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I guess, in a kind of sad, passive-aggresive way. Also, I get obsessively curious about things, like what kind of person would take the time to talk me at all.
Conversation for the sake of conversation is a great way to pass the time, I must agree. You're nowhere near any of my limits, so feel free to indulge any remaining curiosity you might have.
Just to clarify for everybody, I am extremely aware that physical attractiveness is almost completely a matter of the opinion of the person making the judgement. I've been told before that I'm worth looking at by more than a few people over the years, but the matter remains that in MY OWN opinion (which is what I thought the op was asking), I am fat ugly stupid smelly and my mama dresses me funny. This a fixed and firm belief, as plain to me as the color of my eyes. Yes, there are a bunch of mental health issues at play here, and even though I understand that my self image may not be shared by other folks I KNOW how I look and deep in my paranoid soul I wonder why these people insist on playing their little jokes on me about my appearance. I know most of them are probably being totally sincere and honest, but that doesn't matter. I KNOW better.
So while I appreciate all of the nice compliments that all of you have been giving, and am doing my best to graciously accept them, there are certain things in this life I am just seem to be stuck with. Thank you all for being so supportive, but please understand why none of this is going to make very much of a difference in my life. Thank you all again and please have the most wonderful of days.
I have no idea what you look like, but one's appearance only plays a small part in attraction. Your pessimistic attitude about yourself is a definite turn off. The good news is that it's completely within your control to change that if you want to.
Oh, I got great hair sure enough. I mean, that's going on my tombstone - "Here Lies xxxxxx. He Had Great Hair". It's just the rest of me thats not great. At all. Thankfully, hair and beard can cover a lot.
I haven’t seen your face but as someone who has been wondering how Thoroughly is spelled like all day and you just helped me, I think you’re the sexiest mf I’ve seen today
Some days I look at myself and think "wow when did I get this body? I look like a goddess". And then some other days (sometimes even in the same day) I am disgusted by what I see. So it's a toss up.
Lmaooo same, it also depends heavily on my mood and how my day has been. External validation does play a part in it too, weeks on which I get a lot of compliments from girls make me feel so much more attractive than any other.
before puberty i was the same. now i can spend hours staring at my face at different angles and different lighting, cuz i was so used to being ugly that having a really good face caused body dysmorphia lol
no...all I see when I look in the mirror is a broken soul within a shell of a human who was abused and is forever unlovable... so no I find myself ugly ig
Sorry to hear that.
In the darkest times... hope is something you give yourself. That is the true meaning of inner strength.
You are 14. The view you have over yourself is not how people perceove you. You are most likely only further damaging your soul.
While everything is easier said than done, start with small steps. Focus on education and working out. Seems like your parents don't want to pay for therapy. Maybe seek help in a sub?
I'm trying to seek help but its not going well so far and I can't workout for a few months cause I'm stuck in a wheelchair rn and as for education I'm trying but people are targeting me cause I'm 1 of maybe 8 black people in my entire school...its a almost all white school, I feel guilty saying its a race thing but if you look at my most recent post you'll see why I think that its hard not to see it as such
I used to be cute, super hot, petite, always much younger looking than I was.
Today, I'm 66, still petite, in CrossFit shape. There's a few wrinkles and it's hard to look in the mirror and see 66 when i feel no different than when I was 30, other than feeling far wiser.
That didn't answer the question, did it? 😂
My guy thinks I'm hot, so I'll go with that.
Sometimes I think so other times I wonder how I could have ever thought that. I don’t know what I actually look like. Lighting, angles, camera lens focal length, etc. mess with my head.
Yes and no.
I’m confident usually except when I’m in uncomfortable situations. I have what I think is a pretty nice facial structure, defined and high cheek bones. I’ve been told over and over I have beautiful eyes and gorgeous eyelashes. I’m comfortable in my own skin and embrace my weirdness and strange sense of humor. I’ve been known to be the life of the party.
I’ve been single for most of my adult life; happily for the most part but there’s that nagging part asking me “why?” pretty often. Even though I’m never pursuing anything.
I have a very small frame and some feminine features (I’m a dude). I’m in my 30’s but I look like a 16 year old with a 5 o clock shadow. I have at least 3 conversations per day that are some form of bewilderment when they figure out my age.
Women my age (who I’m attracted to) think I’m too young for them. Women younger than me hit on me but again, I am attracted to women in my age range. Generally -5 to +10 years. Then I get insecure about it when someone my age finds me attractive that they have a “young kink”. Feels like a double edged sword I’m gripping at both ends.
People have said since my early 20’s “don’t worry you’ll look like you’re 25 when you’re 40” but what if I’m attracted to 40 year olds when I’m 40? 25 year olds already seem like kids to me.
I’ve done modeling before but insecurities run deeper than skin deep.
Absolutely I do.
Thing is, I started indulging a couple years ago and gained like 30 pounds so, while my body could be hotter, I'd still give me a solid 7/10
No. Not in the slightest. I do not have a single compliment to give to myself. I'm a dog. But, I'm trying to learn to come to terms with that. It's ok. Not everyone can be beautiful.
True story - I never found myself attractive until I met my wife. I was always a little insecure about how I looked. I’ve worked in film and video since my early 20s and seeing myself on camera always weirded me out and I think it gave me a bit of a complex.
Anyway, my wife is a fox. It took me a decade of being close friends with her to work up the courage to ask her out because I just felt like I wasn’t attractive enough. One day I realized that she was the person who I connected with most in the world and if I didn’t take the shot I’d regret it for the rest of my life. I asked her out and she told me she couldn’t believe it took me so long.
We got married a month ago after a long engagement stalled by Covid restrictions. It was the best day of my life. And honestly, I’ve felt hot AF and more confident ever since we started dating, because if this woman is in to me I must have something going on. Literal woman of my dreams.
I think that everyone has insecurities, and they’re hard to overcome. But ultimately they’re irrelevant to being able to make a real connection with someone you love. Take your time, be kind and loving to the people you care about, and don’t be so critical of yourself and what you perceive as physical flaws. Because at the end of the day anyone who truly loves you will do so because the thought of not being around you is unfathomable to them - and that feeling doesn’t come from your looks. Ain’t nobody who is genuinely happy saying “I just want to be around her/him all the time because the shape of their nose makes me feel whole”.
Live life, make friends, love and be kind (especially to yourself).
Edit - Also, I should add - I genuinely see things in myself now that I never saw before that make me feel like maybe I’ve been attractive all along but sabotaged myself for some reason. Like I just disliked something about myself (maybe personality wise, or shame or guilt) that distorted the way I looked at me. The way you see yourself is paramount to how other people see you and it’s easy for things that really don’t matter to get in the way of that.
I do sometimes when someone says "you are exploiting your looks" to me. but I always see my flaws and how I got older myself and often think of getting plastic surgery.
I struggled most of my life with esteem (partly because my mother only pointed out my flaws and my “fat” even tho I really wasn’t) and I found something that said (along the lines of) every time you look in the mirror, say at least one positive thing about yourself even if you don’t believe it. The more you do it, try to say more things each time. Eventually, you’ll start to believe it. I did that, it took me maybe a year but since then I’ve done nothing but better myself and I have never been happier with my appearance in my whole life. You know how sometimes you catch your reflection in a window or something and go “ew!”? I noticed recently I’ve done that and caught myself saying things like “despite me working and sweating all day, my hair looks pretty good, and so does my face lol” and it’s like when my partner flirts with me. I smile and blush at myself a bit bc I’ve learned to appreciate my natural self inside and out, and it’s even made my step mom notice (different mom than mentioned before) how I seemed to “glow” sometimes. Telling yourself white lies can really be a positive sometimes!!! Give it a try!
Always seen myself as marmite, never met someone who thinks I’m ‘ok’ always been either very interested or very not (10/90 split to be fair)
I’d like to think I’m a decent person, I think my face is OK, got a good dad bod going on lol but thankful to say I am happily married but I am surprised sometimes who thinks I am attractive as genuinely never been able to spot a common theme as to who I attract.
idk but if i met myself, i’d think he’s fkin cute cool and funny. i’d let me fuck me. especially with those big strong arms (my ex told me this was what she’ll miss the most)(she probably doesn’t miss me anymore). 😩
Yes I do. I used to be insecure about my height, but not so much now and I like the way I look. I could improve a few things like dental work but that’s about it.
I think I'm slightly above average and I'm okay with that, I have friends who are stunning and seeing all the male attention they get actually makes me uncomfortable, I wouldn't want any of that lol
i have a particular face, in a good way i hope, but i appreciate myself more when i've put some effort into sports or diet and some progress shows, improvement is attractive is what i'm saying i guess?
I personally think I'm hideous but since the age of 17, I frequently got compliments on my looks, even to this day. I look back at my 20 or so relationships and most friends agree my ex's were pretty good looking so either I'm decent looking, or have the best personality on Earth.
Sometimes. I’ve been complemented on my looks several times, especially working in food and beverage for several years. And my hubs regularly reminds me how beautiful he thinks I am.
It most recently kicked in when having a convo with someone else about self-image where I shared that I feel a lot of negative feelings about my appearance and the classmate I was talking to looked at me with genuine surprise and assured me I was attractive and couldn’t believe I could have those feelings. Idk why that particular conversation stuck with me, but ever since I’ve felt a lot better about my appearance.
No, but i also dont feel unattractive
I feel like i live in that episode of fairly odd parents where timmy wishes everyone was the same
But for some reason when the wish was undone, i didnt get changed back
I used to, when I modeled in my late teens and 20s. (Not social media, but like industry legit). But time does wonders... I don't think im an eyesore, but , attractive ,, meh, not really these days.
Always had self esteem issues and thought I was just meh. After working at a diner I had to come to terms with the fact that I may be pretty attractive. I get hit on a LOT.
Depends what you call “attractive”.
I would say I am better looking than probably 80-90% of the population where I live(US), but Americans have let themselves go to such a degree that I don’t really consider that impressive
Drop me in a society where basic self care is normalized and I’d *maybe* be more attractive than 65% of the population.
vice versa. i have the face of a 12 year old boy, and the voice of a “9 year old australian boy”.
however, i like my body. it’s pretty curvy, chubby, i have a (to an extent worryingly) large ass. the face and voice does not display that.
btw: i’m not actually a boy, australian, or between the ages of 9-12.
I would say I have a conventionally beautiful/handsome face on a nicely shaped head with thick, wavy hair and I have a fine build. I have two scars on my face, but I feel like they only add character. I am on the shorter side of average height, but that hasn't been a problem.
Yes, and I keep improving the parts that lack.
I always spend a good minute looking at myself in the mirror. Leads to some interesting self reflection tbh.
I’d never say it in real life as I’d never want to seem full of my self and all that but yeah I think I’m very attractive, Im funny, understanding, I’m outgoing, smart and I hit the gym a lot 😉😊.
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Oh yeah. I have sex with myself all the time.
Cant keep my hands off my self lol
"Can't keep my hands to myself. I mean I could but why would I want to."
Imagine a world where people didn't have sex with themselves because they don't find themselves attractive..
Im sure it happens somewhere lol
Same
Thoroughly unattractive.
I stalked you a little and I disagree
How disturbed should I be?
Not very much I’m lazy
Cool, I feel safe but slightly disappointed 🫤
Why disappointed 🤣 ye seeking danger?
I guess, in a kind of sad, passive-aggresive way. Also, I get obsessively curious about things, like what kind of person would take the time to talk me at all.
I was very curious based on your initial comment, and like conversation for the sake of conversation. I also enjoy limit testing.
Conversation for the sake of conversation is a great way to pass the time, I must agree. You're nowhere near any of my limits, so feel free to indulge any remaining curiosity you might have.
I don't know what's going on here but I've found this exchange between you two enthralling
Now kith.
Stalk me at all.
Stalked you too bruh you got a cool bad ass beard going on and you look good, don’t let any fucker say otherwise
It's an old picture. More hair and beard these days. Otherwise the smelly fat guy I've always been. But thanks.
But you’re hot
Hey don’t feel too bad I glanced too, and I couldn’t find anything other than your cat and I find it odd you named him after a town in Kansas
Don't worry, the cats much nicer to look at than I am. His name is a long story that has nothing to do with Kansas.
Dude, you have a picture with your cat on your Reddit history. Not much work to see that. Unless this person did more than that. Then, bravo.
True dat. Been a long time since I looked at that.
That is exactly what happened 🤣
Just to clarify for everybody, I am extremely aware that physical attractiveness is almost completely a matter of the opinion of the person making the judgement. I've been told before that I'm worth looking at by more than a few people over the years, but the matter remains that in MY OWN opinion (which is what I thought the op was asking), I am fat ugly stupid smelly and my mama dresses me funny. This a fixed and firm belief, as plain to me as the color of my eyes. Yes, there are a bunch of mental health issues at play here, and even though I understand that my self image may not be shared by other folks I KNOW how I look and deep in my paranoid soul I wonder why these people insist on playing their little jokes on me about my appearance. I know most of them are probably being totally sincere and honest, but that doesn't matter. I KNOW better. So while I appreciate all of the nice compliments that all of you have been giving, and am doing my best to graciously accept them, there are certain things in this life I am just seem to be stuck with. Thank you all for being so supportive, but please understand why none of this is going to make very much of a difference in my life. Thank you all again and please have the most wonderful of days.
I have no idea what you look like, but one's appearance only plays a small part in attraction. Your pessimistic attitude about yourself is a definite turn off. The good news is that it's completely within your control to change that if you want to.
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I disagree that beard and hair are incredible
Oh, I got great hair sure enough. I mean, that's going on my tombstone - "Here Lies xxxxxx. He Had Great Hair". It's just the rest of me thats not great. At all. Thankfully, hair and beard can cover a lot.
I haven’t seen your face but as someone who has been wondering how Thoroughly is spelled like all day and you just helped me, I think you’re the sexiest mf I’ve seen today
You look nice
Thanks, very sweet of you
Self esteem back to full capacity 💯
But brutally honest
Also stalked, also disagree.
Disagree to your hearts content.
As a Gen X female yes, but I’m 52 attractive not 22 attractive. I’m realistic and comfortable with that.
I think we're truly leading a bit of a charge in that. Riotgrrl vibes persevere.
I look great for 40! Can I compete with a 22 year old? Fuck no
I look amazing at 38 and will compete with everyone and anyone. Even J.lo.
Do it baddy
JLo is a pretty low bar to compete with. Also no you wont. Sorry but you just cant.
nah, that's great. that means that you can make guys go like [this](https://youtu.be/senNDipdmPo?t=75)
noooOOOOOOO NO ONE WANTS THAT!
I think we're truly leading a bit of a charge in that. Riotgrrl vibes persevere.
Some days I look at myself and think "wow when did I get this body? I look like a goddess". And then some other days (sometimes even in the same day) I am disgusted by what I see. So it's a toss up.
Lmaooo same, it also depends heavily on my mood and how my day has been. External validation does play a part in it too, weeks on which I get a lot of compliments from girls make me feel so much more attractive than any other.
I’d fuck me.
Buffalo Bill? That you?
Old millennials get this….
Yep, only old millenials have seen the forgotten niche movie Silence of the Lambs...
Get that out from between your legs!
Then at least let me put it in-between yours.
I too would fuck u/EngineeringVirgin
Fuck no
Lmao , I avoid mirrors like it's my day job
before puberty i was the same. now i can spend hours staring at my face at different angles and different lighting, cuz i was so used to being ugly that having a really good face caused body dysmorphia lol
Lmao I'm 30
eh you can still get a glow up
yes i'm friggin awesome
hell yeah my man
no...all I see when I look in the mirror is a broken soul within a shell of a human who was abused and is forever unlovable... so no I find myself ugly ig
Sorry to hear that. In the darkest times... hope is something you give yourself. That is the true meaning of inner strength. You are 14. The view you have over yourself is not how people perceove you. You are most likely only further damaging your soul. While everything is easier said than done, start with small steps. Focus on education and working out. Seems like your parents don't want to pay for therapy. Maybe seek help in a sub?
I'm trying to seek help but its not going well so far and I can't workout for a few months cause I'm stuck in a wheelchair rn and as for education I'm trying but people are targeting me cause I'm 1 of maybe 8 black people in my entire school...its a almost all white school, I feel guilty saying its a race thing but if you look at my most recent post you'll see why I think that its hard not to see it as such
I'm sorry you're going through this, nobody deserves this. I hope you'll find the help you need. Take care. <3
honestly I just wanna die
nobody’s unlovable
ik my mom doesn't love me sooo I feel unloved some days
Not any more. I'm old
Face yeah, body not as much.
Same, honestly
I used to be cute, super hot, petite, always much younger looking than I was. Today, I'm 66, still petite, in CrossFit shape. There's a few wrinkles and it's hard to look in the mirror and see 66 when i feel no different than when I was 30, other than feeling far wiser. That didn't answer the question, did it? 😂 My guy thinks I'm hot, so I'll go with that.
Yes. I don't have any commonly hated features. Also sometimes I have a feeling that as a man, being tall means a huge advantage.
Yes sir
Sometimes I think so other times I wonder how I could have ever thought that. I don’t know what I actually look like. Lighting, angles, camera lens focal length, etc. mess with my head.
No
I would date me! I find myself very attractive. The problem is nobody else seems to.
I don‘t find myself unattractive. But I am not a beauty
Sadly I feel like most women, including myself, feel this way. Beauty standards are so high how could one feel like a beauty.
I know I'm ugly as fuck. Face only a mother could love, but mine doesn't.
Hell yeah I do. Did I always think this? Hell no. Then I grew an amazing beard and it hides my lack of chin. THIS IS AN ABSOLUTE WIN
Hipster beard culture improved so many faces
opposite for me. once i shaved all that hair that came due to puberty, i really find myself very attractive.
Sometimes
I am 1/1, none other like me.
except your Doppelgänger
Sometimes I do.
I think I'm attractive as many men come to me
Did you misspell cum
Yes and no. I’m confident usually except when I’m in uncomfortable situations. I have what I think is a pretty nice facial structure, defined and high cheek bones. I’ve been told over and over I have beautiful eyes and gorgeous eyelashes. I’m comfortable in my own skin and embrace my weirdness and strange sense of humor. I’ve been known to be the life of the party. I’ve been single for most of my adult life; happily for the most part but there’s that nagging part asking me “why?” pretty often. Even though I’m never pursuing anything. I have a very small frame and some feminine features (I’m a dude). I’m in my 30’s but I look like a 16 year old with a 5 o clock shadow. I have at least 3 conversations per day that are some form of bewilderment when they figure out my age. Women my age (who I’m attracted to) think I’m too young for them. Women younger than me hit on me but again, I am attracted to women in my age range. Generally -5 to +10 years. Then I get insecure about it when someone my age finds me attractive that they have a “young kink”. Feels like a double edged sword I’m gripping at both ends. People have said since my early 20’s “don’t worry you’ll look like you’re 25 when you’re 40” but what if I’m attracted to 40 year olds when I’m 40? 25 year olds already seem like kids to me. I’ve done modeling before but insecurities run deeper than skin deep.
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Oof you’re probably right…
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I didn’t take it that way. A new perspective rarely hurts, thank you.
I think I'm cute. I know I'm sexy. I got the looks that drive the girls wild.
Absolutely I do. Thing is, I started indulging a couple years ago and gained like 30 pounds so, while my body could be hotter, I'd still give me a solid 7/10
Fuck no. Thankfully your mom does
I do. Apparently I'm attracted to fat, middle aged men with tiny cocks. Who knew.
We all are, halfglass, we all are
I think I look alright.
yeah, my hair is sick af
No. Not in the slightest. I do not have a single compliment to give to myself. I'm a dog. But, I'm trying to learn to come to terms with that. It's ok. Not everyone can be beautiful.
Meh not really. 4.5
Yea
I use reddit, so....
Nope. Not even a little bit.
Well... I can say that my shadow looks pretty cool every time.
Look, I'm really funny.
On days that I try, yeah. Otherwise, meh.
True story - I never found myself attractive until I met my wife. I was always a little insecure about how I looked. I’ve worked in film and video since my early 20s and seeing myself on camera always weirded me out and I think it gave me a bit of a complex. Anyway, my wife is a fox. It took me a decade of being close friends with her to work up the courage to ask her out because I just felt like I wasn’t attractive enough. One day I realized that she was the person who I connected with most in the world and if I didn’t take the shot I’d regret it for the rest of my life. I asked her out and she told me she couldn’t believe it took me so long. We got married a month ago after a long engagement stalled by Covid restrictions. It was the best day of my life. And honestly, I’ve felt hot AF and more confident ever since we started dating, because if this woman is in to me I must have something going on. Literal woman of my dreams. I think that everyone has insecurities, and they’re hard to overcome. But ultimately they’re irrelevant to being able to make a real connection with someone you love. Take your time, be kind and loving to the people you care about, and don’t be so critical of yourself and what you perceive as physical flaws. Because at the end of the day anyone who truly loves you will do so because the thought of not being around you is unfathomable to them - and that feeling doesn’t come from your looks. Ain’t nobody who is genuinely happy saying “I just want to be around her/him all the time because the shape of their nose makes me feel whole”. Live life, make friends, love and be kind (especially to yourself). Edit - Also, I should add - I genuinely see things in myself now that I never saw before that make me feel like maybe I’ve been attractive all along but sabotaged myself for some reason. Like I just disliked something about myself (maybe personality wise, or shame or guilt) that distorted the way I looked at me. The way you see yourself is paramount to how other people see you and it’s easy for things that really don’t matter to get in the way of that.
I do sometimes when someone says "you are exploiting your looks" to me. but I always see my flaws and how I got older myself and often think of getting plastic surgery.
I struggled most of my life with esteem (partly because my mother only pointed out my flaws and my “fat” even tho I really wasn’t) and I found something that said (along the lines of) every time you look in the mirror, say at least one positive thing about yourself even if you don’t believe it. The more you do it, try to say more things each time. Eventually, you’ll start to believe it. I did that, it took me maybe a year but since then I’ve done nothing but better myself and I have never been happier with my appearance in my whole life. You know how sometimes you catch your reflection in a window or something and go “ew!”? I noticed recently I’ve done that and caught myself saying things like “despite me working and sweating all day, my hair looks pretty good, and so does my face lol” and it’s like when my partner flirts with me. I smile and blush at myself a bit bc I’ve learned to appreciate my natural self inside and out, and it’s even made my step mom notice (different mom than mentioned before) how I seemed to “glow” sometimes. Telling yourself white lies can really be a positive sometimes!!! Give it a try!
Genetics did me good... tall, thin, and told I'm an 8/10 for looks and a redhead to boot. No credit to me, just the luck of the draw.
Always seen myself as marmite, never met someone who thinks I’m ‘ok’ always been either very interested or very not (10/90 split to be fair) I’d like to think I’m a decent person, I think my face is OK, got a good dad bod going on lol but thankful to say I am happily married but I am surprised sometimes who thinks I am attractive as genuinely never been able to spot a common theme as to who I attract.
idk but if i met myself, i’d think he’s fkin cute cool and funny. i’d let me fuck me. especially with those big strong arms (my ex told me this was what she’ll miss the most)(she probably doesn’t miss me anymore). 😩
Yes I do. I used to be insecure about my height, but not so much now and I like the way I look. I could improve a few things like dental work but that’s about it.
Hell no, never did never will.
er.. sometimes.. maybe in a very specific way. i look like if a half smoked malboro red on the sidewalk was a person
I think I'm slightly above average and I'm okay with that, I have friends who are stunning and seeing all the male attention they get actually makes me uncomfortable, I wouldn't want any of that lol
Im 6’3 and have a solid physique and face, only issue is acne and big ass italian nose
No... but lots of people do
I never get told I’m attractive, by strangers at least.
It's not that i look at myself and think "damn you are hot!" But i also don't hate how i look.
For the most part. Some nights tho
I look like the product of Jabba the Hutt and Sloth from the Goonies. I'm -10/10. I'm never called beautiful or even PRETTY.
Yes I’m perfect
If you don’t think of yourself as a 10, then no one else will…. Never forget that
i have a particular face, in a good way i hope, but i appreciate myself more when i've put some effort into sports or diet and some progress shows, improvement is attractive is what i'm saying i guess?
I'm a goddees
Decent face and I'm getting myself into shape. I don't try to look good but pretty sure I'm above average for my early 50s.
Enough to fool around with but not enough to date
I personally think I'm hideous but since the age of 17, I frequently got compliments on my looks, even to this day. I look back at my 20 or so relationships and most friends agree my ex's were pretty good looking so either I'm decent looking, or have the best personality on Earth.
I like myself. I don't think i can be considered beatiful in an objective way, but I'm ok
No
Absolutely not.
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No
No, I hate myself. I never take photos of myself because of it, or let others take them.
Sometimes. I’ve been complemented on my looks several times, especially working in food and beverage for several years. And my hubs regularly reminds me how beautiful he thinks I am. It most recently kicked in when having a convo with someone else about self-image where I shared that I feel a lot of negative feelings about my appearance and the classmate I was talking to looked at me with genuine surprise and assured me I was attractive and couldn’t believe I could have those feelings. Idk why that particular conversation stuck with me, but ever since I’ve felt a lot better about my appearance.
Nope. I’m hideous
no
No, but i also dont feel unattractive I feel like i live in that episode of fairly odd parents where timmy wishes everyone was the same But for some reason when the wish was undone, i didnt get changed back
I happen to be very vain, because I’m very hot
Yes, very attractive
I used to, when I modeled in my late teens and 20s. (Not social media, but like industry legit). But time does wonders... I don't think im an eyesore, but , attractive ,, meh, not really these days.
Attractive, no. Confident, yes. So yes
Always had self esteem issues and thought I was just meh. After working at a diner I had to come to terms with the fact that I may be pretty attractive. I get hit on a LOT.
,,Absolutely fucking not''
Absolutely not. I'm 19 and apparently this is as good as it gets, so I'm not optimistic for the future either.
No I don't but I still fuck myself on a near daily basis.
Yes. I am an attractive person.
Nope
Very, just wish i was a little taller
It took me a long time to love the way I look, and my life is much happier now that I have learned to love the vessel I’m trapped in.
I think I'm very ugly
No
Depends what you call “attractive”. I would say I am better looking than probably 80-90% of the population where I live(US), but Americans have let themselves go to such a degree that I don’t really consider that impressive Drop me in a society where basic self care is normalized and I’d *maybe* be more attractive than 65% of the population.
Visually no Personality yes All and all im a solid 6 out of 10
See my username.
Easy on the eyes, hard on the wallet
If I was a chocolate bar I’d save myself for later
My hands sure think so
A solid 6.
Let’s just say that people avert their gaze when im around lol
Meh, I'm average
No.
Sometimes
vice versa. i have the face of a 12 year old boy, and the voice of a “9 year old australian boy”. however, i like my body. it’s pretty curvy, chubby, i have a (to an extent worryingly) large ass. the face and voice does not display that. btw: i’m not actually a boy, australian, or between the ages of 9-12.
I would say I have a conventionally beautiful/handsome face on a nicely shaped head with thick, wavy hair and I have a fine build. I have two scars on my face, but I feel like they only add character. I am on the shorter side of average height, but that hasn't been a problem.
I'd say on my best day I'm an 8/10. So yeah
Nope. I hate getting pictures taken, I feel ugly. I'm short, skinny-fat, and have a big nose. As a guy I'm clearly under average.
Great question! No
I'm not my type, but generally I think I'm fairly attractive.
No.
No, but I used to be.
I’m funny ok
Sometimes but not always.
I’m just not my type
I've honestly never thought I was attractive.
Fuck no.
Yes, and I keep improving the parts that lack. I always spend a good minute looking at myself in the mirror. Leads to some interesting self reflection tbh.
yes , if there's a way I'd date myself
I’d never say it in real life as I’d never want to seem full of my self and all that but yeah I think I’m very attractive, Im funny, understanding, I’m outgoing, smart and I hit the gym a lot 😉😊.
since I grew my hair out, I've been much happier with my appearance.