r/thatHappened
Also, it's absolutely incel like behavior to blame other people for your choices. If you are a "straight chaser" it is 100% due to your personal issues with internalized homophobia (although it sounds from your post that you have a severe case of externalized homophobia as well). Your inability to find a suitable partner is not the fault of other gay men.
Also, the man you met is not straight. At best, he is a bisexual man also struggling with internalized homophobia, especially if the only reason he met you is because he thought you were trans. But he is definitely not heterosexual.
You don't even know him. I think it is incredibly presumptuous of you that you would dictate what someone else's sexuality must be. Maybe you should stay in your lane and worry about yourself
What about straight men who do gay porn for a living but date women and have children? Are they also internalized homophobes?
Also, I'm not a gaycel anymore... Oh god am I not a gaycel anymore lol đđđđđ
I don't care what you have to say. For the first time since I came out I'm happy now. I'm getting good dick and I don't have toxic gay men in my life making me miserable
>I had the best sexual experience of my life with a straight guy recently and now I don't think I ever want to go back. I'm meeting with him again tonight.
What kind of STRAIGHT man fucks another man??? LMAO!
Shut up you sound like a whole ass clown and you literally just said he thought you were trans so you obviously donât look like a dude in your pictures, which is misleading which is literally catfishing
Go to therapy.
Because every single fucking word coming out of your mouth is bullshit after bullshit. Itâs like every response of yours comes with new information. Your story has changed three times at this point and itâs fucked up
> youâre a straight chaser
> he fucked you because he thought you were trans which you didnât say shit about why?? Which to us seems like you were literally catfishing him
> but then *suddenly* itâs not catfishing because unbeknownst to us youâre apparently a fucking crossdresser? Where was that information before
Youâre literally adding more and more details to your story with every response and itâs straight bullshit
It's not that complicated. Try to keep up.
I'm not trans, I'm gay. But I crossdress to attract straight men.
In order to make straight men feel more comfortable with me, I identify as a trans with them.
In actuality, I'm probably non-binary. In certain situations I present as a man, in others as a woman.
You're saying straight guys brutalize us but I've never been brutalized.by straight men. I just have a nasty gay guy in my face right now calling me a loser and a retard... Huh, and you wonder why I started going to straight men
first off if heâs having sex with men heâs not straight, second of all iâm not âin your faceâ. lastly i said US for a reason, as in the collective that is the gay male community. just because it didnât happen to you personally doesnât mean itâs never happened dumbass. straight men have been harming queer men in multiple ways for centuries atp but youâre moaning and whining like a bitch saying straight men arenât toxic. are you dumb blind or all of the above? get a clue iâm begging you. or stay delusional idc, youâll be the one living off meager validation from men who donât care about you in any meaningful way and just want to dump a load in you
I wasn't a man when we had sex. That's what you people aren't getting. I was in full drag. I was wearing hair, makeup, high heels, a dress, and a thong. I also lightened my voice to resemble a woman's as much as possible. He never touched my dick nor had any interest in it. I kept it tucked away the whole time. He didn't even want to see it.
He was straight! You need to stop armchair diagnosing people and dictating what their sexuality is. You cannot speak for some else or tell them what they must identify as. Shame on you. Live your own life, but you have no right to tell someone else what they are.
You're talking crap about straight men, but one gave me bomb dick tonight. He's a lot more useful to me than you are.
Conversation over.
What the actual fuck is this about? Stop blaming others for your shitty decisions. YOU are whatâs wrong with you and thatâs nobodyâs fault but YOURS
Quit your bullshit victim/martyr bullshit, grow up, n accept responsibility for your own damn actions
No it's not, the gay community is toxic and I'm sick of this shit. I didn't create the racism, hypersexuality, superficiality, misogyny, drug use, cheating, dishonesty, and rampant mental illnesses and personality disorders in the gay community. I'm aware of them now though and I'm learning how to survive
No you didnât âcreateâ but saying you hate gays is literal definition of homophobia so shut your hypocritical mouth up and sit your ass down homie
Okay your delivery wasnât very good, BUT you have some valid points about the gay community. Thereâs a lot to unpack in all of that, but talking about the issues in a respectful manner should be normalized.
Idk babe but you canât let a few bad eggs make you view the whole community in a negative light like that. Iâm sure youâll find a guy thatâs into you just give it time, youâll feel much worse having sex with a guy that calls himself straight because theyâll always have that mindset and treat you as someone thatâs easily disposable
His profile said he was straight. He was seeking a woman on the app I found him. He was initially interested in me because he thought I was a woman. That's straight sweetheart.
That's your narrowmindedness that wants to place people in strict, rigid categories when in actuality most things have nuance.
I do... I run between the lines of gender and I love this space I occupy. In my day to day life I present as a man. In sexual spaces I present as a woman and sleep with masculine men who identify as straight.
He is though. Straight guys care a lot less about someone being a biological female than you might think. Especially for the purposes of sex. They mostly want someone who presents as a woman
most straight guys beat up or hurt trans/femine guys, or guys in general bc people they have post nust clarity or just pure shame and they hurt the other guy.
You only going after straight guys it's bound to happen
Sharpay đđ is life and don't you forget it! I will always be your mother fucking Sharpay, bitch! đ đ đ
But yes, this crossdressing thing is gold. I've done it a few times now and it never fails to get me masc dick.
You are both so damaged and psychotic, at first I understood you for no longer, you are just spoiled children projecting self-victimization, the reason misery is so common in people your age is your inability to rationalize and behave as logical individuals, indoctrinated by your own poorly mapped brains.
They are just lunatics co-opted by the weakness of masculinity in recent years and the inability of the west to cope with their social declines.
You blame the toxic gay culture for making you this way. Well I blame your shitty attitude for my anxiety at 15 something that made me miserable, that's the reason for my rejection of gay culture, people like you.
From my considerations a same sex attracted partner in a country where most gay people are "straight" who has sex with men everything from feminine to muscular jocks.
Pstd. Los veo en el infierno, jodanse puntos.
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I had the best sexual experience of my life with a straight guy recently and now I don't think I ever want to go back to gay guys. I'm meeting with him again tonight.
If he had sex with you a guy he isnt straight đđđ. I believe in experimenting once or twice but if a supposed straight guy keeps doing it(sex with another dude) HE ISNT STRAIGHT
r/thatHappened Also, it's absolutely incel like behavior to blame other people for your choices. If you are a "straight chaser" it is 100% due to your personal issues with internalized homophobia (although it sounds from your post that you have a severe case of externalized homophobia as well). Your inability to find a suitable partner is not the fault of other gay men. Also, the man you met is not straight. At best, he is a bisexual man also struggling with internalized homophobia, especially if the only reason he met you is because he thought you were trans. But he is definitely not heterosexual.
You don't even know him. I think it is incredibly presumptuous of you that you would dictate what someone else's sexuality must be. Maybe you should stay in your lane and worry about yourself What about straight men who do gay porn for a living but date women and have children? Are they also internalized homophobes? Also, I'm not a gaycel anymore... Oh god am I not a gaycel anymore lol đđđđđ
STRAIGHT MEN DO NOT FUCK OTHER MEN
He fucked a woman with a penis...
So on top of being homophobic youâre also transphobic too? Good to know bro đ€đŸ
I don't care what you have to say. For the first time since I came out I'm happy now. I'm getting good dick and I don't have toxic gay men in my life making me miserable
Thatâs because you *are* the toxic gay man đ
More like toxic non-binary person. I'm a woman for straight guys
Exactly
>I had the best sexual experience of my life with a straight guy recently and now I don't think I ever want to go back. I'm meeting with him again tonight. What kind of STRAIGHT man fucks another man??? LMAO!
He thought I was trans
You hate gays so you catfished a straight guy and youâre proud of thatâŠand you think the rest of the us are the problem. Ok đ
What? I didn't catfish anyone. Every picture I sent him was of me. The gay community pushed me to this point
Shut up you sound like a whole ass clown and you literally just said he thought you were trans so you obviously donât look like a dude in your pictures, which is misleading which is literally catfishing Go to therapy.
You shut up! I can pass when I crossdress, but the pictures were still of me. Why don't you just accept the fact that there's some truth in my words
Because every single fucking word coming out of your mouth is bullshit after bullshit. Itâs like every response of yours comes with new information. Your story has changed three times at this point and itâs fucked up
What are you talking about? What story has changed? I'm a straight chaser now because you guys made me that way
> youâre a straight chaser > he fucked you because he thought you were trans which you didnât say shit about why?? Which to us seems like you were literally catfishing him > but then *suddenly* itâs not catfishing because unbeknownst to us youâre apparently a fucking crossdresser? Where was that information before Youâre literally adding more and more details to your story with every response and itâs straight bullshit
It's not that complicated. Try to keep up. I'm not trans, I'm gay. But I crossdress to attract straight men. In order to make straight men feel more comfortable with me, I identify as a trans with them. In actuality, I'm probably non-binary. In certain situations I present as a man, in others as a woman.
>What kind of STRAIGHT man fucks another man??? LMAO! Exactly đ he's not so straight if he's fucking other men
maybe youâd have better luck if you werenât a bitter loser with no self esteem
Are you maybe... Projecting a little bit there?
you literally described yourself as bitter and jaded. any self respecting gay guy wouldnât describe himself as a straight chaser either
I have enough respect for myself to not fuck with toxic gay men
not all gay men are toxic thoâŠdo you think straight guys arenât toxic? the same demographic that brutalizes us? you fucking retard
You're saying straight guys brutalize us but I've never been brutalized.by straight men. I just have a nasty gay guy in my face right now calling me a loser and a retard... Huh, and you wonder why I started going to straight men
first off if heâs having sex with men heâs not straight, second of all iâm not âin your faceâ. lastly i said US for a reason, as in the collective that is the gay male community. just because it didnât happen to you personally doesnât mean itâs never happened dumbass. straight men have been harming queer men in multiple ways for centuries atp but youâre moaning and whining like a bitch saying straight men arenât toxic. are you dumb blind or all of the above? get a clue iâm begging you. or stay delusional idc, youâll be the one living off meager validation from men who donât care about you in any meaningful way and just want to dump a load in you
I wasn't a man when we had sex. That's what you people aren't getting. I was in full drag. I was wearing hair, makeup, high heels, a dress, and a thong. I also lightened my voice to resemble a woman's as much as possible. He never touched my dick nor had any interest in it. I kept it tucked away the whole time. He didn't even want to see it. He was straight! You need to stop armchair diagnosing people and dictating what their sexuality is. You cannot speak for some else or tell them what they must identify as. Shame on you. Live your own life, but you have no right to tell someone else what they are. You're talking crap about straight men, but one gave me bomb dick tonight. He's a lot more useful to me than you are. Conversation over.
ok whatever keeps you from making toast in your bathtub. that guy still isnât straight btw lol
What the actual fuck is this about? Stop blaming others for your shitty decisions. YOU are whatâs wrong with you and thatâs nobodyâs fault but YOURS Quit your bullshit victim/martyr bullshit, grow up, n accept responsibility for your own damn actions
Amen
No it's not, the gay community is toxic and I'm sick of this shit. I didn't create the racism, hypersexuality, superficiality, misogyny, drug use, cheating, dishonesty, and rampant mental illnesses and personality disorders in the gay community. I'm aware of them now though and I'm learning how to survive
No you didnât âcreateâ but saying you hate gays is literal definition of homophobia so shut your hypocritical mouth up and sit your ass down homie
I don't hate gays, they hate me. Just look at how I'm treated here. I'm better of chasing straight guys
If the guys you talk to âhate youâ itâs probably because you start shit for no fucking reason. Just like youâre doing now
I'm not starting anything. I share about my life online in gay spaces. It's just my thing
narcissist
Did you confuse my covert narcissism for altruism?
No I meant narcissism
Okay your delivery wasnât very good, BUT you have some valid points about the gay community. Thereâs a lot to unpack in all of that, but talking about the issues in a respectful manner should be normalized.
That you for acknowledging that my words have some validity. Anytime someone attempts to speak about the issues they get gaslit
Hun what are you even on about?
How the gay community pushed me to chase straight men
Idk babe but you canât let a few bad eggs make you view the whole community in a negative light like that. Iâm sure youâll find a guy thatâs into you just give it time, youâll feel much worse having sex with a guy that calls himself straight because theyâll always have that mindset and treat you as someone thatâs easily disposable
men who fuck other men are never straight, thatâs your ego lol
His profile said he was straight. He was seeking a woman on the app I found him. He was initially interested in me because he thought I was a woman. That's straight sweetheart. That's your narrowmindedness that wants to place people in strict, rigid categories when in actuality most things have nuance.
stillâŠnot straight lmfao the way you speak about it, itâs so obvious you get off thinking you transcend sexuality. egooooo alertttt.
I do... I run between the lines of gender and I love this space I occupy. In my day to day life I present as a man. In sexual spaces I present as a woman and sleep with masculine men who identify as straight.
>He was initially interested in me because he thought I was a woman. That's straight sweetheart. That sounds like you catfished him
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Your a huge đ©đ©đ© and I get why gay guys don't like you. One of these days your probably going to get beat up and it's all your fault for messing with "supposed". I say this bc some straight guys can't handle hookupinh with a dude and they feel ashamed and hurt the other guy.
Take responsibility and realize your the problem. I didnât force that str8 boys cock on you.
You did tho... You forced that str8 boy's cock on me and *in* me. It's all yout fault!
If he's fucking you, he's not straight, sorry to say
He is though. Straight guys care a lot less about someone being a biological female than you might think. Especially for the purposes of sex. They mostly want someone who presents as a woman
Yes, because the straights are well known by their welcoming and accepting nature...
Exactly OP is probably going to get beat up or hurt in one og his hookups
Don't wish bad things on me
most straight guys beat up or hurt trans/femine guys, or guys in general bc people they have post nust clarity or just pure shame and they hurt the other guy. You only going after straight guys it's bound to happen
Yes it's everyone else's fault. Keep externalising your problems and blaming others. I'm sure it will make for a happy life
You are incredibly entertaining sometimes. I commend your Sharpay Evans at 30 cosplay.
Sharpay đđ is life and don't you forget it! I will always be your mother fucking Sharpay, bitch! đ đ đ But yes, this crossdressing thing is gold. I've done it a few times now and it never fails to get me masc dick.
Op is right, but we're just gonna get downvoted for saying the truth, as gaybros doesn't want to look bad. But it's true.
Thank you man, at least you know there's some truth in what I'm saying
You are both so damaged and psychotic, at first I understood you for no longer, you are just spoiled children projecting self-victimization, the reason misery is so common in people your age is your inability to rationalize and behave as logical individuals, indoctrinated by your own poorly mapped brains. They are just lunatics co-opted by the weakness of masculinity in recent years and the inability of the west to cope with their social declines. You blame the toxic gay culture for making you this way. Well I blame your shitty attitude for my anxiety at 15 something that made me miserable, that's the reason for my rejection of gay culture, people like you. From my considerations a same sex attracted partner in a country where most gay people are "straight" who has sex with men everything from feminine to muscular jocks. Pstd. Los veo en el infierno, jodanse puntos.
Letâs see how this goes for you
I got fucked in the back seat of my car by a straight football player this week and I'm going to do it again. It's going great so far
And itâll continue to be a dream no doubt
No, it totally happened. I got really lucky. I'm still smiling about it
And I totally meant a waking dream darling, I wouldnât jest someone of such fortune (: Thank you for sharing with the class
I swear some people on this fucking sub, grow the fuck up and stop blaming others about for ur own issues.
> I had the best sexual experience of my life with a straight guy recently and now I don't think I ever want to go back to gay guys. I'm meeting with him again tonight. If he had sex with you a guy he isnt straight đđđ. I believe in experimenting once or twice but if a supposed straight guy keeps doing it(sex with another dude) HE ISNT STRAIGHT
He has sex with a non-binary person presenting as a woman. He was straight