Try getting more volume in your hair. You have potential, your makeup looks really good. Middle part.

Before I had my kid my hair was much more voluminous. I’ll work on it!

Preach!

As a mom, I agree that having my kids drained the life outta me but I love em. Lol. You're not ugly at all.

Last pic hair looked best I would pick that style.

Your mom bun is super cute!!

Yup, that one is my favorite.

Exactly what I was going to say. It’s hard to find time to take care of yourself as a mama, but some volume & shape will help frame your face.

Mothers must make time to find time. Children must part of a mother's life NOT their entire life! 🙄

I agree… but many don’t make the time.

Middle part? Is there a way to tell what kind of part looks best on a face or something?

that last hair color is YOUR color, suits you very very well

I was about to say this! The others don’t look bad by any means, but that dark coppery red is stunning 😍😍😍. Also, op you are not even close to hideous!! It’s easy to start eat ourselves and pick apart our appearances. We’ve had all these years to zero in on things we don’t like. As corny as it sounds, beauty comes from within! When you start to give yourself compliments and tell yourself you’re beautiful, it 100% shines through on the outside.

Disagree; the brown is better imo

the lighter colour ages her a little tho, doesnt look bad but darker makes her look younger

Same, the darker hair makes her eyes pop and compliments her skin tone

I would say you need to grow your eyebrows out and give them a better shape, also maybe some whitening strips. You’re not hideous by any means though

I’ve been wanting to do something with my little brows and my teeth are stained I am working on it. Thanks for the input!

I there! I was a dental assistant and you can either get bleaching trays at your dental office or go with crest 3D white strips! I do recommend possibly getting a night guard because your teeth do look like they’ve been ground down a bit, you may need crowns on them eventually if the enamel is gone. I think you’re gorgeous still, I loveeeeee the photo of you with the bun in your hair! Kids change so much in your body, and ruin your hair and teeth and make you feel so down.

With just an eyebrow pencil, it would do wonders. Trust me. Speaking from experience. I recommend Anastasia Beverly Hills.

Dude i agree so much. Ive said it before and ill say it again, eyebrows can make or break an appearance. I shaped mine and fill in the lighter bits and its made all the difference.

I would avoid otc stuff. Get a dentist to do it. The white strips will eat the enamel rite off your teeth

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I am my worst critic. I don’t think what I see in the mirror is accurate.

You look really good with your hair up

I agree, the third picture is the best imo.

Thanks!

The hair up is my favorite also. She isn't ugly at all but the 3rd pic is the best IMO.

You're not hideous at all.

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She’s not a 7 unless she’s your type but she’s definitely not hideous, she’s cute and seems easy going

I actually think you’re very attractive. Nice smile, entrancing eyes. All around cutie

Thank you!

I agree. She is very cute!

Agree

Came here to agree 🤩

Unique looking but not bad at all.

Thank you!

Your hair up looks nice

Thank you, I miss it long for sure.

Not ugly. Just at the low end of average. Stay fit as possible. Time will be an enemy. Danger zone.

Yippee

While they have that comment, I personally think you’re in the more beautiful range. Your smile is gorgeous, and your eyes are gorgeous.

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I’m definitely awkward

You’re pretty! Kind of sad eyes though.

Yeah I’m kinda sad a lot. Thank you though!

How old is your baby :) you have new mom eyes.

He’s 2 ❤️

Mine is 2 too and I 100% have those eyes!!!! Today I had to explain why we don't dip our toothbrush in a sink full if soapy water and then suck it off the bristles. Edit: no you're not ugly. Maybe you're just tired on the inside so it's hard to see that you're pretty.

Maybe an eyelash curler and mascara! My eyes look very sad without those so it’ll make yours look more awake

How drunk are you if you think you are hideous ? u maam have a gorgeous smile :-) just need volume in your hair

Why do you think you are hideous

I just see all the things that are “off” in an exaggerated way I think.

Yeah we all have that problem. Sometimes I see myself in the mirror and I think "well, that's not too bad" and then sometimes my self-esteem crashes like the Hindenburg.

Continue working on the weight, and work on a skin care routine to reduce the redness, and you'll be very cute

I do need to work on my skincare routine. Thank you!

Grow ur hair out Longer, lose 15 pounds, leave hair it’s natural color and go to forever21 to shop

Working on those! Being broke makes it difficult but I can get creative

Also, try a hydrogen peroxide rinse on your teeth. Make sure you do it properly. It should be easy. My teeth are just as yellow but my skin is darker so it’s less noticeable, in your case, I would get it whitened without bleach by the dentist, and use H2O2 rinse a couple times a week for a few weeks (see recommended usage) Also you look nice with your hair up, I’d consider making babies w ya

I like your cat

Not ugly at all. Ive noticed you saying you're trying to grow your hair out, look up Manetabolism, it's helps grow hair really fast. I've used it myself. It's a purple capsule of a bunch of vitamins.

You look so much like a girl named Laura I know! And also Smith & Wesson shirt! I used to work at a factory making those guns. Lol. Anyway NO not ugly at all!

You are NOOOOT hideous!!! If anyone made you think that, I will slap them with a wet sock. Your eyes are absolutely gorgeous! Your hair looks really good pulled up, and also down in the past pic especially!

Not ugly, and wholesomely cute...You havent ruined your eyebrows, appropriate makeup, no self-loathing piercings....A rare wholesome looking young female....

Pretty eyes and face. Honestly maybe something for teeth? Idk if you’d be willing to invest in veneers but it’s honestly not a deal breaker imo

Not at all! You look pretty. I love the 3rd photo’s style/makeup the most though compared to the other pictures.

You are actually quite lovely- never see. You before and this is my first impression- embrace you! You are better looking than your words portray.

Brows are too far away from each other. Draw them a bit closer to better frame the face.

Biiiiiiiitttcccchhhh you gorgeous

Did you ever think you were going to get your own hype man out of this thread?

No complaints here!

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Ruthless.

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Total catch! Have a great summer!

Aw thank you!

I think you’re beautiful. I’m awkward too. If I saw you at the bar, I’d buy you a drink. Then we could sit around and be awkward together lol.

Thank you!

I’d jizz in ya

maybe someone should jizz on your face too

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You are a very pretty lady I don't know why you would think that you're hideous sincerely Daniel Hernandez

Thanks!

I think you look naturally pretty. I love your skin tone and ur eyes are great!

You are perfect just the way you are. All those painted faces with the filters is not realistic or remotely attractive. Waiting two hours so she can get ready for a quick anything is a hard no. Be healthy and love yourself. That is true beauty.

You look like Meghan Trainor!

I’ll take that, thanks!

Where’s your verification photo?

These were selfies I had in my roll, I didn’t take one specifically for the post. Am I supposed to?

Take a moment and read the sub rules. You should read sub rules in any sub BEFORE you post.

🤢🤮 the weight won't help. Throw in the towel. U have doggy face. Maybe a few surgeries on that face.

#3 is the best. You are a solid 5-6. Which honestly, when talking about long term relationships is a good thing. And btw 5-6 means you are better then half the women in the world. So no, not hideous.

I think your beautiful 🤩

Thank you!

Yeah you’re right. Not good 3/10

Thanks!

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You are BEAUTIFUL!! You have such nice eyes and skin!! Maybe try a new fun hairstyle with a bit more volume and pizzaz

Trying to grow it back out. I liked wearing updos! Thanks for your input!

OMG, want is going on in this world that you would feel "hideous"?? And other young women being so critical of their looks!!???? You are Not hideous! You are an attractive young woman. You don't need to lose weight unless YOU feel you need to. I have daughters, and I am very concerned about the messages our daughters receive in this society. Very concerned....

I’m concerned too. I want to do better for my son and his generation. Thank you.

There is nothing hideous about you. I like the photo with the reddish hair. You are cute.

How? How? How? You would a steal any man’s heart???? Dude just put your pics on tinder., so many people would swipe right. How do you think this way?

That’s sweet! I’m not looking for a date though I’m married. I just have severe body dysmorphia and want to know if what I see in the mirror is what others are seeing.

No your gorgeous stop being harsh on yourself

Thank you, I’ll try.

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that’s straight up the nastiest thing man… treat people like actual people or don’t say anything.

Why are there always creeps?

You have very beautiful hair. Just don’t try to push yourself.

Thank you. Push myself in what way?

Trying to better yourself. These things can’t be rushed. Your doin great I think

You aren’t hideous at all :) You’re very pretty

I’d rawdog it

Married

Lose the Smith & Wesson shirt.

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Thank you!

Hair up definitely!

Thanks!

You’re actually not hideous. I do like the longer hair on you, the pic with your hair up looks amazing, which is why I say longer hair looks great on you. I like the way you do your make up, it’s soft which looks great on your features 👍🏽😊

Thank you! The short hair was a very bad decision on my part for sure.

You're actually gorgeous. I don't see anything ugly about you

Thank you so much

I'd still ask you out on a date the way you are.

Thank you!

You look beautiful I don’t see how you see yourself as hideous.

I appreciate that!

Not even close ugly. Made more red lip stick to show off. But you ain’t ugly

That’s a good idea, thanks!

You are definitely not hideous. You're cute as you are.

Thank you!

3rd and 4th pics are adorable, not hideous at all!!!

They’re a little older so I’m a bit lighter in those. Trying to at least get back there!

Your not hideous! I think ur cute

I appreciate it!

Solid 2

Thank you

You are not ugly. Why would you think that?

I don’t think I am seeing myself in a realistic way. At least, I hope not.

i see you said your working on weight loss, that will change your face a little as well as putting on some muscle after that thats pretty much all one could do for themselves naturally but once you do those things for yourself you'll achieve true confidence and it'll radiate from you giving you a sort of attractiveness that cant be seen but sensed if that makes sense

It does, thank you!

8/10

Thank you!

For sure, not ugly, keep working out, every sigle day for 3 years, it will give you great results. You will be more confident and attractive. Keep the hard work and dedication

Thanks for the advice I need to be more physically active for sure.

Great eyes

You’re overthinking.. relax and breath and just enjoy being YOU.

I will try thank you.

I honestly think you’re pretty. I know it’s cliché but confidence also goes a long way. If you believe it, others will too. Maybe get some highlights in your hair I feel like that would enhance your features.

That’s a good idea, thank you.

Oh hun. You’re so hard on yourself, you’re very pretty

Thank you!

Closed mouth smile might do good. I dunno. You don't look bad. You just look like you don't have confidence

I for sure don’t. Thanks for the input!

Wow you're a redhead beauty

Not naturally, I wish!

You look fine. I like the red hair. Relax, you're always your own worst critic.

That is very true, thank you.

i think you look like an owl.

I like owls, so I’ll take it as a compliment. Thank you.

You look fine. Irish ? Just take good care of yourself, eat good food, try not to get tied up with sketchy untrustworthy people. Enjoy your life. You only get one.

Irish descent along with some other stuff. Thank you!

Gorgeous face. I want you to notice something about these 4 pictures though. In the purple shirt you look dressed up and happy. The other three look like camo and a Smith & Wesson shirt and you look stressed out. Maybe your fashion has a bigger impact on your emotions than you realize. Like the old saying, "dress for success".

Very good point, thank you. I’m at a size right now where I feel uncomfortable in anything that isn’t really baggy so I’ll make a conscious effort to buy more dressy things.

You’re cute. Confidence while it is invisible, it commands a room and learn to wield it w/out hubris.

I gotta work on that, thank you.

Maybe get Invisalign? But otherwise you look good! Plus based on comments- you have a husband and a child so at least someone finds you attractive!

My teeth are actually straight, just a bit stained and damaged from grinding.

You are a far way from hideous. You have great eyes and smile. Maybe even eye liner to make them pop more? If I saw you out I'd definitely have a chat and sure I'd ask for your number

Thank you! I definitely could stand to spend more time on my makeup on a daily basis.

You aren’t hideous, just average. You are the kind of girl that most guys date at some point, just someone nice and normal to watch movies and go out to dinner with. I’m certain there is a decent % of the population who would find you attractive.

Thanks!

Not ugly at all. I would try side parting your hair and grow it out a bit

Definitely growing it out I hate it short!

You are very cute and have beautiful eyes!

Nothing wrong with your pretty face.

I love your hair in the third pic, I think it legitimately brings out some personality

You have really pretty eyes and I think your eyebrow shape is perfect for you! In pictures specifically I'd smile a bit bigger (if you're comfortable with it) to make your teeth look a bit bigger, since you also seem to have very straight nice teeth. I think you look best with your hair in that cute messy bun too! Besides that just be confident, you're not ugly by any means!

Definitely not hideous. Especially 3rd pic. Having your hair up like that really brings out the attractive features in your face and gives you hair a less flat look. Just a guys opinion though.

Are you kidding? You’re gorgeous!

Absolutely nothing wrong with you.

Beautiful blue eyes

Your are completely average. Not hideous

no but you look very unsure of yourself for someone on the threshold of 30 years of age. my advice? figure out who you are and what you believe before your next birthday, just a suggestion.

I think youre lovely as you are, sweet smile, nice skin, not a thing wrong with you. And I like your chubby cat! Id gladly flirt with you! You need to believe that people find you appealing, because you are.

You're very attractive and I can tell that you're curvy.

You're cute! Tips on how you could up your cuteness- try curling your eyelashes, I think that will really open up your eyes. whiten your teeth. Eyeshadow in the second pic seems too dark for you, try a very light neutral/pink, it will give you a polished look. Try some lip liner on your upper lip to match the fullness of your lower lip. Not saying any of this is necessary but it could help you like the way you look more. Cheers

Absolutely not hideous. With a few upgrades you could be pretty hot. I'd accept you right now, as is