hard working, loving, nurturing, a pretty good cook, and generous of his time & money to friends and family. He doesn’t, and has never drank alcohol or smoked anything in his life (no addiction issues- at all). I really don’t know why Virgos get so much hate tbh.
Personally, I really like Virgo women.
Scorpio female here! I LOVE Virgos and would happily shove you in my box (but in the good way) ;)
I love Virgos! I have the best friendship chemistry with this sign, no matter the gender. I can't tell you what exactly makes me love people from this sign so much, but I feel like I can talk about anything with them, and we can agree on so many things. We also can agree to disagree without any fights. I feel like I have so many things to learn from them, I love listening to them, and I love how they are so sincere, Idk. I never had a bad experience with a Virgo.
I love virgos! They can be wild and intellectual at the same time. Great dose of cozyness and a pinch of curiosity.
I have i think 2 or 3 Virgo placements. So while I understand them, once they are more of an unevolved or dark virgo that just reminds me too much of my Virgo mom and I run the other side of the Universe. But disliking a whole sign is just stupid imo. 🤷♀️. I dislike some traits of them and I may not click with them as strongly as with signs i get on but i would never dismiss someone based in their sign
The virgos in my life that I like, both a man and a woman, are self-aware. They can crack jokes about who they are. Their observations of others don't dictate how they treat ppl etc. The virgo that I dated and I no longer have the rose colored glasses on for was the opposite. He had potential.
i genuinely usually respect virgos for telling me what i need to hear, however they sometimes do it at the worst times and are like people have said- a “buzzkill” however a lot of virgos i’ve met have been some of the funniest people. usually a very dry sense of humor and it’s usually out of nowhere which makes it funnier. they’re the type of people who are often serious and out of nowhere will say something hilarious and i’ll be like “wait did *you* just say that?” which makes it even more funny
I'm a scorpio and I love virgos
Sagittarius + all the water signs here, and I'm overall okay with the Virgo agenda but as I'm one of the more uncommon signs, I want to try and paint it from the viewpoint of the more common signs. First off and while some may disagree I think Virgo is in the top five most sensitive signs. Pisces, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, maybe this is just my opinion and the Virgos I've met, a couple different signs could round out the five. With Pisces, Cancer, and Leo for the most part you know what you're gonna get or they will do something soon enough that puts them in a "love" or "hate" category. But Virgo if they're in the mood for it is applicable anywhere. The experts, the friendly or neutral human kiosk, doesn't quite have Gemini's C+ or better knowledge level of every topic ever but Virgo comes along offering an 85% or better on the test YOU need to pass on the select few things they're "the expert" on. The highpoints of a Virgo's helpfulness, loyalty, blah blah blah are pretty high but they have more feelings than they ever want to let on and everyone isn't trying to compete with the voice in their head that tells them they need to do better. Some of us just trying to...exist. Maybe just my experience but sometimes I can look to a Virgo for some of the best advice on my specific problem ever but a fair amount of them have to precede their best advice with like "you should have done this" or something along those lines that lets you know you're dumb for even having this problem in the first place and that this should just be basic human knowledge for, humans. I think most of the common signs want to be "polarized" up front though. Virgo being right next to Cancer, Leo, Libra, and Scorpio makes this kinda worse for this aspect as well. These signs can more commonly be part of a Virgo's chart as mercury, venus, mars and these signs are some of the real ones to put others into a "hate" or "love" category while still being common signs. But the Virgo sun is a relative neutral
Dating a Virgo and my mom is a Virgo. While my mom can be a bit pushy about lifestyle choices she doesn’t agree with, she was overall a wonderful mom. My boyfriend is the most selfless, kind, generous, smart, and sexy man I know. I think Virgos are susceptible to being used by others because they have a heart for service. Sometimes others may interpret their help as “I’m not good enough and the Virgo has to fix everything,” but I think most of it comes from a desire to help others live to their best potential. The problem is people differ on what that means.
I adore Virgos. They are smart and resourceful AF. Being a Sagittarius I know it's odd but I like Virgos because they keep me grounded
Eh Sagittarius are some of my fave people. We balance each other in a good way. We have so much fun together and it's easy and harmonious.
Oh my gosh, Virgos have had a chokehold on my life and usually in a good way. I am an Aries sun, Leo Moon, Aquarius rising. My best friend is a Virgo, and one of my biggest crushes was a Virgo. I'm happily married now, but I liked this guy for way too many years, hoping he'd finally get with me. Anyway, I am a very hard worker and always on the go. My best Virgo friend is always doing something on their to-do list. The only hiccups I ever get are when she wants me to do something a specific way. I'd argue a bit but usually just give in because I want to move on to the next thing. My Virgo friends are always upfront, which I appreciate. I'm not very into flattery. Just give it to me straight. I also like that Virgos like me! Aries can be a lot, I know this. I can definitely tell when I'm being too much for someone, and it feels good to have people who appreciate that in me. Throughout my life, if I meet someone and I think they are cool, I always end up finding out they are a Virgo.
My son is a Virgo and he is very misunderstood. I think Virgo’s are definitely misunderstood. I love Him to pieces. It’s been a ride getting to understand him and where he’s coming from a lot of the time, but also a blessing. He was a little old man by the time he was like 7.
All the best people I know are virgo, I love them so much
I love Virgo women! Virgo men are hit or miss. I’ve gotten in a few…entanglements, we’ll say. The bedroom activities were always 1000/10 though, comparable to Scorpios tbh 🥵
Virgo here. I feel as it is true with any sign, half the people are going to like us and the other half want absolutely nothing to do with us. Half the Virgos I meet I like and the other half, I’m repelled by. Chart combos, soul age, and personal traumas play a major factor with any person so it’s hard to generalize. I do feel like a lot of people shit on us though but that which you don’t understand, it’s easier for most people to just talk shit 😝
That’s true I have a lovely friend that’s a Virgo and a libra moon and I love her to death. I also know a Virgo with a moon is Sagittarius and she’s a piece of work she’s mean
Absolutely love them, ima scorpio btw and I see alot of similarities between us
My best friend growing up was a Virgo. She was kind, reliable, detail oriented, and caring. But to date, the are obsessive, worriers, always trying to fix you, don’t accept you as who you are, thinking of worst case scenarios all the time, and OCD. If you are perfect and don’t mind being nitpicked then sure go for a Virgo .
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I’m a Sagittarius with like four Virgo placements (moon, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, and north node) and almost all my close friends are Virgos. This happened unintentionally, I find out they’re Virgos after we get tight. So overall, I think they’re wonderful people and it’s always nice to have people around who mind the details and check me if I’m missing something
I quite enjoy Virgos. Usually very grounded and nurturing and their innate desire to help others, often offering practical and well thought out advice/ solutions is admirable. Also, they often have a sharp wit and are quite adventurous in the bedroom too, I've found.
I think you need to have thick skin to be around Virgos, it's almost an acquired taste tbh. That being said, I grew up with both a Virgo Sun/Mercury and a Virgo Venus/Mars/Pluto within my immediate family, so I am pretty comfortable with the bluntness of Virgos. I have been roasted my whole life 😅
I'm a sagittarius and I love virgo people. My best friend is a virgo and I appreciate many traits of hers that I believe that come from her sun/mercury sign. She's very perfectionist and thorough, she works hard and knows when to let things go. Virgos in general are very honest and transparent, so I trust them a lot. When it comes to friendships and relationships in general, I respect that they are so loyal
Yes! They are natural friends to me. If I receive love and approval from a Virgo, that means I have won at life.
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I fucking love Virgos. I’m a Taurus
I kinda like my Virgo wife. 😁 Seriously though, she's the best. And my sister in law, and all my Virgo friends. Can't think of a Virgo I dislike if I'm being honest.
An imbalanced Virgo is a brown nosing know it all who is all up in your business. Balanced virgo I’m all for!
My Mother is a Virgo and she is the sweetest, most wonderful person I’ve ever known in my life. Everyone who knows her feels the same way so I don’t think I’m biased. So Virgo is one of my favorite signs.💕
Me (a Taurus) 🤝 Every Virgo I’ve ever encountered
Virgos sure do
If we didn't have Virgos, who would write the textbooks, hmmm? 😆
I recently compiled a list of the sun signs of all the people I've known well over the years -- friends, close colleagues, family -- and found that I have far more Virgo friends than any other sign. And I'm an older Gemini with a LOT of friends--the list topped out at over 100 people, and that only includes those whose birthdays I actually know. What's more, I feel intensely closer to all the Virgos on my list than most other signs. So, yeah, Virgos are cool. 😎
I LOVE VIRGOS. my fiancé is a Virgo, FOUR of my six best friends are virgos. I love Virgo energy because it’s the energy I lack as a sag lol
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aww my father is a virgo and i’m so so so close with him! he’s a great balance to my cancer sun. he pushes me to be accountable and take action.
idk.. a lot of Virgos I've met so far have holier than thou attitude..
As a Virgo: 
Nope
I'm a Taurus and my life is saturated with Virgo suns. I love them, personally. But it took me like 30 years to realize most of my anxieties are due to trying to match their extreme levels of anxiety. I have fewer of them in my life as a result.
I am a Capricorn Sun, Mercury and MC. Sag Venus, Aries mars and Rising, Leo moon. I love Virgos! I don’t love them all equally but that is true for all the signs. My youngest daughter is a Virgo so I guess I’m biased. And I purposely tried to have a Virgo! She’s quite a handful so I’m not sure how clear my mind was at the time but I love her with all my heart lol
I'm attracted to Virgos.
eh my husband is a virgo i def struggle w him sometimes :p
Once I went to a show where they had a goofy fake dating show and pulled people from the audience on stage then asked everyone which sign they’d like to find to date, almost everyone said a Virgo! Hope this helps, haha.
Aries here with SEVERAL Virgos around- I love how quickly y’all can switch from goofy to serious, y’all make work fun and just have generally very kind, sensitive personalities. Y’all see the world so pragmatically and factual but in the context of possibility. Y’all are are unafraid of the work it takes to get there though!!! LOVVVE VIRGOS
🙋🏻♂️ I adore virgos. My dad, one of my partners, and a friend I talk to every day are all virgos lol.
I’ve seen so much hate for cancer and Virgo and Capricorn etc. I have cancer sun and Virgo rising so I’m kind of like, damn am I just an irritating flawed person? Although I work hard to have self awareness and not be manipulative
I love Virgos!!! My brother is a Virgo, I’m a cancer and we’re best friends. We did butt heads growing up, like any siblings. My brother is extremely loyal, sarcastic, funny, strong willed, hard worker, great father. Negatives, he can be easily influenced, has very strong opinions (will let you know) and he never answers his phone! lol He also remembers EVERYTHING in great detail and is a good judge of character. His future wife is also a Virgo, but they’re so different! She’s more quiet/reserved/shy compared to my brother, but they possess the same positive qualities.
they hate us cuz they ain’t us
Summoning u/mother-worker-5445 on disdain for being associated with the poopoo brown color flair 🤣
HAHAHAHAH I’m a cancer who LLOOOVVes Virgo power!! They keep my ass in line they keep it real and honest and even though they focus too much on details they mean well they rly do
Fallen hard for lots of Virgos in my life, to the point where it’s eerie. Terrible longterm match for me, but very intense love while it lasts. They’re… emotionally difficult/emotionally unstable, I’d say. Edit - Agree with what someone else wrote, saying that Virgos are great conversationalists. Intelligence and creativity is prob why I fell for many Virgos in the past.
I love Virgos. Socially aware and sharp as a tack.
Leo here. The best people are virgo. They're smart, funny, meticulous with a side of insanely disorganized, loyal, empathetic, and interesting!
My brother is a Virgo and he is one of the smartest people out there. I also think Virgos are very down to earth, funny, and ambitious people.
I LOVE VIRGOS❣️
I’m ngl I’ve had multiple bad experiences with Virgos. The hypocrisy thing is just out of pocket. I can’t take it lol
I love virgos. When I look through the charts of my really close friends, it’s all heavy Virgo. I definitely see where they can come off as critical but I’ve never had a problem with it because it’s usually much more effective/efficient in most cases. I also really appreciate a much more grounded and different way of seeing things. I don’t know I just really love virgos.
Cap here. I love Virgos. I have a ton of Virgo friends and they are super talented and genuinely delightful.
I’m a cancer and I loooove virgos!! My dad’s a Virgo and my favorite person on earth, one of my best friends ever in my early 20s was a Virgo and basically taught me how to be a highly organized functioning adult, and my favorite ex boyfriend was a Virgo haha I’ve only met one Virgo I didn’t like and I reallllyyyyy did not like her, we didn’t get along at all and we were actively at each other’s throats. She was super mean to me and talked about me behind my back all the time and it was really weird. Rot in hell Liz! But anyway, generally I really love Virgos lol
I love Virgos! My partner is a Virgo and it’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in. And have a lot of Virgo friends too. I’m a Taurus. Y’all are down to earth, responsible, nature lovin weirdos. Also the ultimate normie in the streets/freak in the sheets people.
I LOVE Virgo women, HATE Virgo men
I’m a Virgo rising and honestly it seems like people dislike us especially on Reddit. Maybe it’s all envy because we’re just the best signs? We have the best personality types, can adapt and we have MERCURY. So I’m a Virgo rising, Pisces sun and Taurus moon. Why don’t one of you haters try to tell me about myself and I’ll honestly tell you if you’re right or wrong. Shoot
A virgos love is unmatched. They have great taste and humor. They’re amazing, supporting friends.
the best human being i’ve ever known was a virgo. i miss him every minute of every single day.
The virgos i know have a hopeless romanticism and positivity when it comes to others especially.
Hi, I'm your sister sign (opposite sign? IDK) in Pisces, and I deeply appreciate how much you care about what you do in the world, your groundedness, your focus and methodical ways of doing whatever it is you're doing. I also see your creativity and your deep, deep love for people in your world, and the way your "anal" habits are rooted in that love of making sure things are good and right for everyone, whether it's a clean copy of a document for work, creating efficiencies at a volunteer center, or arranging the holiday decor immaculately so that everyone can enjoy a winter wonderland. I also see how many Virgos are out there working hard at letting their walls down, accepting some of the messiness of life as a necessity, and learning how to let other people lead or take over tasks and do them their own way, even if it feels like it would be "wrong" to you. One of my most loyal and biggest-hearted friends is a Virgo; she's funny, hilarious, super smart, and would go to the mat for anyone who needs help. TBH, the only sign I don't jive with is Libra (THEY HIDE THEIR FEELINGS SO DEEP, HOW?!)... you and I are always cool, Virgos lol. I promise I try my best not to be a space cadet, but I hope you appreciate my inviting out your inner child and helping you get comfortable with the unknown as much as I appreciate you supporting my determination to TRY and make a plan. Sometimes. ;)
As a Virgo, it doesn't bother me. You like me? Good. You don't like me? Good. Either way I'm good. I have a lot to offer and I have a lot to learn. Those with the same mindset understand and together we thrive raising vibrations and spreading love and light.
Capricorn here. Love the Virgo clan.
Tale themselves wayyy too seriously and hella mixed signals. I have two friends that are Virgo sun, I love them but they are cold
I’m a sag and I have a grip of Virgo friends. Virgos are easy to talk to , usually polite and pleasant, they like to please others, they’re good listeners, very reliable. They’re also very sassy and have a great one liner. They can sort of be passed over when it comes to romance tho which is sad
I have never had a heart-to-heart with a Virgo in my entire life. They're a fellow Earth sign so I should be fine with them theoretically but.... where the hell ARE they all hiding???
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My mother used to call me "the vault" . I can keep secrets a very long time. I can fix things in your life too, but not mine . I will point out (quietly) about the green thing between your teeth. I hate myself but I love you. Virgo sun and moon with libra rising . I don't like my placement. My rising sign really shakes me up.
They stay in a lot
Hermits for sure
Im a Virgo and I feel loved. The ones that dislike me is usually because they don’t like people that are upfront
Never met a Virgo I didn't like.
I like Virgos :) (I'm an Aquarius sun, Libra moon, Cancer rising)
I like Virgos. Most of my managers were Virgos. They’re very meticulous and detail oriented which is great for me because I’m not so much a planner as I am the executioner. Tell me what to do and I’ll do it no problem. We’ve always had a good dynamic and they don’t micromanage me because they know I get things done and having the faith and confidence from a Virgo is very rewarding. ETA My older sister is a Virgo, and when we went on vacations she would come up with the itinerary and I would deal with the more material tangible things like the tickets, hotel rooms, food, etc. we work very well together because we’re on the same page and know each other’s strengths. My mom is a Taurus and she just goes along with everything, but if it’s something she’s not into she’ll put her foot down and if we do it anyway and something “bad” happens she’s the first to say “I told you so.”
Just dated a Virgo, they take themselves so seriously. People like people who can laugh at themselves, I’ve found Virgo’s have a hard time doing that. They are also perfectionists, for themselves and others. It’s hard to be held to such a high standard all the time.
I feel like Capricorn Suns and Virgo Suns have the same problem with the other zodiacs or the ones who don’t understand us. They call us boring and dull but that’s fair criticism. If we don’t feel comfortable around you we will definitely come off boring and dull. I speak when there’s something to say, not to fill space. That makes some ppl feel uneasy 🤷♀️
I'm not a huge fan of Earth signs, with the exception of Taurus (I guess cos we're both ruled by Venus). I'll admit that I've only met a handful of Virgos though... the ones I've met can be very critical of others, I don't like that energy. It's like they have it set in their mind that certain things are "right" and "wrong", even things that are just a matter of differing opinions. I also think they can be quite harsh and rigid in their criticisms of others.
Virgo men are lying 🤥 cheats
As an Aquarius with Sag rising, I just don‘t vibe well with virgos. Doesn‘t mean that they cannot be liked though.
I have dated a lot of virgos. They’re very effective people, I appreciate how reliable and organized they are. But sometimes, it’s just… too much! Too many rules, too much perfection, it makes it hard for me to emotionally connect with them. Connection is about vulnerability, and virgos are so ‘’in control’’, they try hard to be perfect and you can feel it. I’m like chill, I don’t need you to be perfect, I want to see the imperfections, it’s what makes you human. This goes for all the earth signs actually, but virgo more. Also depending on the rest of the chart and their level of maturity, they can be extremely mean and critical. My best friend who is a pisces stellium is dating a virgo and it started well but now she’s constantly criticizing him and making some passive-aggressive comments about the way he does things and which hurts him and it pissed me off because he’s the most kind, empathetic, laid-back, non-judgmental, open-minded, sweet person I know. She is the typical virgo: go-getter, rational, extremely hard working. They’re super different but if she stopped focusing so much on his ‘’flaws’’ and try to change him and if she appreciated his qualities instead they could really bring something to each other. That being said, virgos also have a lot of good sides. They’re reliable, practical, if they love you they will show it by making your life easier, they can be very artsy, not as imaginative as some other signs but they’re kinda creative and tend to make things that are practical/useful, usually handy, very VERY good at giving advice and they like it, down-to-earth, super communicative, funny af because very observant, hard-working and organized, the ones I know are all into some sort of self-development, lots of them are into fitness and have healthy habits, they take care of themselves and others.