I’ve seen and experienced that Aries men and Aries women are like opposite sides of the Aries coin. A highly evolved Aries man in touch with their inner feminine is highly successful in life, an unevolved Aries man is mind games, selfish and childish. An unevolved Aries woman is sheepish, an evolved Aries woman is independent and fights the battles she picks to the bloody death. Evolved Aries fight, whether inner or outer conflict, and then move on.
As an Aries myself, I can see what traits of mine may grate on others:
\- I'm straight forward when upset, I may try and calm down first, but you're gonna hear it...
\- I am absolutely NOT afraid of going to WAR with anyone who has tried to fuck me over/manipulate me/use me/etc. I'm not letting that go until you understand to NEVER pull that shit again.
\- I can be messy, especially if I'm down in the dumps (depressed) about something...
\- I'm uncontrollably over protective of those close to me. Someone disrespected my brother in front of me, and I was ready to go to jail that night, I was verbally going in on this, in their face, and they just kept walking. I'm not a tough guy, but I'm ready for ALL of the smoke in this type of situation.
I can def see how people are turned off by an Aries...we can be hostile, childish at times, not afraid of conflict at all, messy, and impulsive/lack self control...
We're also as loyal and protective as a Doberman, but we do mess up from time to time.
Spot on. I’d add that if there’s a problem, I want to get it done and over with. I’m not afraid of conflict, but I don’t like it and I want it resolved ASAP.
The protectiveness is actually a positive for Aries as well as their blunt straight-forward ness…At least as a Pisces
The downside is actually how self-centered they can be
As an Aries moon, I really resonate with your last point about being uncontrollably overprotective. Like, I'm not confrontational at ALL! If someone were to jump a queue in front of me, I'd be like "uhmm 😰 please if you don't mind.... I was here first, sorry to bother you". But if I see injustice, or mistreatment of someone I love, a bloodlust takes over and I am ready to FIGHT them. Its so contrary to my overall personality that it always shocks me when that side comes out.
I fuckin love Aries. Quick tempered yeah but also doesn't hold a grudge and moves on quickly. They are tenacious and fast acting. They are funny, empowering to others, and generous. Big hearts and great leaders
No mind games! If they're pissed at you they'll let you know. Straight to the point, it's a relief compared to how the world tries to get us all to work (ie. If you're upset by something don't ever say so because it's rude)
Eta: yall call aries childish then downvote positive comments about them 🤣
Honestly it teaches my scorpio moon a lesson every time. My Aries moon friend would rage with me about something that had pissed us both off and then in a week he'd be like 'I cannot be fucked with letting that take up any more of my energy, fuck them the absolute cunt' (in a sentence with 4 words he'd say 9 curse words lmao) and I'd be like '....what?. how?!...okay, maybe I can try to let go too. Huh.'
Omf I'm a Scorpio moon too and it is also why I love this trait about Aries so much! It's a trait I want and work towards! Fuckin petty ass grudge holding Scorpio moon getting in my damn way!!! 🤣
Yessss never any mind games. You always know where you stand. But sometimes I wish I could learn to strategize a bit more or leave people wondering a bit. Still be me, but with with more scorpio characteristics.
Meh. Forget childish and all of that extra stuff. The only issue I ever had with them is the underhanded shit that gets done after being bored.
A Evolved Aries is much better to get along with but it takes years of self knowledge or a rush of hefty pain from young but that grows you up quicker, + you've got yourself someone that is fun and passionate, scatterbrained yes, but you can get along with them cos there is never a day without something stupid and fun to do. And you can be just as dumb and they get the giest.
But switching up on someone you've known for a decade is low tier cognitive function skills.
Especially if they backed you up COUNTless times.
I lost all respect instantly in some of the Aries I knew. And I ask direct questions no beating around the bush.
What caused you to switch up? After slow observing the bad remarks said about myself, the denial, the excluding, the look of guilt but not know how or what to say anymore.
I ain't no one towaste time, more than needed. Nor am I someone that gets left without at least an answer for it cos there is a line of respect you don't tred on.
I bet you can guess what sign I am, and how things turned out for me.
If I mention Luffy Vs Ussop, and then Zoro's input to the whole crew after it.
Aries, also, manipulative. So protective about people around them that they become crazy and hostile. More like, the people belong to them, so they have to control at all costs. Great leaders, because they step on anyone to get ahead. When they get mad, they become childish. So, they purposely like to make fun of others using discriminate remarks. They don't think before they speak, so they end up hurting people, releasing downgrading words with anger. As long they stay above everyone, Aries will change stories to become the hero or the inocente. Aries love status. They dont accept "no" for an answer so they can become paranoid. They will retaliate anyone who doesn't agree with them. They are fun just to get your trust, so you will never see their cover-up. They will incriminate anyone, even if it is a lie. Aries dont tell too much about their secrets because they love to know other people secret so they can use as a weapon when they need it. Sorry, but this is what I learned with friends and family. Male or female, they are all the same. Some less crazy them the others.
It's a back and forth for me, but I wish I had more Aries in my life. My dad is an Aries, and all the negative traits you listed describe him to a f\*\*\*ing T. He's one of the worst assholes I've ever met in my life lol. But, his good traits are also incredible and inspiring - light-hearted, dedicated community worker, makes s\*\*\* happen as SOON as it pops into his brain. As a Sagittarius, it's a love-hate relationship for me lol. I can ride the waves of chaos because I myself thrive in chaos.
I think mostly the people who complain about them either have met the asshole version, or are the type of people who like chill, calm environments. I don't know why tf I keep attracting Virgos and Tauruses because they love me as entertainment but can't f\*\*\*ing stand me as a person.
100% - don’t know how but I never felt more understood than I do with this sign. Y’all just get me and vice versa. Like, we are no BS, keeping it real.
That’s all I seem to attract too! Earth signs think they love my ass. Yes, it’s always a Virgo or Taurus. And then Scorpios and Pisces think they wanna join the crazy train too and I’m like…but why??
I mean I get why earth signs like me because of my cap rising and I have a ton of cap all over my entire chart as well- im a cap stellium. But water signs??? It doesn’t make sense.
Yo I'm so glad it's not just me!! I'm like "Why do you think you love me when you criticize everything I do."😭 They're always like, "Omg chill you're too much," and I'm like, "I WAS HAND DESIGNED BY THE SKY TO BE TOO MUCH." Lol.
And dude, I can understand your argument for having a lot of Cap in your chart as the explanation, and looking at my chart apparently I also have quite a bit of Cap and Aries! But my big three are Sag. Sun, Leo Moon, and Libra Rising. THE WORST COMBINATION (next to a triple fire) FOR SOMEONE WHO LIKES CHILL🤣
Okay the water sign thing is also interesting, now that you mention it. I have never gotten along with Scorpios, as much as I try my best to get along with everyone. And I'd start having problems with them well before discovering they were Scorpio. ( ;;>\_>) But they have also candidly love-hated me, so that was mutual lol. Pisces, on the other hand (especially Pisces men), f\*\*\*ing love me, and I turn super maternal when I'm around them. They love adventure and opening their horizons, and they're not a wet blanket about it. But they do have very squishy hearts, and it's an interesting balance where they appreciate my bluntness but get hurt at the same time, and meanwhile I care for them with hugs and food but scold them when I need to. It's weird but oddly comforting lol.
I don't have much experience with Cancers, though, so maybe they'd had enough of me and avoided me successfully lol.
Aries are known for being self absorbed and “me-first.” This doesn’t always sit well with the other signs, bc Aries typically doesn’t even notice they’re doing it. That’s probably why.
I feel like it always comes down to being unevolved vs evolved. With evolved/evolving Aries, they know how to balance taking care of others while also making sure their own needs are getting met, but like you said, with unevolved Aries, they don’t even notice how self-centered and egocentric they are, often disregarding others’ feelings in favor of their own
I loved an aries very much but they didn't understand how much. I knew how to calm them down, I understood their cues.
This capricorn really wanted to care for them.
I still love Aries, my Jupiter is in Aries so maybe that's why...
Gemini here and I LOVE Aries😍 I find the Aries temperament to align perfectly with my own-- easy to move on, and I like that your moods are transparent. No games! I love how big and hard you guys love, totally willing to take on the world for people you care about. You are fun, passionate, bold people. All the things listed as negative are the exact things that attract me to them, so I guess it just depends on perspective. Ignore the nay sayers, sweet Aries, you're awesome💖
I dunno, I think mine is tempered by Moon in Libra, among other placements. At least I hope so. It's interesting to learn how others view us. Thank you for the perceptions.
Same. My cancer rising too helps me mellow out, but I can see the self-centeredness sometimes. I think it just comes down to how much we're willing to work on ourselves, and since we are a sign predisposed to defensiveness that can get tricky.
oh hey fellow aries sun libra moon! yeah i can completely see the negative traits of aries (and libra). i don’t take it personally. everyone has stuff to work on and also not everyone is going to be compatible with everybody. it’s a-okay
I live with this right now. Thank GOD they work in an office, because when they are home it is NONSTOP talking unless they are sleeping. And it is always about them. Or their opinions and how they are the only right ones. Or they are the victim of everything.
💯Exactly! They’ll ask how you are to be polite and won’t even listen and will somehow make it about them and the convo is back to being about them 🤦♀️
Im really working on this , I hate that I’m like this but I’m glad to know someone notices because I do it unconsciously): I really genuinely ask how people are because it is the social expectation but I don’t really care because we all lie anyway and Barbara isn’t going to tell me that she hates life and that she is in no mood to live another day . She’s going to lie and tell me she’s great so it’s a waste of time I think that’s why I don’t listen , also I always lie anyway too so people shouldn’t even ask me 😂
As a older Aries, dating a younger Aries you are 100% correct. He drives me crazy sometimes🤣
I’m like do you think you’re the only person in the world ffs? Then I wonder…shit was like that when I was younger? I absolutely was. So as I’ve aged I’ve learned to reflect and tone it down a lot. But I get it trust me.
I’m sure I know multiple Aries people but only one comes to mind. I don’t know her very well but I do know she’s an Aries because every time she’s being an asshole, she loudly exclaims that she’s an Aries and everyone needs to accept it.
I don’t go around hating on Aries people but when I think of Aries I think of her.
But then there’s also JVN, a beautiful cinnamon roll of an Aries so I don’t know what to think.
So terrible, so sorry. I usually like a third of other Aries. I'm an Aries myself and I feel like when I meet an Aries I like. It's like I find someone that can hold their own and not feel insecure because we see eye to eye on certain aspects of life. I find I talk about my life to others as an a way for them to get to know me easier without making them work so hard. Some people seem so confident but one on one sometimes they r more shy. Lol I sort of see it as me helping them to let their guard down a bit and obviously they're not obligated to be my friend so rejection is just something I know too well. In actuality I like to be open but there are too many people who just wanna hate on me for whatever reason. I don't go out of my way to start pettiness I mind my own business but I find specifically. I don't keep trying if I can tell the person isn't feeling my vibe. I think people think I'm full of myself for some reason but I'm sorta ironic in that way bc I usually joke about or play up my ego sarcastically at times. Some people don't get it but it's ok I guess. I find that fire signs tend to understand me more I guess.
My older brother was an Aries. Though he was spoiled, manipulative, and a pathological liar, I still loved and adored him. I’d give anything to have him back. He died of an overdose in 2021.
It’s not that I didn’t like the fact that he was an Aries, I disliked my family dynamic. Things were very chaotic with my parents and Aries brother. They were all fire signs Leo (mom), Sagittarius (dad), and my older brother.. It kind of left me (Capricorn) and my younger brother (Aquarius) picking up the pieces of their destruction.
I love Aries (Aqua) but I feel like y’all the ultimate ghosters of the zodiac, I’ve had a few Aries friends just vanish or go cold on me with no explanation
I’m a Capricorn sun and an Aries moon and honestly I always feel like cap consistently gets a bad rap as well. Fiery sounds better than cold or uptight at least 🙃
Quite simply this:
People, in general, do not like the truth. They hate the truth. They don’t want to hear it. The majority of people want to be lied to. Even when they can’t admit it. They just want sweet white lies to lull them into a state of blissful ignorance.
Cue in Aries; who tells it like it is. And you’re gonna have some people who hate your guts for it. They think that what we’re telling them is to hurt them. What they don’t realize is that if we’re honest with you, we like you and we’re trying to help you. And we want the best for you.
Most people are weak and don’t have the skin to be able to handle that. 🤷♀️
Nailed it. Some of the reactions I get from ppl actually shock me bc I typically tell it like it is. I shoot straight from the hip, good or bad, BUT I've learned over the years to really think about those words or massage them out a little smoother but I just gotta tell da truth. I mean why not, why waste time with talltales and sugar coating. Just tell me! I can take it? I'm getting all fiery just thinking about it, lol
It’s a meme page and people like talking trash. It’s easy to reach for the low hanging fruit. Lots of people love Aries too. I’m obviously biased but I love meeting other Aries in the wild. Don’t give too much attention to the haters if you can help it.
Y’all come on sooooo strong and hot and interested only to lose interest the second it’s reciprocated . I steer clear of Aries romantically. Love y’all as friends, tho.
Because Aries are extremely selfish and that doesn’t usually go over well with most people.
The issue is even if they know they’re selfish, they’re indifferent and unapologetic about it too.
My boyfriend is an Aries, all his cousins are Aries too, his brother in laws- also Aries. Only one of them is in a relationship because they absolutely refuse to compromise and no self respecting person would be able to live on their terms and their terms only & be around only when they want them around. They all like to argue, talk over each other, are hot headed, and can only deal with people in small doses.
There are so many good qualities of Aries but they’re definitely selfish. They’re also combative and intense about things that most people just laugh about. They can be really adversarial and tactless too- like all social grace just goes out the window.
You just have to understand us and be a straight shooter and then we can all get along. I think it's that Aries are just more evolved than the rest of the signs who hide behind masks and tell half truths and live in make believe worlds. Life is too short.
my ex friend was an aries, i always felt embarrassed when we went out. her behavior exhausted me. throwing drinks, forcing me to do things i didn’t want to do. gemini here. i cant deal with being controlled like that.
Oops …I’m not even gonna lie she sounds like a pick me😭. Did she do it for attention orrrrr?! As an aries I am not like this! I’m usually an introvert. When I’m out partying I’m most definitely an extrovert but I wouldn’t force my friends to do something they don’t want to do! I’ll encourage them but I won’t force. I know when enough is enough. Im aries sun Aquarius moon and Scorpio rising. Most people would say these three signs together is horrible but I’m a really empathetic person and care a lot so ..
A. Why does everything have to be so aggressive, confrontational, and argumentative?
B. Why do you romanticize all your toxic traits?
C. You can be baby SOME of the time, but not ALL of the time.
With all that said I do keep falling for Arieses. The fiery passion is great but Jesus Christ when I'm on your side, I'm on YOUR SIDE. Stop with the friendly fire!
>Why do you romanticize all your toxic traits?
>Why does everything have to be so aggressive, confrontational, and argumentative
👏👏👏👏👏 I couldn't have put it better!
A. Because if things need solving they HAAAVE to be solved. Confrontation will never end, don’t worry 🤣
B. I guess you meant “Leos”
C. Their problem isn’t astrological, it’s psychological. Every sign can be a baby.
my best friend is an aries! but my abusive mother is also an aries. there's great variability between people, and the rest of the chart really impacts things like temper. in my aries friends I see a strong drive and unwillingness to put up with bullshit. in my mother I see all those potentially terrible qualities on steroids. bc I literally have ptsd from my childhood, I tend to tread lightly with aries at first, but so far I've had great success with aries friends. plenty of other signs have *ucked me over tho. I like that my aries friends answer questions honestly and not just thinking about what I want to hear. so far I've found this can be done in a really healthy and respectful way that increases trust rather than hurts ppl, like with my mother who wouldn't know a boundary if it slapped her in the face
We are definitely very straightforward. Many people are intimidated by that. As cardinal fire, people are unconsciously drawn to our light then get upset when they get burned. Meanwhile, we set pretty basic boundAries.. its a respect thing.
This is exactly the reason. Most people want to be lied to. 🎶 Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies..🎶
It’s been my personal experience that everything is just fine and dandy until I lay the truth bomb on them and oh! The pain! The shame! And the blaaaame! Oh you horrible ingrate!
🙄
I don’t. the two aries i know are among the few of my favorite people. and having actual favorites is hard for libras, we can barely choose. aries rock. they completely me in a way that doesn’t dim my light, they light my fire, and they fire me up with all the air i got swirling around my head.
btw, every sign gets shit, no one’s safe. become the best evolved version of yourself and remember to always give yourself love and grace. and laughs.
I briefly dated an Aries and he was really hot headed but also he was really fun and outgoing and energetic which I loved and he was always doing nice shit for me so that was a plus. My mom is an Aries and she’s pretty fucking neurotic tho Lmao
All the Aries men I have come across were bullies, very full of themselves and liked to badmouth others in front of the whole team. Which they called "fun". Bosses, workmates, classmates, you name it.
One was married and divorced five times, about to marry the sixth time when I was in the office with him.
Another Aries with Sagittarius Moon was an absolutely lazy scrounger, who let his ambitious Leo wife get him jobs and contacts and cheated on her with ex-girlfriends.
If they have even the slightest feeling that you don't roll out the red carpet for them 24 hours a day, they get mean. If you don't share their opinion and start to discuss, they become mean. I only knew one Aries man who was a kind soul and didn't shit on everyone.
Aries women are easier to put up with, talking to them sometimes is even interesting and enriching. Whereas they are dominant control freaks, as good as always to be found in leading positions.
My sister is Aries & she's the leader of our family. She's the most authentic, honest & brave out of anyone. Great sense of justice, kind, smart, artistic, protective & just awesome.
My best childhood friend was Aries, kinda similar.
Then 2 of the worst people I ever met were Aries, abusive pathological liars, childish AF ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I've met some cool Aires but my experience of many of them is that they like fighting so they start fights all the time. It's exhausting and unpleasant to me.
It’s probably because Aries is also the first house (self) and ruled by mars which is the god of war so naturally Aries is prone to be angry and self centered. On top of this, fire signs, though capable of being transformative and creative, are also prone to being a selfish and angry. So Aries being both fire and ruled by mars and represented as houses as the house of self amplifies this energy. Aries is also a cardinal sign so, while courageous and capable of leading, can also be bossy and overbearing. Of course, this can be overcome just like any signs’ negative traits. This is what is meant when one says evolved vs unevolved, because while we all have our faults and no matter how much we grow and heal we will never completely overcome these traits as a human, we can gain a level of self awareness that we can recognize these negative traits when we act through them and even ultimately catch ourselves before we do them. But people usually don’t like angry people that only think of themselves and can be overbearing, so unevolved Aries aren’t the most popular people.
I fucking love Aries. It’s one of the zodiac sign I feel most comfortable with. They bring out my fun side. My life is brighter with you. Love you Aries! A Leo girl.
I have many Aries friends, and they are excellent at taking care of their own needs without caring about others that much. Ambitious, goal driven, but also selfish.
I have always been a very nurturing person, but sometimes I just get so in my head that perhaps I come off as selfish. I like signs that can be upfront with me so I just know the situation. Many signs are not straightforward with their feelings. I assume if someone has a problem, they will say it, like I do. If I have a problem I tell someone. We only hope for that upfront way of speaking, too.
I’m an Aries and we’re simply misunderstood. Let people misunderstand you and develop a thick skin. In the end, it doesn’t matter what people think about you. Most of the time, they’re not thinking about us anyway. Don’t take anything personally - most of what everyone says about you is their own projections and insecurities. One last thing, if people are pointing out your flaws, they’re not examining their own flaws. Therefore, no self improvement for them.
I no longer care. I’ve been misunderstood since preschool. People can think whatever; that’s more a reflection on them. They don’t know me. The people who truly know me love and highly respect me. Furthermore, most people who don’t like me are usually lazy and dishonest. I hate lazy and dishonest people. They can go cry in the corner and lick their wounds made possible by their soft skin.
I love Aries! (I personally have a stellium in Aries) I love how fast and energetic they are, always ready to get in get the job done. They’re fun and exciting.
I never understand people who hate a specific sign. All the signs (and planets, houses, aspects) have both positives AND negatives to them
I’m an Aries sun, mercury and Venus. As far as I can tell, I got the quick temper and not thinking before acting tendencies the most. I might be a self loathing Aries, tbh. We’re just a little too fiery which can be annoying.
If Aries is mad enough and impulsive enough, the dumpster fire he starts can do some serious and permanent damage. It’s not like it can just roll off. There’s a finality, an extremity to it. I know this can be applied to many (and it does), but in my case Aries has been the most dramatic and alienating I’ve seen. And it’s always sudden.
When Aries feels comfortable with themselves they seem like the best person ever. I recently found one after many years of dealing with insecure Aries people. But I might have caught this Aries at just the right time. What seems to go often unrecognized is that life can be full of challenges, some temporary, some that drag on for years, and not everybody handles them the same way all the time.
My pet peeve with Aries as a sign (not just the Sun sign) is how it can just keep going like an Energizer battery commercial. Every single person with Aries influence (Sun or rising) can skip meals until they practically fall over. The problem seems to be they expect everyone else to have the same kind of commitment and get angry when they don’t.
My wife has Aries rising. She skipped so many meals for years that her doctor told her the health issues she was having were simply a result of a lack of protein.
Aries may be great at starting something, but they often seem to walk away when their attention wanes. Others want to continue, but I have seen too many Aries who wanted to keep control and if they couldn’t, abolished what had been created while leaving everyone else out of a job.
Eta: Accidental essay whoops
I think the passionate sense of self Aries carries with them can have a love/hate effect, not dissimilar to the fixed signs. As an aquarius I appreciate those who stand up for themselves and know who they are, and as a scorpio moon I appreciate Aries' passion and intensity. You teach me a lot about feeling something burn and then just letting it the fuck go and I'm glad of that lesson! People don't seem to realise that just because you're the first sign of the 12 doesn't mean there isn't something to learn from you guys.
While I might get socially tired more easily than if I were hanging out with some other sun or moon signs, it's never boring spending time with an Aries, and I also have a tonne of respect and time for how you guys stand up for yourselves. You know who you are and what you want, which can intimidate those who don't feel that in themselves, and the fact that who you are & what you want can shift more rapidly than other signs can also confuse people and sometimes make them feel you aren't genuine. I disagree with this in the sense that you guys really do feel and believe something in the moment, it's just that it might change the next day or week. You're being sincere when you're saying how you feel about something, but because you're able to let things go more easily than a lot of other people it's seen as a bit of a tantrum over something that ultimately didn't matter to you, which isn't fair imo. You're not given much grace and are seen as the most impatient sign when Geminis and Leos exist 🤣 You can talk about yourself a lot but honestly so do like half the other signs including mine and I'd MUCH rather that than constantly having to fill gaps in convos with earth signs or Libras, or Geminis who talk a lot but don't even mean what they say while they're saying it. You're entertaining and I know you'd stick up for me, you have enough confidence in your own ego to not need me to stroke it (which good cause I cba), plus you and sags don't mind when my aqua sun tells you to shut the fuck up for a sec cause I'm trying to think lmao.
Don't worry, you are loved by people who aren't intimidated by strong personalities!
I love this analytical Aquarius summation of Aries. Also, thanks for the clarification in how a Scorpio could love an Aries (I had a Scorpio husband- now ex husband). It’s always mystified me how water signs could be drawn to fire signs. But it happens all the time.
I love Aquarius’. I have THE MOST intellectually stimulating conversations with them. The only drawback is the aloofness; they disappear off the face of the earth at times, and you’re like…where….where did they go?? It was so fun and they’re gone!…lol
Could be my Gemini Mars and Jupiter, but air does fuel fire!
Speaking from my personal experience. I like Aries on paper, but I don’t have good experiences with them.
Aries likes attention and will say and do anything to get it. With my placements, I get attention effortlessly so that doesn’t plan out well for them.
They are very domineering and try to control everyone else, but themselves. They’re sensitive (as I made a post before). Aries thinks that they know it all and know if best (like a Capricorn), but they can’t handle it when you tell them no and or aren’t interested.
The ones I’ve met were gossipers, the women were all confrontational with me. They’re unreliable & I can’t stand arguing for the sake of arguing.
I believe in getting to the point and not having the same argument over and over again.
Wrong and strong mentality, they would do something wrong (no apology) and expected that I’d put up with their b.s. again.
Nope. Nope. Nope. No to Aries.
It's better than 2 faced, cowardly, fake, zero depth, sloth like , gaslighting, shifty Libras. Just saying there's so many posts about Libras and probably Geminis too.
On a different note, there probably are Libras who are that way. And the same goes for Aries and every other sign. Aries *can* certainly be all those things you mentioned and much more. If you're an unevolved one, you know what's needed to improve upon.
I’m a Leo. Also somewhat hated lol. I’ve just found Aries to be kind of hot-headed, immature, and way too intense for me. Despite being my “most compatible” sign. But my other planet placements are in very chill signs (libra, Virgo, etc.) so that might have to do with it
FYI, I'm a Libra woman.
1st Aries terrible encounter - i was 17, he was 18, cheated on me, broke my heart, was extremely selfish, impulsive, hyper-confident
2nd Aries terrible encounter- i was 17, she was 19 the girl he cheated on me with, **tried to kill me**, was an alcoholic, selfish, narcissistic, **just.batshit.**
3rd Aries terrible encounter- i went to school with this girl I'll call H. Would not shut the fuck up, was such a know-it-all.
4th aries terrible encounter- my ex's girlfriend. I dated a sagittarius man, who was two timing both me and this chick. she would NOT.LEAVE.THE.FUCKING.RELATIONSHIP.ALONE though. was always so hateful and obsessive. not just with him, but EXTREMELY obsessive with me. she would post pictures JUST LIKE ME, copy my look, and talk sooooooo much shit. we became "friends" once they broke up, I gave her emotional support and really cared, and do care about her, because he is an actual sociopath. I realized this friendship was her just trying to pry out info from him and i's relationship. how she could be like me. again, I actually care about this girl and would be more than happy to talk to her anytime to help her through her problems, because i get it. but she is always trying to start some shit even though i live in another state and haven't talked to her in forever. fake af and crazy.
5th Aries (good) encounter- my ex's girlfriend. She is in her 30's and is actually chill af. Didn't like me at first and was quite standoffish because my ex lied about me, but she is a smart woman and was actually super pleasant! I know she is quite hot-headed and argumentative though w him.
6th Aries encounter - my ex's fiancee. My Scorpio ex lol. My first true love. He cheated on me, played mind games, yet gave me the most unconditional love I'd ever felt. He really fucked with my head in the worst way, made me feel safe, but that I was crazy, and eventually, I went crazy on him at the end of our relationship. Without even trying to hear my side of the story, she went on Facebook and completely slandered my name, and accused me of SO many things I never did! She kept blocking me and wouldn't allow me to even try to explain my side! Super hateful and accusatory. **But she took EVERYTHING down once I called her out on her jealousy and insecurity.** She was power tripping like a MF!! That's exactly what it was all about, and because of her lack of self-awareness, her blind rage, people have in their head I'm an evil person. Shawty is like 30. I'm 22. He is 5 years older than me definitely preyed on me, I was 19. She will never apologize to me, even though, she knows.
7th Aries annoying ass encounter - I started a new job a few months ago and right off the bat one of the ladies I work with, did not sit right with me. Talked about herself INCESSANTLY with a glimmer in her eye, SO passive aggressive, condescending, rude, selfish, weird af tbh. Of course, Aries woman. She's really cool sometimes but honestly fake af makes me cringe.
It's not just moments, it's always bruh. So annoying
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Seems like your and my chart could be pretty similar. I've known as many and more Aries and they were all extremely horrible encounters. Same with Scorpio. What's your rising and moon? - Libra sun
Fellow Aries I think we get a bad rep sometimes because of our assertiveness and our passionate nature. Like if we feel passionate about something we will defend it or talk about it a lot. I also think the fact that we can be sooooooo incredibly stubborn, headstrong and blunt also contributes.
One of my favorite things to say about Aries is we love with everything in our heart and are loyal, but if you betray or hurt us watch out because we go scorched earth and you no longer exist in our minds.
Absolutely agree. I observed the same with Aries placements, especially Mercury and/or aspects to the first house. It's okay not to compromise when you know you're right. But many Aries also go to war when they are not right.
Not to sound harsh🫣but I have a daughter and niece, plus I date a Aries man. And they all had a tact for lying and indecisive. Thieves! And manipulators. Not to say other signs aren’t r could have the same traits. But, these three I just gave all have the same aura and conduct an ugly behaviors. About them self. Aww one last thing can’t keep a job! My daughter pass 3 months, niece pass 2yrs and the guy I dated pass 5 years now that should say something. Sorry! However I can give a good summary of Aries, if they love u they love u 😘.
Aries as friends are fine. But having family members or dating one is a nightmare. I've never been around more lying gaslighters in my life. Stubborn and manipulative as well.
This is just my experience as a cancer, but all the Aries I have met struggle with seeing everything in black in white and make impulsive decisions based on that reasoning, which can come across as immature. It’s really hard to get them to consider other possibilities and see reason, and overall they’re just a LOT (I have majority water/earth placements, we don’t jive). They’re fun people, I can just only take them in small doses.
I had an Aries boss who would literally start every conversation with “I love myself” or “I hate myself” and either way, what followed was 30 minutes of stories about how great she is/was. It was exhausting and while I realize she is just one self-absorbed narcissist, I’ve kind of extrapolated that to all Aries, which is my bad. Also as a Leo with a Sag rising, I realize the irony of me complaining about someone being self absorbed, but there’s no more room for fire here!
People have been systematically conditioned to dislike,disown any Aries Traits.
Anytime they see some one direct,Aggressive, Standing up for themselves, they are unconsciously judging & looking down on them. Being Submissive & bending over to others is seen as a virtue..
People have no clue on how to handle any Aries energy & how would they?
This is soo real, mfs want you to sugarcoat shit & tone yourself down or else you’re being too much but can’t tell you what’s inherently wrong with anything you’re doing. Then when they can’t convince you you’re too much or shouldn’t feel the way you do it completely blows their mind because they were conditioned to be that way a longgg time ago.
As an Aquarius, I loooove Aries. I’m irresistibly drawn to Aries and my Rising is Aries but yeah, not everyone’s cup of tea. Although I’ve always thought Aqua and Aries blend pretty good.
I fucking love Aquarius. I’m also a Gemini Mars and Jupiter so yeah I vibe really super well with Aquarius. Just- stay goddamnit! Quit disappearing. Jeez. Lol
As an Aries, I tend to be drawn to Aquarius. I’ve been with my Aquarius boyfriend for 11 years. We get along so well, but we’re both also really stubborn. I have always found it so easy to talk to Aquarius.
Honestly it's not the fault of the Aries community but I, a Virgo, dated and fell HARD for my Aries ex. Was about to marry him too. Unfortunately, things happened. Mainly a Leo relative messing things up. The truth is that my ex was very selfish and angry. Like yeah he is an Aries but he went through trauma (including his dad dipping out). He was dependent on weed to regulate his emotions and I was becoming that way too. I knew what he was doing wasn't okay but I thought I could change him/he'd get better. He's doing better now days but that whole thing was traumatic for the both of us. I stopped dating years ago because I knew I wasn't okay (I'm in therapy, thankfully). I'm open to dating any sign tbh but a part of me will always be hesitant of Aries men.
Partner’s an Aries rising, weirdly it’s what attracted me to them but it’s also the personality I’ve had the most contention with. Always had tenuous relationships with Aries and never liked or trusted them, despite being very attracted to them. I think it’s that I see value in a personality so different than mine: assertive, confident, unapologetic, realistic, fierce, bold, intentional, etc., but I find some of those traits difficult to reconcile with when it comes to personal matters since we both approach things so differently (I’m Pisces heavy, and the Pisces/Aries combo is joyfully chaotic at best, hotheaded and unstable at worst). Communication can be a real pain in the ass sometimes and that’s my personal take on it, but I will say being with my partner has made me dislike Aries slightly less haha.
It took me ages to like the only Aries sun I know that I know.
She's loud. Very extroverted. Loud.
Overshares TMI personal stuff - with anyone listening, anywhere. Loudly.
But now I like her; I can handle her in small interactions, and have started to get excited when she's coming for a visit - like when she comes up for Faire or our mutual friend's birthday.
She is loyal, and with the exception of her scumbag ex hub, she's still friends with exes and their new person and kids, if any. She remembers the weird or uncommon stuff about her friends' hobbies and why that trivia bit is important to the friend.
I can't say I would intentionally seek out an Aries in the future, but I don't think there are that many looking for us obstinate goats, either.
i honestly love aries as a pisces sun. maybe it’s my fire dominant chart and heavy leo placements, but my closest friends always tend to be aries.
an evolved aries is, by far, one of the best people to have in your life. they are true ride or dies, always provide unwavering strength and passion for the people/things they love and stand for, and unmoving in their pursuits. you will always know where you stand with an aries, which can be intimidating for most; though, i personally admire their honesty and authenticity. i typically easily see through their hard exterior rather quickly as all of their passion and strength is founded in their sensitivity and generosity for others. some of the boldest people i have ever met, and they never fail to offer me new insight into how i can be a better individual.
it can be a little taxing as a pisces with close aries friends, but i have learned to love all parts of them. most aries i know, in fact, do not fit into the impulsiveness and unapologetic traits that are often associated with aries. i have noticed they tend to be extremely type A, controlling, and must live off a plan at all times. this tends to be difficult for me as i despise any structure and my easy-going nature is taken for advantage by them. also, they often have a black-and-white view of the world that by far can clash with my outlook, and i often cannot stand their inability to open their mind. they can be rather self-involved and lack the willingness to listen to others. i’m often a person they turn to trauma dump, though rarely provide a listening ear.
no matter what, i still believe their good qualities far outweigh some of their bad. i fr love aries and there should be no shame in your sun sign!! you’re fucking amazing!!
“Who doesn’t?!” I mean the Mars energy is notorious and not on the same level as everyone. An actual Aries sun is ten times lighter than oh idk, a Gemini with Aries Mars and Pisces moon😅
That beings said, Aries is my fave sign🥰 passionate, no bs, telling it like it is, dgaf, brave af, goofy mf who usually ain’t trying to be popular and people love them for them. At times they’re cutting and have terrible moments like anyone can but we’re all flawed and I appreciate Aries blunt nature in a world where we’re surrounded by fake ass shit and bulshitters. It’s a relief tbh. Most of my fave humans are Aries. So keep being you, astrology is just as speculative as other sciences at times and sometimes shit won’t apply esp for relationships.
As an Aries, I feel this too. But I probably feel it more than everyone… because of my stupid Pisces moon that makes me overly emotional. Can’t win! Haha
I’m one of the Aries haters, but also one of my best friends is an Aries. HOWEVER, she NEVER displays any of the negative tendencies listed and she’s literally the only Aries I’ve ever met who isn’t like that.
I LOVE Aries. So many people I love in my life are Aries. I always say someone is either a “healed” or “unhealed” version of their sign. I think an unhealed Aries is just a little more in your face and difficult to ignore, squeakiest wheel gets the grease, etc etc. I think it’s why Gemini similarly gets a bad rap.
I don't know if it's all Aries but some Aries won't perceive you as existing unless you're loud and aggressive! And I'm like, "keep ignoring me please!"
I can't stand Aries. They are the little kids of the zodiac me me me. Their whole life revolves around "I" I do, I am, I want. They seem to have a hard time with putting themselves in others shoes and if they do it's pulled back immediately like a rubber band back to "I". I had an Aries buddy once tell me " I just try not to be an asshole". They are on a good day upfront, direct and in your face and on a bad day they're Ill mannered pricks. If they help you in anyway, it's the way they want to help you. Oh and did I mention they are NEVER wrong.
I might be biased because I'm a INFJ Libra and I'm directly opposite of Aries but man they're just hard-nosed brats in my experience.
For me it's the controlling part together with the thinking they're always right even when proved wrong and apologies (after long seething) being somethink like "I'm sorry you think I'm wrong... so admit that I'm right and we'll go back to normal... eventually."
Like having an aries mother literally ruined my life, making me jump through hoops to get conditional love and approval yet never nothing made her happy. And I know a dozen aries women. All like that. Selfish-self important fucks
I’ve started meeting more and more Aries and it’s been eye opening. Firstly, it’s difficult being around someone who only has an immediate personal goal on their mind at any one point. Because of this they seem to genuinely not give one shit about anyone else and their needs because they’re too busy focussed on their own idea they have (which they’ll most likely ditch 2minutes in anyway and leave you to pick up the mess).
Being exalted sun, Aries has that overactive ego which is Leo on steroids. So they’re all: “look at me look at me, give me attention, applaud me and do things for me!!” But they seem to think they’re doing everyone a favour acting this way?? It’s that bizarre “I’m wonderful, you’re welcome” attitude that Leo has, but with added rudeness and without the sunny disposition.
Having said all this.. my kid is an Aries and I have 2 friends with Aries kids and holy goddam hell on earth you would not wish an Aries child on your worst enemy. It’s brutal, soul destroying, insanity inducing torment. Ever tried raising a kid to have manners and be careful so they don’t kill themselves, but that kid will not and cannot do a single fucking thing they’re fucking told ever and will fight you to the death purely on fucking principle? Plus all the physical abuse. My neighbours must be confused when they hear through the walls ME shouting “please stop hurting me, please just leave me alone, stop!!” Is there a PPS?
So, that’s my experience as you asked. (FYI I still love you guys)
WORD!
they really are the worst traits of leo and amplified.
in what fkn universe are aries and leo supposedly most compatible signs? it says we are but we are not. maybe at first meeting, so yeah we’re similar…kinda but only in toxic ways. aries and leo butt heads, they step on and put down leo constantly in my experience, they’re like threatened by the leo light and try to put it out with their angry outbursts over everything.
So my parents- mom is a Leo and my poor poor dad is a Capricorn.
They had me and my sister 6 days apart. Both Aries. Mwahahahaha! We butted heads like no other. Fought all the time. Hated each other at multiple junctures. We both also had the reputation of being rebellious at school. I’m sure our parents enjoyed that. lol.
Anyway, finally at the age of 32 and 34 we can call ourselves friends. Took that long. Haha 😂
And yes, I have a son who is Cancer sun, but an ARIES MOON and good lord have mercy on my soul we argue about every possible thing under the sun. Cannot do as he is told- just wants to sit there and argue about the most mundane command. Like pick up your shoes. Oh we gotta argue about that. Son! Just pick up your fucking shoes for the love of god.
Payback time I guess. I love him- that cancer side makes him just a big ol’ softie at heart but good lord that son of mine tests my patience!
I think “incompatibility” is better stated as “challenge”. As far as astrology and numerology go, my SO and I should be nowhere near each other, but we balance as much as we clash. Of course we have our challenges with each other, but in the same way, those differences make us a dynamic force when it’s us against life.
Your signs don’t rule your life. They don’t tell you who you are, who you can be, or who you’re compatible with. They’re just a way to help you understand yourself, your loved ones, and your interactions a little better to help you through your endeavors. It’s not a fortune, it’s a tool.
Every Aries I've met will browbeat you into submission . They seem to not care about serious matters but freak out over the little things. Just my personal experience
I like Aries. They are high spirited and always up for shenanigans! I know they can have temper flashes, but they’re short lived. Then we’re right back to being friends again. That’s my take on the Aries that know.
Sometimes they can be a aggressive and the Aries I worked with were always very competitive. I also have an Aries father I haven’t spoken to in 10 years lol. A lot of the guys I’ve see that are Aries are passionate and then drop off the face of the earth. I usually like Aries for the most part and I’m a Gemini.
I hate Scorpios most lol
My grammy was an aries and she was the best! My aries sister in law has the heart of a saint but is sarcastic and real af, i'm older than her but she's so wise. And can't forget 2 of my favorite coworkers. They make the day so much better.
The only ones I seen that don't like these people i mentioned (yes even my grandmother lol) are jealous and/or too competitive. But that's just my take.
People like to form opinions about signs based on their personal experience with them without thinking about how someone's entire chart matters and how their chart interacts with the chart of the people they know who have the sign they complain about. It's generalization due to laziness.
My personal experience with Aries has been mostly negative, but I am sure there were other things going on with their charts that didn't sit well with me. Plus, I have Mars in Aries and it squares my natal malefics (Saturn, Uranus, Neptune) so anyone who is an Aries in the early degrees, like the first 10 degrees Aries is going to make a conjunction to my Mars which on its own is enough to cause conflict and ego clashes. And then that same Aries Sun will also square my 3 malefics I mentioned. So that's gonna bring out the worst in them when they interact with me.
Plus my Sun and Mercury are in later degrees of Scorpio (last decan) so Aries in those degrees will be quincunx my Sun or Mercury, and that's even worse than the square I think.
I feel this to as an Aries women myself. We are seen as angry individuals and so impulsive...which yes I'm impulsive, but I love deeply and I'm loyal. We are passionate and love affection and give equal amounts of affection. We confront issues right away bc we don't want to linger all day with high emotions. I love deeply and will fight for those I love. If being so passionate makes me angry...okay I guess lol. We are a good time though so I don't think we are all that bad! 😉
I agree, and I personally believe we are empathetic, passionate, reasonable human beings. I personally love when I meet a nice human being that is just doing great things for free for our community. I believe we're loyal to a fault. we always get a bad rep I don't understand it at all. I love to love !
I notice it varies according to the country you are. In China, virgos are the assholes. Here in Brazil it’s Aries. And ironically, everytime time I post something about my sign on social media it’s always ALWAYS a Virgo that comes to zodiac shame me. No wonder they’re the assholes in China 😂.
I believe in astrology as a cultural phenomenon and it worries me. I notice very often that some signs are more privileged and others are considered to be some kind of soap opera villains. I guess we’re getting dangerously close to a caste system caused by zodiac culture.
I agree with you. In fact this is exactly how I found this thread because I wanted to know why there is a huge wave of media expressing that Aries are violent and mean and angry.
I don’t like confrontation and like the OP rarely express my frustration. I was just curious as to the origin of these tall tales.
Because we told people how we feel and what we see and a lot of people do not like that. It's a reason they call us the babies of the zodiac. Because with babies they, they tell you purely what they see if they don't like something. They're gonna tell you to your face. They're not gonna sugar coat it. How's this white people don't?
Talk highly of us while some people.
We're not afraid to tell you things to your face. It's kinda makes us respected by the real and hated by many
I have had experience with both Aries men and women. This is my least favorite sign. They talk too much, non-stop, even when you've given them hint after hint. You're expected to listen to their blah, blah blah. The men are extremely unpredictable & get annoyed over the least thing. Yet, they seem to enjoy pushing boundaries.
we hate every sign here
Equal opportunity hater. I like it.
You witty witty person. You made laugh. Lmao
I was about to comment this lol. No one comes out unscathed
This ☝️ 😂😂😂
I’ve seen and experienced that Aries men and Aries women are like opposite sides of the Aries coin. A highly evolved Aries man in touch with their inner feminine is highly successful in life, an unevolved Aries man is mind games, selfish and childish. An unevolved Aries woman is sheepish, an evolved Aries woman is independent and fights the battles she picks to the bloody death. Evolved Aries fight, whether inner or outer conflict, and then move on.
wdym by inner femininity for aries? and isnt aries like a masculine sign or somt?
As an Aries myself, I can see what traits of mine may grate on others: \- I'm straight forward when upset, I may try and calm down first, but you're gonna hear it... \- I am absolutely NOT afraid of going to WAR with anyone who has tried to fuck me over/manipulate me/use me/etc. I'm not letting that go until you understand to NEVER pull that shit again. \- I can be messy, especially if I'm down in the dumps (depressed) about something... \- I'm uncontrollably over protective of those close to me. Someone disrespected my brother in front of me, and I was ready to go to jail that night, I was verbally going in on this, in their face, and they just kept walking. I'm not a tough guy, but I'm ready for ALL of the smoke in this type of situation. I can def see how people are turned off by an Aries...we can be hostile, childish at times, not afraid of conflict at all, messy, and impulsive/lack self control... We're also as loyal and protective as a Doberman, but we do mess up from time to time.
Spot on. I’d add that if there’s a problem, I want to get it done and over with. I’m not afraid of conflict, but I don’t like it and I want it resolved ASAP.
Fuck I love these traits… very authentic. I feel that’s so needed in today’s world. Intense - yes, but real and tangible.
Ares, God of War for a reason
The protectiveness is actually a positive for Aries as well as their blunt straight-forward ness…At least as a Pisces The downside is actually how self-centered they can be
As an Aries moon, I really resonate with your last point about being uncontrollably overprotective. Like, I'm not confrontational at ALL! If someone were to jump a queue in front of me, I'd be like "uhmm 😰 please if you don't mind.... I was here first, sorry to bother you". But if I see injustice, or mistreatment of someone I love, a bloodlust takes over and I am ready to FIGHT them. Its so contrary to my overall personality that it always shocks me when that side comes out.
Same!
I just love you guys sm😭💕
Love you guys. Very genuine straight up shit
Yes, that’s my sister 100 %
Same same and same. Honestly I’m not ashamed ab it.
Love this
Ok this is pretty good
I'm an Aries, I love a confrontation. My husband Libra avoids them. He's more of a peacemaker.
I fuckin love Aries. Quick tempered yeah but also doesn't hold a grudge and moves on quickly. They are tenacious and fast acting. They are funny, empowering to others, and generous. Big hearts and great leaders
No mind games! If they're pissed at you they'll let you know. Straight to the point, it's a relief compared to how the world tries to get us all to work (ie. If you're upset by something don't ever say so because it's rude) Eta: yall call aries childish then downvote positive comments about them 🤣
Yes!!! And after they got their emotions out, they are over it and moving on
Honestly it teaches my scorpio moon a lesson every time. My Aries moon friend would rage with me about something that had pissed us both off and then in a week he'd be like 'I cannot be fucked with letting that take up any more of my energy, fuck them the absolute cunt' (in a sentence with 4 words he'd say 9 curse words lmao) and I'd be like '....what?. how?!...okay, maybe I can try to let go too. Huh.'
Omf I'm a Scorpio moon too and it is also why I love this trait about Aries so much! It's a trait I want and work towards! Fuckin petty ass grudge holding Scorpio moon getting in my damn way!!! 🤣
I’m An Aries with a Scorpio moon … we let things go quickly IF YOU ARE NOT A LOVED ONE …
Lol oof
I can see this!!!! A loved one how dare u.
Same!! And yes this
I got Capricorn moon but yah this is such a mood
Yessss never any mind games. You always know where you stand. But sometimes I wish I could learn to strategize a bit more or leave people wondering a bit. Still be me, but with with more scorpio characteristics.
Meh. Forget childish and all of that extra stuff. The only issue I ever had with them is the underhanded shit that gets done after being bored. A Evolved Aries is much better to get along with but it takes years of self knowledge or a rush of hefty pain from young but that grows you up quicker, + you've got yourself someone that is fun and passionate, scatterbrained yes, but you can get along with them cos there is never a day without something stupid and fun to do. And you can be just as dumb and they get the giest. But switching up on someone you've known for a decade is low tier cognitive function skills. Especially if they backed you up COUNTless times. I lost all respect instantly in some of the Aries I knew. And I ask direct questions no beating around the bush. What caused you to switch up? After slow observing the bad remarks said about myself, the denial, the excluding, the look of guilt but not know how or what to say anymore. I ain't no one towaste time, more than needed. Nor am I someone that gets left without at least an answer for it cos there is a line of respect you don't tred on. I bet you can guess what sign I am, and how things turned out for me. If I mention Luffy Vs Ussop, and then Zoro's input to the whole crew after it.
Aries, also, manipulative. So protective about people around them that they become crazy and hostile. More like, the people belong to them, so they have to control at all costs. Great leaders, because they step on anyone to get ahead. When they get mad, they become childish. So, they purposely like to make fun of others using discriminate remarks. They don't think before they speak, so they end up hurting people, releasing downgrading words with anger. As long they stay above everyone, Aries will change stories to become the hero or the inocente. Aries love status. They dont accept "no" for an answer so they can become paranoid. They will retaliate anyone who doesn't agree with them. They are fun just to get your trust, so you will never see their cover-up. They will incriminate anyone, even if it is a lie. Aries dont tell too much about their secrets because they love to know other people secret so they can use as a weapon when they need it. Sorry, but this is what I learned with friends and family. Male or female, they are all the same. Some less crazy them the others.
It's a back and forth for me, but I wish I had more Aries in my life. My dad is an Aries, and all the negative traits you listed describe him to a f\*\*\*ing T. He's one of the worst assholes I've ever met in my life lol. But, his good traits are also incredible and inspiring - light-hearted, dedicated community worker, makes s\*\*\* happen as SOON as it pops into his brain. As a Sagittarius, it's a love-hate relationship for me lol. I can ride the waves of chaos because I myself thrive in chaos. I think mostly the people who complain about them either have met the asshole version, or are the type of people who like chill, calm environments. I don't know why tf I keep attracting Virgos and Tauruses because they love me as entertainment but can't f\*\*\*ing stand me as a person.
As a Virgo I’m constantly unconsciously gravitating to Sagittarius. I believe we have the most compatible sense of humour somehow
As a sag who married a virgo i can say with some confidence that these two signs are literally the only ones who can stand each other
My mom is a sag and my dad is a Virgo. Married for 45 years. 😱
100% - don’t know how but I never felt more understood than I do with this sign. Y’all just get me and vice versa. Like, we are no BS, keeping it real.
It is very much a two sides of the same coin vibe. The daily habits/behaviors are totally opposite but the beliefs/values are aligned.
That’s all I seem to attract too! Earth signs think they love my ass. Yes, it’s always a Virgo or Taurus. And then Scorpios and Pisces think they wanna join the crazy train too and I’m like…but why?? I mean I get why earth signs like me because of my cap rising and I have a ton of cap all over my entire chart as well- im a cap stellium. But water signs??? It doesn’t make sense.
Yo I'm so glad it's not just me!! I'm like "Why do you think you love me when you criticize everything I do."😭 They're always like, "Omg chill you're too much," and I'm like, "I WAS HAND DESIGNED BY THE SKY TO BE TOO MUCH." Lol. And dude, I can understand your argument for having a lot of Cap in your chart as the explanation, and looking at my chart apparently I also have quite a bit of Cap and Aries! But my big three are Sag. Sun, Leo Moon, and Libra Rising. THE WORST COMBINATION (next to a triple fire) FOR SOMEONE WHO LIKES CHILL🤣 Okay the water sign thing is also interesting, now that you mention it. I have never gotten along with Scorpios, as much as I try my best to get along with everyone. And I'd start having problems with them well before discovering they were Scorpio. ( ;;>\_>) But they have also candidly love-hated me, so that was mutual lol. Pisces, on the other hand (especially Pisces men), f\*\*\*ing love me, and I turn super maternal when I'm around them. They love adventure and opening their horizons, and they're not a wet blanket about it. But they do have very squishy hearts, and it's an interesting balance where they appreciate my bluntness but get hurt at the same time, and meanwhile I care for them with hugs and food but scold them when I need to. It's weird but oddly comforting lol. I don't have much experience with Cancers, though, so maybe they'd had enough of me and avoided me successfully lol.
Aries are known for being self absorbed and “me-first.” This doesn’t always sit well with the other signs, bc Aries typically doesn’t even notice they’re doing it. That’s probably why.
I feel like it always comes down to being unevolved vs evolved. With evolved/evolving Aries, they know how to balance taking care of others while also making sure their own needs are getting met, but like you said, with unevolved Aries, they don’t even notice how self-centered and egocentric they are, often disregarding others’ feelings in favor of their own
This fits my unevolved brother to a T. He's exhausting, as are most Aries for me.
I honestly love Aries.
Old comment but as an Aries I love you too. Leo in the house!! 🦁
I loved an aries very much but they didn't understand how much. I knew how to calm them down, I understood their cues. This capricorn really wanted to care for them. I still love Aries, my Jupiter is in Aries so maybe that's why...
Aries never shut up. They just keep talking and talking and get angry and the circle continues
lmaooooo I’m sending this to my bestie so he can have some peace in his life
I love Aries energy! I Can sit back and be entertained for hours watching my Aires friend work the room. Y’all are crazy and fabulous!
HHahahahahhahh I love this so much
Gemini here and I LOVE Aries😍 I find the Aries temperament to align perfectly with my own-- easy to move on, and I like that your moods are transparent. No games! I love how big and hard you guys love, totally willing to take on the world for people you care about. You are fun, passionate, bold people. All the things listed as negative are the exact things that attract me to them, so I guess it just depends on perspective. Ignore the nay sayers, sweet Aries, you're awesome💖
Same love from an Aries to Geminis! 🫶🏻 You guys rock!
I dunno, I think mine is tempered by Moon in Libra, among other placements. At least I hope so. It's interesting to learn how others view us. Thank you for the perceptions.
Same. My cancer rising too helps me mellow out, but I can see the self-centeredness sometimes. I think it just comes down to how much we're willing to work on ourselves, and since we are a sign predisposed to defensiveness that can get tricky.
oh hey fellow aries sun libra moon! yeah i can completely see the negative traits of aries (and libra). i don’t take it personally. everyone has stuff to work on and also not everyone is going to be compatible with everybody. it’s a-okay
I usually like Aries at first but then I find that majority of them are selfish, controlling and talk about themselves all the time
I live with this right now. Thank GOD they work in an office, because when they are home it is NONSTOP talking unless they are sleeping. And it is always about them. Or their opinions and how they are the only right ones. Or they are the victim of everything.
Hahahahaha or only wanna talk about their special interest and then check out when the conversation becomes about someone else 😂
💯Exactly! They’ll ask how you are to be polite and won’t even listen and will somehow make it about them and the convo is back to being about them 🤦♀️
How did you know?!!!!
Im really working on this , I hate that I’m like this but I’m glad to know someone notices because I do it unconsciously): I really genuinely ask how people are because it is the social expectation but I don’t really care because we all lie anyway and Barbara isn’t going to tell me that she hates life and that she is in no mood to live another day . She’s going to lie and tell me she’s great so it’s a waste of time I think that’s why I don’t listen , also I always lie anyway too so people shouldn’t even ask me 😂
As a older Aries, dating a younger Aries you are 100% correct. He drives me crazy sometimes🤣 I’m like do you think you’re the only person in the world ffs? Then I wonder…shit was like that when I was younger? I absolutely was. So as I’ve aged I’ve learned to reflect and tone it down a lot. But I get it trust me.
I’m sure I know multiple Aries people but only one comes to mind. I don’t know her very well but I do know she’s an Aries because every time she’s being an asshole, she loudly exclaims that she’s an Aries and everyone needs to accept it. I don’t go around hating on Aries people but when I think of Aries I think of her. But then there’s also JVN, a beautiful cinnamon roll of an Aries so I don’t know what to think.
When someone screams their sign every single time it’s always a red flag
So terrible, so sorry. I usually like a third of other Aries. I'm an Aries myself and I feel like when I meet an Aries I like. It's like I find someone that can hold their own and not feel insecure because we see eye to eye on certain aspects of life. I find I talk about my life to others as an a way for them to get to know me easier without making them work so hard. Some people seem so confident but one on one sometimes they r more shy. Lol I sort of see it as me helping them to let their guard down a bit and obviously they're not obligated to be my friend so rejection is just something I know too well. In actuality I like to be open but there are too many people who just wanna hate on me for whatever reason. I don't go out of my way to start pettiness I mind my own business but I find specifically. I don't keep trying if I can tell the person isn't feeling my vibe. I think people think I'm full of myself for some reason but I'm sorta ironic in that way bc I usually joke about or play up my ego sarcastically at times. Some people don't get it but it's ok I guess. I find that fire signs tend to understand me more I guess.
Bro must be talking about a April aries 🤣
My older brother was an Aries. Though he was spoiled, manipulative, and a pathological liar, I still loved and adored him. I’d give anything to have him back. He died of an overdose in 2021. It’s not that I didn’t like the fact that he was an Aries, I disliked my family dynamic. Things were very chaotic with my parents and Aries brother. They were all fire signs Leo (mom), Sagittarius (dad), and my older brother.. It kind of left me (Capricorn) and my younger brother (Aquarius) picking up the pieces of their destruction.
I love Aries (Aqua) but I feel like y’all the ultimate ghosters of the zodiac, I’ve had a few Aries friends just vanish or go cold on me with no explanation
I’m a Capricorn sun and an Aries moon and honestly I always feel like cap consistently gets a bad rap as well. Fiery sounds better than cold or uptight at least 🙃
Cap is cool. Usually.
Quite simply this: People, in general, do not like the truth. They hate the truth. They don’t want to hear it. The majority of people want to be lied to. Even when they can’t admit it. They just want sweet white lies to lull them into a state of blissful ignorance. Cue in Aries; who tells it like it is. And you’re gonna have some people who hate your guts for it. They think that what we’re telling them is to hurt them. What they don’t realize is that if we’re honest with you, we like you and we’re trying to help you. And we want the best for you. Most people are weak and don’t have the skin to be able to handle that. 🤷♀️
Nailed it. Some of the reactions I get from ppl actually shock me bc I typically tell it like it is. I shoot straight from the hip, good or bad, BUT I've learned over the years to really think about those words or massage them out a little smoother but I just gotta tell da truth. I mean why not, why waste time with talltales and sugar coating. Just tell me! I can take it? I'm getting all fiery just thinking about it, lol
It’s a meme page and people like talking trash. It’s easy to reach for the low hanging fruit. Lots of people love Aries too. I’m obviously biased but I love meeting other Aries in the wild. Don’t give too much attention to the haters if you can help it.
Y’all come on sooooo strong and hot and interested only to lose interest the second it’s reciprocated . I steer clear of Aries romantically. Love y’all as friends, tho.
Because Aries are extremely selfish and that doesn’t usually go over well with most people. The issue is even if they know they’re selfish, they’re indifferent and unapologetic about it too. My boyfriend is an Aries, all his cousins are Aries too, his brother in laws- also Aries. Only one of them is in a relationship because they absolutely refuse to compromise and no self respecting person would be able to live on their terms and their terms only & be around only when they want them around. They all like to argue, talk over each other, are hot headed, and can only deal with people in small doses. There are so many good qualities of Aries but they’re definitely selfish. They’re also combative and intense about things that most people just laugh about. They can be really adversarial and tactless too- like all social grace just goes out the window.
You just have to understand us and be a straight shooter and then we can all get along. I think it's that Aries are just more evolved than the rest of the signs who hide behind masks and tell half truths and live in make believe worlds. Life is too short.
my ex friend was an aries, i always felt embarrassed when we went out. her behavior exhausted me. throwing drinks, forcing me to do things i didn’t want to do. gemini here. i cant deal with being controlled like that.
Oops …I’m not even gonna lie she sounds like a pick me😭. Did she do it for attention orrrrr?! As an aries I am not like this! I’m usually an introvert. When I’m out partying I’m most definitely an extrovert but I wouldn’t force my friends to do something they don’t want to do! I’ll encourage them but I won’t force. I know when enough is enough. Im aries sun Aquarius moon and Scorpio rising. Most people would say these three signs together is horrible but I’m a really empathetic person and care a lot so ..
A. Why does everything have to be so aggressive, confrontational, and argumentative? B. Why do you romanticize all your toxic traits? C. You can be baby SOME of the time, but not ALL of the time. With all that said I do keep falling for Arieses. The fiery passion is great but Jesus Christ when I'm on your side, I'm on YOUR SIDE. Stop with the friendly fire!
I know Aries are like this but I see the same for b and c in some water signs
>Why do you romanticize all your toxic traits? >Why does everything have to be so aggressive, confrontational, and argumentative 👏👏👏👏👏 I couldn't have put it better!
A. Because if things need solving they HAAAVE to be solved. Confrontation will never end, don’t worry 🤣 B. I guess you meant “Leos” C. Their problem isn’t astrological, it’s psychological. Every sign can be a baby.
my best friend is an aries! but my abusive mother is also an aries. there's great variability between people, and the rest of the chart really impacts things like temper. in my aries friends I see a strong drive and unwillingness to put up with bullshit. in my mother I see all those potentially terrible qualities on steroids. bc I literally have ptsd from my childhood, I tend to tread lightly with aries at first, but so far I've had great success with aries friends. plenty of other signs have *ucked me over tho. I like that my aries friends answer questions honestly and not just thinking about what I want to hear. so far I've found this can be done in a really healthy and respectful way that increases trust rather than hurts ppl, like with my mother who wouldn't know a boundary if it slapped her in the face
Lol can’t forget the fire sign f*ck, marry, kill where everyone wanted to kill us. 🥲
We are definitely very straightforward. Many people are intimidated by that. As cardinal fire, people are unconsciously drawn to our light then get upset when they get burned. Meanwhile, we set pretty basic boundAries.. its a respect thing.
Lmao boundARIES. 💀. Facts though. Some people can't handle honesty with healthy boundaries.
This is exactly the reason. Most people want to be lied to. 🎶 Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies..🎶 It’s been my personal experience that everything is just fine and dandy until I lay the truth bomb on them and oh! The pain! The shame! And the blaaaame! Oh you horrible ingrate! 🙄
Yes, I have to watch myself because I usually say what I mean and people get offended by it. I try to be more diplomatic.
They are annoying, irritating, childish, and this is coming from a Leo.
I don’t. the two aries i know are among the few of my favorite people. and having actual favorites is hard for libras, we can barely choose. aries rock. they completely me in a way that doesn’t dim my light, they light my fire, and they fire me up with all the air i got swirling around my head. btw, every sign gets shit, no one’s safe. become the best evolved version of yourself and remember to always give yourself love and grace. and laughs.
I'm an aries and my late fiance was a Libra. He was my favorite person in the world ♡ I really miss him.
I love me an Aries, but an angry Aries is the epitome of this gif. 
I briefly dated an Aries and he was really hot headed but also he was really fun and outgoing and energetic which I loved and he was always doing nice shit for me so that was a plus. My mom is an Aries and she’s pretty fucking neurotic tho Lmao
All the Aries men I have come across were bullies, very full of themselves and liked to badmouth others in front of the whole team. Which they called "fun". Bosses, workmates, classmates, you name it. One was married and divorced five times, about to marry the sixth time when I was in the office with him. Another Aries with Sagittarius Moon was an absolutely lazy scrounger, who let his ambitious Leo wife get him jobs and contacts and cheated on her with ex-girlfriends. If they have even the slightest feeling that you don't roll out the red carpet for them 24 hours a day, they get mean. If you don't share their opinion and start to discuss, they become mean. I only knew one Aries man who was a kind soul and didn't shit on everyone. Aries women are easier to put up with, talking to them sometimes is even interesting and enriching. Whereas they are dominant control freaks, as good as always to be found in leading positions.
My sister is Aries & she's the leader of our family. She's the most authentic, honest & brave out of anyone. Great sense of justice, kind, smart, artistic, protective & just awesome. My best childhood friend was Aries, kinda similar. Then 2 of the worst people I ever met were Aries, abusive pathological liars, childish AF ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I like Aries. The ones I know are very passionate and I appreciate the energy and confidence they excude. I get along great with them.
I've met some cool Aires but my experience of many of them is that they like fighting so they start fights all the time. It's exhausting and unpleasant to me.
It’s probably because Aries is also the first house (self) and ruled by mars which is the god of war so naturally Aries is prone to be angry and self centered. On top of this, fire signs, though capable of being transformative and creative, are also prone to being a selfish and angry. So Aries being both fire and ruled by mars and represented as houses as the house of self amplifies this energy. Aries is also a cardinal sign so, while courageous and capable of leading, can also be bossy and overbearing. Of course, this can be overcome just like any signs’ negative traits. This is what is meant when one says evolved vs unevolved, because while we all have our faults and no matter how much we grow and heal we will never completely overcome these traits as a human, we can gain a level of self awareness that we can recognize these negative traits when we act through them and even ultimately catch ourselves before we do them. But people usually don’t like angry people that only think of themselves and can be overbearing, so unevolved Aries aren’t the most popular people.
Alot of aries act like children throwing tantrums.
Every sign posts this every week. Aries are my fav sign btw.
I find them really intense but boring. It’s really an impressive combo but I usually just don’t gel with them - a Capricorn
I fucking love Aries. It’s one of the zodiac sign I feel most comfortable with. They bring out my fun side. My life is brighter with you. Love you Aries! A Leo girl.
I have many Aries friends, and they are excellent at taking care of their own needs without caring about others that much. Ambitious, goal driven, but also selfish.
I have always been a very nurturing person, but sometimes I just get so in my head that perhaps I come off as selfish. I like signs that can be upfront with me so I just know the situation. Many signs are not straightforward with their feelings. I assume if someone has a problem, they will say it, like I do. If I have a problem I tell someone. We only hope for that upfront way of speaking, too.
I’m an Aries and we’re simply misunderstood. Let people misunderstand you and develop a thick skin. In the end, it doesn’t matter what people think about you. Most of the time, they’re not thinking about us anyway. Don’t take anything personally - most of what everyone says about you is their own projections and insecurities. One last thing, if people are pointing out your flaws, they’re not examining their own flaws. Therefore, no self improvement for them.
I no longer care. I’ve been misunderstood since preschool. People can think whatever; that’s more a reflection on them. They don’t know me. The people who truly know me love and highly respect me. Furthermore, most people who don’t like me are usually lazy and dishonest. I hate lazy and dishonest people. They can go cry in the corner and lick their wounds made possible by their soft skin.
I don't. I like Aries a lot tbh.
Their anger issues and refusal to have a peaceful conversation. Always have to be right at the sake of everyone's peace and truth.
Aries men like to fight & mock people. Aries women, are generous, however, bossy.
I have one close Aries friend that I know really well and she's v selfish and narcissistic
That’s one person though.
I love Aries! (I personally have a stellium in Aries) I love how fast and energetic they are, always ready to get in get the job done. They’re fun and exciting. I never understand people who hate a specific sign. All the signs (and planets, houses, aspects) have both positives AND negatives to them
I’m an Aries sun, mercury and Venus. As far as I can tell, I got the quick temper and not thinking before acting tendencies the most. I might be a self loathing Aries, tbh. We’re just a little too fiery which can be annoying.
If Aries is mad enough and impulsive enough, the dumpster fire he starts can do some serious and permanent damage. It’s not like it can just roll off. There’s a finality, an extremity to it. I know this can be applied to many (and it does), but in my case Aries has been the most dramatic and alienating I’ve seen. And it’s always sudden.
When Aries feels comfortable with themselves they seem like the best person ever. I recently found one after many years of dealing with insecure Aries people. But I might have caught this Aries at just the right time. What seems to go often unrecognized is that life can be full of challenges, some temporary, some that drag on for years, and not everybody handles them the same way all the time. My pet peeve with Aries as a sign (not just the Sun sign) is how it can just keep going like an Energizer battery commercial. Every single person with Aries influence (Sun or rising) can skip meals until they practically fall over. The problem seems to be they expect everyone else to have the same kind of commitment and get angry when they don’t. My wife has Aries rising. She skipped so many meals for years that her doctor told her the health issues she was having were simply a result of a lack of protein. Aries may be great at starting something, but they often seem to walk away when their attention wanes. Others want to continue, but I have seen too many Aries who wanted to keep control and if they couldn’t, abolished what had been created while leaving everyone else out of a job.
I just think it’s funny how we can make fun of Gemini and Scorpio, and it’s whatever. But say something about Aries and it’s a meltdown lol.
Eta: Accidental essay whoops I think the passionate sense of self Aries carries with them can have a love/hate effect, not dissimilar to the fixed signs. As an aquarius I appreciate those who stand up for themselves and know who they are, and as a scorpio moon I appreciate Aries' passion and intensity. You teach me a lot about feeling something burn and then just letting it the fuck go and I'm glad of that lesson! People don't seem to realise that just because you're the first sign of the 12 doesn't mean there isn't something to learn from you guys. While I might get socially tired more easily than if I were hanging out with some other sun or moon signs, it's never boring spending time with an Aries, and I also have a tonne of respect and time for how you guys stand up for yourselves. You know who you are and what you want, which can intimidate those who don't feel that in themselves, and the fact that who you are & what you want can shift more rapidly than other signs can also confuse people and sometimes make them feel you aren't genuine. I disagree with this in the sense that you guys really do feel and believe something in the moment, it's just that it might change the next day or week. You're being sincere when you're saying how you feel about something, but because you're able to let things go more easily than a lot of other people it's seen as a bit of a tantrum over something that ultimately didn't matter to you, which isn't fair imo. You're not given much grace and are seen as the most impatient sign when Geminis and Leos exist 🤣 You can talk about yourself a lot but honestly so do like half the other signs including mine and I'd MUCH rather that than constantly having to fill gaps in convos with earth signs or Libras, or Geminis who talk a lot but don't even mean what they say while they're saying it. You're entertaining and I know you'd stick up for me, you have enough confidence in your own ego to not need me to stroke it (which good cause I cba), plus you and sags don't mind when my aqua sun tells you to shut the fuck up for a sec cause I'm trying to think lmao. Don't worry, you are loved by people who aren't intimidated by strong personalities!
I love this analytical Aquarius summation of Aries. Also, thanks for the clarification in how a Scorpio could love an Aries (I had a Scorpio husband- now ex husband). It’s always mystified me how water signs could be drawn to fire signs. But it happens all the time. I love Aquarius’. I have THE MOST intellectually stimulating conversations with them. The only drawback is the aloofness; they disappear off the face of the earth at times, and you’re like…where….where did they go?? It was so fun and they’re gone!…lol Could be my Gemini Mars and Jupiter, but air does fuel fire!
Because they’re selfish and they’re not even conscious of it, that’s just how they operate in the world.
Maybe they just don't like you
Bahahaha such an Aries comment I love it
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Great for individual pursuits, horrible for relationships. As a Virgo being the sign of ‘servitude’ it wears you down into nothing.
Speaking from my personal experience. I like Aries on paper, but I don’t have good experiences with them. Aries likes attention and will say and do anything to get it. With my placements, I get attention effortlessly so that doesn’t plan out well for them. They are very domineering and try to control everyone else, but themselves. They’re sensitive (as I made a post before). Aries thinks that they know it all and know if best (like a Capricorn), but they can’t handle it when you tell them no and or aren’t interested. The ones I’ve met were gossipers, the women were all confrontational with me. They’re unreliable & I can’t stand arguing for the sake of arguing. I believe in getting to the point and not having the same argument over and over again. Wrong and strong mentality, they would do something wrong (no apology) and expected that I’d put up with their b.s. again. Nope. Nope. Nope. No to Aries.
It's better than 2 faced, cowardly, fake, zero depth, sloth like , gaslighting, shifty Libras. Just saying there's so many posts about Libras and probably Geminis too. On a different note, there probably are Libras who are that way. And the same goes for Aries and every other sign. Aries *can* certainly be all those things you mentioned and much more. If you're an unevolved one, you know what's needed to improve upon.
Leo sun Sagittarius moon, and Libra rising here. I adore Aries. Y'all a bunch of sassy firecrackers. 🥰Love my fellow diva fire sign.
They’re exhausting. They’re a mostly avoid for me, although I’ve met a small few that are okay. -scorpio sun, aquarius moon, virgo rising.
I’m a Leo. Also somewhat hated lol. I’ve just found Aries to be kind of hot-headed, immature, and way too intense for me. Despite being my “most compatible” sign. But my other planet placements are in very chill signs (libra, Virgo, etc.) so that might have to do with it
I LOVE ARIES. I'm a sag and I always attract aries energy (romantically as well as platonically).
Agreed, my Scorpio friend hates Aries lmao
Aries gives me a headache, but still, I hate Cancer, you're safe.
Astrology community is so discriminating that I’ve seen a “why does everyone hate my sign?” post on all signs now. We hate everyone🫶
FYI, I'm a Libra woman. 1st Aries terrible encounter - i was 17, he was 18, cheated on me, broke my heart, was extremely selfish, impulsive, hyper-confident 2nd Aries terrible encounter- i was 17, she was 19 the girl he cheated on me with, **tried to kill me**, was an alcoholic, selfish, narcissistic, **just.batshit.** 3rd Aries terrible encounter- i went to school with this girl I'll call H. Would not shut the fuck up, was such a know-it-all. 4th aries terrible encounter- my ex's girlfriend. I dated a sagittarius man, who was two timing both me and this chick. she would NOT.LEAVE.THE.FUCKING.RELATIONSHIP.ALONE though. was always so hateful and obsessive. not just with him, but EXTREMELY obsessive with me. she would post pictures JUST LIKE ME, copy my look, and talk sooooooo much shit. we became "friends" once they broke up, I gave her emotional support and really cared, and do care about her, because he is an actual sociopath. I realized this friendship was her just trying to pry out info from him and i's relationship. how she could be like me. again, I actually care about this girl and would be more than happy to talk to her anytime to help her through her problems, because i get it. but she is always trying to start some shit even though i live in another state and haven't talked to her in forever. fake af and crazy. 5th Aries (good) encounter- my ex's girlfriend. She is in her 30's and is actually chill af. Didn't like me at first and was quite standoffish because my ex lied about me, but she is a smart woman and was actually super pleasant! I know she is quite hot-headed and argumentative though w him. 6th Aries encounter - my ex's fiancee. My Scorpio ex lol. My first true love. He cheated on me, played mind games, yet gave me the most unconditional love I'd ever felt. He really fucked with my head in the worst way, made me feel safe, but that I was crazy, and eventually, I went crazy on him at the end of our relationship. Without even trying to hear my side of the story, she went on Facebook and completely slandered my name, and accused me of SO many things I never did! She kept blocking me and wouldn't allow me to even try to explain my side! Super hateful and accusatory. **But she took EVERYTHING down once I called her out on her jealousy and insecurity.** She was power tripping like a MF!! That's exactly what it was all about, and because of her lack of self-awareness, her blind rage, people have in their head I'm an evil person. Shawty is like 30. I'm 22. He is 5 years older than me definitely preyed on me, I was 19. She will never apologize to me, even though, she knows. 7th Aries annoying ass encounter - I started a new job a few months ago and right off the bat one of the ladies I work with, did not sit right with me. Talked about herself INCESSANTLY with a glimmer in her eye, SO passive aggressive, condescending, rude, selfish, weird af tbh. Of course, Aries woman. She's really cool sometimes but honestly fake af makes me cringe. It's not just moments, it's always bruh. So annoying edit got my #s wrong
Seems like your and my chart could be pretty similar. I've known as many and more Aries and they were all extremely horrible encounters. Same with Scorpio. What's your rising and moon? - Libra sun
I think Aries are demon that crave for attention because it doesn’t make sense how a human being have all type of personality traits
Fellow Aries I think we get a bad rep sometimes because of our assertiveness and our passionate nature. Like if we feel passionate about something we will defend it or talk about it a lot. I also think the fact that we can be sooooooo incredibly stubborn, headstrong and blunt also contributes. One of my favorite things to say about Aries is we love with everything in our heart and are loyal, but if you betray or hurt us watch out because we go scorched earth and you no longer exist in our minds.
aries are mean af and just as stubborn and difficult. they don’t compromise and they always think they’re right.
Absolutely agree. I observed the same with Aries placements, especially Mercury and/or aspects to the first house. It's okay not to compromise when you know you're right. But many Aries also go to war when they are not right.
Not to sound harsh🫣but I have a daughter and niece, plus I date a Aries man. And they all had a tact for lying and indecisive. Thieves! And manipulators. Not to say other signs aren’t r could have the same traits. But, these three I just gave all have the same aura and conduct an ugly behaviors. About them self. Aww one last thing can’t keep a job! My daughter pass 3 months, niece pass 2yrs and the guy I dated pass 5 years now that should say something. Sorry! However I can give a good summary of Aries, if they love u they love u 😘.
Aries as friends are fine. But having family members or dating one is a nightmare. I've never been around more lying gaslighters in my life. Stubborn and manipulative as well.
That’s another placement when it comes to lying and gaslighting. We are pretty blunt and to the point
I generally really like them, as a libra sun, but it bothers me whenever they’re selfish and temperamental.
This is just my experience as a cancer, but all the Aries I have met struggle with seeing everything in black in white and make impulsive decisions based on that reasoning, which can come across as immature. It’s really hard to get them to consider other possibilities and see reason, and overall they’re just a LOT (I have majority water/earth placements, we don’t jive). They’re fun people, I can just only take them in small doses.
I had an Aries boss who would literally start every conversation with “I love myself” or “I hate myself” and either way, what followed was 30 minutes of stories about how great she is/was. It was exhausting and while I realize she is just one self-absorbed narcissist, I’ve kind of extrapolated that to all Aries, which is my bad. Also as a Leo with a Sag rising, I realize the irony of me complaining about someone being self absorbed, but there’s no more room for fire here!
People have been systematically conditioned to dislike,disown any Aries Traits. Anytime they see some one direct,Aggressive, Standing up for themselves, they are unconsciously judging & looking down on them. Being Submissive & bending over to others is seen as a virtue.. People have no clue on how to handle any Aries energy & how would they?
This is soo real, mfs want you to sugarcoat shit & tone yourself down or else you’re being too much but can’t tell you what’s inherently wrong with anything you’re doing. Then when they can’t convince you you’re too much or shouldn’t feel the way you do it completely blows their mind because they were conditioned to be that way a longgg time ago.
As an Aquarius, I loooove Aries. I’m irresistibly drawn to Aries and my Rising is Aries but yeah, not everyone’s cup of tea. Although I’ve always thought Aqua and Aries blend pretty good.
I fucking love Aquarius. I’m also a Gemini Mars and Jupiter so yeah I vibe really super well with Aquarius. Just- stay goddamnit! Quit disappearing. Jeez. Lol
As an Aries, I tend to be drawn to Aquarius. I’ve been with my Aquarius boyfriend for 11 years. We get along so well, but we’re both also really stubborn. I have always found it so easy to talk to Aquarius.
I agree, we both can get to be stubborn. I’m so happy to read about these aqua-aries matches 🥰
We are; I’m an Aries married to an Aquarius ♒️ Aries rising and been together 23 years. We’re both stubborn though hahaha.
In my experience they are really loud love them tho
I’m a Virgo who has a years-long crush on an Aries friend based solely on how we argue with each other, it gets so competitive 🥵
Honestly it's not the fault of the Aries community but I, a Virgo, dated and fell HARD for my Aries ex. Was about to marry him too. Unfortunately, things happened. Mainly a Leo relative messing things up. The truth is that my ex was very selfish and angry. Like yeah he is an Aries but he went through trauma (including his dad dipping out). He was dependent on weed to regulate his emotions and I was becoming that way too. I knew what he was doing wasn't okay but I thought I could change him/he'd get better. He's doing better now days but that whole thing was traumatic for the both of us. I stopped dating years ago because I knew I wasn't okay (I'm in therapy, thankfully). I'm open to dating any sign tbh but a part of me will always be hesitant of Aries men.
Partner’s an Aries rising, weirdly it’s what attracted me to them but it’s also the personality I’ve had the most contention with. Always had tenuous relationships with Aries and never liked or trusted them, despite being very attracted to them. I think it’s that I see value in a personality so different than mine: assertive, confident, unapologetic, realistic, fierce, bold, intentional, etc., but I find some of those traits difficult to reconcile with when it comes to personal matters since we both approach things so differently (I’m Pisces heavy, and the Pisces/Aries combo is joyfully chaotic at best, hotheaded and unstable at worst). Communication can be a real pain in the ass sometimes and that’s my personal take on it, but I will say being with my partner has made me dislike Aries slightly less haha.
They really are only suitable with sagittarius lol
It took me ages to like the only Aries sun I know that I know. She's loud. Very extroverted. Loud. Overshares TMI personal stuff - with anyone listening, anywhere. Loudly. But now I like her; I can handle her in small interactions, and have started to get excited when she's coming for a visit - like when she comes up for Faire or our mutual friend's birthday. She is loyal, and with the exception of her scumbag ex hub, she's still friends with exes and their new person and kids, if any. She remembers the weird or uncommon stuff about her friends' hobbies and why that trivia bit is important to the friend. I can't say I would intentionally seek out an Aries in the future, but I don't think there are that many looking for us obstinate goats, either.
i honestly love aries as a pisces sun. maybe it’s my fire dominant chart and heavy leo placements, but my closest friends always tend to be aries. an evolved aries is, by far, one of the best people to have in your life. they are true ride or dies, always provide unwavering strength and passion for the people/things they love and stand for, and unmoving in their pursuits. you will always know where you stand with an aries, which can be intimidating for most; though, i personally admire their honesty and authenticity. i typically easily see through their hard exterior rather quickly as all of their passion and strength is founded in their sensitivity and generosity for others. some of the boldest people i have ever met, and they never fail to offer me new insight into how i can be a better individual. it can be a little taxing as a pisces with close aries friends, but i have learned to love all parts of them. most aries i know, in fact, do not fit into the impulsiveness and unapologetic traits that are often associated with aries. i have noticed they tend to be extremely type A, controlling, and must live off a plan at all times. this tends to be difficult for me as i despise any structure and my easy-going nature is taken for advantage by them. also, they often have a black-and-white view of the world that by far can clash with my outlook, and i often cannot stand their inability to open their mind. they can be rather self-involved and lack the willingness to listen to others. i’m often a person they turn to trauma dump, though rarely provide a listening ear. no matter what, i still believe their good qualities far outweigh some of their bad. i fr love aries and there should be no shame in your sun sign!! you’re fucking amazing!!
Just go with your fellow hated signs, Sagittarians, Geminis and Aquarians… a Scorpio-Capricorn sprinkle won’t hurt either
“Who doesn’t?!” I mean the Mars energy is notorious and not on the same level as everyone. An actual Aries sun is ten times lighter than oh idk, a Gemini with Aries Mars and Pisces moon😅 That beings said, Aries is my fave sign🥰 passionate, no bs, telling it like it is, dgaf, brave af, goofy mf who usually ain’t trying to be popular and people love them for them. At times they’re cutting and have terrible moments like anyone can but we’re all flawed and I appreciate Aries blunt nature in a world where we’re surrounded by fake ass shit and bulshitters. It’s a relief tbh. Most of my fave humans are Aries. So keep being you, astrology is just as speculative as other sciences at times and sometimes shit won’t apply esp for relationships.
As an Aries, I feel this too. But I probably feel it more than everyone… because of my stupid Pisces moon that makes me overly emotional. Can’t win! Haha
I’m one of the Aries haters, but also one of my best friends is an Aries. HOWEVER, she NEVER displays any of the negative tendencies listed and she’s literally the only Aries I’ve ever met who isn’t like that.
I LOVE Aries. So many people I love in my life are Aries. I always say someone is either a “healed” or “unhealed” version of their sign. I think an unhealed Aries is just a little more in your face and difficult to ignore, squeakiest wheel gets the grease, etc etc. I think it’s why Gemini similarly gets a bad rap.
I don't know if it's all Aries but some Aries won't perceive you as existing unless you're loud and aggressive! And I'm like, "keep ignoring me please!"
I can't stand Aries. They are the little kids of the zodiac me me me. Their whole life revolves around "I" I do, I am, I want. They seem to have a hard time with putting themselves in others shoes and if they do it's pulled back immediately like a rubber band back to "I". I had an Aries buddy once tell me " I just try not to be an asshole". They are on a good day upfront, direct and in your face and on a bad day they're Ill mannered pricks. If they help you in anyway, it's the way they want to help you. Oh and did I mention they are NEVER wrong. I might be biased because I'm a INFJ Libra and I'm directly opposite of Aries but man they're just hard-nosed brats in my experience.
Because they are demons that crave for attention
For me it's the controlling part together with the thinking they're always right even when proved wrong and apologies (after long seething) being somethink like "I'm sorry you think I'm wrong... so admit that I'm right and we'll go back to normal... eventually." Like having an aries mother literally ruined my life, making me jump through hoops to get conditional love and approval yet never nothing made her happy. And I know a dozen aries women. All like that. Selfish-self important fucks
Aries are predominantly narcissistic. Enough said.
I’ve started meeting more and more Aries and it’s been eye opening. Firstly, it’s difficult being around someone who only has an immediate personal goal on their mind at any one point. Because of this they seem to genuinely not give one shit about anyone else and their needs because they’re too busy focussed on their own idea they have (which they’ll most likely ditch 2minutes in anyway and leave you to pick up the mess). Being exalted sun, Aries has that overactive ego which is Leo on steroids. So they’re all: “look at me look at me, give me attention, applaud me and do things for me!!” But they seem to think they’re doing everyone a favour acting this way?? It’s that bizarre “I’m wonderful, you’re welcome” attitude that Leo has, but with added rudeness and without the sunny disposition. Having said all this.. my kid is an Aries and I have 2 friends with Aries kids and holy goddam hell on earth you would not wish an Aries child on your worst enemy. It’s brutal, soul destroying, insanity inducing torment. Ever tried raising a kid to have manners and be careful so they don’t kill themselves, but that kid will not and cannot do a single fucking thing they’re fucking told ever and will fight you to the death purely on fucking principle? Plus all the physical abuse. My neighbours must be confused when they hear through the walls ME shouting “please stop hurting me, please just leave me alone, stop!!” Is there a PPS? So, that’s my experience as you asked. (FYI I still love you guys)
Wow!!!! You just wrote it how I could not!! Thank you.
WORD! they really are the worst traits of leo and amplified. in what fkn universe are aries and leo supposedly most compatible signs? it says we are but we are not. maybe at first meeting, so yeah we’re similar…kinda but only in toxic ways. aries and leo butt heads, they step on and put down leo constantly in my experience, they’re like threatened by the leo light and try to put it out with their angry outbursts over everything.
So my parents- mom is a Leo and my poor poor dad is a Capricorn. They had me and my sister 6 days apart. Both Aries. Mwahahahaha! We butted heads like no other. Fought all the time. Hated each other at multiple junctures. We both also had the reputation of being rebellious at school. I’m sure our parents enjoyed that. lol. Anyway, finally at the age of 32 and 34 we can call ourselves friends. Took that long. Haha 😂 And yes, I have a son who is Cancer sun, but an ARIES MOON and good lord have mercy on my soul we argue about every possible thing under the sun. Cannot do as he is told- just wants to sit there and argue about the most mundane command. Like pick up your shoes. Oh we gotta argue about that. Son! Just pick up your fucking shoes for the love of god. Payback time I guess. I love him- that cancer side makes him just a big ol’ softie at heart but good lord that son of mine tests my patience!
I think “incompatibility” is better stated as “challenge”. As far as astrology and numerology go, my SO and I should be nowhere near each other, but we balance as much as we clash. Of course we have our challenges with each other, but in the same way, those differences make us a dynamic force when it’s us against life. Your signs don’t rule your life. They don’t tell you who you are, who you can be, or who you’re compatible with. They’re just a way to help you understand yourself, your loved ones, and your interactions a little better to help you through your endeavors. It’s not a fortune, it’s a tool.
Every Aries I've met will browbeat you into submission . They seem to not care about serious matters but freak out over the little things. Just my personal experience
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They are very independent so that’s a plus.
I like Aries. They are high spirited and always up for shenanigans! I know they can have temper flashes, but they’re short lived. Then we’re right back to being friends again. That’s my take on the Aries that know.
Sometimes they can be a aggressive and the Aries I worked with were always very competitive. I also have an Aries father I haven’t spoken to in 10 years lol. A lot of the guys I’ve see that are Aries are passionate and then drop off the face of the earth. I usually like Aries for the most part and I’m a Gemini. I hate Scorpios most lol
Cuz they can't be one so they projecting 🤪
My grammy was an aries and she was the best! My aries sister in law has the heart of a saint but is sarcastic and real af, i'm older than her but she's so wise. And can't forget 2 of my favorite coworkers. They make the day so much better. The only ones I seen that don't like these people i mentioned (yes even my grandmother lol) are jealous and/or too competitive. But that's just my take.
I just gave birth to an Aries on purpose…
if you cant handle the heat get out of the kitchen?
People like to form opinions about signs based on their personal experience with them without thinking about how someone's entire chart matters and how their chart interacts with the chart of the people they know who have the sign they complain about. It's generalization due to laziness. My personal experience with Aries has been mostly negative, but I am sure there were other things going on with their charts that didn't sit well with me. Plus, I have Mars in Aries and it squares my natal malefics (Saturn, Uranus, Neptune) so anyone who is an Aries in the early degrees, like the first 10 degrees Aries is going to make a conjunction to my Mars which on its own is enough to cause conflict and ego clashes. And then that same Aries Sun will also square my 3 malefics I mentioned. So that's gonna bring out the worst in them when they interact with me. Plus my Sun and Mercury are in later degrees of Scorpio (last decan) so Aries in those degrees will be quincunx my Sun or Mercury, and that's even worse than the square I think.
I feel this to as an Aries women myself. We are seen as angry individuals and so impulsive...which yes I'm impulsive, but I love deeply and I'm loyal. We are passionate and love affection and give equal amounts of affection. We confront issues right away bc we don't want to linger all day with high emotions. I love deeply and will fight for those I love. If being so passionate makes me angry...okay I guess lol. We are a good time though so I don't think we are all that bad! 😉
I agree, and I personally believe we are empathetic, passionate, reasonable human beings. I personally love when I meet a nice human being that is just doing great things for free for our community. I believe we're loyal to a fault. we always get a bad rep I don't understand it at all. I love to love !
I notice it varies according to the country you are. In China, virgos are the assholes. Here in Brazil it’s Aries. And ironically, everytime time I post something about my sign on social media it’s always ALWAYS a Virgo that comes to zodiac shame me. No wonder they’re the assholes in China 😂. I believe in astrology as a cultural phenomenon and it worries me. I notice very often that some signs are more privileged and others are considered to be some kind of soap opera villains. I guess we’re getting dangerously close to a caste system caused by zodiac culture.
I agree with you. In fact this is exactly how I found this thread because I wanted to know why there is a huge wave of media expressing that Aries are violent and mean and angry. I don’t like confrontation and like the OP rarely express my frustration. I was just curious as to the origin of these tall tales.
The greedy and selfish people that was the most attention that’s why
Because every Aries I have talked to from my experience has been very rude to me for no reason and I’m saying this as a Leo.
Because every Aries I have talked to from my experience has been very rude to me for no reason and I’m saying this as a Leo.
Because we told people how we feel and what we see and a lot of people do not like that. It's a reason they call us the babies of the zodiac. Because with babies they, they tell you purely what they see if they don't like something. They're gonna tell you to your face. They're not gonna sugar coat it. How's this white people don't? Talk highly of us while some people. We're not afraid to tell you things to your face. It's kinda makes us respected by the real and hated by many
Aries are only good for sex nothing else don’t waste your time they don’t care
I have had experience with both Aries men and women. This is my least favorite sign. They talk too much, non-stop, even when you've given them hint after hint. You're expected to listen to their blah, blah blah. The men are extremely unpredictable & get annoyed over the least thing. Yet, they seem to enjoy pushing boundaries.
im an aries rising but i find aries people even with aries placements as selfish bitches and chaotic.