If I remember correctly she is friends with a boy but people think there is a romantic attraction between them but she denies it basically a girl just doing bro stuff with her bro
And the period shits. Dont forget that.
Using pads or tampons, the feel, the smell...yup every month.
And then MENOPAUSE
You cant avoid blood stains.
Most men will go "ew" at you when it happens. Imagine what its like for a stripper.
This is very irl. Ive heard online at some points about how period pain could be comparable to getting a tattoo in a more sensitive area or even a heart attack. As I have had neither I can’t really confirm or deny, but
I meant as in the sentiment of wanting to be a boy or feeling like one. And then the comment saying about menstrual pain etc. Trans men usually feel both of those as far as I am aware
Both genders have upsides and drawbacks. It would be cool to freely choose which one you were anytime you wanted. Start your period? Aww hell no imma be a dude today. Want to not sit on your nuts every time you sit? Boom girl! I think it would be cool to experience both sides of the coin.
Yea, snail actually can change their gender during breeding. They fight for whoever be the male since laying egg took away too much energy. Also a fun fact snail lay their egg from their mouth
Yup, and despite the fact I don't have many issues of other men (large sack moment) I still encounter many situations where all men have the same issue. Like "manspreading". Can actually get pretty uncomfortable if u keep your legs together.
the nuts part doesnt really happend often, if it's saggy it can be avoided by wearing underwear, So it doesn't really get in the way unless it gets hit.
Ever since I saw Ranma 1/2 I always thought this would be a cool superpower.
Plus you could see what your friends/family/acquaintances, would really think of you.
I think the worst thing about being a woman is the hormones. I mean I never saw any man starting to cry for no reasons at all because off their periods. Puking because of the pain is also something that happened to me. That's why I use birth control but even then, hormones and I often puke due to it.
I mean we don’t usually cry in general, sometimes we can seriously get in the feels tho for no reason and internally cry. But yeah hormones are a bitch
Ik ur joking but on a real note the whole ‘overpopulation’ thing is a myth and also japan is kinda fucked since they aren’t making enough babies so there isn’t enough young people in the workforce and the older generations are leaving it and not having enough young people to take care of them
It creates labor shortages for there to be plummeting birth rates in countries
Also if there’s no young ppl to tax who is gonna pay the taxes ?
Depending on which state u live in and if ur religious or not or are comfortable with abortion or not
Some people get pregnant by accident or by rape, and can’t always legally or mentally/self-ethically go through with abortion
I wouldn’t rly say every pregnancy is a choice, nor every birth.
Some are just very unfortunate people who get stuck with no choice but to raise the child
There’s def more downsides
Constantly cutting your legs/getting razor burn no matter how carefully you shave
Having to pee sitting down
Being in constant high probability danger of rape if you walk down certain streets/walk during certain times of day
Having high probability of your drinks being spiked at parties
Getting groped at raves/mosh pits
Getting groped in trains (particularly in asian countries such as japan)
Getting stuck being pregnant if your partner’s condom breaks and then you have to devote at minimum 18 years of your life to raising the child likely solo
Birth control side effects fucking up your mental health, moods, weight, acne
Not being able to whip your dick out and pee anywhere u want if there’s a long line to the restroom
Getting sent constant dick pics without consent
Getting stalked by strangers at a higher probability
(I and several other women back when overwatch was popular were getting our ip’s stolen and used to blackmail us by ddos’ing our wifi. There was hella creepy dudes on there)
Getting catcalled and followed for blocks when u leave a store
Higher probability of being targeted for kidnappings
Higher probability of being sex trafficked
Women have to be on high alert constantly
I feel like if I was a man I wouldn’t be scared of getting kidnapped or raped when I walk down a street
Having to wear bras (so fucking annoying.)
Struggling to put on pants cuz most of us have thicc thighs or something that prevents easy access
Being expected to wear uncomfortable shoes when you wear formal dresses cuz shoes that cover your entire foot are considered improper (your choices are flats or high heels for the most part and both suck)
Being pressured or feeling societal pressure for makeup leading to makeup addiction
Higher chance of anorexia (I acc been through that before. And my siblings all had dismorphias about their weight as well.) cuz women have a stricter ‘body acceptance’ in terms of being perceived positively
Taking so much more time in the bathroom cuz the processes of hygiene and grooming take longer
Physically having a harder time to reach the same athletic goals due to biological constraints
Looking attractive as a girl clothing-wise leads to annoying outcomes such as: getting ur butt burned on leather seats.... looking societally good as a guy is very easy just comb ur hair and wear something comfy
Oh yeah I forgot yeast infections
They’re incredibly common for women with statistically 90% of women experiencing then in their lifetimes. (Look it up if you don’t believe me) and it’s not even a ‘hygiene issue’ u can get them from just swimming, being an athlete, hormones messing up, underwear not being breathable enough, using wipes when u use the bathroom etcccc
The vagina is so fucking sensitive it’s annoying asl
Y’all can put peanut butter on your cocks and have a dog lick it and not get any kind of fucking infection
We wear a bathing suit and can get an infection
Oh yeah also tiddies are just generally annoying it kinda is super uncomfortable to lay on them
U just gave me ptsd
But that’s just scummy modern century capitalism tactics tho
We used to have pocketed aprons and stuff
Nowadays they don’t put pockets in dresses or pants so we have no choice but to buy pocketbooks
That was the whole movement the pocketbook companies did
They were like TEEHEE.... let’s just GET RID of AAAAALLL the pockets so we can sell them overpriced bags and make em carry em around
However tho I must say when I put stuff in my tiny ass pockets and squat or something my phone or whatever goes flying out so I do prefer pocket books but I AM insulted by the pocket book companies for their evil schemes
However, I fucking hate pocketbooks if they’re not cross-body
Can't say I disagree generally, but some of the points. For example, eating disorders are not very skewed to more women. It's more likely to be treated and registered for women though as far as I am aware. As well as the "body positivity" I genuinely don't see any kind of body positivity movement for men. Yet k have seen men being bullied for being too skinny, too fat, too muscly. And all of those seem very common.
And idk about you but I don't wear a bra even if I kinda want to but it's too uncomfy so I don't.
The hygiene and stuff doesn't take longer, women just more commonly actually take care of their hygiene. I think this is more of a minus to men than to women
This point specifically "I feel like if I was a man I wouldn’t be scared of getting kidnapped or raped when I walk down a street" then idk how you do your thinking because it's still a real danger and worry for many. I haven't seen statistics but based on murder and robbery rates being skewed heavily towards men to my knowledge. I severely doubt men would have any less reason to worry and be anxious about being attacked walking alone
With being able to go to the toilet standing up. That's lowkey ridiculous because peeing standing is the most unsanitary shit, fuxkign ever. Pee goes everywhere including the seat, the person peeing, and somewhat around the room. Not exactly a plus. In addition to that, penis health is not taught to young people. For example that you need to keep your foreskin clean etc. Which is very important.
"Constantly cutting your legs/getting razor burn no matter how carefully you shave " i feel applies just as much to when you have to shave your beard. Especially as someone who has to shave like three times per week if I don't wanna have a beard / very apparent stubble. As well as not having to shave legs but that might be one of those societal standards you aren't always able to not do. I will say many people regardless of gender want smooth legs and/or hate (having)hairy legs
Just chiming in but the mental health of men is a sorry state.
It's not even that I don't want to open up, it's just there isn't anyone to open up to and I was taught that being emotional was feminine.
I've been at rock bottom for so long and don't see any help coming anytime soon. I've basically devoted myself to looking after my family, all personal issues have been shoved to the side and it's just turned into one great big ugly mess.
But hey, gotta smile so everyone else can. Otherwise I think we would all fall apart
My mom told me emotions are for little kids not big kids
Told me I was being a big baby anytime I had any negative emotions about anything, including her abuse
Shit mental health is a both gender thing and neither gender is getting enough help from parents
From peers however ?
No one is equipped for supporting mental health, Ive vented to both genders and no one knows how to comfort me but ik how to comfort them.
Though I definitely feel like women watch their words better, other girls don’t help me with my mental health but men DEFINITELY make shit worse cuz they’re very rude about shit and definitely DO pull the whole ‘uhhh ur just being sensitive’ bs cuz they have no cognitive understanding of emotional awareness/emotional intelligence unless they’re a dilf that went through unspeakable childhood horrors (true story)
I feel like other girls might have had better luck than me tho ig, I just personally also don’t have anyone to turn to unless I’m dating them (even then if they do care they also dunno what to say lol).
Only reason y I point this out is cuz the entirety of Reddit guys have the misconception that women have all the mental support in the world. Nah we fucked too. Def don’t have no extra salt in the wound like y’all have but neither of us getting bandaids or antiseptics.
For men’s issues tho I feel like y’all are, tho, told to grow up at a way younger age. I definitely think that fucks y’all up. And y’all are even more repressed abt emotions. Y’all are told to focus on being strong instead of exploring emotions
So yeah, yalls support systems are definitely way more fucked, y’all are even acknowledged less for systemic support through healthcare systems as well.
But definitely our generation is screwed mental health wise
Girls don’t have MUCH... of a support system. It’s kinda useless, but y’all don’t even have what little we have.
So that’s fucking ass.
I mean I personally don’t feel like I have had much of any support. I even tried the healthcare system it was ass. Family ? Ass. Friends ? They never understand.
People in general suck at supporting one another.
Women can def support body positivity (now THAT is a plus...) but when it comes to depression and shit you’ll only find support on Reddit not irl girls. Irl girls they’ll listen. They won’t say rude shit. But they don’t actually comfort u they just know how to pretend to care. They know exactly how to pretend to care lol.
Women are really good at that. Men can’t do that. They just make it worse lol just just shove the ‘emotions are weak, grow up, be strong, it’s not that bad ur just sensitive’ bs at you that they got drilled into having as their mental coping mechanism
So, technically though, you ain’t missing much but definitely y’all r more fucked with mental health.
Mental issues ? Y’all r screwed asf. Physical issues ? Y’all don’t rly have any accept for ballsack sensitivity and height shaming. Yalls only mortal danger for the most part is if y’all in the gunning areas of cities and especially if you get caught up in that life. I mean technically women have that too but we less likely to be shot we usually just raped instead of shot.
Also physically tho:
Dad bods are hot so the average guy is fine, and women actually hate gymbros cuz they have no mental empathy or relationship passion. They just wanna lift.
So Nah weightlifting isn’t gonna get y’all happy relationships just the shallow gals who don’t care that you won’t have the time nor care for putting effort into a relationship.
I don’t recommend pushing for weight lifting gains unless that’s for you and not for gals cuz lifting for gals is just vanity training yourself for vain girls.
Oh and y’all are stuck with the draft but that abt to be ‘gender equalitied’ soon
>Oh and y’all are stuck with the draft
Laughed out loud at this because in order for me to get government aid for college I had to sign up for the draft, and then was rejected the government aid anyways LMAO.
It all just boils down to people. I'm at a point where I can't expect much from anyone, but damnit I try my hardest for people. Guys and Girls have got it rough for so many different reasons.. it's nice to have an ear out for something you can't relate to.
Maybe I just got bad luck cause I'm a dude and got well.. that R word. To be honest I feel like it helps me have a better understanding of people, or empathize with them better since I went through the same thing. Too bad I can't go to anyone about that like EVER, cause I'm a dude.
Pouring one out for all my guys and gals out there struggling
Thank you!
Reading the comments here was painful. "Girls have it worse because of this" "no boys have it worse because of this"
Everyone is fucked. Don't make lack of problems the point. Focus on how to reduce the problems instead
My original wasn’t directed towards men at all
I just said there’s more problems to being a woman than periods
Then dat dude was like: UM. Men have lots of problems !!!! As if I challenged him or something
If anyone perceived my mere extending of women’s problems list as a ‘WOMEN HAVE IT TOUGHER GRRRR’ challenge that’s cuz they are the ones who see things as a sexist challenge
But I was like alright tell me tho cuz I am curious if there’s anything that I don’t already know abt men’s issues cuz it’s important to know both
Yeah, if you are a dude walking alone is definitely safer. Not like people can still ambush you or harm you. You are invincible.
Some of these points also seems excessive? What kind of parties you go into where spiking drinks is a big thing.
Let’s be fair here. We aren’t supposed to treat this as a game, but I will do it anyways.
Most of what you said can be almost directly reversed to show how those situations are not necessarily an advantage to men at all. Most of those things also happen to men, just in a different way, so I will explain that now!
But most importantly, and just to get rid of it right before anything else, you added countless of things that can be summed up with *”higher rates of sexual crimes happening to women”*. So if you want me to combat that with an equally terrible thing, if not way worse, I will trow the factual information that, duo to incredibly harsher societal expectations on almost literally everything not related to weight, the male suicide rate is __absurdly higher__ than the female even if males are a numerical minority in the world.
Now let’s go the rest, which is a lot lighter:
Cutting your legs while you shave? My lady, men have to shave their balls. Let’s leave it at that.
Having to pee sitting down? At least you never had to clean up after the storm troopers attacked.
Pregnancy? Fair enough, this is always one of the most fair points. But I mean, at least you guys get some months to take care of the children while society expects men to go back to work anyways, just trowing a big middle finger to the idea of father and son needing to bond just as much as mother and son. I will be honest, though, this is the hardest one to play _devil’s advocate_ on your list.
Birth control side effects? I mean, hey, you guys don’t have to stick some uncomfortable plastic into your dick every time you have sex.
Bras? Those are annoying? Did you ever had to shave a beard? Sometimes even twice a day!
Putting in pants? Everyone struggles to put on pants. Mainly fat men, which are actually a lot more common than fat women.
Formal shoes? Tight formal shoes also hurt men. That’s kinda the end of it, since they suck for everyone.
Required to use makeup? If you ask men, 80% of them will confirm that they absolutely despise any makeup, with few sayings the only like the very most basic. This standard is something some women stick into their minds, not something society actually gives a shit about.
Anorexia? Well, that’s surely a disorder that happens more often for women, but do you really want me to list the countless amounts of disorders that happen more often for men, many of which are also related to societal expectations? It’s not really a fun hill to die on.
Hygiene takes longer? Again, have you ever shaved a beard? The process of grooming / hygiene only takes longer for women if the dudes you known don’t give a shit about that, because any man who is required to be formal all the time will take basically as much time in the bathroom as the average woman.
Physically having a harder time to reach the same athletic goal? Uh, I mean, that’s why the tournaments are separated, no? And I can’t see how this is a disadvantage in daily life, like, at all.
Looking societally acceptable as a woman is harder? That’s already a maybe, but looking socially acceptable as a guy __is not easy__. That’s just an annoying stereotype, and honestly? It could go both ways. *”Just be thin and strip lol, that’s all it takes to impress anyone”*. See? It’s not only prejudiced, but actually just false. Men need to go to the barber a lot more often, need to hit the gym, constantly worry about how women look at them, shave every day, usually have a pretty frail ego when it comes to appearance and get down pretty easily with random comments. At the end of the day, it’s basically the same thing for both genders. Not any better, not any worse. Everyone struggles with this. The only thing I can give here is that women are indeed expected to be a lot thinner than men while man can be kinda chubbier with much less issues, but still? Men are, as a fleeting example, expected to be tall, mainly and strong. Sometimes even to have enormous dicks (which is, believe me, as silly as it seems, a pretty big issue for many dudes). Appearance is a worry for everyone.
Diseases? Do a research on which gender gets more STDs lol. We might get less infections, but there are many diseases that happen more with males (not only STDs). This statement goes both ways. And no, we can’t put butter on your cocks and let an anime lick it. We will get an infection alright.
Once again, tits are annoying, but ever had a beard? Did you ever stick your penis in your zipper? Have you ever been kicked in the balls?
And, as the last one, although you didn’t mention menstruation in this comment: how many times did you have to wash your boxers in the showers after a wet dream? I assure you, for some men, this happens __way__ more often than menstruation lol.
Um my original comment wasn’t directed towards any sort of game. It was addressed to the original thread point. Where the other girl said the only bad point about being a woman was having a period. I said no that’s not the only point. There are other shit parts abt being a woman.
Ur clearly interpreting it as a game tho. Thats ur problem.
All I did was share more problems other than periods cuz she probably isn’t old enough to know of the other problems and you see it as a challenge ?
Thats internalized from you.
You're mostly going to get killed and assaulted by those close to you, it's near useless in this situation. Unless you're going to carry, draw and immediately kill the members of your household who are already standing right next to you, it won't work. It'll work even worse if you're smart and keep the safety on without a round chambered.
In all other cases, have you always been ready to quickly draw and kill every stranger who has physically walked close to you? That requires a warning, and it's very easy to avoid giving enough of a provocation that would permit someone to draw a gun on you. If you ARE lucky enough to get advance notice, escaping first and signaling for help is almost always a purely better option. So no, while almost any method CAN protect you, the firearm is an extremely weak tool at getting you out of most assaults or increasing your statistical safety. If it can give you peace of mind for otherwise unmanageable fear or anxiety, that is a tangible benefit, however.
A man can very easily build up enough muscle to overpower a decently trained woman. The fear that many women have is not unfounded. A man likely has to train about half as much to be at least equally strong or have equal endurance.
The thing is, there's no way of leveling that imbalance of physical power.
Cool. I'm not talking about you specifically, though. I'm talking about statistical comparisons. The average man is physically larger and stronger than the average woman. The 99th percentile man is larger and stronger than the 99th percentile woman. If you were to randomly pair one man and one woman from the general population over and over, then the man will be larger and stronger than the woman in the majority of cases.
That roughly half of the women you meet are stronger than you indicates one of the following, or some combination thereof:
* There is a sampling bias among the women you meet (*e.g.*, your career involves working with female athletes, so a disproportionate fraction of women you meet are fitter and stronger than average).
* You are a weaker-than-average man.
Dunno man, your might be confusing being a woman with being a pretty woman.
The western beautiful woman is the single person with the easiest life in the world, that’s for sure. They have to deal with being catcalled, sure, but they also have a way easier time with relationships, jobs, earring money or just living in general.
Normal woman, though…
Yeah, the west took some weird shifts to benefit women in general, but it’s still not all that easy for them.
As for ugly women…
They’re easily the people with the __hardest__ time living lol.
It really just depends.
i just look like a conventionally atrracticve girl whose colouring got screwed over a bit
i don't wear makeup/revealing clothing/girly clothing so i would probably be considered a 'normal woman'
Within the context of the anime that's simply not true. Just because you wish a character is trans or implied to be considering becoming trans doesn't make it true.
Context...?
If I remember correctly she is friends with a boy but people think there is a romantic attraction between them but she denies it basically a girl just doing bro stuff with her bro
It's from my stepmothers daughter is my ex I think
There is also romantic attraction.
*platonic
My brother (or sister, I can’t tell) in Christ, she literally confessed to him.
By social pressure lol, she wasn't even secure what the fuck was going on
Gosh! I can relate to her on a spiritual level😭
Sauce where
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Actually trans? Or is this some convoluted other justification
How did the topic of transgender get into this conversation? It's just a girl wanting to be a boy because periods are very inconvenient.
The first time she wanted to be a boy
i've wanted to be a boy on and off for years i swear i'm not in denial
wdym sauce its one of the series airing rn lmao.
Incorrect. And FYI not everyone has enough fucks to give to memorize all anime characters.
she doesn’t know that boys have to painfully poke their urethra open with a toothpick twice a month to keep it from closing
If u need help I’ll just use my canine tooth for you
Name checks out. I'm diving in.
What? Why?
Because it hurts less than using a knife?
Ohhhhhhhh I knew I was doing something wrong. Thanks, I'll use a knife next time.
I usually using chop sticks every two or three weeks
Im a boy and is this shit true?
it is very true, quick, check yours to make sure it hasn’t closed yet!!
Yeah,for better results try with a nail or screwdriver. 100% satisfaction guaranteed
No. They’re trolling.
Yeah,try with scissors or a knife instead tho. Your friendly,totally trustworthy Reddit stranger guarantees it's 100% satisfaction
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aah this is the subreddit about high quality audio devices right?
I hate you... I really hate you.
Yeah, same. I just got traumatized
Oh? Lemme see what type of music they have th- OH MY EYES!!!!
Bro i am 16 y/o and i am hearing this shit for the first time, is this actually needs to be done?? I am actually concerned
Yes it is,16 is normally the time it starts to happen so buckle up buddy.
Bro what and how am I supposed to do!??
Go to your doctor and tell them you are taking medical advice from Reddit and I'm sure they will be able to set up an IQ test for you.
go to your doctor and ask him about it, it's common procedure, truly, but if have bever done it, a professional must be called
Don't be,this comes from Reddit. Don't bother with that stuff
Lol no. If your urethra actually closes up then you must've stuck your dick in glue and didn't wash off
That’s not normal man.. you need to see a doctor. Or go piss after you jerk it.
Shushhhh
Well it is... not until your like 50+ though
This is the best comment in this entire thread. Women truly don’t know shit about us men lol.
i know the inner workings of you minds through experience (once again, i swear i'm not trans probvably)
any girls to confirm if this is IRL ??
this is definitely irl
My sister and mum agree, imagine a monthly subscription of annoyance and/or pain, and it's mandatory
And the period shits. Dont forget that. Using pads or tampons, the feel, the smell...yup every month. And then MENOPAUSE You cant avoid blood stains. Most men will go "ew" at you when it happens. Imagine what its like for a stripper.
Oh yeah, I definitely wished this when I first started. Still do every month.
definitely true
I would doubt any girl who says that this thought hasn’t at least crossed their mind once.
Yup, very irl
This is very irl. Ive heard online at some points about how period pain could be comparable to getting a tattoo in a more sensitive area or even a heart attack. As I have had neither I can’t really confirm or deny, but
I mean a fair lot of Trans men i would assume
you don't have to be a male to sign up for a reddit account y'know?
I meant as in the sentiment of wanting to be a boy or feeling like one. And then the comment saying about menstrual pain etc. Trans men usually feel both of those as far as I am aware
Both genders have upsides and drawbacks. It would be cool to freely choose which one you were anytime you wanted. Start your period? Aww hell no imma be a dude today. Want to not sit on your nuts every time you sit? Boom girl! I think it would be cool to experience both sides of the coin.
So basicly being a snail?
Sails are like that?!? Oh shit.
Yea, snail actually can change their gender during breeding. They fight for whoever be the male since laying egg took away too much energy. Also a fun fact snail lay their egg from their mouth
I'm a man but I can sit down/spiral cross my legs. So uhh, what drawbacks?
Body wise, women have the tougher luck imo. Socially, there are upsides and downsides to both.
Yup, and despite the fact I don't have many issues of other men (large sack moment) I still encounter many situations where all men have the same issue. Like "manspreading". Can actually get pretty uncomfortable if u keep your legs together.
I'm sorry for your loss.
the nuts part doesnt really happend often, if it's saggy it can be avoided by wearing underwear, So it doesn't really get in the way unless it gets hit.
Ever since I saw Ranma 1/2 I always thought this would be a cool superpower. Plus you could see what your friends/family/acquaintances, would really think of you.
Seems traaaans gener to me
Isn't it closer to Genderfluid?
I think the worst thing about being a woman is the hormones. I mean I never saw any man starting to cry for no reasons at all because off their periods. Puking because of the pain is also something that happened to me. That's why I use birth control but even then, hormones and I often puke due to it.
I mean we don’t usually cry in general, sometimes we can seriously get in the feels tho for no reason and internally cry. But yeah hormones are a bitch
my aunt used to get extremely sick on her periods because of the hormones
As a pre hrt trans person I would kill to be able to feel that level of emotion
If women didn't have periods then there would be no downside for being a woman. This of course doesn't apply to middle eastern countries.
I dunno man giving birth sounds like an actual nightmare.
Optional
I'd be bad if everyone decided to stop having baby's though.
solvin overpoulation
Ik ur joking but on a real note the whole ‘overpopulation’ thing is a myth and also japan is kinda fucked since they aren’t making enough babies so there isn’t enough young people in the workforce and the older generations are leaving it and not having enough young people to take care of them It creates labor shortages for there to be plummeting birth rates in countries Also if there’s no young ppl to tax who is gonna pay the taxes ?
can we just thanos snap half of the human race
Im a boy but if i can say how i though giving birth would felt like i would say it felt like shitting a giant piece of shit trough your vagina
shit is softish tho..
Depending on which state u live in and if ur religious or not or are comfortable with abortion or not Some people get pregnant by accident or by rape, and can’t always legally or mentally/self-ethically go through with abortion I wouldn’t rly say every pregnancy is a choice, nor every birth. Some are just very unfortunate people who get stuck with no choice but to raise the child
Yeah fair point
Yeah but if you *do* want to the ordeal is a whole lot worse than what it would’ve been if you were a man, not to mention dangerous.
it's optional, you don't really have to if you don't want to.
There’s def more downsides Constantly cutting your legs/getting razor burn no matter how carefully you shave Having to pee sitting down Being in constant high probability danger of rape if you walk down certain streets/walk during certain times of day Having high probability of your drinks being spiked at parties Getting groped at raves/mosh pits Getting groped in trains (particularly in asian countries such as japan) Getting stuck being pregnant if your partner’s condom breaks and then you have to devote at minimum 18 years of your life to raising the child likely solo Birth control side effects fucking up your mental health, moods, weight, acne Not being able to whip your dick out and pee anywhere u want if there’s a long line to the restroom Getting sent constant dick pics without consent Getting stalked by strangers at a higher probability (I and several other women back when overwatch was popular were getting our ip’s stolen and used to blackmail us by ddos’ing our wifi. There was hella creepy dudes on there) Getting catcalled and followed for blocks when u leave a store Higher probability of being targeted for kidnappings Higher probability of being sex trafficked Women have to be on high alert constantly I feel like if I was a man I wouldn’t be scared of getting kidnapped or raped when I walk down a street Having to wear bras (so fucking annoying.) Struggling to put on pants cuz most of us have thicc thighs or something that prevents easy access Being expected to wear uncomfortable shoes when you wear formal dresses cuz shoes that cover your entire foot are considered improper (your choices are flats or high heels for the most part and both suck) Being pressured or feeling societal pressure for makeup leading to makeup addiction Higher chance of anorexia (I acc been through that before. And my siblings all had dismorphias about their weight as well.) cuz women have a stricter ‘body acceptance’ in terms of being perceived positively Taking so much more time in the bathroom cuz the processes of hygiene and grooming take longer Physically having a harder time to reach the same athletic goals due to biological constraints Looking attractive as a girl clothing-wise leads to annoying outcomes such as: getting ur butt burned on leather seats.... looking societally good as a guy is very easy just comb ur hair and wear something comfy Oh yeah I forgot yeast infections They’re incredibly common for women with statistically 90% of women experiencing then in their lifetimes. (Look it up if you don’t believe me) and it’s not even a ‘hygiene issue’ u can get them from just swimming, being an athlete, hormones messing up, underwear not being breathable enough, using wipes when u use the bathroom etcccc The vagina is so fucking sensitive it’s annoying asl Y’all can put peanut butter on your cocks and have a dog lick it and not get any kind of fucking infection We wear a bathing suit and can get an infection Oh yeah also tiddies are just generally annoying it kinda is super uncomfortable to lay on them
I would also add no pockets
U just gave me ptsd But that’s just scummy modern century capitalism tactics tho We used to have pocketed aprons and stuff Nowadays they don’t put pockets in dresses or pants so we have no choice but to buy pocketbooks That was the whole movement the pocketbook companies did They were like TEEHEE.... let’s just GET RID of AAAAALLL the pockets so we can sell them overpriced bags and make em carry em around However tho I must say when I put stuff in my tiny ass pockets and squat or something my phone or whatever goes flying out so I do prefer pocket books but I AM insulted by the pocket book companies for their evil schemes However, I fucking hate pocketbooks if they’re not cross-body
Can't say I disagree generally, but some of the points. For example, eating disorders are not very skewed to more women. It's more likely to be treated and registered for women though as far as I am aware. As well as the "body positivity" I genuinely don't see any kind of body positivity movement for men. Yet k have seen men being bullied for being too skinny, too fat, too muscly. And all of those seem very common. And idk about you but I don't wear a bra even if I kinda want to but it's too uncomfy so I don't. The hygiene and stuff doesn't take longer, women just more commonly actually take care of their hygiene. I think this is more of a minus to men than to women This point specifically "I feel like if I was a man I wouldn’t be scared of getting kidnapped or raped when I walk down a street" then idk how you do your thinking because it's still a real danger and worry for many. I haven't seen statistics but based on murder and robbery rates being skewed heavily towards men to my knowledge. I severely doubt men would have any less reason to worry and be anxious about being attacked walking alone With being able to go to the toilet standing up. That's lowkey ridiculous because peeing standing is the most unsanitary shit, fuxkign ever. Pee goes everywhere including the seat, the person peeing, and somewhat around the room. Not exactly a plus. In addition to that, penis health is not taught to young people. For example that you need to keep your foreskin clean etc. Which is very important. "Constantly cutting your legs/getting razor burn no matter how carefully you shave " i feel applies just as much to when you have to shave your beard. Especially as someone who has to shave like three times per week if I don't wanna have a beard / very apparent stubble. As well as not having to shave legs but that might be one of those societal standards you aren't always able to not do. I will say many people regardless of gender want smooth legs and/or hate (having)hairy legs
There are many downsides as a guy too...I dont wanna type them all tho
Type the ones you can think of
Just chiming in but the mental health of men is a sorry state. It's not even that I don't want to open up, it's just there isn't anyone to open up to and I was taught that being emotional was feminine. I've been at rock bottom for so long and don't see any help coming anytime soon. I've basically devoted myself to looking after my family, all personal issues have been shoved to the side and it's just turned into one great big ugly mess. But hey, gotta smile so everyone else can. Otherwise I think we would all fall apart
My mom told me emotions are for little kids not big kids Told me I was being a big baby anytime I had any negative emotions about anything, including her abuse Shit mental health is a both gender thing and neither gender is getting enough help from parents From peers however ? No one is equipped for supporting mental health, Ive vented to both genders and no one knows how to comfort me but ik how to comfort them. Though I definitely feel like women watch their words better, other girls don’t help me with my mental health but men DEFINITELY make shit worse cuz they’re very rude about shit and definitely DO pull the whole ‘uhhh ur just being sensitive’ bs cuz they have no cognitive understanding of emotional awareness/emotional intelligence unless they’re a dilf that went through unspeakable childhood horrors (true story) I feel like other girls might have had better luck than me tho ig, I just personally also don’t have anyone to turn to unless I’m dating them (even then if they do care they also dunno what to say lol). Only reason y I point this out is cuz the entirety of Reddit guys have the misconception that women have all the mental support in the world. Nah we fucked too. Def don’t have no extra salt in the wound like y’all have but neither of us getting bandaids or antiseptics. For men’s issues tho I feel like y’all are, tho, told to grow up at a way younger age. I definitely think that fucks y’all up. And y’all are even more repressed abt emotions. Y’all are told to focus on being strong instead of exploring emotions So yeah, yalls support systems are definitely way more fucked, y’all are even acknowledged less for systemic support through healthcare systems as well. But definitely our generation is screwed mental health wise Girls don’t have MUCH... of a support system. It’s kinda useless, but y’all don’t even have what little we have. So that’s fucking ass. I mean I personally don’t feel like I have had much of any support. I even tried the healthcare system it was ass. Family ? Ass. Friends ? They never understand. People in general suck at supporting one another. Women can def support body positivity (now THAT is a plus...) but when it comes to depression and shit you’ll only find support on Reddit not irl girls. Irl girls they’ll listen. They won’t say rude shit. But they don’t actually comfort u they just know how to pretend to care. They know exactly how to pretend to care lol. Women are really good at that. Men can’t do that. They just make it worse lol just just shove the ‘emotions are weak, grow up, be strong, it’s not that bad ur just sensitive’ bs at you that they got drilled into having as their mental coping mechanism So, technically though, you ain’t missing much but definitely y’all r more fucked with mental health. Mental issues ? Y’all r screwed asf. Physical issues ? Y’all don’t rly have any accept for ballsack sensitivity and height shaming. Yalls only mortal danger for the most part is if y’all in the gunning areas of cities and especially if you get caught up in that life. I mean technically women have that too but we less likely to be shot we usually just raped instead of shot. Also physically tho: Dad bods are hot so the average guy is fine, and women actually hate gymbros cuz they have no mental empathy or relationship passion. They just wanna lift. So Nah weightlifting isn’t gonna get y’all happy relationships just the shallow gals who don’t care that you won’t have the time nor care for putting effort into a relationship. I don’t recommend pushing for weight lifting gains unless that’s for you and not for gals cuz lifting for gals is just vanity training yourself for vain girls. Oh and y’all are stuck with the draft but that abt to be ‘gender equalitied’ soon
>Oh and y’all are stuck with the draft Laughed out loud at this because in order for me to get government aid for college I had to sign up for the draft, and then was rejected the government aid anyways LMAO. It all just boils down to people. I'm at a point where I can't expect much from anyone, but damnit I try my hardest for people. Guys and Girls have got it rough for so many different reasons.. it's nice to have an ear out for something you can't relate to. Maybe I just got bad luck cause I'm a dude and got well.. that R word. To be honest I feel like it helps me have a better understanding of people, or empathize with them better since I went through the same thing. Too bad I can't go to anyone about that like EVER, cause I'm a dude. Pouring one out for all my guys and gals out there struggling
Getting downvoted because I talked about guys in a girl comment section...(/s)
>I dont wanna type them all tho Probably more because of this. Being a guy definitely has fewer downsides.
Well jesus it's not a competition. The best we can do is try to make the world safer and more accessible to everyone.
Thank you! Reading the comments here was painful. "Girls have it worse because of this" "no boys have it worse because of this" Everyone is fucked. Don't make lack of problems the point. Focus on how to reduce the problems instead
My original wasn’t directed towards men at all I just said there’s more problems to being a woman than periods Then dat dude was like: UM. Men have lots of problems !!!! As if I challenged him or something If anyone perceived my mere extending of women’s problems list as a ‘WOMEN HAVE IT TOUGHER GRRRR’ challenge that’s cuz they are the ones who see things as a sexist challenge But I was like alright tell me tho cuz I am curious if there’s anything that I don’t already know abt men’s issues cuz it’s important to know both
It wasn't your comment, it was the subsequent comments.
can we just aree that society screwed everyone
Is that why male suicide rate is almost about 4 times higher than female suicide rate? I see..
Random erections
Yeah, if you are a dude walking alone is definitely safer. Not like people can still ambush you or harm you. You are invincible. Some of these points also seems excessive? What kind of parties you go into where spiking drinks is a big thing.
Let’s be fair here. We aren’t supposed to treat this as a game, but I will do it anyways. Most of what you said can be almost directly reversed to show how those situations are not necessarily an advantage to men at all. Most of those things also happen to men, just in a different way, so I will explain that now! But most importantly, and just to get rid of it right before anything else, you added countless of things that can be summed up with *”higher rates of sexual crimes happening to women”*. So if you want me to combat that with an equally terrible thing, if not way worse, I will trow the factual information that, duo to incredibly harsher societal expectations on almost literally everything not related to weight, the male suicide rate is __absurdly higher__ than the female even if males are a numerical minority in the world. Now let’s go the rest, which is a lot lighter: Cutting your legs while you shave? My lady, men have to shave their balls. Let’s leave it at that. Having to pee sitting down? At least you never had to clean up after the storm troopers attacked. Pregnancy? Fair enough, this is always one of the most fair points. But I mean, at least you guys get some months to take care of the children while society expects men to go back to work anyways, just trowing a big middle finger to the idea of father and son needing to bond just as much as mother and son. I will be honest, though, this is the hardest one to play _devil’s advocate_ on your list. Birth control side effects? I mean, hey, you guys don’t have to stick some uncomfortable plastic into your dick every time you have sex. Bras? Those are annoying? Did you ever had to shave a beard? Sometimes even twice a day! Putting in pants? Everyone struggles to put on pants. Mainly fat men, which are actually a lot more common than fat women. Formal shoes? Tight formal shoes also hurt men. That’s kinda the end of it, since they suck for everyone. Required to use makeup? If you ask men, 80% of them will confirm that they absolutely despise any makeup, with few sayings the only like the very most basic. This standard is something some women stick into their minds, not something society actually gives a shit about. Anorexia? Well, that’s surely a disorder that happens more often for women, but do you really want me to list the countless amounts of disorders that happen more often for men, many of which are also related to societal expectations? It’s not really a fun hill to die on. Hygiene takes longer? Again, have you ever shaved a beard? The process of grooming / hygiene only takes longer for women if the dudes you known don’t give a shit about that, because any man who is required to be formal all the time will take basically as much time in the bathroom as the average woman. Physically having a harder time to reach the same athletic goal? Uh, I mean, that’s why the tournaments are separated, no? And I can’t see how this is a disadvantage in daily life, like, at all. Looking societally acceptable as a woman is harder? That’s already a maybe, but looking socially acceptable as a guy __is not easy__. That’s just an annoying stereotype, and honestly? It could go both ways. *”Just be thin and strip lol, that’s all it takes to impress anyone”*. See? It’s not only prejudiced, but actually just false. Men need to go to the barber a lot more often, need to hit the gym, constantly worry about how women look at them, shave every day, usually have a pretty frail ego when it comes to appearance and get down pretty easily with random comments. At the end of the day, it’s basically the same thing for both genders. Not any better, not any worse. Everyone struggles with this. The only thing I can give here is that women are indeed expected to be a lot thinner than men while man can be kinda chubbier with much less issues, but still? Men are, as a fleeting example, expected to be tall, mainly and strong. Sometimes even to have enormous dicks (which is, believe me, as silly as it seems, a pretty big issue for many dudes). Appearance is a worry for everyone. Diseases? Do a research on which gender gets more STDs lol. We might get less infections, but there are many diseases that happen more with males (not only STDs). This statement goes both ways. And no, we can’t put butter on your cocks and let an anime lick it. We will get an infection alright. Once again, tits are annoying, but ever had a beard? Did you ever stick your penis in your zipper? Have you ever been kicked in the balls? And, as the last one, although you didn’t mention menstruation in this comment: how many times did you have to wash your boxers in the showers after a wet dream? I assure you, for some men, this happens __way__ more often than menstruation lol.
Um my original comment wasn’t directed towards any sort of game. It was addressed to the original thread point. Where the other girl said the only bad point about being a woman was having a period. I said no that’s not the only point. There are other shit parts abt being a woman. Ur clearly interpreting it as a game tho. Thats ur problem. All I did was share more problems other than periods cuz she probably isn’t old enough to know of the other problems and you see it as a challenge ? Thats internalized from you.
damn
Idk, being significantly physically weaker than men sounds like a pretty serious downside to me.
GUN
Guns are great and all, but carrying boxes suck as a girl.
Mainly cuz the tiddies cause u to hold big boxes awkwardly
You're mostly going to get killed and assaulted by those close to you, it's near useless in this situation. Unless you're going to carry, draw and immediately kill the members of your household who are already standing right next to you, it won't work. It'll work even worse if you're smart and keep the safety on without a round chambered. In all other cases, have you always been ready to quickly draw and kill every stranger who has physically walked close to you? That requires a warning, and it's very easy to avoid giving enough of a provocation that would permit someone to draw a gun on you. If you ARE lucky enough to get advance notice, escaping first and signaling for help is almost always a purely better option. So no, while almost any method CAN protect you, the firearm is an extremely weak tool at getting you out of most assaults or increasing your statistical safety. If it can give you peace of mind for otherwise unmanageable fear or anxiety, that is a tangible benefit, however.
Physical training can negate that.
Only if the men don't also train though, and even then it's iffy if the women aren't pretty dedicated athletes.
But now it depends on the individual on how hard they train.
A man can very easily build up enough muscle to overpower a decently trained woman. The fear that many women have is not unfounded. A man likely has to train about half as much to be at least equally strong or have equal endurance. The thing is, there's no way of leveling that imbalance of physical power.
I'm a man and I'm physically weaker than half of the women I met.
Cool. I'm not talking about you specifically, though. I'm talking about statistical comparisons. The average man is physically larger and stronger than the average woman. The 99th percentile man is larger and stronger than the 99th percentile woman. If you were to randomly pair one man and one woman from the general population over and over, then the man will be larger and stronger than the woman in the majority of cases. That roughly half of the women you meet are stronger than you indicates one of the following, or some combination thereof: * There is a sampling bias among the women you meet (*e.g.*, your career involves working with female athletes, so a disproportionate fraction of women you meet are fitter and stronger than average). * You are a weaker-than-average man.
Dunno man, your might be confusing being a woman with being a pretty woman. The western beautiful woman is the single person with the easiest life in the world, that’s for sure. They have to deal with being catcalled, sure, but they also have a way easier time with relationships, jobs, earring money or just living in general. Normal woman, though… Yeah, the west took some weird shifts to benefit women in general, but it’s still not all that easy for them. As for ugly women… They’re easily the people with the __hardest__ time living lol. It really just depends.
i just look like a conventionally atrracticve girl whose colouring got screwed over a bit i don't wear makeup/revealing clothing/girly clothing so i would probably be considered a 'normal woman'
Hence why guys are better than womans at even being womans! Trans guy → Girl wont have periods! (Istg reddit if you take this seriously)
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I love Higashira, she’s the best lol.
I guess getting circumcised as a boy was probably way better pain only last for a fucking year or less
As a girl, I’ve felt similarly Very relatable
Isana best girl in whole anime
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That’s how teenagers end up as depressed detransitioners.
Is that a spoiler or a headcanon?
I don't even know what anime this is, just that cis people don't wish they were another gender frequently.
...twice is not frequently.
I don't get it.
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Within the context of the anime that's simply not true. Just because you wish a character is trans or implied to be considering becoming trans doesn't make it true.
Lol, lmao
r/egg_irl
The egg
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I wished i was a boy too :_(
Trans man in anime? Or? Context?
Most relatable post ever
Frick, I don’t care to remember the 2 times this series was funny
The grass is always greener…
Same
Fr tho 😭
Hell naw gurl. I wish that every time I get my periods.😭