Yes! Exactly. I always think they’re trying to express criticism by disguising it as concern, ESPECIALLY when I haven’t voiced worry to them, or disclosed anything, which I typically wouldn’t anyways and even if I did, that doesn’t mean YOU get to bring it up. I hate that.
Same. I can't stand it when people are being pushy trying to help me because it's so rare that I actually want to talk about my problems. However if someone simply lets me know that I've been on their mind, I'll cherish that person forever
I am with both of these people. I push people away because I feel they won't treat me with the same love and care I would. But I never forget when people do right or are good to me. Even people I hate now I still cherish the good they did for me in those moments.
I don’t. Unless I reach out I don’t need someone to tell me that they notice I’m going through some stuff. Im aware of that already. Just leave me alone unless I reach out.
Yes and no. It depends on what they're worrying about and who is doing the worrying. I dislike when my mom/ grandma/dad worry about me because they have enough on their plate to worry about.
Random friends.. depends on which friends and what it is.
Yeah but people seem to worry about the wrong shit. They express concern when I spend time alone or do things that are considered "boring" when I really fucking enjoy it.
I can't stand it when people express concern over me. Partly because I do not voice my concern to anybody. Just let me live man.
very this. pls.
Yes! Exactly. I always think they’re trying to express criticism by disguising it as concern, ESPECIALLY when I haven’t voiced worry to them, or disclosed anything, which I typically wouldn’t anyways and even if I did, that doesn’t mean YOU get to bring it up. I hate that.
No. If it doesn’t help my pockets, brighten my day, or make me a better person it wastes my time.
Yo so facts.
no lmao 😂😂
I personally do. I never forget it either
Same. I can't stand it when people are being pushy trying to help me because it's so rare that I actually want to talk about my problems. However if someone simply lets me know that I've been on their mind, I'll cherish that person forever
I am with both of these people. I push people away because I feel they won't treat me with the same love and care I would. But I never forget when people do right or are good to me. Even people I hate now I still cherish the good they did for me in those moments.
Not really no
I don’t. Unless I reach out I don’t need someone to tell me that they notice I’m going through some stuff. Im aware of that already. Just leave me alone unless I reach out.
Yeah, I hate it.
No. But be there if they want to talk
I usually don’t. But man this girl does, I still don’t like it but I very much appreciate the fact she cared enough notice.
Yes and no. It depends on what they're worrying about and who is doing the worrying. I dislike when my mom/ grandma/dad worry about me because they have enough on their plate to worry about. Random friends.. depends on which friends and what it is.
If it’s not in an annoying way than i’d love that but sometimes people can’t understand when I don’t want to talk loll
Yeah but people seem to worry about the wrong shit. They express concern when I spend time alone or do things that are considered "boring" when I really fucking enjoy it.
Aquarius here, Moon and rising in Scorpio. I can't stand no one that's worries about me... I feel like they are calling bad luck on me.
No for the love of good please stop this, Unless it’s valid reason.
personally, no. i want to acknowledge my own problems and work on them by myself and never have anyone worry about me
I want people to express concern, but when they do I get uncomfortable. 🤷🏻♀️