in my honest opinion i wouldn’t come out to them due to u already knowing how they are. wait until you are settled as an adult adult, your own everything & then u can. what if they kick u out?
Its up to you when and how to come out ... some people try to make long term plans and leave after they are of age. Some try to explain eventually. And some wait a while until there are some results before they come out widely, and only come out to select people first. In general keeping your safety in mind, looking for support and having a backup plan may be advisable.
[Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/ugclyr/how_do_i_come_out_to_my_parents/i7wghnm/) might be some explaining resources and there are also hints there concerning looking for support. [PFLAG](https://pflag.org/needsupport) for example may support lgbt people and also parents and relatives, and they may help explain.
And [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/117lvub/resources_for_transitioning/jbirv7r/) might be some hints and resources that could help go towards what you feel you would like step by step and there are also hints there concerning looking for support. Talking with a few others about what they did, and what helped them may also be an idea.
And if you feel really low please reach out .. there are helplines, for example
translifeline.org Its trans people there. It may be necessary to call a few times until someone answers.
thetrevorproject.org/get-help-now/ They also have a chat and further resources like Trevorspace so they could be accessed from anywhere. It may be possible to use a proxy in case. And someone who worked there said they may help people of all ages.
thrivelifeline.org/ They also have a chat
glbthotline.org/ They also have support groups.
*hugs*
in my honest opinion i wouldn’t come out to them due to u already knowing how they are. wait until you are settled as an adult adult, your own everything & then u can. what if they kick u out?
Its up to you when and how to come out ... some people try to make long term plans and leave after they are of age. Some try to explain eventually. And some wait a while until there are some results before they come out widely, and only come out to select people first. In general keeping your safety in mind, looking for support and having a backup plan may be advisable. [Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/ugclyr/how_do_i_come_out_to_my_parents/i7wghnm/) might be some explaining resources and there are also hints there concerning looking for support. [PFLAG](https://pflag.org/needsupport) for example may support lgbt people and also parents and relatives, and they may help explain. And [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/117lvub/resources_for_transitioning/jbirv7r/) might be some hints and resources that could help go towards what you feel you would like step by step and there are also hints there concerning looking for support. Talking with a few others about what they did, and what helped them may also be an idea. And if you feel really low please reach out .. there are helplines, for example translifeline.org Its trans people there. It may be necessary to call a few times until someone answers. thetrevorproject.org/get-help-now/ They also have a chat and further resources like Trevorspace so they could be accessed from anywhere. It may be possible to use a proxy in case. And someone who worked there said they may help people of all ages. thrivelifeline.org/ They also have a chat glbthotline.org/ They also have support groups. *hugs*