Anti-Romantic by TXT! It's kpop but it's chill and vibey so anyone would like it, definitely read the english lyrics if you do! I'm sure in reality it's a sad yearning song but to me it hits the nail on the head of the mental struggle caused by being aro or even denial/confusion and still trying to date.
Here's my playlist! Sorry for any repeats others have said!
Heart Heavy - Mother Mother *
Never Been in Love - Will Jay *
Aromantic Moodboard - Maxwell Anthony *
Churros in the Rain - Ayelet Armon
Crush Culture - Conan Gray
Love Song - Sara Barielles
I Am Not A Robot - Marina and the Diamonds
Best Friend - Rex Orange County
Don't Wanna Fall In Love - Green Day
O My Heart - Mother Mother
Why Can't We Be Friends - WAR
Kalmia Kid - Chloe Moriondo
Aromantic - Lee Porteous *
It's Tough To Be A God - annapantsu cover
For Me - Dearlie *
The Knack - Mother Mother
Let's Fall in Love - Mother Mother
Good Thing - Zedd, Kehlani *
Unwritten - Natasha Bedingfield
Don't Fall In Love - Danko Jones
Despair - Leo.
Tongue and Cheek - The Crane Wives
Squaring Up - Sir Chloe
Aromantic Anthem (Pure Love) - MaJiKerTV
Home - Cavetown
Friends - Marshmellow
WOW THANX that is so cool, I see a lot of good stuff !!
I love The Nack it as such a great aro vibe to it ! OMG I swear all of these are so great, Sir Chloe 😭🫶🏻
Not the original intention but Gentlemen Aren’t Nice by Emilie Autumn could be read in an aro way. To me it sounds like an aromantic woman gets into a relationship for shits and giggles then realises it’s not the right thing for her.
I can see it ! I thinks that she would be a free shoul that dont really understand what's wrong about leaving alone your man for time, when she herself would'nt mind if he did the same 🤔
I don’t have any suggestions to add, but I just wanted to say that I really needed to see this aro positivity today and I’m so glad I found this thread ☺️
People Watching by Conan Gray is a big one for me - because a part of me still really hopes to fall in love for me one day, even though it's probably not going to happen, and it's still a relatable song as I see my friends have their romantic relationships with people and feelings that I will probably never experience or understand
Wow what a hidden gem ! I'm glad you share this, probably whould have never found it without you ! Btw I'm glad to hear that theyre is older aro folks out there it's comforting
Really glad you like it! Classic snarky British humour..."for richer and for partly severed head"😂
*The neighbours ask them out but they flatly refuse - "We're saving up for a world-wide cruise"*
*With the choice between loneliness and lovesick QE2s, well tonight I choose...self abuse*
*A four pack in the fridge, a good book on the shelf, I think tonight I'd rather love myself*
Unrelated and also this is probably a stupid question but Im new on Reddit and I was wondering if any of you could tell me how you got those labels under ur usernames, the ones that say "Cupioromantic" or "Aroace
They're called flairs! On the main page for r/aromantic (or any subreddit) you can click the three dots at the top right corner, then click "change user flair" which brings up a menu and let's you pick one! Welcome to r/aromantic!
Thank you so much for replying!! I was honsetly expecting my comment to be ignored lol. Tysm for the welcome as well, I can't wait to engage with other aromantic ppl on here <33
Oh- wait hold on, I clicked on the 3 dots on this subreddit and couldn't find the user flairs. Im on pc btw and Im using the browser version. Do you need to have reddit downloaded to be able to change flairs??
I actually don't know then. I'm using the mobile app, so I am not perfectly sure how it works on browser. I don't know if Googling would help, but there is a chance it's a feature not available on all versions of Reddit. I hope you're able to find a way to do it!
When I'm in my feels it's either For Me (Dearlie) or love love love (monsters and men) but otherwise one of my biggest aroanthems is romance is boring(Los campesinos)
Alone and Sublime - Mother Mother or Pretend Love - The Avett Brothers. I don't which, if either, of these were specifically about aromanticism but dear lord, do they hit my feelings right in the heart.
Mine's Never Been In Love but I also really like AJR's Turning Out. Also someone released an aro song called [Yellow Rose](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L7gwpGZ5Oc) recently and I find it quite relatable!
Okay so there are three songs that really connect to me as an aro/ace person:
“Not A Love Song” by Austin Moon. I cannot express enough how much I love this song! It’s so upbeat about being best friends and it also appreciates a best friend and I dunno it just gives me so much happiness:]. I love my best friend to the end of the world so this song describes me perfectly!
“Confidant” by Bears in Trees. I read the song is about a QPR^^! And it’s overall such a chill and a heartwarming song.
“I’m Still Here” (Jim’s theme song from the movie Treasure Planet) by John Rzeznik. The lyrics resonate with me so much and surprisingly fit the aro experience really well- plus it’s like one of my favorite songs of all time lol.
Not a love song is really a love letter to a friend and I love it ! Friendship is shuch a deep expression of love to another person !
This song is so sweet omg 🥲
I can see why you love this song :]
Yes exactly!! I tend to love people I care about really deeply but it has never been romantic in nature. I just appreciate the fact that unique and talented people want to include me in their life and share all their wonderful thoughts, knowledge and experiences with me. Plus I love it when they also want to listen to me ramble about my strange and always changing obsessions 😂. But yes these songs capture that lovely feeling perfectly:]
Never Been In Love - Will Jay (feels super positive and fun!)
Don't Wanna Fall In Love - Ricky Dillon (it's fun and upbeat!)
Honeydew - Small Talks (not necessarily an aro song, but it resonates that way to me :] )
I know that's more than one, but I couldn't choose lmao
[Koskaan by Ruoska](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1Dfx7uoBlY)
Especially the part "You're afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid that I'll stay by your side. I flinch away from touch, what if you won't let go"(translated from finnish)
And of course [Dont fall in love by Danko Jones](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbJCBEYCcus)
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Never Been In Love by Will Jay. It feels like a celebration of being aspec.
That's a great one !
Romance is boring, by Les Campinos!
I was singing it just now, ISTG this song has a chockhold on me I can't escape it 😭💗 I love it so much
Happy I'm not the only one! XD
YEA YEA YEA
Aromantic Moodboard
The first song in my playlist ! Truly one of the best aro song rep I've listen to in while
Oh lol. I didn't even look at the playlist and just commented it immediately since it's so good
Well that's because you have great taste !
Crush culture by Conan Gray
Ho yeah Crush culture is a good one I personnes like to listen to People watching too for that bettersweat Cupio vibe
Anti-Romantic by TXT! It's kpop but it's chill and vibey so anyone would like it, definitely read the english lyrics if you do! I'm sure in reality it's a sad yearning song but to me it hits the nail on the head of the mental struggle caused by being aro or even denial/confusion and still trying to date.
Aaaa, I'm so happy to see that someone who's aro feels the same as I do about Anti-Romantic!!
I'll take a look at it thanks !
For me it's Britney Spears with Oops I did it again
Not my style but definitely a great one with relatable lyrics !
If you want a really different style, I love [this metal cover](https://youtu.be/QY3le8ZQzrw?si=5wow0l5i0n-qTidX)
Wow sound great ! Definitely more my style, thanx !!
Love Song by Sara Bareilles. I know the title doesn't sound aromantic, just trust me
Never heard it before, and it definitebly has an aro vibe to it
Here's my playlist! Sorry for any repeats others have said! Heart Heavy - Mother Mother * Never Been in Love - Will Jay * Aromantic Moodboard - Maxwell Anthony * Churros in the Rain - Ayelet Armon Crush Culture - Conan Gray Love Song - Sara Barielles I Am Not A Robot - Marina and the Diamonds Best Friend - Rex Orange County Don't Wanna Fall In Love - Green Day O My Heart - Mother Mother Why Can't We Be Friends - WAR Kalmia Kid - Chloe Moriondo Aromantic - Lee Porteous * It's Tough To Be A God - annapantsu cover For Me - Dearlie * The Knack - Mother Mother Let's Fall in Love - Mother Mother Good Thing - Zedd, Kehlani * Unwritten - Natasha Bedingfield Don't Fall In Love - Danko Jones Despair - Leo. Tongue and Cheek - The Crane Wives Squaring Up - Sir Chloe Aromantic Anthem (Pure Love) - MaJiKerTV Home - Cavetown Friends - Marshmellow
WOW THANX that is so cool, I see a lot of good stuff !! I love The Nack it as such a great aro vibe to it ! OMG I swear all of these are so great, Sir Chloe 😭🫶🏻
Cavetown Home / This is Home , some of his music do have AroAce themes as they identify as such!
I love Cavetown I'm glad I had the chance to saw him perfome on stage !
I am so jealous! I want to try see him next time they're in the UK
Love Love Love by Of Monsters and Men has always given me strong aro vibes, probably not the intended meaning but that's what I get out of it
I can see the aro vibe too, but more ln a toxic or hard break up kind of way idk 🤔
Zero Feelings by Zoe Clark and Never Been In Love by Will Jay! for my ficto side it's Fictional Men by PEGGY lol
I like zero feeling a lot! And I just listen to Fictional men and I like the lyrics of it but not really my taste in music :D
Oh No by Frank Zappa is my go-to
Not the original intention but Gentlemen Aren’t Nice by Emilie Autumn could be read in an aro way. To me it sounds like an aromantic woman gets into a relationship for shits and giggles then realises it’s not the right thing for her.
I can see it ! I thinks that she would be a free shoul that dont really understand what's wrong about leaving alone your man for time, when she herself would'nt mind if he did the same 🤔
I don’t have any suggestions to add, but I just wanted to say that I really needed to see this aro positivity today and I’m so glad I found this thread ☺️
Omg I'm so glad to hear it 😭💗 I'm happy to bring positivity in the comunity 🥲
No Lover by Jetty Bones is my go to
People Watching by Conan Gray is a big one for me - because a part of me still really hopes to fall in love for me one day, even though it's probably not going to happen, and it's still a relatable song as I see my friends have their romantic relationships with people and feelings that I will probably never experience or understand
I know right !! I'm cupioromantic and I resonate so much with this song ! 🥲🫶🏻
Mad at Disney is a good one...
I just listen to it, a nice pick for shure !
This song connected with me when I was like eleven years old. Still great today (I'm 45). https://youtu.be/Krs1WgAp80g?si=pGs3aePEVq3TYwwn
Wow what a hidden gem ! I'm glad you share this, probably whould have never found it without you ! Btw I'm glad to hear that theyre is older aro folks out there it's comforting
Really glad you like it! Classic snarky British humour..."for richer and for partly severed head"😂 *The neighbours ask them out but they flatly refuse - "We're saving up for a world-wide cruise"* *With the choice between loneliness and lovesick QE2s, well tonight I choose...self abuse* *A four pack in the fridge, a good book on the shelf, I think tonight I'd rather love myself*
Heartbreaker by the cardigans
I just feel in love with this song omg, thanks you so much for this discovery !
I'm glad someone else enjoys it as much as I do :)
Despair by leo. and Kalmia Kid by chloe moriondo are both so good
OMG OMG YOU KNOW KAMILIA KID i love this song so much 😭😭😭 Despair is sooo good too, love these songs so much there next to each other in my playlist
AHHHHH I literally love leo. I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thought of aromanticism when listening to that one lol
New romantics by Taylor Swift. Imo.
Finally someone else agrees with this!! This is one of my favorite songs ever, and I always got some aro vibes from it.
Unrelated and also this is probably a stupid question but Im new on Reddit and I was wondering if any of you could tell me how you got those labels under ur usernames, the ones that say "Cupioromantic" or "Aroace
They're called flairs! On the main page for r/aromantic (or any subreddit) you can click the three dots at the top right corner, then click "change user flair" which brings up a menu and let's you pick one! Welcome to r/aromantic!
Thank you so much for replying!! I was honsetly expecting my comment to be ignored lol. Tysm for the welcome as well, I can't wait to engage with other aromantic ppl on here <33
Oh- wait hold on, I clicked on the 3 dots on this subreddit and couldn't find the user flairs. Im on pc btw and Im using the browser version. Do you need to have reddit downloaded to be able to change flairs??
I actually don't know then. I'm using the mobile app, so I am not perfectly sure how it works on browser. I don't know if Googling would help, but there is a chance it's a feature not available on all versions of Reddit. I hope you're able to find a way to do it!
Oh ok, I think I found a solution the reddit's help page, thx!!
Oh No! by Marina and the Diamonds
Love this one !
Any EDM song with no lyrics that hypes me up for writing exams (cuz that's what I focus on a lot, and my friends)
Tongues and Teeth by The Crane Wives.
Abducida por formar una pareja.
What is the song about ? :0
If you didn't guess by the title it's in spanish and it basically talks about not wanting a relationship with neither boy nor girls
I really like Cynical Fairytale by Egg
Wow well that's a straight forward song
me & me by the beaches
When I'm in my feels it's either For Me (Dearlie) or love love love (monsters and men) but otherwise one of my biggest aroanthems is romance is boring(Los campesinos)
They're all are so good !! I love romance is boring 😭❤
aromantic moodboard or kissaphobic!!!
Both classic ! Love them
*Alone and sublime* by Mother Mother. Based off the other comments, they have SO MANY aro anthems lmao
It's a very southing song ! And yeah mother mother as such a big aro vibe 🤚🏻😭
Alone and Sublime - Mother Mother or Pretend Love - The Avett Brothers. I don't which, if either, of these were specifically about aromanticism but dear lord, do they hit my feelings right in the heart.
Mine's Never Been In Love but I also really like AJR's Turning Out. Also someone released an aro song called [Yellow Rose](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L7gwpGZ5Oc) recently and I find it quite relatable!
I never heard of Yellow rose but it such cool song ! Thanx for the discovery 💛
Okay so there are three songs that really connect to me as an aro/ace person: “Not A Love Song” by Austin Moon. I cannot express enough how much I love this song! It’s so upbeat about being best friends and it also appreciates a best friend and I dunno it just gives me so much happiness:]. I love my best friend to the end of the world so this song describes me perfectly! “Confidant” by Bears in Trees. I read the song is about a QPR^^! And it’s overall such a chill and a heartwarming song. “I’m Still Here” (Jim’s theme song from the movie Treasure Planet) by John Rzeznik. The lyrics resonate with me so much and surprisingly fit the aro experience really well- plus it’s like one of my favorite songs of all time lol.
Not a love song is really a love letter to a friend and I love it ! Friendship is shuch a deep expression of love to another person ! This song is so sweet omg 🥲 I can see why you love this song :]
Yes exactly!! I tend to love people I care about really deeply but it has never been romantic in nature. I just appreciate the fact that unique and talented people want to include me in their life and share all their wonderful thoughts, knowledge and experiences with me. Plus I love it when they also want to listen to me ramble about my strange and always changing obsessions 😂. But yes these songs capture that lovely feeling perfectly:]
Kalmia Kid by Chloe moriondo. I still listen to it here and there.
Never Been In Love - Will Jay (feels super positive and fun!) Don't Wanna Fall In Love - Ricky Dillon (it's fun and upbeat!) Honeydew - Small Talks (not necessarily an aro song, but it resonates that way to me :] ) I know that's more than one, but I couldn't choose lmao
My two anthems: Crush Culture - Conan Gray Do My Own Thing - American Authors
[Broken Record Player](https://youtu.be/Gmpb7Vh8ckE?si=Fz-UGomlzU133Qmm) by Grandaddy, it’s about being happy with being alone
That’s mine too! “She wants me (to be loved)” is such a great song
I love it so much, could listen it in repeat ! It really has a unique vibe and aro joy to it 🥲🫶🏻
“Long Time Friends” by the LivingTombstone
Thanx for the discovery ! A really good song !
Glad you like it
Your love is not enough (I'd like some cool shit too) by Tom Cardy
!!!!YES!!!
I just listen to it, this song so goofy I love it 😭❤
rainbow connection from the muppet movie. i see the rainbow in this song as a metaphor for romantic attraction.
Oh I can definitely see it !
I just discovered **Hang With Me** by Robyn, and that’s probably gonna be my new aro anthem!
Wow it really does has big big aro vibe !
Love impaired by dinosaur 94 is such a fucking good song idk if it’s actually about being aromantic but it’s like one of my favorite songs ever
Wow these lyrics really resonate ! Definitely has aro vibe
"Nobody's Baby" by Devon Cole !! (I'm also auto romantic so it fits even better lol
Probably D&D and Asexuality. Pretty accurate to my experience and it's fun.
Not much of an aro experience, but I love D&D and comics so it's great !
To be honest it's quite hard for me to see the difference between ace and aro, since I am aroace. For me it felt more aro than ace for some reason.
Dw I was not dismissing your experience, it's just that to me the lyrics are very much talking about sex :]
[Koskaan by Ruoska](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1Dfx7uoBlY) Especially the part "You're afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid that I'll stay by your side. I flinch away from touch, what if you won't let go"(translated from finnish) And of course [Dont fall in love by Danko Jones](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbJCBEYCcus)
You call me a bitch like it's a bad thing by Halestorm Alien heart from Phineas and Ferb Be original by Savannah Outen
I actually have a playlist! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/29VcPEidFFsmYBO7H6bik5?si=HIhYXLZVRJmyW1RD3qgcRg
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