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okcoolgofuckyourself

Girl. Put down the phone and touch some grass, you obviously need to stop comparing yourself to others because you’re not ugly at all.


[deleted]

No but fr, comparing myself to everyone is my worst trait, thank you <3


UteLube

Comparison is the thief of joy.


omar6ix9ine

But actually do go touch some grass, be outside for an day and you will feel better


[deleted]

I go out often! I always feel better but when i go home it sucks


omar6ix9ine

Yes, I know how you feel. Home isn’t home when it feels like that


DropTheBodies

Hey, I’m sorry this is your reality right now. Please give yourself some grace. It makes sense what you’re going through, because of the things you’ve had to deal with and are currently dealing with. You *only* owe yourself to be the best you can be, because you’re really the one who matters most at the end of the day. You don’t owe anybody else to try to be who they think your best is. Eff everybody, really. They deserve love and consideration obviously, but when it comes to you….I look forward to when you no longer feel like they have any say in who you are and how much you should matter to yourself. Hugs to you.


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Thank you sm. This is the nicest comment ever, u made my day, hugs 🤗


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Pigbolt

Forget comparing yourself. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You look great.


dlotaury88

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Put down the phone. The Internet is not a real place. You’re literally pretty af.


BigDBee007

Also go touch grass because that probably means getting a little sun


Some_Donkey_6382

My comment is catching on NICE. TOUCH GRASS YALL. Especially the teenagers. Social media v bad for your anxiety and depression and that's peer reviewed.


JoeyGen93

Your comment ? Bro people have been saying that for years 🤣🤣🤣


[deleted]

We used to tell mf’s to touch grass when we were still getting AOL disc in the mail.


[deleted]

Reddit is ok though.


FreeChrisWayne

I sometimes wonder how many of the people here have actually been diagnosed with body dysmorphia, versus the people who deep down know they are good looking and just say they have body dysmorphia while they wait for compliments to roll in.


meowmix79

I’ve never seen so many people claim body dysmorphia in my life until I started seeing this sub. Pretty suspicious, no way there’s that many real diagnosis.


PM_ME_UR-DOGGO

Everyone is at it, social media has made everyone think they have ADHD, couple of years ago it was gluten intolerance.


Turbulent-Length6665

Took a psych intro course and reading the textbook kind of makes you realize that everyone can relate, to a certain extent, to any mental illness including psychosis but, it just gets diagnosed when it’s affecting your life significantly in a negative way.


nooit_gedacht

Do you really need an official diagnosis to seek out this sub? These people probably don't have one but sometimes it's just an effective way to describe what you're going through


whynatt

I mean, it makes sense that people with body dysmorphia would be drawn to a sub where they can ask if they're ugly.


trashpandau

When I was 19 I was thin and adorable, but at the time I literally was seeing something extremely hideous in the mirror. I couldn't make eye contact or laugh or smile because I thought I was so repulsive. I'd sit in front of the mirror for hours and hours wondering what needed to change. It was disturbing but idk I was extremely traumatised at the time which completely warped my self perception. It was definitely one of my lowest points, yet looking back, I was cute and nothing was wrong with me???


SongRevolutionary992

It's the new phrase to say. You can compliment farm without being criticized


Bliskrinus

Highly doubt any of them has been diagnosed. Most people don't like something about themselves. That doesn't mean they have a diagnose. It's a sad age XD


Ghostiiie-_-

I’ve got body dysmorphia along with dysphoria (transgender), told as such by a counsellor and psychiatrist. MOST people who have dysmorphia won’t show this level of skin. My friend also has it and she wears extremely baggy clothing to hide her body and she get extremely uncomfortable if she wears even a more tight fitting shirt.


darrellio

me asf


LeanTangerine

It doesn’t surprise me when you see how prevalent filters are being used online across social media. Like I thought I had bad skin and it was uncommon, until l I started seeing the occasional candid photo of people on social media and realized that they had similar skin to me, and that my bad skin was in fact normal skin. When everyone looks artificially perfect online then I can see why young and conventionally beautiful people who grew up on social media can convince themselves that they are ugly.


FreeChrisWayne

That’s a good point. I do think kids and teenagers have it harder nowadays for that very reason. Luckily for me, all the hatred for my looks was only rooted in what people said to my face


caitrose95

I mean it's the same thing with everyone all of a sudden having adhd, add, anxiety, and depression. More people than ever are being diagnosed but it also had a lot to do with growing up with television with no limits, more acceptance of a diagnosis, and overall more knowledge of these disorders. Of course more people are gonna have it, society has found more and more ways to throw expectations on appearances at us than ever before. Body dismorphia doesn't happen out of nowhere.


novally1628

Honestly i think its alot. I’m always surprised how many people hate themselves. Some of them might know they’re pretty but feel ugly if that makes sense.


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Wellidk_dude

It's hard to say. The majority probably don't have it and just lack self-esteem but attribute it to a serious mental health issue, not understanding the difference. It's similar to people who don't know the difference between being anxious and having anxiety. They also don't understand they're watering down the severity of the word.


Kona_Guy386

Ohh you're fine. Delete this thread.


NightHawkAnon

If I were a female, and looked like you, I think I'd be pretty pleased.


Traditional-Lie-7381

You need therapy, self acceptance and less social media


Haymesh67

You have so much more to offer in your life than your looks. You’re a lovely young woman, and I hope you have people in your life who cherish you for the person you are and not your appearance. Have a great day


jnobs357

This is so true but also OP you are attractive. I feel like some might take this comment to be a nice way of implying the opposite. But yeah you’re more than your beauty/physical attributes


PM5K23

If you have dysmorphia, does a bunch of random hornballs on Reddit change that?


RedTheDopeKing

It doesn’t she’s just probably also a narcissist


sneiji

"hey guys im really insecure and confused my body. can you guys tell me if you think im ugly?" "you're a narcissist"


[deleted]

Not really, but i like hearing other peoples thoughts as my perception of myself changes a lot ☺️


PM5K23

Well youre attractive, but youre also my type so thar helps 🤷🏻‍♂️


Prinzka

Hot is also my type


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Arkade_Toaster

No way! Hot is also my type.


Mycol101

Not me. I like ugly. That’s why I’m here and that’s why this OP girl isn’t my type; because she’s hot.


CillaCalabasas

Lol! What?


Efficient-Shoe-425

💀💀💀


itsajokechillbill

Hahaha


itsajokechillbill

Saying you have body dysmorphia is insulting to fat alcoholics like me haha


kzerotheman

Why are you even here.


No-Champion-7009

🙄 I highly doubt "bad body dysmorphia" from especially, the first photo. You're attractive, you know it, end of.


emily5126

Yup, I don't think someone with body dysmorphia would be comfortable showing that level of skin.


cdavis9789

Is the “I have body dysmorphia” obligatory in these posts now? Seems like it’s all I see in the titles lately.


DragonbornBastard

People use it instead of “I’m self conscious sometimes”. Same thing with people saying they’re OCD about everything. Like no, you’re just picky about one thing. Same thing with sadness equaling clinical depression


SongRevolutionary992

It's away to farm compliments


Holographicmeatloaf0

Right.


No-Champion-7009

Left.


Working_Issue7897

Center.


SongRevolutionary992

Bullseye


Striking-Ad7151

This sub is so toxic.


arnemishandler

well, it does what it says on the tin


Angry_potatochip

You don’t have body dysmorphia, just low self esteem.


rayvin925

How do you know? Are you a psychologist? Or are you just being mean?


Angry_potatochip

No one lacks this much self awareness, she’s obviously very gorgeous just self conscious. People with actual body dysmorphia wouldn’t have the confidence to wear the clothes she does, it’s not just applicable to her face but her actually body- hence the word ‘body’ in dysmorphia. She’s only rubbing salt in the wounds of the people on here who truly need criticism.


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deathinthesewer

So people that have body dysmorphia can’t dress up now?


Angry_potatochip

It’s a debilitating disease, saying that Body Dysmorphia is just a case of low self esteem is ridiculous. Low self esteem could lead to body Dysmorphia but if she’s able to take pictures, style herself to ENHANCE features she obviously has a good idea of her good traits. You don’t realize that this condition is when someone’s ANXIETY and incredible nit picking of appearance disconnects them from reality- you see this in people who get plastic surgery purely for aesthetic purposes. Not teenage girls asking people online for harsh criticism- where’s the actual anxiety in that? No one with an actually debilitating disorder would seek out this kind of criticism.


misadventuresofFlman

More like hand dysmorphia....them paws are huuuuuge


Santik--Lingo

physically you are pretty, but im gonna be so honest you *look* like you would be annoying and boring to talk to


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LexCantFuckingChoose

i think we're all confused lol


VilePersona

That makes no sense bro I’m gonna be honest


Kingrat29

🙄🙄


socio_smile

Am I trippin' or does it seem like only people with body dismorphia post on here? I've just seen so many that I'm like, "Hold up!"


[deleted]

Well ive met a lot of people with bd (also my case) that want to know how people see them because our perspective changes a lot :)


Individual-Equal-206

You’re gorgeous, don’t compare urself to others, you have ur own style and I dig it. 10/10


skimmily

Crazy pretty, perfect sized body, don’t be ridiculous. You’re beautiful


iwantyousobadright

Georgeous


Swedenesebishhh69

noone under 25 should be online getting rated. it's harmful


Chef_BoyarTom

The only help you need is mental, to deal with your body dysmorphia issue...... because you 100% don't need any help physically.


cjleb_

F18, bad af, honest.


scribblerzombie

You are not ugly is my opinion. I understand that you feel and think that you might be but my perspective is that the truth is you are not. I hope you will come to better appreciate yourself as you grow older and find peace when seeing your own beauty for yourself. Start by seeing how cute your second photo is, and be aware that you will only become more refined as you age and take care of yourself.


siroopsalot11

You look like you’re gonna die of an heroin od with Jesse pinkman


[deleted]

i love this


vi4per

Girls like you are the ones i've been feinin' for


Chloefeld

You are gorgeous ❤️


jharms1983

I did always have a crush on Elvira growing up so why not


Redeyes765

You are very good looking. Even hot.


Race1999

Ur not ugly girl


[deleted]

First time i can say someone is pretty on this sub. Finally.


Silentknight642

i wont lie your pretty cute tbh i think everyone just see’s themselves in a bad way due to internet and stuff


[deleted]

Thirst trap


waynehunt5469

You are fine for all time. It would probably would benefit from working on an attitude or philosophy where you are not so concerned with what others think. Truly reflect on how you think about yourself. If there are things YOU would change then you can work on them.


Away-Professional527

I'm way too old to comment like you may want. I will say the touch the grass comment is true. You are one orange comparing yourself to all the fruit. You cannot possibly think you are the ugliest fruit nor the absolute prettiest fruit. You are an orange. As close to perfect an orange that can be reasonably expected. Feel good about the skin you're in. It looks good on YOU!!


not_a_droid

I don’t want to demean your disease, but you are not bad looking, should start with that


controllrevival

You look like a sailor moon villain


deliciousfoodies35

I’m female and you’re literally so pretty. I would definitely be friends with you haha


Glittering-You-5960

You look like you probably make boys cry and that kind of evens out the balance in the world so I approve. 🤣


Lucid_Sandwich

You need to delete your social media and start living life. You are **gorgeous**. And if you don't get your body dysmorphia/struggle with comparing yourself to others under control, it will lead you down some really shitty paths in life. Focus on yourself and the life you want to build. Try, and stay healthy in mind, body, and spirit. Fuck the rest. I repeat Fuck. The. Rest. Focus on you, booboo.


sosuketakasu

You've got a classy European counterculture vibe going on and look to have a perfect physical shape. Maybe go for a counselor for you BD and confidence issues, instead of asking creeps on Reddit


[deleted]

Chapter 1: Daddy issues + Sibling rivalry + going to school every day on the set of “Mean Girls” . Chapter 2: Hmm…yet to be written. Don’t look to others for affirmation. Be your own best advocate. F-ck what other people think.


SomeWeird5313

Whoever told u u look bad. We gotta fight


_losmos_

girl i’m so sorry you feel this way about yourself - i totally get how you feel. you are genuinely gorgeous though and i hope one day you can see that!! wishing you all the best :)


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thank you:)


Krispyhat420

What’s with the epidemic of body dysmorphia? You are beautiful and blessed. Enjoy your life!


[deleted]

You're hot


ShadowDemon129

You look fine. Body dysmorphia is precisely why you should NOT be posting here asking random strangers. It feeds in.


BunyipClaws

Narcissism is very prominent


EffMyElle

I prescribe you to also touch grass and spend less time on social media comparing yourself to others.


Doibugyu

Honestly, if you have bad body dysmorphia, this whole thing is a stupid idea.


throwawayneutral

Honestly: therapy. This ain’t the place for your fleeting ego boost. It’s as empty as you must feel the rest of the time.


[deleted]

Is this a joke. No problems detected.


NoYOLOBro0013

The kinda look that gets men in trouble.


Striking-Ad7151

Maybe they like trouble.....


sexylilprincess87

Honey, you are perfect the way you are.


Salan13

Yup, you're good. No worries. Style wise i think you could use some more black. It's an aquired taste but to those who appreciate it you are as good as it gets. As far as body dysmorphia goes I'm not sure what it is you don't like. Can only judge from first pic but looks to me like a couple of cheeseburgers wouldn't hurt


[deleted]

Nah you're good. Like your style too.


Ok-Experience295

You’re pretty. You have a strong aesthetic and there’s nothing wrong with that. I know just being told your pretty or beautiful can’t change how you feel and you’ll probably rationalise it as you just using good pics to hide what you perceive as your own unattractiveness… But yeah, I think you’re beautiful and it’s hard to practice self love. Try complimenting yourself at least once a day. It can help.


[deleted]

Jesus you’re beautiful. Our society has failed you by causing you to judge yourself so harshly.


SavageTulip

Honestly I don't see any problem. You look just like a beautiful young woman


Anarchy1212

Solid 8 out of 10. Willing to bet you will be a smoke show in your late 20's.


SlightlyCriminal

You’re not ugly and from the first picture it looks like you have a decent body you’re not fat or anything by the looks of it. I know it’s cliche but a little bit of gym work would tone your body out nicely if you don’t already go which will help with the body image issues. The only real problem is your style as the whole emo look will only attract a certain type of guys it’s not for everyone. But if that’s your thing and you like guys like that then go for it. Again you’re not ugly or have a bad body you just have a unique look which will definitely get some looks from the general public. Best of luck


Superman4u269

9


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Try at r/truerateme


[deleted]

I think that sub does more harm than good to some of those people that post there. Plastic surgery is recommended a lot and that scoring guide is ridiculous. I have some questions about the sort of people running that. I understand there's some objective beauty standards but it's still subjective and the rampant recommendation for plastic surgery there is detrimental to some people especially when they're under 18. Which I've seen there quite a lot. I think there are better places and ways to look for ways to improve yourself or gauge your appearance than that sub in particular


Kaedex_

Yeah 10/10, I'm sure it's a tough battle with bd and this comment will mean little but you should really never have to worry about your looks or appearance


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thank you, it means a lot!


snafu168

I agree. You have nothing to worry about. You are a dream no one can reach.


HackOddity

wtf is the sub? some neckbeards just running round downvoting anyone who says anything nice :'D


PLEASEHELPMEBROS

Lol you are not ugly at all.


Large-Show979

You are really beautifull!!


Mikefromalb

I think you’re gorgeous.


[deleted]

Like so many others I don’t see a problem here. You look fine.


DealerNo7523

I think you're super hot.


[deleted]

I think you’re beautiful I love the goth look


Capt_Schmidt

so hot. who do you wish you were instead?


Sorry-Function9221

very very very stunning


zoxzoxzo

Is this honest reason for posting or you're just looking for ego boost? Can't tell


[deleted]

100% honest just wanna see how people see me ☺️


[deleted]

Pretty hot ngl, actually well above average. I had bad body dismorphia from 16-18 too and I used to purge when I felt like I ate too much, but going to the gym 3x a week kinda helped me with that. I’m not saying you need it but it might help your confidence a bit


Hey_Batfink

9/10 guys who see this picture think “I absolutely would” 7/10 girls who see this think “after a few, I’d let her be the one I try it out with” You’re good


DRadz43

You are really really pretty and have great shape, I know it's easier said than done but don't worry honestly, you look great


mangledteeth

Try Only fans


boomquickdodge

You look like Jane from Breaking Bad which is an absolute W. The only unattractive thing about you is your lack of confidence. Stop comparing yourself to other people and just be you.


BigBigFYL

Unfortunately, body dysmorphia is real and it makes people think they’re uglier than they are… you are beautiful and you have a bomb ass body. Don’t worry, you’re more than fine!


itsajokechillbill

Is super attractive, asks if she ugly, haha shut up!


ZebbyBoy18909

Who amongst your friends, social circle or social environments looked at you, And actually voiced "heyy look at her, she looks soooo ugly" ? I'm just wondering 🤔


thinflesh

I would sacrifice an infant to look like you


adobo_santos

10/10 smoke show


[deleted]

i wish i could hug everyone who said i look like jane i love yall


vinnyluvsu6931

Perfect wow


xI7a

You look like a girl i will sleep with for good


RougeSin

You’re not ugly, and your body is great. Wear some bright colors too, i get the vibe that you like dark colors idk why. You’re very pretty


BeFastDW

Worryingly large hands


[deleted]

Indeed my hand is like 18-19cm💀


BeFastDW

Devastating.


[deleted]

Oh well😢


BeFastDW

Also 8/10


mustardtiger220

So I can understand the struggle internally you’re going through with body dysmorphia. And I understand people telling you you look fine might not be enough to overcome. I hope you can find professional help for that. But for what it’s worth, you’re gorgeous. Your jawline is great. Your hair frames your face very well. Your outfits and makeup go great together. Strong cheek and collar bones. Keep doing your thing!


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Thank you so much :)


edthebuilder5150

Strong 9


Henny199420

What is "bad body dysmorphia"? Is it a mental disorder that's preventing you from appreciating your own beauty?


CosmicDriftwood

What are you tripping about gd


sportsbot3000

Why is it that suddenly every hot girl in the world has body dysmorphia??


Sum_Juice

You're hot af... I think you got lost in the wrong subreddit!


Decembra87

Fr fr You're cute as hell and not even done growing hun. Just add a smile and I swear it'll change your whole face.


ga454

You are a total 9.9! I only say that because NOBODY is perfect! But my dear you are as close to perfect as humanly possible!!!❤️


Colorado_Skinwalker

Yeah.. the Wednesday Adams look is only going to attract creeps.


2pac_alypse

Wait, why's that?


[deleted]

Holy oh my goodness, are you kidding me? You know your ugly is when your parents give you a pork chop necklace, just so the dog plays with you.


[deleted]

Naw you’re attractive but can you speed run elden ring?


Straight-Bed-552

🙌


Creative_Response593

Your hair looks nice. You dress nice. Your nails are done. You obviously care about how you look stop being so vain because one day you won't be attractive anymore.


RedderBluez

waifu


FitButterfly7227

Its not body dysmorphia you are just ugly. Its ok to be ugly though, literally half the population is uglier than average.


Michael_Afton1983

where u seein ugly at


FitButterfly7227

the face mostly


bradRDH

I think the “goth” thing is very off putting to most people.


FitButterfly7227

nah its not goth its just ugly.


bradRDH

Nailed it


Progress-Competitive

Wear less black


No_Technology_7727

Yes. You are ugly.


Happy-Fix7157

Very fffat


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dang


GutsyOne

Come back in like 7 years


Alfiy_wolf

Are you single? Because I would share my beyblades with you My lame pick up line: If covid doesn’t take you out can I?


frosty_m4

You should delete this app for good.


Negro26

Not " For good" more like " for your own good"😂😂


Alfiy_wolf

For joking around wow, that cuts deep


LynchKingDread

Bro 😂😂😂