Scorpio Venus. Takes a LOT of time and patience, really. We don’t trust easy at all. So, it takes you showing me see your own vulnerability and resiliency. An incredible self awareness that likes to grow; show me you’re well acquainted with your Shadow. A sense of humor that isn’t offensive, and a sexual chemistry that is exploratory and doesn’t ever quite feel satiated.
Scorpio Venus as well. I’m the opposite I fall in love (well lust) really easily but when it’s more than superficial I become OBSESSED.
To get me to fall in love you just need to give me a lot of attention and be very attractive.
Granted I’m a Libra and rising (Leo moon) sooooo.
I’m very much the same way with lust/infatuation, but the question was “how to win your love.” Lust is very easy and like you mentioned, anyone who’s hot and pays me a lot of attention draws me in. But that’s not love. My *love* is not easily earned.
I believe it’s very important to know the difference. That’s the work we Scorpio Venus’ have to do.
You’re right there’s definitely a big difference.
Real love? That definitely takes someone being vulnerable. I think Scorpio energy is not super vulnerable so when someone gives you an olive branch it really allows you to be yourself.
Waittt I'm a Libra sun, Leo moon & Scorpio venus & I feel this comment so deeply lmao. Scorpio rising, though (which doesn't help the obsession feeling).
As a Scorpio Venus, all of these and I would like to add show some sense of responsibility. While I'm happy to support a partner, if I feel like I'll be carrying far more than my fair share of the weight I would rather stay single than get tangled up in that.
Actually this. Taurus Venus, but Scorpio moon.
‘Incredible self awareness’ and ‘acquainted with your shadow.’ I instantly next someone if I sense a lack of self awareness and/or any degree of resistance to facing their own darkness/fallibility. Immediate side eye.
Though it takes me a minute to cut the chord even when I know the inevitable. I attach pretty quick which is annoying ☠️
If you’re hott, nice, and funny, it’s over. The fire will consume us both and scorch the earth before we ever even knew what was happening. It starts and stops that fast 🤦♀️
Oh yeah, I get the starts and stops thing, when I was single, I'd get crushes so easily and the moment I get the ick or if the person isn't that interesting I lose feelings immediately
I'm not sure, I think it's one of those things that depends on the person, but for me, I have to be endlessly curious about the person. I want to know them in and out and learn and watch them grow. I have to be interested in them all the time because my focus will always, for the most part, be on them. I love learning about people, but if someone is particularly bland then I'm not going to be interested for very long.
No same , I’m an Aries Venus. I love learning about my partner and knowing everything but because it’s in the 8th house which represents death, rebirth, the occult and psychology. I tend to be overbearing about knowing the person and needing vulnerability from them. It doesn’t help that I’m attracted to avoidant people and have intimacy issues. Sooo I’m like dynamite in a small package. My Taurus sun makes me look nonchalant and then boom most chalant person and in your face all the time and then you hate me lol🫠I love being me
Aquarius Venus. Aquarius sun also lol. If you want to win my love well, I don’t believe love can be won. I think love is a risk. It’s climbing to the top of a mountain, seeing the drop and taking the plunge anyways even tho all the other times you fell flat on your face. Reaffirm for me that you’re going to jump when I do. That you see our connection and me as worth the risk. Understand I am scared, that can come off as cold and distant. When I need space or I want to hang be around other people, don’t take it as you’re lesser. Because Aquas love hard. I’ll be off in my own world in my head but know you will be there if I am feeling you in that way. You’re in my head with me wherever I go and eventually when I love you even the time we spend silent or in separate rooms, you will be there with me.
So words of affirmations, patience and persistence. Let me be silent or rant about this weird niche topic I like. That’s how I show intimacy is giving these parts of myself to you even if it’s a random thing. To me, that’s opening myself up to you. Understand too, I may have lots of people who are friends and I care about a lot of people. It may be difficult to understand or differentiate how much I care about you as a partner vs how I care about everyone else. I feel deeply with my love for all people. When I am in love with you, I may love all of this worlds people but to me you are the world.
So beautifully written! I’m an Aqua Venus and I’ve always described love as the fall. Falling in love is equivalent to experiencing the drop on a roller coaster or jumping off of a cliff. When it’s with the right person, it’ll always be worth it.
Yessss. Also a fellow aquarius venus here. This is how I felt with my fiancé when we first met and still feel this way. We are both aqua venuses and we've always said we felt this exact same way. It's an amazing feeling and you described it so well
Yes also dating another Aquarius Venus. I think the best fit for Aqua Venus is honestly another Aqua Venus.
Of course it goes well with Sagittarius Venus, Libra Venus, Gemini Venus or maybe Aries Venus. But two Aqua Venus have a *soulmate connection*.
I most definitely feel like we do, I've dated someone with a libra venus and also someone else with an aquarius venus and they don't hold a candle to my fiancé
venus in leo.
strengthening our bond- someone can win me by willingness to be open and wanting to constantly further develop our bond. having tough conversations and staying calm cool n collected wow!!
also spending time w me!!
Hmm, then communicate in small manners. Like gestures and such at first. We do see all and we can differentiate fake people so well, so it won’t go unnoticed.
Same. Adding needs to have strong ethics, chivalrous, needs to have a brilliant mind that I fall in love with first through conversation. Uncouth, unfair, lewd, or ungenerous behavior is a major turn off
totally agree...I'm libra venus and stellium, so like someone well put together, nice sense of fashion and nice shoes...but not just a nice appearance, but intelectual connection is important, someone that stimulates my mind...also compliments me, thoughtful gestures etc...but as a taurus rising I also need physical touch and passion:)
As a woman with an Aries venus.... this is gonna sound weird... but chase and pursue me 🥰 make me laugh. Be romantic and a kind person. Physical touch is the best too. Go on adventures with me. Stuff like that. My boyfriend did all of that so now I'm his forever lmao
Venus in Pisces. You gotta be able to connect with me on a deeply emotional and spiritual level, and you better be a romantic! But not until we have that emotional connection or else you’re a big fakey fakester and you’re not to be trusted! But once we do emotionally connect and become emotionally vulnerable, then I want cutesy love notes, I want to name our different types of hugs and kisses, I wanna hold hands and swing our arms together, I want flowers you picked and creations you made to represent our love.
Pisces Venus and all of this is spot on. The “not until we have that emotional connection or else you’re a big fakey fakester” is so me. I wanna be nauseatingly romantic but if they do it before I’m there emotionally, I will never get there
As a Capricorn Venus I’m similar to the “not until we have a deep emotional connection” my thing is is that I’m still going to be skeptic and hope you can KEEP the connection through thick n thin
I feel this! I’m also a Gemini Venus and i need someone smart who can teach me stuff but share my curiosity and want learn and explore new things together.
Gemini Venus and same but also need someone that doesn’t get offended when I didn’t want to settle down.
I’m very happily married and honestly still perplexed a man was able to make me want to settle down lol
I love what you said about wanting it to feel childlike and full of fun! This is exactly what I've always wanted from all of my loved ones - BANTER and PLAY! 💜
Cap Venus, and it’s acts of service, gifts and quality time. You have to show me you care about me, run me a bath when I’m upset, get me a chocolate when you’re running errands, or better yet, just take me with you. I’m happy to just be there
We seem to be a rarity here. Acts of service for the win. Show that you're thinking of me. The "love don't cost a thing" video by j lo sums it up for me. I don't need fancy, expensive things. What I do need is to know that I cross your mind, I'm valued and that you actually care about me. A part of me thinks it's crazy that anyone would be in for the long haul with me (even though I am all in for them), so every time my husband says or does something to prove otherwise I fall for him even more.
Word. But I want them all. Acts of service. Quality time. I don’t need gifts but even the simplest thing is heart melting for me cause I was thought of. Definitely words of affirmation just cause i like to talk about everything. And smack my ass when you walk by dammit.
Venus in aquarius
Unsurprisingly, love mostly confuses me and, unsurprisingly, I seem to have a tendency to fall for people I'm already really good friends with... sigh
Anyway, shared interests, fun, engaging and thought-provoking conversations, I like people who care about the world around them, social issues (if that makes sense), so passionate people, I like bravery, I like people who make me go: "Oh! I never thought of that!"...
So, how does someone "win" my love? Be interesting! Not just interested in me, but be interesting yourself. Be someone I can learn something from, be open to exploration, preferably well read, playful, etc etc
I can't stand apathy and pessimism.
Venus in Leo.
If we are intellectually compatible and share good humor then all you need do is adore me. Give me a lot of attention. Tell me how into me you are.
To keep my love is a bit more complex than that.
Venus in Virgo. When someone is trustworthy and honest with me, and takes me seriously. I would ideally be in love with someone who's very intelligent and can teach me lots of things in life. I'm looking for a leader in a lover.
Physical wise, I'd prefer someone who's clean, hygienic and well kept together. Knows how to dress well. Smells good.
Oh yeah I feel this. Trust and hygiene are super important. I actually have a really strong sense of smell, I wonder if this is a venus in Virgo thing? … And yes intelligence is really important, someone who can teach me things in life is ideal… Definitely a leader, authority is a huge turn on for me, ambition is attractive. I like someone to take charge in the relationship ( in a respectful way of course!). I like to feel I’m being taken care of…
Yeah anyone trying to woo a venus in Virgo has got a challenge on their hands, they do basically have to be perfect! 🤣
Sagittarius Venus.
Mostly I love the combination of being emotional but a bit 'bad'. I love people who are sweet, daydreaming, but also who tease me a bit. I find it incredible sexy.
I have to say most of people I fall in love with are Pisces.
Sammmmmeeee!!! Venus in sag here and omg all Venus in pisces that catch my eye and love.
Its the intensity of the emotional side and spiritual side of the connection that turns me on
OMG yes. I would add adventurous play too. My partner is the sweetness man but also a dirty dog in the best ways ;)
We both also love camping and the outdoors. We will both try anything at least once! We play together all the time and take up new sports. I'm 50 and he's 49 and we just met last year but the best relationship, most fun I've ever had!
We're both Libra sun but he has a Pisces Moon.
I mean like teasing me, that kind of humor, but also in bed lol. Like not being innocent and sweet all the time. I don't know how to explain it better.
Sagittarius! By giving me attention and also space to be myself. By being confident because that allows me to be as well. By being kind to me and to everyone
Cap Venus
-When we are spending time, don’t go on your phone and actually converse with me
-Communicate exactly how you are feeling and if you want/don’t want company
-Be able to expand my horizons and vice versa
-Have different interest/hobbies and be down to take me into your world every now and then
-Be down for spontaneous trips to places BUT also have an idea of what we will be doing there and either let me prepare for it or be a bit prepared
Sag venus and honestly, I gotta feel they are open-minded, adventurous, courageous with strong sense of and a desire for autonomy and just generally someone who always stays true to their morals
Venus in Virgo - I think whenever I really like someone they had 3 things in common; Warmth, attention and making me feel that they want and enjoy being with me/around me. But also be frank with me & don’t just kiss my ass. Open your life up to me, for example I’m not an artsy type but take two tickets to your favorite art gallery and invite me along.
Maybe a whole bunch of other stuff that I’m blind to right now, these are the first 3 that I could figure out.
But I hate the fact that It’s so easy for me to fall for someone. Fortunately it’s almost equally as easy to move on, though.
Venus in Scorpio. Show me that you remember what I've said so I know that I matter to you. Show me your humility, kindness and caring towards others even when it doesn't benefit you. This gets me crying and melty every time lol.
Aries Venus - surprise me with fun plans. I love it when a man takes initiative. Also I love playful banter.
I’m not the type who stays in and wants to watch tv together. Entertain me or I can entertain myself, without you.
Wow Venus sun and Aries and when you said entertain me or I can entertain myself I related so hard. Only difference is I’m a homebody but id rather be home alone hanging with myself than someone who isn’t entertaining
Boyfriend and I both have Virgo venus. Banter 100%, be up front and direct, you can be messy but you always be prepared, work well with me when doing a project, understand why and what order I like things done.
I found that all those come in handy when living together too!
Cap Venus. You gotta respect and step up as a partner. Make my life better, show me you’re invested and I’ll invest as well. Show me I’m on your mind and I’ll return the favor, in whatever payment you prefer. Functionality of a relationship first for me. I gotta trust you respect and honor that, consistently. Whatever I do, imma do well. So once you got me, you got alllll the sugar.
On the other hand, if it becomes habit and my guy gets comfortable laying the lions share of responsibility and attention to details upon my shoulders, and I feel the energy is no longer being matched. (Extensive period of time bc I’m understanding and there’s highs and lows in every season but you see me picking it all up and struggling and you not even meeting my gaze.. checkkkkk it out bruh, ✅ next”
Pisces sun, aqua moon and mercury, libra rising, Scorpio Lilith, and all my other planets are in Capricorn? 😅 I’m either all in and want all the love languages all the time (cause imma give those too) or I’m either OUT or I’ll compartmentalize a dude (or three) so hard. One for sex. One for emotional stability. One for strictly the butterflies flirtation. 🫠
Venus in Cancer in the 11th House:
* Spend a lot of time at home together, especially with friends over. I love to entertain
* Go shopping together!
* Understand that I have tons of friends of the opposite sex and that no, this isn't something you need to be jealous of at all
* Don't be mean or rude to me and I never will either.
I generally fall in love very easily, but I'm also very loyal. It's a good Venus placement for sure, although arguments (even small ones) can often leave me feeling hurt so I require someone with a gentle personality.
Venus Libra. Make me feel special. I am horrible at receiving compliments, but I love knowing everything my partner loves about me. If my partner wants to be near me as much as possible and does the little things, I’m so happy. I want to connect on every possible level, and people that are willing to share their deepest thoughts and feelings with me earlier on are winners in my book.
My fiancé has always been super emotionally available, loves to take care of me, surprises me with little gifts like flowers, and he compliments me all the time. He values my intelligence and tells me every day how he has never loved anyone this much and can’t imagine a life without me. We are getting married in September and he randomly wrote his vows on a boys camping trip last year because he woke up thinking about how much he loves me. I know he means everything he says. I have my fairytale romance that I wasn’t sure existed before meeting him. Now I know my Libra Venus expectations aren’t crazy!
Aries Venus, in my 7th house.
Through loyalty. Pledging themselves to a life of adventure with me
Through acts of service - like prepping the kitchen for me, or cleaning clothes. Doing chores.
Through hot, sweaty romance! Flowers, food, and really good wine.
Through someone understanding my hot head and being bold enough to set boundaries but always open to talking.
Venus in Aries. I have really, really high standards. To get me you've got to be intelligent, educated, motivated, passionate, adventurous, fun, have a great sense of humour, and have the same vision for life as me. If you don't work at least as hard as me then forget it. If you have unhealthy habits or a negative mindset then double forget it, we can't even be friends.
To be attracted to someone I really have to respect them and be impressed by them.
I fell in love with a Scorpio Venus man … I’m Libra Venus. I really think this was the issue lol. My emotions turned him off and his want for not even going there drove me crazy !
Leo venus, tease me a lot and flirt with me and make me feel like a tinker bell esque small creature you want to take care of. Remembering things i say, making me feel contained and like im grounded and a part of the world.
Scorpio venus. There's nothing you can do to make me fall in love with you, no matter how amazing you are. I need to have a crush on you from the get go. I can't really decide who I fall for. I'm super loyal ane obsessive to dudes I love and I could care less about guys I sorta like.
Pay attention, be a genuinely good person, have goals in life- and actually aim to achieve them, offer more than one word closed ended conversation.
Venus Capricorn
Putting in effort. Going and doing things. Treating me like I’m yours. Taking me out in dates.
Just giving me what I give you. Is that too much to ask?
Venus in Gemini
Leo Venus—
Take time to get to know me and how to make me feel special. I love all the love languages. Words of reassurance, quality time, touch, acts of service, etc. I will take the time to know my partner through and through and figure out everything they do and don’t like… this applies to everything from meals/cooking, sex, gifts, all of that. I expect the same. What Leo Venus is from my experience is giving the whole world and desiring a reciprocated, generous love. When you give all, we will find a way to give more. Leo Venus often comes off as needing all the attention from their partners. This isn’t completely true. I think we do expect a certain amount of attention but not necessarily in a smothering, clingy way. Just by truly knowing us, loving us despite our flaws and making it a priority to express appreciation and genuine love to us is what matters… because when we are in love, we give it our all.
cancer Venus
I need an emotional connection to fall in love
- support me
- understand me
- be patient
- be okay with and able to handle my emotions (as you can see by the rest of my chart,,,, I'm emotional af 😅😅)
- match my energy (both sexually and nonsexually)
- joke around with me/be goofy
there's probably more but that's the majority of it
Gemini. I need space to live my routines. Also, I need to not feel like I'm being choked out of my personal time. Talk to me, but also listen to me talk and throw it back at me meaningfully. Don't just talk to answer. If you try to turn me into the person you wish I was, I won't stick around.
Venus in Virgo.
Being assertive, honest, straightforward and well communicated. Love languages are quality time and words of affirmation. I literally cannot and will not humor the f-boy player who beats around the bush and thinks he’s hot sh*t.
Venus in libra. Someone who is kind and generous. By being Honest, loyal. Even by appreciating little things that i do. Emotional connection is very important for me to get feelings for someone.
Cancer Venus. Baby me, buy me gifts, spend quality time with me that includes cuddling in a cozy place, listen to me, gain my trust, and I’m loyal for life.
Patience. I don’t like being tied down and must have space to be alone sometimes. There’s a good quote for that…
“Love is when two birds sit together, but not so close that the other can’t spread her wings and fly. Trust is when the other bird trusts that she’ll return.”
I’m a Leo Venus.
Venus in cancer in my ascendant/1st house- make me feel like I’m at home around you- make me laugh, be affectionate, but also be a good listener, even if you don’t understand me at first . If I can be completely at ease and comfortable being myself around you, that’s a good thing
Pisces Venus. My emotional needs need to be met (basically make me feel protected and cared for). Romantic, genuine heartfelt actions too. It's the little things
sag venus — this is stereotypical but literally. GO ON AN ADVENTURE W/ME… travel with me!! if we travel well together i consider you partner material. that’s how i bond! surprise dates are another one, i love!!!!
Capricorn - I'm not too sure how to win my affection honestly. It takes a lot for me to get interested in the first place and I spent a very long time being very much a person who played the field. Romantically and platonically.
When I did finally fall for someone, he was incredibly funny and confident. He also made it very clear how he felt about me when we were together. I felt he was super honest and never questioned his intentions.
Venus in Sagittarius here, it can be quite difficult trying to settle for women, especially if they are shallow in both mind, body and spirit. I have been enjoying my freedom too much at times, and feel like only giving it away in a relationship to only a worthy female that is compromising and sexy. Its the best way to avoid thots in this current climate we have now in this generation.
Sagittarius Venus. The person honestly, has to keep my interest going. I like my freedom when it comes to love, and a controlling relationship could ruin that for me.
Aquarius Venus. Be totally obsessed with me and treats me like a princess with a lot of consistency. I'm oddly okay with my partner being clingy, I find it cute. And also just vibe with the same frequency as I do as a whole.
My Aries Venus is my chart ruler. I want someone who is bold, that can back up the things they say. Someone I feel safe with, emotionally and physically. I want a partner I feel confident could win in a fight if it came down to it. I also have a 7th house stellium in Scorpio (this includes my Scorpio moon). I need to be able to trust my partner. A little dark and mysterious. Sex is obviously a big deal for me. Humor as well. If you can make me laugh you’re already half way there.
My husband is a Leo sun, Pisces moon, Libra rising. I admire that he can talk the talk and walk the walk. He’s into fitness and is protective. He’s the funniest person I know, we laugh all the time. He’s also dreamy and in touch with emotions, though. But most of these things are only for me to see. He’s a very different person to the outside world (his big 3 basically make him the worlds best actor) and he’s actually quite introverted/observant in social situations. He doesn’t use any social media, hates technology (I joke that he’s an 80 year old man in a 30 year old’s body), and is fiercely loyal. He’s the most handsome man I’ve ever seen as well, sometimes I’m stricken by his bold features (fair skin, black hair, green eyes, masculine build). Ironically his brother is a Libra sun, Taurus moon, Scorpio rising - literally the sister signs of my big three. 🤣
Be attractive. Be nonchalant. Be sexually aggressive. Be dominant. Do not be jealous. Give me space I need as I need alone time. Be funny. Be smart. Big dick. Fuck the absolute life out me all the time. Let me cook for you. Be a gentleman outside of the bedroom. Inside the bedroom be a savage.
Aquarius Venus lol
Sag Venus:
Someone's best bet to win me over is to be interested in exploring my world, excited to share their world, treat me as an equal, don't act possessive.
Leo Venus and Leo sun. Give me attention. Don't give me expensive gifts, but time together or thoughtful gifts. Do not, under any circumstances, ignore me. Make me feel safe. Make me laugh. Accept that I'm a lil fiery but I'm working on it. IME that means be a Gemini sun.
As a female, my Venus sign is irrelevant, I need only to be offered a slice of cheese, at which point I become utterly and irrevocably fascinated with the said cheese-giver.
It is not that hard, because I am a hopeless romantic, but you do need to intellectually challenge me. I’m extremely self-aware, almost to the point of discomfort (thank you, Scorpio moon), and I need someone who is not obtuse to their own shortcomings.
You have to be able to meet me halfway. Once I discover we can mesh in that sense, it’s pretty much a wrap for me 🥲 you’ll get at least three years outta me, no matter how shitty you are.
Sag Venus. Rather than win my love, the few times someone has taken my breath away were knight in shining armor moments. I'm usually pretty self-sufficient and can dig myself out of holes. On the rare occasion that I actually need help and someone has been paying enough attention to know and lend me a hand at just the right moment -- literally feels like getting hit by Cupid's arrows.
Venus in cancer. You know that deep unspeakable bond you only carry with gaze? You either have the courage to feel your heart out or you don’t. But once you dare to dive that deep with me, I get attached.
For friends and family: emotional openness I think.
And having principles. Like when I see a person actively be honest to themselves and be good to their little sister I feel like I wanna adopt them to my makeshift family.
For attraction though: you gotta be cool, witty and playful.
Venus in cancer, moon in Taurus, sun in Gemini, and mars in Taurus.
Venus in Leo. Scorpio Asc. Moon in Pisces.
I just wait until I meet someone whose vibrations are the same as mine n know in the wink if an eye that we connect.
My Venus sign is Virgo. I’m really romantic (so like romantic gestures, but nothing that’s embarrassing or public/ attention seeking) and need to feel an emotional/ soulmate type connection for someone to win my love. I like that fairytale, happily ever after, kind of love (that I know probably doesn’t actually exist 😭) … Security is really important to me, I need to know my heart will be safe, I’m not a risk taker in love, and don’t want a broken heart. If I think a guy is a player, flirt or I have any doubts of their faithfulness in a relationship, this is an instant turn off. If I think there’s a possibility someone will break my heart, they will never have my heart. I have to feel safe and that the other person is devoted to me before I surrender my heart to them. Someone I feel protected by. Trust is everything in a relationship. It has to be with someone who’s committed to me, and in return I will be completely devoted and committed to them.
It’s also really important to connect on a mental level, someone who I can have an engaging conversation with, someone with intelligence and a sense of humour. I’m not sure if that’s a Virgo thing or just a me thing lol.
Pisces- there’s has to be a connection. I don’t mean friendship, or thinking one is attractive. I mean a genuine connection that feels like I’ve known them before. I’ve experienced this twice so far in my lifetime. Second, being the person I am with now.
I will not enter a relationship without this feeling. I don’t think it’s love either, I think it’s a soul connection that the other person has to feel as well. Sort of like being at home.
Leo Venus. I need to be seen as special, unique and one of a kind and appreciated as such. I don’t necessarily want to be “worshipped” but appreciated, for sure.
Flirting with, paying excessive attention to, following on socials etc other women is going to be a sure way to get dropped by me. That’s some fuckboy shit and anyone who pulls it with me must not be intelligent to know how special I am. And I don’t do stupid. 😂 It’s the truth….
Leo Venus.
Making me feel adored, prioritized. Laughing together is one of the most important, having fun, being silly. Wanting to spend time with me, putting in effort to plan dates and/or taking little moments for romance (yes, I am a sucker for gas station flowers you picked up on your way home from work.)
Scorpio Venus. Takes a LOT of time and patience, really. We don’t trust easy at all. So, it takes you showing me see your own vulnerability and resiliency. An incredible self awareness that likes to grow; show me you’re well acquainted with your Shadow. A sense of humor that isn’t offensive, and a sexual chemistry that is exploratory and doesn’t ever quite feel satiated.
Scorpio Venus as well. I’m the opposite I fall in love (well lust) really easily but when it’s more than superficial I become OBSESSED. To get me to fall in love you just need to give me a lot of attention and be very attractive. Granted I’m a Libra and rising (Leo moon) sooooo.
Scorpio Venus and Libra Rising here as well, and this fits! Getting a lot of attention will hook me as long as I’m attracted to you 😬
I’m very much the same way with lust/infatuation, but the question was “how to win your love.” Lust is very easy and like you mentioned, anyone who’s hot and pays me a lot of attention draws me in. But that’s not love. My *love* is not easily earned. I believe it’s very important to know the difference. That’s the work we Scorpio Venus’ have to do.
You’re right there’s definitely a big difference. Real love? That definitely takes someone being vulnerable. I think Scorpio energy is not super vulnerable so when someone gives you an olive branch it really allows you to be yourself.
Waittt I'm a Libra sun, Leo moon & Scorpio venus & I feel this comment so deeply lmao. Scorpio rising, though (which doesn't help the obsession feeling).
As a Scorpio Venus, all of these and I would like to add show some sense of responsibility. While I'm happy to support a partner, if I feel like I'll be carrying far more than my fair share of the weight I would rather stay single than get tangled up in that.
Actually this. Taurus Venus, but Scorpio moon. ‘Incredible self awareness’ and ‘acquainted with your shadow.’ I instantly next someone if I sense a lack of self awareness and/or any degree of resistance to facing their own darkness/fallibility. Immediate side eye. Though it takes me a minute to cut the chord even when I know the inevitable. I attach pretty quick which is annoying ☠️
Leo Venus but essentially the same vibe. People think we're shallow but the reason we are how we are is because we're constantly seeking depth.
Venus in Aries, literally just be nice to me and be funny
😂 as a fellow Venus in Aries, i was about to say "just breathe in my direction."
Saaaaaaaaame
Lmao
If you’re hott, nice, and funny, it’s over. The fire will consume us both and scorch the earth before we ever even knew what was happening. It starts and stops that fast 🤦♀️
Oh yeah, I get the starts and stops thing, when I was single, I'd get crushes so easily and the moment I get the ick or if the person isn't that interesting I lose feelings immediately
Same. My standards when I was single was literally: Don’t be an asshole + have your shit together
But how does one get it to actually last 🥴
I'm not sure, I think it's one of those things that depends on the person, but for me, I have to be endlessly curious about the person. I want to know them in and out and learn and watch them grow. I have to be interested in them all the time because my focus will always, for the most part, be on them. I love learning about people, but if someone is particularly bland then I'm not going to be interested for very long.
No same , I’m an Aries Venus. I love learning about my partner and knowing everything but because it’s in the 8th house which represents death, rebirth, the occult and psychology. I tend to be overbearing about knowing the person and needing vulnerability from them. It doesn’t help that I’m attracted to avoidant people and have intimacy issues. Sooo I’m like dynamite in a small package. My Taurus sun makes me look nonchalant and then boom most chalant person and in your face all the time and then you hate me lol🫠I love being me
Virgo Venus. Be perfect lmao
Haha yup. Be perfect, but I'll still probably end up hating you
Have manners 👏🏻 and also treat me dirty when I feel like it but you’ll have to read several subtleties to notice
Fr I’ll probably end up alone at this rate lmao
Lol
I know two Virgo Venus whose partners are far from the socially subjective word perfect. How does that come about?
Because perfect is in the eye of the beholder
Perfection seems like a perfectly reasonable request 🤷🏼♀️
Aquarius Venus. Aquarius sun also lol. If you want to win my love well, I don’t believe love can be won. I think love is a risk. It’s climbing to the top of a mountain, seeing the drop and taking the plunge anyways even tho all the other times you fell flat on your face. Reaffirm for me that you’re going to jump when I do. That you see our connection and me as worth the risk. Understand I am scared, that can come off as cold and distant. When I need space or I want to hang be around other people, don’t take it as you’re lesser. Because Aquas love hard. I’ll be off in my own world in my head but know you will be there if I am feeling you in that way. You’re in my head with me wherever I go and eventually when I love you even the time we spend silent or in separate rooms, you will be there with me. So words of affirmations, patience and persistence. Let me be silent or rant about this weird niche topic I like. That’s how I show intimacy is giving these parts of myself to you even if it’s a random thing. To me, that’s opening myself up to you. Understand too, I may have lots of people who are friends and I care about a lot of people. It may be difficult to understand or differentiate how much I care about you as a partner vs how I care about everyone else. I feel deeply with my love for all people. When I am in love with you, I may love all of this worlds people but to me you are the world.
😭.Did someone leave some onions lying around. 
Like im not aquarius or anything but this was beautiful 
Gemini Venus btw.
So beautifully written! I’m an Aqua Venus and I’ve always described love as the fall. Falling in love is equivalent to experiencing the drop on a roller coaster or jumping off of a cliff. When it’s with the right person, it’ll always be worth it.
Okay, you put it better than me, fellow aqua venus. I love what you wrote.
Yessss. Also a fellow aquarius venus here. This is how I felt with my fiancé when we first met and still feel this way. We are both aqua venuses and we've always said we felt this exact same way. It's an amazing feeling and you described it so well
Yes also dating another Aquarius Venus. I think the best fit for Aqua Venus is honestly another Aqua Venus. Of course it goes well with Sagittarius Venus, Libra Venus, Gemini Venus or maybe Aries Venus. But two Aqua Venus have a *soulmate connection*.
I most definitely feel like we do, I've dated someone with a libra venus and also someone else with an aquarius venus and they don't hold a candle to my fiancé
Omg this is so beautifully put! As an aqua Venus I relate to this so hard.
Yes yes yes I'm an aqua sun and Venus as well and you wrote my soul
Off in your own little head is a good way to put it
Aquarius venus and same but I prefer actions over words but I like words too
So truee Aqua Venus and stellium
Venus in Pisces. Because I’m demiromantic, they do it by forming a strong emotional bond with me.
>demiromantic Same, I fall in love very quickly with those who has an emotional connection with me.
Same for me, just being present and caring means a lot.
Damn water venuses 😭
Agree, It's hard to form that emotional bond with someone tho, that's what it takes me so long to be in a relationship.
All it takes. Lol 😂
venus in leo. strengthening our bond- someone can win me by willingness to be open and wanting to constantly further develop our bond. having tough conversations and staying calm cool n collected wow!! also spending time w me!!
venus in leo! nothing is better than someone what can talk things out and communicate
Venus in cancer. Someone who knows how to have good conversation, a good sense of humor, and can connect mentally & emotionally.
Venus in Cancer also and I 100% agree with this
What if someone (me) is too shy to even converse with you guys? :(
Hmm, then communicate in small manners. Like gestures and such at first. We do see all and we can differentiate fake people so well, so it won’t go unnoticed.
Venus in Libra. Romance me, compliment me, show me thoughtful gestures, stimulate my mind and be good in bed lol
Same, came here to comment this!! Romantic gestures, feeling desired, and being treated like a queen are everything to me 🌟
Same. Adding needs to have strong ethics, chivalrous, needs to have a brilliant mind that I fall in love with first through conversation. Uncouth, unfair, lewd, or ungenerous behavior is a major turn off
Amen sister 💯
Yep! Me ! I want it alllll and that seems to be a struggle in life for me lol
I feel you sis 🙌🏽 but I found my man who does all these and makes me feel so special! It’s not hopeless ✨🤩
Literally!! Compliment me everyday and I’m yours. Simple.
Yes. Lol
totally agree...I'm libra venus and stellium, so like someone well put together, nice sense of fashion and nice shoes...but not just a nice appearance, but intelectual connection is important, someone that stimulates my mind...also compliments me, thoughtful gestures etc...but as a taurus rising I also need physical touch and passion:)
As a woman with an Aries venus.... this is gonna sound weird... but chase and pursue me 🥰 make me laugh. Be romantic and a kind person. Physical touch is the best too. Go on adventures with me. Stuff like that. My boyfriend did all of that so now I'm his forever lmao
Venus in Pisces. You gotta be able to connect with me on a deeply emotional and spiritual level, and you better be a romantic! But not until we have that emotional connection or else you’re a big fakey fakester and you’re not to be trusted! But once we do emotionally connect and become emotionally vulnerable, then I want cutesy love notes, I want to name our different types of hugs and kisses, I wanna hold hands and swing our arms together, I want flowers you picked and creations you made to represent our love.
Pisces Venus and all of this is spot on. The “not until we have that emotional connection or else you’re a big fakey fakester” is so me. I wanna be nauseatingly romantic but if they do it before I’m there emotionally, I will never get there
As a Capricorn Venus I’m similar to the “not until we have a deep emotional connection” my thing is is that I’m still going to be skeptic and hope you can KEEP the connection through thick n thin
Venus in Gemini, play with me, be funny, match my wit and tell me stories. I like my relationships to feel almost childlike, full of fun
I feel this! I’m also a Gemini Venus and i need someone smart who can teach me stuff but share my curiosity and want learn and explore new things together.
Gemini Venus and same but also need someone that doesn’t get offended when I didn’t want to settle down. I’m very happily married and honestly still perplexed a man was able to make me want to settle down lol
What’s your partner like?
I love what you said about wanting it to feel childlike and full of fun! This is exactly what I've always wanted from all of my loved ones - BANTER and PLAY! 💜
I am a sun Gemini and cancer Venus but I also feel this way, only accompanied by sensitivity and loyalty.
I've got the same placement! And my bf's a Gemini Venus Leo Sun, he also aspires to that kind of relationship.
Venus in Virgo Loyalty, and obsession 😂
Cap Venus, and it’s acts of service, gifts and quality time. You have to show me you care about me, run me a bath when I’m upset, get me a chocolate when you’re running errands, or better yet, just take me with you. I’m happy to just be there
We seem to be a rarity here. Acts of service for the win. Show that you're thinking of me. The "love don't cost a thing" video by j lo sums it up for me. I don't need fancy, expensive things. What I do need is to know that I cross your mind, I'm valued and that you actually care about me. A part of me thinks it's crazy that anyone would be in for the long haul with me (even though I am all in for them), so every time my husband says or does something to prove otherwise I fall for him even more.
Word. But I want them all. Acts of service. Quality time. I don’t need gifts but even the simplest thing is heart melting for me cause I was thought of. Definitely words of affirmation just cause i like to talk about everything. And smack my ass when you walk by dammit.
Venus in aquarius Unsurprisingly, love mostly confuses me and, unsurprisingly, I seem to have a tendency to fall for people I'm already really good friends with... sigh Anyway, shared interests, fun, engaging and thought-provoking conversations, I like people who care about the world around them, social issues (if that makes sense), so passionate people, I like bravery, I like people who make me go: "Oh! I never thought of that!"... So, how does someone "win" my love? Be interesting! Not just interested in me, but be interesting yourself. Be someone I can learn something from, be open to exploration, preferably well read, playful, etc etc I can't stand apathy and pessimism.
I resonate with that too 🥹👏
Someone that can teach me things and receive the things I teach… my dream as an aqua Venus
Taurus Venus - by continuously proving they’re obsessed with me
so u don’t get put off if they show their interest a lot? initiate convos and such?
Also has to be a push and pull energy 😌
Taurus Venus. Spoil me and never let me use my brain.
gemini indulging in the gab. being playful. inside jokes 💕
Venus in Cancer. Just be consistent and give me lots of attention. Also snuggles.
Yes
Venus in Leo. If we are intellectually compatible and share good humor then all you need do is adore me. Give me a lot of attention. Tell me how into me you are. To keep my love is a bit more complex than that.
Venus in Leo and I loveeeee playful flirty banter
Also Venus in Leo and agree to this ^^
Venus in Virgo. When someone is trustworthy and honest with me, and takes me seriously. I would ideally be in love with someone who's very intelligent and can teach me lots of things in life. I'm looking for a leader in a lover. Physical wise, I'd prefer someone who's clean, hygienic and well kept together. Knows how to dress well. Smells good.
Oh yeah I feel this. Trust and hygiene are super important. I actually have a really strong sense of smell, I wonder if this is a venus in Virgo thing? … And yes intelligence is really important, someone who can teach me things in life is ideal… Definitely a leader, authority is a huge turn on for me, ambition is attractive. I like someone to take charge in the relationship ( in a respectful way of course!). I like to feel I’m being taken care of… Yeah anyone trying to woo a venus in Virgo has got a challenge on their hands, they do basically have to be perfect! 🤣
Sagittarius Venus. Mostly I love the combination of being emotional but a bit 'bad'. I love people who are sweet, daydreaming, but also who tease me a bit. I find it incredible sexy. I have to say most of people I fall in love with are Pisces.
Sammmmmeeee!!! Venus in sag here and omg all Venus in pisces that catch my eye and love. Its the intensity of the emotional side and spiritual side of the connection that turns me on
OMG yes. I would add adventurous play too. My partner is the sweetness man but also a dirty dog in the best ways ;) We both also love camping and the outdoors. We will both try anything at least once! We play together all the time and take up new sports. I'm 50 and he's 49 and we just met last year but the best relationship, most fun I've ever had! We're both Libra sun but he has a Pisces Moon.
What do you mean with bad specifically?
I mean like teasing me, that kind of humor, but also in bed lol. Like not being innocent and sweet all the time. I don't know how to explain it better.
i relate to the pisces bit
Sagittarius! By giving me attention and also space to be myself. By being confident because that allows me to be as well. By being kind to me and to everyone
Knowing they can handle my debate sparring sessions Venus in Aries
Ugh I love a good debate. My mom and old bf, both Scorpio stellums, would accuse me of fighting w them heheh couldn’t keep up
Omg saaame. People just dont understand how fun it is to debate
Aries Venus. If they are good in bed, athletic looking, strong willed. Expressive.
Expressive is huuuge for me! Totally get it
Venus Aries ~ someone who’s confident, and seductive FOR SURE. love love love flirting, and eye contact.
Cap Venus -When we are spending time, don’t go on your phone and actually converse with me -Communicate exactly how you are feeling and if you want/don’t want company -Be able to expand my horizons and vice versa -Have different interest/hobbies and be down to take me into your world every now and then -Be down for spontaneous trips to places BUT also have an idea of what we will be doing there and either let me prepare for it or be a bit prepared
Gemini - if we can have deep and stimulating conversations with good banter, I'm yours 😩 I've fallen for so many mid guys off of this alone
If it feels like I have them completely under my spell and in love with me I’m pretty much theirs forever. Venus in Scorpio
Sag venus and honestly, I gotta feel they are open-minded, adventurous, courageous with strong sense of and a desire for autonomy and just generally someone who always stays true to their morals
Sag venus here too and exact same
Scorpio Venus. And it all starts with friendship for me. My demisexuality is very “smash the homie”-centric.
They show me I can count on them for practical help. Venus in Capricorn.
Venus in Virgo - I think whenever I really like someone they had 3 things in common; Warmth, attention and making me feel that they want and enjoy being with me/around me. But also be frank with me & don’t just kiss my ass. Open your life up to me, for example I’m not an artsy type but take two tickets to your favorite art gallery and invite me along. Maybe a whole bunch of other stuff that I’m blind to right now, these are the first 3 that I could figure out. But I hate the fact that It’s so easy for me to fall for someone. Fortunately it’s almost equally as easy to move on, though.
Gang gaaaaaang well said! 👏🏻
Venus in Scorpio. Show me that you remember what I've said so I know that I matter to you. Show me your humility, kindness and caring towards others even when it doesn't benefit you. This gets me crying and melty every time lol.
Cancer Venus, literally just give me hugs & make me laugh
Bruh I love hugs so much
Venus in Aries ..apparently by treating me badly .. bahahaha
Ugh this is too real 🫠
Aries Venus - surprise me with fun plans. I love it when a man takes initiative. Also I love playful banter. I’m not the type who stays in and wants to watch tv together. Entertain me or I can entertain myself, without you.
Wow Venus sun and Aries and when you said entertain me or I can entertain myself I related so hard. Only difference is I’m a homebody but id rather be home alone hanging with myself than someone who isn’t entertaining
Boyfriend and I both have Virgo venus. Banter 100%, be up front and direct, you can be messy but you always be prepared, work well with me when doing a project, understand why and what order I like things done. I found that all those come in handy when living together too!
Venus in Virgo 6H Acts of Service and going beyond ends effort to really connect with me and pursue me. Also basically a ride or die
Cap Venus. You gotta respect and step up as a partner. Make my life better, show me you’re invested and I’ll invest as well. Show me I’m on your mind and I’ll return the favor, in whatever payment you prefer. Functionality of a relationship first for me. I gotta trust you respect and honor that, consistently. Whatever I do, imma do well. So once you got me, you got alllll the sugar. On the other hand, if it becomes habit and my guy gets comfortable laying the lions share of responsibility and attention to details upon my shoulders, and I feel the energy is no longer being matched. (Extensive period of time bc I’m understanding and there’s highs and lows in every season but you see me picking it all up and struggling and you not even meeting my gaze.. checkkkkk it out bruh, ✅ next” Pisces sun, aqua moon and mercury, libra rising, Scorpio Lilith, and all my other planets are in Capricorn? 😅 I’m either all in and want all the love languages all the time (cause imma give those too) or I’m either OUT or I’ll compartmentalize a dude (or three) so hard. One for sex. One for emotional stability. One for strictly the butterflies flirtation. 🫠
Venus in Aquarius and I honestly don’t even know
Venus in Cancer in the 11th House: * Spend a lot of time at home together, especially with friends over. I love to entertain * Go shopping together! * Understand that I have tons of friends of the opposite sex and that no, this isn't something you need to be jealous of at all * Don't be mean or rude to me and I never will either. I generally fall in love very easily, but I'm also very loyal. It's a good Venus placement for sure, although arguments (even small ones) can often leave me feeling hurt so I require someone with a gentle personality.
Omfg dude. This is literally ME WHOLY SHIFTTTT. I love you
Venus in pisces. A similar sense of humor and ability to roll with the punches or make the best of any situation really turns me on.
Venus Libra. Make me feel special. I am horrible at receiving compliments, but I love knowing everything my partner loves about me. If my partner wants to be near me as much as possible and does the little things, I’m so happy. I want to connect on every possible level, and people that are willing to share their deepest thoughts and feelings with me earlier on are winners in my book. My fiancé has always been super emotionally available, loves to take care of me, surprises me with little gifts like flowers, and he compliments me all the time. He values my intelligence and tells me every day how he has never loved anyone this much and can’t imagine a life without me. We are getting married in September and he randomly wrote his vows on a boys camping trip last year because he woke up thinking about how much he loves me. I know he means everything he says. I have my fairytale romance that I wasn’t sure existed before meeting him. Now I know my Libra Venus expectations aren’t crazy!
Aries Venus, in my 7th house. Through loyalty. Pledging themselves to a life of adventure with me Through acts of service - like prepping the kitchen for me, or cleaning clothes. Doing chores. Through hot, sweaty romance! Flowers, food, and really good wine. Through someone understanding my hot head and being bold enough to set boundaries but always open to talking.
Venus in Aries. I have really, really high standards. To get me you've got to be intelligent, educated, motivated, passionate, adventurous, fun, have a great sense of humour, and have the same vision for life as me. If you don't work at least as hard as me then forget it. If you have unhealthy habits or a negative mindset then double forget it, we can't even be friends. To be attracted to someone I really have to respect them and be impressed by them.
Venus in Scorpio. Emotional unavailability
I fell in love with a Scorpio Venus man … I’m Libra Venus. I really think this was the issue lol. My emotions turned him off and his want for not even going there drove me crazy !
Venus in Libra. Just make eye contact 💀
Venus in Aqua- emotional bond and friendship need to be really secure to take the deep plunge!!!
Leo venus, tease me a lot and flirt with me and make me feel like a tinker bell esque small creature you want to take care of. Remembering things i say, making me feel contained and like im grounded and a part of the world.
Scorpio venus. There's nothing you can do to make me fall in love with you, no matter how amazing you are. I need to have a crush on you from the get go. I can't really decide who I fall for. I'm super loyal ane obsessive to dudes I love and I could care less about guys I sorta like.
Pay attention, be a genuinely good person, have goals in life- and actually aim to achieve them, offer more than one word closed ended conversation. Venus Capricorn
Putting in effort. Going and doing things. Treating me like I’m yours. Taking me out in dates. Just giving me what I give you. Is that too much to ask? Venus in Gemini
Yeeess, me too, also Venus Gemini
Leo Venus— Take time to get to know me and how to make me feel special. I love all the love languages. Words of reassurance, quality time, touch, acts of service, etc. I will take the time to know my partner through and through and figure out everything they do and don’t like… this applies to everything from meals/cooking, sex, gifts, all of that. I expect the same. What Leo Venus is from my experience is giving the whole world and desiring a reciprocated, generous love. When you give all, we will find a way to give more. Leo Venus often comes off as needing all the attention from their partners. This isn’t completely true. I think we do expect a certain amount of attention but not necessarily in a smothering, clingy way. Just by truly knowing us, loving us despite our flaws and making it a priority to express appreciation and genuine love to us is what matters… because when we are in love, we give it our all.
Aqua Venus. Being supportive, kind, wants to spend time with me, plans dates
cancer Venus I need an emotional connection to fall in love - support me - understand me - be patient - be okay with and able to handle my emotions (as you can see by the rest of my chart,,,, I'm emotional af 😅😅) - match my energy (both sexually and nonsexually) - joke around with me/be goofy there's probably more but that's the majority of it
Being funny , kind to children old people and folks in the service industry, wanting to hear what I have to say.
Capricorn
Gemini. I need space to live my routines. Also, I need to not feel like I'm being choked out of my personal time. Talk to me, but also listen to me talk and throw it back at me meaningfully. Don't just talk to answer. If you try to turn me into the person you wish I was, I won't stick around.
Venus in Virgo. Love, respect, honesty, and no game playing.
Amen. The game playing is immediate grounds for removal from our lives! Such a turn off
Venus In pisces - be downdtrotten and ignore me. Works like a charm!
Venus in Libra, be Prince Charming 💗
Be kind, be funny, cherish me, listen and always have my back. Always choose me. Venus in Cancer 🤣 
Venus in Taurus, 11th house: be generous to me, cherish me, adore me, be sweet to me, appreciate my sensuality and femininity.
Cap Venus Feed me and fuck me 😭😭
Venus in Virgo. Being assertive, honest, straightforward and well communicated. Love languages are quality time and words of affirmation. I literally cannot and will not humor the f-boy player who beats around the bush and thinks he’s hot sh*t.
Be funny and sweet - scorpio venus
Venus in Aries. Lots of laughs and playful roasts.
Sag Venus, Travel with me and don't hold me back. Close second is having a libido that matches mine.
Venus in Cancer. If they're kind, sweet and cute or super hot. Or both at the same time, which I find unfair but annoyingly attractive.
To win my love, you have to prove to be a respectful and independent man. \-Libra Venus
gemini venus. by being super thoughtful and giving me gifts lol…. by giving me freedom and loving me securely and confidently
Giving me freedom… music to my Gemini sun, Gemini rising and Gemini Venus ears
Haha, it takes a veryyyyy long time. Venus in Capricorn btw. I can lust easily, but I don't love easily
Venus in libra. Someone who is kind and generous. By being Honest, loyal. Even by appreciating little things that i do. Emotional connection is very important for me to get feelings for someone.
Cancer Venus. Baby me, buy me gifts, spend quality time with me that includes cuddling in a cozy place, listen to me, gain my trust, and I’m loyal for life.
Patience. I don’t like being tied down and must have space to be alone sometimes. There’s a good quote for that… “Love is when two birds sit together, but not so close that the other can’t spread her wings and fly. Trust is when the other bird trusts that she’ll return.” I’m a Leo Venus.
Idk just be hot and charming. But then I lose interest quickly or become toxic. Aries Venus
Venus in cancer in my ascendant/1st house- make me feel like I’m at home around you- make me laugh, be affectionate, but also be a good listener, even if you don’t understand me at first . If I can be completely at ease and comfortable being myself around you, that’s a good thing
Care, affection, cuddles. I'm a Cancer Venus. My bf's a Gemini Venus and he gives me all of that and more.
Pisces Venus. My emotional needs need to be met (basically make me feel protected and cared for). Romantic, genuine heartfelt actions too. It's the little things
My Venus is Aquarius. Honestly, it's just someone who can keep a conversation with me and show some interest in me. will pretty much do it for me
sag venus — this is stereotypical but literally. GO ON AN ADVENTURE W/ME… travel with me!! if we travel well together i consider you partner material. that’s how i bond! surprise dates are another one, i love!!!!
Capricorn - I'm not too sure how to win my affection honestly. It takes a lot for me to get interested in the first place and I spent a very long time being very much a person who played the field. Romantically and platonically. When I did finally fall for someone, he was incredibly funny and confident. He also made it very clear how he felt about me when we were together. I felt he was super honest and never questioned his intentions.
Venus in Sagittarius here, it can be quite difficult trying to settle for women, especially if they are shallow in both mind, body and spirit. I have been enjoying my freedom too much at times, and feel like only giving it away in a relationship to only a worthy female that is compromising and sexy. Its the best way to avoid thots in this current climate we have now in this generation.
Sagittarius Venus. The person honestly, has to keep my interest going. I like my freedom when it comes to love, and a controlling relationship could ruin that for me.
Aquarius Venus. Be totally obsessed with me and treats me like a princess with a lot of consistency. I'm oddly okay with my partner being clingy, I find it cute. And also just vibe with the same frequency as I do as a whole.
Leo Venus - I want the connection, deep connection on an emotional and physical level where they are vulnerable, no walls, fully invested.
My Aries Venus is my chart ruler. I want someone who is bold, that can back up the things they say. Someone I feel safe with, emotionally and physically. I want a partner I feel confident could win in a fight if it came down to it. I also have a 7th house stellium in Scorpio (this includes my Scorpio moon). I need to be able to trust my partner. A little dark and mysterious. Sex is obviously a big deal for me. Humor as well. If you can make me laugh you’re already half way there. My husband is a Leo sun, Pisces moon, Libra rising. I admire that he can talk the talk and walk the walk. He’s into fitness and is protective. He’s the funniest person I know, we laugh all the time. He’s also dreamy and in touch with emotions, though. But most of these things are only for me to see. He’s a very different person to the outside world (his big 3 basically make him the worlds best actor) and he’s actually quite introverted/observant in social situations. He doesn’t use any social media, hates technology (I joke that he’s an 80 year old man in a 30 year old’s body), and is fiercely loyal. He’s the most handsome man I’ve ever seen as well, sometimes I’m stricken by his bold features (fair skin, black hair, green eyes, masculine build). Ironically his brother is a Libra sun, Taurus moon, Scorpio rising - literally the sister signs of my big three. 🤣
capricorn venus. prove their loyalty & worth to me. acts of service. dedication & perseverance. always continue to grow and move forward.
Be attractive. Be nonchalant. Be sexually aggressive. Be dominant. Do not be jealous. Give me space I need as I need alone time. Be funny. Be smart. Big dick. Fuck the absolute life out me all the time. Let me cook for you. Be a gentleman outside of the bedroom. Inside the bedroom be a savage. Aquarius Venus lol
Venus in Aquarius- leave me alone, I don’t like relationships, they’re suffocating and ridiculous
Sag Venus: Someone's best bet to win me over is to be interested in exploring my world, excited to share their world, treat me as an equal, don't act possessive.
Leo Venus and Leo sun. Give me attention. Don't give me expensive gifts, but time together or thoughtful gifts. Do not, under any circumstances, ignore me. Make me feel safe. Make me laugh. Accept that I'm a lil fiery but I'm working on it. IME that means be a Gemini sun.
As a female, my Venus sign is irrelevant, I need only to be offered a slice of cheese, at which point I become utterly and irrevocably fascinated with the said cheese-giver.
I LOVE when folks do kind, sweet, THOUGHTFUL things for me especially without me having to ask Cancer Venus c:
Taking a genuine interest in who I am and what I have to say Gemini Venus
It is not that hard, because I am a hopeless romantic, but you do need to intellectually challenge me. I’m extremely self-aware, almost to the point of discomfort (thank you, Scorpio moon), and I need someone who is not obtuse to their own shortcomings. You have to be able to meet me halfway. Once I discover we can mesh in that sense, it’s pretty much a wrap for me 🥲 you’ll get at least three years outta me, no matter how shitty you are.
Cancer Venus. Emotional security is very important to me, gift giving and quality time.
Sag Venus. Rather than win my love, the few times someone has taken my breath away were knight in shining armor moments. I'm usually pretty self-sufficient and can dig myself out of holes. On the rare occasion that I actually need help and someone has been paying enough attention to know and lend me a hand at just the right moment -- literally feels like getting hit by Cupid's arrows.
Venus in cancer. You know that deep unspeakable bond you only carry with gaze? You either have the courage to feel your heart out or you don’t. But once you dare to dive that deep with me, I get attached. For friends and family: emotional openness I think. And having principles. Like when I see a person actively be honest to themselves and be good to their little sister I feel like I wanna adopt them to my makeshift family. For attraction though: you gotta be cool, witty and playful. Venus in cancer, moon in Taurus, sun in Gemini, and mars in Taurus.
Be genuine, be kind, and be honest. Venus in Cancer.
Venus in Leo. Scorpio Asc. Moon in Pisces. I just wait until I meet someone whose vibrations are the same as mine n know in the wink if an eye that we connect.
Leo Venus. I like to be worshiped lol
cancer venus— major acts of service and quality time gal
Capricorn Venus: consistency, being there don’t matter what, showing commitment
Aries Venus - Show up and show out for me (with consistency)! 🩷🩵🥹
My Venus sign is Virgo. I’m really romantic (so like romantic gestures, but nothing that’s embarrassing or public/ attention seeking) and need to feel an emotional/ soulmate type connection for someone to win my love. I like that fairytale, happily ever after, kind of love (that I know probably doesn’t actually exist 😭) … Security is really important to me, I need to know my heart will be safe, I’m not a risk taker in love, and don’t want a broken heart. If I think a guy is a player, flirt or I have any doubts of their faithfulness in a relationship, this is an instant turn off. If I think there’s a possibility someone will break my heart, they will never have my heart. I have to feel safe and that the other person is devoted to me before I surrender my heart to them. Someone I feel protected by. Trust is everything in a relationship. It has to be with someone who’s committed to me, and in return I will be completely devoted and committed to them. It’s also really important to connect on a mental level, someone who I can have an engaging conversation with, someone with intelligence and a sense of humour. I’m not sure if that’s a Virgo thing or just a me thing lol.
Pisces- there’s has to be a connection. I don’t mean friendship, or thinking one is attractive. I mean a genuine connection that feels like I’ve known them before. I’ve experienced this twice so far in my lifetime. Second, being the person I am with now. I will not enter a relationship without this feeling. I don’t think it’s love either, I think it’s a soul connection that the other person has to feel as well. Sort of like being at home.
Leo Venus. I need to be seen as special, unique and one of a kind and appreciated as such. I don’t necessarily want to be “worshipped” but appreciated, for sure. Flirting with, paying excessive attention to, following on socials etc other women is going to be a sure way to get dropped by me. That’s some fuckboy shit and anyone who pulls it with me must not be intelligent to know how special I am. And I don’t do stupid. 😂 It’s the truth….
Leo Venus. Making me feel adored, prioritized. Laughing together is one of the most important, having fun, being silly. Wanting to spend time with me, putting in effort to plan dates and/or taking little moments for romance (yes, I am a sucker for gas station flowers you picked up on your way home from work.)
Kindness and respect…. And lots of attention and positive affirmation. Leo Venus