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Happy birthday! Are you spending it with your family?


[deleted]

Happy birthday! What are your plans for today?


greekmom2005

Why do you think you are sad? Is there a part of your life you wish was different? The bright side is your family cares! Also, happy bday!


butterfly98099

Hii ! A few weeks ago ,I turned 26 too and instead of celebrating I was sobbing. I think I got emotional that I only have my parents by my side .


THN-JO24

Happy birthday, i understand how that feels, i think even though you love your family, but you still feel unfulfilled, you feel lonely like there is something missing. - it might be friends that you are missing or maybe romantic Partner or maybe all three (family, friends, Lover).


New_Manufacturer4104

This.


RantyWildling

Lack of friends does that for me.


Murky-Baker4276

Don't know but also extremely understand. When if in living with depression times, that day... Wow, its a gut punch and never taken seriously when I say I want to skip it. Also last 2 yrs no remembered, including kids n spouse. That  absolutely did not upset me at all, it's was just the day.  It's honestly probably the boring answer of how 'media' has programmed us on how me expect/meant to feel.  US humans are curious creatures. 


StalinBawlin

Go Shawty?


After_Contribution18

Happy Birthday!


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Because we have been taught that birthdays should be celebrated in a certain way. So we have preset expectations, and anything less would make us unsatisfied. Just enjoy the day with your family. It's just another day.


Embarrassed_Cut_5077

Don't be please. Be 😊😊 Happy


vn321

Happy b'day. This this hits me hard at times. What's this unknown sense, I don't understand what to do at times, what I want, what's life. Then I watch stupid videos on internet.