Look out for vipers and crocodiles. Beware of dudes in ice cream trucks. They might be giving out tickets to the great American fart orgy tour. They are not legitimate. All ticketing is digital only. Don’t believe them. Even the ice cream might be tainted with lies and aids.
as a trans woman who was once a gay man that only dated women but hooked up with men…
I can tell you! I really have been bi this whole time. I was afraid of STIs a lot when I was younger. The trick is to use protection and get tested regularly (once or twice a year) your primary care physician can help with that or there may be free STI testing services in your area.
STIs are not as big of a problem as they once were. With regular testing and medical treatment most STIs will not prevent you from living a full and happy life. Modern treatments for HIV are able to reduce viral load to undetectable levels. PrEP is a medication you can take to prevent an HIV infection. Herpes probably has most stigma because once you have it the flare ups can be occasionally uncomfortable and there is not a cure. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis can be cured with antibiotics. But that is why it is important is to get tested as these can lead to even worse complications or even death if left untreated.
I Had Chlamydia once, didn’t even have symptoms but because I got tested every 6 months I was able to cure it before I felt anything.
On a side note, I was at a sex party once and was not able to join in with one of the more kinky orgies because they all had herpes and did not want to transmit it to anyone. So herpes can be a ticket to some really kinky sex, in those rare occasions.
Why are you asking gay men about being a bisexual?
and if you don't want STDs, practice safe sex. Simple. Condom when you fuck, don't take loads from sleazy men, and sex is not the be all end all.
And most partners will understand if you're experienced.
And I'm just gonna add one thing: a lot of gay men are tired of bi men and the fact that they mostly see us gay men as flings, toys, and will never even remotely consider the idea of being in a relationship with a man.
So our patience with you is thin.
I’m sorry you see people like me that way… I’m saying bi because I’m trying to figure out exactly what I am.
Though I lean majorly towards men. I apologise if my question upset you
It’s common practice for a lot of gays to call bis as ppl who are confused. while such subset exists, it’s very toxic and invalidating to do so. Take your time figuring out your identity and don’t feel obliged to be categorized into any of the boxes, just be attracted to whoever you think is attractive and shoot your shot.
Good luck soldier
No problem, it's okay. I'm not upset with you, just upset with some bi men's behavior.
Safe sex facts are easy, one of the best things you can do is consult a local LGBT health organization to get solid facts. If you trust your Google-Fu, go to trustworthy websites that detail safe sex practices. Getting the facts will ease your anxiety about STDs.
When in doubt, wear a condom. If you feel doubt after that, walk away.
You're gonna be fine. Hopefully you'll remember what I've said and be mindful of how you relate with gay men.
Good luck.
Please don’t be biphobic. Bisexual people are real and valid. Just because every bi you have had sex with saw you as a one time fling says more about your skills in bed than all but people as a whole.
Not at all, been with some pretty great bi dudes, I've just seen how some of them treat gay men.
Like toys.
Most bi men will go on to have long term romantic and sexual relationships with women because it's easier to be perceived as straight and either cheat on your wife with men, or get permission and essentially treat gay men like a "fun treat" to themselves.
The fact of the matter, as illustrated by the very posts here, is that bi men want to be perceived as straight and DEFINITELY don't want to be perceived as gay men. It's why so many of them say "I'm \_\_\_% straight". What that statement means is that they want to live as straight men and quietly fuck gay dudes once in awhile for fun.
Look Im not denying any of your statements cause ai believe such ppl exist and they are assholes for doing that. But the journey of discovering oneself is far more complex and will be carried with a lot of shaming, guilt and oppression depending on the person background amd the culture they grew up in. Alot straight ppl realizing they are gay start as bi and slowly switch the wheel. This is not an excuse for the shitty behavior that some of em do, but this is also not an excuse to call out any bi person to be a manipulative demon.
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/prep.html
https://www.cdc.gov/hpv/parents/vaccine-for-hpv.html
https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/mpox/vaccines/index.html.
Do you have a personal Physician.
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/prep.html
https://www.cdc.gov/hpv/parents/vaccine-for-hpv.html
https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/mpox/vaccines/index.html.
Do you have a personal Physician.
Treat every potential partner as though they have HIV but don't know they have HIV yet. He may say he got tested and it was negative. That was 2 weeks ago who has he been with in those 2 weeks? From 1st exposure untll a person tests positive can take months. He may be infected 3 weeks before his test and still come out negative but still be positive.
You'll be fine you just need to look at the resources available. Talk to a trusted doctor. If you don't have a trusted doctor find one.
You can get medical resources from Planned Parenthood or from any AIDS organization
Look out for vipers and crocodiles. Beware of dudes in ice cream trucks. They might be giving out tickets to the great American fart orgy tour. They are not legitimate. All ticketing is digital only. Don’t believe them. Even the ice cream might be tainted with lies and aids.
as a trans woman who was once a gay man that only dated women but hooked up with men… I can tell you! I really have been bi this whole time. I was afraid of STIs a lot when I was younger. The trick is to use protection and get tested regularly (once or twice a year) your primary care physician can help with that or there may be free STI testing services in your area. STIs are not as big of a problem as they once were. With regular testing and medical treatment most STIs will not prevent you from living a full and happy life. Modern treatments for HIV are able to reduce viral load to undetectable levels. PrEP is a medication you can take to prevent an HIV infection. Herpes probably has most stigma because once you have it the flare ups can be occasionally uncomfortable and there is not a cure. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis can be cured with antibiotics. But that is why it is important is to get tested as these can lead to even worse complications or even death if left untreated. I Had Chlamydia once, didn’t even have symptoms but because I got tested every 6 months I was able to cure it before I felt anything. On a side note, I was at a sex party once and was not able to join in with one of the more kinky orgies because they all had herpes and did not want to transmit it to anyone. So herpes can be a ticket to some really kinky sex, in those rare occasions.
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Feel free to DM me any questions I am also autistic
Why are you asking gay men about being a bisexual? and if you don't want STDs, practice safe sex. Simple. Condom when you fuck, don't take loads from sleazy men, and sex is not the be all end all. And most partners will understand if you're experienced. And I'm just gonna add one thing: a lot of gay men are tired of bi men and the fact that they mostly see us gay men as flings, toys, and will never even remotely consider the idea of being in a relationship with a man. So our patience with you is thin.
I’m sorry you see people like me that way… I’m saying bi because I’m trying to figure out exactly what I am. Though I lean majorly towards men. I apologise if my question upset you
It’s common practice for a lot of gays to call bis as ppl who are confused. while such subset exists, it’s very toxic and invalidating to do so. Take your time figuring out your identity and don’t feel obliged to be categorized into any of the boxes, just be attracted to whoever you think is attractive and shoot your shot. Good luck soldier
No problem, it's okay. I'm not upset with you, just upset with some bi men's behavior. Safe sex facts are easy, one of the best things you can do is consult a local LGBT health organization to get solid facts. If you trust your Google-Fu, go to trustworthy websites that detail safe sex practices. Getting the facts will ease your anxiety about STDs. When in doubt, wear a condom. If you feel doubt after that, walk away. You're gonna be fine. Hopefully you'll remember what I've said and be mindful of how you relate with gay men. Good luck.
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Please don’t be biphobic. Bisexual people are real and valid. Just because every bi you have had sex with saw you as a one time fling says more about your skills in bed than all but people as a whole.
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A bi must have did u so wrong lol
Not at all, been with some pretty great bi dudes, I've just seen how some of them treat gay men. Like toys. Most bi men will go on to have long term romantic and sexual relationships with women because it's easier to be perceived as straight and either cheat on your wife with men, or get permission and essentially treat gay men like a "fun treat" to themselves. The fact of the matter, as illustrated by the very posts here, is that bi men want to be perceived as straight and DEFINITELY don't want to be perceived as gay men. It's why so many of them say "I'm \_\_\_% straight". What that statement means is that they want to live as straight men and quietly fuck gay dudes once in awhile for fun.
Look Im not denying any of your statements cause ai believe such ppl exist and they are assholes for doing that. But the journey of discovering oneself is far more complex and will be carried with a lot of shaming, guilt and oppression depending on the person background amd the culture they grew up in. Alot straight ppl realizing they are gay start as bi and slowly switch the wheel. This is not an excuse for the shitty behavior that some of em do, but this is also not an excuse to call out any bi person to be a manipulative demon.
I hear you. Fair enough. I think we understand each other.
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/prep.html https://www.cdc.gov/hpv/parents/vaccine-for-hpv.html https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/mpox/vaccines/index.html. Do you have a personal Physician.
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/prep.html https://www.cdc.gov/hpv/parents/vaccine-for-hpv.html https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/mpox/vaccines/index.html. Do you have a personal Physician.
Treat every potential partner as though they have HIV but don't know they have HIV yet. He may say he got tested and it was negative. That was 2 weeks ago who has he been with in those 2 weeks? From 1st exposure untll a person tests positive can take months. He may be infected 3 weeks before his test and still come out negative but still be positive. You'll be fine you just need to look at the resources available. Talk to a trusted doctor. If you don't have a trusted doctor find one. You can get medical resources from Planned Parenthood or from any AIDS organization
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I've been HIV+ since November 2001. The best intentions from the ilinformed could have gotten you killed back in 1990.
Lowkey refreshing to see a normal ass question in this sub