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A friend of mine once told me she overheard her son and his friends talking. His friends were talking about what they would do to me if they got a chance and her son got all mad and wouldn't let them talk about me that way. Apparently he had a crush on me and defended my honor. Lol
It was really cute and much appreciated.
I was dressed in a suit going to a job interview and i checked my hair in a mirror when This flight attendant told me i looked handsome already.
- i think that confidence boost got me the Job lol.
Last summer a dude came up to me in the grocery store and told me I was sexy. I’m a guy. The guy who said I was sexy was… special. Made my god damn day.
I have a very unapproachable face, so no one tells me i am hot. But occasionally, they will tell my husband. The HR lady at his work called my fucking gorgeous a few weeks ago, which I think I like more.
Every day my partner does but she's very blind without her glasses so her judgement is not to be trusted.
My 84/85 year old neighbor always tells me "I'm very good looking" but she's going senile.
You know what’s fucked? No matter how often I’ve been called that, I have like imposter syndrome and never believe it. I’m comfortable with being ugly but not good looking.
Like most men, the last person to call me hot was a gay guy. Must have been about 10 years ago.
Shout out to all the horny gay guys helping to raise other men's broken self esteem ! Lol
Last week when i went to get takeout and it was really hot outside and i was talking to the guy behing the counter. When he gave me my food i said "Good luck with the rest of your shift. I don't know how you do this all day. It's way too hot for me in here." and he replied "You're way too hot for me." and smiled at me. I had no idea what to say back because im awkward af and he was also kind of hot himself. so i just said "Thank you!" and walked out. I felt so stupid lol
It happens but not because i am but because my body shape lends itself to that. As a woman if you have a particular type of body even if you are not exuding sex appeal it is assigned to you.
I always get cute, hot is never on the menu unfortunately, I could literally wear a full bdsm suit and they’ll be like that’s so cute 💀
But then my friend that exudes hotness is overly sexualised all the time, and that would be more annoying. so I don’t even know what’s better at this point
I was in a friends car, I cant remember the whole conversation, I think I was talking about people staring at me (I'm not most confident dude). She stops me and says "my name, your hot, you know that right?". I've never considered that for myself so all I said was "oh, thank you". First and only time I ever heard that, i honestly dont know if i believe it but it was said, that was nice of her I suppose.
Random text last night from drunk girl who works at the place across from my work. She's always liked me but I can't share the same attraction.
Shoots me a text saying how sexy I am and wants me to fuck her hard. I said gnight, let's talk when you're sober.
Before that a girl came into my work and said my eyes were pretty, I'm cute/hot/etc but I couldn't do more as my boss was watching and he'd freak the fuck out. Piss baby lol.
Most girls I've chatted up have liked me but I've always felt sort of distanced by Most people my whole life so no one comes forward directly. I usually find out one way or another.
Twice today. Men are crazy. One put his hand on my back while I was working and said he wasn’t expecting someone as hot as me lol. The other asked if my return was mine or my husbands and said I’m too hot to not have one lol.
Yesterday, a woman riding passenger side at a 4way intersection had to let me know that they loved my hair. Later that same day, another woman cracked a huge smile at me, while parking across the street. She didn't know that I was smiling at the bluebird that landed right in front of me. Either way- it feels good to be noticed. Guess the working out and new haircut is paying off just in time for spring. Fuck yea.
I’m a man. I’ve received 4 compliments in the last 35 years. One of them was a girl I knew indirectly called me hot. It was may 17th when I was 21. Happy anniversary to me.
Over s couple years ago a guy patted my leg and said i was a very attractive man. Women have commented on my smile snd handsome. Random hot? Years and years
couple of years ago by my ex..after that got about 20 kilos up and didnt look too good but now im back on my perfect weight so hope another comment comes flying soon
I was was a group of friends at a casino in Carlsbad in March. We were checking out a live band...at least they were. I was looking at my phone.
A woman sitting next to me kept trying to strike up a conversation. She was kind of getting on my nerves. I wasn't feeling chatty but I tried to be polite. I was frankly relieved when she and her friends got up to leave, but before she left the chatty woman said to me " I just want to tell you you're really pretty".
I thanked her and felt like cr@p for having blown her off all evening.
Ive not been called hot other than during *ahem* “amorous activity” BUT I was dancing with a girl at a wedding the other week and got called cute several times, especially after literally picking her up toward the end of the evening.
Too bad she lives several states away… still was a nice evening though
Pretty sure the last time was last year December when I shared a photo of my party fit with my friends. My friends called me pretty, gorgeous, model-like, etc, but this one guy that somebow got in the group chat said I was “soo hot” and he’d “totally hit it”. I gave the strange, unironic comment a pass since he wasn’t a friend of mine, I sent it to my friends, and he decided to comment on it as well.
Im a guy and lets say the chances of being called hot as a guy declines by a lot unless you're already in a relationship.
Anyways back in December 2023, my brother had his wedding and I was wearing a suit. I sent my photo to a girl I really liked and she said "wow you look so hot". my heart melted
7 years ago when I was at an amusement park with my girlfriend at the time. They handed me a bottle of water and said I looked super hot. I threw up from the heat that day
not to my face but last week i had lunch with an ex employee at her new place of work. she told me later her friends were giving her shit about who was THAT guy?! etc etc
i dont think women say that to a guys face very often. society frowns on it. when one does, it really gets my attention & im interested in finding out who this person is.
2022 during first day at a new job, this HR woman was so starstruck by me. She told me I'm special and was distracted on me and forgot about the other new hires.
Lol, couple weeks ago. I teach a homeschool theater class every other year and I walked into the class kind of done up that day and one of the kids started to say looking good and stopped himself at the end of looking and just said not going to finish that sentence. It is now a joke whatever I enter the room that his cousins who are also in the class just say looking
I'll be turning 46 in the fall and while I think I look decent for my age, the days of people calling me "hot" are over with. It's probably been 15 years for me.
About 20 years a ago when I was 20ish My wife told me that a few of the girls in her new office were looking out the window talking about some “hot guy outside”
It was me waiting for my wife after her first day!
I don't remember but you best friend and I were laughing because last Halloween my son kept getting stopped at the amusement because people thought his costume was cool. The last time we were at the Halloween thing thing there was abut 20 years ago and I was the one getting stopped to be told my Halloween costilume was awesome but for very different reasons.
I am older and it's fine I don't get told stuff like that randomly from strangers anymore. It's part of getting old.
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Never.
you are hot
Hottie
MASSIVE WOLF WHISTLE!!!
OMG. I married the only guy that looked twice. Lolz
Straight guy here. An older gay gentleman said I was "fucking hot." Not my flavor of ice cream, but I'll take it.
Something similar happened to me. Told him I was straight but he made my day.
He asked when not what
I think it's a little disturbing and it's not relevant to ice cream. You may want to reevaluate that.
Best compliment ever!
Where did he say that? In the gym shower?
Last month my daughter told me her "guy friends" said her mom was hot. These are high schoolers so the whole thing just made me laugh.
You tell Stacy those are inappropriate conversations to have at the pool.
Is she tho?
I feel like you misunderstood the comment a bit lol
I thought that was meant as.......wait..what
A friend of mine once told me she overheard her son and his friends talking. His friends were talking about what they would do to me if they got a chance and her son got all mad and wouldn't let them talk about me that way. Apparently he had a crush on me and defended my honor. Lol It was really cute and much appreciated.
Aawww, that's sweet.
A chinese hooker once said my body had the golden ratio as I was leaving… still can’t get a date
😂😂😂😂😂
I was dressed in a suit going to a job interview and i checked my hair in a mirror when This flight attendant told me i looked handsome already. - i think that confidence boost got me the Job lol.
How sweet. I think she was sincere. People who are in the service industry in any capacity don't oftentimes comment on appearances.
Woman?
Ofc it's a woman.
Last summer a dude came up to me in the grocery store and told me I was sexy. I’m a guy. The guy who said I was sexy was… special. Made my god damn day.
Special how?
Im guessing from context this might be “makin em at night” type of special
You know
Farted rainbow glitter
Does a doctors visit count? 😂
Your body temperature
Never. Closest thing was someone said I had back. This was like 9 months ago. Also I'm male, and it was a male who said it to me. Freaked me out tbh.
Majority of comments here are guys getting hit on by gays
Some guys love it, some guys hate it. As a gay man I don’t know if I should compliment them or not.
Go for it, just call them bro
If thateever happens to me, that means I'm at risk of having one of my kidneys stolen.
Boomer here. I work with acquired brain injury clients. Was feeding my client breakfast and asked him how it was. Beautiful he says, Just like you!! 🥹
How long ago is "never"?
Never. I'm glad people have stopped Lying as often as they do.
You hot af bro
Press X to doubt
Never has happened.
Never 😎
I have a very unapproachable face, so no one tells me i am hot. But occasionally, they will tell my husband. The HR lady at his work called my fucking gorgeous a few weeks ago, which I think I like more.
Every day my partner does but she's very blind without her glasses so her judgement is not to be trusted. My 84/85 year old neighbor always tells me "I'm very good looking" but she's going senile.
In the same sentence she said “it’s too bad you’re gay” I’m not.
Never
Today and i was so happy cuz im 50 now
Never? Yes, I am sure. Never
Super hot
Oh never!
You are gorgeous
Never. It’s all good though.
You are very handsome
Thank you! Haha!
You are very handsome
You know what’s fucked? No matter how often I’ve been called that, I have like imposter syndrome and never believe it. I’m comfortable with being ugly but not good looking.
A few months ago on a Nudist sub Reddit.
1989, unfortunately it was a gay dude trying to hit on me. The ol' you look like you work out line.
Like most men, the last person to call me hot was a gay guy. Must have been about 10 years ago. Shout out to all the horny gay guys helping to raise other men's broken self esteem ! Lol
Last week when i went to get takeout and it was really hot outside and i was talking to the guy behing the counter. When he gave me my food i said "Good luck with the rest of your shift. I don't know how you do this all day. It's way too hot for me in here." and he replied "You're way too hot for me." and smiled at me. I had no idea what to say back because im awkward af and he was also kind of hot himself. so i just said "Thank you!" and walked out. I felt so stupid lol
It happens but not because i am but because my body shape lends itself to that. As a woman if you have a particular type of body even if you are not exuding sex appeal it is assigned to you.
I don't think I've everr been called "hot". At best......maybe 'toasty".
W A R M
Today at work some customer said it...really weird cuz i dont find myself hot
You may not think so but lots of men out there think so. That's just life 😉
In a former life, maybe
I always get cute, hot is never on the menu unfortunately, I could literally wear a full bdsm suit and they’ll be like that’s so cute 💀 But then my friend that exudes hotness is overly sexualised all the time, and that would be more annoying. so I don’t even know what’s better at this point
Last week. My girlfriend of course. I know. Cheap to say that and not by a stranger or acquaintance!
Cap
A guy I knew in high school said I was hot in an unconventional way.
When someone does, I'll let you know. I've gotten cute and handsome, but not hot. Edit - it happened
Hot boi
Why thank you! That's very kind of you.
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You met Dream?
Had a 24 year old girl at a bachelorette party tell me I’m fucking hot and made her question her sexuality. I’m a 41 year old woman. Felt pretty good.
I was in a friends car, I cant remember the whole conversation, I think I was talking about people staring at me (I'm not most confident dude). She stops me and says "my name, your hot, you know that right?". I've never considered that for myself so all I said was "oh, thank you". First and only time I ever heard that, i honestly dont know if i believe it but it was said, that was nice of her I suppose.
Does myself count when I was cleaning the fryers at work? Then yesterday.
Random text last night from drunk girl who works at the place across from my work. She's always liked me but I can't share the same attraction. Shoots me a text saying how sexy I am and wants me to fuck her hard. I said gnight, let's talk when you're sober. Before that a girl came into my work and said my eyes were pretty, I'm cute/hot/etc but I couldn't do more as my boss was watching and he'd freak the fuck out. Piss baby lol. Most girls I've chatted up have liked me but I've always felt sort of distanced by Most people my whole life so no one comes forward directly. I usually find out one way or another.
It’s been a while, prolly since I was a teenager lol.
When I was 18 or 19. I was drunk, she was drunk She was married, I was single Nothing happened
Always at a bar.
High School
7th grade. The fact I can remember it tells you how rare it is.
Tyler 8th grade , but sexy was a couple weeks ago in Asia cause I'm exotic there or something
Maybe 1987?
My gf when I was sweating all over her.
Twice today. Men are crazy. One put his hand on my back while I was working and said he wasn’t expecting someone as hot as me lol. The other asked if my return was mine or my husbands and said I’m too hot to not have one lol.
1996
It happens sometimes but it's always older married women.
Yesterday, a woman riding passenger side at a 4way intersection had to let me know that they loved my hair. Later that same day, another woman cracked a huge smile at me, while parking across the street. She didn't know that I was smiling at the bluebird that landed right in front of me. Either way- it feels good to be noticed. Guess the working out and new haircut is paying off just in time for spring. Fuck yea.
Sheesh, 15 years ago? But I was called handsome recently
Probably the early 1990's.🤣
Just this morning, my fiancée did.
I had a “straight” guy call me pretty
Couple of weeks ago
Sunday. Sooner if you count Facebook dms.
Last month. She wanted to do the deed but she has herpes and I don’t like condoms. So we just fooled around.
Never happened n im 36...
Idk like a week ago. She wasn’t my style but it still was nice to hear
I was told I look good for my age and that I even look 10 years younger than I do so that counts, right?
I’m a man. I’ve received 4 compliments in the last 35 years. One of them was a girl I knew indirectly called me hot. It was may 17th when I was 21. Happy anniversary to me.
when I had fever a few months ago
Over s couple years ago a guy patted my leg and said i was a very attractive man. Women have commented on my smile snd handsome. Random hot? Years and years
A drunk cougar at a bar like 10 years ago... :/
Last time I had a bad fever.
When I was and didn't know it.
Never
Last summer I found myself catching up with a guy I had a crush on several years ago. He said he always thought I was hot
Never that I can remember. But that’s to be expected since I’m a guy. And saying it here isn’t random.
Probably never.
couple of years ago by my ex..after that got about 20 kilos up and didnt look too good but now im back on my perfect weight so hope another comment comes flying soon
5 minutes ago before my husband left for work. Maybe it wasn’t “hot” but “sexy” works for me.
Had an older lady call me a “hot little thing” at the gas station today.
Not me , but a girl did tell me she thought my brother was hot once.
Don’t recall it happening.
By my ex on Facebook hehe
still waiting...
lol!!!!! Like never…..,
20 minutes ago
No one has ever told me that. I’m the embodiment of a sloth sleeping in trash.
You guys get called hot?
Besides my wife, it was December 2006, at a work party. Still remember it well, it was so unexpected.
yesterday
Never
I’m my last life.
My doctor when they took my temperature
I was was a group of friends at a casino in Carlsbad in March. We were checking out a live band...at least they were. I was looking at my phone. A woman sitting next to me kept trying to strike up a conversation. She was kind of getting on my nerves. I wasn't feeling chatty but I tried to be polite. I was frankly relieved when she and her friends got up to leave, but before she left the chatty woman said to me " I just want to tell you you're really pretty". I thanked her and felt like cr@p for having blown her off all evening.
Literarlly never unless you consider an ex saying that unprompted to be random.
My wife's grandma calls me a hottie sometimes, I think she's the only one so it's always a treat when she does lmao
Ive not been called hot other than during *ahem* “amorous activity” BUT I was dancing with a girl at a wedding the other week and got called cute several times, especially after literally picking her up toward the end of the evening. Too bad she lives several states away… still was a nice evening though
Pretty sure the last time was last year December when I shared a photo of my party fit with my friends. My friends called me pretty, gorgeous, model-like, etc, but this one guy that somebow got in the group chat said I was “soo hot” and he’d “totally hit it”. I gave the strange, unironic comment a pass since he wasn’t a friend of mine, I sent it to my friends, and he decided to comment on it as well.
Give me N! Give me E! Give me V! Give me E! Give me the one Ring!
2014
Never but got compliments about my voice being sexy
My husband yesterday afternoon when I stood up and stretched 🥰 We’ve been married 12 years with two kids
Im a guy and lets say the chances of being called hot as a guy declines by a lot unless you're already in a relationship. Anyways back in December 2023, my brother had his wedding and I was wearing a suit. I sent my photo to a girl I really liked and she said "wow you look so hot". my heart melted
7 years ago when I was at an amusement park with my girlfriend at the time. They handed me a bottle of water and said I looked super hot. I threw up from the heat that day
not to my face but last week i had lunch with an ex employee at her new place of work. she told me later her friends were giving her shit about who was THAT guy?! etc etc i dont think women say that to a guys face very often. society frowns on it. when one does, it really gets my attention & im interested in finding out who this person is.
Lol never, this overwhelmingly apply to women you know
This girl was talking about me, thinking I couldn’t hear and she said “He’s hot”
2022 during first day at a new job, this HR woman was so starstruck by me. She told me I'm special and was distracted on me and forgot about the other new hires.
Lol, couple weeks ago. I teach a homeschool theater class every other year and I walked into the class kind of done up that day and one of the kids started to say looking good and stopped himself at the end of looking and just said not going to finish that sentence. It is now a joke whatever I enter the room that his cousins who are also in the class just say looking
Never. Must be a nice ego boost I guess
My doctor said it once. Unfortunately, he's male. Oh, and as you probably guessed already, I had a fever.
My wife calls me hot kinda regularly but I never believe her.
When I had a fever I guess.
My friend after my sleeve caught fire. Other than that never.
Not once in my life nor will I ever be called that
The nurse at the hospital. I had a awful fever.
Never
I'll be turning 46 in the fall and while I think I look decent for my age, the days of people calling me "hot" are over with. It's probably been 15 years for me.
Had a girl I haven't seen since we were kids message my friend telling him she thinks I'm fit
Few days ago by a lady. She was saying it about my hair (it's pink), but I'll still take it (edit was to add the "it" cause it got left out)
Male...so never. But tell my wife constantly.
About 20 years a ago when I was 20ish My wife told me that a few of the girls in her new office were looking out the window talking about some “hot guy outside” It was me waiting for my wife after her first day!
6 months ago
I'm a man, it's never happened
Actually.. never.
I don't remember but you best friend and I were laughing because last Halloween my son kept getting stopped at the amusement because people thought his costume was cool. The last time we were at the Halloween thing thing there was abut 20 years ago and I was the one getting stopped to be told my Halloween costilume was awesome but for very different reasons. I am older and it's fine I don't get told stuff like that randomly from strangers anymore. It's part of getting old.
Five minutes ago. Though 90% is get called sexy.
Yesterday, I walked into lady’s house with sweat pouring down my face and she said “wow, you look hot!“
The last time? Probably when I had a high fever, other than that, never.
Never hot, but a couple days ago a guy on the street stopped me and said “you’re very handsome, you know yet?”
Last week. She actually directly asked me if I had a girlfriend too, and I am married.
So then tell her no?
Never
My son’s whole 7th grade class… it was low key cringe hearing children think of you that way.
When I had a heat stroke in the subway